@courtneysands. I agree. Sometimes it's harder to be around people who are irritating or they communicate in a weird way. I enjoy. my solitude and now that the kids are grown up it's important to me to have that. I see it as a choice. I live in a place with lots to do and I might do those things but can also shut the door and enjoy myself.
Just turned 78 and was asked by a nurse, who had driven me to my appointment. I was so amused. Never considered myself to be old and unable to take care of myself. The younger generation looks at a number and has no idea of the joys and freedom ahead of them when they get to be my age. Love it.
Same here. I've lived alone for ten years and I enjoy it very much. The key for me is my many interests and quality social interaction with like-minded people.
I'm 78 and time is quickly passing by. I have a pet who is my constant companion . She keeps me centered. I'm never lonely. I always talk to GOD. IM TRULY NEVER ALONE.
I'm 73 living in a retirement village. I don't have family of any sort, unlike a lot of people here, and we can't have pets. The COVID shutdown era disconnected me from anything I did, except for online interests, for which I'm grateful to God. I don't define myself by the presence or absence of a spouse, any more than God does. I make toys for various groups, I have a very good church. People here think I'm weird because I enjoy interacting on the computer. I have much younger friends on the net, but friends my own age would be a great gift, because they share the times I've lived in. Nonetheless, I believe I'm where God wants me to be, and I have more time to listen to God, and talk to him than I did while I was working, and I know that this is a great blessing. It sustains me in a way nothing else can, whether there are people around or not.
I'm a recent Widow. I grieved for over 1 yr. I have always been creative/artistic & enjoy interior designing & gardening. I finally am over the grief and focused on myself. My husband was the BEST! He maintained the yard and was the handyperson when things needed to be fixed. I was such a pampered wife. I attempt to fix things when needed in our home. Thanks for You Tube. Some things I can't or personally wouldn't attempt, like electrical issues or climbing up on high ladders. I leave that to the experts. I am careful and focused of my surroundings, for fear of falling. Thank God, I am pretty healthy for my age. I redecorated my home, like Helen did in the video. I am mindful of all things concerned in my Life. I am Grateful for all I have. I am my own boss & I am fulfilled with my Life!
After forty seven years of marriage my husband died last January. After a few months I decided to create a space That was completely and totally me. Now I have a living room that is so peaceful and joyful For me. I've learned to enjoy living alone And found peace and freedom. I do miss him😊
I am alone now after losing my wife of 56 happy years . I have changed nothing . All her things are around me. I try to hang on to the past . I almost feel I am waiting for her to return . I know I cannot expect to move on like this but I cannot bring myself to disconnect with the past . I miss her every moment of my life .
@@ry491.. do it all at your pace even if you keep her things until you leave the planet. It's all about you being comfy. Different if you were married to a prolific hoarder. You were very blessed to have had so many happy years. It must be really tough to be alone after that time. My husband drives me nuts but I'd probably go into huge shock if he goes first. I'd be nervous at night as our house is a tad creepy. If you are well and able you might even decide to spend the rest of your life with another (down the track).
I keep myself active by taking classes at the YMCA, now writing my memoirs, walking around Goodwill and talking to other lonely people. I have a little dog and this encourages people to tell me about their pet that passed away. Still I do everything by myself most of the people I know stay home and watch TV and don't go out and do things so I go by myself sometimes it gets lonely not having a close friend. I live in an RV so it's hard to have someone come over.
My entire life is outdoors and love gardening flowers and vegetables. As an older lady now it is my hoppy to occupy me without bored but I'm never lonely because Father son da holy spirit 💙 with me as always 💙 ❤️
@@Afulio-p1c what do you do in Winter. I can't cope in Winter with arthritis in my legs, messed up knees and bouts of cramp. Can barely walk in Winter. I'm busy in Spring onwards though.
@earnold1896 am 71 I still do my garden at winter when it's not raining and not too cold go shopping and walk around the shopping center for maybe 3 hours then home do some work in the house and cooking or baking.
#10 hit home big time. I just changed out my kitchen to eating carnivore. What a huge difference in #9 because of it! At 75 I'm out of decades of pain and able to do things I never thought I'd do again. Gee I don't do coffee or tea sitting...and getting up early is something I still do. It's weird being the same age as old people.
It is, I always feel uncomfortable when I meet someone that sounds like you, secretly thinking you're actually younger and better than the rest of us. It's cool, my sister won't go to the senior center because that's where the old people are. She is older than them. Don't be an ageist.
@@stacyjaye6350 I do have to be mindful when and where I wear that T-shirt! I get some strange looks from seniors and a few laughs from other gens. When we know of our personal Temple; we then need to take care of the 'donkey' housing it. We are what we eat...stay away from Big Harma.
@@lynnmoser6918 okay, see there we reached some common ground! No to drugs! Yes to eating what makes us feel great! Even though I am whole foods plant-based. I'm pretty sure we could have an interesting friendship! 😁. Peace, from Tulsa!!
Really I don't think so !! well not for me it isn't I hate it !!!! Talking to yourself an then you answer yourself I think it does something to your mental health!!! Not good .
For me,I do all those suggestions...but I still like to have a companion,which I have to take up the loneliness. Not on a daily basis,but intermittently 😊
What a beautiful video. Love it. Im 80 and lost my husband of 40 years 15 years ago. I am busy with a variety of things i enjoy doing. I enjoy my alone time. And greatly enjoy my Grandchildren. The love of my life.
Living alone in old age is not just about solitude but freedom-an opportunity to shape life according to one's own desires. 1. Reconnecting with Ourselves 2. Developing New Routines 3. Becoming More Self-Reliant 4. Rediscovering Hobbies 5. Building Stronger Connections 6. Facing Loneliness 7. Creating a Personalized Space 8. Practicing Mindfulness 9. Taking Charge of Health 10. Embracing Creativity in Cooking
Ik ben singel van af mijn 38ste jaar na 20 jaar huwelijk. Heb twee mooie dochters en veel vrienden. Nu ben ik bijna 89 jaar, heb een lieve schoonzoon en een lieve kleinzoon. Ik heb me nooit alleen of eenzaam gevoeld. Heb mijn singel leven altijd fijn gevonden. Ik ben wat dat betreft een gelukkig mens.
None of the people you show seem to be living in poverty. I volunteer at a foodshelf, and this is not the reality for many older adults who cannot afford to eat and pay utilities, often living in cars and vans. Alone.
You bring up an important point. Many older adults face significant challenges, and it’s crucial to acknowledge those realities. Thank you for highlighting this!
that is me....I have no water..couldn't pay the bill.....no internet just my phone......I live in a shed.....might have to give up the shed and move into my car....but the car needs repairs so it is not so great.......I go to food pantry.....life is very tough for this older lady here......
Yes it is a lot different when you don't have enough money to go out and enjoy the things you like to do. I live in an RV and I have a Social security which was pretty good A few years ago but now it is a struggle. This creates a loneliness when you can't afford to buy gas for your car to go somewhere add most hobbies cost money. We have a senior center here where I live but you have to pay for everything.
I have lived alone for several years of my life and actually enjoy it. I do miss having someone else to blame when household things go wrong! I keep wondering who forgot to flush the tiolet! Or left food out of the refrigerator! 😮
People say one shouldn't live in the past, but I like it there. I am even embracing things that were BEFORE my time like wonderful, vintage, non-PC movies and music because modern-day music and "woke" Hollywood movies make me want to upchuck. I'm in my 70s now and my much younger wife walked out on me 10 years ago (she thought she could do better... she didn't... "Mr. Wonderful" told her he wasn't interested) so now I am living a life of contentment and bliss, thinking of downsizing and buying a smaller place on the beach. Life is good.
Good for you sounds good. There's something special & wonderful living by the beach it's like you're on holiday 24/7 😅 Life is what we make it everyday is good.
Thumbs up fo all but the motorcycles.. When you sit in a car you have metal on all sides, top & bottom When on a motorcycle ..NONE CRASH?? It isn't IF. .IT IS WHEN
@@robertwalker5521repeating old cliches. I've known tons of people that have never wrecked their bike. Impairment is a factor in 40% of the crashes by the rider. If it's used for recreation only, you can pick your time of day whether etcetera. Do people spend hours honing and practicing drills and maneuvers on a motorcycle? I do. Do everyone a favor and don't talk about what you don't know about.
Im 66, have been living alone for 22 years. I have embraced the freedom to evaluate my life, decide on changes I’m ready to make & I put my home in PR on the market, found a sanctuary for the 9 cats which shared my life the last 9 years, began a Tai Chi practice, lost 25 lbs in 2 years with intermittent fasting & have recovered from multiple surgeries (I’m bionic). I’ve become addicted to knitting, would knit 24 7 if my hands permitted! I am happy, hopeful & eager to move back to the states. This is the best time of my life so far & I have every intention of continuing to live alone, yet be more social in settings I am interested in, like knitting & volunteer at a senior or healing center❣️ I am never lonely and that is a wonderful feeling of freedom❣️
@chippy. I lost my adult son two years ago so I don't have kids or grandkids and although I'm happy for my friends telling me about their kids it gets tedious nodding my head when all I can think about is I now have none.
@@jschuler53 …You have my condolences regarding the loss of your son. That had to be so painful. It takes a very long to heal (if you ever do). We learn to live with our grief. I am 7 mos since losing my spouse and it is slow going. Trying to keep moving forward.
Thanks for the tips on living alone. My wife just passed away this year and I’ll be using many of the things in this video to learn to adjust to being alone.
To everyone listening to this, I wish you good health, peace, and endless blessings. Living alone in old age can be both a challenge and a gift. It teaches us resilience, independence, and how to cherish the little things. This video beautifully captures the reality of what it's like, and it reminds us all to take care of ourselves, both physically and mentally. May we all find comfort in our solitude and strength in our journey. Sending love and positive energy to everyone watching.
I am 82 years, having NOT lived alone for more than 23 years. I am older than most of my current generation, and the three family generations before me. BUT, I am expected NOT to brag about it.
I am not lonely. I have a routine and exercise with a great bunch of people five times a week. Read a lot. Much more interested in the world and what’s going on around me.out everyday and looking in the store. Don’t buy a lot since my income is lower, but I do enjoy looking. Always go for the bargain. I thank god I have made it to this age. I am 77. Enjoy everyday. Life is good. Never had time for all of this since I was divorced and raising two children.
I'm in my 60s. I've recently retired. I have pets, friends & hobbies. I'm independent. I can be with people or be by myself. I'm happy. I don't get lonely. I'm enjoying my retirement. I recently started playing my guitar, again & I also do paintings of landscapes, in oil & acrylic paints. I keep fit, going cycling, swimming & going for long walks with my dog. I'm never bored. My life is full. I meet my 2 friends for lunch, every fortnight. I'm enjoying my life. I live in Australia.🇦🇺😊👍🐈🐈🐈🐈🐕🎸🚲🏠🚗 .
If you are reading this, I want to tell you that everything will be fine. You are incredible, you are unique, you can face anything in your life, you have the strength within yourself to overcome any obstacle, loss, or situation. You are not alone, you are loved, you have the right to feel bad and good, you have the right to feel. Be blessed by these positive vibes and live your life to the fullest. I am sending my love to the universe so that I can reach you
I’am sorry , I don’t understand people being lonely , I’am in my 70’s and always find things to do , I live in a 3 bedroom unit with a garden , I bake bread , make yoghurt and as many staples as possible , preserve what I grow , I knit , I sew and I love to cook .
I'm 74 and for the last 20+ years, one day out of each month, I ride my bicycle 50 miles. Haven't missed a month yet. In hot weather I leave the starting gate at midnight and go about 10 miles so that leaves me only 40 miles to go after the sun comes up and the day gets hotter. Depending on how hot the weather, I go 3 to 5 miles and then take a break at home to cool back down. Making a timeline of how many miles you should have travelled per hour to reach 50 miles before midnight can keep you on track. Snickers bars help me to reach the 50-mile goal, and also a good lunch at KFC. Also need to ride occasionally during the month to maintain muscle for that 50-mile day.
I’m 81 and live alone. I’ve got my sister living round the corner we have an hour together every night and have great laughs I try to walk a good distance daily. I make myself a good meal every day and eat a good breakfast. I’m not lonely
@davidmann. I like the fact I can walk around naked any time I want. I think it's good to air out the old bod. The biggest change I've made is my diet. I am very picky about what, how much and when I eat. It's all about staying. healthy. I also have to sometimes force myself to do daily exercise. Either a bike ride or go to the gym for weightlifting. Keeping a good B MI is also good for your health, esp if you have arthritis. Exercise and diet, the best way to stay in shape in and good health. Why make it complicated?
@mariesmith It's great you're 87 and seem healthy but I don't think the goal in life is who lives the longest...not necessarily. Who lives the best life in whatever time frame they have should be the measure of a good life. Same with marriage. When people tell me they've been married for 60 years I think, yuck. They want a medal. I'm sure there are instances of great long term relationships but that doesn't turn it into a trend or common. The same with age, I've seen people suffer through horrible diseases clutching onto life as if were a sacred rod. If that is all the end of life you have I wouldn't recommend prolonging it.
I have turned to the internet for Books to read, Lectures and educational videos. Then I have favorite shows and my little shits-Poodle, Ollie. We walk everyday and this has brought many lovely people around.
I’m 79 and I’ve lived alone for the past 30 years. I take care of my home and yard and grow plants from seedlings. I cook for myself and enjoy watching my favorite teams. I also am constantly grateful to God, Jesus, spirits, angels and my ancestors.
I hate old age, it sucks. I can't lift the things i used to lift. Got two hernias. My balance walking isn't very good now. My thinking isn't what it used to be as i have become more forgetful. And i have already lost some friends that already passed away. I used to work out and now my skin is flabby no matter what excersizes i do. These golden years should be called the crap years. That is what they are to me.
@@123pickles Eternity is a long time . This life is a blink of an eye in comparison , sad if we have spent it unwisely and are not prepared for the next stage. Jesus took the sting out of death and promises all who call upon His name shall be saved .
No man can do nothing about the hernias but. You can work on your balance stand on one leg walk backwards for memory do crosswords and Sudoku. Read books, with the memory loss i sometimes read a story again not realising i alread did. Less books to buy. Keep on walking never mind the flab and the best one listen to music. And now and then visit kids and you can fight with yourself and your always right.
Choose to be a happy and positive person. You will have better responses and results in this Classroom, we call Life. “No one gets out of here alive.” And no one is you,you can become some very special in others people’s life. Be Kind! To yourself and others. And never let go the Hand of God. There is more to all of this….❤
I find it strange to be called elderly and adjusting at 60, 65 or 68. To me an elderly person is after 80 not 60, 65 or 68. Most people are very capable at that age and still very energetic. I'm not talking about someone with a sickness or disability. I'm 70 and I don't feel mentally and physically any different than when I was younger. The only think I had to adjust was not keeping to myself what I think. Saying no is just saying no, no excuses or explanations because now I don't care what others think. Now that's the best freedom I had to adjust as I'm getting older or elderly 😜
Yep. Jimmy Buffett hit the nail on the head when he sang: "I'm growing older but not up". Never needed validation or approval from parents, teachers, employers, etc. It's wonderful...
@@marciastewart1527 Totally agree with you. My father is 92 and in perfect health. He lives alone and he gets offended when he's called elderly as well.
A lot of people don't share that they really are lonely. My loneliness is mostly because no one knows me. So I go on by myself which is alright I guess but it is lonely and not having a family and not having anyone who knows who you are, what person you are.
Not miserable I just have no friends,I have Aspergers and was hoping this would help.Also 65 is just a number,I just need people to talk to I do better with people online.
I don't like being treated like I am feeble because I'm older, 79, still very capable of thinking and physically active. Osama people are very rude although maybe they mean well but they put you in a category and don't treat you like a complete person anymore. That feels very lonely because people are there but they treat you as if you don't really count.
Although there are advantages on living alone I still prefer to be with people. I am blessed with a good & loyal stay-in kasambahay with out sacrificing my privacy.
Join a church. Simple. So many of these videos completely ignore the need to connect spiritually and with the divine ,as well as fellowship with kind people of faith. Whether 6,16,46,66 or 86: A developing deep connection is very real and a huge sense of quiet peace and connection will result. Trust in Christ x
It's true that relatives can mean heart-breaking responsibility. But they can also mean great comfort and joy. I have no relatives, and sometimes wish I had attentive grand-children, but these don't come to order. I was a nurse all my life, and may have overdone the looking after the sick thing. Only God really sustains.
Jesus said I will never leave you or forsake you. In this very turbulent time sharing the gospel has become very important to me. Jesus promises all who will believe and repent forgiveness of sins, a new body free of pain or limitations for eternity.
@chaarlesrobert. No one wants you to reinterperet what has been handing down through ions in differing languages. In other words, no one gives a crap what that jesus person said. You should be able to figure out forgiveness without invoking jesus.
@@jschuler53 Sorry you feel that way because Jesus never hurt anybody. Mankind cannot find lasting peace because the Bible declares our hearts are desperately wicked and only Jesus can change that.
@@charlesrobert6211 Don't feel sorry for me. I'm not the one trying to market jesus and some ficitionous bible will solve all your problems. Let's fact check that, ok?
If you knew what was in the Bible you would see that the teachings in the Bible teach the morals that human beings should have and how they should treat one another. Your anger against it shows that you do not have love for your fellow humans.
I hate being old and on my own. Food doesnt taste anymore i hate cooking for one. I am in constant pain and at the age of 75 am residing in a nursing home. If my health was better life would be grand. I used to love cooking for my family but its not worth it when my taste has gone.
I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling this way. It's tough to navigate these changes, but your love for cooking and family is still valuable. Wishing you comfort and brighter days ahead!
Dogs. If you don't want the responsibility, befriend and walk a neighbor's. Consider sleepovers prn. Also, bake cookies and enjoy the neighborhood children ❤ listen to them while they 'help' you in the garden or kitchen. I suggest keeping toys for dogs and crafts, coloring books for kids.
I am in 80s yes I agree it’s crap now , lost strength ,walk ing is all I do now with the dogs , often walking on my own I’m alll over the place ,lost balance ,deaf ,wear hearing aid , at same time I think it’s funny ,how I got in 2 yrs ,,I still do art so my brain still doing its job , lol , with the help certain tablets ,I am still trying to life ,to keep going as usual, and smile ,
Some of these people that have everything, a house to live in in plenty of food to eat should try going out to Church free meals for the homeless see who those people are and befriend them.
Is it common for other elderly people to talk to themselves as I do? I don't have conversations with myself, I simply think out loud and say my thoughts out loud around home. I think I need to express myself but I am alone alot so no-one to do that with.. I have grown to prefer to be alone most of the time because I like peace and quiet now. I Skype with my granddaughter and her kids, and talk on the phone to my children and siblings or other relatives. I also use social media to express myself occasionally on subjects that interest me, but give little attention to the garbage on there.
The only down part, I have lived alone 20 years, married 30. I loved it until my health took away my abilities to do so many things. Now I live for my animals. Never liked peopleuch and animals are so grateful for the least things. Now, losing my sight due to WMD has thrown me a real curve. Getting old is not for the weak. BTW. You are invisible
I'm sorry to hear about your challenges. Your love for your animals shines through, and it's clear you have a strong spirit. Thank you for sharing your journey!
I just wish people would not treat you when you're older like you don't know what you're doing, like you don't count because you're old. I go to open mike's where people come and play musical instruments. A lot of these are older people who had careers in music they are excellent musicians I got out my accordion that I played when I was 7 years old and I am learning to play it again and that lets me fit in with these younger people the young and old are together having fun. Most of these are held in beer breweries and that doesn't mean you have to guzzle beer. In fact most of these people don't even drink. I tried to get friends to go with me and they say oh no I never go into a bar! So I go by myself and I have a little dog that goes with me everywhere and we go and play music!
Wonderful! Music has a way of bringing people together across generations, and it’s amazing that you're not letting age stereotypes stop you from enjoying what you love. Bringing your accordion back into your life also sounds like such a special way to reconnect with your past, and having your little dog by your side just adds to the experience! It’s true that older generations have so much experience and talent to share; it’s a shame when that’s overlooked. Well, keep playing and enjoying those open mics-you’re a reminder that age is just a number when it comes to pursuing your passions! 🎶🐾
"10 Things Living Alone Makes Us Do In Old Age" Hmm, let's see : ALL the yard work, ALL the minor repairs we can, ALL the housework, ALL the laundry, ALL the shopping, ALL the handling of the household accounts/bill paying/taxes/getting the car serviced, ALL the 'keeping track of everything'... Did I miss anything ?!! LOL... Feel free to add to my list ! :)
I can dig it, my friend. Just remember there are those of us out in the world that never even got to experience that! I hope you find comfort in great memories, and new hobbies. I got an electric bike! Better look out people, because here I come! 🤣
Living alone in old age sounds peaceful, but is it really the best way to find happiness? Some say solitude brings strength, while others believe staying connected with people is key to a fulfilling life. What do you think? Can living alone truly make us happier, or does it risk making us feel isolated? Let's discuss!
Somewhere around the house here I have a poem by an unknown author. The title of the poem is the golden years. The last words in the poem sum up perfectly, my feelings - - the golden years have come at last, the golden years can kiss my ass!! A perfect ending to describe the golden years. In my case, it’s not because of my health or the possessions I have, it’s because I lost my mate almost 15 years ago and I’m still dealing with that every day. We were truly one flesh and every way, and I love her the way few people have loved each other. We had no golden years because she was taken shortly after she turned 60 and I was 62 and she was caregiving to my mother. We had no golden years. They were taken away from us, but yet I find myself in the golden years and that’s why I fully agree with the poem that ends with the words the golden years have come last the golden years can kiss my ass. End of subject.
I’m sorry to hear about your loss. It’s understandable to feel that way after such a profound experience. Thank you for sharing your feelings so openly.
A few plants in pots doesn't mean gardening !!! ha ha ha Do the makers of this video honestly think older people all live in lovely homes and wear expensive clothes ?? get real ! do a video about REAL old people struggling to manage everyday life with all its problems NOT ACTORS !!
I’m sorry to hear that. I am 70 years old, and I am a widow, but have had two marriages. I dated, and I find that at my age, the guys are only looking for two things. Someone to take care of them, physically, and financially or/and sex. lol. I’ve been single for going on 20 years now and that’s by my choice. I love my company and my family and close friends and relatives. I am financially stable so I don’t need a man. I don’t even date. Life is good, better than it’s ever been in my life. You are in my prayers. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼✌🏼❤️
@jackshatterly. Yes you can do a lot about both. Lonliness might be easier. I like the self reflection and trying new things. I've always been an artist so that's easy for me but aren't you curious about things? Reading is a great experience. But you must also care for your body, which is falling apart. Exercise and diet. Not only will it keep you healthy. you will enjoy real food again and the way it makes you feel better. But yes, I wonder, what is the point....sometimes. Not yet.
I couldn't agree more... nothing Golden in these Years. Being alone & no family around, friends past on or moved closer to their families. Hate the loneliness, it's torture 😢
Will be 72 next Mon, enjoy gardening, fishing, cooking. See Doc, take pills, like grocery shopping. Children in Az, live in Chicago. Like to watch sports, Columbo, 3 Stooges. Go out with friends for lunch. Visit Arboretum.
Living alone in retirement , isn't that great. My savings and stock r gone, so being on a fixed income, is awful . I've had alot of deaths in my family, the past 15 yrs.My sister, Lewy Body Dementia, My ex husband heart attack, a close mske friend, heart attack. My elderly mother, natural causes. Im here in Danbury, CT. I have a sister in Austin, TX , a brother in Brinnon, Wash, and a daughter in LA
@fazbell. I hear you. However, unless you're in Hospice, is that even an option anymore? Didn't Dr. K go to prison? I've always kept that in the back of my mind, as a last resort so I wouldn't feel trapped, if it gets really bad there are options.
What a copout! If you are lonely in this day and age, the problem resides with you, so don’t complain. You could go volunteer at a food bank, at a daycare center, or many other things where people need help. What you do in your life is your responsibility & nobody else’s. Suicide would be your decision and your decision only. And it wouldn’t solve a thing, because none of us knows what lies ahead on the other side. Maybe you should try and get some psychiatric help. My life hasn’t been especially Roses. My husband is in a nursing home, I have some health problems that I am trying to resolve, and I have lost almost all of my family due to disease or accidents, but I still haven’t given up on life. I still look at life as challenging and try to reach out and help other people, but I have not sat around and complained. The United States has a new disease, called ageism, and a lot of you have bought into it. I am 73 years young, and I am responsible for the things in my life that I have done or have not done. I don’t blame it on anything else. If, you think that you are old, you have been brainwashed. Maybe you need to develop a new attitude toward life or think more open-minded. I don’t even know what the definition of old means) I am tired of hearing so many negative comments. I prefer to go to websites where I feel inspired, (not depressed ) & where there are people, younger people, people with disabilities, children who are sick try & to make contributions to society. I have lost almost all of my family due to disease or accidents. I’m interested in things where I could make a difference and help other people. People are being brainwashed by all of this negativism, and I am done with stereotyping people into a special group. That’s what this website is all about. I am heading over to Facebook and TikTok. Bye.
Let's cut the crap: getting old sucks. Declining health, looks and energy and realizing every day that we have much less time ahead of us than behind us. I can see no advantage to being aged 70s and 80s than 20s and 30s.
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This is the greatest point in my life. It's all about me, me, me. I enjoy my own company a lot. Don't be afraid, alone is not lonely.
Yesss! 😁
True! Just have a list of “ to do “ daily plan in the morning . There’s always something to set the day’s schedule.
@courtneysands. I agree. Sometimes it's harder to be around people who are irritating or they communicate in a weird way. I enjoy. my solitude and now that the kids are grown up it's important to me to have that. I see it as a choice. I live in a place with lots to do and I might do those things but can also shut the door and enjoy myself.
Thankfully, I am old at 86 with many gifts , good health, family, friends, social activities, energy, music.
Just turned 78 and was asked by a nurse, who had driven me to my appointment. I was so amused. Never considered myself to be old and unable to take care of myself. The younger generation looks at a number and has no idea of the joys and freedom ahead of them when they get to be my age. Love it.
If only they knew. Thank you for sharing
What was you asked ?
@@christyhartmann4264 GOD' blessings.
I am 73 years of age and live alone. Have never been lonely.
Same here. I've lived alone for ten years and I enjoy it very much. The key for me is my many interests and quality social interaction with like-minded people.
I'm 78 and time is quickly passing by. I have a pet who is my constant companion . She keeps me centered. I'm never lonely. I always talk to GOD. IM TRULY NEVER ALONE.
I'm 73 living in a retirement village. I don't have family of any sort, unlike a lot of people here, and we can't have pets. The COVID shutdown era disconnected me from anything I did, except for online interests, for which I'm grateful to God. I don't define myself by the presence or absence of a spouse, any more than God does. I make toys for various groups, I have a very good church. People here think I'm weird because I enjoy interacting on the computer. I have much younger friends on the net, but friends my own age would be a great gift, because they share the times I've lived in. Nonetheless, I believe I'm where God wants me to be, and I have more time to listen to God, and talk to him than I did while I was working, and I know that this is a great blessing. It sustains me in a way nothing else can, whether there are people around or not.
@@mystgirlone2166 GOD choisest blessings to you.
@@mystgirlone2166 GOD be with you.
I'm 75 years old, living alone for 5 years now, and I truly feel more freedom and peace than ever. This article perfectly reflects my experience!
Glad you enjoyed it
I'm a recent Widow. I grieved for over 1 yr. I have always been creative/artistic & enjoy interior designing & gardening. I finally am over the grief and focused on myself. My husband was the BEST! He maintained the yard and was the handyperson when things needed to be fixed. I was such a pampered wife. I attempt to fix things when needed in our home. Thanks for You Tube. Some things I can't or personally wouldn't attempt, like electrical issues or climbing up on high ladders. I leave that to the experts. I am careful and focused of my surroundings, for fear of falling. Thank God, I am pretty healthy for my age. I redecorated my home, like Helen did in the video. I am mindful of all things concerned in my Life. I am Grateful for all I have. I am my own boss & I am fulfilled with my Life!
Same
@@yolie32228
Always check double regarding ladders..
If there is gravity in that area.....DON'T. !
Congrats
After forty seven years of marriage my husband died last January. After a few months I decided to create a space That was completely and totally me. Now I have a living room that is so peaceful and joyful For me. I've learned to enjoy living alone And found peace and freedom. I do miss him😊
I am alone now after losing my wife of 56 happy years . I have changed nothing . All her things are around me. I try to hang on to the past . I almost feel I am waiting for her to return . I know I cannot expect to move on like this but I cannot bring myself to disconnect with the past . I miss her every moment of my life .
O@@ry491
@@ry491.. do it all at your pace even if you keep her things until you leave the planet. It's all about you being comfy. Different if you were married to a prolific hoarder.
You were very blessed to have had so many happy years.
It must be really tough to be alone after that time. My husband drives me nuts but I'd probably go into huge shock if he goes first. I'd be nervous at night as our house is a tad creepy. If you are well and able you might even decide to spend the rest of your life with another (down the track).
I keep myself active by taking classes at the YMCA, now writing my memoirs, walking around Goodwill and talking to other lonely people. I have a little dog and this encourages people to tell me about their pet that passed away. Still I do everything by myself most of the people I know stay home and watch TV and don't go out and do things so I go by myself sometimes it gets lonely not having a close friend. I live in an RV so it's hard to have someone come over.
Whoever is reading this comment, I wish you all the best in your life. May light fill your life. May God guide you to prosperity!
@@LifeStories93 thank you for your kind wishes. If god could take my pain away it would be wonderfu I pray to him every day. It's a comfortl
Thank you for your kind words. Blessings to you and yours, also. 🙋♀️🇬🇧
Thank you . The same to you.
My entire life is outdoors and love gardening flowers and vegetables. As an older lady now it is my hoppy to occupy me without bored but I'm never lonely because Father son da holy spirit 💙 with me as always 💙 ❤️
AMEN!!
@@Afulio-p1c what do you do in Winter. I can't cope in Winter with arthritis in my legs, messed up knees and bouts of cramp. Can barely walk in Winter.
I'm busy in Spring onwards though.
@earnold1896 am 71 I still do my garden at winter when it's not raining and not too cold go shopping and walk around the shopping center for maybe 3 hours then home do some work in the house and cooking or baking.
@@Afulio-p1c oh that's good. Our paths get too muddy and slippery in Winter to do a thing outside so I can only tackle it in Spring.
#10 hit home big time. I just changed out my kitchen to eating carnivore. What a huge difference in #9 because of it! At 75 I'm out of decades of pain and able to do things I never thought I'd do again. Gee I don't do coffee or tea sitting...and getting up early is something I still do.
It's weird being the same age as old people.
It is, I always feel uncomfortable when I meet someone that sounds like you, secretly thinking you're actually younger and better than the rest of us. It's cool, my sister won't go to the senior center because that's where the old people are. She is older than them. Don't be an ageist.
@@stacyjaye6350 I do have to be mindful when and where I wear that T-shirt! I get some strange looks from seniors and a few laughs from other gens.
When we know of our personal Temple; we then need to take care of the 'donkey' housing it. We are what we eat...stay away from Big Harma.
@@lynnmoser6918 okay, see there we reached some common ground! No to drugs! Yes to eating what makes us feel great! Even though I am whole foods plant-based. I'm pretty sure we could have an interesting friendship! 😁. Peace, from Tulsa!!
There is nothing wrong with being old, and acting as if it is bad is ageist. It is natural.
It makes me realize how good I have it in this stage of life!🎉😊
Really I don't think so !! well not for me it isn't I hate it !!!!
Talking to yourself
an then you answer yourself I think it does something to your mental health!!! Not good .
Oh yes. Me too.😂❤ I'm addicted to peace.
For me,I do all those suggestions...but I still like to have a companion,which I have to take up the loneliness. Not on a daily basis,but intermittently 😊
I agree, it’s having the glass half full mindset. When you’re ready the journey to what gives you joy and contentment can be fulfilling.
What a beautiful video. Love it. Im 80 and lost my husband of 40 years 15 years ago. I am busy with a variety of things i enjoy doing. I enjoy my alone time. And greatly enjoy my Grandchildren. The love of my life.
Wonderful!Thanks for sharing!
Living alone in old age is not just about solitude but freedom-an opportunity to shape life according to one's own desires.
1. Reconnecting with Ourselves
2. Developing New Routines
3. Becoming More Self-Reliant
4. Rediscovering Hobbies
5. Building Stronger Connections
6. Facing Loneliness
7. Creating a Personalized Space
8. Practicing Mindfulness
9. Taking Charge of Health
10. Embracing Creativity in Cooking
Ik ben singel van af mijn 38ste jaar na 20 jaar huwelijk. Heb twee mooie dochters en veel vrienden.
Nu ben ik bijna 89 jaar, heb een lieve schoonzoon en een lieve kleinzoon. Ik heb me nooit alleen of eenzaam gevoeld.
Heb mijn singel leven altijd fijn gevonden. Ik ben wat dat betreft een gelukkig mens.
None of the people you show seem to be living in poverty. I volunteer at a foodshelf, and this is not the reality for many older adults who cannot afford to eat and pay utilities, often living in cars and vans. Alone.
You bring up an important point. Many older adults face significant challenges, and it’s crucial to acknowledge those realities. Thank you for highlighting this!
@@goldenyears101 I’d just like some tips on helping without being condescending.
that is me....I have no water..couldn't pay the bill.....no internet just my phone......I live in a shed.....might have to give up the shed and move into my car....but the car needs repairs so it is not so great.......I go to food pantry.....life is very tough for this older lady here......
Yes it is a lot different when you don't have enough money to go out and enjoy the things you like to do. I live in an RV and I have a Social security which was pretty good A few years ago but now it is a struggle. This creates a loneliness when you can't afford to buy gas for your car to go somewhere add most hobbies cost money. We have a senior center here where I live but you have to pay for everything.
I have lived alone for several years of my life and actually enjoy it. I do miss having someone else to blame when household things go wrong! I keep wondering who forgot to flush the tiolet! Or left food out of the refrigerator! 😮
Haha, the mystery of the phantom roommate strikes again!
Live alone now and loving it. I like spending time with men, enjoy their company, just don’t want to live with anyone anymore.
Retired and 73 .
Have lots of interesting hobbies ❤
Wonderful!
It’s true that living alone pushes us to adapt and learn new skills, even in old age.
I'm 76 and don't take afternoon naps like many older people seem to do. I just don't feel tired during the day...😊👍🙋♀️🇬🇧
After being married 50 yrs. I love it. Best thing ever.
People say one shouldn't live in the past, but I like it there. I am even embracing things that were BEFORE my time like wonderful, vintage, non-PC movies and music because modern-day music and "woke" Hollywood movies make me want to upchuck. I'm in my 70s now and my much younger wife walked out on me 10 years ago (she thought she could do better... she didn't... "Mr. Wonderful" told her he wasn't interested) so now I am living a life of contentment and bliss, thinking of downsizing and buying a smaller place on the beach. Life is good.
yes, divorce , a lot of times can be a blessing
Good for you sounds good. There's something special & wonderful living by the beach it's like you're on holiday 24/7 😅 Life is what we make it everyday is good.
O how I’d love to downsize and move to a small place on the beach
I get alot of exercise, take good naps, and dont regret anything. Ride motorcycles and read peoples comments on how miserable they are in old age.
Thumbs up fo all but the motorcycles..
When you sit in a car you have metal on all sides, top & bottom
When on a motorcycle ..NONE
CRASH?? It isn't IF. .IT IS WHEN
Lol
@@robertwalker5521 Thanks for your uplifting and very helpful observations. NOT!!!!
😂😂😂👍
@@robertwalker5521repeating old cliches. I've known tons of people that have never wrecked their bike. Impairment is a factor in 40% of the crashes by the rider. If it's used for recreation only, you can pick your time of day whether etcetera. Do people spend hours honing and practicing drills and maneuvers on a motorcycle? I do. Do everyone a favor and don't talk about what you don't know about.
Im 66, have been living alone for 22 years. I have embraced the freedom to evaluate my life, decide on changes I’m ready to make & I put my home in PR on the market, found a sanctuary for the 9 cats which shared my life the last 9 years, began a Tai Chi practice, lost 25 lbs in 2 years with intermittent fasting & have recovered from multiple surgeries (I’m bionic). I’ve become addicted to knitting, would knit 24 7 if my hands permitted! I am happy, hopeful & eager to move back to the states. This is the best time of my life so far & I have every intention of continuing to live alone, yet be more social in settings I am interested in, like knitting & volunteer at a senior or healing center❣️ I am never lonely and that is a wonderful feeling of freedom❣️
I enjoy living alone but all my friends seem to thrive on is talking about their grand kids. Gets a little old (especially when you have none).
@chippy. I lost my adult son two years ago so I don't have kids or grandkids and although I'm happy for my friends telling me about their kids it gets tedious nodding my head when all I can think about is I now have none.
@@jschuler53 …You have my condolences regarding the loss of your son. That had to be so painful. It takes a very long to heal (if you ever do). We learn to live with our grief. I am 7 mos since losing my spouse and it is slow going. Trying to keep moving forward.
@@chippy7745 Thank you and I hope you find comfort.
So true
i know what you mean about the grand kids .....uggggg enough already
Thanks for the tips on living alone. My wife just passed away this year and I’ll be using many of the things in this video to learn to adjust to being alone.
To everyone listening to this, I wish you good health, peace, and endless blessings. Living alone in old age can be both a challenge and a gift. It teaches us resilience, independence, and how to cherish the little things. This video beautifully captures the reality of what it's like, and it reminds us all to take care of ourselves, both physically and mentally. May we all find comfort in our solitude and strength in our journey. Sending love and positive energy to everyone watching.
love this lesson
I am 82 years, having NOT lived alone for more than 23 years. I am older than most of my current generation, and the three family generations before me. BUT, I am expected NOT to brag about it.
It's great to hear about your long life and experiences! There's no harm in celebrating your accomplishments. Thank you for sharing!
I am not lonely. I have a routine and exercise with a great bunch of people five times a week. Read a lot. Much more interested in the world and what’s going on around me.out everyday and looking in the store. Don’t buy a lot since my income is lower, but I do enjoy looking. Always go for the bargain. I thank god I have made it to this age. I am 77. Enjoy everyday. Life is good. Never had time for all of this since I was divorced and raising two children.
I'm in my 60s. I've recently retired. I have pets, friends & hobbies. I'm independent. I can be with people or be by myself. I'm happy. I don't get lonely. I'm enjoying my retirement. I recently started playing my guitar, again & I also do paintings of landscapes, in oil & acrylic paints. I keep fit, going cycling, swimming & going for long walks with my dog. I'm never bored. My life is full. I meet my 2 friends for lunch, every fortnight. I'm enjoying my life. I live in Australia.🇦🇺😊👍🐈🐈🐈🐈🐕🎸🚲🏠🚗
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If you are reading this, I want to tell you that everything will be fine. You are incredible, you are unique, you can face anything in your life, you have the strength within yourself to overcome any obstacle, loss, or situation. You are not alone, you are loved, you have the right to feel bad and good, you have the right to feel. Be blessed by these positive vibes and live your life to the fullest. I am sending my love to the universe so that I can reach you
I’am sorry , I don’t understand people being lonely , I’am in my 70’s and always find things to do , I live in a 3 bedroom unit with a garden , I bake bread , make yoghurt and as many staples as possible , preserve what I grow , I knit , I sew and I love to cook .
The mix of life, financial and health circumstances matters. It matters greatly. At almostm70, I am far "older" than my 97 year old mother.
I'm 74 and for the last 20+ years, one day out of each month, I ride my bicycle 50 miles. Haven't missed a month yet. In hot weather I leave the starting gate at midnight and go about 10 miles so that leaves me only 40 miles to go after the sun comes up and the day gets hotter. Depending on how hot the weather, I go 3 to 5 miles and then take a break at home to cool back down. Making a timeline of how many miles you should have travelled per hour to reach 50 miles before midnight can keep you on track. Snickers bars help me to reach the 50-mile goal, and also a good lunch at KFC. Also need to ride occasionally during the month to maintain muscle for that 50-mile day.
That’s impressive! Riding 50 miles each month at 74 is an incredible achievement. Your strategy and dedication are truly inspiring! 🚴♂️👏
Awesome!!!!
I’m 81 and live alone. I’ve got my sister living round the corner we have an hour together every night and have great laughs I try to walk a good distance daily. I make myself a good meal every day and eat a good breakfast. I’m not lonely
I love the fact that I can fart 😂whenever I want
10-4!! :) I actually chuckle when I fart because it’s just me in my home and it’s so freeing.
@davidmann. I like the fact I can walk around naked any time I want. I think it's good to air out the old bod. The biggest change I've made is my diet. I am very picky about what, how much and when I eat. It's all about staying. healthy. I also have to sometimes force myself to do daily exercise. Either a bike ride or go to the gym for weightlifting. Keeping a good B
MI is also good for your health, esp if you have arthritis. Exercise and diet, the best way to stay in shape in and good health. Why make it complicated?
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My cats look discussed when I do!😊🙀😽😾
Cook food I like and put things in the same place every day
Thank you for this lovely video
Thesee people are not old wait till you are 87. ❤❤thank you jesus
Seriously. Lol.😊
When people used to ask my mom how she felt about getting older, she always said the same thing. Beats the alternative! ☮️
@@stacyjaye6350Yep. It's better to be on top of the ground instead of under it. Lol
@mariesmith It's great you're 87 and seem healthy but I don't think the goal in life is who lives the longest...not necessarily. Who lives the best life in whatever time frame they have should be the measure of a good life. Same with marriage. When people tell me they've been married for 60 years I think, yuck. They want a medal. I'm sure there are instances of great long term relationships but that doesn't turn it into a trend or common. The same with age, I've seen people suffer through horrible diseases clutching onto life as if were a sacred rod. If that is all the end of life you have I wouldn't recommend prolonging it.
Ah ha! At 94, life is great! Hang in and exercise daily.
Thank you for sharing useful things
So nice of you
This is wonderful! Good job 👍
Thank you! Cheers!
I have turned to the internet for Books to read, Lectures and educational videos. Then I have favorite shows and my little shits-Poodle, Ollie. We walk everyday and this has brought many lovely people around.
I’m 79 and I’ve lived alone for the past 30 years. I take care of my home and yard and grow plants from seedlings. I cook for myself and enjoy watching my favorite teams. I also am constantly grateful to God, Jesus, spirits, angels and my ancestors.
I hate old age, it sucks. I can't lift the things i used to lift. Got two hernias. My balance walking isn't very good now. My thinking isn't what it used to be as i have become more forgetful. And i have already lost some friends that already passed away. I used to work out and now my skin is flabby no matter what excersizes i do. These golden years should be called the crap years. That is what they are to me.
True, but knowing and loving Jesus changes everything for the best, and an eternity with Him❤️Thankful yet weak and different than when young.
There is no Jesus 😂
@@123pickles Eternity is a long time . This life is a blink of an eye in comparison , sad if we have spent it unwisely and are not prepared for the next stage. Jesus took the sting out of death and promises all who call upon His name shall be saved .
No man can do nothing about the hernias but. You can work on your balance stand on one leg walk backwards for memory do crosswords and Sudoku. Read books, with the memory loss i sometimes read a story again not realising i alread did. Less books to buy. Keep on walking never mind the flab and the best one listen to music. And now and then visit kids and you can fight with yourself and your always right.
Choose to be a happy and positive person. You will have better responses and results in this Classroom, we call Life.
“No one gets out of here alive.”
And no one is you,you can become some very special in others people’s life.
Be Kind! To yourself and others.
And never let go the Hand of God.
There is more to all of this….❤
I told friends I hate waking up to a new creak, leak, reek, squeak..😊..I May be an Antique, but I made it this far. I think that is neat....
I find it strange to be called elderly and adjusting at 60, 65 or 68. To me an elderly person is after 80 not 60, 65 or 68. Most people are very capable at that age and still very energetic. I'm not talking about someone with a sickness or disability. I'm 70 and I don't feel mentally and physically any different than when I was younger. The only think I had to adjust was not keeping to myself what I think. Saying no is just saying no, no excuses or explanations because now I don't care what others think. Now that's the best freedom I had to adjust as I'm getting older or elderly 😜
Yep. Jimmy Buffett hit the nail on the head when he sang: "I'm growing older but not up". Never needed validation or approval from parents, teachers, employers, etc. It's wonderful...
I’m 90 & still don’t like the term elderly. It sounds demeaning to me. Call me old, that’s fine & I know I’m old.
@@marciastewart1527 Totally agree with you. My father is 92 and in perfect health. He lives alone and he gets offended when he's called elderly as well.
Old is essentially a state of mind. Plenty of people don't let physical changes stop them. Others are not so lucky.
A lot of people don't share that they really are lonely. My loneliness is mostly because no one knows me. So I go on by myself which is alright I guess but it is lonely and not having a family and not having anyone who knows who you are, what person you are.
Not miserable I just have no friends,I have Aspergers and was hoping this would help.Also 65 is just a number,I just need people to talk to I do better with people online.
I am 65y and was never married and believe man should not be alone. Only GOD help me to not become depressed!!😃😃
It’s great that you find strength in your faith! Connecting with others and staying engaged can help, too. Thank you for sharing your perspective!
I don't like being treated like I am feeble because I'm older, 79, still very capable of thinking and physically active. Osama people are very rude although maybe they mean well but they put you in a category and don't treat you like a complete person anymore. That feels very lonely because people are there but they treat you as if you don't really count.
Although there are advantages on living alone I still prefer to be with people. I am blessed with a good & loyal stay-in kasambahay with out sacrificing my privacy.
Candles and towels good combo for a fire😂
you are a great person, keep it up
Join a church. Simple. So many of these videos completely ignore the need to connect spiritually and with the divine ,as well as fellowship with kind people of faith. Whether 6,16,46,66 or 86: A developing deep connection is very real and a huge sense of quiet peace and connection will result. Trust in Christ x
Bravo ❤
These people are lucky, they don’t seem to have parents with dementia or other health conditions to take up their time and energy
It's true that relatives can mean heart-breaking responsibility. But they can also mean great comfort and joy. I have no relatives, and sometimes wish I had attentive grand-children, but these don't come to order. I was a nurse all my life, and may have overdone the looking after the sick thing. Only God really sustains.
And they seem prosperous, without the challenges of making ends meet on a low income.
Jesus said I will never leave you or forsake you. In this very turbulent time sharing the gospel has become very important to me. Jesus promises all who will believe and repent forgiveness of sins, a new body free of pain or limitations for eternity.
@chaarlesrobert. No one wants you to reinterperet what has been handing down through ions in differing languages. In other words, no one gives a crap what that jesus person said. You should be able to figure out forgiveness without invoking jesus.
@@jschuler53 Sorry you feel that way because Jesus never hurt anybody. Mankind cannot find lasting peace because the Bible declares our hearts are desperately wicked and only Jesus can change that.
@@charlesrobert6211 Magiv mushrooms or meth?
@@charlesrobert6211 Don't feel sorry for me. I'm not the one trying to market jesus and some ficitionous bible will solve all your problems. Let's fact check that, ok?
If you knew what was in the Bible you would see that the teachings in the Bible teach the morals that human beings should have and how they should treat one another. Your anger against it shows that you do not have love for your fellow humans.
I hate being old and on my own. Food doesnt taste anymore i hate cooking for one. I am in constant pain and at the age of 75 am residing in a nursing home. If my health was better life would be grand. I used to love cooking for my family but its not worth it when my taste has gone.
You are depressed seek therapy and the company of others
I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling this way. It's tough to navigate these changes, but your love for cooking and family is still valuable. Wishing you comfort and brighter days ahead!
You may have a zinc deficiency, that can cause loss of sense of taste.🩷🙏🏻
Dogs. If you don't want the responsibility, befriend and walk a neighbor's. Consider sleepovers prn.
Also, bake cookies and enjoy the neighborhood children ❤ listen to them while they 'help' you in the garden or kitchen.
I suggest keeping toys for dogs and crafts, coloring books for kids.
Thanks for the tips!
I am in 80s yes I agree it’s crap now , lost strength ,walk ing is all I do now with the dogs , often walking on my own I’m alll over the place ,lost balance ,deaf ,wear hearing aid , at same time I think it’s funny ,how I got in 2 yrs ,,I still do art so my brain still doing its job , lol , with the help certain tablets ,I am still trying to life ,to keep going as usual, and smile ,
I love your spirit! I am 70 years old and I feel the same way.
Where does one find these 'online forums'?
I know people over 60 years of age that do work as a Flagger, Or they drive a Pilot vehicle, As a Flagger you meet new friends.
Amun
Musicfrom my living room
Some of these people that have everything, a house to live in in plenty of food to eat should try going out to Church free meals for the homeless see who those people are and befriend them.
I do workouts 3 days a week
That's fantastic! Staying active is so important, especially as we age. Keep it up!
Is it common for other elderly people to talk to themselves as I do? I don't have conversations with myself, I simply think out loud and say my thoughts out loud around home. I think I need to express myself but I am alone alot so no-one to do that with.. I have grown to prefer to be alone most of the time because I like peace and quiet now. I Skype with my granddaughter and her kids, and talk on the phone to my children and siblings or other relatives. I also use social media to express myself occasionally on subjects that interest me, but give little attention to the garbage on there.
It's good that you have family to Skype with. It makes a big difference even though you live alone you are not alone in this world.
The only down part, I have lived alone 20 years, married 30. I loved it until my health took away my abilities to do so many things. Now I live for my animals. Never liked peopleuch and animals are so grateful for the least things. Now, losing my sight due to WMD has thrown me a real curve. Getting old is not for the weak. BTW. You are invisible
I'm sorry to hear about your challenges. Your love for your animals shines through, and it's clear you have a strong spirit. Thank you for sharing your journey!
I just wish people would not treat you when you're older like you don't know what you're doing, like you don't count because you're old. I go to open mike's where people come and play musical instruments. A lot of these are older people who had careers in music they are excellent musicians I got out my accordion that I played when I was 7 years old and I am learning to play it again and that lets me fit in with these younger people the young and old are together having fun. Most of these are held in beer breweries and that doesn't mean you have to guzzle beer. In fact most of these people don't even drink. I tried to get friends to go with me and they say oh no I never go into a bar! So I go by myself and I have a little dog that goes with me everywhere and we go and play music!
Wonderful! Music has a way of bringing people together across generations, and it’s amazing that you're not letting age stereotypes stop you from enjoying what you love. Bringing your accordion back into your life also sounds like such a special way to reconnect with your past, and having your little dog by your side just adds to the experience! It’s true that older generations have so much experience and talent to share; it’s a shame when that’s overlooked. Well, keep playing and enjoying those open mics-you’re a reminder that age is just a number when it comes to pursuing your passions! 🎶🐾
"10 Things Living Alone Makes Us Do In Old Age"
Hmm, let's see : ALL the yard work, ALL the minor repairs we can, ALL the housework, ALL the laundry, ALL the shopping, ALL the handling of the household accounts/bill paying/taxes/getting the car serviced, ALL the 'keeping track of everything'...
Did I miss anything ?!! LOL...
Feel free to add to my list ! :)
😃 Thank you for ALL these points
Living Alone after been
Married for 53 years and becoming a widower for ten years i dont like living alone
I can dig it, my friend. Just remember there are those of us out in the world that never even got to experience that! I hope you find comfort in great memories, and new hobbies. I got an electric bike! Better look out people, because here I come! 🤣
I find journaling very helpful. I think this video is fine, encouraging. But, truthfully, if feels a bit like Pollyanna on steroids.
Living alone in old age sounds peaceful, but is it really the best way to find happiness? Some say solitude brings strength, while others believe staying connected with people is key to a fulfilling life. What do you think? Can living alone truly make us happier, or does it risk making us feel isolated? Let's discuss!
Seems like I am doing OK according to this , perhaps easier having basically been a recluse all my life.
Somewhere around the house here I have a poem by an unknown author. The title of the poem is the golden years. The last words in the poem sum up perfectly, my feelings - - the golden years have come at last, the golden years can kiss my ass!! A perfect ending to describe the golden years. In my case, it’s not because of my health or the possessions I have, it’s because I lost my mate almost 15 years ago and I’m still dealing with that every day. We were truly one flesh and every way, and I love her the way few people have loved each other. We had no golden years because she was taken shortly after she turned 60 and I was 62 and she was caregiving to my mother. We had no golden years. They were taken away from us, but yet I find myself in the golden years and that’s why I fully agree with the poem that ends with the words the golden years have come last the golden years can kiss my ass. End of subject.
I’m sorry to hear about your loss. It’s understandable to feel that way after such a profound experience. Thank you for sharing your feelings so openly.
I am sorry that you have lost interest life and it's understandable in your circumstances.❤
A few plants in pots doesn't mean gardening !!! ha ha ha Do the makers of this video honestly think older people all live in lovely homes and wear expensive clothes ?? get real ! do a video about REAL old people struggling to manage everyday life with all its problems NOT ACTORS !!
Old age and loneliness sucks all the way. Nothin good about it.
I’m sorry to hear that. I am 70 years old, and I am a widow, but have had two marriages. I dated, and I find that at my age, the guys are only looking for two things. Someone to take care of them, physically, and financially or/and sex. lol. I’ve been single for going on 20 years now and that’s by my choice. I love my company and my family and close friends and relatives. I am financially stable so I don’t need a man. I don’t even date. Life is good, better than it’s ever been in my life. You are in my prayers. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼✌🏼❤️
Right, it sucks ❤
@jackshatterly. Yes you can do a lot about both. Lonliness might be easier. I like the self reflection and trying new things. I've always been an artist so that's easy for me but aren't you curious about things? Reading is a great experience. But you must also care for your body, which is falling apart. Exercise and diet. Not only will it keep you healthy. you will enjoy real food again and the way it makes you feel better. But yes, I wonder, what is the point....sometimes. Not yet.
I couldn't agree more... nothing Golden in these Years. Being alone & no family around, friends past on or moved closer to their families.
Hate the loneliness, it's torture 😢
Will be 72 next Mon, enjoy gardening, fishing, cooking.
See Doc, take pills, like grocery shopping.
Children in Az, live in Chicago.
Like to watch sports, Columbo, 3 Stooges.
Go out with friends for lunch.
Visit Arboretum.
Widows #2 & #3 should get together. !!
😊 why do you think so?
Living alone in retirement , isn't that great. My savings and stock r gone, so being on a fixed income, is awful . I've had alot of deaths in my family, the past 15 yrs.My sister, Lewy Body Dementia, My ex husband heart attack, a close mske friend, heart attack. My elderly mother, natural causes. Im here in Danbury, CT. I have a sister in Austin, TX , a brother in Brinnon, Wash, and a daughter in LA
Time to consider the "Kevorkian Exit". Anything else is delaying the inevitable.
@fazbell. I hear you. However, unless you're in Hospice, is that even an option anymore? Didn't Dr. K go to prison? I've always kept that in the back of my mind, as a last resort so I wouldn't feel trapped, if it gets really bad there are options.
Only if you are in constant pain. Otherwise, try to make the best of it. Work on your health and mental health. Have pets.
What a copout! If you are lonely in this day and age, the problem resides with you, so don’t complain. You could go volunteer at a food bank, at a daycare center, or many other things where people need help. What you do in your life is your responsibility & nobody else’s. Suicide would be your decision and your decision only. And it wouldn’t solve a thing, because none of us knows what lies ahead on the other side. Maybe you should try and get some psychiatric help. My life hasn’t been especially Roses. My husband is in a nursing home, I have some health problems that I am trying to resolve, and I have lost almost all of my family due to disease or accidents, but I still haven’t given up on life. I still look at life as challenging and try to reach out and help other people, but I have not sat around and complained. The United States has a new disease, called ageism, and a lot of you have bought into it. I am 73 years young, and I am responsible for the things in my life that I have done or have not done. I don’t blame it on anything else. If, you think that you are old, you have been brainwashed. Maybe you need to develop a new attitude toward life or think more open-minded. I don’t even know what the definition of old means)
I am tired of hearing so many negative comments. I prefer to go to websites where I feel inspired, (not depressed ) & where there are people, younger people, people with disabilities, children who are sick try & to make contributions to society. I have lost almost all of my family due to disease or accidents. I’m interested in things where I could make a difference and help other people. People are being brainwashed by all of this negativism, and I am done with stereotyping people into a special group. That’s what this website is all about. I am heading over to Facebook and TikTok. Bye.
I apologize to those people on here that are sick. I am talking about people who do nothing but sit around and complain.
Let's cut the crap: getting old sucks. Declining health, looks and energy and realizing every day that we have much less time ahead of us than behind us. I can see no advantage to being aged 70s and 80s than 20s and 30s.
I'm 74. I wish my Johnson still worked.
Take those little blue pills. They are good for your heart also because they open your arteries.