I really appreciate you and all of your content. I've watched you for so many years and have always loved watching you. One of my comfort YTubers and love having your videos on in the back while I'm doing my make up or chores. That really is such growth that you didn't let that comment be any more than a fleeting feeling 🤍🤍 xxxxx
Thank you, Gigi ♥️ It’s has definitely become easier in the last year or so but that was a real “omg” moment 😂 what must it be like to just never be affected? Maybe I’ll find out!!! Maybe that’s the beauty of your 40s/50s and beyond.
@@MikhilaMcDaid Definitely as you get older things affect you less or maybe just differently. I'm 41 and definitely care way less about what others think of me and their opinions than I was when I was younger. It's wonderful to hear that it's been affecting you less. I never understand the vitriol some people spew on the Internet. Just know you're appreciated ❤️ Have a wonderful day ✨
As soon as you said you realised you didn’t care about the mean comments I was crocheting at the time and just said ‘yes Khila!’ 😂. Totally just came out as I was listening. You know how you have your cosy programmes you watch, well, we all do, your vlogs are my cosy you tube 😊
I love your channels and all your content. You feel like a friend because you are real and relatable. Those people are so cruel. I'm so glad you're not taking it on!! ❤
Love your videos for many years because your authenticity. You are so special and I appreciate your attitude. Please keep going in your direction. Love from Israel❤
Excited for the Christmas candles! I always compare my house to other peoples and worry that I should be cleaning more. I don't know why I'm bothered to be honest! Your house looks fine to me. I love your decor. It always looks cosy x
Thank you, Kath! Also.. when you’re round at someone’s house who you’re close enough to that they might leave a dish in the sink, you know you never think less of them for it! It’s an invented social pressure we should relieve ourselves from and of me showing my pile of recycling or washing I haven’t done yet helps someone else feel less guilty about theirs, I am HAPPY to 😂
What is more concerning than how your house looks is the state of the mind of someone who would comment like that. I’ve never thought your house looked messy in any way. Mine certainly is!
I don’t comment on here often as you know, we’re friends and I can just text you 😂 but I felt compelled 😂 cause I agree with you so much, I’m similar in that some people have amazing sets ups where they film and create incredible videos & photos & then here I am sat on my sofa or bed & taking fashion pics in the mirror 😂😂 Also you look amazing in this ❤ xxx
Hiya, completely get what you mean, I'm an overthinker and can equally feel crap for days if not weeks if iv said something off the cuff as well as some one saying something that I might of taken in a different context that was meant lol Your waxmas advent calender looks amazing!! Iv not had a sense of smell now for about 5 months but hoping it comes back 🤞is there a cut off date for ordering them please? Thank you, love all your videos keep doing you! ♥️Xx
Yes!!! I worry for years about something I said that the other person likely forgot immediately The advent will be on sale til we sell out OR we hit mid November cause we need to be sure you’ll get it in time for the 1st
Hi 👋, I love your channel because you are so real,don't ever take mean comments to heart and your house is a real loving family home, I always think what a fun mum you are,I always think people who make nasty comments are probably unhappy with their own lifes, have a lovely weekend at crazy golf ⛳, Kate 😊
@@MikhilaMcDaid I grew up in a tidy but sadly very controlled and violent house and did have a negative effect on me, I am happy but so disorganised and messy, I would have to have cleaners in for a week if I was on RUclips lol
Oh wow!! I’m so glad the negative comments didn’t bring you down!! How dare people think they can say stuff about someone 😡 I love your content! And your videos are my “settling down and getting comfy” kind of thing, if that makes sense?! I’ve been subscribed for ages,and, I happen to think your house is bloody lovely So there!! 😂 xx
Haha thank you! For the most part I’m very happy that people take their mean comments and keep them away from me.. I really do think there’s something to be said for that. There’s a difference between saying “oh my god, what is she wearing?” to your friend, out of earshot and saying it TO the person, y’know? It was just my bad luck that I saw it
I love so much that the bullies haven't got to you and we your dedicated audience love that you are your authentic self! "You only see other people the way that they have invited you in" I love this quote from you - this is so true and profound! Definitely one to go in your memoir
Thank you ♥️ my favourite people to watch are completely themselves. It’s literally all we have that’s just ours so why would we allow other people to make us feel ashamed or pressure us to hide who we are? And I am totally writing that down 😉😆
@@MikhilaMcDaid I used to watch quite a few influencer types but I've ditched watching everyone over the years other than you... the fake perfect lives just annoyed me more and more over time and became clear you were the only authentic person in my viewing feed... and that's why we love you ❤
You’re are living rent free in their heads! In order to leave mean comments they have to watch your videos! That tells you all you need to know, makes me laugh!
Stickering and filling those advent calendars would be a dream job for me (as long as I didn't have another job/work😂), I used to stuff envelopes as a teen and never has that level of satisfaction been reached again🙄🤣🤷♀️
It;s your age!! When I entered my 40"s it started. (I know your not 40 yet!) I t just did;t matter anymore. I am who I am and that's all . Congratuations! Self growth is amazing.
I have followed you for so long I can't even remember years I don't always comment but I'm totally with you when you say people invite you in to what they want you to see basically and yes off the subject but the McRib is mushy still in USA I think I used to love them but hmmm idk
@@MikhilaMcDaid Yes it is!! I feel like you are a friend to me 💓 and have known you for years You have not changed one bit You are still the same person and that's why I like you so much 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 xxx
Haha! Its true!! And my today self is mad at my yesterday self for drinking too much 😂 but I was glad my yesterday self went along with the plan my month ago self agreed to 🤷🏻♀️
I need to learn to ignore horrid comments. I can’t get over them at times, and then feel angry and resentful. Glad you can and will try again to adopt this stance x
It’s so much easier said than done but I think the key might be, “do I want to change who I am?” .. if not, then who cares? It can sting when someone hits on something you don’t like about yourself but if they pick on something you’re actually happy with.. their opinion is totally irrelevant
Who knew water was good for you 😂😂 My husband is an absolute pro at the lack of holding onto shiz. He has 0 f*cks to give and was always that way. I’m getting there, but I aspire to get to his level of peace ❤
Love your videos because you are 100% yourself! So happy that you this stupid comment didn’t get to you. Ive never understood the reason why people feel the need spending the time making these remarks ❤
Can you teach me how to let something go that quickly... I swear it's a superpower 😂 Keep being you. Hx 😊 - ignore the trolls total idiots with too much time to spare 🙄
Oh I wish I knew!! And I do think there’s a difference between mean gossips and trolls cause they have the decency to keep it to themselves on a seperate forum. Someone directing something cruel to you is definitely a different feeling. Maybe that would be harder to shake, I’m sure I’ll get chance to find out soon enough 😂
I find that whole thing weird. Very few people are above casual gossiping about people we know....but to seek out strangers online to gossip about other strangers with deliberate malicious intent, ODD!
Mmm.. I agree to a point but I know that I am not above gossip and I‘be certainly commented on instagram posts about vanderpump this when there was a much hated person.. is that better than this? I don’t know. The line for me between gossip forums and trolling is where it’s directed and they aren’t saying it TO me so, although it’s hurtful, I do think they aren’t being intentionally cruel and that’s.. better? The snippets you see do feel particularly horrid but maybe Google picks those BECAUSE they’re the worst 😂
I never ever saw it 😂 maybe something you said was flagged for spam but on the topic of the video - try to be less quick to assume someone has taken offence to something .. I’m guilty of that too but sometimes it’s not what you’re imagining 🤷🏻♀️
And that's what I appreciate about you. I've been following you from the beginning, and you haven't changed who you are. I love your authenticity.
Thank you ♥️
@@JasenomadeTV I do too she has not changed her authenticity is real 🤍
💯 this 👌🏼🫶🏻
I really appreciate you and all of your content. I've watched you for so many years and have always loved watching you. One of my comfort YTubers and love having your videos on in the back while I'm doing my make up or chores. That really is such growth that you didn't let that comment be any more than a fleeting feeling 🤍🤍 xxxxx
Thank you, Gigi ♥️ It’s has definitely become easier in the last year or so but that was a real “omg” moment 😂 what must it be like to just never be affected? Maybe I’ll find out!!! Maybe that’s the beauty of your 40s/50s and beyond.
@@MikhilaMcDaid Definitely as you get older things affect you less or maybe just differently. I'm 41 and definitely care way less about what others think of me and their opinions than I was when I was younger. It's wonderful to hear that it's been affecting you less. I never understand the vitriol some people spew on the Internet. Just know you're appreciated ❤️ Have a wonderful day ✨
And you ♥️
As soon as you said you realised you didn’t care about the mean comments I was crocheting at the time and just said ‘yes Khila!’ 😂. Totally just came out as I was listening. You know how you have your cosy programmes you watch, well, we all do, your vlogs are my cosy you tube 😊
Hahahaha I love that so much. PREACH” 🙌🏻
I love your channels and all your content. You feel like a friend because you are real and relatable. Those people are so cruel. I'm so glad you're not taking it on!! ❤
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Your vlogs are real, that’s what I like...no bullshit and you are so great to watch.
Thanks, Sarah!
Misery loves company! Don’t let them get to you❤
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Love your videos for many years because your authenticity. You are so special and I appreciate your attitude. Please keep going in your direction. Love from Israel❤
Thank you ♥️♥️♥️
I love watching your videos. They're so relaxing. Your candles are beautiful, and I can't wait to see the advent calendar.💛
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Excited for the Christmas candles! I always compare my house to other peoples and worry that I should be cleaning more. I don't know why I'm bothered to be honest! Your house looks fine to me. I love your decor. It always looks cosy x
Thank you, Kath!
Also.. when you’re round at someone’s house who you’re close enough to that they might leave a dish in the sink, you know you never think less of them for it! It’s an invented social pressure we should relieve ourselves from and of me showing my pile of recycling or washing I haven’t done yet helps someone else feel less guilty about theirs, I am HAPPY to 😂
Your house doesn't have to be immaculate to be clean, especially when you're living a real life with family and pets💜
What is more concerning than how your house looks is the state of the mind of someone who would comment like that. I’ve never thought your house looked messy in any way. Mine certainly is!
I don’t comment on here often as you know, we’re friends and I can just text you 😂 but I felt compelled 😂 cause I agree with you so much, I’m similar in that some people have amazing sets ups where they film and create incredible videos & photos & then here I am sat on my sofa or bed & taking fashion pics in the mirror 😂😂 Also you look amazing in this ❤ xxx
Thank you, Zoe!! I love you ♥️♥️♥️ obvs
@@MikhilaMcDaid love you too sweetie ❤❤❤
Yes to more real life and real people! 🙌🙌🙌
Hiya, completely get what you mean, I'm an overthinker and can equally feel crap for days if not weeks if iv said something off the cuff as well as some one saying something that I might of taken in a different context that was meant lol
Your waxmas advent calender looks amazing!! Iv not had a sense of smell now for about 5 months but hoping it comes back 🤞is there a cut off date for ordering them please?
Thank you, love all your videos keep doing you! ♥️Xx
Yes!!! I worry for years about something I said that the other person likely forgot immediately
The advent will be on sale til we sell out OR we hit mid November cause we need to be sure you’ll get it in time for the 1st
Love it Khila, “ I’m on a no buy I can’t do it , Oh that’s nice 😂ha ha xxx 😊
😂😂😂
Thank you so much for this video! Just what I needed! ❤️💐
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Keeping it real 😊
LOVE this xxx
Hi 👋, I love your channel because you are so real,don't ever take mean comments to heart and your house is a real loving family home, I always think what a fun mum you are,I always think people who make nasty comments are probably unhappy with their own lifes, have a lovely weekend at crazy golf ⛳, Kate 😊
Thank you ♥️ I didn’t grow up in a “perfect” house and I definitely don’t think that negatively impacted me 😂😂
@@MikhilaMcDaid I grew up in a tidy but sadly very controlled and violent house and did have a negative effect on me, I am happy but so disorganised and messy, I would have to have cleaners in for a week if I was on RUclips lol
Oh wow!! I’m so glad the negative comments didn’t bring you down!! How dare people think they can say stuff about someone 😡 I love your content! And your videos are my “settling down and getting comfy” kind of thing, if that makes sense?!
I’ve been subscribed for ages,and, I happen to think your house is bloody lovely
So there!! 😂 xx
Haha thank you! For the most part I’m very happy that people take their mean comments and keep them away from me.. I really do think there’s something to be said for that. There’s a difference between saying “oh my god, what is she wearing?” to your friend, out of earshot and saying it TO the person, y’know? It was just my bad luck that I saw it
Moral of the story… buy a Rustlers burger next time! 😆
I’m the same with work “social” things 😂 100% absolutely not, never do I want to spend my own time with 95% of my work colleagues 😂
I’m trying to get out of my comfort zone a bit but it’s been a long time since I went out with people I don’t know well 😬
It’s your life to live the way YOU choose 🎉
Never a truer word
I love so much that the bullies haven't got to you and we your dedicated audience love that you are your authentic self!
"You only see other people the way that they have invited you in" I love this quote from you - this is so true and profound! Definitely one to go in your memoir
Thank you ♥️ my favourite people to watch are completely themselves. It’s literally all we have that’s just ours so why would we allow other people to make us feel ashamed or pressure us to hide who we are? And I am totally writing that down 😉😆
@@MikhilaMcDaid I used to watch quite a few influencer types but I've ditched watching everyone over the years other than you... the fake perfect lives just annoyed me more and more over time and became clear you were the only authentic person in my viewing feed... and that's why we love you ❤
You’re are living rent free in their heads! In order to leave mean comments they have to watch your videos! That tells you all you need to know, makes me laugh!
Ha! You’re not wrong
Stickering and filling those advent calendars would be a dream job for me (as long as I didn't have another job/work😂), I used to stuff envelopes as a teen and never has that level of satisfaction been reached again🙄🤣🤷♀️
Hahaha!!
It;s your age!! When I entered my 40"s it started. (I know your not 40 yet!) I t just did;t matter anymore. I am who I am and that's all . Congratuations! Self growth is amazing.
Thank you!! Yes! Its magic!
I have followed you for so long I can't even remember years I don't always comment but I'm totally with you when you say people invite you in to what they want you to see basically and yes off the subject but the McRib is mushy still in USA I think I used to love them but hmmm idk
It’s unnecessarily gross, right?? And you comment lots! There are a handful of people I recognise as regulars and you’re in there
@@MikhilaMcDaid Yes it is!! I feel like you are a friend to me 💓 and have known you for years You have not changed one bit You are still the same person and that's why I like you so much 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 xxx
OMAG, that comment about past me agreeing to do something is literally my life. Really ND ❤
Haha! Its true!! And my today self is mad at my yesterday self for drinking too much 😂 but I was glad my yesterday self went along with the plan my month ago self agreed to 🤷🏻♀️
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I need to learn to ignore horrid comments. I can’t get over them at times, and then feel angry and resentful. Glad you can and will try again to adopt this stance x
It’s so much easier said than done but I think the key might be, “do I want to change who I am?” .. if not, then who cares? It can sting when someone hits on something you don’t like about yourself but if they pick on something you’re actually happy with.. their opinion is totally irrelevant
@@MikhilaMcDaid totally agree. Most people have a weird intuition to comment on the one thing that really hurts you x but
Am going to keep trying xx
Who knew water was good for you 😂😂
My husband is an absolute pro at the lack of holding onto shiz. He has 0 f*cks to give and was always that way. I’m getting there, but I aspire to get to his level of peace ❤
How many tumblers do you have 😂 I was tempted to buy the red Starbucks one you have but managed to stop myself 😊
So many 😂 they are totally worth it.. imo 😂😂
Love your videos because you are 100% yourself! So happy that you this stupid comment didn’t get to you. Ive never understood the reason why people feel the need spending the time making these remarks ❤
It’s not a great use of energy, I agree
Can you teach me how to let something go that quickly... I swear it's a superpower 😂 Keep being you. Hx 😊
- ignore the trolls total idiots with too much time to spare 🙄
Oh I wish I knew!! And I do think there’s a difference between mean gossips and trolls cause they have the decency to keep it to themselves on a seperate forum. Someone directing something cruel to you is definitely a different feeling. Maybe that would be harder to shake, I’m sure I’ll get chance to find out soon enough 😂
I find that whole thing weird. Very few people are above casual gossiping about people we know....but to seek out strangers online to gossip about other strangers with deliberate malicious intent, ODD!
Mmm.. I agree to a point but I know that I am not above gossip and I‘be certainly commented on instagram posts about vanderpump this when there was a much hated person.. is that better than this? I don’t know. The line for me between gossip forums and trolling is where it’s directed and they aren’t saying it TO me so, although it’s hurtful, I do think they aren’t being intentionally cruel and that’s.. better? The snippets you see do feel particularly horrid but maybe Google picks those BECAUSE they’re the worst 😂
@MikhilaMcDaid Yes perhaps not intentionally cruel....I stand by odd 🤣
I have no idea why you deleted my comment as I was agreeing with what you said and nothing bad?
I never ever saw it 😂 maybe something you said was flagged for spam but on the topic of the video - try to be less quick to assume someone has taken offence to something .. I’m guilty of that too but sometimes it’s not what you’re imagining 🤷🏻♀️
Just checked the comments held for review and it’s not there so your guess is as good as mine 😂
@@MikhilaMcDaid I didn't take an offence,I just wasn't sure why as I typed a lot haha.
No I meant don’t assume someone has taken offence and deleted a comment. Sometimes they just disappear. I’m mad I didn’t see it now 😂