My GF started watching a bit of this over my shoulder, and she sat down next to me and kept watching because "This boosts her self esteem more than therapy". She's a good person, and we're quite communicative.
@@m1ssmessy Indeed; When we met, she was shy and traumatized, and I was depressed. Now, She's happy and social, even if the depression of her trauma crops up every now and again, and I'm a heck of a lot less depressed, approaching happy.
I will never understand women who get mad that a guy doesn't take advantage of them while drunk. Like... that should be a good thing??? It shows that he's at least respectful and values consent. THAT'S A GOOD THING. Ffs. Edit: to clarify. If you are into CNC, communicate what with your partner while sober and come up with a safe word or phrase you'll remember while drunk to communicate if you are not consenting in that moment. If you don't communicate this desire to them while sober, don't get mad at them for not reading your mind and taking advantage of you while drunk! And also don't get mad at your partner if they aren't comfortable with CNC when you bring it up while sober! That's where my confusion is! Why would you not communicate with your partner about your specific desires and kinks! Not shaming women for being into CNC. Also for fuck sake this section got filled with so much misogyny from people assuming I'm a man for commenting this. No. I am not. I'm a woman. I'm just confused about the behavior of other women. So calm down.
I don’t get it, either. It’s just… if you want sex, be clear. Don’t get em drunk, don’t get drunk to see if that’ll “make it happen”, clarify what you want and be transparent about what you want. And JESUS, don’t get mad when they don’t “take advantage”, that’s just like… why. If you have fantasies, then clarify that. Maybe not on a first date, but in a safe space, with safe words and clear boundaries, with someone you trust. Have the boundaries, have that clarity, and Jesus Christ, don’t mince words then get mad when they don’t try to do anything, cause you never said you wanted it. Like, God forbid someone doesn’t pull shit that is very much r***y. Like, what the hell?
6:45 This remembers me of another video on here: "I you can't handle me at my worst, I'm proud of you for setting healthy boundaries" Because that's what heros do.
I'm not even half in the video and I'm getting so pissed at those "nice girls". If anyone is like this just cut them out of your life, they aren't worth the time and as a woman you can say to her f you, I really can't understand how their mind work. Thank you EmKay for this video and the hard work.
its fuckign reddit, everyone there is well MOST of them are shitty peaople, unluckaly for them they took billys poision so we wont be dealing with them anymore im not sure if thats a good thign or bad thing. get rid of thes ... things but its still +1 for depoulationist.
I thought Nicegirls was literally Nice girls so I was extremely confused for a minute. These are very obsessive ladies.. I forgot that these type of women existed, reminds me a lot of what I heard about Tumblr.
these are the types of girls to say "SLAYYY" and "YAASSS QUEEN" to another girl bullying a man because he didn't pay for her 1000$ dinner that she ate all by herself.
i’m a girl and women that are being disrespectful as hell towards men just because they’re men is frustrating and their personalities are always very annoying.
I’ve dated multiple nice girls. It took me the fourth one to learn all the “meanings of her texts” And this has caused me to be fearful of everything that a normal girl sends me because I don’t know if it has some hidden meaning But there are lots I learned from “nice girls”: - You are never, and I mean never, right. Even complimenting them makes you the villain because you didn’t “fully capture her beauty” or whatever - She is never wrong. She believes that every insane thing she does is normal, that it is natural, and she isn’t wrong for wanting to stab you to get a taste of your blood or to stab you because you didn’t compliment her hard enough. - You cannot like other women, not even your own family. You cannot say your mom looks beautiful, because that’s competition for the nice girl. You can’t say your little sister is cute, she will probably drown your little sister. You cannot hug your badass biker auntie you haven’t seen in a long time, she will get hyper-jealous - If she is hurt, physically or emotionally, then she is the most hurt that anyone has ever been and needs 24/7 companionship and constant attentions for the next few week or longer - If she breaks up with someone (either being broke up with or is the one who broke it up), then she is the damsel in distress because either her ex made a terrible decision and he is a bad person or she is too good for him because he didn’t know how to make a three course meal from scratch - Finally, your entire world is meant to revolve around her. You get freetime when she permits it, you can relax when she lets you, you can experience emotions other than love for her when she allows it. Just don’t tell her that you are faking the last one, or she will kill you - She will play everything she actually thinks is a mistake or wrong as a “whoopsies!” or throw a massive pity party and try to make you feel bad for her
You know, it's really difficult to not accidentally become a "nice-girl." But when you do have those moments, try and reflect on yourself and do better. Not just for the person you hurt, but also for yourself. It's so much more rewarding knowing you've improved yourself than continuing being a toxic jerk trying to blame the entire world for things you've caused.
ye i bacame a nice girl for a few months then just one night the before bed thoughts cam ein and reflected on life and saw how it was effecting people around me and who i am and it felt really nice that i saw things improve and my relation ships and i got rid of toxic people after seeing how they affected me and thought of what i thought then i thought they were like me amd yes they were but i thought they were cool and we related and we did have fun but usually at the expence of others it felt so nice to see things improve after i took a mental break and self reflected people around me started to become more happy and i built trust with people who i thought i'd never like but now are best of friends and it improved my opinion and judgment on situations and admitedly it was hard to go back but it felt way nicer and it was helping me it also helped me understand what some other people were experiencing like there was a bully at my school and well at first i thought uh just another joke but then i understood what was happening and i think self reflecting is really important and well it is i hope others can also see my coment and yours
This. Self reflection (or the lack of it) is the reason behind nice guys and nice girls. Self reflection is kinda like the brain’s first aid kit. It gives you a chance to diagnose and treat any problems and bad traits before they fester. Those who don’t have first aid kits or don’t use theirs will eventually have their problems grow into something so big they can’t fix alone (a hospital visit in this analogy)
yes! i’ve always a lot of problems with being possessive and i get jealous really easily. It’s ended many, many friendship in my life. Over years i’ve improved and grown, though the possessiveness is still there i’ve learned to ignore it and not act on it. It’s one of my fears to become someone like this. Behavior like this needs talked about more, because despite not acting on it and knowing it’s wrong and unreasonable it doesn’t go away. The feelings and jealousy doesn’t just stop. You can learn to get better, you can act better, but the feelings don’t go away. It’s hard to find people to talk about it because it’s either they don’t understand why you feel this way or they think feeling this way is okay. Neither help. Edit: Here’s some possible help for anyone struggling with being possessive over someone. The last thing you want is to feel entitled to someone’s time or to them, I know feelings like this can’t be helped a lot of the time but it’s really a bad thing and if you act on them you will ruin whatever relationship you have with the other person. What can help is channeling that “this is m i n e” feelings into personal belongings like books, blankets, toys, or decorations :). It gives an outlet to let you feel those things without causing any harm or bottling it up until it explodes. I personally am very possessive of my sketch books, but really anything can work :). It’s nice to have something that’s just yours, and your entitled to your own things, but your not entitled to anything about anyone else. I hope this can help at least one person
yikes. I remember the first time I heard about "niceguys" "nicegirls" I was on a first date and she asked me. "Ok so I want to get all the information I can. So tell me three strengths you have." I was caught off guard and just listed off what I could think of. "Well, I'm told I'm a good listener, I can be funny, and I try to be nice." She FLIPS out on me going on and on about "Niceguy" this and "Niceguy" that. How I'm a horrible person because I said I was a nice guy and then storms out. I just sat there thinking. "ok... when did this become a thing? Is that a thing? I need to google this."
Yeah ew. The difference is that "niceguys" will gaslight and victimize themselves and try to get pity because they're "such a nice guy" and "anyone would be lucky to have such a nice gentlemen" and how "all girls are the same they never want a nice guy like me!" Saying "I try to be nice" and her going off on you for that?...lmfao shes really...quite a dense one aint she
r/nicegirls in a nutshell: > woman interested in a man > she is getting a huge L > woman gets mad or > woman does something in relationship > they break up > woman gets mad
the line "jolly as a fucking rancher" was so damn unexpectedly hilarious that i'm going to integrate it into my every day usage when expressing literally any positive emotion.
I just realized that nice girls make nice guys. With the whole “If you don’t chase after me when I fake leave you, I don’t want you.” And then nice guys are out here literally chasing down girls because they want to “give the girls a chance to be with them”.
For the longest time I really thought that most of the stuff NiceGuys complain about girls was either exaggerated or straight up made up but after I started listening to readings from this sub I started to think that perhaps I was wrong on that, maybe this is the real reason why we can’t make them date the other because none of them would fit the super high standards they may have
@@monus782 They’re not exaggerated or made up, they’re the mindset of mentally messed up guys that usually eventually end up killing people for the “incel rebellion” if they take it far enough. So the fact that you’re reasoning with that makes me kind of uncomfortable and probably a lot of other people too. I’m just saying that Nice Girls, who are just as messed up as Nice Guys, are basically aiding the mindset of Nice Guys which makes it all even more dangerous.
Dude, my grandma (dad’s mother) was jealous of me as a baby because her husband just loved me to death. Like, he was A+ tier grandpa and she looked my other grandma in the eyes and said “She’s all he talks about. I’m honestly jealous!”
So if I am correct. These girls want you to endlessly harass them both mentally and physically without restraint, care only about their toxic personality and not their looks, do not even BREATHE in another females direction, become a master of psychology in order to understand each and every audible cue of what she wants or how she feels, never ask for anything, give them everything, do not care about yourself and your personal time, and let them cheat on you whenever they want... Bruh.
As a girl all of the “if she’s walking away chase her” shit makes me so pissed off. If I’m “walking away” it means I do need space so that I won’t say something harmful or mean in the heat of the moment since that isn’t fair to the person I’m mad at in the scenario. If I’m “walking away” fucking leave me be for like 5 minutes and we good. I don’t get the play hard to get or the say what you don’t mean thing, since all it achieves is more anger, mixed messages, and a boy who is probably more pissed off then he was at the start.
See people hate anime protagonists that are super dense, but maybe they've just been conditioned by nicegirls to not touch that crap with a 10ft stick.
The part where she says, I'm allowed to be sexist, make me disgusted. As a girl, men get so much hate put on them by people like this. These "nice girls" love to twist things men say and then act like they are the victim. Smh.
I don't think there's a more irritating double standard than when a woman practically throws herself on you to get down and dirty, and gets mad/aggressive when you aren't interested. You aren't entitled to shit. "No means NO" goes both ways, sweetheart.
@@chi8939 focus on your career buddy. Go to college and get a STEM degree. Get a masters from Ivy league and enjoy life. These woman are not worth your time. You have one life, fill it with jaw dropping success.
I have a fun idea lets put all those "no females are prettier than me and im the best" in one room and let them fight it out to see who is the "best" then you send her to jail and forget about them.
The girl I loved and still love had treated me like a normal person and didn’t see me as some guy with mental issues and was genuinely kind to me and was happy for my advice and my friendship. We wished for the best in each other and supported each other. Seeing these videos of Nice guy/girls is a basket of mixed feelings cause I’m happy for the funny content and I got to experience what I had, sad I lost someone so precious to me, and upset how people can/would treat others like this, I hope anyone who watches these videos and thinking they won’t find their own love or think they’ll be treated horribly by their partners, please endure and believe, I know and believe you find yourself someone who can see the best in you and treasure your company.
Thank you and I hope you’re doing better after going through that, I’ve been single all my life and have sometimes felt lonely for it but for me this sub is a reminder that it could be much worse and that I should be grateful that I’m not in a toxic, even abusive, relationship with anyone like the women featured here or at least I should be careful what I wish for. The NiceGuys sub has been a useful lesson on what I should not do when trying to date and find a partner and it has motivated me to improve myself as a person, I’m really trying to not fall into the fatalistic mentality some of the more extreme ones have and hold on to the hope that indeed some day I’ll find the person I can share my life with. Again I wish nothing but the best for you as well.
fcking relatable I, as an official member of the male community, also officially reject those people as both potential partners and future members of our community. The do not apply to our ToS. But we would like to offer them for the Transition community, maybe they want them?
as a representative of the non-binary community, we respectfully decline your offer. I would like to pass on this 'generous' offer to the lesbian community.
Taken out of context, it could be taken both ways You'll never find a girl like me being right, she's an asshole Breaking up with me is the worst thing you've ever done being right, either you've never done anything worse than a breakup before and this is the first time you've done one, or you have to live with the guilt of breaking up with her.
If I girl ever says “you’ll never find a girl like me” after she does something stupid repeatedly and I dump her, I’ll simply reply with “oh thank god”
This reminds me of something that happened last week. Me and my friends were chatting and stuff, and some girls came over and wanted us to move. But they were being total b*tches about it. When we refused, they tried to pull me over and hit my friend. My friend was having none of it, and when the person who was trying to fight him said something along the lines of "you can't hit a girl" he slapped her 8n the face so hard she almost fell over
I mean, I get that your friend was defending himself, but that's a legal slippery slope; he could easily go to jail for assault even if a woman started the altercation. Kinda just sucks like that. My husband has had several women try to hit him or throw things in his face: he walks away because he's way stronger and knows that legally he'd get in trouble. Makes me mad as heck tho on his behalf.
The really long text message, the chick complains about how the guy “played with her emotions” and then tries to get the guy to pity her, which is playing with HIS emotions. King didn’t listen to her nonsense
To be fair when that video was originally released it was before everything had fully come out, now that it has we can see with hindsight he didn't really do anything wrong, but it wasn't known at that time
To anyone, but especially men, who's had to deal with these "Nice Girls"--I'm so sorry. You deserve better. I hope you find someone who values you. You deserve someone who doesn't play mind games with you or make you feel like you're walking on eggshells 24/7. Someone who communicates clearly and wants to be an equal. Someone who makes you feel loved as much as you love them.
Oh I was best friends with a nice girl, it was torture. She kept blaming me for things that was happening in her life, including stuff I couldn’t control at all. I ended that friendship after she blamed me for (what then was) Russian invasion of Ukraine. I did tell her that I was Slav and she though I was apart of it
2:20 There was only ONE SINGLE rule in the chivalry code that was about respecting women. Every. Single. Other. Rule was about proper battle etiquette and how to be respectful towards your opponents
55:55 In Grease, a major part of the plot is Danny doing everything in his power to change for Sandy. He literally changes his whole life and attitude for her, and she gets a makeover at the end.
I think it's hilarious how being toxic, controlling and abusive is being a nice girl or girlboss to these people. It's not. It's just cringe and disgusting.
It's a play on words. It's the female version of "nice guys", dudes that are nice to a girl, then believe that's makes them entitled to the girls entire life
@@ntfoperative9432 Exactly. Which leads to my over-arching theory: if you think you are nice or good, you are probably horrible. Good people always think that they could do better.
Like the r/niceguys video, some of these radiate pure crazy, while others, I just feel bad for them because they just seem like they're children who experienced heartbreak for the first time and have no clue how to deal with it.
Idk who’s out here making the 6’+ guys king, but, as someone who is 5’8”, an instinctual fight or flight response automatically appears when I see someone taller than me.
@@DeathShiniGama brat and brat tamer means something else entirely... as in, it's respectful, consensual and pre-negotiated. i get the mistake, but a brat in BDSM terms is a submissive who sometimes disobeys or challenges their dom on purpose, the dom (brat tamer) will in turn put them back in their (pre-negotiated) place. it's a playful back and forth that should be fun for both parties, and safe words can be used if a line is crossed with either party
If a nice guy and girl met, they would either turn into r/entitledparents if they got along, or within a few minutes they would be found dead side by side with multiple knives inside of them and on fire
I am 13 and I know girls in my grade like this. Males need to be treated better. I hear so much crap from females saying "I'm allowed to do these things, don't you respect women?" to men. That's. Not. Equality. Edit: Hello! One year later. I've been waiting for someone to interact with this comment again so I can say that I'm not some mature person. I'm probably just as annoying to them. I'm literally just another kid on the internet with opinions. This has been on my mind for a while. Thanks, bye :)
I'm proud of you for being so mature at your age! Sadly, it took me a few more years and probably more unwarranted insults to people who didn't deserve it for me to realize this. :( Not that you asked for it, but my advice is to remember this emotionally mature side of you when a guy or anyone hurts you. It can be shockingly easy to be passive aggressive, manipulative, or a nice girl just to get back at them without even realizing that that's what you're doing and becoming. Best of luck to you!
That the sad truth about this world we live people said man have it easy but we actually don't why do you think man have a lot more unalive they self than women the world is truly sad
@@g.n.a4871 Nobody has it easy. Gender roles are as harmful to men as they are to women. But I feel obligated to point out that women in general do not have easier lives. Just think about sexual harassment, sexual violence, domestic abuse, wage gaps, and governments telling women what to do with their bodies. Not saying that this doesn't happen to men too, but it's disproportionately on women. Plus microaggressions like, "you just got beat by a girl!" etc. Your struggle as a man is absolutely real, but male privilege definitely exists.
I'm taking severe psychic damage watching this compilation. I normally play these in the background but with this one I keep feeling like I'm going to throw up every time I hear these nice girl conversations
I realized that the line between girl power memes and toxic Nice Girl memes is VEEEERY thin. Also. WTF IS WITH GIRLS HATING ON SHORT MEN?! LIKE IM 5’3 AND I WOULDNT MIND A GUY THAT’S MY HEIGHT. **Loud visible confusion**
Bro, I am VERY short, and when I hear girls saying "Ew, he's short", I tell them to shut the hell up, because that is also my height, so they dissin' on the both of us. SHORT PEOPLE SHOULDN'T BE JUDGED SO EASILY.
@@RealLpsAngelEyesOfficial as a tall 6'3 guy, being short is equal maybe even better. Its hard to sit in short places, its hard to enter a place with a short doors. It may make us look better but I really dont care about my look. So being tall is just inconvinient. So all of your short kings be happy you're atleast not a palm tree like us
@@blesskurunai9213 being tall is also really bad for the back. Looking down at everything means constantly bending your spine forwards and that makes aches over the years. Being tall is not nearly as fun as it sounds.
Uggghhhh jfc it's insufferable. I'm non-binary but AFAB and didn't start identifying as non-binary until earlier this year. Anyway, I've always split the bill on first dates. Always. For the same reasons Damien said; we don't know if this is gonna go anywhere, so why should either person put ALL the money into it themselves? And I definitely had dates go wrong because I, someone who previously just identified as a woman, asked to pay my part of the bill. Women were usually okay with it, but there was a handful of men that got seriously offended that I asked to pay my part. That just tells me they're not someone I'm compatible with. I don't wanna be with anyone that upholds social constructs, especially ones that were founded on toxic masculinity/femininity and sexism. When my current partner and I went on our first date, he had been out of work with an injury so didn't have much money, and I had just moved from part time to full time and didn't have much money. But we HAD to see each other, it didn't matter. He was totally fine splitting the cost of the date with me, even a little surprised that I offered. I paid for the movie (Joker, 2019) and he paid for dinner (Mexican, nothing too expensive but was still delicious and honestly I just remember being with him, I don't even remember the food). We'll be together for four years this October and we still split the cost of things (we're not living together yet, but soon). It blows my mind that people don't understand that relationships are PARTNERSHIPS. Sometimes he has an extra bill or a short week at work and so I buy the food/take care of the date. Sometimes I had an extra bill or what have you, so he buys the food/takes care of the date. The reason we're not currently living together? I'm not currently in a place where I'd be able to support MY share of the expenses, and I refuse to put all of that on him just to live together. It's a partnership, and we should both always be contributing to our relationship and our future together. I refuse to subscribe to the fucked-up concept that just because he's a dude, he should be paying for everything. Nope. Relationships are PARTNERSHIPS, people. They work best when the both of you are contributing to the betterment of your relationship/your future together. They work best when the respect is MUTUAL.
I’m bisexual and if my significant other were to do anything for me I’d be forever thankful. Idk why so many girls expect perfect relationships and people to pay for everything.
More generally, I don't understand why so many girls go into relationships expecting that the guy has to change his life so it revolves around her, but she doesn't have to change anything at all.
@@Stefan_38 yeah but its my decision too because yeah im too low before like im a loser it was a miracle i got her at that time and after realizing that im not doing anything at all to improve myself i did i got the motto that "being weak but striving and working to get stronger is more better than staying weak" but yeah it was my decision too and it helped me because i ain't stayin at my phone 24/7 now and i workout, taking care of my health and hygiene, trying to be a goodcook atleast and many more so yeah i think it more like a blessing to me.
Maybe their parents never argued in front of them. My parents do it. Not that they are fighting every day, but when they have a disagreement, they aren't afraid to do it with their kids (me and my little brother, though we are 14 and 17) around. Their logic is that it doesn't really matter, and it also shows the children that people disagree with eachother, even if they're married, and disagreeing with someone doesn't mean you don't love them. A perfect relationship doesn't exist. That's why I also think it's important to talk when you are in one, especially when you have problems with eachother. Maybe not when you're angry, some people need space when they are, but don't use the silent treatment, it solves absolutely nothing. Talk it out.
Off topic but for some odd reason, Damien gives me Raphael (TMNT) vibes when reading these prompts. Like, imagine Raph going to Donnie's lab and going to reddit in his spare time just to laugh and waste some time. Could it be the accent? The deep voice? I dunno, but fits nice and snug in my child-like brain.
Imagine having the audacity to call yourself a "Nice and caring girl" to the same person you tried to cheat on your boyfriend with. 54:44 I saw something similar to this but it was more like "when you start an argument with your bae for no reason and he ends up leaving ur ass". Alright, gotta say it. How do these women probably get these same turn arounds of compliments turned into insults when rejected?
the "words women use" thing can actually be true but its entirely based on tone. if it means what is said there you should probably know (men can use this terminology too. passive aggressiveness is not a purely female trait)
This is true. The problem occurs when this communication happens through text where you cannot use tone of voice to express things. In text form people can only take your words as they are and hope it's right. A lot of arguments are born through this.
As someone who tries to communicate honest and transparent when angry i really hate this "words woman use" chard deeply. Like pls don't let some r/nicegirl define what i mean holy fuck
@@cainothecreator8363 Exactly, we've created almost a new language in text group chats because we don't have that tone (usually using emojis or such) but when it's plain words on a screen you can't tell what the tone is, and tone plays a big part in conversations. Even just simple sentences/words can be confusing over text, while in person you can convey more emotion
Literature doesn't always have this problem because the words used there are more descriptive and can take their time to explain specific emotions, while texting is usually for quick communication, efficiency in writing is being pushed to near extremes with abbreviations like: lol, omg, tbh. words that use simple meanings to be easily interpreted: laughter, panic/excitement, honesty. It arguably compromises sophistication and depth for speed and efficiency. This is a surprisingly fascinating subject that I did not expect to be writing about at 11 PM
Same, I’ve been single all my life and have felt lonely as well for it but this sub is a nice reminder that it could be much worse and that I should be careful what to wish for
I appreciate when the guy pays for the date, but I always offer to pay for my own food and I won't let him take me out somewhere expensive. Somewhere expensive makes me feel uncomfortable
I had to watch this in smaller parts because my faith in humanity was sinking lower and lower with each post. how do these overly entitled people exist? ~Nova
No, men are men, women are women, frogs are frogs and spiders and cockroaches are demons. Everything and everyone is the gender they choose to be and the species they are, unless they’re a spider or a cockroach, then they’re demons
I thought this was a fourteen minute video and I sat down to do an hour’s of work and I was pleasantly surprised it was still going, I thought auto play lol. These long videos kick ass
There are a few posts here and there that make me wonder if the girl actually isn't attracted to men and just thinks that she dating men is something she has to put up with because of heteronormativity Doesn't excuse their behavior but I wonder sometimes
42:42 alright. So, a Yandere, as UD put it, is a female who cares a lot about their love interest, almost always unhealthily so, and when someone is perceived to be getting between her and LI's "perfect love" they lose it and try and cut them from the equation entirely. Think Yuno Gasai from Mirai Nikki (yes, I know that's usually the "go-to" response, but it's an easy example to pull)
chivalry only had one section on how to treat ladies and if we're just basing it on historical evidence instead of whats written then just not getting an umbrella is pretty good
6:00 I love this person. This person has said everything that I wish I would’ve said in that situation. If someone said this to me, I’d probably marry them. Boundaries are beautiful!
The one thing I have noticed in all these is the sheer sense of entitlement in these girls. As if they deserve to be treated like Queens and don't want to give anything back. They need to look up what it means to be a Queen. It means to be a protecter and doing what is best for everyone under their leadership, not just looking out for yourself and getting your own way all the time. I don't know about anyone else, but I for one am sooooo sick of this toxic femininity bs.
10:03 problem I see with this one is that she gets a new car every year, showing a considerable lack of commitment and control with money, which can easily point to a questionable personality in other regards.
My GF started watching a bit of this over my shoulder, and she sat down next to me and kept watching because "This boosts her self esteem more than therapy".
She's a good person, and we're quite communicative.
Now this shit makes me happy
@@m1ssmessy Indeed; When we met, she was shy and traumatized, and I was depressed. Now, She's happy and social, even if the depression of her trauma crops up every now and again, and I'm a heck of a lot less depressed, approaching happy.
@@justsomejerseydevilwithint4606 Nice for you both. I hope this improves even more over time!
@@mikethegoo That is indeed the plan.
@@justsomejerseydevilwithint4606 great!
I will never understand women who get mad that a guy doesn't take advantage of them while drunk. Like... that should be a good thing??? It shows that he's at least respectful and values consent. THAT'S A GOOD THING. Ffs.
Edit: to clarify. If you are into CNC, communicate what with your partner while sober and come up with a safe word or phrase you'll remember while drunk to communicate if you are not consenting in that moment. If you don't communicate this desire to them while sober, don't get mad at them for not reading your mind and taking advantage of you while drunk! And also don't get mad at your partner if they aren't comfortable with CNC when you bring it up while sober!
That's where my confusion is! Why would you not communicate with your partner about your specific desires and kinks! Not shaming women for being into CNC.
Also for fuck sake this section got filled with so much misogyny from people assuming I'm a man for commenting this. No. I am not. I'm a woman. I'm just confused about the behavior of other women. So calm down.
Yes they should
They write fanfics as a teen and refuse to believe anything that isnt in their fanfic, probably
Then they can't use it to control you that's what they're upset about just so you know
I had to read that twice 😂
I don’t get it, either. It’s just… if you want sex, be clear. Don’t get em drunk, don’t get drunk to see if that’ll “make it happen”, clarify what you want and be transparent about what you want. And JESUS, don’t get mad when they don’t “take advantage”, that’s just like… why. If you have fantasies, then clarify that. Maybe not on a first date, but in a safe space, with safe words and clear boundaries, with someone you trust. Have the boundaries, have that clarity, and Jesus Christ, don’t mince words then get mad when they don’t try to do anything, cause you never said you wanted it. Like, God forbid someone doesn’t pull shit that is very much r***y. Like, what the hell?
“There’s a bridge outside, I think I might jump”
My brain, conditioned by memes: “Do a flip”
"No! Dont jump!"
*sets up camera*
"Ok, now jump!"
@@nathanjereb9944 average ASDF fan
Lol I'd tell them "make sure you flap your arms to try and fly"
“Back at it again at crispy creams”
@@Nemless6661 *backflips into sign*
I love how the "I'm allowed to be sexist" girl admitted herself that she was stupid by saying that her bf was smarter than her.
"All men are stupid but I am even more!"
that’s what i was thinking, surprised the guy didn’t touch on that.
Girl admitted she was stupid when she said that she’s allowed to be sexist
@@bauhausliker0 i would have nitpicked every small falsehood in there just to stick it to em
bro any bf that girl gets is automatically smarter than her tho
6:45
This remembers me of another video on here: "I you can't handle me at my worst, I'm proud of you for setting healthy boundaries"
Because that's what heros do.
I'm not even half in the video and I'm getting so pissed at those "nice girls". If anyone is like this just cut them out of your life, they aren't worth the time and as a woman you can say to her f you, I really can't understand how their mind work.
Thank you EmKay for this video and the hard work.
Lmao exactly
Im 3 mins in and i agree with you 100%
Well spoken, not even halfway into the video either. As a women, I too am pissed.
its fuckign reddit, everyone there is well MOST of them are shitty peaople, unluckaly for them they took billys poision so we wont be dealing with them anymore im not sure if thats a good thign or bad thing. get rid of thes ... things but its still +1 for depoulationist.
I thought Nicegirls was literally Nice girls so I was extremely confused for a minute. These are very obsessive ladies..
I forgot that these type of women existed, reminds me a lot of what I heard about Tumblr.
I like to listen to this while drawing. Gives me an idea on what type of personality I should give to my most hateful characters.
LMAO
wonderful idea
thats genius lol
well...which vids do you listen to get ideas on your most loving characters?
@@Rebirth._ I normally listen to r/wholesome
these are the types of girls to say "SLAYYY" and "YAASSS QUEEN" to another girl bullying a man because he didn't pay for her 1000$ dinner that she ate all by herself.
*agrees in agreement*
Makes me wanna yeet them out a window through the screen.
this kind of thing makes me sympathize with murderers
Litterally every female teenagernowadays
i’m a girl and women that are being disrespectful as hell towards men just because they’re men is frustrating and their personalities are always very annoying.
“In a relationship, one person is always right and the other person is a male”
My sister and her gf watching this:
👁👄👁
Gay men watching this: 👁️👄👁️
I’m imagining the spidermen pointing at each other now.
@@projectxv3066 I was just thinking this-
It could work with gay men:
Man 1 is always right, and the other is a male
@@Alpha-zb8sp I MEAN, yea
I’ve dated multiple nice girls. It took me the fourth one to learn all the “meanings of her texts”
And this has caused me to be fearful of everything that a normal girl sends me because I don’t know if it has some hidden meaning
But there are lots I learned from “nice girls”:
- You are never, and I mean never, right. Even complimenting them makes you the villain because you didn’t “fully capture her beauty” or whatever
- She is never wrong. She believes that every insane thing she does is normal, that it is natural, and she isn’t wrong for wanting to stab you to get a taste of your blood or to stab you because you didn’t compliment her hard enough.
- You cannot like other women, not even your own family. You cannot say your mom looks beautiful, because that’s competition for the nice girl. You can’t say your little sister is cute, she will probably drown your little sister. You cannot hug your badass biker auntie you haven’t seen in a long time, she will get hyper-jealous
- If she is hurt, physically or emotionally, then she is the most hurt that anyone has ever been and needs 24/7 companionship and constant attentions for the next few week or longer
- If she breaks up with someone (either being broke up with or is the one who broke it up), then she is the damsel in distress because either her ex made a terrible decision and he is a bad person or she is too good for him because he didn’t know how to make a three course meal from scratch
- Finally, your entire world is meant to revolve around her. You get freetime when she permits it, you can relax when she lets you, you can experience emotions other than love for her when she allows it. Just don’t tell her that you are faking the last one, or she will kill you
- She will play everything she actually thinks is a mistake or wrong as a “whoopsies!” or throw a massive pity party and try to make you feel bad for her
God dang did u write all of that?
@@Potato_power12 7 months ago. I’m an author, so I easily get carried away typing/writing a lot out of habit
Holy shit this sounds ABUSIVE AS HELL? Dang, Nicegirls and Niceguys are really fucking horrible oh my god
This, definitely this
aka a guide of how not to act when i start dating
You know, it's really difficult to not accidentally become a "nice-girl." But when you do have those moments, try and reflect on yourself and do better. Not just for the person you hurt, but also for yourself. It's so much more rewarding knowing you've improved yourself than continuing being a toxic jerk trying to blame the entire world for things you've caused.
someone's butthurt
Yup
ye i bacame a nice girl for a few months then just one night the before bed thoughts cam ein and reflected on life and saw how it was effecting people around me and who i am and it felt really nice that i saw things improve and my relation ships and i got rid of toxic people after seeing how they affected me and thought of what i thought then i thought they were like me amd yes they were but i thought they were cool and we related and we did have fun but usually at the expence of others it felt so nice to see things improve after i took a mental break and self reflected people around me started to become more happy and i built trust with people who i thought i'd never like but now are best of friends and it improved my opinion and judgment on situations and admitedly it was hard to go back but it felt way nicer and it was helping me it also helped me understand what some other people were experiencing like there was a bully at my school and well at first i thought uh just another joke but then i understood what was happening and i think self reflecting is really important and well it is i hope others can also see my coment and yours
This. Self reflection (or the lack of it) is the reason behind nice guys and nice girls. Self reflection is kinda like the brain’s first aid kit. It gives you a chance to diagnose and treat any problems and bad traits before they fester. Those who don’t have first aid kits or don’t use theirs will eventually have their problems grow into something so big they can’t fix alone (a hospital visit in this analogy)
yes! i’ve always a lot of problems with being possessive and i get jealous really easily. It’s ended many, many friendship in my life. Over years i’ve improved and grown, though the possessiveness is still there i’ve learned to ignore it and not act on it. It’s one of my fears to become someone like this.
Behavior like this needs talked about more, because despite not acting on it and knowing it’s wrong and unreasonable it doesn’t go away. The feelings and jealousy doesn’t just stop. You can learn to get better, you can act better, but the feelings don’t go away. It’s hard to find people to talk about it because it’s either they don’t understand why you feel this way or they think feeling this way is okay. Neither help.
Edit: Here’s some possible help for anyone struggling with being possessive over someone.
The last thing you want is to feel entitled to someone’s time or to them, I know feelings like this can’t be helped a lot of the time but it’s really a bad thing and if you act on them you will ruin whatever relationship you have with the other person. What can help is channeling that “this is m i n e” feelings into personal belongings like books, blankets, toys, or decorations :). It gives an outlet to let you feel those things without causing any harm or bottling it up until it explodes. I personally am very possessive of my sketch books, but really anything can work :).
It’s nice to have something that’s just yours, and your entitled to your own things, but your not entitled to anything about anyone else. I hope this can help at least one person
yikes.
I remember the first time I heard about "niceguys" "nicegirls" I was on a first date and she asked me. "Ok so I want to get all the information I can. So tell me three strengths you have."
I was caught off guard and just listed off what I could think of. "Well, I'm told I'm a good listener, I can be funny, and I try to be nice."
She FLIPS out on me going on and on about "Niceguy" this and "Niceguy" that. How I'm a horrible person because I said I was a nice guy and then storms out. I just sat there thinking. "ok... when did this become a thing? Is that a thing? I need to google this."
Be thankful you only had to spend a minimal amount of time with that person
jeez
Yeah ew. The difference is that "niceguys" will gaslight and victimize themselves and try to get pity because they're "such a nice guy" and "anyone would be lucky to have such a nice gentlemen" and how "all girls are the same they never want a nice guy like me!"
Saying "I try to be nice" and her going off on you for that?...lmfao shes really...quite a dense one aint she
@@Atan55555 she obviously has a walnut brain. People like that should apologize to the trees that made their oxygen just to be wasted
Simply put
Dumbass was looking for someone with a low self-concept that so they can push you around
r/nicegirls in a nutshell:
> woman interested in a man
> she is getting a huge L
> woman gets mad
or
> woman does something in relationship
> they break up
> woman gets mad
Or she's single and doesn't understand she has the personality of a walnut
The illusion of choice
the line "jolly as a fucking rancher" was so damn unexpectedly hilarious that i'm going to integrate it into my every day usage when expressing literally any positive emotion.
I just realized that nice girls make nice guys. With the whole “If you don’t chase after me when I fake leave you, I don’t want you.” And then nice guys are out here literally chasing down girls because they want to “give the girls a chance to be with them”.
They really be out here fuelling the other sides
For the longest time I really thought that most of the stuff NiceGuys complain about girls was either exaggerated or straight up made up but after I started listening to readings from this sub I started to think that perhaps I was wrong on that, maybe this is the real reason why we can’t make them date the other because none of them would fit the super high standards they may have
@@monus782 They’re not exaggerated or made up, they’re the mindset of mentally messed up guys that usually eventually end up killing people for the “incel rebellion” if they take it far enough. So the fact that you’re reasoning with that makes me kind of uncomfortable and probably a lot of other people too. I’m just saying that Nice Girls, who are just as messed up as Nice Guys, are basically aiding the mindset of Nice Guys which makes it all even more dangerous.
they make each other but also hate each other
@@monus782Why don’t we just say both suck and call it a day?
Imagine being jealous of a cat getting attention from its owner. Dude's got his priorities straight.
Dude, my grandma (dad’s mother) was jealous of me as a baby because her husband just loved me to death. Like, he was A+ tier grandpa and she looked my other grandma in the eyes and said “She’s all he talks about. I’m honestly jealous!”
I think she meant that as a jike...
Joke*
I love this. It's a whole list of "what not to do if you wanna be a decent person".
Damien: what a yandere
Siri: tells what a yandere is
Damien: OH YIKES!
"I will spread rumors about you!"
Meanwhile he literally has photographic evidence of her trying to cheat on her man...
So if I am correct. These girls want you to endlessly harass them both mentally and physically without restraint, care only about their toxic personality and not their looks, do not even BREATHE in another females direction, become a master of psychology in order to understand each and every audible cue of what she wants or how she feels, never ask for anything, give them everything, do not care about yourself and your personal time, and let them cheat on you whenever they want... Bruh.
Hearing Damien's voice always makes my day better
That's not Damien bro....
Damien left EmKay to make the Damien Lee and DeeLee RUclips channels.
@@Punky_TallKnightStan its made up of old videos when Damien was still in Emkay. So technically....
That is Damien
@@Le_00F k
@@Punky_TallKnightStan bro literally 7 out of the 8 videos in this collection is voiced by Damian
I miss himm
As a girl all of the “if she’s walking away chase her” shit makes me so pissed off. If I’m “walking away” it means I do need space so that I won’t say something harmful or mean in the heat of the moment since that isn’t fair to the person I’m mad at in the scenario. If I’m “walking away” fucking leave me be for like 5 minutes and we good. I don’t get the play hard to get or the say what you don’t mean thing, since all it achieves is more anger, mixed messages, and a boy who is probably more pissed off then he was at the start.
See people hate anime protagonists that are super dense, but maybe they've just been conditioned by nicegirls to not touch that crap with a 10ft stick.
Ah, yes, but you're thinking with a healthy, normal view of relationships, not a manipulative psychotic version of them.
My frontal lobe has been _rapidly_ deteriorating ever since i attempted to understand these people
I wish for your recovery.
Damn only your frontal lobe?
My spinal chord is rotting as well
I can barely even stand now
Especially from that 'yandere' one. I am sick of that crap, it's creepy.
The part where she says, I'm allowed to be sexist, make me disgusted. As a girl, men get so much hate put on them by people like this. These "nice girls" love to twist things men say and then act like they are the victim. Smh.
it's like saying you're allowed to be racist if you're black
i feel super bad for everyone who has to deal with nice girls/guys
They are not niceguys or nicegirls they just cnts and a holes, Americans need to stop using those dumb phrases
I don't think there's a more irritating double standard than when a woman practically throws herself on you to get down and dirty, and gets mad/aggressive when you aren't interested. You aren't entitled to shit. "No means NO" goes both ways, sweetheart.
All the women I know are at least decent, so watching this makes me simultaneously thankful and disgusted.
Edit: how did this get 1k likes?
I feel like being gay is better sometimes, that way I don't have to deal with these empire state building sized morons.
Yea even more worse since am a 5.5 height also am a kid who doesnt even know what are these “nice women” talking about
lucky you):
@@chi8939 focus on your career buddy.
Go to college and get a STEM degree.
Get a masters from Ivy league and enjoy life.
These woman are not worth your time. You have one life, fill it with jaw dropping success.
What universe you liveing
4:47 if she glows after the breakup, she’s a glowstick.
69 likes and no replies? Lemme change that
@@sirenhead3881 don't ever say something like that ever again
I have a fun idea lets put all those "no females are prettier than me and im the best" in one room and let them fight it out to see who is the "best" then you send her to jail and forget about them.
Dope, like battle royal
The girl I loved and still love had treated me like a normal person and didn’t see me as some guy with mental issues and was genuinely kind to me and was happy for my advice and my friendship. We wished for the best in each other and supported each other. Seeing these videos of Nice guy/girls is a basket of mixed feelings cause I’m happy for the funny content and I got to experience what I had, sad I lost someone so precious to me, and upset how people can/would treat others like this, I hope anyone who watches these videos and thinking they won’t find their own love or think they’ll be treated horribly by their partners, please endure and believe, I know and believe you find yourself someone who can see the best in you and treasure your company.
Thank you and I hope you’re doing better after going through that, I’ve been single all my life and have sometimes felt lonely for it but for me this sub is a reminder that it could be much worse and that I should be grateful that I’m not in a toxic, even abusive, relationship with anyone like the women featured here or at least I should be careful what I wish for.
The NiceGuys sub has been a useful lesson on what I should not do when trying to date and find a partner and it has motivated me to improve myself as a person, I’m really trying to not fall into the fatalistic mentality some of the more extreme ones have and hold on to the hope that indeed some day I’ll find the person I can share my life with.
Again I wish nothing but the best for you as well.
I, as part of the female community, do not accept them into our membership due to high cringe rates and lack of morals.
fcking relatable
I, as an official member of the male community, also officially reject those people as both potential partners and future members of our community. The do not apply to our ToS.
But we would like to offer them for the Transition community, maybe they want them?
As a part of the transition community, we decline the offer. And we politely pass them onto the Non Binaries, may God be with you.
as a representative of the non-binary community, we respectfully decline your offer. I would like to pass on this 'generous' offer to the lesbian community.
@@pubbinkman As a lesbian alter in a system and a representative, i reject them and pass them off to the gender fluid community. - A lesbian alter
@@pubbinkman cringe please stop
"You'll never find another girl like me, breaking up with me is the worst thing you've ever done"
Well she's 50% right.
sadly, there are more than one
Taken out of context, it could be taken both ways
You'll never find a girl like me being right, she's an asshole
Breaking up with me is the worst thing you've ever done being right, either you've never done anything worse than a breakup before and this is the first time you've done one, or you have to live with the guilt of breaking up with her.
If I girl ever says “you’ll never find a girl like me” after she does something stupid repeatedly and I dump her, I’ll simply reply with “oh thank god”
@@Crusader11119 just say "that's the point!"
@@superk9letsplays419 but that’s not as fun or dramatic
"one swift kick to your heels and you're down for the count mam" Damien
solid advice
Well, he certainly isn't wrong.
If I followed any of these “how to keep a nice girl” advice posts, my wife woulda left my ass years ago lol
This reminds me of something that happened last week. Me and my friends were chatting and stuff, and some girls came over and wanted us to move. But they were being total b*tches about it. When we refused, they tried to pull me over and hit my friend. My friend was having none of it, and when the person who was trying to fight him said something along the lines of "you can't hit a girl" he slapped her 8n the face so hard she almost fell over
I mean, I get that your friend was defending himself, but that's a legal slippery slope; he could easily go to jail for assault even if a woman started the altercation. Kinda just sucks like that.
My husband has had several women try to hit him or throw things in his face: he walks away because he's way stronger and knows that legally he'd get in trouble.
Makes me mad as heck tho on his behalf.
The really long text message, the chick complains about how the guy “played with her emotions” and then tries to get the guy to pity her, which is playing with HIS emotions. King didn’t listen to her nonsense
As a women myself, I would like to apologise on behalf of all the women in this video.
Well its just how it is :/
You sure you want to remotely associate with these creatures?
Thanks i guess
@@techmaster9781 Nah. Just like regular men don't apologize for toxic mens behavior. 👀💅🏾😂
@@Raebrained because there’s no reason for us to apologize for some random we’re never going meet’s mistakes.
When you forgot Jared's ex wife lied to his family about the thing ontop of also cheating with someone before SHE asked for a poly relationship.
To be fair when that video was originally released it was before everything had fully come out, now that it has we can see with hindsight he didn't really do anything wrong, but it wasn't known at that time
I like it when they say they are so f*cking nice after insulting a guy and expect them to believe that. 😂
2:50
The best advice out of...
*_the entire sub reddit_*
To anyone, but especially men, who's had to deal with these "Nice Girls"--I'm so sorry. You deserve better. I hope you find someone who values you. You deserve someone who doesn't play mind games with you or make you feel like you're walking on eggshells 24/7. Someone who communicates clearly and wants to be an equal. Someone who makes you feel loved as much as you love them.
We put all the nice-girls and nice-guys into one room and our problems are gone
Oh I was best friends with a nice girl, it was torture. She kept blaming me for things that was happening in her life, including stuff I couldn’t control at all. I ended that friendship after she blamed me for (what then was) Russian invasion of Ukraine. I did tell her that I was Slav and she though I was apart of it
@@0-._Star-Moon_.-0 Woah...her hearth was full of blind hatred
Same goes back to you and y'all.
Stay safe and be good people, i believe in you
@@Kuraikoamiki Only after throwing in a Molotov after them
2:20 There was only ONE SINGLE rule in the chivalry code that was about respecting women. Every. Single. Other. Rule was about proper battle etiquette and how to be respectful towards your opponents
Renaissance Era Fan-fics: “I’ll pretend I didn’t see that”
@@excursor4296 fanfics are for doing fun Romantic stuff irl is not nearly as Romantic as fanfics
"if she says go away: stay, give her a hug"
Usually that's how you up in court
55:55
In Grease, a major part of the plot is Danny doing everything in his power to change for Sandy. He literally changes his whole life and attitude for her, and she gets a makeover at the end.
11:42
"You're allowed to hunt a woman with an elephant gun if her weight starts with 2 or higher."
2 pound infant
Really, this whole compilation makes me think the current narrators should tackle this subreddit.
I think it's hilarious how being toxic, controlling and abusive is being a nice girl or girlboss to these people.
It's not. It's just cringe and disgusting.
I’m pretty sure its intended to be ironic
It's a play on words. It's the female version of "nice guys", dudes that are nice to a girl, then believe that's makes them entitled to the girls entire life
@@ntfoperative9432 Exactly. Which leads to my over-arching theory: if you think you are nice or good, you are probably horrible.
Good people always think that they could do better.
@@LycanKai14 Just so you know, he was also smart. He wasn't Forrest Gump.
@@LycanKai14 Your. Mother.
The knife post just sounds to much like "Let me see what your holding." "A KNIFE!" "NOOOOO!!!"
I love your energy ngl
16:58 She really got mad and started writing this man's autobiography
Like the r/niceguys video, some of these radiate pure crazy, while others, I just feel bad for them because they just seem like they're children who experienced heartbreak for the first time and have no clue how to deal with it.
Idk who’s out here making the 6’+ guys king, but, as someone who is 5’8”, an instinctual fight or flight response automatically appears when I see someone taller than me.
Fear me
Short kings are still kings.
You should work on that, it's not healthy. It's not their fault they kept on growing past a reasonable height.
I have a theory: the “nice girls” just have a repressed praise kink, that’s why they’re so attached to the phrase “good girl”
Ohhh now I get it! They want to be treated like dogs so they act like spoiled sh- tty little dogs! It all makes sense now!
@@maomaomi5434 it does now.
Omgosh...
I saw a video of people taking a BDSM test and I looked into it.
Apparently theres a 'Brat' kink and a 'Brat tamer' .
I think this is it..
That's why they were jealous of a freaking cat!
@@DeathShiniGama brat and brat tamer means something else entirely... as in, it's respectful, consensual and pre-negotiated. i get the mistake, but a brat in BDSM terms is a submissive who sometimes disobeys or challenges their dom on purpose, the dom (brat tamer) will in turn put them back in their (pre-negotiated) place. it's a playful back and forth that should be fun for both parties, and safe words can be used if a line is crossed with either party
Thanks for these applied lessons in spotting narcissism and abuse in personal relationships.
i've never heard slazo but now i like him lol
oof i cringe at the fact i used to share stupid nice girl memes in high school, god do i hope ive evolved from that 😅🤣
The fact that you've acknowledged it proves you're going in the right direction.
I feel like the nice guys and girls would be perfect for each other
But they never end up together cuz both of their standards are way too high and they see each other as the lowest of the low. Ironic, no?
I honestly think they would rip each other to pieces first
If a nice guy and girl met, they would either turn into r/entitledparents if they got along, or within a few minutes they would be found dead side by side with multiple knives inside of them and on fire
@@KonradCursed I see this as an absolute win.
@@KonradCursed We should gather all them up and put them on a remote island
I am 13 and I know girls in my grade like this. Males need to be treated better. I hear so much crap from females saying "I'm allowed to do these things, don't you respect women?" to men. That's. Not. Equality.
Edit: Hello! One year later. I've been waiting for someone to interact with this comment again so I can say that I'm not some mature person. I'm probably just as annoying to them. I'm literally just another kid on the internet with opinions. This has been on my mind for a while. Thanks, bye :)
I'm proud of you for being so mature at your age! Sadly, it took me a few more years and probably more unwarranted insults to people who didn't deserve it for me to realize this. :( Not that you asked for it, but my advice is to remember this emotionally mature side of you when a guy or anyone hurts you. It can be shockingly easy to be passive aggressive, manipulative, or a nice girl just to get back at them without even realizing that that's what you're doing and becoming. Best of luck to you!
that’s very sweet and I’m glad you see the reality behind these people
That the sad truth about this world we live people said man have it easy but we actually don't why do you think man have a lot more unalive they self than women the world is truly sad
@@g.n.a4871 Nobody has it easy. Gender roles are as harmful to men as they are to women. But I feel obligated to point out that women in general do not have easier lives. Just think about sexual harassment, sexual violence, domestic abuse, wage gaps, and governments telling women what to do with their bodies. Not saying that this doesn't happen to men too, but it's disproportionately on women. Plus microaggressions like, "you just got beat by a girl!" etc. Your struggle as a man is absolutely real, but male privilege definitely exists.
@@SageH-xl8iu yeah you right also you profile pink made me happy
12:55 that caught me so off guard... And the music suddenly pausing just emphasized the horror.
1:04:31 lmfao, that entire segment. I'm glad this wasn't cut
18:08 CALL NETFLIX WE NEED THIS SERIES
I'm taking severe psychic damage watching this compilation. I normally play these in the background but with this one I keep feeling like I'm going to throw up every time I hear these nice girl conversations
"I'd never dream to hurt you"
> Call him a bunch of shitty things
I realized that the line between girl power memes and toxic Nice Girl memes is VEEEERY thin.
Also. WTF IS WITH GIRLS HATING ON SHORT MEN?! LIKE IM 5’3 AND I WOULDNT MIND A GUY THAT’S MY HEIGHT.
**Loud visible confusion**
Short men are kings and I will die on this hill.
Bro, I am VERY short, and when I hear girls saying "Ew, he's short", I tell them to shut the hell up, because that is also my height, so they dissin' on the both of us. SHORT PEOPLE SHOULDN'T BE JUDGED SO EASILY.
@@RealLpsAngelEyesOfficial as a tall 6'3 guy, being short is equal maybe even better. Its hard to sit in short places, its hard to enter a place with a short doors. It may make us look better but I really dont care about my look. So being tall is just inconvinient. So all of your short kings be happy you're atleast not a palm tree like us
@@blesskurunai9213 being tall is also really bad for the back. Looking down at everything means constantly bending your spine forwards and that makes aches over the years.
Being tall is not nearly as fun as it sounds.
OK BUT SERIOUSLY 5FT IS TALL TO ME. HOW TF CAN YOU BE SO INCLOSED IN A SMALL SPACE I THINK YOUR BACK IS HURTING RN HELLO???
Uggghhhh jfc it's insufferable. I'm non-binary but AFAB and didn't start identifying as non-binary until earlier this year. Anyway, I've always split the bill on first dates. Always. For the same reasons Damien said; we don't know if this is gonna go anywhere, so why should either person put ALL the money into it themselves? And I definitely had dates go wrong because I, someone who previously just identified as a woman, asked to pay my part of the bill. Women were usually okay with it, but there was a handful of men that got seriously offended that I asked to pay my part. That just tells me they're not someone I'm compatible with. I don't wanna be with anyone that upholds social constructs, especially ones that were founded on toxic masculinity/femininity and sexism.
When my current partner and I went on our first date, he had been out of work with an injury so didn't have much money, and I had just moved from part time to full time and didn't have much money. But we HAD to see each other, it didn't matter. He was totally fine splitting the cost of the date with me, even a little surprised that I offered. I paid for the movie (Joker, 2019) and he paid for dinner (Mexican, nothing too expensive but was still delicious and honestly I just remember being with him, I don't even remember the food). We'll be together for four years this October and we still split the cost of things (we're not living together yet, but soon). It blows my mind that people don't understand that relationships are PARTNERSHIPS. Sometimes he has an extra bill or a short week at work and so I buy the food/take care of the date. Sometimes I had an extra bill or what have you, so he buys the food/takes care of the date. The reason we're not currently living together? I'm not currently in a place where I'd be able to support MY share of the expenses, and I refuse to put all of that on him just to live together. It's a partnership, and we should both always be contributing to our relationship and our future together. I refuse to subscribe to the fucked-up concept that just because he's a dude, he should be paying for everything. Nope.
Relationships are PARTNERSHIPS, people. They work best when the both of you are contributing to the betterment of your relationship/your future together. They work best when the respect is MUTUAL.
"Anybody under six foot is a child"
The Ancient Darvish Lords would like to have a word with you
I’m bisexual and if my significant other were to do anything for me I’d be forever thankful. Idk why so many girls expect perfect relationships and people to pay for everything.
More generally, I don't understand why so many girls go into relationships expecting that the guy has to change his life so it revolves around her, but she doesn't have to change anything at all.
@@dexter_d_t5849i do this to my girlfriend but thankfully my girl is loving and caring which motivated me more
@@CaraMyBeloved honestly you shouldnt change everything for her man if she really loves you she would love you for who you are
@@Stefan_38 yeah but its my decision too because yeah im too low before like im a loser it was a miracle i got her at that time and after realizing that im not doing anything at all to improve myself i did i got the motto that "being weak but striving and working to get stronger is more better than staying weak" but yeah it was my decision too and it helped me because i ain't stayin at my phone 24/7 now and i workout, taking care of my health and hygiene, trying to be a goodcook atleast and many more so yeah i think it more like a blessing to me.
Maybe their parents never argued in front of them. My parents do it. Not that they are fighting every day, but when they have a disagreement, they aren't afraid to do it with their kids (me and my little brother, though we are 14 and 17) around. Their logic is that it doesn't really matter, and it also shows the children that people disagree with eachother, even if they're married, and disagreeing with someone doesn't mean you don't love them. A perfect relationship doesn't exist. That's why I also think it's important to talk when you are in one, especially when you have problems with eachother. Maybe not when you're angry, some people need space when they are, but don't use the silent treatment, it solves absolutely nothing. Talk it out.
Off topic but for some odd reason, Damien gives me Raphael (TMNT) vibes when reading these prompts.
Like, imagine Raph going to Donnie's lab and going to reddit in his spare time just to laugh and waste some time. Could it be the accent? The deep voice? I dunno, but fits nice and snug in my child-like brain.
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"pfft, men have feelings? naaah, men never had feelings, only woman get to have everything"
-a nice girl
Sounds like something a nice girl would say
@@NA-hg6pi that's the point
@@iateyourbread I meant it like yup that's definitely something a nice girl would say
I’m so glad this subreddit exists so it can teach me what to avoid in gorls
Same, and the NiceGuy sub showed me what not to do when trying to find a partner
These subreddits exist to teach you be a better person (by the examples of opposite)!
Why did I laugh so much at the part when someone was getting ice?
Edit:LMAOOO WHEN THEY CAME BACK FOR MORE ICE- I CANT
Imagine having the audacity to call yourself a "Nice and caring girl" to the same person you tried to cheat on your boyfriend with.
54:44 I saw something similar to this but it was more like "when you start an argument with your bae for no reason and he ends up leaving ur ass".
Alright, gotta say it. How do these women probably get these same turn arounds of compliments turned into insults when rejected?
the "words women use" thing can actually be true but its entirely based on tone. if it means what is said there you should probably know (men can use this terminology too. passive aggressiveness is not a purely female trait)
This is true. The problem occurs when this communication happens through text where you cannot use tone of voice to express things.
In text form people can only take your words as they are and hope it's right. A lot of arguments are born through this.
As someone who tries to communicate honest and transparent when angry i really hate this "words woman use" chard deeply.
Like pls don't let some r/nicegirl define what i mean holy fuck
@@cainothecreator8363 Exactly, we've created almost a new language in text group chats because we don't have that tone (usually using emojis or such) but when it's plain words on a screen you can't tell what the tone is, and tone plays a big part in conversations. Even just simple sentences/words can be confusing over text, while in person you can convey more emotion
Literature doesn't always have this problem because the words used there are more descriptive and can take their time to explain specific emotions, while texting is usually for quick communication, efficiency in writing is being pushed to near extremes with abbreviations like: lol, omg, tbh. words that use simple meanings to be easily interpreted: laughter, panic/excitement, honesty. It arguably compromises sophistication and depth for speed and efficiency. This is a surprisingly fascinating subject that I did not expect to be writing about at 11 PM
"If she glows after the break up you were the problem" no I think thats a glow stick
Funny haha. /srs
This video makes me feel so much better about being single.
Same, this sub is a nice reminder for me that there are worse things than dying alone
I've felt down about being lonely lately (beyond just women). However, it warms my heart to see that I at least haven't been with one of these.
Same, I’ve been single all my life and have felt lonely as well for it but this sub is a nice reminder that it could be much worse and that I should be careful what to wish for
One of more than a few reality checks: Like just about all morality signalling, if they have to tell you how nice they are... they are not nice.
I appreciate when the guy pays for the date, but I always offer to pay for my own food and I won't let him take me out somewhere expensive.
Somewhere expensive makes me feel uncomfortable
You know I forgot this was nice girls and not choosing beggars.
I had to watch this in smaller parts because my faith in humanity was sinking lower and lower with each post. how do these overly entitled people exist? ~Nova
That grouchy Brooklyn accent is the best lol 😂😂
As a 6' king, I hereby declare all men, regardless of their height, to be real men.
Unless they're vegan.
No, men are men, women are women, frogs are frogs and spiders and cockroaches are demons. Everything and everyone is the gender they choose to be and the species they are, unless they’re a spider or a cockroach, then they’re demons
@@crazy922blade
What the fuck are you talking about? I was talking about the woman saying men under 6' weren't real men.
My king, hopefully I will soon reach your throne. Until then, I thank you for your declaration.
Being vegan is fine unless your that vegan teacher
@@locomotivetrainstation6053 or any obnoxious vegan who needs to convert others and/or makes their pets vegan
I thought this was a fourteen minute video and I sat down to do an hour’s of work and I was pleasantly surprised it was still going, I thought auto play lol. These long videos kick ass
There are a few posts here and there that make me wonder if the girl actually isn't attracted to men and just thinks that she dating men is something she has to put up with because of heteronormativity
Doesn't excuse their behavior but I wonder sometimes
"tHeReS a BrIdGe OuTsIdE iLl JuMp"
me asf:"do a flip"
42:42 alright. So, a Yandere, as UD put it, is a female who cares a lot about their love interest, almost always unhealthily so, and when someone is perceived to be getting between her and LI's "perfect love" they lose it and try and cut them from the equation entirely. Think Yuno Gasai from Mirai Nikki (yes, I know that's usually the "go-to" response, but it's an easy example to pull)
Is it strange that I find the concept comforting in a way?
@@ALJ9000 not at all. I feel the same way
Damien never fails to make me laugh, One of the funniest people I have heard.
i love the fact that damien didnt know what a yandere was
chivalry only had one section on how to treat ladies and if we're just basing it on historical evidence instead of whats written then just not getting an umbrella is pretty good
the lamberfeeties sent me i am legit choking on my food laughing and the OH SHIT when he went what is a yandere LMFAO
That stabbing one...
Julius Caesar, getting assassinated: "Et tu, Brute?"
Brutus: "It's just a prank bro! 😂"
SHIV'D
1$ man sounds intriguing
I mean if you able to survive on a dollar that's a skill my dude 😂
r/NiceGirls makes me just feel a type of anger I don't feel that often. This makes me thankful I'm a micronation.
6:00 I love this person. This person has said everything that I wish I would’ve said in that situation. If someone said this to me, I’d probably marry them. Boundaries are beautiful!
Its becoming a trend to say boundaries are sexy and I absolutely agree
Hearing Damien saying ''Dipstick" is so amusing to me- it's become one of my favorite words now
Man, I'm glad I don't have to deal with this garbage. I probably couldn't handle that as well as these guys, honestly
The one thing I have noticed in all these is the sheer sense of entitlement in these girls. As if they deserve to be treated like Queens and don't want to give anything back. They need to look up what it means to be a Queen. It means to be a protecter and doing what is best for everyone under their leadership, not just looking out for yourself and getting your own way all the time. I don't know about anyone else, but I for one am sooooo sick of this toxic femininity bs.
'that's such a sagittarius thing to say 🙄🙄'
lmao
MONKE🙊
@@christiansaitoti2941 hOO
10:03 problem I see with this one is that she gets a new car every year, showing a considerable lack of commitment and control with money, which can easily point to a questionable personality in other regards.
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“PLEASE JUST A SMIDGE OF WEINER!!” 😂
Been a WHILE emkay!