That's what I was thinking. It's going to be a painful memory forever. You don't get to tell somebody how long they get to be traumatized by their attempted murder. This is a terrible take. Criticize his dating life if you'd like but that was a pretty nasty thing to say.
1 doesn't have anything to do with the other. That would mean that healed people shouldn't cry. To me what he has achieved after the horrible incident says this man is healed from that trauma, and he is still a human to feel the memory of the experience
@@tessahiggins8142 EXACTLY! I thought the same thing too. This is such a huge generalization and misconception. Who decides how long something this traumatic can affect you?
Yea get emotional over my mother stroke because of the sudden deterioration that happens. The trauma of the healing process. The new normal that you had to learn. My eyes opened up more for ppl with disabilities because it's not easy and there's day to day struggle that you don't think about when you got no one in your life like that. I definitely don't agree with him on that one.
He gives me a predatory vibes, there is something off with him regardless of his disability. He goes to third world country and he has so many divorces!
So true. He has to be getting sone kind of disability check and food stamps. If he is in his 50's- what kind of 20 year old girl would want him. The only twist I can see is uf in his 20's he was hit and settled for a large sum of money he hasn't said yet,
Brian is trying to relive his life from prior to when he was paralyzed. Three strikes on marriage & your out. He's past prime, time to accept your circumstances & move on. 🤬🥵😡🤡
There's something off about his man, I can't put my finger on it, 4 failed marriages, several failed relationships and engagements - yeah something is off and as the common denominator it has to be him!
This man has got some seasoning that is hard to place for sure. its a blend of desperate, victim mentality manipulator, control freak, compulsive and a dash of DL if you ask me. The absolute last person who needs to be getting involved in serious relationships.
He assumes they dont have any life experience. And hes emotionally still a young man due to his aquiring his disability. Deep trauma , and he was unstable when it happened . Hes not ok , although he seems it .
Seems a bit selfish to keep trying to burden a young woman with his disability when she still has a life to live and deserves to live it with a healthy young man. His relationship would last longer with a woman his own age who has already settled down and actually values companionship. As to how the shooting occurred, I'm guessing he was either in a gang or was engaged in some other criminal activity.
He was shot in the spine during a car jacking incident and lived in a possible gang infested neighborhood and the circumstances of why he was shot is the secret…I think he was either in a rival gang or selling drugs…we’ll find out soon enough.
Selling drugs with his wife and was trying to get out of the business. He went into hiding. She found him put a hit on him and they shot him. Their payment was his watch and his wallet.
I read an article saying that he was married at the time, and after admitting to his wife that he was cheating, she went in to a rage that sent him to have to live in a "safe house"..... eventually, she coordinated a hit on him (the car jacking), and the pay off would be an expensive (Gucci I think) watch and another item. The now Ex wife was his partner in drug dealing. I don't know what happened to her, if she stayed in prison or what.... but I kinda want to know the whole story now.
@@tru2harris998I know he called it a carjacking, but he also said the guys were waiting outside his house for him to come home, so it wasn’t just for his car. Random carjackers don’t go to someone’s house prepared to sh00t them. Those guys targeted him personally. There’s obviously some reason why he hadn’t told his prospective fiancé the whole story yet.
He’s not marriage material. The risk factor is high on this one. He thinks he’s in love with a lot of women. What are the chances he’ll find true love this time?
This guy is clearly not ready for a serious relationship. He should have taken a step back and worked on himself. He's looking for a naive girl he can manipulate
he seemed normal until finding out he’s been married 4 times plus multiple, I’m assuming at least 3, failed engagements. he’s just throwing at the wall to see what sticks cause that’s just pathetic, he’s only 50
When you go through a nd experience, you carry that trauma forever, I know from experience, however I don't see how it can effect the new relationship, I think TLC have made this story carry over into this for content
I can remember when I was young and older man would flirt and come on to me. It was cringy. I see the wrinkley skin And untoned bodies. And that was thirty or older. when I see one of these old men going after a young girl, that's what I remember.that ewwww i used to feel
Look up the podcast “Charlie Smith Speaks” and you will hear an interview Brian did several years ago before 90 Day Fiancé. Brian gave me the vibes or feelings that the incident was more gang related and/or someone else got injured gravely. My initial feelings were accurate; his family was involved in gang “mafia” type stuff per Brian. Second, he gave me Ed vibes when his daughter said there’s only a 2 year age difference between her and his girlfriend. Third, what Ed did to his wife so did Brian. I won’t give any more spoilers but look up the interview. You are welcome. 🌻
So many reasons to run from him. He is worried that she is going to judge his history of being a drug dealer with his first wife and that she is the one that put the hit on him.
@@agenaw2877 HE also said they were waiting for him...and later in the episode that he has not told the full truth about his past...unfortunately it was probable related to drugs and or gangs or the mafia...
@@agenaw2877 he did an interview 3yrs ago in which he revealed he sold Mary Jane and booger sugar, He reckoned his 2nd ex wife who was a supplier of the ‘sugar’ sent people for him because he had moved to a safe house where he kept his supplies. The incident happened outside this house.
As for her not telling her family about him, well... wheelchair or not, I guess when you have two kids and are thinking about marrying a man 20 years your senior and moving to his country, you would only tell your family when you're sure you will. If you break up before you move, your family will have been giving you a hard time for nothing.
Stop playing Elizabeth Taylor....she was at least beautiful and gracious. But this man ought to retire from the dating world. What is so special about him?
I agree men who cry alot tend to be manipulative. My guess is that he love bombs women and likely isn't faithful that's why the relationships don't last long. They last as long as it takes the women to work out who he really is.
Gotta say you’re hating on this guy hard for some reason. Also where is the outrage at the woman Tigerlily on the show who is 41 dating a 22 year old? Oh, that right, that’s different. 😅😂
It’s not just the age thing tho, he’s a passport bro who’s gone to Brazil several times specifically looking to hook up with Brazilian women his daughter’s age. Tigerlily hasn’t done anything like that, and so far she doesn’t seem that bright.
The music they played while he told his sob story was nausea-inducing. What are the odds he got shot partially due to putting his "wick" where it didn't belong?? Four marriages? Guy must loved paying alimony.
Why would he not be emotional about being paralyzed after being shot? No matter the length of time. That's traumatic
That's what I was thinking. It's going to be a painful memory forever. You don't get to tell somebody how long they get to be traumatized by their attempted murder. This is a terrible take.
Criticize his dating life if you'd like but that was a pretty nasty thing to say.
1 doesn't have anything to do with the other. That would mean that healed people shouldn't cry. To me what he has achieved after the horrible incident says this man is healed from that trauma, and he is still a human to feel the memory of the experience
I thought the same things too. This is what is wrong with society, we don't show enough grace.
@@tessahiggins8142 EXACTLY! I thought the same thing too. This is such a huge generalization and misconception. Who decides how long something this traumatic can affect you?
Yea get emotional over my mother stroke because of the sudden deterioration that happens. The trauma of the healing process. The new normal that you had to learn. My eyes opened up more for ppl with disabilities because it's not easy and there's day to day struggle that you don't think about when you got no one in your life like that.
I definitely don't agree with him on that one.
He gives me a predatory vibes, there is something off with him regardless of his disability. He goes to third world country and he has so many divorces!
That's the issue I see. Him crying over his injury is understandable and real. But the multiple marriages is a big red flag
@@LAtttiful Exactly! Something is off with him.
100% 👌
I love how this man loves to make himself the victim. Bro has been divorced 4 times, and I promise you that it isn’t because he is in a wheelchair
TLC, staring criminals and mental cases!
Starring...
@@NatalieRabuzin yes staring!
So true. He has to be getting sone kind of disability check and food stamps. If he is in his 50's- what kind of 20 year old girl would want him. The only twist I can see is uf in his 20's he was hit and settled for a large sum of money he hasn't said yet,
@@frandigitaloficial You are too good for him.
@@IloveKurtCobain-z5k Yes 🙌🏼 I'm free I am free but I did not authorize him to post photos with me, many people are recognizing me.
Brian is trying to relive his life from prior to when he was paralyzed. Three strikes on marriage & your out. He's past prime, time to accept your circumstances & move on. 🤬🥵😡🤡
It seems to me that he is looking for a caretaker in his head he probably think he needs a woman to take care of him
Interesting perspective 🤔
I mean he seems pretty self sufficient to me.
There's something off about his man, I can't put my finger on it, 4 failed marriages, several failed relationships and engagements - yeah something is off and as the common denominator it has to be him!
He seems like one of those ppl that are crazy and they're always too nice at first. Idk that's my first impression he kind of creeps me out.
This man has got some seasoning that is hard to place for sure. its a blend of desperate, victim mentality manipulator, control freak, compulsive and a dash of DL if you ask me. The absolute last person who needs to be getting involved in serious relationships.
He assumes they dont have any life experience. And hes emotionally still a young man due to his aquiring his disability. Deep trauma , and he was unstable when it happened . Hes not ok , although he seems it .
Look like TLC can’t find good stories anymore, so they are scraping the barrel to find stories now.🤔
Seems a bit selfish to keep trying to burden a young woman with his disability when she still has a life to live and deserves to live it with a healthy young man. His relationship would last longer with a woman his own age who has already settled down and actually values companionship. As to how the shooting occurred, I'm guessing he was either in a gang or was engaged in some other criminal activity.
So a disabled person can’t be with someone beautiful, young and stunning. Got it 🤡🤡🤡 not all of us disabled community is like this dope
Tell us u really think, Madzie 😁
4 marriages and 3 engagements is a lot 😮
He was shot in the spine during a car jacking incident and lived in a possible gang infested neighborhood and the circumstances of why he was shot is the secret…I think he was either in a rival gang or selling drugs…we’ll find out soon enough.
Selling drugs with his wife and was trying to get out of the business. He went into hiding. She found him put a hit on him and they shot him. Their payment was his watch and his wallet.
I read an article saying that he was married at the time, and after admitting to his wife that he was cheating, she went in to a rage that sent him to have to live in a "safe house"..... eventually, she coordinated a hit on him (the car jacking), and the pay off would be an expensive (Gucci I think) watch and another item. The now Ex wife was his partner in drug dealing. I don't know what happened to her, if she stayed in prison or what.... but I kinda want to know the whole story now.
He’s definitely giving creep vibes going after women his daughter’s age. I think he’s been lying to the women about the extent of his disability
I cant wait to find out what he did to be targeted like he said.
IT WAS FOR HIS CAR. IT WAS A CAR JACKING.
@@justme4895 I saw on the interwebs that he was a substance dealer
@@tru2harris998 YEP, BUT HE SAID THERE WAS MORE TO IT SO.....
YEA I WONDER WHAT HE MEANT BY THERE WAS MORE TO IT.
@@tru2harris998I know he called it a carjacking, but he also said the guys were waiting outside his house for him to come home, so it wasn’t just for his car. Random carjackers don’t go to someone’s house prepared to sh00t them. Those guys targeted him personally. There’s obviously some reason why he hadn’t told his prospective fiancé the whole story yet.
He’s not marriage material. The risk factor is high on this one. He thinks he’s in love with a lot of women. What are the chances he’ll find true love this time?
This guy is clearly not ready for a serious relationship. He should have taken a step back and worked on himself. He's looking for a naive girl he can manipulate
ex-coke dealer, perhaps the coke emotionally stunted him!
he seemed normal until finding out he’s been married 4 times plus multiple, I’m assuming at least 3, failed engagements. he’s just throwing at the wall to see what sticks cause that’s just pathetic, he’s only 50
When you go through a nd experience, you carry that trauma forever, I know from experience, however I don't see how it can effect the new relationship, I think TLC have made this story carry over into this for content
I can remember when I was young and older man would flirt and come on to me. It was cringy. I see the wrinkley skin And untoned bodies. And that was thirty or older. when I see one of these old men going after a young girl, that's what I remember.that ewwww i used to feel
Look up the podcast “Charlie Smith Speaks” and you will hear an interview Brian did several years ago before 90 Day Fiancé. Brian gave me the vibes or feelings that the incident was more gang related and/or someone else got injured gravely. My initial feelings were accurate; his family was involved in gang “mafia” type stuff per Brian. Second, he gave me Ed vibes when his daughter said there’s only a 2 year age difference between her and his girlfriend. Third, what Ed did to his wife so did Brian. I won’t give any more spoilers but look up the interview. You are welcome. 🌻
My boyfriend just told me that he and his ex wife were drug dealers and he was cheating on his ex wife. She found out and put a hit on him.😮
Whoa!
YES! Im “wife brazilian” 🇧🇷 and he’s abusive “I'm divorcing him” 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
The ladies in brazil or judging him to. Judging him as a good way to america
So many reasons to run from him. He is worried that she is going to judge his history of being a drug dealer with his first wife and that she is the one that put the hit on him.
So was it drugs and or gang activity...
He clearly said it was a car jacking
@@agenaw2877 HE also said they were waiting for him...and later in the episode that he has not told the full truth about his past...unfortunately it was probable related to drugs and or gangs or the mafia...
@@agenaw2877 he did an interview 3yrs ago in which he revealed he sold Mary Jane and booger sugar, He reckoned his 2nd ex wife who was a supplier of the ‘sugar’ sent people for him because he had moved to a safe house where he kept his supplies. The incident happened outside this house.
It’s both.
@@agenaw2877 He and his wife were drug dealers, he was cheating on her and she put a hit on him as a pretend car jacking.
He gives me the creeps
Thee good at crying to play pity
So true
As for her not telling her family about him, well... wheelchair or not, I guess when you have two kids and are thinking about marrying a man 20 years your senior and moving to his country, you would only tell your family when you're sure you will. If you break up before you move, your family will have been giving you a hard time for nothing.
.....mmmm idk about this dude....
Stop playing Elizabeth Taylor....she was at least beautiful and gracious. But this man ought to retire from the dating world. What is so special about him?
Oh...no...not the tear maker from Ecuador...
That sounds like American women don't fall for his manipulation.
Big Ed vibes
Yup.
I agree with you about the crying thing. Hispanic men are very macho. They do not cry easily at all. Very manipulative.
Crazy tv makes me feel better about my life too 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The woman he goes for is too young and good looking sorry it’s out of his league
I agree men who cry alot tend to be manipulative. My guess is that he love bombs women and likely isn't faithful that's why the relationships don't last long. They last as long as it takes the women to work out who he really is.
I’ve never seen such a long face in my face 🫢
Gotta say you’re hating on this guy hard for some reason. Also where is the outrage at the woman Tigerlily on the show who is 41 dating a 22 year old? Oh, that right, that’s different. 😅😂
It’s not just the age thing tho, he’s a passport bro who’s gone to Brazil several times specifically looking to hook up with Brazilian women his daughter’s age. Tigerlily hasn’t done anything like that, and so far she doesn’t seem that bright.
Madzie, you have changed.
🚩🚩🚩
Absofunkinlutely!
Sociopaths need love, too 😃
@@pj2192😂😂😂 oh heck no they don’t. They love themselves and that’s enough. 😂
YES! Im “wife brazilian” and he’s abusive “I'm divorcing him” 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 I also didn't know that he worked with drug trafficking
7 wives
16 engagements
The music they played while he told his sob story was nausea-inducing. What are the odds he got shot partially due to putting his "wick" where it didn't belong?? Four marriages? Guy must loved paying alimony.
This dude has no money...
@@NatalieRabuzin all that alimony to the exes probably.
@@ericw8478no I mean he has no money period...u can't get money from someone who receives disability probable...
@@NatalieRabuzin if its court-ordered it doesn't matter. They'll take it. Whatever they can get, no matter how little.
@@ericw8478 maybe but I would say the guy lives at the poverty line...and most of the marriages were very brief...