It takes two to tango, if you aren't serious about each other you probably shouldn't even be sleeping with each other. Both know the consequences of their actions
I usually would blame the men... BUT if I hear nick Cannon going to be a baby daddy one more time I'm straight up going to look at the female as sus... Like stay awayyyyyy from those guys tht r known to have multiple baby mamas....
As man with a teenaged daughter this is what I tell her: YOU (the woman) have to take more measures to prevent pregnancy. Why? Because YOU get pregnant. He doesn't. Your body is at risk. His isn't. Your body changes, his doesn't. And generally, if the relationship doesn't work out YOU end up as the primary parent. Both of you may be equally irresponsible by creating the child. But the majority of the weight will fall on your shoulders. So act accordingly. So as a young woman you don't have the luxury of depending on him prevent pregnancy. You don't have the luxury of trusting that he will be an active father. So make him show you something that proves he's really ready. Here is where I would write the "M" word. But that world triggers people.
Ladies we know this world is harsher on us. It's your body if anything goes wrong he can walk away YOU can't because its your house. The only way to walk away is through death. Do everything in your power to protect yourself. You deserve it 😢 don't sell yourself short.
Straight truth, when a female turn it up🍑 with no protection why be surprised ,,, when boo boo go ✌️ you can't be surprised by that either, but the Court cam always decide for the both of you, trust and believe that, that unwanted pregnancy will get taken care of
What about getting married first and then have a family, I forgot, getting married BEFORE you carry is ole timey, am late on this new generation it is different for reals, am still here for it tho, it's interesting. The old folks use to say, momma baby, daddy maybe, I guess it's true these days from these conversations 🤷
@@PSYCHDEGREE63 Yes, marriage first (a committed one) is how it should be! And nobody gets hurt! Water your own grass and stay out of the neighbor's yard! (if you know what I mean). But until then, ABSTAIN!
Shuler you are absolutely correct. These young ladies need to take responsibility for their own bodies & protect themselves. The same goes for the young men. It is so stupid for people to expect others to be protect you.
Yall need to learn how to read. The woman isn't saying that she regrets getting pregnant. What she's saying is that if the MAN doesn't want a child then he needs to make sure he's taking preventative measures. He can't get mad at the woman if she decides to keep the child. So many men want to have raw sex but complain about the repercussions. Thats like speeding on the highway and getting mad when you get a ticket. You have full knowledge that speeding can potentially get you pulled over and ticketed. Every individual must protect his or herself, don't expect someone to do it for you.
The only thing is that is very true, always got to protect ourselves though knowing that the man or woman don’t want use protection. The best protection is really not having sex at all.
And if you're riding in the car with a MFer who speeds you both know he can crash and you both could die. It's not JUST his fault, you made a decision too. That's the point of the comment under her post, and the video. You're BOTH to blame. If he speeds, don't get in the car with him. If he wants to hit raw and but isn't serious about you, don't fuck him. It's not rocket science.
Both are. Fellas, IDC how much you don't like condoms, if you're serious about not wanting children WEAR THEM! Ladies, when a man tells you upfront he does NOT use condoms and he doesn't pull out, DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM! Period.
Don’t cast your pearls (of wisdom) before swine. Shuler, this isn’t fractional. Both parties are 100% responsible. Anything less and they’ll start blaming the other party. Anything less, you’ve earned whatever you get and you deserve each other.
Why are we still talking like we don’t know this?😮it’s 2023 we lay down we know what happens. Just stop it erybody just stop😮there’s more to life than sex😊😊😊❤❤❤
Why would either of you want a lifelong responsibility if you weren't ready? Duh, of course both of you should be using protection ! Stop blaming each other and take personal accountability!!! Sick of hearing about child support and unwanted kids.
Amen! What trifling @ss woman would make a statement like this. I'm confused 😕. Both are to blame, more her than him, especially if she doesn't want a baby. Better be wearing condom to prevent them diseases as well. Ijs
As usual, Shuler NAILS it. My mother and I had this conversation many times. My position is: a woman has a greater responsibility to prevent unwanted pregnancy because 99% of the time, the child will primarily be raised by her. My mother's famous reply was "It takes two to get those babies, but when the deal goes down...that's YOUR (the woman) baby." Mom also used to say she didn't understand why there are soooo many children without their fathers in their lives. My response would be "because the fathers often didn't have a relationship with the mothers, so they felt no responsibility to a child that resulted from a hook up or botty call." And on abortions, NO ONE ever mentions pregnancy PREVENTION 🤔!! UGGH OK, Im done.
@I love the 80's love songs WELL IT SEEMS AS IF COMPREHENSION IS YOUR ISSUE!!!! EMPHASIS ON YOUR!!!!! DONT BE SLOW VIA SOCIAL MEDIA LIFE & REAL LIFE!!!!!!
@Real Life Once again, comprehension and my opinion are two different things. You seem to have issues with comprehending my point of view. You should also learn proper grammar.
It definitely goes both ways and both men and women need to be more responsible. I shouldn't have to control what comes out of a man. I can only control what I don't want to go inside of me or come out of me. Men, control what comes out of you and ladies, control what goes in... period.
The person who doesn't want the baby, is responsible for doing their part in the prevention of it. No man should be going raw in or even sleeping with a woman that he knows he doesn't want a baby with. That is his part to control. Once she's pregnant, he no longer has a choice to he has to make his choice before that happens.
How does that old saying go? "There will be plenty of blame to go around but if you take credit for the sunshine, you also get the blame for the rain." 😎
You can make them wear one, but you can't make him keep it on. Don't have sex with someone you ain't ready to be together for life!!! Don't have sex unless you ready for a life time commitment. There's too many toys where you can have all kinds of fun by yourself. Without consequences. PERIOD!!
Strongly disagree. The responsibility of a child being born is on both the man and woman. Does not matter if we were here first or if we are stronger. Being a head relates to marriage and spiritual leadership only. So if you are our here impregnating women that you are not married to, you have no claim to headship. You forfeited that when you decided to bypass God's law on sex and marriage.
For a lot of men it’s a sport to try to get naive ladies to let them have sex unprotected. Thus it became a sport for ladies to become bitter and get Child Support. I’m tired of hearing men complain about not being treated like “alpha men” but then defending this behavior in a blame game. This is childish.
the black men should have control over his nuts. no condonm no nutting. both are 50% at fault. cause for the process of creation a fetus it takes both of them.
For the people that did not hear him in the back.... You are not the only person in the world that she has slept with unprotected if she did it once she doing it every time. Facts and Truth!!!!!!
No lie,, these chicks be on social media talking about three kids , three different daddies 😳😲, any Ning Ning can 🎯 and leave, they are reckless with their wombs and marriage isn't a requirement
To be fair, some of these men out here are reckless with their seed, and then claim they were trapped when the women decides to have the child. At the same time, women need to make sure they choose the right person to sleep with and make sure their protected. So, both parties are at fault.
In the sense of what is legally allowed, they're right in terms of being "trapped." There is no way for a man to legally absolve himself from responsibility to a child. If abortion is legal, then a man should be able to financially abort during the same amount of time a woman can have an abortion.
@@dapperfan44 If you don't want a child, take measures to prevent it. I have no sympathy for people who are fast, reckless, and stupid that didn't try to prevent a child was being born. Yes, condoms break etc. but at least you tried to prevent pregnancy.
Both have a responsibility....but Men...know that after your face twist up and you go Ahhh in...there went your ability to make a choice about anything that comes after. Her body...her choice.
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It takes two to tango, if you aren't serious about each other you probably shouldn't even be sleeping with each other. Both know the consequences of their actions
100% on her, she held access to sexy and let him hit andddd let him HIT RAW
I 2nd that emotion
Did y'all watch and listen to the whole video?
I usually would blame the men... BUT if I hear nick Cannon going to be a baby daddy one more time I'm straight up going to look at the female as sus... Like stay awayyyyyy from those guys tht r known to have multiple baby mamas....
@@thefreshprincessofeverywai4302 The thing about that SITUATION is their INTENTIONS are fk up they R looking for $$$ instead of RESPECT an love
The butt naked twister😂😂😂😂😂
I talked to my son about protection, he said ma, I double up. I don't want no babies or disease. That's my boy, I'm glad he was listening.
💅💅👍👍
Doubling up actually increases the chances of an accident.
Remember, when you point at someone, there are fingers pointing back at you. 😂😂😂
It’s okay to practice abstinence people!
SHULER: He won’t protect himself; how you gon expect him to protect YOU?!????? 💯
" The butt naked twister" I laughed so hard I fell off my chair. Shuler you are 100% right, it is 50-50.
She said dudes are bozos and she just a bozo right along with the dude.
Accountability on BOTH parts is the lesson here💯💯💯
100% on her, she held access to sexy and let him hit andddd let him HIT RAW
@Moor Darkness2: based off your comment, I must be talking to a fboy 😐😐😐
@Eboné Bowles I've read several of moor darkness comments and obviously no accountability on the man speaks volumes on his character. 😂😂
Butt-naked Twister!!!! I'm out!!!🤣🤣🤣
As man with a teenaged daughter this is what I tell her:
YOU (the woman) have to take more measures to prevent pregnancy. Why? Because YOU get pregnant. He doesn't. Your body is at risk. His isn't. Your body changes, his doesn't. And generally, if the relationship doesn't work out YOU end up as the primary parent. Both of you may be equally irresponsible by creating the child. But the majority of the weight will fall on your shoulders. So act accordingly.
So as a young woman you don't have the luxury of depending on him prevent pregnancy. You don't have the luxury of trusting that he will be an active father. So make him show you something that proves he's really ready. Here is where I would write the "M" word. But that world triggers people.
#realtalk
Bluewater Yes, some wise words well spoken.
I agree the m word.. marriage, it should be a priority, but it's fallen by the wayside.💔🥺
Without the M first, you'll always look like a fool to have a man's baby because he never gave you any indication he was in it for the long haul.
I feel where you come from but not all men like that
NEVER TRUST THE PULL OUT GAME. 💯
Ladies we know this world is harsher on us. It's your body if anything goes wrong he can walk away YOU can't because its your house. The only way to walk away is through death. Do everything in your power to protect yourself. You deserve it 😢 don't sell yourself short.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 everyone involved is responsible
100% on her, she held access to sexy and let him hit andddd let him HIT RAW
Like my granny used to say,"these chirren didn't ask to come here!"🙄
Yep! Exactly just like that!...u from North Carolina?!? 🤔
Accountability is the word of the day.
If you lay down with him you too blame too
Straight truth, when a female turn it up🍑 with no protection why be surprised ,,, when boo boo go ✌️ you can't be surprised by that either, but the Court cam always decide for the both of you, trust and believe that, that unwanted pregnancy will get taken care of
All could be avoided with the control of thy loins.
The butt naked twister 😂😂😂. Imma start using this!!!
So damn dead....lol 😆.
IIM JUST HERE FOR THE COMMENTS….🍿🍿🍿…..😅
Mr. King, I hope these young and old people are listening to what you're saying. It's the truth. Thank you King.❤
Extremely right on! 😂😂😂😂❤❤
I swear the whole of humanity have lost their damn minds. THINK!🤦🏾♀️
Can't be mad at him keeping it 100% real
I approve this message.
You must focus on yourself and health, both young men and women.....❤❤❤❤
Both posts are accurate 🤷🏽♀️
Bar:
Dont shoot in the lady if you dont want no baby!
SHULERKING
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Shuler, you are spot on. I so agree with you.
And the slow demise of the black race continues…
No lie detected on that 😢😢
ABSTINENCE - problem solved!
Right!!!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
@@janbass9542 👏👏
What about getting married first and then have a family, I forgot, getting married BEFORE you carry is ole timey, am late on this new generation it is different for reals, am still here for it tho, it's interesting. The old folks use to say, momma baby, daddy maybe, I guess it's true these days from these conversations 🤷
@@PSYCHDEGREE63 Yes, marriage first (a committed one) is how it should be! And nobody gets hurt! Water your own grass and stay out of the neighbor's yard! (if you know what I mean). But until then, ABSTAIN!
Shuler you are absolutely correct. These young ladies need to take responsibility for their own bodies & protect themselves. The same goes for the young men. It is so stupid for people to expect others to be protect you.
Wise man once said, it takes 2 to tango. She spread her legs, he spread his seed, and neither used protection.
Speak on it
Mr King🔥🙌🏾✊🏾
Yall need to learn how to read. The woman isn't saying that she regrets getting pregnant. What she's saying is that if the MAN doesn't want a child then he needs to make sure he's taking preventative measures. He can't get mad at the woman if she decides to keep the child. So many men want to have raw sex but complain about the repercussions. Thats like speeding on the highway and getting mad when you get a ticket. You have full knowledge that speeding can potentially get you pulled over and ticketed. Every individual must protect his or herself, don't expect someone to do it for you.
The only thing is that is very true, always got to protect ourselves though knowing that the man or woman don’t want use protection. The best protection is really not having sex at all.
Where did she mention that she got pregnant? Guessing we all reading what we want to read😂
No woman should be allowing raw sex in today's times...🤢. Think more of yourself ladies and men.
And if you're riding in the car with a MFer who speeds you both know he can crash and you both could die. It's not JUST his fault, you made a decision too. That's the point of the comment under her post, and the video. You're BOTH to blame.
If he speeds, don't get in the car with him. If he wants to hit raw and but isn't serious about you, don't fuck him. It's not rocket science.
@@QueenMufasa552 the woman was talking about women making the decision to not abort their child which means the woman is pregnant. Duhhh
Both are. Fellas, IDC how much you don't like condoms, if you're serious about not wanting children WEAR THEM! Ladies, when a man tells you upfront he does NOT use condoms and he doesn't pull out, DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM! Period.
They both saying the same thing without saying it....
They BOTH knew the consequences🤷♀️
ShulerKing just keeping it real,Well said ShulerKing 👍
PREACH!
I totally agree with you, Shuler - it takes two, baby, it takes two. Each party is responsible for the prevention of unplanned/unwanted pregnancy.
Marry before you carry.
What about diseases? Babies aren’t the only thing that can come from not using protection.
I wish you had to do a interview to make a child 😂
It's takes two shuler spot on!!!!! 💯 up in here
Why is it so hard for people to just use protection and stop making other people responsible for choices that they should be making?
People are 🤦🏾♀️, hell I'm out of words at this point😑🙄
Bucket nakede twister😂😂😂
Don’t cast your pearls (of wisdom) before swine.
Shuler, this isn’t fractional. Both parties are 100% responsible. Anything less and they’ll start blaming the other party.
Anything less, you’ve earned whatever you get and you deserve each other.
Exactly! 💯% facts!
He shot the club up but she opened the club up free of admission charge…
Why are we still talking like we don’t know this?😮it’s 2023 we lay down we know what happens. Just stop it erybody just stop😮there’s more to life than sex😊😊😊❤❤❤
Did he just make up a word: "consentrally"?
He did..go pacers
That about sums it up
Why would either of you want a lifelong responsibility if you weren't ready? Duh, of course both of you should be using protection ! Stop blaming each other and take personal accountability!!! Sick of hearing about child support and unwanted kids.
Truth has been told.
Amen! What trifling @ss woman would make a statement like this. I'm confused 😕. Both are to blame, more her than him, especially if she doesn't want a baby. Better be wearing condom to prevent them diseases as well. Ijs
It takes two! Together!
One plus One=Three!!!!!!!!!!😮😮😮😊
Both!! Get married before you start making babies.
As usual, Shuler NAILS it.
My mother and I had this conversation many times. My position is: a woman has a greater responsibility to prevent unwanted pregnancy because 99% of the time, the child will primarily be raised by her. My mother's famous reply was "It takes two to get those babies, but when the deal goes down...that's YOUR (the woman) baby."
Mom also used to say she didn't understand why there are soooo many children without their fathers in their lives. My response would be "because the fathers often didn't have a relationship with the mothers, so they felt no responsibility to a child that resulted from a hook up or botty call."
And on abortions, NO ONE ever mentions pregnancy PREVENTION 🤔!! UGGH
OK, Im done.
These comments... did y'all listen to Shuler? How you still gonna blame just one or the other? TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS.
Tell 'em!!! 🤔 😲 🤫
I can't believe they are putting full blame on the woman. This is ridiculous!
It's both
YOUR NOT LISTENING!!
STOP HEARING WHAT YOU WANNA HEAR,,,THE BLAME GAME IS SO LAME!!!!!
@Real Life I heard very well, and I am responding based on what I believe. By the way, it is "you're" not "your."
@I love the 80's love songs WELL IT SEEMS AS IF COMPREHENSION IS YOUR ISSUE!!!!
EMPHASIS ON YOUR!!!!!
DONT BE SLOW VIA SOCIAL MEDIA LIFE & REAL LIFE!!!!!!
@Real Life Once again, comprehension and my opinion are two different things. You seem to have issues with comprehending my point of view. You should also learn proper grammar.
They are both to blame
Lord,let the internet crash and burn.
Common sense ain’t common anymore.
We ain't judging...but we judging ...
Mic Drop!!!!!!!
It definitely goes both ways and both men and women need to be more responsible. I shouldn't have to control what comes out of a man. I can only control what I don't want to go inside of me or come out of me. Men, control what comes out of you and ladies, control what goes in... period.
Shuler, you spoke nothing but truth. Both parties take their own responsibility for the situation they created.
if he is a Bozo she is just as much a clown. Too bad “The Ringmaster” is 💀 cause they should be on The Jerry Springer Show! 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👌🏾J M
Well said, well said.
I carry my own condoms with me in my purse at all times.
The person who doesn't want the baby, is responsible for doing their part in the prevention of it. No man should be going raw in or even sleeping with a woman that he knows he doesn't want a baby with. That is his part to control. Once she's pregnant, he no longer has a choice to he has to make his choice before that happens.
And the woman shouldn't be committing actual murder if she gets pregnant either.
There's a very specific group of men with that "she didn't tell me to wear protection" mindset and I think we all know who they are
YUP!
Facts Shuler King 🤴🏾it takes 2
You touched some nerves on that one 👍🏾
Real talk.
How does that old saying go? "There will be plenty of blame to go around but if you take credit for the sunshine, you also get the blame for the rain." 😎
Preach today, man!
Preach Shuler
It takes 2 to make a thing go RIGHT. Are WRONG If You Will 🤔🙄🤦♀️🤷♀️
Butt naked twista huh...Shu🤣
One word . . . . VASECTOMY!
Should've kept HER LEGS CLOSED OR STRAP IT UP!!
He should have strapped up and kept his dick out the dirt 💯!
@@olebitty9414 right! Women blame women.
It's both of their faults, because men give and women receive. He has the keys, and she is the gate. It takes 2 to tango.
You can make them wear one, but you can't make him keep it on. Don't have sex with someone you ain't ready to be together for life!!! Don't have sex unless you ready for a life time commitment. There's too many toys where you can have all kinds of fun by yourself. Without consequences. PERIOD!!
Naa forget the toys too be celibate amen til you ready to procreate 😭😭😭😭😭😭
I am glad that stealthing is a crime in California and reproductive rights are in full force.. s@xual battery is foul and disgusting.
Again PREACH 😂
Real shit
I’m gonna say it’s on a man. Man is the stronger vessel and we were here first. Even God himself calls man the Head and not the tail.
Strongly disagree. The responsibility of a child being born is on both the man and woman. Does not matter if we were here first or if we are stronger. Being a head relates to marriage and spiritual leadership only. So if you are our here impregnating women that you are not married to, you have no claim to headship. You forfeited that when you decided to bypass God's law on sex and marriage.
For a lot of men it’s a sport to try to get naive ladies to let them have sex unprotected. Thus it became a sport for ladies to become bitter and get Child Support. I’m tired of hearing men complain about not being treated like “alpha men” but then defending this behavior in a blame game. This is childish.
It's both their responsibility to use protection, women need to take more control of their lives no condom no kitty, simple
the black men should have control over his nuts. no condonm no nutting.
both are 50% at fault. cause for the process of creation a fetus it takes both of them.
It Takes 2 To Tango & Sister You Was a Willing Partner...So If He's Bozo You're Clara The Clown 🤡...IJS!!!😂🤣😂
🤣Exactly RIGHT!
😂😂😂 Exactly!!
That Eddie Murphy Twister quote is 🏆
Facts king
For the people that did not hear him in the back.... You are not the only person in the world that she has slept with unprotected if she did it once she doing it every time. Facts and Truth!!!!!!
No lie,, these chicks be on social media talking about three kids , three different daddies 😳😲, any Ning Ning can 🎯 and leave, they are reckless with their wombs and marriage isn't a requirement
And from the outside looking in, some people ain't got no business hooking up like that 😅😅😅
Two adults so both is the blame
That's the world we're living in today...errybody wanna blame somebody else for their "misfortunes" smh!!
Amen!!!!
Anyman that goes into that situation with no condom you're asking for whatever you get, hopefully ain't no holes in that either 🤣🤣
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To be fair, some of these men out here are reckless with their seed, and then claim they were trapped when the women decides to have the child. At the same time, women need to make sure they choose the right person to sleep with and make sure their protected. So, both parties are at fault.
In the sense of what is legally allowed, they're right in terms of being "trapped." There is no way for a man to legally absolve himself from responsibility to a child. If abortion is legal, then a man should be able to financially abort during the same amount of time a woman can have an abortion.
@@dapperfan44 If you don't want a child, take measures to prevent it. I have no sympathy for people who are fast, reckless, and stupid that didn't try to prevent a child was being born. Yes, condoms break etc. but at least you tried to prevent pregnancy.
Both have a responsibility....but Men...know that after your face twist up and you go Ahhh in...there went your ability to make a choice about anything that comes after. Her body...her choice.
What’s that old saying no glove no love 😊