that has happened to me many times. People mostly react negatively to your determined cause. I just don't tell people what I am going to do next now, not even my close ones. One of the main reason I do not like telling people is that by tell people, your body gives you fake dopamine. You feel good when you talk about your goals in front of others but after you tell them, your will power and determination can never be the same.
The biggest one for me was not having a scarcity mindset and seeing things as an opportunity instead of a loss. The wealthy people I tend to encounter also lift others
I think not sharing your goals with a lot of people becomes a thing when your goals are beyond their beliefs. They just tell you it’s not possible which is not helpful. So don’t share cause others will introduce doubt
Just bumped into this video and I must say it is a game changer for me. I had to stop in the middle and take it all in and this is when you mentioned time as a valuable asset for me and those around me or making headway in business/investments (which in and of itself is another subject I have yet to tackle) instead of wasting this precious asset on mulling over 'necessarily unnecessary' stuff like cleaning the house, washing the car or trying to save a dollar or a pound here and there when you could be doing something much more valuable. Thank you...
Having the abundance mindset is the golden one for me. When applied to different facets of life u realise that having a scarcity mindset will 8/10 times hurt u
Wealthy people don't like telling others about their goals until they are about to achieve them. You often find that sharing your goals with others opens the door for them to steal your ideas or interfere with your process of achieving them.
Another big wealthy mindset is not getting caught up in the social pressures to buy or do things just to show off or because you are “suppose” to do something. Spending time doing things to impress other people is a fool’s errand. Focus on what you want to do and what is best for you.
Secret goals have a basis in science. You said you don'tk now exactly why it works, science says it's because the mind can't tell the difference between what's real and what's not (oversimplification ofc), so when you tell others your goals, your brain releases dopamine as if you actually accomplished your goals (watch derek sivers "keep your goals to yourself" ted talk), leading you to not actually follow through with them and end up dropping them. That's why it's better to never talk about them and just do them.
Congratulations on your early success. I feel very deeply about victim mentality. This is the heaviest stumbling block that may impede a person's progress for decades. The logic is simple: if a person wants to turn to a new page, she/he has to put down the previous page. However, to let go the past is not that easy. Many people think some people become wealthy because they are money-minded. Let me put it this way: they are resources-minded. They care about how their precious resources are allocated. Many people also think that people become wealthy because they are selfish. However, I know some people who possess quite some wealth. What is in common among them is that they are very caring to others and willing to offer a helping hand. This may be contrary to some people who believe that wealthy people become wealthy because they are selfish. They are also, as you said, trustworthy and reliable. That is why, money, a social credit, 'swims' towards them naturally.
8:11 What I believe to be reason for secret goals is that despite friends and family wishing you well, having them hear your goals might be an avenue for them to project their own fears. They might have tried the same thing you want to do and project the pain of failure in that thing omitting the fact that times are different and perhaps you'll have an alternate take on the goal. It's not that they're bad but it's a matter of protecting your visions and goals from negativity.
Great comment and for me you hit the nail on the head- just learnt that today. Friends & family mean well, but precisely like you said, they can project their fears and also insecurities onto you. It is hard though having to be vague, as people who don’t have a business mind might get offended why you aren’t telling them (just a pain to deal with).
I think the main reason they aren't willing to share or not bothered to share what their goals are is because they don't make a big deal out of it, like they don't even think it's something worth mentioning to other people to begin with, just sharing that piece of information is wasting their valuable time, so why waste time like this when you can just go out and get it done on your own
When you leave this earth, You can't take anything with you, Not even a handful of dirt. No matter how rich you are, Or how much you've amassed, You'll leave it all behind, And it will be in the past. So what's the point of wealth, If it can't follow you to death? It's better to live a life of love, And cherish every breath.
The owner of my previous company, who was recently named in the Times Top 300 richest people in the UK, once took me for a coffee and cake and bought me a coffee and a small cake for us to 'share' - now I know why he is so wealthy.
Great video. Being reliable is probably that one thing that really struck with me, as it is something I apply with everything I do. Especially when I say "I'll be there", I do everything in my power to show up. Unfortunately, you sometimes don't get the same return from others.
I just found your channel today, I've been talking with my partner about having the abundance mindset is crucial to our outlook on life which will attract opportunities. We both exercise these and are building our own businesses, for me my main struggle point is finding the right network. I have a few contacts who are on the same wavelength however, I'm still looking for the right people to connect with so that I can get closer to those opportunities to shine and reach my goals.
The most important one for me was avoiding a belief in scarcity and viewing things as an opportunity rather than a loss. The rich individuals I meet tend to lift others as well.
I do agree with the part of optimization with ROI, when I was getting a Mac, people advised me not to add on high features for example, one advised to go for less storage option and in case I need more storage I can buy external 1 TB SSD of Samsung, you can save money blah blah. And for me it was worth spending money to go for 2tb internal SSD cause it saves me from all those extra work of connecting to external SSD and than tranfer, again than disconnect. Because it I even switched to 96 gb unified memory just because I can have more peace of mind. And it's worth it. All the extra few thousand dollars are worth the peace and comfort that comes with it.
For the "secret goals", I don't really know a single reason why you would want to share your goals. Does anyone really care what your goals are? Let's say you waste your time and energy sharing your goals with someone. What do you expect will happen? That someone will praise you for having an interesting plan for your future? You will either get an „um... ok... cool story bro” or that person's opinion why your goal is stupid, risky or both.
Totally true. I identified with all of the characteristics observed, and they really do seem to be the common denominator of not only rich people, but more of a Stoic mindset. I've been trying to implement and be all that as much as I can. Can't say i've reached my finnacial goals os freedom, but im certainly on my way there. 🚀
They always seem to stack the odds in their favour for success. For example the average person will go to the gym, read up on things and just keep trying until something works. Rich ppl get trainers, meal prep etc so it’s harder for them to fail with the same to less effort put it
Some wealthy people are so tight/penny pinching, and charity doesn't come to them naturally unless they're getting some interest or business out of it. I've met some of them and I'm shocked. I believe wealth has a different definition to different people, which is not necessarily measured by how much money you have.
you’re definitely spot on, coming from lower class, a huge thing i notice is wealthy people embrace change a lot better. having the ability to accept & want change
It's easier to embrace change when you have more power/control to make decisions, which is something having an abundance of money brings. In contrast, I think lower class people HAVE to be creative or they don't survive, as all it takes is one or two big mistakes for them to lose everything and be out on the street. When they screw up, they don't get bailouts, they don't help. So I would argue the working poor have to be more adaptable to change. When bad policies get passed, they're the first ones that have to deal with the consequences.
Hey @Oliur Online you ask at the end of the video, thing we've observed, I think your videos would benefit from not looking so much at your screen (maybe your notes?) and just talk into the camera :) Good vibes, likes your videos though!
This is a good one. Thanks matey. I’ve been trying this lately and hearing you explain it your end cleared up a few things for me. Thanks for the content man. Loved watching you smash it 👊🏼
Great video- liked and subscribed. Being in business for just over a year now, I’m only starting to reflect on just how much my mindset has shifted from the average person!
This might help break down how to be rich in a logical text. if a poor person wins the lottery, there just a poor person with alot of money if a rich person goes broke there still a rich person, but with no money If elon musk lost all his money and businesses, he would have a million dollar buisness in less than a month because of his knowledge of buisness. Being rich is about the knowledge you have, NOT the amount of money you have I think being rich is self respecting yourself and disciplining yourself daily. If theirs no self respect then build it with discipline The more work you put into being rich, the more money comes, The money is a bi product of learning to be rich Being rich: - Meditate, Learn Business, Clean your room, Join a course, Learn to fight, Clean your mind, dont watch porn Marinate your mind into the practice of being rich, then the money comes underneath it as a benefit. Its easy to win in a world like this one guys where everyone is not rich minded and lazy . Find a course and learn how money is made and put the WORK in, so you can get richer everyday Your already a richer person off this knowledge I think its a lot easier to be 'rich' if you understand this
Wealthy people have an abundance mindset mean while the rest has a limited mindset……. Rich start business and start copurations and later buy a car under there business names . I can rent a luxury car on my business name . Not a big deal .
I subbed to your main channel when you had like 9K love your videos and content; they are possibly the reason I want to start my own business. Anyway, I want to ask you maybe make a video about your experience with the battle you had with cancer. Did it change your view on life? Did it change anything you value or didn't value like your family and friends, or even buying the Ferrari does have anything to do with it ? cheers.
Great video, Oliur! Moreover, wealthy mindset individuals rarely experience significant financial losses when making purchases. Take the MacBook, for example. Firstly, it qualifies as a business expense, and secondly, you can expect to recoup approximately one-third of your initial investment when you eventually sell it. 9:16
the time thing is not rlly true. there's a lot of cultures where being late is a social norm. it doesn't necessarily mean someone doesn't respect your time. it's just that saying you'll arrive at 8 to a social function isn't held in their minds as strongly and rigidly as you believe it
An abundance mindset only works if you are rich because they don't have any money problems 😆If you are single mother with 5 kids of course your going to have to be careful...
Wealthy people don’t share goals before it’s done because others people’s views can interfere with the manifestation ✨
exactly
that has happened to me many times. People mostly react negatively to your determined cause.
I just don't tell people what I am going to do next now, not even my close ones. One of the main reason I do not like telling people is that by tell people, your body gives you fake dopamine. You feel good when you talk about your goals in front of others but after you tell them, your will power and determination can never be the same.
@@mehrhamza63 ooh that’s a very interesting point-the dopamine. Thanks.
The biggest one for me was not having a scarcity mindset and seeing things as an opportunity instead of a loss. The wealthy people I tend to encounter also lift others
I think not sharing your goals with a lot of people becomes a thing when your goals are beyond their beliefs. They just tell you it’s not possible which is not helpful. So don’t share cause others will introduce doubt
Just bumped into this video and I must say it is a game changer for me. I had to stop in the middle and take it all in and this is when you mentioned time as a valuable asset for me and those around me or making headway in business/investments (which in and of itself is another subject I have yet to tackle) instead of wasting this precious asset on mulling over 'necessarily unnecessary' stuff like cleaning the house, washing the car or trying to save a dollar or a pound here and there when you could be doing something much more valuable. Thank you...
Having the abundance mindset is the golden one for me. When applied to different facets of life u realise that having a scarcity mindset will 8/10 times hurt u
I need to fix where I don't appreciate people's time part, absoflutely
Finally someone understands the slow computers effect you
Absolutely agree! 💰 Adopting that wealthy mindset can truly open doors. One perspective I've found valuable is how they embrace calculated risks. 🚀
Wealthy people don't like telling others about their goals until they are about to achieve them. You often find that sharing your goals with others opens the door for them to steal your ideas or interfere with your process of achieving them.
Another big wealthy mindset is not getting caught up in the social pressures to buy or do things just to show off or because you are “suppose” to do something.
Spending time doing things to impress other people is a fool’s errand. Focus on what you want to do and what is best for you.
Secret goals have a basis in science. You said you don'tk now exactly why it works, science says it's because the mind can't tell the difference between what's real and what's not (oversimplification ofc), so when you tell others your goals, your brain releases dopamine as if you actually accomplished your goals (watch derek sivers "keep your goals to yourself" ted talk), leading you to not actually follow through with them and end up dropping them. That's why it's better to never talk about them and just do them.
Love this.
Congratulations on your early success. I feel very deeply about victim mentality. This is the heaviest stumbling block that may impede a person's progress for decades. The logic is simple: if a person wants to turn to a new page, she/he has to put down the previous page. However, to let go the past is not that easy. Many people think some people become wealthy because they are money-minded. Let me put it this way: they are resources-minded. They care about how their precious resources are allocated. Many people also think that people become wealthy because they are selfish. However, I know some people who possess quite some wealth. What is in common among them is that they are very caring to others and willing to offer a helping hand. This may be contrary to some people who believe that wealthy people become wealthy because they are selfish. They are also, as you said, trustworthy and reliable. That is why, money, a social credit, 'swims' towards them naturally.
I like your whole setup and theme, so serene and modern. Plus gray is my fave color.
8:11 What I believe to be reason for secret goals is that despite friends and family wishing you well, having them hear your goals might be an avenue for them to project their own fears. They might have tried the same thing you want to do and project the pain of failure in that thing omitting the fact that times are different and perhaps you'll have an alternate take on the goal. It's not that they're bad but it's a matter of protecting your visions and goals from negativity.
Great comment and for me you hit the nail on the head- just learnt that today. Friends & family mean well, but precisely like you said, they can project their fears and also insecurities onto you. It is hard though having to be vague, as people who don’t have a business mind might get offended why you aren’t telling them (just a pain to deal with).
I think the main reason they aren't willing to share or not bothered to share what their goals are is because they don't make a big deal out of it, like they don't even think it's something worth mentioning to other people to begin with, just sharing that piece of information is wasting their valuable time, so why waste time like this when you can just go out and get it done on your own
I know people who are constantly late who just have problems with time. It's not that they dont care. It's just difficult for them to manage time.
I do have a cleaner come every week to do up the house. But I fucked up yesterday telling someone about my new goal. Gotta cut that out
Wealthy people are always present. When they are talking with you they are there in that moment.
$100,000,000 may strike fear, confusion, impossibility in most people while few make such their obsession, life, happiness etc.
❤❤❤
That's great information - thankyou. Another reason people may not tell others what they're doingis because they don't want negative comments.
When you leave this earth,
You can't take anything with you,
Not even a handful of dirt.
No matter how rich you are,
Or how much you've amassed,
You'll leave it all behind,
And it will be in the past.
So what's the point of wealth,
If it can't follow you to death?
It's better to live a life of love,
And cherish every breath.
The owner of my previous company, who was recently named in the Times Top 300 richest people in the UK, once took me for a coffee and cake and bought me a coffee and a small cake for us to 'share' - now I know why he is so wealthy.
As someone who has also just turned 30, this is real reminder for me to strive to become better. See you at the top brother!
Thanks for that right information 🎉
Keep making great content! This channel is going to blow up! Love it !
Wealthy people think about growing money all the time. Poor people think of spending money all the time.
Great video. Being reliable is probably that one thing that really struck with me, as it is something I apply with everything I do. Especially when I say "I'll be there", I do everything in my power to show up. Unfortunately, you sometimes don't get the same return from others.
I just found your channel today, I've been talking with my partner about having the abundance mindset is crucial to our outlook on life which will attract opportunities. We both exercise these and are building our own businesses, for me my main struggle point is finding the right network. I have a few contacts who are on the same wavelength however, I'm still looking for the right people to connect with so that I can get closer to those opportunities to shine and reach my goals.
The most important one for me was avoiding a belief in scarcity and viewing things as an opportunity rather than a loss. The rich individuals I meet tend to lift others as well.
I do agree with the part of optimization with ROI, when I was getting a Mac, people advised me not to add on high features for example, one advised to go for less storage option and in case I need more storage I can buy external 1 TB SSD of Samsung, you can save money blah blah. And for me it was worth spending money to go for 2tb internal SSD cause it saves me from all those extra work of connecting to external SSD and than tranfer, again than disconnect. Because it I even switched to 96 gb unified memory just because I can have more peace of mind. And it's worth it. All the extra few thousand dollars are worth the peace and comfort that comes with it.
Nice car bro. But the steering wheel is on the wrong side 😂
Greetings from Germany
Love the background music 👌🏻
Good one.
Hey Oliur, this is the most valuable video I watched, that connected the dots in my mind.
I just subscribed. I saw your podcast with Ali Abdaal. You have such good sense about life. Thanks for your video.
I wish I’d knew this sooner
The delayed gratification really struck me haha. I need to work on that
Lateness is something that drives me mad 😡
Thanks for sharing this perspective Oliur
Delayed gratification is a good one that can be applied to all aspects of life
For the "secret goals", I don't really know a single reason why you would want to share your goals. Does anyone really care what your goals are? Let's say you waste your time and energy sharing your goals with someone. What do you expect will happen? That someone will praise you for having an interesting plan for your future? You will either get an „um... ok... cool story bro” or that person's opinion why your goal is stupid, risky or both.
Totally true. I identified with all of the characteristics observed, and they really do seem to be the common denominator of not only rich people, but more of a Stoic mindset. I've been trying to implement and be all that as much as I can. Can't say i've reached my finnacial goals os freedom, but im certainly on my way there. 🚀
Bro you deserve it don’t look at as unnecessary, you worked hard it’s good to treat yourself
Bro you inspire me! Another amazing video.
Congrats on the ferrari, I’m gonna update you when I get mines lol
They always seem to stack the odds in their favour for success. For example the average person will go to the gym, read up on things and just keep trying until something works. Rich ppl get trainers, meal prep etc so it’s harder for them to fail with the same to less effort put it
Thank you for this , I’m on the journey myself and was wondering if you have any tips on meeting such types of people with that mindset
Big yeah for me. Thanks!!!
Some wealthy people are so tight/penny pinching, and charity doesn't come to them naturally unless they're getting some interest or business out of it. I've met some of them and I'm shocked. I believe wealth has a different definition to different people, which is not necessarily measured by how much money you have.
you’re definitely spot on, coming from lower class, a huge thing i notice is wealthy people embrace change a lot better.
having the ability to accept & want change
It's easier to embrace change when you have more power/control to make decisions, which is something having an abundance of money brings. In contrast, I think lower class people HAVE to be creative or they don't survive, as all it takes is one or two big mistakes for them to lose everything and be out on the street.
When they screw up, they don't get bailouts, they don't help. So I would argue the working poor have to be more adaptable to change. When bad policies get passed, they're the first ones that have to deal with the consequences.
That was a killer intro, bro! 🔥
Been absolutely loving your content lately; these are fantastic observations. Many of these ring true from my experience as well.
Excellent summaries Oliur
Hey @Oliur Online you ask at the end of the video, thing we've observed, I think your videos would benefit from not looking so much at your screen (maybe your notes?) and just talk into the camera :) Good vibes, likes your videos though!
I like the secret goals one. It's a good way to avoid hearing negativity 🙉
Nice setup and good point
I love it! thanks for this Oliur
People bash cars but honestly, it’s a great motivator - the feeling you get being in a 10/10 car pushes you to do & want even more, it’s great
I definitely agree with this Oliur! Great content!
This is a good one. Thanks matey. I’ve been trying this lately and hearing you explain it your end cleared up a few things for me. Thanks for the content man. Loved watching you smash it 👊🏼
Sooo good 👍🏻 thanks for sharing
Great video- liked and subscribed. Being in business for just over a year now, I’m only starting to reflect on just how much my mindset has shifted from the average person!
I started watching your YT channel a few years back cause of the tech reviews, but love these type of videos even more. Thanks for sharing man.
This might help break down how to be rich in a logical text.
if a poor person wins the lottery, there just a poor person with alot of money
if a rich person goes broke there still a rich person, but with no money
If elon musk lost all his money and businesses, he would have a million dollar buisness in less than a month because of his knowledge of buisness.
Being rich is about the knowledge you have, NOT the amount of money you have
I think being rich is self respecting yourself and disciplining yourself daily. If theirs no self respect then build it with discipline
The more work you put into being rich, the more money comes, The money is a bi product of learning to be rich
Being rich: - Meditate, Learn Business, Clean your room, Join a course, Learn to fight, Clean your mind, dont watch porn
Marinate your mind into the practice of being rich, then the money comes underneath it as a benefit.
Its easy to win in a world like this one guys where everyone is not rich minded and lazy .
Find a course and learn how money is made and put the WORK in, so you can get richer everyday
Your already a richer person off this knowledge
I think its a lot easier to be 'rich' if you understand this
This is really helpful and I can echo all the points you've shared. Keep it up with this kind of content!
gratitude
How can I up level my network? What are the paid communities to join or what is the strategy towards this in general? Thank you!
Wealthy people have an abundance mindset mean while the rest has a limited mindset……. Rich start business and start copurations and later buy a car under there business names . I can rent a luxury car on my business name . Not a big deal .
Like your video quality. How did you soften your video? What type of light?
Really well structured video…I particularly thought the segment on family at the end really hit the nail on the head…great advice 👍🏽
Wow. I learned a lot from this. Thanks mate.
I subbed to your main channel when you had like 9K love your videos and content; they are possibly the reason I want to start my own business. Anyway, I want to ask you maybe make a video about your experience with the battle you had with cancer. Did it change your view on life? Did it change anything you value or didn't value like your family and friends, or even buying the Ferrari does have anything to do with it ? cheers.
I’ve actually already done that in a video on my main channel. Answers quite a few of your questions.
@@OliurOnline I will have a look I have a bell on how did I missed it lol
That's brilliant content Oliur! Keep creating more! Enjoying this content!
Great video, Oliur! Moreover, wealthy mindset individuals rarely experience significant financial losses when making purchases. Take the MacBook, for example. Firstly, it qualifies as a business expense, and secondly, you can expect to recoup approximately one-third of your initial investment when you eventually sell it. 9:16
Bang on!
Amazing content mate 👏
I like your new style
I can’t wait to watch this ❤️🇿🇦
the time thing is not rlly true. there's a lot of cultures where being late is a social norm. it doesn't necessarily mean someone doesn't respect your time. it's just that saying you'll arrive at 8 to a social function isn't held in their minds as strongly and rigidly as you believe it
Great vid oliur - I NEED to know the font name you use for the subtitles. I love it. Plz let me know!
Inter!
It’s free and a great font too.
Grats on the habits that led to achieving the dream car! Enjoy it, dude! Keep inspiring.
Common Oliur W
Loved It
Unfortunately, I am not rich 😅 but this is my mentality .
Great advice
Looking in great condition as well Oliur!
Great video brother. Been starting to change my mindset to this too.
Greate content. Congrats.
Great video
Spot on mate
Love the video. Wish everyone on here good luck and a happy life!
great topic
I just love man
Gold
An abundance mindset only works if you are rich because they don't have any money problems 😆If you are single mother with 5 kids of course your going to have to be careful...
Loved the video! Mindset is key.
Legend!
Nice
Amazing video… this is definitely changing the trajectory of my life ♥️ ! I appreciate you so much
What Kind of MacBook is that one ?
Waow! You make that much money from a RUclips channel with a little under 150k followers?!