My Son’s Father Keeps Getting Locked Up... Should I Move On?
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Lmaoooo she said dummy so hard
She said it with her chest
I can tell from the end of the first call she ain't leaving dude lmao. Tragic
Yep. She's gonna play that dumb ride or die role and ruin her and her son's life 😅
@@Prismatic9008 literally lmao. 🤦🏾♂️
Facts smh
@@Prismatic9008exactly typical black woman smh
3rd caller: 🤔why are you calling Jess. Call the👮🏽♂️.
Right smh tf. The next thing you hear is that her son committed suicide from this because he couldn't take it & she didn't get him help yet she called John with the mess.
She looking the Donkey Of The Day. She probably did call the police but looking extra clout off her son
Lol
Yo I'm dead 😅
This is wild and can’t be true. You mean to tell me this awful mom is waiting to go to the cops and no one on the board has contacted the authorities? Either she hasn’t done anything at all or she’s lying.
Yes. Next question?
🤣right !
Yeah right 😂 your baby daddy probably in jail right now
😂😂😂
@@kkaybaltimore I'm a guy...I also don't have any baby mommas lol
Pretty much lol
Move on from a man who has no work ethic and no desire to raise his kid…. You and your kid deserve better!
She needs to hold herself accountable, wouldn't you agree
Random question but has manifesting really been working for you? And is it based on you manifesting but also believing that it will happen?
Definitely part her fault tho
The kid deserves better but this couldve all been avoided this is why the dating pool is fucked up now you saying move on to who?why another man gotta deal with her and her jailbird baby daddy?you think thats gonna go over smooth?she made that bed she gotta lie in it
Should have thought about this before having a child with a man that’s already in and out of jail! You women get with these ain’t shit men and expect them to change. Dont move on support him.
Jess handled those questions WELL!! 👏 👏 👏
Imagine calling a radio station for advice 😂
@TellingthetruthShamestheDevilthey don’t hear you though! Love this ❤straight facts!
When she said "He's just selling drugs" that told me all I needed to know. She doesn't care that he's a drug dealer but only cares that he keeps getting caught. She's chose him because he bought her with the drug money! Of course she should move on but probably won't. Sad for her son.
I thought that too; she likes that drug dealer money he brings otherwise the cooch should have dried up long ago for a dude who refuses to provide for his family by any other means necessary
1st woman: She already chose pookie. She might as well stick with him. She loves him and that lifestyle. A “good man” would only bore her and she will ruin him for a woman who has been raised to be a wife.
EXACTLY, and once he gets out of jail. She’s going to go right back with him like she did the first 2 times.
Never fails bro
“I can’t work for nobody!!!”… people need to check their egos…
Meanwhile they working for the Bureau of Prisons in the library and laundry room
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@@Jrfusion08 lmao exactly
damon dash had this debate with the breakfast club and it was so frustrating to listen to it. entrepreneurship is great but everyone got to start somewhere. i thought dash was wrong and even business owners need employees. shitting on employees when you need them for the business made no sense to me. a business owner never do it by themselves. most can't. respect the people who make businesses successful. and like jess said some drug dealers are working for other people anyway. she wanted to say niggas and did but change direction lol.
Also be working for and risking their life/freedom for another mf in the streets
Calling a radio station instead of going to the police when your kid is being harassed and sexually assaulted is wildly stupid. If you dont remove your kid from that school then lawyer up 🤦🏿♂️.
Going to the police for high school insults ? Ok.
Right, call the POLICE!!! TF
The mother is a jackass and she isn't taking this serious. Why would you call the radio station about this smh
She needs to take her child out of that school and press charges on the administrators.
Females will choose a man they blame him for being exactly who they knew he was😂
She’s just as smart as him! I feel for the child
I literally try take the hair off my screen😂
Low self esteem and a lack of quality black men is bad combination.
I was about to say this 😂😂
Exactly, and they won't respect comments like this either.
"Now you're a single mom...." 🎶 😂
First thing I thought right after hearing this crap lol
She's already single! He's in jail!
@@NicoliePollieOllie She knew what she was dealing with. She thought she could change him. Men aren't projects. Takes a special kind of woman to bring out the best in us. Obviously, she wasn't it 🤷🏾♂️
That’s nothing to tease about. You probably didn’t have your dad
@kelsblair5963 Lmfaooo. That's crazy you said that. I guess you think you're a "RUclips Therapist." That was cute. I'm not even mad you said that to me. You must be having a bad day. I hope it gets better for you 🙏🏽
3rd caller...Lawyer up!!🙄
@dawgfacesoldier I see ya 3rd I D in the house
@@randywilborn672 3rd BDE, 2-69 AR, Fort Benning, GA (1994-1998)
He dont like no one to tell him what to do but he gets locked up with the most restrictions
That's what I said. He's a joke.
Ummm Duh!!! What kinda stupid question is that. No person of value would even have a child with someone like that.
I hope she didn't think a baby would stop him from trapping.
If these are real questions people calling in for them some people real dumb, I ain't coming to a radio station to ask what should I do about a life decision😂
That part 🎯
YOU sound dumb. You ain't never ask advice from nobody in your life? WTF!
Who really cares 😐 nobody at the end of the day 🤷🏾♂️. If he keeps getting locked 🔐 up he must have found him a friend with benefits in there ya feel me.
😂😂😂
Buy that guy some cologne instead. 😂
Now girl… you should know the answer is to leave and get as far away as possible from him!!! 😩
She let'em hit it raw/now she has 2nd thoughts/now she's single mom/no she's a single mom!🤔🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️😝🤣
What about a nice dinner and a cheaper gift like a Gucci wallet?
Some parents are truly lost...smh
His response is literally jail.
@8:30 She needs to call the ACLU, GLADD, the police, the superintendent of schools (if she hasn't already) -- this is child endangerment. There are laws against this behavior. AND the administrators who are not taking this seriously need to be fired!
That's all they do in jail is tell u what to do smh. HE IS GAY!!
Move on babygirl
These buzz words like “assaulted’ need to be specified like‘verbal’ vs ‘physical’ j/s
she choose him.....
Had his baby, a now want a good dude to come help take care of them.😭😭 F out of here.
chose*
I love Jess ❤❤
If that happened to my BD just once, and it was really something he did id be gone.
First caller: Never hold on to a dusty boy. Time is a terrible thing to waste.
The first two callers were being used, the first one, this lacking knowledge dude kept doing the same cycles of things, knowing that his baby mother (that who she is) will be there for him to pick up the piece's with him and for him. He will not change himself for no one, not even his son who is and will see and know that his daddy is a DEADBEAT, BLAMING OTHERS FOR HIS LOW VIBRATION FRUIT LIFE.
THE SECOND, caller, is using gifts to make a man like and love her, that which they are just using her and see her has nothing more than a jump off with benefits of gifts giving. Lady that is not who you say you are, this is a pattern of cycles for you due to low self esteem and lacking self love.
These wasteman don't want you and aren't willing to change and see you as the queen you deserves to be and treated with the respect and kindness always.
RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN
🎯when you know better, do better👩🏿🏫
@@Warriorvelcro
That is it. Concur, by knowledge the just shall be delivered. Why go on the repeating voyages doing the same cycles and patterns over and over again in that same wilderness to not see and transform mindset and heart.
Those who know better, do better. For sure.
Thanks for sharing your post
Fruitful and Joyful week/weekend.
Do they film these after the show?
Oh Jess I thought that was somebody else yesterday you was about to get beat up😂
Got a kid with a man who doesn’t see the importance of staying out of jail for his kid. Move on sweetheart cause if you stay you’re teaching your son that’s what a relationship supposed to be. Being selfish because he’s too lazy to try to change his life.
Wow she’s from Orangeburg?? That’s wild
Orangeburg, SC come on..
Move on at this stage. As soon as I hear drugs... 🏃♀💨
If a drug dealer keeps getting caught he hasnt learned a dam thing and is a horrible drug dealer. That's the type of stupid drug dealer cops can't wait til they get out so that they can catch them again and make their numbers
This mother is SLLOOOW... send them to JAILLLL
Jess came with excellent responses👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. This portion of the BKFTClub is her niche tbh.
3rd caller though: call the cops smmfh. Why you calling Jess? 🙄🙄🙄. Clearly she just wanted to be heard and give a Donkey of the Day shout 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Im so confused why the mother called into the station instead of going to the police or getting a lawyer about the administrators secually harassing her child??????? Im not sure if shes able to put him in a different school or not and dont know what all her options are but you had to call a radio station to figure out how to protect your kid???? That one made me mad
5:48 good advice Jess! Get something meaningful. If you’re going to be together for a while, you can always get him something fly later. Y’all not even together and you’re thinking of getting him a ROLEX?!
You've asked yourself that question, then you asked your best friend that question and now you ask a social media podcast that question? You already have the answer!
Mabey he needs a little help and his pride won't let him show it. Once your in the system its hard to get out. Especially without a support system. Be there for him Jess.
yeah no
Nooooo....much DISRESPECT!
Yes that’s what you choose you ain’t gonna do better than that when you have him your wombs , next
0:00 - What beat is that again?
She said, “Why do you mean?” 😅
Women who spend money on men are like mutants to me I thought just a lady is amazing but a gift giver as well she a whole superhero out here😂
When you said the word KEEP I didn't even want to hear anymore
I don’t know the backstory, but I think a big part of this that could be missing is that people wrapped up in selling drugs get trapped into and can’t leave. People do you ‘favors’ while in jail like protection etc and when you get out they don’t just let you go. He could be in all kinds of debt and that debt isn’t just paid because you don’t wanna do it anymore. There’s always more to a story. With that said moving on is harder than it sounds caz guys like her man keep her wrapped and don’t let go
Yes! He probably got a man in there waiting for his ass as much as he keep getting locked up! 😂😂😂
Yes in this case.
Sis heard too many rap songs 😂 girl! Being a ride or die is something black men made up to keep women loyal despite them not😂😂
They be knowing the answers before they even ask it
They already know the answers before they even ask it.*
She’s giving advice to people without knowing all the details.
She can only go off what they tell her . The caller doesn’t have to take the advice
Why do you need to ask anyone not in your family whether you should move on or not?
Jess was very articulate, understanding, and wise with her responses. She's really grown alot. I feel like there's more substance to her presence in tbc than yee 🤔
Not a Rolex after 2 months 😮
He's been getting locked up before the baby, and she was attrached to that shit. Lol😊
Exactly! Now she's hit with the reality that she's going to be raising her son alone.
When I saw the thumbnail, I thought Jess’s son’s father was in jail.
That's true. You have to support your son alone while he keeps going to jail. He's selfish. He should want to do better just for himself, and his son
Very sad 😮
The first one won't
Wanna see Da God face Monday morning when he finds out fake got another child
If you go to jail y’all might as well break up she’s not going to be loyal they never are
“Rolly talking” most people or the average everyday person can’t afford a Rolex if that’s what she meant. So Jess thinking that’s the case is wild lol.
Bad advice, Jess this is NOT UR LANE PLS STOP 😂
Jess cost that man a Rolex. 😅
Dude getting a new watch 😅
2nd girl.... Gift card always works with men. The gift loadable card is great because they can spend it anywhere but he is not your ex men. Be you
Where's the thought in a gift card?
Sara... it's only 2 months. Dinner and maybe a show.
If you've done this before, what are the odds of having the same results. 🤔
He don't like being told what to do but he keeps going to jail. 🤔
Tell him Jess
If that spouse isnt trying to grow, leave them. Simple as that. Cant have that around
She still gonna give him that Rollie
Typical brother. Stop messing with them kid or not. Move on
why do yall ask strangers for advice ?
Two months in and you are already spending that kinda cash on him???
Both. Move on but support him
Angela who?? Yo I never seen a person forgotten so fast
Easy ass question…
Why is that lady calling the breakfast club about her son being harassed what is wrong with people
You can tell Jess doesn't like doing this segment
I doubt it. She is pregnant AF , tired and uncomfortable.
It's true he afraid of real life. Don't do that Jess. It's a real illness for men. But your right it's not his daughter problem but it's real. I agree move on
So a grown man who rather go back and forth to jail…..can’t go to work for himself, least of all a child and lady?!?! smh
Did he sell drugs when u met him, when u got pregnant, do u accept the money, do u aid him in any way, ANY WAY??? U signed up for this.
First caller….Yes! Move on! The generational curse has to end. Do better for your son. She probably will stay with him because she doesn’t think she can do better.
U down when the money n purses n cars out eats out town its all good n soon as he gives to jail there a problem Jess have know idea about real streets
The first caller is so desperate to keep a man it's pathetic this shouldt be a question. Smh
Yes but next time don't go after a loser.
That first caller seems less smart than the drug dealer boyfriend
What blows my mind is that a woman will chase after a jailbird who shows no attempt to be a dad to his kid. That’s a easy walk
The mother with the boy being sexually harassed in school very easy to wake that school up she should obtain a lawyer after she files a police report typically when is an investigation like that they put the person or people on administrative leave and apparently they didn't do that so it's like nonchalant they really don't care
She should definitely take legal action. There was no reason for her to call Jess. This is too serious to be calling a radio station.
I know from experience my son has a disability and they basically did the same thing to me the minute I said lawyer they woke up I even filed a complaint with the school department when it was all said and done my son was catered to the teachers got reprimanded which I think they should have got fired I took my son out of that school put him in private school he got in with a scholarship
Damnnnnnn Jess fuckin up bruh almost got a ap 😂😅
Why is this a topic??!! Some shit u should keep to yourself or discuss with an actual friend... Social media killing some of y'all
Jess is best🌹
move onto what , you only get as good as baby dad .
Disagree with Jess wholeheartedly: she needs to stay with him because she DOESN'T deserve better. She chose to have a child by an ain't 💩 jail 🥷🏾. The most important decision a woman can make is who she chooses to be the father of her child. The man she had her child by is what she deserves. Nothing more
And ultimatums only work from a position of leverage? Again: she had a kid by this dude. She validated his behavior by giving him access to her body and her womb.
What incentive would there be for him to change when he clearly got what he wanted out of her. If impending fatherhood doesn't illicit a sense of course correct, no ultimatum out of her mouth would