Powerful interview! I'm a clinical therapist specializing in trauma, and I must say, you have already started your healing process. God ahead and move forward. Praying you will see it through.
Rome was quite vulnerable during this interview. This demonstrates emotional maturity. Jess and Rome are beautiful examples of healthy co-parenting. They both are emotionally mature, which makes this possible. Well done.
Im engaged now but this hits home hard, especially being former air force, Ive made some dumb choices bc I didnt want to be alone sometimes. I appreciate him admitting he cant handle being alone! People dont admit this especially men. Salute to Rome showing vulnerability, need more OGs to do this. Nothing wrong telling a bro "Im a little down can I crash at your place?". That's what friends are for.
I finally understand the nature of Jess’ and Rome’s relationship. Jess looks out for Rome because she knows that he doesn't really have anyone else. Since they‘re not romantically involved and aren't interested in one another but have a son together, it creates a brother-sister dynamic. I can appreciate that. Jess has a big heart. 💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes the part that gets me is when she first had her son by ROME and she was struggling to pay bills sitting in her apartment with no lights and electricity………he won’t around.
@@pareeshaslaughter6798 Yeah, I agree. However, I'm glad he explained why: He believed there was a man in the home, and his girlfriend at the time was telling him she's trying to use him. It's not a great reason, but I‘m glad he explained it.
These are the type of interviews I love from the Bfast Club! As a black man, Rome's vulnerability and willingness to improve as a person is very admirable.
@@TSM-tv8hyI can't stand my bd ( he can really kiss my whole family ass) and im pretty sure he can't stand me either but when u are mature enough and live long enough..... U'll understand that not everybody " men"are bad or running game. It actually is some good men out here. And one day, eventually u ( not saying u personally) but u can have a adult conversation.
I said the same thing ; he remind me of the kid that getting bully in school ...even though he seem ok with he not;; that's just my opinion we really have to love on our men ; never know what trauma they facing inside; obviously sex is not the answer! he searching,,🙏…I ❤️ Rome&Jess
MAAAAAN THIS ACTUALLY BOUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES...I SINCERELY FELT ROMES PAIN....AND IM SO GLAD THEY HAVE EVOLVED IN LIFE AND NOW STAND IN MATURITY AND IT'S BASED IN LOVE!!!
I wasn’t expecting to cry ever watching the show but when he took those glasses off & apologized it was sincere & I pray Rome gets the help he needs to heal. & thank you Jess for being there for Rome. Beautiful black love. 🙏🏽
@@tressamorgan1128no that was Narcissistic game, he knows Jess weak spots, and Lil shades off BS was some pulling heart strings BS 😂😂 Rome think he slick😂
@@mistahjay8598it could be narcissistic I guess. He’s played women all his life. I noticed he kept saying he’s young & has time but no one knows when they will leave this earth & the true judge ain’t accepting no excuses. I do believe he’s messed up though from his dads parenting to his mothers death. Hurt lil boy becomes a manipulator, cheater, liar, alcoholic, toxic, depressed hurt lil boy.
This is probably the best interview I have ever seen. Co-parenting , co-existing ... is easier said than done. These parents need an award, a medal, something. Shout out to Rome and Jess for sharing their story. Amazing work Breakfast Club👍
Yes for sure. However when they can't or won't stay together this is commendable responsible maturity. Parents go their separate way for many different reasons. Kudos to these 2.
Pregnant or not, Jess is so great because she brought him on the show knowing he can get extra help to continue his healing and show their community that positive co-parenting is possible.
Seen black man being so raw and vulnerable is amazing!!! Because I bet my wholeeeee paycheck somebody listening to this was able to relate and say damn… it’s not just me.. damn, my feelings are valid…. Mad props to Black men evolving ❤
I love that he’s being so vulnerable and holding himself accountable. I feel like a lot of BMs and BDs can benefit from these conversations. It’s about the kid first and these relationships can be healthy✊🏾
If you ever decide to have a kid its not about you anymore. Its not about him anymore. Its about the child. Its obvious alot of parents dont care about the kids because alot of them grow up with only one parent. As long as nobody is abusive both need to stay for the child it can always work. People give up to easy
@@rzwitdauncut You’re so right. Do you feel like sometimes it’s also not being able to control your emotions enough to put your feelings aside and focus solely on the child? I feel like that has something to do with too
@@rzwitdauncut I tell my nieces this all the time - don’t be out here having a baby if you’re not done being selfish because once you bring a life into this world, it’s not about you anymore. Your focus is the baby - period✊🏾
say this to my “mom” all the time, the reality is that they really hate themselves which in actuality causing them to hate the version of self that they see in us.
Then he added “I’m 20 yrs younger and still want & have time to change. You’re still doing the same shit at your age!” Baby if this isn’t the final nail in the coffin I don’t know what else qualifies as such 😢
@@Slim25-r2l they see the part of themselves they dislike reflected back to them & can’t stand it. But somehow expect their kids & everyone else to tolerate their flawed ways
My mom and dad are similar to them. They were never married, had 4 kids together, and a on and off relationship.. no it wasn’t all good but they grew to become best friends, and they’re really close in a friendly way. It feels good to see that
This was one the most honest, most vulnerable, and most transparent interviews thus far. Thank you Jess and Rome for allowing this interview to be a safe space for people who are currently going through this, and a great reflection for people who have gone through this and are choosing to grow... ✨💛
One of the best interviews, seeing a man being so vulnerable and serious about the situations he has been through. That’s a big deal. Most celebrities wouldn’t come up there and be this real. This is an eye opener for most men. Not wanting to be alone is a real feelings most MEN feel but won’t admit.
You gotta watch their old RUclips series its hilarious.... One time she said he was drinking while driving with their son in the car, he said I wasn't drinking and driving, I was drinking before I came to pick him up and had to drive to come pick him up 😂😂😂😂
To have your baby's father on your show reminiscing about how yall got together, first dates and allat while pregnant by a new boyfriend is nasty work 😂
This one of the realest Breakfast club interviews ever!! BIG Shoutout to Rome. He spoke a lot of our truths. Black Men are better because this testimony! BIG Shoutout to Charlamagne too for offering a great therapist. Please take him up on that King ✊🏾👑
One of the best interviews y'all have ever had. Rome struggled to look Jess in the eye the whole time. Guilt, shame and anger are whooping him, but he was incredibly articulate and vulnerable. This convo was necessary.
Some of us may be able to empathize without being able to fully relate, especially if we haven't experienced a broken home, an abusive father, a complicated family situation, or baby mommas. While I appreciate Rome's honesty and openness, our experiences are not the same. So yeah, some of us can empathize, but NOT relate. 👍🏾
This interview and conversation was so beautiful and raw and unfiltered and needed. Thank both of them for their evolution, for their selflessness on letting us into their story so that we could learn and for the glow up in general. Changing habits, finding grace for yourself and others, ego death, learning how to communicate etc etc is so mf hard to do! Anyone who attempts and succeeds at it is to be applauded and I'm so proud of both of them for doing that for themselves, their kids and each other! It inspires me to do the same💯
I love love love when black people heal. It's beautiful. Shout out to Jess and Rome for showing their vulnerbility and sharing their story. Much love to Rome for his honesty and growth.
I cried when he apologized to herrrr but this was the funniest , best interview in a minute ! One thing about it , I love their coparenting relationship 🔥
This is a real conversation. A lot of black families do stuff like what Rome is talking about to their kids, nieces, nephews etc. A lot of black (American/West Indian mostly) Gen X and Baby Boomers sabotaged their kids and whenever the younger people try to speak to them to fix it privately, they deny, lie, cry etc. It's sad and this is difficult to say but we need to forgive them and do better in our own lives. Jess is a good woman for giving him the space to heal and share his experiences on these public platforms.
Co Parents are the first healthy village for their children. Parents CAN get along and be there for one another as well as creating a safe space for their children. I LOVE it.
I worked with Rome a couple years ago. This is so beautiful to see. I hope that their children become even more successful because of the work you’ve put in to have a healthy co parenting relationship. BMore stand up!
See how much better it can be when you take the fake hate out,take the fake attitudes out,take the bullshit drama out and just coexist and make the best of a situation with the person you once loved ? Anger takes more energy than happiness,especially when y’all fake angry
@@idivas_TriciaWhy get pregnant? Why deliver the child? What's the protocol that led to the decision even to have sex other than your mating impulses being appealed to?
I hear you. I also think its important to realize this is happening communally. I can't take on a man's pain one-on-one. I'm not built for it. But when he expresses so in a safe communal space. It is powerful and SEXY! We can take a new chapter back home where we discuss how to move forward. I cant emphasis enough how much I need for my home space to be non-toxic - its too much of a trigger from my own childhood pain
Maybe this can help some of yall miserable babymamas and daddies instead of complaining look how to black people can co exist and raise a a child together with no drama THIS IS WHY THIS IS NEEDED WHY WOULDN'T HE BE ON HERE JESS IS GREAT FOR THE BREAKFAST CLUB
@@302ecumm, married people with kids get divorced and go through difficult custody battles all the time! The issues they went through doesn't just apply to people who have kids and not being married.
I have no words....an absolutely touching, loving, and evolving black excellence parenting and friendship! God bless them both, their child, his children, and her upcoming one! A beautiful bond! 💙🙏🏽♾️
I love their relationship. I use to watch their RUclips series. This interview gave exactly what it was suppose to give. I cannot wait for the book, because I am going to purchase it.
This was a really great convo. I agree with them. I think once feelings are not involved and you really want what’s best for the child, you can have a good co-parenting relationship.
We routing for you Rome! I love their relationship. This was a really great conversation & Im glad Jess used this outlet to share their highs/lows. I’m so happy for Rome for being transparent & vulnerable bc a lot of men can learn from him & Im glad he’s holding himself according. I love how she includes him on every level. I pray that he is able to heal from the trauma of his past.
Wow...I was done watching you all..but tuned in and boy oh boy...this was extremely powerful. Everyone NEEDS TO HEAR THEIR STORY. and the maturity of Jess is out standing.
I wish it was longer! I learned so much! Amazing interview, with so much transparency:). As a black man who grew up without my father around I felt his pain very deeply. But it's so awesome that he is trying to write his own narrative and be the father to his kids that he never had. Shout out to Jess and the BC for making this happen!!!
@Breakfast Club I love what ya'll are doing. This was a conversation that alot of people needed to hear. I love how everyone was vulnerable and kept it 100. I hope a lot of the bitter babymamas and babydaddies out there listened and took a inner look within themselves. Co-Parenting is really not that hard as long as both parties put the child first and take the past emotions out. If after 5 years of break up and you still having co-parenting issues that means someone is still in their feelings and is purposely going against the grain out of spite. PERIOD!!
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Powerful interview! I'm a clinical therapist specializing in trauma, and I must say, you have already started your healing process. God ahead and move forward. Praying you will see it through.
Rome was quite vulnerable during this interview. This demonstrates emotional maturity. Jess and Rome are beautiful examples of healthy co-parenting. They both are emotionally mature, which makes this possible. Well done.
I thought somebody fucked Country Wayne’s Hairline over until I looked at the views I said this couldn’t be 😅
Agree! This is great to see as a human
Im engaged now but this hits home hard, especially being former air force, Ive made some dumb choices bc I didnt want to be alone sometimes. I appreciate him admitting he cant handle being alone! People dont admit this especially men. Salute to Rome showing vulnerability, need more OGs to do this. Nothing wrong telling a bro "Im a little down can I crash at your place?". That's what friends are for.
Shut up yo . She should bring the new baby daddy up there smh
Can also sense it’s something still there. I wouldn’t be surprised if they end up back together later down the line.
I finally understand the nature of Jess’ and Rome’s relationship. Jess looks out for Rome because she knows that he doesn't really have anyone else. Since they‘re not romantically involved and aren't interested in one another but have a son together, it creates a brother-sister dynamic. I can appreciate that. Jess has a big heart. 💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes the part that gets me is when she first had her son by ROME and she was struggling to pay bills sitting in her apartment with no lights and electricity………he won’t around.
Brother sister raising a baby lol real admirable
Me and my ex husband are like this
@@ToasterForLife You might be on to something. 🤔😂
@@pareeshaslaughter6798 Yeah, I agree. However, I'm glad he explained why: He believed there was a man in the home, and his girlfriend at the time was telling him she's trying to use him. It's not a great reason, but I‘m glad he explained it.
These are the type of interviews I love from the Bfast Club! As a black man, Rome's vulnerability and willingness to improve as a person is very admirable.
I wasn’t expecting this… this is beautiful and sad at the same time…seeing this Black man be so vulnerable on the Breakfast Club.
Girl he running game🙄
They not together and he still running game on her
Yess ❤
@@TSM-tv8hyI can't stand my bd ( he can really kiss my whole family ass) and im pretty sure he can't stand me either but when u are mature enough and live long enough..... U'll understand that not everybody " men"are bad or running game. It actually is some good men out here. And one day, eventually u ( not saying u personally) but u can have a adult conversation.
I said the same thing ; he remind me of the kid that getting bully in school ...even though he seem ok with he not;; that's just my opinion we really have to love on our men ; never know what trauma they facing inside; obviously sex is not the answer! he searching,,🙏…I ❤️ Rome&Jess
This interview had all the right elements. Funny, down to earth and emotional. 40 mins went by so fast. Good one Breakfast Club!
💯🔥
Agreed
MAAAAAN THIS ACTUALLY BOUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES...I SINCERELY FELT ROMES PAIN....AND IM SO GLAD THEY HAVE EVOLVED IN LIFE AND NOW STAND IN MATURITY AND IT'S BASED IN LOVE!!!
💯
I wasn’t expecting to cry ever watching the show but when he took those glasses off & apologized it was sincere & I pray Rome gets the help he needs to heal. & thank you Jess for being there for Rome. Beautiful black love. 🙏🏽
Def when he took the shades off and apologized !!
@@tressamorgan1128no that was Narcissistic game, he knows Jess weak spots, and Lil shades off BS was some pulling heart strings BS 😂😂 Rome think he slick😂
@@mistahjay8598it could be narcissistic I guess. He’s played women all his life. I noticed he kept saying he’s young & has time but no one knows when they will leave this earth & the true judge ain’t accepting no excuses. I do believe he’s messed up though from his dads parenting to his mothers death. Hurt lil boy becomes a manipulator, cheater, liar, alcoholic, toxic, depressed hurt lil boy.
This is probably the best interview I have ever seen. Co-parenting , co-existing ... is easier said than done. These parents need an award, a medal, something. Shout out to Rome and Jess for sharing their story. Amazing work Breakfast Club👍
🤡🤡🤡🤡 parents who stay together deserve an award
Yes for sure. However when they can't or won't stay together this is commendable responsible maturity. Parents go their separate way for many different reasons. Kudos to these 2.
I can listen to Rome talk all day it's refreshing to see a young black man starting to figure it out.
Pregnant or not, Jess is so great because she brought him on the show knowing he can get extra help to continue his healing and show their community that positive co-parenting is possible.
Seen black man being so raw and vulnerable is amazing!!! Because I bet my wholeeeee paycheck somebody listening to this was able to relate and say damn… it’s not just me.. damn, my feelings are valid…. Mad props to Black men evolving ❤
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Word ❤
They need more of this!! I can relate to Rome 💯. These are the conversations that need to be had and seen. Show us in a positive manner.
right here... and my boys are on point.
So true
I love that he’s being so vulnerable and holding himself accountable. I feel like a lot of BMs and BDs can benefit from these conversations. It’s about the kid first and these relationships can be healthy✊🏾
If you ever decide to have a kid its not about you anymore. Its not about him anymore. Its about the child. Its obvious alot of parents dont care about the kids because alot of them grow up with only one parent. As long as nobody is abusive both need to stay for the child it can always work. People give up to easy
@@rzwitdauncut You’re so right. Do you feel like sometimes it’s also not being able to control your emotions enough to put your feelings aside and focus solely on the child? I feel like that has something to do with too
@@rzwitdauncut I tell my nieces this all the time - don’t be out here having a baby if you’re not done being selfish because once you bring a life into this world, it’s not about you anymore. Your focus is the baby - period✊🏾
Yessss
Having kids out of wedlock is the downfall of black culture
“You hate me so much coz I caught your ways.” Damn!
I appreciate the honesty and rawness in this entire convo.
That mf hit like a bullet when he said it 💯
That part made me tear up fr! Some Fathers don’t understand their impact on their kids 😢
say this to my “mom” all the time, the reality is that they really hate themselves which in actuality causing them to hate the version of self that they see in us.
Then he added “I’m 20 yrs younger and still want & have time to change. You’re still doing the same shit at your age!” Baby if this isn’t the final nail in the coffin I don’t know what else qualifies as such 😢
@@Slim25-r2l they see the part of themselves they dislike reflected back to them & can’t stand it. But somehow expect their kids & everyone else to tolerate their flawed ways
When Jess said to envy “don’t talk about no house”. The quickest knockout I’ve ever seen 😂😂😂
I didn’t understand that. What’s the deal with that?
@@biga101290I think it was because he had got into trouble for scamming with real estate or something like that
He was so vulnerable in front of the world and that was so relatable and admirable
Jess said my baby was sitting on the floor on a blanket and the cat was looking at him like he wanted to eat him 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂 yea that was funny!!
😂😂
Yo when she said that I died. I believe her too!
@@love-pk5mqI believe her too. 😅…u kno men like to keep some stuff out & be a lil funny.😄
😅😅
The way they both say Tew and Deww 😂😂❤
Straight Baltimore
It's so weird. Lol but all those people from there speak like that.
@sandrapeters5546 it's pronounced "Bawdamore" !!!
Like Chrisean says, “Blew” instead of Blu😂. The Baltimore accents are consistent with it.
😂😂😂
My mom and dad are similar to them. They were never married, had 4 kids together, and a on and off relationship.. no it wasn’t all good but they grew to become best friends, and they’re really close in a friendly way. It feels good to see that
I love their dynamic. Jess Is STILL bringing Rome with her on this journey and this right here screams, love, respect, and understanding.
This should've been 2 hours long great conversation
I appreciate his transparency and vulnerability!
He stole the show 🔥🔥🔥
I love how he took off his glasses to look her in her eyes❤
Salute to Jess and Rome. Co Parenting is 🔥🔥 😂.
Uh
No
You know what’s even better? Marriage.
Crazy you saluting for trash
This was one the most honest, most vulnerable, and most transparent interviews thus far. Thank you Jess and Rome for allowing this interview to be a safe space for people who are currently going through this, and a great reflection for people who have gone through this and are choosing to grow... ✨💛
One of the best interviews, seeing a man being so vulnerable and serious about the situations he has been through. That’s a big deal. Most celebrities wouldn’t come up there and be this real. This is an eye opener for most men. Not wanting to be alone is a real feelings most MEN feel but won’t admit.
I might've been drinking, but i was drinking on the job, so i still WAS at work! 😂
You gotta watch their old RUclips series its hilarious.... One time she said he was drinking while driving with their son in the car, he said I wasn't drinking and driving, I was drinking before I came to pick him up and had to drive to come pick him up 😂😂😂😂
😂@@SheDreams-ed4km
@@SheDreams-ed4kmohh shit 😂
@@SheDreams-ed4km😂
Said it with the cleanest straightest of all faces as if the ish is a regular blade of grass...Jess is Up!
To have your baby's father on your show reminiscing about how yall got together, first dates and allat while pregnant by a new boyfriend is nasty work 😂
Crazy
😂😂😂
Or is it mature?
So surface
@@CLSmithSween it’s definitely not mature lol she could’ve had her new bd on here smh
This one of the realest Breakfast club interviews ever!! BIG Shoutout to Rome. He spoke a lot of our truths. Black Men are better because this testimony! BIG Shoutout to Charlamagne too for offering a great therapist. Please take him up on that King ✊🏾👑
They genuinely love each other.
Dope relationship.
I was brought to tears damn near when Rome apologized to Jess ❤ it was so genuine and authentic
Jess telling Envy Don't talk about no house is CRAZY 😂 31:48
Time stamp
😂😂😂😂😂
No, it's hilarious and true.😆
I went straight to that part 😂😂😂😂 You did the lord’s work THANK YOU😂😂
She said "I don't wanna hear it" 🤣
It’s a wonderful thing to see Jess and Rome be so grown. Their friendship is definitely blessing their son in so many ways. God bless
“Don’t talk about no house “ oooooohhhh😂😂😂😂 Damn Jess too Quick with it
😂😂😂😂
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CLASSIC 😂
😂😂😂😂
This the one! 😂😂😂
One of the best interviews y'all have ever had. Rome struggled to look Jess in the eye the whole time. Guilt, shame and anger are whooping him, but he was incredibly articulate and vulnerable. This convo was necessary.
YOOOOOOOO!!!!! This interview is so funny and sweet at the same time. Those Baltimore accents are golden.
Let's Go BreakfastClub. The progress and growth this show is making with Jess on the team is so evident ❤❤❤
Such a dope conversation that took me on an emotional roller coaster. Humor, sadness, regret, empathy, and back and forth. ❤️
They got my boy Rome on breakfast club Baltimore stand tf up lol
Facts. I was like whattt😮😮👏
Yoooooo! This is the truth! So proud of them. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
😂 Jess from ova eas or wes
@@g_lyfeworldwide4133 she is from over west 😂
It’s not like he getting paid for it
I love this dynamic ❤️ Once emotions are pushed aside, the co parenting relationship can flourish. This is the definition of true friendship
I'm not gonna lie. As a black man, I don't know how you can listen everything Rome said and not relate. I felt everything he said 1000%
Some of us may be able to empathize without being able to fully relate, especially if we haven't experienced a broken home, an abusive father, a complicated family situation, or baby mommas. While I appreciate Rome's honesty and openness, our experiences are not the same. So yeah, some of us can empathize, but NOT relate. 👍🏾
This interview and conversation was so beautiful and raw and unfiltered and needed. Thank both of them for their evolution, for their selflessness on letting us into their story so that we could learn and for the glow up in general. Changing habits, finding grace for yourself and others, ego death, learning how to communicate etc etc is so mf hard to do! Anyone who attempts and succeeds at it is to be applauded and I'm so proud of both of them for doing that for themselves, their kids and each other! It inspires me to do the same💯
THIS CONVERSATION WAS NEEDED FOR THE CULTURE 👏🏾👏🏾
was needed 30 20 & 10 years ago!!!
How!?
No it wasn’t😒😩
what culture
Rome: I was responsible
Also Rome: I was driving on Suspended license
😂😂😂
He’s the comedian 😂😂
Riiiiggghhhttt🥴🤣🤣🤣
@@p.gizzle90 driving on a suspended license is not being responsible 😂😂😂
@@CowboysDos09lol it’s expensive to get that thing back sometimes 😂
@@Sashaa78 true 😂😂😂
i love this man's honesty...i pray he gets the healing he deserves
This interview was a 10 outta 10!!!
I love love love when black people heal. It's beautiful. Shout out to Jess and Rome for showing their vulnerbility and sharing their story. Much love to Rome for his honesty and growth.
Omggggg this is hilarious 😂. I love their relationship ❤. The son has to b sooo happy. Praying for this brothers healing 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Good interview! He did better than a lot of celebs !
I cried when he apologized to herrrr but this was the funniest , best interview in a minute ! One thing about it , I love their coparenting relationship 🔥
Lotta gems in this interview .. a lot of people don’t know what love looks and sounds like
By Far this one was of the best interviews yet!! GREAT JOB!
Fax
Yesssss it was. I’ve even rewinded some parts. This was great
Who cares
@@nealmike5490 well some us do .
This is a real conversation. A lot of black families do stuff like what Rome is talking about to their kids, nieces, nephews etc. A lot of black (American/West Indian mostly) Gen X and Baby Boomers sabotaged their kids and whenever the younger people try to speak to them to fix it privately, they deny, lie, cry etc. It's sad and this is difficult to say but we need to forgive them and do better in our own lives. Jess is a good woman for giving him the space to heal and share his experiences on these public platforms.
Co Parents are the first healthy village for their children. Parents CAN get along and be there for one another as well as creating a safe space for their children. I LOVE it.
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This was great 🫶🏽 definitely enjoyed this dialogue
I’m not sure the feelings aren’t still there with these two. A lot of emotion right under the surface. Good interview
I worked with Rome a couple years ago. This is so beautiful to see. I hope that their children become even more successful because of the work you’ve put in to have a healthy co parenting relationship. BMore stand up!
See how much better it can be when you take the fake hate out,take the fake attitudes out,take the bullshit drama out and just coexist and make the best of a situation with the person you once loved ? Anger takes more energy than happiness,especially when y’all fake angry
This !!
I agree
I was actually go skip this one, but I’m glad I watched it. Really good interview!
Same!!
THIS WAS AMAZING! THANKS FOR SHARING AND BEING SO OPEN.
He had a dad in the home and look how his dad did him, but then they will blame single moms.
Omg not them interviewing the baby daddy. I love the breakfast club's selection of guests they always seem to throw a curve ball every now and then.
I love when they do
So Jess is "Jody's "emotional support animal? Don't fix your baby daddy's mess ladies.
@@idivas_Tricia yea i appreciated his candor but he's full of it to me lol baby boy was a fantasy rare to see men like this change irl
@@idivas_TriciaWhy get pregnant? Why deliver the child? What's the protocol that led to the decision even to have sex other than your mating impulses being appealed to?
Let the man talk bc they rarely do. Less interruptions. The man is coming clean so he and you can heal. I love this for Rome and Jess! Blessings
I hear you. I also think its important to realize this is happening communally. I can't take on a man's pain one-on-one. I'm not built for it. But when he expresses so in a safe communal space. It is powerful and SEXY! We can take a new chapter back home where we discuss how to move forward. I cant emphasis enough how much I need for my home space to be non-toxic - its too much of a trigger from my own childhood pain
@@nothembinkosilepesa8801 I absolutely agree
I love how she bring Rome into things
He still cranking that. He’s the father of that unborn baby 😂
She need a baby sitter
The humiliation ritual continues
@@thetruthsayer8347 damn.. but for what gain?
Shes weird
This was a great interview so real talk about relationships so powerful 😊
This was so good. DAMN! I enjoyed ever minute of it
Brothers...WE needed and need this conversation. Its for us.
No, we don’t. Not all of us have this kind of messy life😂
Unfortunately.
@@thetruthsayer8347exactly
@@ToasterForLife I hear ya.
As a young co parent, this was a powerful moment for young co parents out here. Thank yall for blessing us for the knowledge and wisdom of that🙏🏾
Maybe this can help some of yall miserable babymamas and daddies instead of complaining look how to black people can co exist and raise a a child together with no drama THIS IS WHY THIS IS NEEDED WHY WOULDN'T HE BE ON HERE JESS IS GREAT FOR THE BREAKFAST CLUB
Well said.
Or stop having kids outside of marriage. Black community need to get back to having a strong family core.
Or we should stop having kids outside of marriage. 😩
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@@302ecumm, married people with kids get divorced and go through difficult custody battles all the time! The issues they went through doesn't just apply to people who have kids and not being married.
Absolutely loved this interview. It was so real and vulnerable. ❤
This was really good !!! I could have listen to more !!!
Love how this man put all his feeling on the table. Had tears in my eyes.
As a young Black Father like myself I feel and go through the same thing.These conversations are much needed now more than ever 🙏💪💯
Rome and Jess are funny asf. 😂
One of my favorites interviews very educational because I needed to see this♥️
This was a great interview
This is a fantastic conversation!!! Intelligent, insightful, and interesting! These conversations are needed.
I have no words....an absolutely touching, loving, and evolving black excellence parenting and friendship! God bless them both, their child, his children, and her upcoming one! A beautiful bond! 💙🙏🏽♾️
I love their relationship. I use to watch their RUclips series. This interview gave exactly what it was suppose to give. I cannot wait for the book, because I am going to purchase it.
Amazing conversation, this will bless a lot of people. Thanks for sharing your heart 🙏🏽
Dope and necessary convo!!!! Well done 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I love Jess and Rome stories! Hilarious😂
This was a really great convo. I agree with them. I think once feelings are not involved and you really want what’s best for the child, you can have a good co-parenting relationship.
Wow! I'm tearing up. Healing is so important.
Wowww , this interview had me emotionalllll ! I was intrigued by all moments .
THANK YOU for sharing this !
There are a lot of ppl going through this. This is helping so many ppl. Great segment
I think this is good content, personally
Rome still love Jess, you can tell how he's smiling.
like u love ur sister
Agape Love! And im truly glad they have that dynamic. Will definitely be a positive for their child's growth and developement
Yesssss
So many gems, so proud of Rome’s growth. This was such a great conversation. May he continue to unlearn and relearn🙏🏽
This what the world need
Type convos like this
I fw bruhh
Should be a guest here and there
We routing for you Rome! I love their relationship. This was a really great conversation & Im glad Jess used this outlet to share their highs/lows. I’m so happy for Rome for being transparent & vulnerable bc a lot of men can learn from him & Im glad he’s holding himself according. I love how she includes him on every level. I pray that he is able to heal from the trauma of his past.
Wow...I was done watching you all..but tuned in and boy oh boy...this was extremely powerful. Everyone NEEDS TO HEAR THEIR STORY. and the maturity of Jess is out standing.
This was important for our people to see and hear. I appreciate y’all’s growth and vulnerability.
Loved this interview!!!
This honestly, interview of the year!
DJ Envy Went MUTE when Jess Said Don't talk about no House Lol
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Lmaooooo!
Word in the street is he still ain't talking 😂
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I wish it was longer! I learned so much! Amazing interview, with so much transparency:). As a black man who grew up without my father around I felt his pain very deeply. But it's so awesome that he is trying to write his own narrative and be the father to his kids that he never had. Shout out to Jess and the BC for making this happen!!!
They have a podcast together as well I believe
@Breakfast Club I love what ya'll are doing. This was a conversation that alot of people needed to hear. I love how everyone was vulnerable and kept it 100. I hope a lot of the bitter babymamas and babydaddies out there listened and took a inner look within themselves. Co-Parenting is really not that hard as long as both parties put the child first and take the past emotions out. If after 5 years of break up and you still having co-parenting issues that means someone is still in their feelings and is purposely going against the grain out of spite. PERIOD!!
Such a great interview!! ❤
This was refreshing!! Lived the interview ❤