@@harrasikaneither is rich you can get both for the same price an indoor pool is more cooler since it’s indoor and you don’t gotta go outside both can come with the house your buying
@@Xfacta12482 ur sentance makes litterly no sence, he does not have agrophobia he is introverted. there is a complete diffrence between being shy,, not knowing how to be social and not enjoying being social. Im introverted, proven by 4 psycologist to not have any anxiety. When i am social, with many people or over long pariod i panic too, not becuase of anxity but becuase i dont enjoy the social aspect. imagine being sleep deprived for 3 days then you have to run a whole mile with loud music blasting in ur ear of a song u hate. thats what introvert feel when they are in a gathring they dont like or too long talking to people.
Literally what I was thinking. Whats crazy is you could probably make so many groups like this if people would just say yes "myself included" Im a hermit these days.
This reminds me of being on birth right in Israel. Meeting 20-30 people at an airport and then spending two weeks with them in a new country. Everyone's so ready to just hang out and have fun- this video really brought me back to that experience.
The guys who said alcohol are probably raging rn seeing this video especially since there friends went and had a fun time when they could've had one too. So satisfying
you really will find connections in places you don’t expect, you just have to try and sustain those connections. i hope you and anyone else who’s looking for that finds it. i found my best friend in the world on an app where we were looking for roommates our freshman year of college, we both were perfect strangers who just had no one else to live with and in many ways we are nothing alike but it’s been 5 or 6 years and we’re still living together, never have found a closer bond with anyone. i have a horrible time connecting with people but you never know, the right people will find you and the other way around.
How??@@anabelramos7798I'm basically a hermit and can't open up to anybody. I always think people are judging me, laughing at me or trying to take advantage of me. I think it has to do with alot of previous experiences.
I like how you can tell people were drinking a little, but this wasn’t that type of party and they still had a really good time. You don’t need alcohol to have fun and this really proves it. Love the vids and the whole concept, keep it up
You contradicted yourself in your own comment. The alcohol is literally why everyone was able to have a good time. It allowed them to let their guard down and open up. You even said you could tell people were drinking, then you said this proves you don't need alcohol to have a good time. How do those two sentences line up? They don't. A party WITH alcohol in NO WAY can "prove" anything about a party without alcohol. You're missing half of the data that you are trying to compare. Quit being such a stooge and have a drink. Have some fun.
man this really just goes to show that life really isn't that serious. like we're all just grown kids who enjoy hanging out, meeting new people, and just having a good time. This is so awesome and I wish I could partake in something like this
@@jayuk83fr like that girl that was stuck in a basement under a man’s house in Ohio for 10 years taping her constantly she wrote it on a paper everytime he would untill one day he forgot to lock the door and the black guy next door sitting on the yard was like wtf is that sound 😭
And THAT'S how you make new friends! Damn...we did stuff like this in the late 80s and 90s when we were all aging out of highschool! So glad you guys can do this. I have been beginning to think that real connections like this were gone forever. So glad to see it's still alive! Keep it up
I’m 43 and i talk about the 80’s & 90’s like this all the time with my teens. Nowadays if you’re not online you no longer exist and can’t make new friendships without people judging you based on your photographs and a few sentences behind a keyboard. ❤
I wish there were social groups like this where strangers can gather together and meet each other for the first time. It's so hard to make new friends where I live.... :/
@@DiscoverConnection yeah it would be amazing I mean, a sleepover with strangers sounds like the best day of my life, next time do a bbq party or just celebrate your birthday with strangers (or maybe their birthday) maybe saying yes to everything for 24 hours, I'm sorry I'm just trying to come up with some ideas I know it's hard
The fact that they are ALL complete strangers and by the middle of the video they all look like they are all close friends whove known eachother for years is wholesome and kinda amazing too.
As someone who isolated themselves for years and has ended up with no circle of friends I'm envious of this experience/event you guys did. Everyone was on equal footing not knowing other people, so there isnt that feeling of automatically being a third wheel to pre-established friendships
As someone who was previously a complete extrovert and as I aged noticed a strong growth in being more introverted (social time drains me more than it used to, no matter the company) I had some thoughts and feelings to share with you. First off, this is all from the personal experience of my anecdotal armchair, but I'm sharing it in case you may find something helpful that applies to you. Secondly: Your comment suggests a pretty extreme level of isolation for you to lose any existing relationships (Please correct me if I'm wrong). I obviously don't know if that's the degree you meant, but if it is, it usually is attached to other variations of heavy shit. I've had my share of what I'd consider "dark" but over the years I've managed to keep the people around me in the dark on many levels (casual, professional etc). Generally speaking: If I didn't start getting help to sort out that part of my emotions and behavior, I'd be a VERY different person today. Assess your personal realm, and I mean that by your own "safe space comfort + habits" and choices and how damaging they end up for what you intrinsically want. Reading this may feel counterintuitive but you may not realize what you've done to keep people away for the sake of them noticing how you are treating yourself and living your own life. I'm not privy with youtube chats and shit, but if there's a way to directly msg me, please feel free. I'd be happy to chat further. Wishing you well.
@@krzysztofmedyna3661 i have been isolating almost 3 years and only people i meet are delivery drivers who bring my groceries, i am not really missing people, somehow i ended up with people who were not so positive so better to be without them.
We all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ to pay the penalty for us, so that we may have everlasting life. Now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and you will you be saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read Bible, pray for Jesus to reveal Himself to you and change you, seek to do what is right according to the Bible. Much love and God bless.
@Rygoat & @@freezedeve3119 If either of you are a dude who lives in the US (or a few other places in the world) I hope you'll look into an organization called F3 and see if they have any chapters in your area. It's an early morning men's workout group. No cost and no commitment. You just show up. Early morning might sound rough but if you don't have quality male friends, the kind who wake up early to work out with other men are the kind worth having.
growing up extremely sheltered, socially anxious, and depressed makes these kinds of things very difficult, if not impossible. Makes me feel even more alone than normal. These videos bring me joy and hope that one day I can get over my ingrained fears.
You will. It's not imagined, it's very much chemical in a lot of cases. I never knew this, but now i do. Try something like Citalopram. It changed my life in ways i thought would never be possible.
Please find someone to talk to, you don't have to suffer alone. If you don't feel comfortable talking to people IRL find support online. You deserve to find some peace in your life.
Those guys were just golddigging i dont like that kind of ppl who went to parties and cant even pay for they drinks and expect the host to pay gor everything bro we are not kids anymore we can bring a 6pack/bottle and/ or 1 pack of cigarettes for your own consumption or to share
As someone who suffers from pretty severe social anxiety. I've always said that I hate people, but I love watching these types of videos. Which makes me want feel some type of human connection. Which makes me realize I don't hate people. I'm just terrified of meeting people and even getting to know people I know. This feeling really suck.
Probably won’t see this. But take an MBTI test (16 personalities) and learn about the way you are wired and perceive things. Im an “INTP” always found it difficult to socialize or fit in… never really understood why I felt that way, but I learned a lot from figuring out my personality type and looking at some videos of how we can overcome that social trauma.
@@glitched_bg3344 There is a pretty good channel I bumped into awhile back "INTP Survival Guide" he is pretty much spot on of my exact thought process and the issues we face as INTP's when it comes to our inferior social traits. I found his ti-si loop of death video quite interesting
I also have anxiety because I have no motivation to talk to strangers and barely my family and friends. I've recently done market research where I was forced to ask strangers about my product and it felt different, and leagues easier to walk up to people because I had a motivation/starting thought already in my mind on WHY I needed to talk to people. With relationships it is a bit more difficult I will agree, because the WHY is very personal in that you want a connection with someone.
This channel needs to post more often, its so hard to wait on this kind of kind of content the beauty & the wholesomeness is 100%, its hard but its worth it.
I'd probably never have the guts to do something like this.. but I commend you for seeking to get people to make connections.. it's such a lonely world out there ...this is inspiring to me.
I absolutely love the fact that you keep bringing past people from older videos into the new ones. Just shows that the connections you make really do last
“I have Asian parents though” God I can relate so much to that 😅 but this video was super wholesome! Love to see this type of positive energy and connection in a world filled with negativity.
@Vi5oC4n3 I’m guessing it’s because Asian kids don’t typically have sleepovers and many even have curfews well into early years of adulthood (imagine you need to be back at home by 11pm on a New Year’s Eve party)
@@leopera1015 return home by 11pm on a new years eve !! Woah you are lucky. For me, return home by 8pm and I am a male. If its female, return home before dark. And no drinking. Big no no. 😁😁😁
@@memewithinameme35 It’s kind of like if you live with them, you have to abide by their rules even if you’re over 18. And in some cultures you’re expected to live with your parents til you get married, or if you’re a married man, you’re expected to live with your parents and take care of them. A lot of us don’t mind though, maybe it’s how we were raised but we don’t mind the rules or living with/taking care of our parents.
What I do is simply acknowledge that as the thought and subsequent feeling that it is and nothing more. They are valid and worthy of their momentary very brief existence which is why I acknowledge them, and BE with them when they do arise. Then I do whatever it is that triggered the thought to begin with ignoring the thoughts and feelings if they just so happen to stick around as I've already acknowledged them and sat with them for a moment, however long that may be you'll just know. Let them get the best of you the opportunity to take action will be missed. Funny thing is, they never seem to stick around throughout the act. In fact, they dissolve rather quickly usually the first few seconds within taking action, but they are welcome to stick around throughout the entirety of the act if they ever were to do so. At the point of taking action it really no longer matters if they stay or go. Forgive the mind and body, take the position of being their guide and witness, don't take them personally nor seriously, just take them sincerely. Be a loving guide for them proving to them that you are a trustworthy loving guide after all and eventually those type of thoughts and feelings will fade entirely as it all becomes more and more a familiar type of act for you. Everything when unfamiliar or uncertain seems to call us forth from us to be cautious (attentive to what seems unknown) and therefore, fully present. Taking action doesn't require thought so no need to over think things. In my direct experience over thinking leads to missed opportunities. This works for me, and I only share that it may be helpful for you, but if it doesn't work for you know that is perfectly okay too. Seek the source of your deepest longing, your (spiritual) heart already knows. May the peace that cannot be understood, unconditional love, and endless bliss be yours...as it already is, but may you remember that it is your true nature!
Something like this where nobody knows anyone creates a environment where everyone can just be themselves and enjoy the moments. I'm glad I came across this
I think it's awesome that you guys were able to do this! I'd really want to be able to reach out more to strangers and connect with people like this, but its really challenging to do it by yourself. Especially being a female, I find it really intimidating to go up to strangers and try to connect with them. I was curious to know how you guys came together to create this channel and any advice you'd give for those that are trying to connect with people in this way.
@@-_James_- While this is undoubtedly true it is largely for physical safety reasons and those reason apply as the approachee as well, though perhaps a bit reduced. From a physically intimidating and safety perspective being a female would make this much harder if she doesn't have safe guy friends to do it with.
That being said if you were a guy without a gal friend trying to do this it would just fail every time. You would maybe get one or two guys who really like board games, but no gal would ever say "yes" and far fewer men would.
Thats cool, I really liked how innocent it all was. Initially I would also think sex party or like a cult trying to murder people. But you pulled it off and it genuinely looked like a great time.
yeah no it's very strange. if someone comes up to you, even after watching this you should still say no. It's not about being rude, it's about being safe. They can get you drunk and harvest your organs or do whatever to you while you sleep. There are lots of steps in making friends before a random sleepover
You guys are reminding what is life with a different way...and i haven't seen yet anyone doing stuff like that... huge respect for all of this..we wanted this!❤️
@@thedarkerman3406 the point is that the fact that he said "covid" and he's outside with other people, completely nullify his argument. I mean, he's on the beach having fun... He's not working, studying or something like that.. the amount of people doesn't matter for this issue.
I couldn’t help but laugh along with all of you and feel a sense of connection just by watching. When that one guy said “we should do this every weekend” it made me laugh but also feel as if this one night coulda been this night that brought them out again ❤️
I'd be genuinely curious to know if any of them actually kept in touch after this. Or if any of them would have even shown up if it wasn't being filmed for RUclips.
Gotta love people like this that pursue Connection in the face of fear and control. It looks like they had an awesome time, and everyone made some new friends!
This legit reminded me I have no friends and I need to diversify😒 I've been tossing up moving somewhere new where I know absolutely no one for years and this is highly encouraging. I swear the older you get the more you realize societies job is to break you into conforming. People like you guys actually exist and I'm not alone. Never really thought about Canada for relocating but it's definitely in the toss up list for me at this point🥰🤗 God bless and sending prayers of love, compassion, longevity, understanding and prosperity your guys way. I've been raising my nephew since he was 3 months and he's now 6. One thing I preach constantly to him is don't allow this world to dim your light and you guys are proof of why no matter all the hate that is infecting this world he should still strive to put his best foot forward and do what he can. Thank you guys so much for the encouragement 🖤 I seriously feel like I've know everyone of you and everyone you come in contact with my whole life. Safe travels and I love you all 😚🤗🥰
What you said really reminds me of myself, I too have no friends because I move so much. I was from originally Canada and then I moved to USA Maryland to Oklahoma to Iowa to Ohio lol. I grew up in a Christian home and I'm a pastors kid, well adult now. But ya I kinda just gave up finding people because I move so much. anyways hope you're doing well now, many love
Man I had tears in my eyes. What an incredible experience I would love to be a part of something like this! People truly forget what it’s like to have fun without drinking and doing drugs so well done guys 😊
4:25 IS THE REALEST THING I'VE EVER HEARD. Running into people like that brings my mood down to Brad. We literally just have to ignore people like that and keep living our best lives while they continue living in their misery
As a person with almost no friends I love watching you videos and am glad to see you get the chance to put out another one lol really made me smile on a day when I was feeling down haha thanks man! good videos and look forward to more
This is really heartwarming to see man. Covid detached me from my social environment pretty hard, especially since I moved to a new city right before it all started. Were you having alcohol during the party? I can't drink due to a medical condition and often feel like missing out on the spontaneity it brings about in people. I live in a country where people are relatively introverted and where alcohol use is a focal point during parties. When I join friends during late nights out I feel like I am weirding others out being sober amidst everyone else being tipsy (or drunk).
"Either we meet new friends or we gonna get robbed." Well, I guess either way someone's gonna be happy... Don't rob people, folks! I'd say, honestly I wouldn't do this because I don't know if I would just trust some stranger who invited me into their house. I Know, not everyone has bad intentions and being open can really lead to wonderful surprises (found my college friends that way). So, even if I'm a little bit cautious about this, there are people who are perfectly fine with a situation like this and this is ok too. Everyone is different.
It’s nice to see you pushing through with new projects after the pandemic.I just realized how much I missed your videos in your continuing passion for human connections.Keep on keeping on team.Stay safe healthy, And connecting
This was such a wonderful video to watch. You have a fantastic philosophy that everyone needs to come together now more than ever, because we have made it through one of the most difficult times we have ever seen. I'm happy to see that you guys had a great time, and I hope you kept a connection with some, if not all of the people you invited. Fantastic video! :)
This put a smile on my face man It’s nice to see people actually coming together and having fun nowadays people are always on there phone no one really goes out there way to meet new people
thank you for doing this. i havent really connected with anyone for 15 years... i have severe social anxiety and with my dad passing during covid crisis(not from covid but cancer) it shut me down even more . i dont hardly leave my house . but great to see someone else spreading this around! its deffinintly needed ! wish one day i could be part of such an event lol
I'm sure it's all been said in the comments but, this kind of thing is really important. I wish I had a house with a pool so I could get my coworkers together to do this
This is basically what CouchSurfing was like. Was great to find like-minded people up for this stuff. Asking random strangers would be a lot tougher, as there's no guarantee of how open random people are.
this deserves to blow up, wow. I've watched Yes Theory a while and loved the seek discomfort ideology, and you have also totally embraced it in your own unique way. Cheers, you've earned a dedicated new sub :)
Such a beautiful thing you all are doing. These videos bring so much hope and joy into many of our lives. Keep up the amazing work and hope to see some of this energy emulated around the world =-)
Probably the best thing RUclips algorithm bring to me for this day. This seems like the best thing I've seen for the long time. The happiness and vibes everybody have on this video is awesome! Great video. You always come up with something so spectacular, that's awesome!
This video gives a good sensation , not anything malicious , just feels good. We are all grown up kids pretending our best to look like adults , to look though or sexy whatever. Meeting strangers with identical souls is very beautiful and hopefully pure. Where there's purity there is TRUE LOVE.
You should start the conversation with "Imagine that...." and tell them directly what the goal is then directly back up the good benefits of it while continuously telling the story with them.
I absolutely love this channel! It genuinely makes me so happy and I almost tear up! It's just a channel filled with sweet people and amazing vibes! Thank you so much for these videos! I and so many others absolutely love it! As someone who's more on the socially anxious and inept side, it almost just makes me wanna just get out there and experience some new stuff!
Watching these makes me feel full and warm , can definitely feel the love energy being pushed out thru these videos and get togethers, it’s amazing ! Keep doing what u do brother & sister ! We are one , let’s rise in love all of humanity !
It was so awesome! Especially I'm so shy of talking with strangers but deep inside of me I love to have a lot of friends and have such an amazing experience like that. Can't help, tears of joy while watching your video guys.
This made my day, I wish I had such courage to invite strangers to my house and make connection, considering the fact that 1.5 years gone without any social gathering.
Every single video i have watched so far has had me grinning from ear to ear. Don't stop connecting... You guys are amazing people and the world does need more of this. I hope I get to travel and do as much as you guys one day. Stay safe guys ! (:
Did you guys recognize any familiar faces in this video? 🤔
Mark!
My brother lol 😂
yeah the other guy on facetiming people. ......what's the name? ??mark I guess
That looks so fun and cool but don’t encourage people to do sleepovers with Total strangers 😹
The guy with the beard!
Who else was completely shocked that the pool was indoor and not an outdoor?
Also, this was the best episode yet.
Yess broooo😭😭😭💀 rich ass
@@moahmedali1934 You say that like an outdoor pool isn't for rich people
it's in Vancouver, what would be the point of having an outdoor pool ?
@@harrasikaneither is rich you can get both for the same price an indoor pool is more cooler since it’s indoor and you don’t gotta go outside both can come with the house your buying
At least 50% of them said yes hoping it’s gonna end in an “orgy” 😂😂
Imagine saying no, then watching everyone else having fun and making memories.
Sucks to suck haha😂😂 I was just thinking the same thing
Imagine saying no, then watching the news of a mass murder... s
@@milchael imagine say no and you got murdere wherever u are at night, and if u said yes you would be in this guys house and not get murdered :)
@@rafatoms5258 Nice comeback dude
@@rafatoms5258 best comenack ever!
As an introvert, I can't decide if this is paradise or hell.
I’d probably climb out the bathroom window after a good 30 minutes
@@guillietarlish577 💀💀
@@guillietarlish577 i would honestly be panicking badly, so..same
Exposure therapy my man. Socializing is a skill just like anything else.
@@Xfacta12482 ur sentance makes litterly no sence, he does not have agrophobia he is introverted. there is a complete diffrence between being shy,, not knowing how to be social and not enjoying being social. Im introverted, proven by 4 psycologist to not have any anxiety.
When i am social, with many people or over long pariod i panic too, not becuase of anxity but becuase i dont enjoy the social aspect. imagine being sleep deprived for 3 days then you have to run a whole mile with loud music blasting in ur ear of a song u hate. thats what introvert feel when they are in a gathring they dont like or too long talking to people.
The energy in this group is like they’ve know each other for decades.
Usually people care a lot in the first encounters, you know, the first impression thing.
Literally what I was thinking. Whats crazy is you could probably make so many groups like this if people would just say yes "myself included" Im a hermit these days.
That's why they all said yes right?
This reminds me of being on birth right in Israel. Meeting 20-30 people at an airport and then spending two weeks with them in a new country. Everyone's so ready to just hang out and have fun- this video really brought me back to that experience.
Strangers always have good conversations foreal
Seeing all these adults with their bags and pillows is so wholesome lol I miss sleepovers
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@@lukka511see how nobody cares?
@@derschwereGustaf bro you are blind you should not be talking
Your could invite someone fór sleepover
@@derschwereGustafnice profile picture
you guys somehow assembled the perfect friend group. this played out like a college movie where everyone has been friends since daycare.
The womb jk
Frrr
fr hes got more human connection than any of us ever will
THIS WAS THE BEST THING I'VE SEEN IN A LONG TIME.
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Same!!
SAME!!!
I would like to like your comment but it's two 9's and a 6
The guys who said alcohol are probably raging rn seeing this video especially since there friends went and had a fun time when they could've had one too. So satisfying
f them honestly
Those are the "cool" guys who end up with a sht job and have nothing to show for it
With guys like that… different party…
as someone with terrible anxiety these videos are so inspirational and make me want to break out of my normal comfort zone
Samee but i always fail😭
@@darronmarcel3261 the feeling usually last until I click off the video, so you're not alone
@@Cannabails lol you're absolutely right yeah
you really will find connections in places you don’t expect, you just have to try and sustain those connections. i hope you and anyone else who’s looking for that finds it. i found my best friend in the world on an app where we were looking for roommates our freshman year of college, we both were perfect strangers who just had no one else to live with and in many ways we are nothing alike but it’s been 5 or 6 years and we’re still living together, never have found a closer bond with anyone. i have a horrible time connecting with people but you never know, the right people will find you and the other way around.
How??@@anabelramos7798I'm basically a hermit and can't open up to anybody. I always think people are judging me, laughing at me or trying to take advantage of me. I think it has to do with alot of previous experiences.
This is too wholesome
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Or is it??
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but whats provided??
@@mlgninja4503 yeah
Sending wholesome vibess 🥰
I like how you can tell people were drinking a little, but this wasn’t that type of party and they still had a really good time. You don’t need alcohol to have fun and this really proves it. Love the vids and the whole concept, keep it up
💯 absolutely!!!
So important.. sad alcohol is a necessity for adult gatherings nowadays
@@itstayayg193 i’d say teen/young adult more than anything
I need it to have fun.
You contradicted yourself in your own comment.
The alcohol is literally why everyone was able to have a good time. It allowed them to let their guard down and open up.
You even said you could tell people were drinking, then you said this proves you don't need alcohol to have a good time. How do those two sentences line up? They don't. A party WITH alcohol in NO WAY can "prove" anything about a party without alcohol. You're missing half of the data that you are trying to compare.
Quit being such a stooge and have a drink. Have some fun.
man this really just goes to show that life really isn't that serious. like we're all just grown kids who enjoy hanging out, meeting new people, and just having a good time. This is so awesome and I wish I could partake in something like this
Winners can afford to win when they share the resources. This is nice but love untested makes nothing.
What is your definition of “serious”
I get you but this is also how people end up murdered. It’s cool that people like this exist, but you also have to be careful
@@jayuk83fr like that girl that was stuck in a basement under a man’s house in Ohio for 10 years taping her constantly she wrote it on a paper everytime he would untill one day he forgot to lock the door and the black guy next door sitting on the yard was like wtf is that sound 😭
Badass comment
And THAT'S how you make new friends! Damn...we did stuff like this in the late 80s and 90s when we were all aging out of highschool! So glad you guys can do this. I have been beginning to think that real connections like this were gone forever. So glad to see it's still alive! Keep it up
I long for a time like that, that's the type of environment I am trying to bring back through this channel!
Thank you Timothy 🙏🏼
@@DiscoverConnection wow you are so cool
I’m 43 and i talk about the 80’s & 90’s like this all the time with my teens. Nowadays if you’re not online you no longer exist and can’t make new friendships without people judging you based on your photographs and a few sentences behind a keyboard. ❤
I wish there were social groups like this where strangers can gather together and meet each other for the first time. It's so hard to make new friends where I live.... :/
@@linal3489 saaaaaame
Why am I so happy right now?
I legit want to be asked a question like that but just watching it made me cry (tears of happiness of course)
I wish more people in the world started interacting like this! Imagine there were more opportunities that happened like this 🙆🏼♂️
@@DiscoverConnection yeah it would be amazing I mean, a sleepover with strangers sounds like the best day of my life, next time do a bbq party or just celebrate your birthday with strangers (or maybe their birthday) maybe saying yes to everything for 24 hours, I'm sorry I'm just trying to come up with some ideas I know it's hard
I love your channel name 😊
@@tlotlosenai7304 thanks I love yours
Feeling the same way ❤️
The fact that they are ALL complete strangers and by the middle of the video they all look like they are all close friends whove known eachother for years is wholesome and kinda amazing too.
Commenting for the algorithm, great video!
Ayyee thank you ❤️
Thanks
Wooooo
Algorithm time babyyyyy
Me either
As someone who isolated themselves for years and has ended up with no circle of friends I'm envious of this experience/event you guys did. Everyone was on equal footing not knowing other people, so there isnt that feeling of automatically being a third wheel to pre-established friendships
As someone who was previously a complete extrovert and as I aged noticed a strong growth in being more introverted (social time drains me more than it used to, no matter the company) I had some thoughts and feelings to share with you.
First off, this is all from the personal experience of my anecdotal armchair, but I'm sharing it in case you may find something helpful that applies to you.
Secondly: Your comment suggests a pretty extreme level of isolation for you to lose any existing relationships (Please correct me if I'm wrong). I obviously don't know if that's the degree you meant, but if it is, it usually is attached to other variations of heavy shit. I've had my share of what I'd consider "dark" but over the years I've managed to keep the people around me in the dark on many levels (casual, professional etc).
Generally speaking: If I didn't start getting help to sort out that part of my emotions and behavior, I'd be a VERY different person today. Assess your personal realm, and I mean that by your own "safe space comfort + habits" and choices and how damaging they end up for what you intrinsically want. Reading this may feel counterintuitive but you may not realize what you've done to keep people away for the sake of them noticing how you are treating yourself and living your own life.
I'm not privy with youtube chats and shit, but if there's a way to directly msg me, please feel free. I'd be happy to chat further. Wishing you well.
@@krzysztofmedyna3661 i have been isolating almost 3 years and only people i meet are delivery drivers who bring my groceries, i am not really missing people, somehow i ended up with people who were not so positive so better to be without them.
We all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ to pay the penalty for us, so that we may have everlasting life. Now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and you will you be saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read Bible, pray for Jesus to reveal Himself to you and change you, seek to do what is right according to the Bible. Much love and God bless.
@Rygoat & @@freezedeve3119 If either of you are a dude who lives in the US (or a few other places in the world) I hope you'll look into an organization called F3 and see if they have any chapters in your area. It's an early morning men's workout group. No cost and no commitment. You just show up. Early morning might sound rough but if you don't have quality male friends, the kind who wake up early to work out with other men are the kind worth having.
You alright mate? 😅
growing up extremely sheltered, socially anxious, and depressed makes these kinds of things very difficult, if not impossible. Makes me feel even more alone than normal. These videos bring me joy and hope that one day I can get over my ingrained fears.
im in the same exact boat, it's super mentally draining. sorry to hear youve had the same experience :(
same man
Same. Although I am surrounded by nice people, my social anxiety prevents ne from developing connection with them. I feel bad about this
You will. It's not imagined, it's very much chemical in a lot of cases. I never knew this, but now i do. Try something like Citalopram. It changed my life in ways i thought would never be possible.
Let's do it!!! "Depressed Strangers from RUclips commment section meet up for sleepover party!!" 😄😄😁🥰
3:58 "I got Asian parents though" i feel him 😂
yea....but...whats provided????
legit, This is me.. hahaha!! 😂😂 that’s why I had all my classmates sleepover in our house instead
I am currently at the lowest point of my life. This video made me feel a little bit better. Please don’t stop doing things like this.
Please find someone to talk to, you don't have to suffer alone. If you don't feel comfortable talking to people IRL find support online. You deserve to find some peace in your life.
Love ya bud
Hope you are doing good today
Me too
just remember. bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks. you'll be ok big fella
Being a serious introvert, the world really never changed during Covid for me. I’m happy being in my house with my family. That’s all I need.
AMEN! 😄🥰😄
"What's Provided?" bruh a great time will be provided 😅
Those guys were just golddigging i dont like that kind of ppl who went to parties and cant even pay for they drinks and expect the host to pay gor everything bro we are not kids anymore we can bring a 6pack/bottle and/ or 1 pack of cigarettes for your own consumption or to share
yeah im glad that guy didnt come he woulda started a fight or something because its all about him.
@@adrianpatricio5369 well if you were asked to a sleepover by a random stranger wouldn’t you wanna know what would be there?
@@NightOwlDev that's not the way to ask for that information
@@somainswakadoad5684 exactly he was only worried about what he could get out of it
As someone who suffers from pretty severe social anxiety. I've always said that I hate people, but I love watching these types of videos. Which makes me want feel some type of human connection. Which makes me realize I don't hate people. I'm just terrified of meeting people and even getting to know people I know. This feeling really suck.
Probably won’t see this. But take an MBTI test (16 personalities) and learn about the way you are wired and perceive things.
Im an “INTP” always found it difficult to socialize or fit in… never really understood why I felt that way, but I learned a lot from figuring out my personality type and looking at some videos of how we can overcome that social trauma.
@@JOVANI7919 Thank you for the advice.
@@JOVANI7919 Im also An Intp 😂
@@glitched_bg3344 There is a pretty good channel I bumped into awhile back "INTP Survival Guide" he is pretty much spot on of my exact thought process and the issues we face as INTP's when it comes to our inferior social traits. I found his ti-si loop of death video quite interesting
I also have anxiety because I have no motivation to talk to strangers and barely my family and friends. I've recently done market research where I was forced to ask strangers about my product and it felt different, and leagues easier to walk up to people because I had a motivation/starting thought already in my mind on WHY I needed to talk to people. With relationships it is a bit more difficult I will agree, because the WHY is very personal in that you want a connection with someone.
@2:09 the guy is wearing a Where The Party At shirt, but they literally told him where the party is at and he declined.
this comment is so underrated 😂
Everybody who said no is now regretting that they said no 😂
This channel needs to post more often, its so hard to wait on this kind of kind of content the beauty & the wholesomeness is 100%, its hard but its worth it.
You dont have to wait, make your on party with strangers. 😛🤣
Distance Makes the heart grow fonder
@@dawergames Yesss more parties with strangers 🙌🏼
Thank you for being patient with us ❤️ We're working on getting content out more often!
This kind of contents are hard to come by.
I'd probably never have the guts to do something like this.. but I commend you for seeking to get people to make connections.. it's such a lonely world out there ...this is inspiring to me.
I can't even make one friend and this dude literally manages to have 20 strangers over for a sleepover
Right lol
whens the last time you approached a stranger
Same
let's be friends
Well you don't have a giant house with an indoor pool that might be why
I absolutely love the fact that you keep bringing past people from older videos into the new ones. Just shows that the connections you make really do last
Glad you noticed that 👌🏼
Honestly I get the people who said no. It really does sound like a scam
especially the ladies, going to a strange person’s house overnight without any context is something most girls are taught to avoid😭
“I have Asian parents though”
God I can relate so much to that 😅 but this video was super wholesome! Love to see this type of positive energy and connection in a world filled with negativity.
@Vi5oC4n3 I’m guessing it’s because Asian kids don’t typically have sleepovers and many even have curfews well into early years of adulthood (imagine you need to be back at home by 11pm on a New Year’s Eve party)
@@leopera1015 return home by 11pm on a new years eve !! Woah you are lucky. For me, return home by 8pm and I am a male. If its female, return home before dark. And no drinking. Big no no. 😁😁😁
@@lordgallo4213 as an adult??? either you want to keep family harmony, listen to your parents/family unconditionally, or are underage lol.
Im asian and i go home whenever and i can do sleepovers also. My parents werent born in the states too. Im lucky lol.
@@memewithinameme35 It’s kind of like if you live with them, you have to abide by their rules even if you’re over 18. And in some cultures you’re expected to live with your parents til you get married, or if you’re a married man, you’re expected to live with your parents and take care of them. A lot of us don’t mind though, maybe it’s how we were raised but we don’t mind the rules or living with/taking care of our parents.
This is the first video that I see from you.. Wish I had discovered you soner and I hope that you ll make a video with Yes Theory someday
He used to work for Yes Theory! Edited their videos for 5 months
You can immediately see that Yes Theory connection, since he worked for them before.
Yo no wonder this videos are kinda similar vibes with Yestheory XD
Watching this makes me realize: "Wow, I have no idea how it feels like to be human, and I never will" - Kinda depressing.
I love seeing things I wanna do but too afraid to do it
That's how I felt until I started to do them more often! It gets easier over time 😄
What I do is simply acknowledge that as the thought and subsequent feeling that it is and nothing more. They are valid and worthy of their momentary very brief existence which is why I acknowledge them, and BE with them when they do arise. Then I do whatever it is that triggered the thought to begin with ignoring the thoughts and feelings if they just so happen to stick around as I've already acknowledged them and sat with them for a moment, however long that may be you'll just know. Let them get the best of you the opportunity to take action will be missed. Funny thing is, they never seem to stick around throughout the act. In fact, they dissolve rather quickly usually the first few seconds within taking action, but they are welcome to stick around throughout the entirety of the act if they ever were to do so. At the point of taking action it really no longer matters if they stay or go.
Forgive the mind and body, take the position of being their guide and witness, don't take them personally nor seriously, just take them sincerely. Be a loving guide for them proving to them that you are a trustworthy loving guide after all and eventually those type of thoughts and feelings will fade entirely as it all becomes more and more a familiar type of act for you. Everything when unfamiliar or uncertain seems to call us forth from us to be cautious (attentive to what seems unknown) and therefore, fully present. Taking action doesn't require thought so no need to over think things. In my direct experience over thinking leads to missed opportunities.
This works for me, and I only share that it may be helpful for you, but if it doesn't work for you know that is perfectly okay too. Seek the source of your deepest longing, your (spiritual) heart already knows.
May the peace that cannot be understood, unconditional love, and endless bliss be yours...as it already is, but may you remember that it is your true nature!
You heard of the leap of faith
Something like this where nobody knows anyone creates a environment where everyone can just be themselves and enjoy the moments. I'm glad I came across this
Until you get that person who has an abrasive personality.
@@IL_Bgentyl yeah there's always the one 😆
I think it's awesome that you guys were able to do this! I'd really want to be able to reach out more to strangers and connect with people like this, but its really challenging to do it by yourself. Especially being a female, I find it really intimidating to go up to strangers and try to connect with them. I was curious to know how you guys came together to create this channel and any advice you'd give for those that are trying to connect with people in this way.
I think most guys would be more open to being approached than most women.
@@-_James_- While this is undoubtedly true it is largely for physical safety reasons and those reason apply as the approachee as well, though perhaps a bit reduced. From a physically intimidating and safety perspective being a female would make this much harder if she doesn't have safe guy friends to do it with.
That being said if you were a guy without a gal friend trying to do this it would just fail every time. You would maybe get one or two guys who really like board games, but no gal would ever say "yes" and far fewer men would.
If you're a woman and want to approach people, especially men, get a knife or gun, you will feel much safer approaching them.
For sure, if you want a mixed crowd you need a mixed team doing the invites@@ZIbroweed
Thats cool, I really liked how innocent it all was.
Initially I would also think sex party or like a cult trying to murder people. But you pulled it off and it genuinely looked like a great time.
Having the woman with him also helped make it less threatening. If it was just him I dont think he'd have the success rate he did.
@@whoshotya117 imagine what would happen if it was 2 guys or even 3
yeah no it's very strange. if someone comes up to you, even after watching this you should still say no. It's not about being rude, it's about being safe. They can get you drunk and harvest your organs or do whatever to you while you sleep. There are lots of steps in making friends before a random sleepover
Yeah you could see the reactions were very different when they stopped saying adult sleepover lol
Maybe it became a sex party and they turned the cameras off for that part
In like 2-3 years hes gonna have half his countrys phone numbers
That would be wild 😅
He’s literally going to be friends with everyone
@@DiscoverConnection The maybe the world! Too much? Yeah.. haha! Love your videos! I hope your safe and well!
There is a big difference between smiling and laughing... this video made me smile, it made me happy, what a good experience that was.
Honestly the vibration is so high and everyone seems to be smiling and getting along. This is freaking awesome.
You guys are reminding what is life with a different way...and i haven't seen yet anyone doing stuff like that... huge respect for all of this..we wanted this!❤️
That is the goal! 🙏🏼
Such good vibes in this video - I appreciate the effort and mental strength it takes to be outgoing and persuasive like this.
The guy who said "covid" is literally hanging out with other people on a beach.. I mean.. what the fuck?
He’s Chad
That's completely different bro. They're not in as much of an enclosed placed such as his house
@@thedarkerman3406 the point is that the fact that he said "covid" and he's outside with other people, completely nullify his argument. I mean, he's on the beach having fun... He's not working, studying or something like that.. the amount of people doesn't matter for this issue.
@@rukichimoshini It does lmao, he's with a group of people he KNOWS. He can trust they're safe plus they were isolated no one was near them
@@thedarkerman3406 oh, and they're without a mask xD
I couldn’t help but laugh along with all of you and feel a sense of connection just by watching. When that one guy said “we should do this every weekend” it made me laugh but also feel as if this one night coulda been this night that brought them out again ❤️
I'd be genuinely curious to know if any of them actually kept in touch after this. Or if any of them would have even shown up if it wasn't being filmed for RUclips.
Gotta love people like this that pursue Connection in the face of fear and control.
It looks like they had an awesome time, and everyone made some new friends!
This is honestly one of the most wholesome things I've seen in ages, fair play to you fellas for organising all of this!
I can’t help crying in front of your videos. You truly make the world a better place everytime you post!
This legit reminded me I have no friends and I need to diversify😒 I've been tossing up moving somewhere new where I know absolutely no one for years and this is highly encouraging. I swear the older you get the more you realize societies job is to break you into conforming. People like you guys actually exist and I'm not alone. Never really thought about Canada for relocating but it's definitely in the toss up list for me at this point🥰🤗 God bless and sending prayers of love, compassion, longevity, understanding and prosperity your guys way. I've been raising my nephew since he was 3 months and he's now 6. One thing I preach constantly to him is don't allow this world to dim your light and you guys are proof of why no matter all the hate that is infecting this world he should still strive to put his best foot forward and do what he can. Thank you guys so much for the encouragement 🖤 I seriously feel like I've know everyone of you and everyone you come in contact with my whole life. Safe travels and I love you all 😚🤗🥰
What you said really reminds me of myself, I too have no friends because I move so much. I was from originally Canada and then I moved to USA Maryland to Oklahoma to Iowa to Ohio lol. I grew up in a Christian home and I'm a pastors kid, well adult now. But ya I kinda just gave up finding people because I move so much. anyways hope you're doing well now, many love
Seeing this kind of videos make me feel weirdly happy...
I love it!
Seeing this comment makes us feel happy ❤️
Man I had tears in my eyes. What an incredible experience I would love to be a part of something like this! People truly forget what it’s like to have fun without drinking and doing drugs so well done guys 😊
4:25 IS THE REALEST THING I'VE EVER HEARD. Running into people like that brings my mood down to Brad. We literally just have to ignore people like that and keep living our best lives while they continue living in their misery
2:47 she's definitely a subscriber of Yes theory. Lol that yes was so quick
I can agree
thats a yes theory move LMAO
She knows whats up lol
As a person with almost no friends I love watching you videos and am glad to see you get the chance to put out another one lol really made me smile on a day when I was feeling down haha thanks man! good videos and look forward to more
You have more friends than you think!
I will be your friend 😃
X2
This is really heartwarming to see man. Covid detached me from my social environment pretty hard, especially since I moved to a new city right before it all started.
Were you having alcohol during the party?
I can't drink due to a medical condition and often feel like missing out on the spontaneity it brings about in people. I live in a country where people are relatively introverted and where alcohol use is a focal point during parties. When I join friends during late nights out I feel like I am weirding others out being sober amidst everyone else being tipsy (or drunk).
"Either we meet new friends or we gonna get robbed." Well, I guess either way someone's gonna be happy... Don't rob people, folks!
I'd say, honestly I wouldn't do this because I don't know if I would just trust some stranger who invited me into their house. I Know, not everyone has bad intentions and being open can really lead to wonderful surprises (found my college friends that way). So, even if I'm a little bit cautious about this, there are people who are perfectly fine with a situation like this and this is ok too. Everyone is different.
It’s nice to see you pushing through with new projects after the pandemic.I just realized how much I missed your videos in your continuing passion for human connections.Keep on keeping on team.Stay safe healthy, And connecting
Thank you for the support ❤️ We're going to be working on getting more stories out soon !
This was such a wonderful video to watch. You have a fantastic philosophy that everyone needs to come together now more than ever, because we have made it through one of the most difficult times we have ever seen. I'm happy to see that you guys had a great time, and I hope you kept a connection with some, if not all of the people you invited. Fantastic video! :)
I'm not a super social person but this was warming and looked really awesome and fun :)
This put a smile on my face man It’s nice to see people actually coming together and having fun nowadays people are always on there phone no one really goes out there way to meet new people
thank you for doing this. i havent really connected with anyone for 15 years... i have severe social anxiety and with my dad passing during covid crisis(not from covid but cancer) it shut me down even more . i dont hardly leave my house . but great to see someone else spreading this around! its deffinintly needed ! wish one day i could be part of such an event lol
I had been waiting for new content, Brad. Not many channels can say that.
Thank you so much for the support Jaime ❤️
I'm sure it's all been said in the comments but, this kind of thing is really important. I wish I had a house with a pool so I could get my coworkers together to do this
i discovered your channel today and i'm really sad to see you haven't posted in a long time, love your videos i've been binge watching all afternoon
2:45 "I have no friends I just moved here" - while sitting near two friends
This is basically what CouchSurfing was like. Was great to find like-minded people up for this stuff. Asking random strangers would be a lot tougher, as there's no guarantee of how open random people are.
this deserves to blow up, wow. I've watched Yes Theory a while and loved the seek discomfort ideology, and you have also totally embraced it in your own unique way. Cheers, you've earned a dedicated new sub :)
Why I suddenly feel happy by watching a large group of strangers have fun and be humans 😮🥰💕
Such a beautiful thing you all are doing. These videos bring so much hope and joy into many of our lives. Keep up the amazing work and hope to see some of this energy emulated around the world =-)
I love this. People should do stuff like that more often. Come on… let’s all get out of our comfort zones… it’ll be worth it…
I love this. This brought tears to my eyes seeing people acting like people again.much love
I'm afraid my country is still not doing so hot in terms of covid, but it's so good to see videos like these.
I love this channel =D
Probably the best thing RUclips algorithm bring to me for this day. This seems like the best thing I've seen for the long time. The happiness and vibes everybody have on this video is awesome! Great video. You always come up with something so spectacular, that's awesome!
This video gives a good sensation , not anything malicious , just feels good.
We are all grown up kids pretending our best to look like adults , to look though or sexy whatever.
Meeting strangers with identical souls is very beautiful and hopefully pure.
Where there's purity there is TRUE LOVE.
The world needs more people like you guys, stay blessed🥰
I love this stuff , reminds me soooo much on “Yes Theory “ keep spreading the love and doing this stuff
How many of these people showed up thinking it was an orgy. Bet they were pissed.
Wish this would happen more often in different cities. People definitely need to learn to connect with each other again.
Y’all are amazing opens my mind to literally LIVING!!! If y’all ever want a random vacation in Tennessee I’d be more than happy to host.
You should start the conversation with "Imagine that...." and tell them directly what the goal is then directly back up the good benefits of it while continuously telling the story with them.
FINALLY! Huge fan from the Philippines!
Sorry for the long wait 😅
I know for a fact this will be on a daily dose of internet
"This guy went out and invited 20 random strangers to a sleepover"
@@alextheconfuddled8983 can legit hear his voice
@@alecrochon3531 Yes!
You guys are so inspiring! Kudos for constantly getting out of your comfort zone to pursue CONNECTION and create so much fun and joy ❤
I hope to be invited or to host something like this some day, the experience just looks so incredible, thank you for sharing!
Dude... I love this so much man. Always be open minded
Serial killer watching the video : step 1: ask strangers for adult sleepover
I absolutely love this channel! It genuinely makes me so happy and I almost tear up! It's just a channel filled with sweet people and amazing vibes! Thank you so much for these videos! I and so many others absolutely love it!
As someone who's more on the socially anxious and inept side, it almost just makes me wanna just get out there and experience some new stuff!
Watching these makes me feel full and warm , can definitely feel the love energy being pushed out thru these videos and get togethers, it’s amazing ! Keep doing what u do brother & sister ! We are one , let’s rise in love all of humanity !
Man this is one of the best videos I swear. Something about everyone’s kid like happiness just warms my soul
It was so awesome! Especially I'm so shy of talking with strangers but deep inside of me I love to have a lot of friends and have such an amazing experience like that. Can't help, tears of joy while watching your video guys.
This is literally so amazing I would absolutely say yessss love meeting new people !!! Love what you guys do :)
This is the taste of human being, well done guys. Enjoy!
In Germany, we call this a Swinger Party... ;-)
Maaan...destroying my flat joke in 90 seconds... lol
This made my day, I wish I had such courage to invite strangers to my house and make connection, considering the fact that 1.5 years gone without any social gathering.
I was binge watching this series and I need more videos like thissss❤
Every single video i have watched so far has had me grinning from ear to ear. Don't stop connecting... You guys are amazing people and the world does need more of this. I hope I get to travel and do as much as you guys one day. Stay safe guys ! (:
Introvert : what kind of hell is this.
😆👍
What a hearth worming video. Felt the love through the screen. Yey go humanity!!
Thank you so much for this kind of content. We need more channel like yours. Love from Italy
This makes me want to do something. But the social anxiety says: “Yeaaaaaahhhhh, no”
I still feel the social anxiety every time we do a video! But the best things are on the other side of it 🙌🏼