It’s funny how watching this video you can see simple things that can fix some of your negative experiences. Flat camera battery- be organised & charge night before. I know you said you were preoccupied though. Messy makeup area whilst doing makeup- keep it clean every time you’ve finished. No fav coffee- being open to try a different flavour & turns out it’s pretty good! I think you did such a good job with this video bc it even showed me that a rainy day just going for a walk & what you find or who you meet can make your day. I think it’s getting out of your own head & into the bigger world around you & you become more grateful for all of it. I can see you are ocd but I don’t think you have to label yourself glass half empty & be self deprecating. Change that & your demeanour will change. This video showed that. You’ve got an awesome sense of humour & even making this video shows you aren’t a negative person deep down bc a negative person would have done the complete opposite video in response to your last & whinge or complained or said they give up with RUclips & get defensive 💕🧡
this comment is on point. her reaction to not having the right coffee seemed a lot to me. it just seems like at the very least you can remind yourself how lucky you are to have a nice coffee machine and coffee in your house. shit can always be worse
Instead of saying “oh I HAVE to go to school” say “oh I GET to go to school.” That helps to make things positive and it puts thing in perspective because there is someone who is wishing they could do the things you are doing.
being sad and bitchy some times is REAL LIFE, it’s not like she’s constantly whining and crying and that’s why i love ur channel! i enjoyed this spin off though!
Exactly I like that shes real, especially if u can relate to someone on RUclips that were negative or going through bad times in our life and RUclipsrs can relate and not just living a great life. They struggle too and I love niki for that. It helps me realize I'm not the only thinking negative or going through rough times
@@canosarchive yes!!!! I think it would be cool, i know i allways hide behind my coffe too cheer me up and when i can't have it! Dear lord have mercy on the people i cross
I love how she was upset about not having the coffee she wanted and then ended up liking the new one she tried, or when she was upset that her makeup might not look the way she wanted it to but ended up liking it as well. As she said, everything happens for a reason. I just thought it was a cool thing to note.
I feel like a lot of the things she said was "negative alerts" weren't even negative. They were mostly facts, like "my desk is messy", "my camera is dead", "it's gloomy".... that's not being negative, that's facing the facts
Think about how many times she gets critiqued for those things, even if it is facts. She thinks she’s a debbie downer with everything. You can tell people’s words really affect her.
Anna Ranae // It’s negative alert bc those are things that normally could cause her being negative. Sometimes when you have a bad day and a lot of small things happen, that didn’t necessarily had to and that seem ridiculous to others, it could get some people really down or sad. Sometimes when I feel like that I could literally cry because I dropped my frickin PEN
I'm naturally a "glass half empty" person, and I relate to this video a lot, when you're naturally pessimistic sometimes you have to start with "fake" positivity before you can genuinely be positive if that makes sense
I just want to say to you that trying to say "I have ocd" insted of "I'm Ocd" cuz your not your ocd you are so much more and an illness or what ever should never be somthing you are. It should be somthing you have even if you dont have controll over it fully don't lett that take contoll of who you think you are or what your worth is. I have anxiety and i really struggel with that on days and on thouse days it feels like all i'm is the anxiety. And i learned that by sepearating me form an illness/label do help me think more posetiv (But on moste days i'm a halft empty glass kind of person)
I'm so for this video. i'm down for the realist era on youtube too, but i hate seeing people upset so constant pity partys on my subs box aint it. LOVE YOU TY FOR speadin the sunshiiiineee x :)
I totally feel you! I also have bad anxiety and get so hard on myself. When you have anxiety, it makes things super hard, but it’s important to remember that you’re great and the bad feeling will pass and get better!
wow. it's crazy how watching this video opens your eyes to see how you've been acting in your own life. this was such a good reminder to reflect on the bad attitudes I've been having and make a mental choice to be in a good, positive mood. love you niki 💛
I don't think this was a pointless video. Honestly i feel so sorry that you had to try that hard. I have been there too but nowadays I don't let little things ruin my day because life is beautiful. However you did not show a positive behavior at all it was just sarcasm. I think it might be because you were trying to convince yourself but you weren't really in the mood. I have dealt with OCD before and I understand depression and negativity are like a pit you can't get out of. Honestly I think RUclips and just life in general nowadays is all about how you portray yourself but never about you actually living the life you want. You think you want to spend all your day taking pictures and making sure you look like your the happiest person but in reality you are so stressed out and sad because you want to impress others but never truly give your soul what it needs. You try to make yourself look better with a makeup and clothes but fail to realize that life is short and you are spending it on mediocre things. I have been there and I am still struggling. Nowadays you can't even enjoy a vacation because you are so caught up taking pictures and posting it so others envy you that you don't actually enjoy where your at. I think today's mentality is messed up and we have to get out of it in order to truly be happy and enjoy every second that you have left on this earth. Life is too short to care what others think of you. Live a life that is worth living!
Honestly girl you're so right. People these days act like depressed people are ungrateful when in reality there are triggers like social media all around us.
So truee!! The job that she has has nothing to do with the real life! I think this is what causes all the negativity and depression. People should live the real life, not the online life
I have always been really positive but no day is perfect so when I am sad I do things that make me happy,workout, and think about the good side of life
This is a good challenge for Niki because she can definitely be too dramatic and negative. But, being fake positive is not really the point but I guess you gotta fake it til you make it
Rana Afhame I definitely know and realize she’s human but being human doesn’t mean being focused on the negative. Also bring happy all the time and being positive are two different things. Listen I’m not trying to spread hate I’m just commenting on the video
Niki I want to be real upfront with you and I don’t want you to read this as a hate comment bc I’ve been a fan of you and gabi for years so pls remember this is coming from a criticism/advice standpoint. I’m a psychology major and I struggle with diagnosed anxiety, and I have moments where I get really anxious and it makes me negative and depressed. However, I’ve learned to face my anxiety head on, look at it from a logical perspective, and self reflect on why I feel this way. I don’t think this video did you much justice in seeming to look happy or even have positivity. This felt so sarcastic it was almost upsetting to watch. Instead of poking fun and being sarcastic about being happy you should take this seriously. Being happy doesn’t mean plastering a fake smile and pretending you don’t have problems. We all have problems and issues we deal with on a daily basis, but it’s the attitude we have towards these moments of frustration and stress that matter the most. We all get stressed and sad and depressed when situations occur, but if you were to change your mindset from “I hate how messy I am” to “maybe if I had better organization for my makeup I wouldn’t feel so messy and upset at myself”. You need to act on your thoughts as well as say them. If you want a change in your mindset to a positive one, find joys in the little things in life, what are things like simple things that bring you joy? I feel like finding joy and happiness in the little things in life makes moments of stress less significant.
I couldn't say it better myself. I struggle with social anxiety and I find it very hard to be positive, even when i'm just with myself. I often think about why I feel frustrated, or why I feel uncomfortable in that situation. But her fake smiles and pretending not to care about what's happening felt like she was joking about what people like me, or anyone with any mental illness. But I know that's not what she was trying to show, it just came off like that. I am a fan of them also, this video just made me a little uncomfortable in my opinion. Not trying to hate, just stating my opinion.
As someone with anxiety problems I really didn't feel like this video offended me. She also had a real talk with her audience towards the end of the idea, so I don't mind if she was a little bit satirical during the video, she said it herself, she usually makes fun of herself in a deprecating way.
I really hope niki reads this because I agree!! Niki could really learn from this and actually be happy. Everyone should read about self help topics, bettering themselves, and learn to love themselves because speaking about yourself in a negative way reflects how you truly feel about yourself sarcastic or not.
This video feels really unreal. Being happy vs being positive are totally different things. Happiness should never be forced. If you are not positive, that doesn’t mean you aren’t happy with life. I’m generally negative, however, I still enjoy life. You don’t need to ever change yourself to feel happiness, it comes naturally. This was really fake.
Kymana Christine actually yeah I’ve been wanting to put a video up but I’m scared and dk how to edit that good. I’ll subscribe to you tho if you subscribe to me!
I need to do this challenge. People don’t understand how hard it can be to be positive, especially when dealing with depression and anxiety. It makes my brain naturally think negatively.
I honestly understand your POV so much! I am quite a negative person and its so nice to see you explaining your side and making negative things sound more positive! Love you Niki!!
I just find it weird bc ever since I started watching Niki and Gabi I always thought damn niki's so positive, even more than gabi. Even if you have your moments I don't think that defines you, but I guess if you say you truly are that negative then it is what it is🤷🏾♀️
saying you’re gonna fail before you even try is so negative!! believe in yourself and realize the power of your thoughts. you have control over them and your reactions, they are YOURS- you own your thoughts, they don’t own you. just practice noticing when negative thoughts are coming, then you can get better and better at shutting them down before they affect you! easier said than done but it’s all practice practice practice
i used to be a glass-half empty kind of person bc i went through a LOT in the past, but I had to learn to push through and look at things through a different perspective and now im happy to say that im known for being super optimistic.. so it is completely possible to change your attitude and it is SO worth it :) hope u guys have a great day💛
Being positive isn’t just smiling all the time. Like when you camera was dead you could have though like okay I can use my phone for a bit and talk about the quality, your make up table being messy you could have thought like oh wow I’m blessed to have all this, the coffee you could have though hey I can try something new and I’ll post mate what I want or hey an excuse to go shopping.
I agree I don’t think she necessarily nailed the whole actually happy thing. The things she did aren’t going to change the way she feels about just life in general. And I love Niki but this video definitely could’ve gone differently
preach preach preach. i'm naturally a positive person. there's already so much bad in the world, why find bad in the little mishaps that happen in life when it's not the biggest issue. also, if you're biggest issue of the day is having a dead battery for your camera, not having your coffee, and having a messy makeup desk, you're living a pretty beautiful and blessed life.
Aw Nikki it’s okay to be sad and nagitive sometimes and a lot of us LOVE for who u are but I think it’s so awesome how your trying to fix being negative, ur such an inspiration ❤️
1. The camera. Just vlog for a bit on your phone while it charges 2. The makeup just tidy up it's not hard 3. The coffee its not hard just to try something new 4. You were just being sarcastic
I actually think this is a pretty real video of Day 1 mindset shift. I'm in this boat too, right now, Niki. You and Gabi's videos are keeping me so SO grounded. Pay no mind to the haters - they have too much time on their hands. big big big hugs!
i really enjoyed this video concept and i am really happy to see you challenge yourself and spread this type of message! hope u make more of this content ♥
*cringing at the forced happiness in this video* niki you better make a video addressing how painful this one is to watch lmao. its so forced, sarcastic and honestly just makes your deeper issues with happiness more obvious. 24hours to cure depression is about as realistic as this video. acting happy and being happy are different. this video was really fake and I just hope that this can inspire you to not force an attitude and to seek some real help. you're not broken or a bad person. even though all these comments will be negative, and you can continue to heart the blind fans who ignore the problem, it won't change how you feel or how others perceive you. focus on making yourself better and don't try to force an attitude for your viewers.
@@oliviasartorio2257 same. i actually think she's a very sweet person and i like both the twins. she clearly struggles with her own happiness and she should know that it's okay. we all have struggles and she's not broken and i cant stress that enough. she shouldn't force something for the sake of her viewers. like overcoming depression, these things are gradual and take time to see true progress. i just dont want her to be so hard on herself.
Jessica she did this to help her. Not just for a video I have depression and its hard I don't know I don't know if Niki has depression but still it sucks to have haters like you this was for Niki not just for her RUclips
This video prooves that, sometimes, shit just happens.. but the way u look at it changes everything, if u r going to complain abt it and ruin ur day, or u are just going to be optimistic abt it... depends on u... thank u niki for this wonderful video... it made me look at things in the way i never did, and for the first time in my life I felt good..❤❤❤
the first song you played from lady gaga is very special to me because my dad used to have all the cd's from lady gaga and we always listend to it when we drove back to school and we were like 6 so we didn't understand it so we were just saying words and when i was getting older we stopt and it was so much fun to listen back to this and i love you niki
I was so excited for this video but I ended up being a little disappointed :( edit: I posted this comment a little to early because I was positively surprised about the second half of the video. Niki seemed to be so genuine in this part. But first 8 minutes of the video were complaining about everything and then saying „but i’m going to be positive about it”. It came off as fake an cringy.
*as someone who naturally has an extremely optimistic outlook on life (not due to genetics - by CHOICE), i am so glad to see you making the conscious effort to be happy. it’s so much more beneficial to be positive than negative. good for you, girl. don’t stop here; keep it up!* 🌻
I am naturally half glass full ✨✨ and it is amazing.. for all of those who are half glass empty- You got this!!! I know you can do itt ... you can change your perspective and you can turn into a half glass full ❤️❤️ I promise you
Dear optimist, pessimist and realist, While you all were arguing over whether the glass was half, half full or half empty, I dRaNk iT. Sincerely, The opportunist Dear opportunist, It was pOiSoN. Sincerely, The SADIST
I relate so much, most people think I am always depressed but I just have one of those faves that look depressed no matter what. So now I usually have a negative outlook in life.
Okay I must admit that I was one of those people who said that you were being too negative etc..... but I’m really glad you’re acknowledging it. Good on you girl, I just subbed back :)
Okay, wrote this before watching the video, didn’t réalisé that the positivity was actually going to be forced and sarcastic. Video got better near the end though
Your perfect don’t let anyone tell you different. I have OCD as well and it’s not easy. You handle it very well. The people in the comments don’t know how it feels so they have no right to judge
that's how you start to grow from negative to positive you have to check yourself every second and it seems fake but its the fact of showing yourself to stop
You’re not alone in being a glass half empty kind of girl because i am too and i am very sensitive as well so I just want to say I love you 💙😍niki🖤and I’m proud of you for putting this video out. And it is hard to positive when you’re not always happy so I’m proud of you for even making this video.
Niki I think you are a brilliant woman and that even if you don't feel so great sometimes you still are a great role model and someone to look up to. Watching you just relieves me and I know that goes for many others. I know I don't know you personally but even tho I don't I can already tell you are a wonderful person. Always know you are loved even when you don't feel it. We love you Niki!
I am the same way! I am so sensitive. There’s nothing to be ashamed of. Don’t let people tell you that you should be happy go lucky about everything.. You do you! 💙
the more you train your mind to look at the positive things the easier it gets! i went through a lot of shit last year and most of my life ive been a negative person. But there came a point where i was just sick of feeling angry and annoyed with life so i starting forcing myself to wake up, smile, and enjoy my day regardless of the negative shit happening. Trust me, it works! Just tell yourself in the morning you got this, and anything is possible! if you use that as sort of a routine in your life you will see alot of positive changes to your mental health! I now catch myself seeing beauty in the craziest and simplist things. That is the type of thing that makes me happy. You got this hunny xoxo one day at a time.
I'm literally so positive that I'm neither a glass half-full or half-empty person -- I'm just happy there's water in the glass. But I haven't always been like this, and it's been a long journey to get to the point where I'm seriously happy regardless of what's going on.
Complaining while saying it in a “happy” tone isn’t being positive and if you would stop being sarcastic and instead see the bright side in things and allow it to make you feel better I think you could have done a better job instead of being sarcastic and maybe take it more seriously if you know you suffer from putting yourself down but nice attempt I just feel like yeah it was a challenge and you were doing it to help yourself but I don’t think it was taken very seriously or like you tried you just were like it’s okay ignore that
Niki I am proud of you for going through this because when you’re going on a walk with your friend in this video and you say things like in the comments people say she’s over reacting but you are amazing and beautiful smart and you have a great personality and your an amazing person and you can go threw it but you know feelings come and feelings go and you stay strong so I’m very proud of you
Selena Rose yeah and so what that’s Niki she shouldn’t change for anyone if she wants to change that’s because ONLY SHE wants to. Leave her alone she’s trying to be a more positive person which is hard I can relate more to her than anyone can she should be love even is she is sarcastic Niki that’s who she is and I love her for that.
This video was nice to watch but the fact that she puts “ positive thinking” when she says something positive and when she thinks of something negative she puts “ negative alert” but i love you sm😻❤️
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love u niki but it was kinda hard to watch how difficult it is for you to stay positive. you weren’t really being positive u were kinda just being ironic..literally pointing out the negative things. idk why it was so forced and so hard for u to stay in a good mood. this video kinda ruined my mood. It reminded me of when I made self deprecating jokes like you do.. even tho i was joking it ruined my mental health. no hate
I feel you, Niki. I am the same way. I want to try to be positive too. This video just shows how simple it is to be a positive person. I'm totally inspired by you to try a little harder.
I’m negative too Niki! But sometimes complaining helps you let off steam and gets you through the day. It is therapeutic! Don’t worry about what other people say. You do you girl! Love you! 💗💗💗
It’s funny how watching this video you can see simple things that can fix some of your negative experiences. Flat camera battery- be organised & charge night before. I know you said you were preoccupied though.
Messy makeup area whilst doing makeup- keep it clean every time you’ve finished.
No fav coffee- being open to try a different flavour & turns out it’s pretty good!
I think you did such a good job with this video bc it even showed me that a rainy day just going for a walk & what you find or who you meet can make your day. I think it’s getting out of your own head & into the bigger world around you & you become more grateful for all of it.
I can see you are ocd but I don’t think you have to label yourself glass half empty & be self deprecating. Change that & your demeanour will change. This video showed that. You’ve got an awesome sense of humour & even making this video shows you aren’t a negative person deep down bc a negative person would have done the complete opposite video in response to your last & whinge or complained or said they give up with RUclips & get defensive 💕🧡
Omg wow people can forget sometimes not everyone is perfect
@@mialingrosso7942 yes
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I DIED every time it said ‘negative alert’
How can you be dead but typing?
R.I.P ed
SAME LIKE ITS CREEPY
@@wmca06 *dies*R.I.P MEH
@@celestialkitten yea l know
4:42 that sweater looks *SO* good with your hair! They compliment each other so well that it makes your makeup look even prettier!
Yes it really does
yes, i do think so too
Yeah I was like awee when she had ti take it off but she looks pretty any way
I wonder where she got it it look so good and I wonder if there is any other colors like a pink one
Optimism is not forcing yourself to be happy, its accepting the negativity around you and being grateful regardless of that.
exactly, but she failed to understand that.
this comment is on point. her reaction to not having the right coffee seemed a lot to me. it just seems like at the very least you can remind yourself how lucky you are to have a nice coffee machine and coffee in your house. shit can always be worse
bethebombable I feel like she is just overreacting and exaggerating like she always does 🙄
Beverly LaPierre omg I love how you worded that. Likeeeee can't help people that you have to deal w in life suck 😂👌
one of my fav comment
Instead of saying “oh I HAVE to go to school” say “oh I GET to go to school.” That helps to make things positive and it puts thing in perspective because there is someone who is wishing they could do the things you are doing.
Us not being able to actually go to school anymore a yr later💀
@@bunnylover3119 haha
PERIODTT
being sad and bitchy some times is REAL LIFE, it’s not like she’s constantly whining and crying and that’s why i love ur channel! i enjoyed this spin off though!
Exactly I like that shes real, especially if u can relate to someone on RUclips that were negative or going through bad times in our life and RUclipsrs can relate and not just living a great life. They struggle too and I love niki for that. It helps me realize I'm not the only thinking negative or going through rough times
Preeya Sharma New youtuber lets grow together and support each other.
of course!@@back2backwithjandk773
Next challenge.. NO COFFE FOR A WEEK
You want her to go completely insane ??????
@@canosarchive yes!!!! I think it would be cool, i know i allways hide behind my coffe too cheer me up and when i can't have it! Dear lord have mercy on the people i cross
Nooooooooooooooo
Omg yes
YES!!!! You have to really plan that week out!
How does niki still look pretty when she wakes up!
Why can’t I do that 🤔
Cuz niki is a legend
Niki’s pink nails from the last upload😂
I know rigth they are so pretty! Even tho Pink is not my fav color tbh xD But she is rocking them
They look so good!
Omg I noticed that too!!!!!!!!!
Yasss
I thought I was the only one that noticed lol 🤣
I'm literally dying!! I heard you say "I'm being positive today" on the phone and I was so confused 😂😂😂
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Arianna Jonae
Haha
I love how she was upset about not having the coffee she wanted and then ended up liking the new one she tried, or when she was upset that her makeup might not look the way she wanted it to but ended up liking it as well. As she said, everything happens for a reason. I just thought it was a cool thing to note.
I can tell, this isn't for the video, you genuinely care about helping yourself! That's Amazing
Weather can certainly bring a person down! Everyone needs a bit of sunshine
Rain literally makes me jump with joy ._.
Sunshine stresses me out
Sunshine make me angry
Shanika ur right
I hate sunshine. "Gloomy" weather makes me the happiest.
I feel like a lot of the things she said was "negative alerts" weren't even negative. They were mostly facts, like "my desk is messy", "my camera is dead", "it's gloomy".... that's not being negative, that's facing the facts
p.s. before people come at me, this is NOT a hate comment. I just genuinely think she is too hard on herself
Anna Ranae idc cuz I agree like what lol
Think about how many times she gets critiqued for those things, even if it is facts. She thinks she’s a debbie downer with everything. You can tell people’s words really affect her.
Anna Ranae // It’s negative alert bc those are things that normally could cause her being negative. Sometimes when you have a bad day and a lot of small things happen, that didn’t necessarily had to and that seem ridiculous to others, it could get some people really down or sad. Sometimes when I feel like that I could literally cry because I dropped my frickin PEN
Then this video went over ur head ..
I'm naturally a "glass half empty" person, and I relate to this video a lot, when you're naturally pessimistic sometimes you have to start with "fake" positivity before you can genuinely be positive if that makes sense
So true
@@Lilia-qz6gn yes
niki:
"trying not to be negative"
5 minutes later:
"I HATE YOUUUUU"
# me with my bother😂
Lol
Nate: Be positive
Me: IM POSITIVE THAT IM UPSET THAT I DRANK ALL MY COFFEE
Julia Hills omg me
Julia Hills me😂😂😂
Glass half empty I'm OCD too btw
Ireland Bateman we got this
@@nikidemar thanks u so much for replying to my comment that is the first time any youtuber replied to my comment
@@nikidemar thank you
@@nikidemar thank u I love u so much
I just want to say to you that trying to say "I have ocd" insted of "I'm Ocd" cuz your not your ocd you are so much more and an illness or what ever should never be somthing you are. It should be somthing you have even if you dont have controll over it fully don't lett that take contoll of who you think you are or what your worth is.
I have anxiety and i really struggel with that on days and on thouse days it feels like all i'm is the anxiety. And i learned that by sepearating me form an illness/label do help me think more posetiv (But on moste days i'm a halft empty glass kind of person)
I'm so for this video. i'm down for the realist era on youtube too, but i hate seeing people upset so constant pity partys on my subs box aint it. LOVE YOU TY FOR speadin the sunshiiiineee x :)
@NikiDeMar ahhh thank you!! sm love!! btw hmu when you're in uk lmao im waiting
I totally feel you! I also have bad anxiety and get so hard on myself. When you have anxiety, it makes things super hard, but it’s important to remember that you’re great and the bad feeling will pass and get better!
I swear Niki always has the best and most original video ideas! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Fabiola Suárez WHY DO I KEEP SEEING YOU ON EVERY VIDEO I WATCH
Fabiola Suárez And you always have like 300 LIKES
Fabiola Suárez btw, love your profile pic 😍😍😍
Fabiola Suárez ikr
Omg true
Soo dramatic when she didn't have her coffee.. Thats so me!!😂 can definitely relate lol
Melanie Diaz so negative .. supposed to be positive
@@Missmagazinebura thank you for your comment Maxine, hope you have a great day😊
ikr like she was awkard so i was the triple of awkard
Lari Araya I hope you have a great day today too
Melanie Diaz any small youtubers wanna support eachother
lolllll looks like she really took the comments on her pink video to heart
Olivia Madeleine so? Shes human right? Wouldnt u take it to heart? Now stop hating and click the fudge off, thanks.
wow. it's crazy how watching this video opens your eyes to see how you've been acting in your own life. this was such a good reminder to reflect on the bad attitudes I've been having and make a mental choice to be in a good, positive mood. love you niki 💛
I don't think this was a pointless video. Honestly i feel so sorry that you had to try that hard. I have been there too but nowadays I don't let little things ruin my day because life is beautiful.
However you did not show a positive behavior at all it was just sarcasm. I think it might be because you were trying to convince yourself but you weren't really in the mood.
I have dealt with OCD before and I understand depression and negativity are like a pit you can't get out of. Honestly I think RUclips and just life in general nowadays is all about how you portray yourself but never about you actually living the life you want. You think you want to spend all your day taking pictures and making sure you look like your the happiest person but in reality you are so stressed out and sad because you want to impress others but never truly give your soul what it needs. You try to make yourself look better with a makeup and clothes but fail to realize that life is short and you are spending it on mediocre things. I have been there and I am still struggling. Nowadays you can't even enjoy a vacation because you are so caught up taking pictures and posting it so others envy you that you don't actually enjoy where your at. I think today's mentality is messed up and we have to get out of it in order to truly be happy and enjoy every second that you have left on this earth. Life is too short to care what others think of you. Live a life that is worth living!
Honestly girl you're so right. People these days act like depressed people are ungrateful when in reality there are triggers like social media all around us.
So truee!! The job that she has has nothing to do with the real life! I think this is what causes all the negativity and depression. People should live the real life, not the online life
I agree with you guys! I hope she gets to a better emotional state.
Who else loves when Niki uploads!?!? 💙
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I like how Mary said that Niki doesn't necessarily vlog when she's having the most fun in life, because she gets lost in the moment.
I have always been really positive but no day is perfect so when I am sad I do things that make me happy,workout, and think about the good side of life
This is a good challenge for Niki because she can definitely be too dramatic and negative. But, being fake positive is not really the point but I guess you gotta fake it til you make it
Rana Afhame I definitely know and realize she’s human but being human doesn’t mean being focused on the negative. Also bring happy all the time and being positive are two different things. Listen I’m not trying to spread hate I’m just commenting on the video
Niki I want to be real upfront with you and I don’t want you to read this as a hate comment bc I’ve been a fan of you and gabi for years so pls remember this is coming from a criticism/advice standpoint. I’m a psychology major and I struggle with diagnosed anxiety, and I have moments where I get really anxious and it makes me negative and depressed. However, I’ve learned to face my anxiety head on, look at it from a logical perspective, and self reflect on why I feel this way. I don’t think this video did you much justice in seeming to look happy or even have positivity. This felt so sarcastic it was almost upsetting to watch. Instead of poking fun and being sarcastic about being happy you should take this seriously. Being happy doesn’t mean plastering a fake smile and pretending you don’t have problems. We all have problems and issues we deal with on a daily basis, but it’s the attitude we have towards these moments of frustration and stress that matter the most. We all get stressed and sad and depressed when situations occur, but if you were to change your mindset from “I hate how messy I am” to “maybe if I had better organization for my makeup I wouldn’t feel so messy and upset at myself”. You need to act on your thoughts as well as say them. If you want a change in your mindset to a positive one, find joys in the little things in life, what are things like simple things that bring you joy? I feel like finding joy and happiness in the little things in life makes moments of stress less significant.
I couldn't say it better myself. I struggle with social anxiety and I find it very hard to be positive, even when i'm just with myself. I often think about why I feel frustrated, or why I feel uncomfortable in that situation. But her fake smiles and pretending not to care about what's happening felt like she was joking about what people like me, or anyone with any mental illness. But I know that's not what she was trying to show, it just came off like that. I am a fan of them also, this video just made me a little uncomfortable in my opinion. Not trying to hate, just stating my opinion.
Gurl I am just starting university and I will be studying psychology any tips? 😂 I am so excited
100% agreed
As someone with anxiety problems I really didn't feel like this video offended me. She also had a real talk with her audience towards the end of the idea, so I don't mind if she was a little bit satirical during the video, she said it herself, she usually makes fun of herself in a deprecating way.
I really hope niki reads this because I agree!! Niki could really learn from this and actually be happy. Everyone should read about self help topics, bettering themselves, and learn to love themselves because speaking about yourself in a negative way reflects how you truly feel about yourself sarcastic or not.
*niki: Me trying to be positive for 24 hours*
*niki in 2 mins: *being sarcastic about everything**
I can relate to you Niki its really hard for me to be positive too! waking up each day is really hard when you don't feel good so I understand
Your eye makeup be looking poping in the intro! 😍
And the outro
Ikr
This video feels really unreal. Being happy vs being positive are totally different things. Happiness should never be forced. If you are not positive, that doesn’t mean you aren’t happy with life. I’m generally negative, however, I still enjoy life. You don’t need to ever change yourself to feel happiness, it comes naturally. This was really fake.
@angel cake PREACH!😊
angel cake thank uuuu
Yeah I am really negative in life... with basically everything... but I still laugh and enjoy life like anyone else.
me
but i love niki sfm
lol she is being so sarcastic this whole video, but it was still entertaining sis!
shelby mugeche any small youtubers wanna support eachother
Kymana Christine actually yeah I’ve been wanting to put a video up but I’m scared and dk how to edit that good. I’ll subscribe to you tho if you subscribe to me!
I just love the fact you're trying to change the world and make a positive difference!!ugh you're so real!!I love that.
plot twist at the end she takes out a pregnancy test and it is positive
edit: omggg thanks for 1k 🥰
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😂💀
Im also named Amelie
Amelie Collazo I wish
WHAT🤯
Niki's hair color with the green sweater and bright pink nails OBSESSED
I need to do this challenge. People don’t understand how hard it can be to be positive, especially when dealing with depression and anxiety. It makes my brain naturally think negatively.
Ikr im being so negative Today like
I honestly understand your POV so much! I am quite a negative person and its so nice to see you explaining your side and making negative things sound more positive! Love you Niki!!
I just find it weird bc ever since I started watching Niki and Gabi I always thought damn niki's so positive, even more than gabi. Even if you have your moments I don't think that defines you, but I guess if you say you truly are that negative then it is what it is🤷🏾♀️
@avery yah I agree and I saw the vid with Niki and alisha too
Ik me too
God I need to try this But I'm 100% Sure I'll probably Fail cause I can't go about my day without complaining..."
saying you’re gonna fail before you even try is so negative!! believe in yourself and realize the power of your thoughts. you have control over them and your reactions, they are YOURS- you own your thoughts, they don’t own you. just practice noticing when negative thoughts are coming, then you can get better and better at shutting them down before they affect you! easier said than done but it’s all practice practice practice
sameee
But, it is always good to try!
I cant do a 12h whitout complaining or crying or being angry! im so negative😂😂😂
Lol same
I don’t know why but this video made me laugh!! 😂😂
Magda Veronica same!!!
Same!!
Me too because this is impossible for me to do.😀
i used to be a glass-half empty kind of person bc i went through a LOT in the past, but I had to learn to push through and look at things through a different perspective and now im happy to say that im known for being super optimistic.. so it is completely possible to change your attitude and it is SO worth it :) hope u guys have a great day💛
Is it just me or does niki seem sad lately
Mel Maui haha that’s y she made this vid
Mel Maui New youtuber lets grow together and support each other.
Back2backwithjandk agreed
E the Unicorn I know
lol
Being positive isn’t just smiling all the time. Like when you camera was dead you could have though like okay I can use my phone for a bit and talk about the quality, your make up table being messy you could have thought like oh wow I’m blessed to have all this, the coffee you could have though hey I can try something new and I’ll post mate what I want or hey an excuse to go shopping.
Victoria Ridge true true
Lol i agree! At least she’s trying
I agree its not about masking everything with a smile, it about finding the good in each moment. But she did a good job other-wise 👍🏾🌞
I agree I don’t think she necessarily nailed the whole actually happy thing. The things she did aren’t going to change the way she feels about just life in general. And I love Niki but this video definitely could’ve gone differently
preach preach preach. i'm naturally a positive person. there's already so much bad in the world, why find bad in the little mishaps that happen in life when it's not the biggest issue. also, if you're biggest issue of the day is having a dead battery for your camera, not having your coffee, and having a messy makeup desk, you're living a pretty beautiful and blessed life.
This is the kind of 24hour challenge that should catch on& eveybody on youtube should do this♡kudos to you niki for trying!!
Aw Nikki it’s okay to be sad and nagitive sometimes and a lot of us LOVE for who u are but I think it’s so awesome how your trying to fix being negative, ur such an inspiration ❤️
6:45 girl, I gotta call you out, this wasn't a positive moment 😂😂😂
*i think everyone on the planet of the earth needs to play this*
That’s Enough internet for today-
LMFAO. it is technically a drug, I'm not promoting drug use. 😂 Dead
1. The camera. Just vlog for a bit on your phone while it charges
2. The makeup just tidy up it's not hard
3. The coffee its not hard just to try something new
4. You were just being sarcastic
As someone who struggles with depression, it can actually be very hard to do simple things.
@@chesavage8400 well i am sorry but seeing Niki being so negative kinda hurts me bc she is one of my favorite RUclipsrs
I Understand ❤️ maybe she really is trying.... But I hope everything with you, is okay. ❤️❤️
@@chesavage8400 ty💗 same to you. Hope you have a good Valentines as well
thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Same to you 💗
you made this way harder then it had to be
Brooks any small youtubers wanna support eachother
@@kymanaa yeah !
@@kymanaa subbed!!
@@kymanaa yup very true
Nikki telling us she is not very positive for 15 minutes straight ...😂❤️
I actually think this is a pretty real video of Day 1 mindset shift. I'm in this boat too, right now, Niki. You and Gabi's videos are keeping me so SO grounded. Pay no mind to the haters - they have too much time on their hands.
big big big hugs!
i really enjoyed this video concept and i am really happy to see you challenge yourself and spread this type of message! hope u make more of this content ♥
Izabel any small youtubers wanna support eachother
*cringing at the forced happiness in this video* niki you better make a video addressing how painful this one is to watch lmao. its so forced, sarcastic and honestly just makes your deeper issues with happiness more obvious. 24hours to cure depression is about as realistic as this video. acting happy and being happy are different. this video was really fake and I just hope that this can inspire you to not force an attitude and to seek some real help. you're not broken or a bad person. even though all these comments will be negative, and you can continue to heart the blind fans who ignore the problem, it won't change how you feel or how others perceive you. focus on making yourself better and don't try to force an attitude for your viewers.
I agree what you said bc it’s all true
I agree. What you said is so true! Not hate but I want to see Niki genuinely happy not forcing herself to be happy for 24 hours xc
@@oliviasartorio2257 same. i actually think she's a very sweet person and i like both the twins. she clearly struggles with her own happiness and she should know that it's okay. we all have struggles and she's not broken and i cant stress that enough. she shouldn't force something for the sake of her viewers. like overcoming depression, these things are gradual and take time to see true progress. i just dont want her to be so hard on herself.
Jessica she did this to help her. Not just for a video I have depression and its hard I don't know I don't know if Niki has depression but still it sucks to have haters like you this was for Niki not just for her RUclips
Jolee Ryan I’m not her hater. If that’s what you thought from this entire thing then I don’t know what to tell you except have a good day.
This video prooves that, sometimes, shit just happens.. but the way u look at it changes everything, if u r going to complain abt it and ruin ur day, or u are just going to be optimistic abt it... depends on u... thank u niki for this wonderful video... it made me look at things in the way i never did, and for the first time in my life I felt good..❤❤❤
the first song you played from lady gaga is very special to me because my dad used to have all the cd's from lady gaga and we always listend to it when we drove back to school and we were like 6 so we didn't understand it so we were just saying words and when i was getting older we stopt and it was so much fun to listen back to this and i love you niki
I was so excited for this video but I ended up being a little disappointed :(
edit: I posted this comment a little to early because I was positively surprised about the second half of the video. Niki seemed to be so genuine in this part. But first 8 minutes of the video were complaining about everything and then saying „but i’m going to be positive about it”. It came off as fake an cringy.
*as someone who naturally has an extremely optimistic outlook on life (not due to genetics - by CHOICE), i am so glad to see you making the conscious effort to be happy. it’s so much more beneficial to be positive than negative. good for you, girl. don’t stop here; keep it up!* 🌻
SKYY LOVE any small youtubers wanna support eachother
Finally, one comment congratulating her for her efforts rather than criticizing them.
I am naturally half glass full ✨✨ and it is amazing.. for all of those who are half glass empty- You got this!!! I know you can do itt ... you can change your perspective and you can turn into a half glass full ❤️❤️ I promise you
How about full glass empty? XD
Dear optimist, pessimist and realist,
While you all were arguing over whether the glass was half, half full or half empty, I dRaNk iT.
Sincerely,
The opportunist
Dear opportunist,
It was pOiSoN.
Sincerely,
The SADIST
I relate so much, most people think I am always depressed but I just have one of those faves that look depressed no matter what. So now I usually have a negative outlook in life.
Who else is proud of her for doing this challenge?
Okay I must admit that I was one of those people who said that you were being too negative etc..... but I’m really glad you’re acknowledging it. Good on you girl, I just subbed back :)
Okay, wrote this before watching the video, didn’t réalisé that the positivity was actually going to be forced and sarcastic. Video got better near the end though
I bet you Nate hid all niki’s coffee and used up the all the camera battery
Your perfect don’t let anyone tell you different. I have OCD as well and it’s not easy. You handle it very well. The people in the comments don’t know how it feels so they have no right to judge
you literally were just positive in a sarcastic way.....
Sam Ely so was your mom when u were born....
U have been **roasted**
Ευαγγελία_🇬🇷 THATS disgusting
Literally the WHOLE video was being negative about all of the things you’re always negative about.this is not what people want to see
issa mood tho
I feel like I am a lot like her when it comes to being negative. I try being positive but it's honestly very difficult.
I feel like she is just more ungrateful than negative
Ik
soooo true
Katie Kraiss she is grateful
@@lolascamerarolexox6561 where
@@dove1138 where
Love this! I’m a pretty negative person naturally as well so maybe I should try this but I love that you aren’t afraid to talk about the struggles
You literally were still negative but just smiled, that’s not being positive.
that's how you start to grow from negative to positive you have to check yourself every second and it seems fake but its the fact of showing yourself to stop
Just let her be Obviously she stressed and that little bit of hate you just put to her is making it worse for her
it doesn't matter at least she is being more positive than you!
Don't judge
She is trying to be better I know I need to so I am proud of her
You’re not alone in being a glass half empty kind of girl because i am too and i am very sensitive as well so I just want to say I love you 💙😍niki🖤and I’m proud of you for putting this video out. And it is hard to positive when you’re not always happy so I’m proud of you for even making this video.
most of the 'negative alerts' aren't negative and just her saying something. (not negative)
Niki I think you are a brilliant woman and that even if you don't feel so great sometimes you still are a great role model and someone to look up to. Watching you just relieves me and I know that goes for many others. I know I don't know you personally but even tho I don't I can already tell you are a wonderful person. Always know you are loved even when you don't feel it. We love you Niki!
I am the same way! I am so sensitive. There’s nothing to be ashamed of. Don’t let people tell you that you should be happy go lucky about everything.. You do you! 💙
i really appreciate you making this video. im going through sooo much with mental health and this video just is a reminder that im not alone :')
I really liked this video, its cool watching somone put that much effort into bettering themselves.
the more you train your mind to look at the positive things the easier it gets! i went through a lot of shit last year and most of my life ive been a negative person. But there came a point where i was just sick of feeling angry and annoyed with life so i starting forcing myself to wake up, smile, and enjoy my day regardless of the negative shit happening. Trust me, it works! Just tell yourself in the morning you got this, and anything is possible! if you use that as sort of a routine in your life you will see alot of positive changes to your mental health! I now catch myself seeing beauty in the craziest and simplist things. That is the type of thing that makes me happy. You got this hunny xoxo one day at a time.
I'm going to try this. Good job Niki! Your amazing girl! You are my role model (:
She said make this a supporting comment section . This is the opposite of that smfh
People should just let Niki be herself but Niki should also be less hard on herself and let her life freely. Love u Niki
I'm literally so positive that I'm neither a glass half-full or half-empty person -- I'm just happy there's water in the glass. But I haven't always been like this, and it's been a long journey to get to the point where I'm seriously happy regardless of what's going on.
Complaining while saying it in a “happy” tone isn’t being positive and if you would stop being sarcastic and instead see the bright side in things and allow it to make you feel better I think you could have done a better job instead of being sarcastic and maybe take it more seriously if you know you suffer from putting yourself down but nice attempt I just feel like yeah it was a challenge and you were doing it to help yourself but I don’t think it was taken very seriously or like you tried you just were like it’s okay ignore that
if u don't have something nice to say dont say it ur a hater!
@@3gkhd74 its called constructive criticism...
Tough love but ok
Niki I am proud of you for going through this because when you’re going on a walk with your friend in this video and you say things like in the comments people say she’s over reacting but you are amazing and beautiful smart and you have a great personality and your an amazing person and you can go threw it but you know feelings come and feelings go and you stay strong so I’m very proud of you
*NIKI* YOU'RE ALWAYS THE BEST. *i miss you that's why I'm here binge watching old videos*
niki is so nice to her subscribers. i would love to meet her someday! love u girl
*OMGGG I CANT BELIEVE I WAS IN YOUR VIDEOOO LOVE YOU NIKI*
I doubt it was you
@@celestialkitten I don't care
When ?
When?
Can dice Fox don't care
this was more of a sarcastic video
Selena Rose yeah and so what that’s Niki she shouldn’t change for anyone if she wants to change that’s because ONLY SHE wants to. Leave her alone she’s trying to be a more positive person which is hard I can relate more to her than anyone can she should be love even is she is sarcastic Niki that’s who she is and I love her for that.
Niki: *wakes up*
Also niki: I'm gonna be positive today!
Me: see's pink nails...
I tried it at home it is so fun and it was soooooooooooooo hard to do
This video was nice to watch but the fact that she puts “ positive thinking” when she says something positive and when she thinks of something negative she puts “ negative alert” but i love you sm😻❤️
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Niki: Everybody at the end of the day, just wants to be happy 😃
Me: Not on Sundays tho coz there’s school the next day 😭😢
I HATE SCHOOL COZ TEACHERS GIVE ME SOOOO MUCH HOMEWORK WAAAAAAA HELP MEH PLSSS
Zali Telfer sssaaaaammmmmee
Zali Telfer lol 😂
I love Hogwarts but hate the muggle school I went to
not anymore with corona😂
love u niki but it was kinda hard to watch how difficult it is for you to stay positive. you weren’t really being positive u were kinda just being ironic..literally pointing out the negative things. idk why it was so forced and so hard for u to stay in a good mood. this video kinda ruined my mood. It reminded me of when I made self deprecating jokes like you do.. even tho i was joking it ruined my mental health. no hate
Don’t say no hate if this was literally a hate comment
It wasn’t a hate comment it was an opinion and she was stating her observations and how the video made her feel.
Magical Maya it’s a comment section not a compliment section
But lets try to make it a positive comment section like c'mon
deelightful Thank you! I was truly not trying to hate i love niki. Just constructive criticism.
I feel you, Niki. I am the same way. I want to try to be positive too. This video just shows how simple it is to be a positive person. I'm totally inspired by you to try a little harder.
Me trying to stay positive when I know I just failed a test 6:36
Niki: did i drink all of it i thought i bought a new pack
Nate: i thought you did
Nate: smiles wickedly and giggles I took them
I’m literally addicted to two things Nikki&Coffee 💙☕️
I’m negative too Niki! But sometimes complaining helps you let off steam and gets you through the day. It is therapeutic! Don’t worry about what other people say. You do you girl! Love you! 💗💗💗