I'm not exaggerating when I say that every time I receive your notification and I get happy, in the sense that I feel like a friend of mine came to visit me, that's how close I feel to you
It is so comforting to hear that it isn't just me who had cried earlier this week about feeling this overwhelming sense of lonliness. I thoroughly believe that I'll never be anyone's first option and it breaks me everytime I think about it. I'm quite literally spilling tears as I write this cause I resonate wholeheartedly with this entire video but in particular unnecessary self-sabotage - about feeling stupid and nothing working in my favour and feeling like my inner-circle of friends don't truly care about me as well as the isolating myself because I feel as though I'm too reliant on others in whatever aspect of life it may be. I tend to be very self-destructive when I'm sad and I have a bad habit of just going down this hole of misery and making myself feel even worse than I already am - sometimes unconsciously and other times being fully aware of what I'm doing. I'm getting help though and I'm hoping it works out for me in the end. I hope things work out for you and anyone else reading this. I'm just glad I'm not the only one.
you are definitely not the only one! you have no idea how this paragraph resonate with me.. but still, i know that in the end, we are going to be okay and we are going to be proud of ourselves! sending you a big hug.
Wow. You literally took the words right from my mind as I’ve been feeling the exact same lately. Every night, for these past week and a half - I’ve been crying myself to sleep due to this deep feeling of loneliness and lack of genuine connection. I miss just being able to connect and have these life talks, small talk just doesn’t do it for me. I’m not depressed per se but just feeling this seasonal sadness maybe due to the cold weather and it getting dark so early, which makes me unmotivated to do much of anything besides the things I am obligated to do like work & school. I literally just came across one of this dude’s videos and I’ve never felt so seen & heard. Now this is my 3rd video and I’m supposed to be waking up at 4:30am lol. Literally feels like I’m just listening to my own thoughts but in a comforting, validating way. This too shall pass my friend. I’m wishing you better days ahead. We will find peace & happiness again 💛
“Other people are so much stronger than me, that doesn’t disqualify me from trying.“, “I suck at so many things and still I‘m trying.“, ”It’s okay to be weak, but it’s not okay to stay weak.“, “I gotta start doing stuff, when nobody watches.“, “The intellectuals who claim that working out is unnecessary. (…) It’s so ironic.”
you are the only person on this entire platform that can motivate me by simply talking. Idk how this works, but god it feels like you’re my bsf trying to knock some sense into me which i really needed. Thank you for all the effort.
I didn't realize how much I needed to hear this🥺. Your words are so powerful, and they make me feel a lot better and less alone, knowing that someone else is going through the same thing. Your videos mean so much to me!!
everytime I talk to the guy who I had a situationship with online (that I don’t like talking to now and wanna get out of), I would always visit your channel so I can always remind myself that this is the type of guy that I would like to be in a relationship with. Someone who is trying, knows how to communicate and feel so deeply and is strong enough to face life. You are the standard for me (and many other girls out there who is in the same situation as I am). Please keep posting 🙏🏼 You are changing lives out here ❤️
I really feel Santiago's videos, working out is necessary, no matter what you do. This comes from a guy who was just a fat gamer. Thank you, love your videos and I will check out your writings. You are the best. - your Italian API Go developer!
If you need a hug buy yourself a pet or hug yourself. At the end it will get better. Thank you for your video, i feel mostly the same way, so your not alone. Oh, and you are really handsome. Good luck!!! 😅❤
omg, i'm in the hero academy and i swear i've been procastinating on finishing a text about feeling not smart enough for specific things cause i was always the smart kid while growing up, and how this whole situation makes me feel very dumb and disappointed with myself, even tho is impossible to be great at everything this just came in the right time, a sign maybe???
You will never know that some woman who is in Turkiye also said what you mostly said in the video. I have told these while looking at the space. Sometimes the one was a star who is with me in the middle of the nigt and sometimes it was the moon....I talked them more than one... Yes you are right Santiago Weppler. I accepted I'm weak but also getting stronger :'
Im dumb and i like it, im tired of wanting to be smart in this ugly world its like you always have something to prove or they wont accept you . And i no longer want to be smart and accepted i want to be dumb and at peace with myself 🖤
When I started being my own hero, somehow slowly but surely people started relying on me more and more. The point is, if you try to be your own hero, you eventually end up as other people's hero as well. And that's happening with you too bro. You're just trying to be your own hero, but you're also sort of being a hero for other young people. I don't want to put you on a pedestal or anything, but I just wanted to let you know that it's true. More authentic you are, more we can rely on you to be honest with us. I think there's a lack of honesty in my world and in the people in it, myself included sometimes. And god does it feel good when I see this random human being so honest and candid. You're very cool for doing that.
It’s so interesting, most of the things you say on your videos I’ve thought about it. It feels like you’re talking about me, cus I’ve been through similar things! Also, yes, write that book. In the beginning of this week I felt a sudden desire to write a book, and now all I see is 1111, 777, 999 and 888. And my fav RUclipsrs are talking about books - that includes you! Anyways, thank you for this video, it was very needed ❤
Mach weiter, Santiago. Du bist kräftiger als du denkst. Nur guck mal, wie du in diesen letzten Monaten allein, aber motivierend Fortschritte gemacht hast.
stg i was looking for your account for quite some time, because i watched your videos before, while not being logged into my account and now i finallyyyy found your channel again
“Sober up, recall yourself, shake off sleep once more: realise they were mere dreams that troubled you, and now that you are awake again look on these as you would have looked on a dream” - Marcus Aurelius
Hey man, would you ever consider writing a short story? I think if you gave it a try, it could be something really awesome. I don't know why but the way you talk sometimes reminds me of h.p. lovecraft's writing. Of course the first few short stories might be not that good, but man I feel like you would write really amazing short stories. I don't know what your take on fiction is, but do give it some thought. And amazing content, as always. Hats off, man🫡🫡🫡
Santiago, There is no use to armchair quarterbacking young friend... Saying if I only did this, ALL would have been better. Maybe not. EVERYBODY (98%) of people do the self sabotage thing. We are all scared to some degree. The trick is, can you laugh at your uniqueness lovingly and then capitalize on that uniqueness? Capitalize on your weaknesses. Accept your own hug first, not someone elses. THEN, you can share your unique hug with somebody else. 🫶👍🌠🎉🫡🫡🫡🤑
in the exact moment you are trying to love yourself you are already doing it.
I'm not exaggerating when I say that every time I receive your notification and I get happy, in the sense that I feel like a friend of mine came to visit me, that's how close I feel to you
@st4rrycam
Same here omg 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Aren’t parasocial relationships wonderful?
True!!
This
@@Maryyyyssecret
"I just want to make my 8 y/o happy and my 80 y/o proud." Thank you Santiago for another unapologetically, great video
Sending you a hug. 🤗I know it’s difficult to be alone sometimes. You are a strong person. Keep going, keep fighting you got this.
It is so comforting to hear that it isn't just me who had cried earlier this week about feeling this overwhelming sense of lonliness. I thoroughly believe that I'll never be anyone's first option and it breaks me everytime I think about it. I'm quite literally spilling tears as I write this cause I resonate wholeheartedly with this entire video but in particular unnecessary self-sabotage - about feeling stupid and nothing working in my favour and feeling like my inner-circle of friends don't truly care about me as well as the isolating myself because I feel as though I'm too reliant on others in whatever aspect of life it may be. I tend to be very self-destructive when I'm sad and I have a bad habit of just going down this hole of misery and making myself feel even worse than I already am - sometimes unconsciously and other times being fully aware of what I'm doing. I'm getting help though and I'm hoping it works out for me in the end. I hope things work out for you and anyone else reading this.
I'm just glad I'm not the only one.
you are definitely not the only one! you have no idea how this paragraph resonate with me.. but still, i know that in the end, we are going to be okay and we are going to be proud of ourselves!
sending you a big hug.
Wow. You literally took the words right from my mind as I’ve been feeling the exact same lately. Every night, for these past week and a half - I’ve been crying myself to sleep due to this deep feeling of loneliness and lack of genuine connection. I miss just being able to connect and have these life talks, small talk just doesn’t do it for me. I’m not depressed per se but just feeling this seasonal sadness maybe due to the cold weather and it getting dark so early, which makes me unmotivated to do much of anything besides the things I am obligated to do like work & school. I literally just came across one of this dude’s videos and I’ve never felt so seen & heard. Now this is my 3rd video and I’m supposed to be waking up at 4:30am lol. Literally feels like I’m just listening to my own thoughts but in a comforting, validating way. This too shall pass my friend. I’m wishing you better days ahead. We will find peace & happiness again 💛
❤
I was upset that there was no Turkish translation. I watched it with the translation. Your conversation was therapeutic.. thank you
“Other people are so much stronger than me, that doesn’t disqualify me from trying.“, “I suck at so many things and still I‘m trying.“, ”It’s okay to be weak, but it’s not okay to stay weak.“, “I gotta start doing stuff, when nobody watches.“, “The intellectuals who claim that working out is unnecessary. (…) It’s so ironic.”
you are the only person on this entire platform that can motivate me by simply talking. Idk how this works, but god it feels like you’re my bsf trying to knock some sense into me which i really needed. Thank you for all the effort.
your voice is very soothing
Love the tattoo on your arm and love the realness of your content.
I so needed to hear something like this today...thank you so much Santiago..
More videos please babe. Your content is exactly what I need
Omg, I really needed to hear that! Thank you sm Santi
Just thank you. You being you is inspiring. And you already got stronger, even if you don’t see it.
I didn't realize how much I needed to hear this🥺. Your words are so powerful, and they make me feel a lot better and less alone, knowing that someone else is going through the same thing. Your videos mean so much to me!!
everytime I talk to the guy who I had a situationship with online (that I don’t like talking to now and wanna get out of), I would always visit your channel so I can always remind myself that this is the type of guy that I would like to be in a relationship with. Someone who is trying, knows how to communicate and feel so deeply and is strong enough to face life. You are the standard for me (and many other girls out there who is in the same situation as I am). Please keep posting 🙏🏼 You are changing lives out here ❤️
Receiving a notification from your channel brings me so much joy; your videos are truly comforting.
God bless you dude! Your videos are so comforting and I love the way you articulate your thoughts. I seriously appreciate the rawness of it all 🫡
thank you, that video means a lot to me. sending you a virtual hug~ ❤
Thank you Santiago 🙌
Watching your videos feels like a video call with a close friend
omg the timing is crazyy
My digital mentor
I really feel Santiago's videos, working out is necessary, no matter what you do.
This comes from a guy who was just a fat gamer.
Thank you, love your videos and I will check out your writings.
You are the best. - your Italian API Go developer!
If you need a hug buy yourself a pet or hug yourself. At the end it will get better. Thank you for your video, i feel mostly the same way, so your not alone. Oh, and you are really handsome. Good luck!!! 😅❤
In fact, we need like this person in our life.
god why I so feel like hugging him just hearing him talk n talk n talk??? Why I feel so close to him?? 😂
I NEEDED THISSSS
got my uni entrance test in 10 days, thanks santiago!
I deeply resonate with you a lot
omg, i'm in the hero academy and i swear i've been procastinating on finishing a text about feeling not smart enough for specific things cause i was always the smart kid while growing up, and how this whole situation makes me feel very dumb and disappointed with myself, even tho is impossible to be great at everything
this just came in the right time, a sign maybe???
I needed it that!❤🩹
You will never know that some woman who is in Turkiye also said what you mostly said in the video. I have told these while looking at the space. Sometimes the one was a star who is with me in the middle of the nigt and sometimes it was the moon....I talked them more than one... Yes you are right Santiago Weppler. I accepted I'm weak but also getting stronger :'
Im dumb and i like it, im tired of wanting to be smart in this ugly world its like you always have something to prove or they wont accept you . And i no longer want to be smart and accepted i want to be dumb and at peace with myself 🖤
Hey man, thank you. Your vids have been adding value to my life. I look forward to your content and tweets. Keep goin'
When I started being my own hero, somehow slowly but surely people started relying on me more and more. The point is, if you try to be your own hero, you eventually end up as other people's hero as well. And that's happening with you too bro. You're just trying to be your own hero, but you're also sort of being a hero for other young people. I don't want to put you on a pedestal or anything, but I just wanted to let you know that it's true. More authentic you are, more we can rely on you to be honest with us. I think there's a lack of honesty in my world and in the people in it, myself included sometimes. And god does it feel good when I see this random human being so honest and candid. You're very cool for doing that.
Love your videos king, keep it up!!
Thank for advice ❤
11:21 awwwww🥹🫂
i understand it now🙏
It’s so interesting, most of the things you say on your videos I’ve thought about it. It feels like you’re talking about me, cus I’ve been through similar things! Also, yes, write that book. In the beginning of this week I felt a sudden desire to write a book, and now all I see is 1111, 777, 999 and 888. And my fav RUclipsrs are talking about books - that includes you!
Anyways, thank you for this video, it was very needed ❤
I needed that for real
Today i was hating myself
I'm so thankful for you
Your follower from syria
You‘d be a pretty good podcaster •.•
Mach weiter, Santiago. Du bist kräftiger als du denkst. Nur guck mal, wie du in diesen letzten Monaten allein, aber motivierend Fortschritte gemacht hast.
After finishing the video, all I want is to run to u and wrap u in a hug , making everything feel better 😔
6:39 🙌 flash reference
29 minutos de Santiago? Here for it
I really love your videos
i feel like i shld pay you for all these videos u put out omfg like u deserve wealth for all ur wisdom
stg i was looking for your account for quite some time, because i watched your videos before, while not being logged into my account and now i finallyyyy found your channel again
UR A GENIUSSSS
“Sober up, recall yourself, shake off sleep once more: realise they were mere dreams that troubled you, and now that you are awake again look on these as you would have looked on a dream” - Marcus Aurelius
my digital bf
Honestly though if my future parners anything like him I'd be happy
Same lol
11:29 😭😭😭💕
pinterest dream board!! the best thing i ever made.
This is cool.
Agreed to the title
the timing tho...
the timing is too real
Great stuff as always bro💪 also have you thought about God? We are weak but true strength will come from a relationship with him🙏
Yes I am
Ily already
omggggg 29 minutes
Need some looksmaxxing advice bro 🙏
is that some kind of taping on your nose or what? how it helps u? (just curious xd)
I missed my horrible job today 🗿✊🏻
😂
a sign
is there any way i can contact you!?
Quick question - may I?
Could you do a video in spanish?
Where you getting your nose strips from broooo?
DM or Rossmann
what is the tape on ur nose for?
You're so cute It's funny
I have a crush on you thanks🤕🩷
:))
bro what do you ask for when you get your haircut?
Why do you always have that bandage on your nose?
Its for better breathing
hi bro, i'm a new subscriber of your channel, hope to be responded by you🤩
His video is:
10% serious talk
90% you know
Hey man, would you ever consider writing a short story? I think if you gave it a try, it could be something really awesome. I don't know why but the way you talk sometimes reminds me of h.p. lovecraft's writing. Of course the first few short stories might be not that good, but man I feel like you would write really amazing short stories. I don't know what your take on fiction is, but do give it some thought. And amazing content, as always. Hats off, man🫡🫡🫡
Santiago,
There is no use to armchair quarterbacking young friend... Saying if I only did this, ALL would have been better. Maybe not.
EVERYBODY (98%) of people do the self sabotage thing.
We are all scared to some degree.
The trick is, can you laugh at your uniqueness lovingly and then capitalize on that uniqueness?
Capitalize on your weaknesses.
Accept your own hug first, not someone elses. THEN, you can share your unique hug with somebody else.
🫶👍🌠🎉🫡🫡🫡🤑