Can You Be Pro-Black And Date Outside Of Your Race? | TEA-G-I-F
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I agree with Armon. I've also known black people that are married to white people but still talk crap about white people. I don't understand that either.
Because actual pro black/ being progressive doesn't mean hating on somebody. It's fighting institutions and bigotry and fearmongering not people. As long as they not being hateful to their own or others and genuine about caring who cares who someone loves.
It's a cover up. I've learnt that when u talk alot about something and try to make people believe u don't like it/race, turns out it's the opposite. U luv it/other race secretly.
*"Pro-black"* isn't just a political term. Pro-black encompasses all realms of black society and the African diaspora. That includes *BLACK FAMILIES* and procreation 💯 Anything that is NOT BLACK, can never be Pro-black, just like 1+1 will never equal 4...
@@Jay-jb2vr fam respectfully what are you talking about? You sound like a right winger talking we have to reproduce and the great replacement theory. Just because you reproducing black doesn't mean you for our people nor helping causes.
omgsh saaame lol
You can’t be pro black but your preference isn’t black… that’s oxymoron
So being pro black is about who you f*ck? No wonder others are getting ahead🙄
Exactly!
all my cousins are proud to be black but they marry Hispanics and Latinas because they grew up in the same neighborhood and attended the same schools. Also, they are from Caribbean immigrant households btw. A lot of my family members who live in the UK married and or had kids with white women back in the day and they are pro-black it is just the environment really.
@@MikaMile-tp3kp then they not pro black the people in the UK example you mentioned were trying to assimilate which is the very opposite of being pro black.
@@doctordl7757 The phaaaaantom of the opera is here inside my mind. No dear, true love exists beyond color lines it does happen lightning does strike. I know it's tough living in the US always for black folk but Loving vs. Virginia was a real case. I have a half-Afro-Jamaican, half-white cousin with a white as-can-be blonde mother with blue eyes first cousin who lives in Germany right now, and her Dad my uncle was RASTAFARI PAN AFRICANIST Jamaican.
The question wasn’t can a biracial be pro-black!!
tourehbrown3078 turned this into something else 🙄
Al doesn’t comprehend questions too well. He does that a lot
Exactly!
@@Nanafia1 Which is why I will NEVER reproduce with a non-Black woman. A biracial son likely means White grandchildren. No thanks!!!
Yea, Al completely missed the mark with his response. Not sure what he was responding to smh
I'm with Armon...i have been confused by this as well. A Pro Black person that doesn't seek out 🖤 partnership or family...🤔
No the answer is no. Next.
I’ll tell you this, there’s people who are black in skin but then there’s people that’s black at heart. The latter matters more
What exactly do you mean by "Black at heart"?🤔
They go the hardest because they're lying to themselves
Exactly 💯 Self-hate
chrisk2734 FACTS !
Since when did Al become biracial?? And he is wrong. You need more then one Black parent to carry on the next generation. For example Meghan Harry children are not Black at all.
That threw me off too. Any other time there have been biracial topics he's tossed the baton to Claudia.
Since birth. His father is white
Right! This is the first time hearing he’s biracial. I thought he was just your typical light-skinned black dude. He never revealed this before. 🤔
Al Reynolds has always been biracial remember when TeaGif first came on, Al said he was from Virginia and his father was white born in New Orleans and his mother is Black. Claudia said her mother is Italian and her father is Black. The difference is that Al identifies as a Black man not a biracial man, because Al and all his siblings were raised by a Black woman. Claudia identifies as a biracial woman and she was raised by a white mother because father wasn't there.
He told funky on a previous episode that he’s fully black. I’m surprised now
NOPE!!!! Al is getting the question wrong!!!
Al, Ah, say what now?
tourehbrown3078 exactly wtf is he talking about? He talking everything but the topic at hand. He went to founding father's of the country like no. This is about black people who contradict themselves by refusing to incorporate it in their dating preferences.
Simply put, you aren't pro black if you do not sleep black. Before anyone says anything, my husband is black like me 😅❤ Talk black, sleep black. Period.
Small minded thinking sns
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Yup
Pro blk means nothing in 2024...ppl claim to be pro blk and support the 🌈..how does that advance the community???
By the same dodgy definition, if you're a feminist and pro women you have to sleep with women right? Talk women, sleep women?
Bs black is black, keeping it 100
Imma forever be pro black but I’m not judging someone for dating who likes them
We are such "pick me's" today. Sincere white people who want to preserve their culture and family line, deliberately marry white people, not because they hate other races but because that's their preference. The same with Asians. The same with Hawaiians. The same with Native Americans. The same with Africans. The same with people from Latin America. And on and on and on. We always allow other people to judge us more harshly than anyone else and we judge each other and our community for desiring authentic preservation of our genealogical preservation and our cultural preservation just as populatios in every race are doing and have done historically. And mixed race people trying to make everything about being mixed race is lame and boring at this point. bleh...
Of course Al and Claudia are going to disagree, they're biracial. Lmao! Terms have meanings. Everybody doesn't need to try to fit into every term. If you are a Black person that doesn't prioritize creating a Black family or partnering with a Black person, you're not "Pro Black". That doesn't mean you don't love, support or aren't invested in the wellbeing of your people. You can still be love and support your people and date outside of your race. You just aren't "Pro Black". "Pro Black" is a specific ideology and at the core of the that is the advancement of Black families. If that isn't a priority for you in your own romantic life, then why would you even consider yourself "Pro Black". People need to stop trying to make everything "inclusive" of everyone. It's okay, just live in your truth.
^^THIS X 1000. Facts.
Exactly this. They can be self aware and conscious but Pro Blackness is a movement for Black people. Simple
🎯 Dr Umar explains it well too & deeper in terms of the economic impact of these semi "pro black" people coupling up outside of thr black race.
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This is it!
Nope can't have it both ways Al - This is the difference between pro-black and support black/Ally nice try Al
I’m very PRO BLACK. My husband is Filipino. We’ve been married for going on 23 years. I didn’t actively seek marrying outside my race. He just so happens to be who I fell in love with all those years ago.
Then you are not pro black because it makes you a hypocrite because you don’t practice what you preach. I’m not one of them people that’s gonna shame you for that because who you love is your business but no one can truly be called pro black dating or married interracially.
You aren't pro black Hun and that's OK. Black families are the cornerstone of black people worldwide. The only way to have black families is with a black partner.
@@cjjohnson3827 Clearly, I disagree with you. I live everyday in my truth & I am not hypocritical in my blackness. My husband respects that. I can care less if you choose to shame me or not. Until you’ve been in a successful marriage for as long as I have then please don’t.
So you’re not pro black then. 🤣
@@GenZealous Just lost…🤦🏾♀️
It’s a completely different context when you’re actually black and claim “pro black” but your significant other is white. Doesn’t add up.
Personally I don't see a problem with anyone dating anyone they wish, but you can't be pro black if you won't date another black person. Also if you're actively trying to procreate with someone not blackthat's not pro black.
I agree with Armon!
You can be pro-black and in an interracial relationship.
The only exceptions to this are:
Tim Scott
Byron Donalds
Candace Owens
Angela Stanton
And whole lot more
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As a non black person, can someone tell me what Pro-Black means? Most of the comments make it seem like it is mostly just about having babies?
For the unification and growth of the black diaspora in areas of spirituality, education, economics, and wellbeing.
@@Awillii Thank you for that. I thought that is what it meant but I wasn't sure especially with some of these comments.
No.
that part.
Thats it and thats all....NO
ARMON👌🏾
Al's lips get in the way of him speaking and pronouncing his words!!! LoL😂 It's the pillow talk between mixed couples that keep us from advancing. The white partner will always chose their kind, when push comes to shove and they have to choose a side or will impart information to their kind that might hurt or deter us.
Ignorant comment, he can't control the size of his lips
Short answer:
NO
Too short, it need to be elongated this conversation
I have ALWAYS said this…
The mixed black kids have ALWAYS been by far THE loudest! I’m shocked Claudia said what she said when she’s the main one race baiting. Makes EVERYTHING a race issue even when it’s not! That goes for Al too
Not being pro black doesn’t make you an evil person
true. Amen. But nobody said that lol
@@Carrie-s1d but black people are so offended when you take that imaginary card away lol if you date outside your race then you aren’t pro black and that’s ok.
Can elephants fly? Same answer different stupid question.
How is it that women will say this but support the 🌈 ???? If being pro is about advancement then how does that advance the community????
@@truthbtold8697 A Black family and generational wealth comes in many forms
@@MarianneSunshinenow you want to try to change definitions...so a blk family comes in different forms except the form where someone reproduce with a non blk person but two men or women is still a family 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️ yeah ok😂😂😂😂
@@MarianneSunshineand if PRO is about advancement then in no way shape or form does 🌈 do anything to advance the community
@@truthbtold8697 how so? Education wealth ownership investments and even family by adopting Black children stuck in the system everyone can play their part .
Attended UC Riverside, both of our African programs Directors were married to non-black women.
A damn shame. The self hate is real.
@Mush2389 how is that "a damn ahame" when Bm create the most broken and 86% of Blk children are being raises in fatherless home???
Bw have bigger fish fry I think
That's typical around the country for some reason. Puzzling, but typical.
ASK CLARENCE THOMAS !!! No.
Its like being a white nationalist married to a black person. I dont think u can be fully pro black without dealing with the full black experience ❤
Lets be honest with ourselves. We all have our preferences when it comes to race. That being said I'd rather be with a non-black person who shares my beliefs and values and supports/accepts me for who I am than a black person who doesn't share my beliefs and values.
Facts
Typical black man respond when he dislikes black women
@@maxflanagan6641you have a preference whether you say you do or not. Just like you have a preference of where to live and what to eat, etc. your everyday actions expose your preferences. "You judge on the individual " is a bunch of bullshyt that just sounds nice. because in order to judge, you must first have a baseline. Whatever baseline you are using to judge the individual is based on a preference. Still goes back to having a preference.
For me to judge a sandwich and say i don't like it, too spicy, etc means I have an idea of what I like and what is too spicy for me.
@@maxflanagan6641 You ain't gotta lie Craig
@@maxflanagan6641 They wanna wrap it up in a bow to look pretty😂
No. Absolutely Not.
Absolutely, it's possible. But it also depends on the 2 people. Some Black people are white adjacent (they see being white as being better) and some white people see being Black as beautiful and will fight for the humanity of all. So it really just depends.
What if someone is biracial, mixed with black and white;Can they be pro black?
Reason I ask is because a biracial person is born half white marriage, and relationships. You choose those.
I agree with Al and Claudia. Black is black. My sisters have white like skin more then me or other sister and we aren't even of mixed race.some people think sisters are mixed. Who cares!!! You love who you love. Some people needs to stop with you are not black enough!!
Yes all because a lot of Jewish people had something to do with the uprise in the civil Rights movement class is crazy you're being prejudiced when you say that you cannot be one or the other this is the whole thing about what is prejudices one of the cause in racism
Agreed Armon.
I just am off AL period. why is he acting so hard and shouting his commentary? We hear you Al.
I’m sure your job is safe no need for all this carrying on. I used to like him but I’m not feeling his energy again at all. JMHO folks
Nope
The answer is No.
Black love shouldn’t be based on your romantic relationships….its also about how we treat each other in the community. I’d rather have a non black person who’s down for the cause rather than one of our own who contributes nothing
Straight facts
and you just proved why that is not pro black - thanks for your honesty
@@jaccl4539 and you just proved black love is a joke with the way we treat each other. Like I said…if you’re only basing it off on who you F*ck in life then you need a basic history lesson. Your favorite ancestors aren’t pro black either then 💅🏾. But keep thinking that way…
@@jaccl4539 and you just proved why black love is a joke and myth….because we don’t know how to talk or treat each other. LIKE I SAID…black love isn’t solely based off who you F*CK…and you’re low brow if that’s all you have to offer to your culture. We never succeeded as a culture alone….learn some history. So I will GLADLY take 1 ally over 1 self hating black for “love”🙄
@@jaccl4539 and you just proved why black love is a joke and myth….because we don’t know how to talk or treat each other. LIKE I SAID…black love isn’t solely based off who you F*CK…and you’re low brow if that’s all you have to offer to your culture. We never succeeded as a culture alone….learn some history. So I will GLADLY take 1 ally over 1 self hating black for “love”🙄
african coworker talked about yt ppl so bad.....met her kids each son has a yt woman and kids....switch up was real......her sons and their women lived with them bc their yt families was not going to let a bm live with them......that part
Yes you can!
Yes, anything is possible😊.
You can absolutely be pro black and still date outside your race. Now if you prefer non black then yes, it's hypocritical. I personally date outside my race, but it isn't by preference. When i envision my dream man he is black. My child's father is black. It just so happens that in my area I connect w yt guys a bit more due to common interests and the like, but if I had to choose I would choose black. However, at the end of the day, I will end up w whom I connect with the best, color not withstanding.
IMO, you always have a choice. I grew up in Queens, New York in a very nice neighborhood. Our stores, banks, insurance companies, etc. for the most part were all black owned. My ex -husband was Black and my sons are Black. I have lived in Riverside County, CA since the 80's and have been divorced for almost as long as I have lived here therefore, the comment about the UC Riverside's Black Studies Program Director's and their non-white spouses did not surprise me one bit. It's normal here. I believe that we are less than three percent here. That said, I have never dated outside of my race, which means I rarely if ever date at all. I agree with JenJHayden, it's a preference. I admit that in all likelihood, I'm probably programmed but I'm just not attracted to men in any other ethnicity. My preference is to not betray myself by settling. If I end up alone, so be it!
No how you preaching one way but another
NO! You cannot be a proBlack/African, African American and date interracially.*
(There are a FEW exceptions if you live in a place where there are few AAs or as an AAW you result to dating outside your race because so many AAM are known to date outside theirs.)
But a key part of being proBlack/African is to build/maintain strong AA families. Marrying outside of your race is contradictory.
P.S I accept people who are HALF (NOT 1/4 or 1/8) as African American. I think it is possible for them to be proBlack (ie Jesse Williams).
But society requires if you are half AA and half whyte to choose. If you marry someone nonBlack you have chosen to live as a whyte or other. And you have chosen to have whyte or other kids, since 1/4 African doesn't qualify as Black/African
One drop blk folk trip me out.
nope, can't have your cake both ways 😢 unless you are biracial
Being pro black doesn't have to mean you gotta sh*t all over non-black people, or call someone else a sell-out . Pro-black should be uplifting, constructive, empowering. All else is ugly exclusionary bs.
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One thing doesn't negate the other. Yes you can.
No you can't! You are not pro black with a white wife you are PROgrammed with a white wife, you just trying to assimilate while trying to have the best of both worlds.
The Nation is a melting pot of diversity of culture and race
We are a diverse family and lineage and bloodline that are mixed. Race should not be a factor, LOVE should.
The mindset of individuals needs to be transform and see everyone equal under the sun.
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Tell that to people running sundown towns and not us on RUclips comment sections. You can’t tell black people that and they still acting like this is 1869. 🤡
@@GenZealousexactly they still have klan rallies in the south
Race should not be a factor, but it still is. We can't change other people, only ourselves.
Yes
Who said pro-black only means propagating the black race through reproduction? So if you can't have children and reproduce then you can't be pro-black? Linking being pro-black to reproduction is weird.
Some of these comments make it seem like the only lot in life for Black People are to get together and have Black children. So now they are just baby making factories? I'm not saying you shouldn't up lift your own people and community, but people are more than the sum of their body parts.
I agree. People who think you can only be pro black if you have black children are slow to put it lightly.
Lets not be obtuse....you know exactly what is meant by this conversation
nice deflection, but nice try gaslighting real cute attempt though
No
1)Yes you can. 2) Just because you’re black and have a black spouse doesn’t mean you’re advancing the race by any means 3) if you’re non-black partner is an ally then it’s fine
Being pro black is advancing the race through financial, social,educational means, etc. We all know that saying “all skinfolk ain’t kinfolk” so if you or your partner whether black or not isn’t an ally, isn’t actively contributing towards our collective advancement then you’re not pro-black. So white, black, polka dot, stripes, whatever you want to call yourself it doesn’t matter. Like for instance, I’m support civil rights for everyone. I’ve actively supported various causes outside my race, gender, economic, social and sexuality and I’m a straight, black, “cis gender” woman. You can be pro anything. If you’re actively trying to advance a cause or community. And I don’t know of any pro Black activists that has a spouse who isn’t an ally.
I see what you tried to do but no - in short ally or supporter is not interchangeable with Pro-Black and yes being black does not make you pro-black and yes being black and not marrying black is not pro black - doesn't negate you being a supporter or ally.
To be blunt, Pro-Black is not a catchall phrase for doing something that adds to black value.
Agreed! It's horseshit
I agree with Armod!
Al is ANNOYING
No you can’t
Yes you can be Pro Black even if you date outside of your race .
Just like a straight person can support the lgbtq community.
I would think Pro Black meant everything Black - including your significant other/spouse.
You can be pro black and marry who you love. The questioning comes for bitter black people asking why you’re not interested in them.
It doesn't matter who you date as long as you genuine about caring. That's like saying how can somebody be a lgbtq ally and be straight. As long as they not talking bad about their own race or doing harm who cares. It be the most so called pro black people who be causing the most division and harm. They always trying to define you not black enough.
Thanks you!
Facts pro blackers want to drag us back to crow days
Pro Black is a political movement. Learn what it is first before you connect.
@@MarianneSunshine exactly my point. It's a political movement. Addressing problems happening to our community not using arguments the same bigoted folks use. Like you're not black enough etc. It's counterintuitive to what the movements about and gives fuel to fearmongering bigots on the other side.
its not the same and the term is not a catchall for support but focus - its not derogatory or punitive - Your proving why that position is not pro black, not actually making a case for why it could be. Again thanks for the honesty and proving our point.
All this Queen, Pro Black, Black Magic Girls or Whatever names/theories black people want to create. Just needs to stop. It doesn't do anyone any good. It just keeps you divided and stops you from evolving to the person you are meant to be. Remember, God has a plan for every individual. Dont block your blessings by foolishness.
Thank you 👏🏽👏🏽
claudia is obsessed with race lol
by race.I don't care what al say
No.
Yes
No.