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Rich is right - the woman who divorces you is NOT the woman you married. Been there. A woman will marry you if you meet her needs. When you don't, she's gone. And there is nothing you can do about it.
Yeah and that's what women do on a daily basis and that's the reason NEVER TO DO IT you have to put up with the 🥜 case or pay pay pay TOTALLY NOT WORTH IT
the woman you marry is the same you divorce. its a combination of men not seeing it and women pretending the be what the guy wants. once a women has her hooks in she has no reason to treat him well.
Marriage is very good. You pay top dollar to eat a cold and dry slice of pizza that Chad got to eat for free while it was hot and juicy, right out of the oven.
My losses didn’t come in the form of lawyer fees, or alimony. My losses came when my ex took 30k of my retirement. Then as I move to a new house I started over and got a little debt to rent a house. Then I realize I need to buy a home so I borrow from 401k before I can pay it all back I got laid off, 1099-R fellas. All that from a cheating woman. But like many I overlooked red flags. Not 304 type but the no general burning desire type. Good luck. 2 kids too. All good
Could be its because over the decades , women have been changed by society . EG Feminism . After the 2nd world war , things started to change and more women went to work and were being told be more like men etc .
The Prophet Muhammad (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you"
I'm in a LTR with a single mom. We don't live together and never will and I'm not taking on helping her raise her kids. Never cohabitate and you can date whoever you want.
In a nutshell Governments and Corporations don’t want strong families, which is the reason these current laws are in place. Corporations know a woman will spend far more on herself than a man, which means more $$$$ in revenue turnover.
There are states that require child support until the child is 21 if they attend college and are getting a certain GPA. I always found that absolutely absurd, not only cause you're 18 you're an adult, but also cause if the parents were married there would be no obligation of financial support of a child when they go to college.
@@paulclinton6414 that is truth times 1 million. guys for some reason like leftovers. they fall for these sob stories where these women are innocent victims and every previous guy was abusive and these wimps buy into it.
men who sign a govt. contract is the same as showing your cards when gambling. you give the other person and the house leverage and your only option is to buy your way out or pay up big. either way you lose.
I'm at 1:23, and this is sad to hear, that the woman that men married, is not the woman they are divorcing. Just so very sad. How do we go back to the way it was? Men and women naive, fools, and yet loving each other? Maybe I'm the fool for asking? I am a widower, with my wife over 20 years, so I am not quite in the same boat, but very lost in the modern dating world, and trying to protect my 8 year old son from those that would take everything from us. And no, Rich, I can't afford your high fees, but I do well financially (over $180K in the DC area).
I love how you market your book , i learned from you, not by buying the book , I don't need the book , but from how money works , this channel is basically a marketing channel for yourself and your book and i love that..
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life
YES! that's exactly her name (Stacey Macken) I watched her interview on CNN News and so many people recommended highly about her and her trading skills, she's an expert and I'm just starting with her....From Brisbane Australia
Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 12 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life
Wow. I'm a bit perplexed seeing her been mentioned here also Didn't know she has been good to so many people too this is wonderful, I'm in my fifth trade with her and it has been super
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@@szn1580 yeah having that visual accessory does not change her chances of bad behavior. You have to be her number one option and maintain that until death do you part
I have your words from a previous podcast in my head where you said that women are not there for us when we need them. That's so true! I'm feeling shitty today because today is one year since my mom passed away. Is my wife there to console me or give me a hug? F*** no!
Marriage is betting the farm on something with a 50% success rate. Its just not worth the risk. Especially if you have children wifh her. Women have the attention span of my 7 year old. The difference is when a child gets bored they move on to the next thing without destruction.
I am going to disagree on the financial footing being equal causing less arguments. My parents fought all the time over money issues and they basically made the same or very close to same income. IMO it is the dual income households that has destroyed marriages. This was by design BTW as the State benefits from fractured families. Not to mention it has driven up the cost of living for everyone to the point that in most cases people feel they HAVE to have both people working in order to survive. This again was by design as it doubled the tax revenues to the State.
Something that most people don’t realize is that once you file for divorce, custody of your children goes to the state and they have the “right” to determine anything to do with those children. Even if both parents agree on something else, the state can step in and make a different decision. That alone should scare people from getting marriedand having children, but we still need to have children.
Faith leaders not developing a parallel or alternate path of marriage without the infernal state is a huge missed opportunity. Does the church care about marriage? The message is clear. No.
Even if they equal you financially, there’s risk they’ll run up credit card debt and cash out their retirement accounts, often secretly. Then you have to pay half their debt and give them half your retirement assets even though you got no benefit from her debt or retirement. Some women will stop working too.
The woman you marry is exactly the woman you divorce. Men just ignore the red flags because of her appearance or a desire for children. Divorce only happens when she is ready for it or when the man decides he longer wants to tolerate the woman he married. Women always show you who they are from the beginning.
Most women are in the marriage and divorce for-profit business, and the average marriage ends at the 8-year mark. Son, the odds are against you. If you can't afford to buy 2 of everything and lose half (likely more) you can't afford marriage. Marriage in the West is an irrevocable trust, with the man as the grantor, the woman as the beneficiary, and the government as the trustee. The trust is payable to the woman when she decides to leave the marriage, administered and enforced by the government. If you want to lose a friend, marry her. Is she a friend if she insists on marriage? As my EX said when she and her "friend" reached for my 401K retirement fund at settlement, "I was married to him". IMHO, 50% of American women are NOT cut out to be wives, life partners, and mates. (I'm 72 years old and bought 2 of everything the second time.)
I have watched numerous of your videos and there’s no doubt where you stand regarding marriage and fidelity. I don’t want to beat a dead horse. However, there’s a quote I respect and it is the following. “Honesty’s an expensive gift, don’t expect it from a cheap person”. The moral climate of the world is dismal, and unless mankind elevates his consciousness, I see no improvement. Just a thought from one soul. Peace
The Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him said about the coming of the Dajjal (Anti-Christ/False Messiah): "Most of those who go out to him will be women, until a man goes back to his wife, his mother, his daughter, his sister, and his aunt to shackle them tightly, fearing they would go out to him.”
Happily married for 58 years and counting. Son and daughter also happily married. Just noting that not all marriages end in disaster. Happily married doesn’t mean everything is perfect, no marriage is without its issues and disagreements. How you address those issues and work to solve them is the key. My parents and my wife’s parents were also in long term happy marriages. I think being raised in a family that exhibits love and respect makes a big difference. My wife and I don’t remember either one of our parents ever having a serious argument much less a fight, but we were both raised in a time when the world was very different than it is today. Husbands were the providers and wives were the homemakers. Feminism changed the roles for both husbands and wives.
You worked to make your home good and sustainable, but that was then. This time is much different. You married your wife when there were no social media that would influence here at a very young age. There are so many boys and girls on the street. Today, you can be the nicest man to your wife, but she might get bored and leave because you are too nice and boring. The girls today are much different than they were 30 years ago without the internet and social media.
@@nichollle732 I agree. Social media has changed the world in both dramatic positive and negative ways. Our parents wouldn’t believe it would be possible that today’s American could have happened. Our public school’s & universities are catastrophe indoctrination centers. Our once great cities are now crime invested garbage dumps. I was fortunate to have lived when American was the greatest country in the world, but that is no longer true.
Just because you were fortunate enough to pick "the right one" doesn't mean that marriage is for everyone. "It's possible to fall from a sixteen story window and live. Does that mean we should all try to fall from sixteen stories"-Tom Leykis. The odds are not in your favor.
@@benjaminstarks4071 I never said or implied marriage is for everyone. The world is a very different place place today than the world my wife and I d I grew up in.
1 year and a half separated, pondering about getting back together, yet I am still waiting to see if she at least tries to change some of her bad behaviors that were not working for us. A whole bunch of controlling, belittling and ultimatums. Women are becoming way to delusional, way way way to much. Rich has opened my eyes with his book in so many way. Thanks you.
The biggest problem for men in marriage is that women tend to stop providing their end of the agreement (bedroom fun) years BEFORE the end of the marriage while men are forced by law to continue their end of the agreement (providing) for years (or decades) AFTER the end of the marriage. If alimony was restricted to one month for every year of marriage, you would see the divorce rate plummet.
The drawback to marrying an equal-earner (or close to equal) is it will gnaw at her own hypergamyous instincts. I experienced this in my own marriage, though my situation had several other things that went wrong, primarily her "daddy-issues." The income issue seems to be lose-lose. A harsh prenuptial agreement that favors the man, or a long-term [non-common-law marriage; boyfriend/girlfriend] situation might be the only way to fight against the income issue.
A friend and his wife were presented with a financial decision. They had the funds to either spend two weeks in the Bahamas or get a divorce. They chose the divorce, they said, because the vacation in the Bahamas would be over in two weeks but a divorce is something they would always have.
Before you get married, make your single life as amazing as possible and then decide, is it worth throwing it all away for nothing in return? If yes, go for it. But don't do it thinking your life will be better.
Nothing wrong with marriage if it’s the right woman. Some men want traditional families, with a wife and a few kids. Can’t do that being a single bachelor forever.
The problem is society keeps creating these insufferable females that get worse with each generation. So your chances of finding “the right woman” are slim to none. Therefore the bachelor lifestyle brings more peace to a man’s life.
Women are unable to control their feelings. Most the time they’re getting compliments by men everywhere they are including the internet and work. When she has feelings for someone else, then she checks out on the relationship with you.todays right women tomorrow can be no women.
Only get married if you want kids. If you decide to get married, first make your wealth and accomplish your goals. Before you marry, protect the wealth you already accumulated. Marry in a community property state and make sure she works. When you divorce, it’ll probably be close to 50/50. Also, if you have kids, fight for the kids. I fought and got custody of my daughters. And it’s true, kids are better off with their fathers. I have done 30 years of personal sacrifice and research. I did everything wrong.
I'm a single father household with my 8 year old son, wife of 20 years died from aggressive cancer in 5 months time. I am lost in this world, Rich, I could use some advice. But I don't want to pay thousands, so trying to understand the answers in these videos.
Rich, this is all interesting, but I'm wondering if you really have much on widowers, and how to approach life in our late 40's? Loved my wife very much, she die died in 5 months time, and now I am raising my 8 year old son. It was very scary and rough at first, getting better at it. He is highly rates academically, and also great with other kids. But what do I do in regard to my own "needs" and "desires"? I make $180k, but can't afford your fees for coaching.
Look for the interview of the divorce attorney on Soft White Underbelly. The man states: "Marriage is an inherently negligent activity. It's like owning a lion. The likelihood of someone getting seriously hurt by this is very high."
The issue is all of the guests and conversations focus on vague general solutions. They don’t detail a path or checklist or real example walkthroughs. Like what specifically legal things should a guy do in his respective state
Witnessing Tom Brady get divorced from a beautiful woman makes me realise I will most likely never remarry (legally) again and I am okay with that scenario.
You are very wrong, my divorce in Poland took almost 6 years off my life, parental alienation is quietly approved by courts, presumption of man's guilt and by default children are wemons' property, newest laws allow to throw man out of his house for practically infinity with one false DV accusation. Co ty bredzisz?
Marriage is dead. The future is polygamous. Male marriage rate in US is around 6.9/1000 for females 16.7/1000 - so females seem to be going for same-sex in a big way. So, polygamous future with same-sex marriage, single-motherhood and sex work.
I may agree on most thinggs but NOT on that "teenage pregnancy" idiocy: most of our surnames - e.g. Calimera - derive from teenage pregnancies in the ancient Greece an ancient Rome and is something with with the best gynecologist agree. Recently I heard of a 10-year old supergirl who literally laughed just after giving birth, stood up and walked around - ostetrics an gynecologist were breadth-taken how great that was. And as a counter-example, more and more births are delivered throught cesarean cut by medical prescribtion as the girl is unfit, oxygen uptake is insufficient, there is overweight, etc. Do not fool me, I am a top-shelf scientist and strategist.
If this was 1910 than this same "marriage is a problem" would.not have been any issue. Why? It is an issue now because of the interpretation of what marriage should be due to hige influence of socialism and feminism into law nowadays especially in the west. Till now i think it's factual what i say but we could also debate if this trend was just a coincidence or part of a more broader society engineering. I think the last one. Why? Because once you lived in a communist society you understand some things better. Be good, be married, have children, defend family and choose a woman wisely. And yes, if you cannot lead or enlighten your woman because you yourself are a blind one she can and will make your life miserable. Same with children. They seek a leader and order no newage bs. Rich has in many ways a correct view on these issues but on a very few I do disagree firmly.
I will ad interesting fun fact. In pre communist Serbia marriage was considered of strategic importance militaryly, economically, spiritually. Young man who were not married had to pay extra tax. Man who were not married could not get the job that easy. Woman who was not married looked "strange". On top of that the close and extented (1-2+3+4th+ steps away) family was of immense importance. That all made it a bit more expensive to just "wonder around doing nothing" than having a family to fight for. On the other hand a woman was not allowed to, like now, make your life miserable by exiting a marriage and taking your money and children
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Marriage is a man betting half his wealth that he can make a woman happy forever. I’d rather just go fishing.
Just stay in your masculine frame every moment for 50 straight years without sickness or jobless or accident...
Or more than half. I'd rather spin a roulette wheel. No thanks.
@@johnK85086 Marriage is so wonderful. Many do it, two, three, four times..
Priceless
She always gets more than half.
Rich is right - the woman who divorces you is NOT the woman you married. Been there. A woman will marry you if you meet her needs. When you don't, she's gone. And there is nothing you can do about it.
Yeah and that's what women do on a daily basis and that's the reason NEVER TO DO IT you have to put up with the 🥜 case or pay pay pay TOTALLY NOT WORTH IT
the woman you marry is the same you divorce. its a combination of men not seeing it and women pretending the be what the guy wants.
once a women has her hooks in she has no reason to treat him well.
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@@goblinzl1 "a women"?
thx for contributing.
The biggest problem after marriage is "The Divorce".
The biggest reason for divorce is marriage 😂
It could also be you're stuck with a harpy during marriage, through and after divorce.
😂
Dont do it guys. My ex destroyed my life and i was a good husband. 11 years later im still recovering.
I’m 4 years post divorce and I’m still recovering. Don’t get married!
Yup it's brutal
Wow 😯
I've seen men destroyed in divorce. A smart man learns from his mistakes. A wise man learns from the mistakes of others.
Happened to me too, never again shall I make that mistake !
Marriage is very good. You pay top dollar to eat a cold and dry slice of pizza that Chad got to eat for free while it was hot and juicy, right out of the oven.
Correct. The guy she met at the bar get it for free. Kinky, nasty, and taboo too.
Yup. Most of these left over women are just that. Cold, in the fridge a couple of days, but expect you to think they are fresh out of the oven.
😂 lol So True!!
My losses didn’t come in the form of lawyer fees, or alimony. My losses came when my ex took 30k of my retirement. Then as I move to a new house I started over and got a little debt to rent a house. Then I realize I need to buy a home so I borrow from 401k before I can pay it all back I got laid off, 1099-R fellas. All that from a cheating woman. But like many I overlooked red flags. Not 304 type but the no general burning desire type. Good luck. 2 kids too. All good
Sorry, but if she cheats, then she is a 304. There is no sugar coating that.
Sounds like your not good at vetting women. I blame you.
The biggest problem with marriage is that no matter what they will get bored and divorce you after years being together
Could be its because over the decades , women have been changed by society . EG Feminism .
After the 2nd world war , things started to change and more women went to work and were being told be more like men etc .
The Prophet Muhammad (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you"
Most men get lazy too, tho. You have to date your woman forever.
Wrong. I blame you
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Why do people complain about losing their house, their kids and being forced to pay someone who hates you for the rest of your life?
I'm in a LTR with a single mom.
We don't live together and never will and I'm not taking on helping her raise her kids.
Never cohabitate and you can date whoever you want.
You’re going to lose in the end..
In a nutshell Governments and Corporations don’t want strong families, which is the reason these current laws are in place. Corporations know a woman will spend far more on herself than a man, which means more $$$$ in revenue turnover.
how shitty is that eh? all about how much money they can make for themselves.....
Theere is big money to be made in divorce by attorneys.
It's a bit like flying. Flying doesn't scare me.......the plane crashing does!
Dam, you’re absolutely right!!!
There are no benefits
There are states that require child support until the child is 21 if they attend college and are getting a certain GPA. I always found that absolutely absurd, not only cause you're 18 you're an adult, but also cause if the parents were married there would be no obligation of financial support of a child when they go to college.
When it comes to modern women, the guy she’s with is her third choice.
True story.
Sorry bro, there are dozens of Chads who didn't commit. More like 30th choice.
@@paulclinton6414 at best my brother. You right my brother.
Yeh but if you think like this it’s pointless even having a girlfriend. You’ll forever be on your own,
She is likely his 17th choice, or maybe the first who literally gave him an opening. It is a bad deal.
@@paulclinton6414 that is truth times 1 million. guys for some reason like leftovers. they fall for these sob stories where these women are innocent victims and every previous guy was abusive and these wimps buy into it.
I saw a quote recently, and it said never sign a contract where the other person is rewarded for breaking it.
men who sign a govt. contract is the same as showing your cards when gambling. you give the other person and the house leverage and your only option is to buy your way out or pay up big. either way you lose.
I'm at 1:23, and this is sad to hear, that the woman that men married, is not the woman they are divorcing. Just so very sad. How do we go back to the way it was? Men and women naive, fools, and yet loving each other? Maybe I'm the fool for asking? I am a widower, with my wife over 20 years, so I am not quite in the same boat, but very lost in the modern dating world, and trying to protect my 8 year old son from those that would take everything from us. And no, Rich, I can't afford your high fees, but I do well financially (over $180K in the DC area).
I love how you market your book , i learned from you, not by buying the book , I don't need the book , but from how money works , this channel is basically a marketing channel for yourself and your book and i love that..
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life
You're right, with my current crpyto portfolio made from my investments with my personal financial advisor Stacey Macken , I totally agree with you
YES! that's exactly her name (Stacey Macken) I watched her interview on CNN News and so many people recommended highly about her and her trading skills, she's an expert and I'm just starting with her....From Brisbane Australia
Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 12 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life
Wow. I'm a bit perplexed seeing her been mentioned here also Didn't know she has been good to so many people too this is wonderful, I'm in my fifth trade with her and it has been super
Investing has proven to be an incredibly beneficial decision. My cryptocurrency profits continue to play a substantial role in growing my overall wealth, reducing my reliance on my salary
What are the marriage benefits for men again?
None
You get guaranteed access to.... never mind
Only one I can think of is social proof but that wears off after a while. I just don’t see the longterm benefits of it. Guys do it out of necessity
@@szn1580 yeah having that visual accessory does not change her chances of bad behavior. You have to be her number one option and maintain that until death do you part
Marriage is important because women too much sole influence over the next generations
I have your words from a previous podcast in my head where you said that women are not there for us when we need them. That's so true! I'm feeling shitty today because today is one year since my mom passed away. Is my wife there to console me or give me a hug? F*** no!
Marriage is betting the farm on something with a 50% success rate. Its just not worth the risk. Especially if you have children wifh her. Women have the attention span of my 7 year old. The difference is when a child gets bored they move on to the next thing without destruction.
I am going to disagree on the financial footing being equal causing less arguments. My parents fought all the time over money issues and they basically made the same or very close to same income. IMO it is the dual income households that has destroyed marriages. This was by design BTW as the State benefits from fractured families. Not to mention it has driven up the cost of living for everyone to the point that in most cases people feel they HAVE to have both people working in order to survive. This again was by design as it doubled the tax revenues to the State.
Something that most people don’t realize is that once you file for divorce, custody of your children goes to the state and they have the “right” to determine anything to do with those children. Even if both parents agree on something else, the state can step in and make a different decision. That alone should scare people from getting marriedand having children, but we still need to have children.
Faith leaders not developing a parallel or alternate path of marriage without the infernal state is a huge missed opportunity.
Does the church care about marriage? The message is clear. No.
Yeah they do, it's pushed nearly more than anything else
Even if they equal you financially, there’s risk they’ll run up credit card debt and cash out their retirement accounts, often secretly. Then you have to pay half their debt and give them half your retirement assets even though you got no benefit from her debt or retirement. Some women will stop working too.
Amen!
The woman you marry is exactly the woman you divorce. Men just ignore the red flags because of her appearance or a desire for children. Divorce only happens when she is ready for it or when the man decides he longer wants to tolerate the woman he married. Women always show you who they are from the beginning.
Most women are in the marriage and divorce for-profit business, and the average marriage ends at the 8-year mark. Son, the odds are against you. If you can't afford to buy 2 of everything and lose half (likely more) you can't afford marriage. Marriage in the West is an irrevocable trust, with the man as the grantor, the woman as the beneficiary, and the government as the trustee. The trust is payable to the woman when she decides to leave the marriage, administered and enforced by the government. If you want to lose a friend, marry her. Is she a friend if she insists on marriage? As my EX said when she and her "friend" reached for my 401K retirement fund at settlement, "I was married to him". IMHO, 50% of American women are NOT cut out to be wives, life partners, and mates. (I'm 72 years old and bought 2 of everything the second time.)
I have watched numerous of your videos and there’s no doubt where you stand regarding marriage and fidelity. I don’t want to beat a dead horse. However, there’s a quote I respect and it is the following. “Honesty’s an expensive gift, don’t expect it from a cheap person”. The moral climate of the world is dismal, and unless mankind elevates his consciousness, I see no improvement. Just a thought from one soul. Peace
The Prophet Muhammad peace and blessings be upon him said about the coming of the Dajjal (Anti-Christ/False Messiah): "Most of those who go out to him will be women, until a man goes back to his wife, his mother, his daughter, his sister, and his aunt to shackle them tightly, fearing they would go out to him.”
Please, explain further.
The state will get involved in your life much more if you have a child but are unmarried then if you get divorced from a childless marriage.
Please elaborate, I have never heard this
@@dobsok84 For one thing a 'prenup' is thrown out when kids are involved. You're on the hook for 18 years.
So it’s better to have a childless marriage and it’s not as bad?
@@Azir223 if your goal is to”not having the state involved in your life” then yes.
Happily married for 58 years and counting. Son and daughter also happily married. Just noting that not all marriages end in disaster. Happily married doesn’t mean everything is perfect, no marriage is without its issues and disagreements. How you address those issues and work to solve them is the key.
My parents and my wife’s parents were also in long term happy marriages. I think being raised in a family that exhibits love and respect makes a big difference. My wife and I don’t remember either one of our parents ever having a serious argument much less a fight, but we were both raised in a time when the world was very different than it is today.
Husbands were the providers and wives were the homemakers. Feminism changed the roles for both husbands and wives.
You worked to make your home good and sustainable, but that was then. This time is much different. You married your wife when there were no social media that would influence here at a very young age. There are so many boys and girls on the street. Today, you can be the nicest man to your wife, but she might get bored and leave because you are too nice and boring. The girls today are much different than they were 30 years ago without the internet and social media.
@@nichollle732 I agree. Social media has changed the world in both dramatic positive and negative ways. Our parents wouldn’t believe it would be possible that today’s American could have happened. Our public school’s & universities are catastrophe indoctrination centers. Our once great cities are now crime invested garbage dumps. I was fortunate to have lived when American was the greatest country in the world, but that is no longer true.
Just because you were fortunate enough to pick "the right one" doesn't mean that marriage is for everyone. "It's possible to fall from a sixteen story window and live. Does that mean we should all try to fall from sixteen stories"-Tom Leykis. The odds are not in your favor.
@@benjaminstarks4071 I never said or implied marriage is for everyone. The world is a very different place place today than the world my wife and I d I grew up in.
@@larrys9879 understood. Thank you for your input.
California you can get sued for cohabitating as it looks like a marriage. It’s considered an implied contract to give them half too
1 year and a half separated, pondering about getting back together, yet I am still waiting to see if she at least tries to change some of her bad behaviors that were not working for us. A whole bunch of controlling, belittling and ultimatums. Women are becoming way to delusional, way way way to much. Rich has opened my eyes with his book in so many way. Thanks you.
What’s the difference between the 1st & 2nd editions of the book? I purchased & read the 1st edition when it first came out.
The biggest problem for men in marriage is that women tend to stop providing their end of the agreement (bedroom fun) years BEFORE the end of the marriage while men are forced by law to continue their end of the agreement (providing) for years (or decades) AFTER the end of the marriage.
If alimony was restricted to one month for every year of marriage, you would see the divorce rate plummet.
It’s so easy to get married. Just go to the courthouse. But remember that piece of paper is Gold diggers get out of jail free card. 😅😮😅
I can't say exactly how many divorced men have told me that they'll Never Get Married Again.
I can only say Many.
The drawback to marrying an equal-earner (or close to equal) is it will gnaw at her own hypergamyous instincts. I experienced this in my own marriage, though my situation had several other things that went wrong, primarily her "daddy-issues." The income issue seems to be lose-lose. A harsh prenuptial agreement that favors the man, or a long-term [non-common-law marriage; boyfriend/girlfriend] situation might be the only way to fight against the income issue.
A friend and his wife were presented with a financial decision. They had the funds to either spend two weeks in the Bahamas or get a divorce. They chose the divorce, they said, because the vacation in the Bahamas would be over in two weeks but a divorce is something they would always have.
I have a woman that’s willing to get a prenup although we both are not financially in the best place. Also we have no kids, is it worth it?
Before you get married, make your single life as amazing as possible and then decide, is it worth throwing it all away for nothing in return? If yes, go for it. But don't do it thinking your life will be better.
Nothing wrong with marriage if it’s the right woman. Some men want traditional families, with a wife and a few kids. Can’t do that being a single bachelor forever.
the "right woman". do you learn anything from the world around you?
The problem is society keeps creating these insufferable females that get worse with each generation. So your chances of finding “the right woman” are slim to none. Therefore the bachelor lifestyle brings more peace to a man’s life.
Every woman is "the right woman" on her wedding day. When she decides she's not happy, she'll be very different.
Women are unable to control their feelings. Most the time they’re getting compliments by men everywhere they are including the internet and work. When she has feelings for someone else, then she checks out on the relationship with you.todays right women tomorrow can be no women.
every man marries the right women at the time.
sexless, lose of freedom, boredom, financial risk, domestication ( taming your achiever mindset to control you better ), what else?
@RichCoopersclips, you can create playlists for each subject.
Only get married if you want kids. If you decide to get married, first make your wealth and accomplish your goals. Before you marry, protect the wealth you already accumulated. Marry in a community property state and make sure she works. When you divorce, it’ll probably be close to 50/50. Also, if you have kids, fight for the kids. I fought and got custody of my daughters. And it’s true, kids are better off with their fathers. I have done 30 years of personal sacrifice and research. I did everything wrong.
There needs to be divorce insurance for men.
I'm a single father household with my 8 year old son, wife of 20 years died from aggressive cancer in 5 months time. I am lost in this world, Rich, I could use some advice. But I don't want to pay thousands, so trying to understand the answers in these videos.
Because of the ruling in the Lee Marvin case, California does not confuse marriage and couples who live together.
Rich, this is all interesting, but I'm wondering if you really have much on widowers, and how to approach life in our late 40's? Loved my wife very much, she die died in 5 months time, and now I am raising my 8 year old son. It was very scary and rough at first, getting better at it. He is highly rates academically, and also great with other kids. But what do I do in regard to my own "needs" and "desires"? I make $180k, but can't afford your fees for coaching.
Government wants u be man when government benefits, example going war. But not manage household or beingking of his family / leader of his tribe.
Look for the interview of the divorce attorney on Soft White Underbelly. The man states:
"Marriage is an inherently negligent activity. It's like owning a lion. The likelihood of someone getting seriously hurt by this is very high."
Unfortunately Rich is absolutely correct 💯
Can I buy audiobook version somewhere ?
The issue is all of the guests and conversations focus on vague general solutions. They don’t detail a path or checklist or real example walkthroughs. Like what specifically legal things should a guy do in his respective state
Move to Afghanistan
Witnessing Tom Brady get divorced from a beautiful woman makes me realise I will most likely never remarry (legally) again and I am okay with that scenario.
If you are in Europe and in the EU Poland has good marriage laws.
Poland has the least single mothers in the EU.
it's still heavily biased against men
You are very wrong, my divorce in Poland took almost 6 years off my life, parental alienation is quietly approved by courts, presumption of man's guilt and by default children are wemons' property, newest laws allow to throw man out of his house for practically infinity with one false DV accusation. Co ty bredzisz?
Just save time, skip the marriage and go straight to the divorce.
6:15 aye aye lol
Marriage is dead. The future is polygamous. Male marriage rate in US is around 6.9/1000 for females 16.7/1000 - so females seem to be going for same-sex in a big way. So, polygamous future with same-sex marriage, single-motherhood and sex work.
I may agree on most thinggs but NOT on that "teenage pregnancy" idiocy: most of our surnames - e.g. Calimera - derive from teenage pregnancies in the ancient Greece an ancient Rome and is something with with the best gynecologist agree. Recently I heard of a 10-year old supergirl who literally laughed just after giving birth, stood up and walked around - ostetrics an gynecologist were breadth-taken how great that was. And as a counter-example, more and more births are delivered throught cesarean cut by medical prescribtion as the girl is unfit, oxygen uptake is insufficient, there is overweight, etc. Do not fool me, I am a top-shelf scientist and strategist.
If I wasn't in a relationship I would have bought bitcoin in 2012.
Some of you guys are acting like women. You're the one that didn't see the red flags like Rich stated.
Then after being bored and divorcing you, and destroying countless lives, she hooks up with Ray Ray and repeats the cycle!
Why is she always "The One" during wedding? And not the same "The One" durimg divorce?
Don’t get married. It absolutely 100% is not worth it. And the odds are it won’t work anyway.
Milluons of men without women is what that means
Just one!
When Rich Cooper gets married, I'd think about it, until then, no way.
Never do marriage
True
If this was 1910 than this same "marriage is a problem" would.not have been any issue. Why?
It is an issue now because of the interpretation of what marriage should be due to hige influence of socialism and feminism into law nowadays especially in the west.
Till now i think it's factual what i say but we could also debate if this trend was just a coincidence or part of a more broader society engineering. I think the last one. Why? Because once you lived in a communist society you understand some things better.
Be good, be married, have children, defend family and choose a woman wisely. And yes, if you cannot lead or enlighten your woman because you yourself are a blind one she can and will make your life miserable. Same with children. They seek a leader and order no newage bs. Rich has in many ways a correct view on these issues but on a very few I do disagree firmly.
I will ad interesting fun fact. In pre communist Serbia marriage was considered of strategic importance militaryly, economically, spiritually. Young man who were not married had to pay extra tax. Man who were not married could not get the job that easy. Woman who was not married looked "strange". On top of that the close and extented (1-2+3+4th+ steps away) family was of immense importance. That all made it a bit more expensive to just "wonder around doing nothing" than having a family to fight for. On the other hand a woman was not allowed to, like now, make your life miserable by exiting a marriage and taking your money and children
Fck yeah
Stay free for a life time.
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
I would love to get married 😢that special someone is still out there for me she has to be … remember love like not the emoji but real love
Go into it with wisdom. Look past the character they pretend to be and ask God to reveal who they truly are.
There are good women out there.
@@davidm4566 🙏 David’ appreciate your response means a lot have a great life brother
Also, be willing to be okay if divorce happens in the future.