The SECRETS To Receiving The RIGHT MAN For You
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The SECRETS To Receiving The RIGHT MAN For You... In this dating advice video, I will give you the five secrets to find a great relationship with the right man for you. Everybody wants to find a healthy relationship and it may be either on first dates, online dating or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips and be sure to watch the entire video so that you can learn how to find the perfect relationship.
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Being who you authentically are. It attracts the ones who are meant for you and gives the ones who are not meant for you a chance to exit stage 👈
Well said 🙏
Thank you. You definitely stepped into your God given purpose.@@MeetStephanSpeaks
Not necessarily 👀
I talked to a man who found out I don't cook really, and told me that he wants a woman who loves cooking regularly. At the time, I was so irritated by that. But on hindsight, I appreciated that he respected and had the foresight to not get into it with me knowing what he prefers, and that I couldn't fulfill it in the end.
Learn how to cook. It's like a man who can't help you fix your flat tire.
"Pray, think and understand before you react" was one of the biggest takeaways from this video. Very good advice for life in general.
As women sometimes we see the signs and choose to ignore it for whatever reason.SMH
Because we make excuses for them and don’t trust our intuition
Benefit of the doubt 😔
I recently dated an older man thinking at his age he would be a healed person, but no. I expressed everything I wanted and needed and asked, "Are you with me? And he agreed on everything. We met and went on 3 dates. By the 3rd date, I was smelling dead fish as his behavior did not match with what we discussed. Hence, I let it go. What a wasted time, but I dugde the bullet. I caught him early on his game 🤦🏽♀️
For some ppl....you can ask a question in the nicest way or the best way and they STILL take it the wrong way....some men don't like questions....I'm like is it a secret?!? Lol smh....relax bro
No it's just that you figured out their game plan sooner than they expected. Most times that's where the defensiveness comes from.
That's a red flag if they don't want you asking questions
Agree… its bc they still haven’t healed!! They feel offended by questions
This is true.
Think men feel this way. If you ask questions they think you trying to hok them. Fav food or vaca Red Flag...Ask my girlfriend s or doc this is conversation. Hot or.not. smart or not...they like in Magic Mike show 😂😂😂😂😂
We are the best perfect person for someone yes amen. Don’t withhold your authentic self. That’s a great reminder
I love you Stephen! Let's just keep everything real 💯. If sex is just what you want whether it started out that way or not, let's be grown folks and be honest. Don't be selfish and deceive that person just to get what you want. If that person is not down with that trust there's others that will be. You don't have to hurt someone. And I definitely LOVE ASKING GOD if this person for you!!!!! Learn to incorporate GOD in your dating and relationships. You 👏🏼 betta 👏🏼 say 👏🏼 That! 👏🏼 LOVE you Stephen may God continue to bless you! 🙏🏽
This! He takes care of it for sure.
Be yourself at all times
I got to agree you got to follow your intuition most of the time. You have to trust your intuition if something don't seem right it is probably not
Thank you 🙏
Stephan you are so absolutely correct we Must consult our Father regarding our relationships if you want them to work
I needed to hear about what we're willing to do.
I say we are or aren't a match.
He said we're not compatible.
He wants a submissive girl.
& immediate actions.
I'm independent & take my time.
& he's not patient.
That's respect, to not push in a bad way.
& to not hold it against me. I'm not trying to be difficult.
I just take my time, but I'm coming. He couldn't wait for me.
That means he doesn't like me as much as he thought he did.
Ooh, I needed to see this b/c I met someone and we have this type of dynamic. I like other things about him but there are
still other things that made me pull back and see it for what it is. But I know me! And this over analyzing I do 🫣 I might be prone to think, hmmmm, is this something we can work out… but seeing your comment helps me put it in perspective. Thank you son much for sharing.
@@sweetumsDenise Yea, people have hard no's for some things others don't.
It doesn't make you wrong or bad, it's just not a match. He said I "stood him up" after "making him wait" 6 hours. Even when I told him I was sick & tired all day, & still with runny nose. I tried to feel better, but I couldn't even get out of bed. He broke up with me after that, he was supposed to be my boyfriend.
I'm sure you're on my side & find it ridiculous he never apologized to me for being unreasonable. Yep, not hanging out with him when I was fucking sick was a hard no for him. He doesn't realize he's the red flag, good riddens! I crossed paths with a random guy & told him what happened, which he was on the guy's side too. I think that happened to show me that guys think like that, because they're jerks! Let me know when you find a decent/good/nice/smart 1! I did recently, but he can be annoying with his Aquarius, know it all ways! It's annoying because I do my research too & don't need his help! But, we have a mental & spiritual connection that keeps us 2gether.
1: be Youself is the best 2: true you: expensive tase? 3: not afraid to asking questions: next dynamic , share your expectations with each other for what going to work and what do not . Can meet your expectations or not ? Desires and for return and willing to do
Easily one of the most valuable videos on RUclips 💯
I appreciate that 🙏
Agree
That's a no judgement zone on this channel love this
Stephan we got to love ourselves so we can proudly
Present it to someone
And yes GOD should be first in all aspects of our lives
Thanks for the constant reminder coach Steph
God bless you
You're welcome 🙏
Stephan is good.He gives his honest opinions and doesn't let others influence his judgement. That is a very good trait to have.Hes right about people's judgement being clouded by sex
I had a wonderful guy and he accused me of this very thing, blah blah blah. The real fact is there was a question he would not answer, so there you go. And to this day he won't admit it but it was a deal-breaker. Nothing I could do about it, and he will linger on for years saying how I just could not accept his love, uggg!
Bro. Stephan, you answered my question. I actually commented before the video ended! Thank you for the great advice! I really enjoyed this video!
Healing intellectually will make you see things where you can create a dialogue to conversate with others.Fluently love andlovingly I feel that's what i've learned throughout my hEaling journey🤗
Love how you truly broke everything down. A lot of things you talked about hitting home. So much to learn and understand about connections and communication. Love period! ❤
I don’t know how to flirt the only thing I know how to do is if I am truly drawn into a person to let them know be bold and speak up
So true I went for all the ‘dinner dates’ even though that’s just not me at all. I would rather a walk in the park. I felt like it was expected of me I couldn’t be my best self when I wasn’t comfortable in that environment.
Great Respect for Stephan and his unique ability to use Biblical Wisdom reaching everyone with no judgement ever!💪🏼💪🏼💯💯🥇🥇With God's Holy Spirit Guidance I remained in abstinence 12 years along with fasting, which allows God's clarity to prevail. Wait upon God for his timing and his best... After a 2 year connection, I am back to abstinence and fasting... Stephan's teachings are a spectacular way to be guided forward in "inner growth" ! Highest recommendation - USN Vet & Musician
I feel like you took the gloves off in this video. Sooooo sooo many gems!
Omg that happens to me all the time. People open up to me and they themselves are shocked and say I don’t know why I’m telling you all this but you just draw me
In and I feel like I can talk to you about everything. Some people call me a healer because they say i give piece when im in there presence. I just tell everyone it’s the God that’s in me not me. You feel him and his presence and it’s just transpired through me.
I had a terrific connection with Lewis myself and I had all kinds of pain I haven’t healed from and I am so happy for Lewis finding someone right for him
Stephan you are blessing to mankind.God bless you
AMEN! Pray before you speak! Come on Stephen!
Pray, think, and understand was key for me too. We broke it off because of poor communication and I want to call him back..praying
Do not use that man
I have been honest as much as I thought I was being honest
Coming from a relationship where the other person was unapproachable and I could not find a way to say what I needed to (for over 20 years) has me really trying to figure out HOW to say what I need to say in a new relationship.
I’ve been listening to you from time to time. By far the best relationship coach I’ve come across. I just purchased about 6 of your books and am about to start the Finding Love After Heartbreak. I purchased the trio. Thank you for all you do. 🙏🏽♥️🙏🏽
I want to be with the man who gave the homeless person the dollar because he truly cared and by the way as far as my connection with Lewis I knew from the beginning that he brought me peace and I found him to be very attractive as well but I was already invested into David and I also had a strong attraction to David and I felt because I had fell for him first it was important for me to stay loyal and also David touched on what mattered to me most which was my relationship with God/Jesus/Holy Spirit but Lewis made me feel it was okay to be myself and he provided me peace and a safe place to be
You’re content Stephan is pure Gold! A perfect amalgamation of practical advice with a hint of spirituality. Can you share tips for women looking for love in their late thirties or early forties ?
When I first fell for David every thing was great seeing him smile and laugh still warms my heart very much but a few months into the relationship I started to pick up on other connections around David and I have been confused and frustrated and troubled ever since. I have gotten to know David at around three to four points in his time line of age based upon all his different videos at his different ages and I can honestly say the video where he is at his studio microphone the ones I feel most in love with him at are his newer videos when he is in his mid to late 30’s and he is wearing my favorite polo shirts or he is away from the microphone and him and all the guys are sitting in the cafe in Texas and it’s after chat and or Q and A
46:43 - respectfully
Love is patient. Patience is an action.
Love is kind. Kindness is an action.
Love does not envy. Self control is an action.
Love does not boast. Being modest is an action
Love Is not proud. Being humble is an action.
Love keeps no record of wrongs. Forgiveness is an action.
I didn't really date my husband as in someone new. We were friends than dated like we were married.
Anyway, I was authentic and he has changed but going thru the divorce I'm staying authentic to me after 33 yrs of marriage of him leaving.
Mr. How about you've known them online, then he will come to you, travel to meet you? How to response with that kind of relationship?
Like you're already 2 months in a relationship...
Thank you for all the tips Mr. Stephan, you are a great motivator. God bless you more 🙏
I don’t want to ask a bunch of questions on the first couple of dates instead I just want to have fun or enjoy myself but I always have to be serious and I just want to have some fun and relax and see if I just like being around this individual
good afternoon. listening june 2024! receiving it and learning your prospective! bless to all us supporting you loving God first to get to all our purpose in jesus christ name and it is so amen. 🎉😇👑🎖🏑⛳️
Thanks for listening 🙏
I just loved my guy. As i grew up and developed myself more, he fell away.
Sometimes we look at the person’s previous type and feel like you don’t live up to that but that is the type they’re unhealed self chose😊
Watching your videos are enough therapies
That’s one of the problems I kept telling him because of all the attacks I was going through I was losing myself along the way and I needed him more during this time but then even things involving him were becoming unstable and confusing and chaotic and my support system was not functioning well so all I could do was lean on God/Jesus/Holy Spirit and fight continually and I have been ever since feel like I am fighting alone except when God helps
Yes!!! We have to ask God!!!
This was more than a package
It started with a bang and ended with a bang 😅
Coach Stephan i need some added advice on the subject on flerting
My weakness is i love to touch and its eather the chest or hair 😅
With no turn on intent at least not on the early dates
Its all part of me and my character am a fun loving person
But for sure i put GOD first in all aspects of my life
Looking foward to many more videos
Blessings to you abundantly Stephan
Thank you
Im going to have the best healthy, happy, godly relationship❤❤💖💖with my guy!
Ppl have been share their whole life with me as well. I’ve been giving relationship advice before I understood relationships
I feel more relieved, thank you Stephan speaks.
It is so true about smell. It can be a deal breaker
For me.
I watched a video with you and the black doctor I was glad to see the video because I watched both of you guys consistently and I was enjoying both but I saw a video with you guys on it together and I was like oh wow look at them. So of course I watched it because I've been loving both of you guys's videos. I understand his mindset as far as women he's very judgemental and not very warm an and throughout the whole video when you guys was talking about women I've never seen his eyes light up or anything but when he was speaking about a relationship with a woman so that was to me understanding I get that but a lot of your videos is about guys like him that feel like they don't have to accommodate a relationship or a woman in their lives. Is easy to see that when it comes to women he does not get excited
I have no interest in a man that just wants to sleep with me nor do I have any interest in a relationship that is friends with benefits
When I fell for David my intention was to marry him and one day work together with him but during this time I also met Lewis but I stayed loyal to David but I felt more comfortable around Lewis because David seemed to be more harsh at times when I needed softness and I didn’t see David helping financially but instead felt more at times he was using me and then the negative red flags of the tree situation and then some and he wouldn’t answer my questions clearly or when I told him of issues he wouldn’t address them and ignored me. I didn’t get close enough to Lewis to see if there was more to him but I know he brought me peace and we both felt it was important to figure out if we could address each other’s needs and I found him very attractive as well and actually more attractive than David but I didn’t pursue Lewis because of my feelings originally for David and my beliefs of loyalty and respect and love and that the grass is not always greener on the other side but I did want to learn more about Lewis just like David when I met these men
Sheesh you are always on point 💯
I do have a question though. If you’re a Christian, I mean from within. God is first and foremost in your life. Isn’t that the connection? Therefore, all you need is balance. Here’s the thing for me and I hope I don’t sound Naive. If God has been preparing you, and your potential mate is a Christian for real. Not talking about carnal Christians right now. Wouldn’t we have the discernment to know if this is our person? I desire to get married but more than that, I desire to stay married!
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Thanks for sharing!
Love this! I appreciate the emails to remind me to come on over.
Great Great advice!! I totally agree!❤
That’s the main thing is sharing the same values. What is your relationship like with God? What are your expectations?
Appreciate Stephan 🙏
No problem at all 🙏
I have connected with only three men within my Spirit the first connection I felt was with an older African American gentleman I met at the Cracker Barrel Restaurant while sitting outside but I think I was waiting on a table and it was the first time I ever felt anything connected to my Spirit in fact I didn’t even know about my Spirit at this time and I think this happened before 2022, the second connection was David and the 3rd connection was Lewis and I know this sounds weird but part of me felt connected in a way to God/Jesus/Holy Spirit too but He came before the other 3 gentlemen
I needed this! 🙌🏾👏🏾 just on time
Great video and such great advice!
Very helpful video but do have couple questions that was mentioned? Hopefully it's in love after heart break book and I can get answers I need 🙏
Wow...video excellent video of all seasons
Great long video! ❤
I dated this man he would be 80 in about couple of months. He was a damage and broken man. He don't think so. I thought I was a little safer, but another one bites the dust. He told me how much was in his saving account, I said to him suppose I was a gold digger, he told me he knew that I was not a gold digger.
Hello! Do you have a video on how to recognize "emotional immaturity"?
Find out where the Mans head and heart is at.... will tell you a story. Make the conversation relaxed ... so.... he will open up. compare the 'first " response to a respose with same question later... see if they are the same. If his head is in a bad way outside of your belief system. Let him know... Leave & find someone else !
Just be honest ladies and men !
I’m 60 years old .. still haven’t met The One let alone anyone worth it . I’m being a realist I don’t think it’s a likely hood that He is out There . Wasted time to keep going out for meet and greets/dates . It’s like Ground hog day lol . Might as well laugh about my dilemma 😂
I completely understand. Never give up.
Age economics education none of that matters. I’ve met some men well into their 60s and 70s Don’t know how to be respectful and aren’t gentlemen and not stable . Or now they just want to play . Looks like that’s it for this woman. It’s exhausting.
Colors are nice yet Tomany bright 0nes are turned off very simple colors pastels really does well 😂😂❤
Stephan when one of you or one of us feel the connection , did that mean the other party felt it too? Or not necessarily?
Stephan,
I've been dating, but so far I haven't had success. I have asked the questions you said. I have one man stating I "think too much" What the heck does that mean? Another said I was "rude" because I was frank and to the point about I am not providing wife duties without commitment. I am new to dating. I'm doing everything you said do. How many of these Jokers do I have to date before the right one comes. Im patient, but what is the average number that I will have to deal with before Mr. RIGHT shows up? Is there some average #. I want to correct anything I am doing wrong, but I will NEVER not be myself. I don’t have any idea what to expect. Its seems crazy after 8 tries.
Great Video! 😊
I got to agree you got to
Thank you 🙏
He never considered me.
If you're a person who is on the wild side, but always classy and sociably acceptable, I don't think there's anything wrong with that?
You are the Best!
People have always told me their stories too 😂😂
Love this ❤❤❤❤
So true❤❤😢😅😊
I love You ❤️!
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I trusted my Spirit too much I felt it told me this was the man I was going to marry and all it did was blow up in my face and I know the Spirit won’t lie so I have accepted it was my flesh that misled me and I was mistaken because I thought it was my Spirit
I can’t stand it that because I am a strong woman most of the time and I had to learn early on in life how to be more adult but never really grew up properly or had it to be okay to show on a regular basis my feminine side because I would be hurt even more by doing so and because I learned how to function in a man’s world and ended up learning and embracing ambitions and the need to be perfect but also being at my heart level a tender woman that I have always been persecuted all my life for either not being tough enough or not being soft enough and I learned how to be both but that only a few were worthy enough for me to be the most tender around. I can’t stand men who treat me like a man in the relationship when I am trying to get closer to them just because I learned how to hang out with guys and developed some of the same kinds of interests such as a liking of sports cars for example or because I have done things that a guy has normally done. Hear me clearly I am not a guy but I can just hang out with them but there has to be at least one man out there that even if we have some of the same interests or experiences in some ways they notice I should be seen as someone that could not just be their best friend but that they would find attractive and visa versa in which I could also be feminine around and be safe around when I am vulnerable and or living in the moment through my true love inside from my heart without having to throw up my defenses because I can also talk about guy things too and have some understanding
I am a very casual comfortable dressing woman who if I have the money would also go in search for some clothing that would be comfortable and look nice on me whether I was lounging around my couch or if I was at a corporate office party or job or dining at a 5 star restaurant. In fact the perfect clothing for me would be if I could wear the same outfit all throughout the day but only had to maybe change some of the accessories and either add makeup or something else and be able to switch to whatever environment I find myself in throughout that day. For example I might start off my day doing private at home spiritual work, in the afternoon go to lunch with girlfriends of mine from possibly church, not long after in the afternoon have a round of golf with some guy friends of mine, afterwards I need to be at a corporate office meeting, but that evening I have a date that I am supposed to be meeting a gentleman at this 5 star restaurant for dinner and we will be going to the theater afterwards to see a play and then maybe after this go out for coffee or tea to wrap up my day and my evening before returning home. This is just an example or say one day I am spending several hours with my older children and grandchildren as well as my present children and husband and his family that our blended families are taking a break from everything and all of us are spending the day together just having fun like going to the beach, pool, movies, the malls, zoo, playing games etc whatever it’s just a family day and or gathering whatever ever type of day it is I want to just have one outfit for the day but have accessories etc to change in order to go from one situation to another and yet still remain comfortable but look great
When I get ready to date again part of me just wants to causally date because I want to be better at dating so I don’t chase off the right one but also I know when I get serious about finding someone I want to marry which is my true reason for dating I am going to be more prone to only date men that are marriage minded
I don’t go to clubs anymore and I personally don’t want my mate at a club without me and or if they have ever had a drinking problem but I could see us going to a club to shoot pool or to dance. I prefer my mate not to dance with anyone else especially if I am not there but if my mate asks me if it would be okay to do it if I feel I can trust him I would be okay with it as long as it wasn’t slow dancing
This is one of the things I made perfectly clear when I talked to the guy I had feelings for I think it is very important if when you start to date someone and you find yourself highly attracted to them and visa versa and you two are both marriage minded that you talk about setting up a date and time to sit down with them to discuss needs and expectations. You both before your appointment date sit down and make a list of expectations and questions to ask each other because these questions and expectations are your needs and each of you need to come together and discuss needs to see where you stands and if you two have deal breakers also I feel if you do get married that you both should come together at least once a month to discuss your relationship in order to maintain a good relationship dynamic
This is one of the things I made perfectly clear when I talked to the guy I had feelings for I think it is very important if when you start to date someone and you find yourself highly attracted to them and visa versa and you two are both marriage minded that you talk about setting up a date and time to sit down with them to discuss needs and expectations. You both before your appointment date sit down and make a list of expectations and questions to ask each other because these questions and expectations are your needs and each of you need to come together and discuss needs to see where you stands and if you two have deal breakers also I feel if you do get married that you both should come together at least once a month to discuss your relationship in order to maintain a good relationship dynamic I spelled this out on more than one time on the person I liked in his comments but I was ignored
But what if those who are healed, vhoose to be truthful with someone and they lie and they dont show up the way the healed is showing up? Be truthful to everyone your dating? And it may not work?
Yea I think so. Stay true no matter what. The lies always come to the light and hopefully sooner rather than later. It sucks and hurts if you like the person and person has great qualities but in the end it's for the better. Eventually that can turn to 1-5 yrs or whatever going through a more painful break up if the foundation wasn't strong to begin with. That will hurt more. Let those fall back who show you who they are. it's not about you, it's more a them thing if you do show up authentically. ❤
You're wrong it's not going to hit her 🤦 sometimes I just cringe when I hear stuff like this. Anytime you want to say say "she this", or "he that" just stop please. Men do it as well and I never look back and go "oh gee how I wish", I make my mistakes I move on. And I swear men are so fragile these days I'm just tired of them. Carrying their baggage around like they want a purple heart or something it's pathetic 🤷
Feeling lost...men are making life impossible in the dating and married life. Why does a woman have to back him up emotionally. If he doesn't already have these things from his mother/father/past life, then I don't want him. Im not saying im perfect either, but i dont want to deal eith thr stress of the "basics" in life.
I need a relatively well-rounded man who's ready to adapt WITH me...not against me
Yeah. No one has time to raise an adult or become their therapist. However, if we're honest, the majority of people are not quite ready to be emotionally close or intimate with another person. So we have to decide if a particular person and whatever connection you have is worth it.
There's a lot of romanticism out here that leaves people thinking that all relationships are going to flow perfectly and that's not true. For some, it may be closer to this than most. For some, the pair will really have to work together to build something beautiful. --- Just my thoughts. 😏
its 😖 confusion men and women I don't really play close I don't like open up with strangers but I do people too aggressive I don't like that
I'm tired...I just want a Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell oartnership
You said something about physical attraction and I don't agree. You shouldn't judge someone that's fat.
Amen❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Too little about godly relationships & how they should look like.
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Men do the same thing run away when it gets good.!!!!!
Amen❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Lust
My question is do you actually believe of what you speak? Ive been watching for a while and it feels clinical. Feels like once the camera is off; You bust out with hysterical laughter.
What a crazy remark
Disturbed sis needs devine intervention ASAP
Men lie.
Men lie, women lie, because both lie, sometimes unknowingly, but most of the time, it's knowingly.
Haha, your "Men lie," becomes "I lie" when you click on the translation! 😹 That is funny!