Though i live by the "no mercy to cheaters" creed, it's a testament to how broken the system is when a man has to give up his life and become someone else just to escape the evils of that broken and unjust system. I'm glad it worked out for him.
Theres a video on youtube of a man goong through this exact situation in court. Hes put in jail for 30 days AND ordered to pay support payments. When he protests saying if he cant work hows he suppose to make the payments the judge is like "meh, well you gotta do it". Oh they guy also gave her the house in the divorce too.
@@ianbrockus808 i tried man. I tried for an hour to find it again. It was from 4 or 5 years ago. I dont know if its been erased or just buried deep in the search engine results.
The only evils in the system is that the men in charge can grant titles to their wives to become Judges. And the children thereof go around vandalizing the town.
I would've told the judge that I would be requesting an investigation by the state judicial tenure commission to see if she has acted improperly in other divorce cases and made the same kind of rulings in those cases that would prove not only judicial misconduct but also bias based on gender and that she will be lucky if she doesn't get blacklisted for her shenanigans.
You can ask what you want to, but man are F up in divorcees. Wife can cheat, say you hit her, lie about your kids and you have no choice to pay for Aps kids and for 304 ass.
you can try but they are even more likely to be biased against men. she won't be blacklisted because: 1. they have a qouta for female judges(in democarat dominated states/most places in Canada/Australia/most European countries) 2.if she mistreated/discriminated against men it's not against their politics. (because they don't believe in equally but in equity, it means that what they believe both justify & requires them to discriminate against men to achieve their vision of "justice")(they won't go against women if said women at least externally gives signs that she believes in their ideology)
@benzionshlafer7388 That's when I would pull an Emile Zola and start calling her out by having some highway billboard signs made. My very own "J'Accuse."
I know of many cases irl where judges f@cked men up (in family court) and I do know that other judges tend to back up their colleagues even if they don't show bias in their own work.(and there are many reasons for that you can't go against your colleagues and expect their friends [other colleagues] to be okay with you, and corrupt judges get in position by pulling strings [connections: chief justice, governor, president, other politicians] and they have the power to f#ck you up and even if you manage to get them out someone just like the will take the open position)
When someone is held in contempt of court to coerce payments, the judge is required by law to release you if you state you have no intention of complying. This is because I ts not meant to be punitive, only coercive. This means the moment the judge knows they cannot coerce compliance, and keep you in jail, that actually constitutes judicial malpractice, and can be censured and even be dismissed.
@@frankconley6321 , you can, and plenty of lawyers will do so, and a judge cannot have their buddies take the case, as it would constitute as personal bias, as well as a conflict of interest, to say nothing of the crooked judge themselves.
Except they don't. See H. Beatty Chadwick for an extreme example. Contempt against a sitting judge basically lasts as long as you continue to do whatever you've been held in contempt for, the penalty is imposed unconditionally and appeals court held he could be held indefinitely for refusing to follow a court order. The magic word isn't coerce or punitive, it's "remedial", meaning an attempt to enforce compliance with a rule rather than punish for breaking it. Remedy is fulfilled as soon as you cooperate, hence there being no clock to run out. Since it's direct contempt in a court you have all the evidence necessary for proving refusal beyond any doubt, you can't appeal contempt directly but instead would have to appeal the order being refused, and pretty much your only direct out is to prove the order is deficient or impossible to fulfil. The court ordered to pay money, your only legal options are to pay, appeal or declare bankruptcy. Refuse and you get held til you do one of those. You can also normally get out by fulfilling by proxy or convincing the judge that you have genuine intent to comply. It's not like "I can't pay cause I'm locked up" is a novel concept. Things change if you can prove you don't have the money to pay, but that requires providing evidence about your finances that the court will consider. In this case, where tens of millions of dollars supposedly went missing, they'd just hit you with a fraud charge instead. Hiding money overseas isn't really all Hollywood make it out to be, see IRSM 9.7.10. It would only be a matter of a prosecutor deciding what financial crimes to hit with based on the paper trail. Pretty sure judges have discretion over whether what's sufficient in cases of misconduct in court, and can switch from further jail time to a fine if/when they decide that's appropriate. Judges generally don't like ruling against other judges over matters of procedural conduct unless it's exceptionally egregious... a flight risk involving 7-figure values isn't going to get much sympathy.
Man I saw where a woman was in prison for her child's entire life for the most part and when she got out the courts immediately took us the away from the father and gave custody to her the child didn't even know her and cried while being taken away from the father the courts don't care that's why there's all these father's rights Advocates coming out
No just because there's some that cheat doesn't mean that there need to be mandatory DNA testing I know that my wife has never cheated on me nor will see and there are a lot of women out there like that now if you want to talk about mandatory DNA testing when a divorce is going on I would agree to that especially if infidelity is at the root of it
Then you dont know how paternity is treated. If you wait till divorce, you're stuck for life. Yes, mandatory paternity test should be a must. If you got nothing to hide', after all...
@@lord_vader87 unfortunately for people it's becoming a thing many states are demanding paternity test at birth before the "father's" can sign the birth certificate
No. You are missing the point, he did that on Purpose! Was part of his plan! He is in jail, no lawyer, no money, no job! He Can't pay bills so she lost house, cars ect! Brilliant plan! In other versions of this story he has friends on the outside beat up her AP! He says what? I'm it here so don't blame me? I like it when there sell company to the employees? They won't give her any of the company? Sucks that women force men to go to these extremes
This is blatant bias against the father, and due to the fact that the court has a financial stake in making the father pay because if the mother did the courts would not get anywhere near that amount of money.
I have know of a Guy who did this in RL. He hid all the money he had, mortgaged the house, quit his job in good faith before court happened, and sold his car to his friend to hold in trust. He spent 30 days in contempt court, got out left town and then the country the weekend he was out. Never went back to court, had no credit cards, lived in S.E. Asia after a few months in Peru. His X-PGT lost everything and her kids (he did not have any with her) blew her off for ruining their lives in the next 2 years.
@@runeingebretsen8378it's so everyone else knows the reason why they leave and the ex can't turn any sane family members against him probably. That or just to stick it to the ex.
@@runeingebretsen8378it's so everyone else knows the reason why they leave and the ex can't turn any sane family members against him probably. That or just to stick it to the ex.
He dragged the judge, ex wife, and let's all not forget lover boy through the mud and back. All because they all believed he should pay no matter what. Can't believe how he burned the judge while held in content and in jail. Edit: can't believe how many people liked the comment.
Better not have home equity, better not have a job, better know someone off shore, better be willing to go to jail. Most men don't have these options. Most men lose everything.
@@chessking4764 I agree, these people think they are above everyone else and that they believe that everyone should rise when they enter their court. And if you don’t play along with their game then they will be bias against you. I believe that is wrong and no one should have to rise to another human being. There’s only one judge and it’s none of these clowns
Given the man-hating social climate today, and the woke direction of the movie industry, doubtful, I however agree, reminds me a bit of "John. Q", though a drastically different setting.
The only "real" part would be the broken legal system. The rest of it is illogical fantasy written by a person who doesn't have the faintest clue about how the law works, banks work (or the laws and regulations they're under), can't keep his story straight (quit his firm job years ago when the kids were born but "hadn't been working there for a few weeks" when the soon-to-be ex called looking for him), apparently the wife didn't notice the garage getting emptied out, etc. Written by a clown. But the court proceedings are probably the realest part. I'm 45 and the number of people I've met through church, work, etc that have been through nightmare court scenarios (I lost a friend of mine back in 2014 who was in his 60s and being forced into bankruptcy due to divorce and alimony from decades ago) is mind-blowing. The courts are no longer part of a legal justice system. It's had its authority co-opted to further the destruction of man, family, and society.
@@ObservationofLimitsYeah, seems like he’d have been caught trying to stash the money away at least a few times. The court would be able to go through his finances to see where deposits were made within a certain timeframe, and it would look especially suspicious if the money for all of those accounts he supposedly passed the money through came from his bank account. I’m not an expert in any respect, but even I know that it would leave a huge paper trail that would inevitably lead right back to him, even if he used cash deposits only. And they’d be able to hold him until they found it, since he expressed that he would not comply, and being held in contempt is remedial, not punitive. Plus, he called his wife a “304”, which I don’t think sees much use outside of online spaces.
Offshore trust holding an offshore LLC was a brilliant strategy used by the op. One lesson we as men need to take from feminists is fighting for change, we cannot keep accepting laws that bind us to ex wives and kids that aren't ours. Something needs to be done.
@@redrustyhill2 , the women too if they possibly marry some scumbag. Also, technically, all forms of currency are worthless in the end, and ditto for all of their related ilk.
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The only believable part was the court system and the judge and him losing it The rest of it is terrible fantasy thought up by an idiot ignorant of how the world works (not to mention the inability to keep the story straight)
The sad part is that this is only achievable by the truly rich people The average person or middle class individual will never be able to pull this off and will be forced into the entirety of what was judged here
Dude get your head out of your butt! NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, put all your money into a JOINT ACCOUNT WITH YOUR WIFE! You don't get a DNA TEST, HOW DO YOU KNOW THEY ARE YOUR? House wife will cheat as well!
@@imdon8920 these judges also circumvent prenups and force men to anyway. Though you can actually report judges like in the OP and have them disbarred. If the judge isn't impratial and fair they are not doing their job.
@@GLUFSAREN They can't circumvent all prenups, only the ones that are made in questionable timing. If you agree to sing the prenup 3 months before the wedding, go with the procedure, and record the whole thing, there's nothing the judge can do.
When I first hear the ruling, I thought to myself "sounds like some California or New York nonsense". No-fault divorce needs to be removed completely from the system. In addition to accountability to judges, law enforcement, and politicians.
Oh shut up '; for all the BS about Cali were it not for that liberal states great wealth being the 5th largest in the world, the US would be failing because the so say heartland can only produce f....d oppressive laws and a sh...y economies.
It is significant to note that when OP acknowledged that not only the judge, but the judicial system blatantly voided the equal justice under the law contract, he was no longer obligated to keep that contract either. While the judge was able to abuse the system in her attempt to enslave OP, he had every right to use every option available to him to free himself from judicial tyranny. He had every right up to and including the elimination his enslavers, but he chose a softer and more effective approach. Since when have the courts established the rights of women to place a statute of limitations on paternal fraud against men? And to eliminate the constitutional rights of a man innocent of any crime in an exchange to protect the unconstitutional rights of innocent children that are not biologically his? In such instances he is just as innocent as the children! Yet, the courts continue to only enforce portions of the marital contract that allows themselves to establish and maintain the power to enslave others, while ignoring the inconvenient parts of fidelity and loyalty that make a marriage what it actually is!
It has to do with the marriage "license". Back in the old days you would get married and the priest would give you a marriage certificate. What this license does is create a contract between the couple and the government. You lose your Constitutional rights at that point because it is a contract.
@@hankscorpio6111 men fall in love but women are in business. Marriage has nothing to do with love. It's a formation of an LLC. In divorce court how much you love her isn't taken into account. No. The judge and the woman just want to get to the assets of the LLC you formed. In which case men are better off staying single, paying for everything a wife can provide and adopt kids or do surr0gacy, until they invent AI wombs. Stay safe gents.
I know of two men who did close to what this OP did. Both spent about 2 weeks in jail. Both also left town and have never been seen or heard from again. Neither left any children. The children they left were not theirs according to legend. Neither left much money and one left the marital property in hock to the bank. Both wives lost everything after their now ex-husbands got out of jail. One case goes back to the early 1980s and the other to the middle 1990s. I loved that part where the OP called the Judge she was #1!
I was told I had to pay a cheating X $2,000 /mo for life and yearly adjusted for inflation. That was the early 90's. I left the country and have never returned. Until they passed, I saw my parents 1 or 2 times a year in another country. It is funny that with cash, you can purchase a legal birth certificate for somewhere else.
@@randallanderson4560 , red pill/male incel/MGTOW philosophy is just as toxic as female incel/FGTOW, feminist, chauvinist/masculinist, LGBTQ+, and racist philosophies. I have no tolerance towards the lot of them in the end, as they all collectively destroy humankind. I treat their adherents like zombies and act accordingly.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 right out of the gate, the way he told off that judge is freaking epic! Laughed so hard my cheeks hurt. Definitely going to rewind that and listen to it again. So good.
I would have to wonder if being found in contempt wasn't part of the plan. Beautiful way to drag things out and have a solid reason not to be able to pay. Also, having council dropping him and having him cool his heels in county lockup also makes it incredibly difficult for opposing counsel to get anywhere.
The judge should be removed from the bench and blacklisted. If they're willing to twist the rules and play white knight to a cheating wife, then they have no business being a judge.
If a judge is so blatantly crooked in their ruling to the point robbing the husband. I swear judges who even try this should honestly be disbarred for such b.s.
That's the one thing that makes me doubt the story. A judge can issue contempt of court but normally that has to be adjudicated by another judge BUT the plausible deniability there is that she was a family court judge and they don't even have to follow the constitution so them not having to have their contempt hearing wouldn't surprise me.
It just happened to Trump. 80 million for a woman that had zero evidence he did anything to her and told everyone the truth that she was crazy. That dude needs disbarred and every ruling he ever made looked into.
@@ashyarafanmike , I would make it a federal requirement that family court judges follow the Constitution as well, ans also nullify blatantly racist or sexist legislation, including the legislation that promotes the so-called "majority" or "minority", and LGBTQ+ individuals, as well.
The golden rule has two parts, the spoken and the implied, the spoken is "Do unto others as you would have them do done unto you" the implied is "Do unto other as they be done unto you" OP is one of the few that understands this second part. If someone is awful to you then you have every right to be awful back to them after all they are treating you the way they want to be treated so why not oblige them?
They love to hate on men. Do many average men have it so bad. They are shackled for life. But you never hear of wives being put under similar judicial rulings even when they make more than their husbands. All it takes to mess up your life as a man is to invite a woman into your life and/or put babies in them. Marriage is a scam against men. Stay single, have kids by surr0gacy or marry a non western woman and stay over there.
@@frankconley6321 Well, Heracles did defeat Ares two times in a row, and injured Hades and even Hera. Diomedes also injured Ares and Aphrodite. Therefore, they are fallible, despite them being Deities.
That was such an enjoyable story. 🙂 At first I thought "oh, is he as disagreeable as I am? this will be fun", but it turned out that he's much more well-behaved. Still, this was a lot of fun!
Pretty sure it is fake, but it is still entertaining. The sad thing is that, though fake, it still has a lot of truth in it. US divorce courts DO favor the women, even if the women are garbage. It is a big part of why marriage is dying in the US.
Mmmhmm. Facts. Us needs to overhaul it's divorce laws asap or risk having to subsidize sperm banks to pay men for their seed because that's the only way a man will get a woman pregnant in the coming years.
@@GLUFSAREN It really depends on how and when the prenups are signed and whether both sides have a lawyer as witness, etc. like if the husband pulls up the prenup the day of the wedding, it won't count. There's a lot that goes into the terms that make a prenup valid or not to make sure its fair
Before anything is revealed you "have an epiphany and rid your family of material shackles" and just drain the accounts and liquidate and get fired, and say you bought a tent for the family and actually have bought a ton of gold and cash and stash it somewhere safe out of reach and say how you are certain they would love you regardless and the new free life etc.
This is why you always own an axe, remember the judge's name, and deal with the problem outside of court, because if they're going to ruin your life, they shall oblige to you making sure they can't enjoy theirs either.
You wanna stay safe as a man Don't marry Don't put babies in western women Stay single, have kids by surr0gacy Prenup? What a joke, ask Tyrese or Jeezy. Tyrese has spent 1m bux fighting off his ex wife's lawyers from cracking open his prenup. The newest legal sport. Only marry non Western women and stay over there. There's nothing a wife can do for you that you can't hire for.
My experience in divorce court is different. The judge only talks to your lawyer. They will never talk to you directly. When the judge awards her your income, they take it from wage garnishment by court order to your employer. I never got the opportunity to talk to the judge. I could never complain, I could never negotiate anything....... this was in the USA.
You are 100% correct in any case I've ever seen. The only way guys can possibly do anything is if they find out way in advance and start the shuffle. If you came home one day and are served, you can't do a damn thing, its already too late. And you won't be saying a damn thing to the judge. Why men marry in this day and age and involve the government into reallocating their wealth beyond what they already do with taxes, it just hurts my head.
Can this man's mistrial be reported to the supreme court. This is Jim crow levels of injustice and sexism. The Judge cannot be allowed to continue doing this.
That’s why our justice system is so fucked up. Many judges don’t care about what’s right and wrong they can make a judgement if they want to if something is right or wrong but they aren’t held to judge in right and wrong only to judge on laws.
This was one hell of a story . The man made his divorce and his assets air tight and she got next to nothing and made the judge impotent and that bit of irony with her experiencing the same thing she tried to put him through . Karmas a bitch and its cool hes living his best life and stood on business and principles in the face of insane corruption from one man to the next i salute you .
Interesting story, if there was a Trust setup he would not have had to do any of that, cause a Trust is outside of the jurisdiction of the court, and they could not have done anything to the man.
90 days max for one contempt charge but a judge if they so choose can just keep you there with multiple contempt charges for not following the judges orders or for what he says the the judge
3500 a month, more than half of everything he built and he still has to pay for everything? Can't understand why he'd be upset. Especially when she was the one doing everything wrong.
Things like that HAVE happened before and still happen to this day. I once met an englishman in Barbados who did that. Except he didnt spend a day in jail. He just transferred all of their money, sold his company and liqidated it. Closed all the accounts and left the country on a business trip that never ended to this day.
I got the shit end too like this guy in my marriage, I downsized my life paid little support according to my income and lived humbly but happy, Built my life up better later .today she is shrieking harpie no one cares about meanwhile I make good money and drive a supercar.
@@sienkiewiczmonika1161 Yeah. He described his new lover the same superficial way: her body and $ex are great. He didn't say that he fell in love, he didn't say he likes her. Nothing about truly important things.
OP should have demanded court ordered paternity tests on the kids and then sued to have his name removed from the birth certificates. He also needed a much better lawyer.
@@jld12er , but a private detective/private investigator, as well as connections to higher level judges, WOULD help that matter, though. Show all of the corruption to the media with the copies of the evidence that you have, arm your vehicle, and make...allies to assist you, and a lot of them, and they will learn that you mean business. Also, make sure that you check your food and always pay attention to things, as those jerks will try to infiltrate your house.
@paxhumana2015 sorry but no everyone already knows family court is biased and corrupt but nobody does anything do you know why Politics and money. Yes there is too much money to be made doing things this way from child support alimony and lawyer costs then there is the case most judges get hired from elections and who has one of the most active and wrll funded lobbies that would be the feminist lobby and they like it this way heck they actually lobbied for it to be this biased and judges like all politicians and trust me they are politicians all want the female vote so sorry the only way to change things is by enough men to say screw it and not marry or cohabitation with women
Though i live by the "no mercy to cheaters" creed, it's a testament to how broken the system is when a man has to give up his life and become someone else just to escape the evils of that broken and unjust system. I'm glad it worked out for him.
and all of this to get justice that he knows he will never get under the current set up.
Theres a video on youtube of a man goong through this exact situation in court. Hes put in jail for 30 days AND ordered to pay support payments. When he protests saying if he cant work hows he suppose to make the payments the judge is like "meh, well you gotta do it". Oh they guy also gave her the house in the divorce too.
Can you share the link to the video?
@@ianbrockus808 i tried man. I tried for an hour to find it again. It was from 4 or 5 years ago. I dont know if its been erased or just buried deep in the search engine results.
The only evils in the system is that the men in charge can grant titles to their wives to become Judges. And the children thereof go around vandalizing the town.
I would've told the judge that I would be requesting an investigation by the state judicial tenure commission to see if she has acted improperly in other divorce cases and made the same kind of rulings in those cases that would prove not only judicial misconduct but also bias based on gender and that she will be lucky if she doesn't get blacklisted for her shenanigans.
You can ask what you want to, but man are F up in divorcees. Wife can cheat, say you hit her, lie about your kids and you have no choice to pay for Aps kids and for 304 ass.
you can try but they are even more likely to be biased against men.
she won't be blacklisted because:
1. they have a qouta for female judges(in democarat dominated states/most places in Canada/Australia/most European countries)
2.if she mistreated/discriminated against men it's not against their politics. (because they don't believe in equally but in equity, it means that what they believe both justify & requires them to discriminate against men to achieve their vision of "justice")(they won't go against women if said women at least externally gives signs that she believes in their ideology)
@benzionshlafer7388 That's when I would pull an Emile Zola and start calling her out by having some highway billboard signs made. My very own "J'Accuse."
File a lawsuit against her for her lack of honor...as an "honorable" bitch.
Too bad. Some states won't kick a broad like that out of her power.
Judges need to be sued, They commit crimes with no accountability.
Only in family court. You actually have rights in real court. Family court is grape.
If presidents are not allowed immunity...why should a judge be?
@@selfaware3940 Agreed nobody should have immunity That drives corruption, power hungry people to commit atrocities against others.
You know this is a fictional story, right?
I know of many cases irl where judges f@cked men up (in family court) and I do know that other judges tend to back up their colleagues even if they don't show bias in their own work.(and there are many reasons for that you can't go against your colleagues and expect their friends [other colleagues] to be okay with you, and corrupt judges get in position by pulling strings [connections: chief justice, governor, president, other politicians] and they have the power to f#ck you up and even if you manage to get them out someone just like the will take the open position)
When someone is held in contempt of court to coerce payments, the judge is required by law to release you if you state you have no intention of complying. This is because I ts not meant to be punitive, only coercive. This means the moment the judge knows they cannot coerce compliance, and keep you in jail, that actually constitutes judicial malpractice, and can be censured and even be dismissed.
Two big IFs: if you can find a lawyer to take your case and IF you can get your case heard in court AT ALL.
@@frankconley6321 , you can, and plenty of lawyers will do so, and a judge cannot have their buddies take the case, as it would constitute as personal bias, as well as a conflict of interest, to say nothing of the crooked judge themselves.
And how often are they actually censured and dismissed, exactly?
@jimm8773 you can still appeal and if it gets to an actual judge all the charges that the shitty judge gave will be void.
Except they don't. See H. Beatty Chadwick for an extreme example. Contempt against a sitting judge basically lasts as long as you continue to do whatever you've been held in contempt for, the penalty is imposed unconditionally and appeals court held he could be held indefinitely for refusing to follow a court order. The magic word isn't coerce or punitive, it's "remedial", meaning an attempt to enforce compliance with a rule rather than punish for breaking it. Remedy is fulfilled as soon as you cooperate, hence there being no clock to run out.
Since it's direct contempt in a court you have all the evidence necessary for proving refusal beyond any doubt, you can't appeal contempt directly but instead would have to appeal the order being refused, and pretty much your only direct out is to prove the order is deficient or impossible to fulfil. The court ordered to pay money, your only legal options are to pay, appeal or declare bankruptcy. Refuse and you get held til you do one of those. You can also normally get out by fulfilling by proxy or convincing the judge that you have genuine intent to comply. It's not like "I can't pay cause I'm locked up" is a novel concept.
Things change if you can prove you don't have the money to pay, but that requires providing evidence about your finances that the court will consider. In this case, where tens of millions of dollars supposedly went missing, they'd just hit you with a fraud charge instead. Hiding money overseas isn't really all Hollywood make it out to be, see IRSM 9.7.10. It would only be a matter of a prosecutor deciding what financial crimes to hit with based on the paper trail.
Pretty sure judges have discretion over whether what's sufficient in cases of misconduct in court, and can switch from further jail time to a fine if/when they decide that's appropriate. Judges generally don't like ruling against other judges over matters of procedural conduct unless it's exceptionally egregious... a flight risk involving 7-figure values isn't going to get much sympathy.
So cheating and destroying your marriage means nothing in the family courts now ?
How far has the justice system has fallen
Man I saw where a woman was in prison for her child's entire life for the most part and when she got out the courts immediately took us the away from the father and gave custody to her the child didn't even know her and cried while being taken away from the father the courts don't care that's why there's all these father's rights Advocates coming out
@@lord_vader87 don't forget the one woman that killed her own kids just so the father couldn't have them for the weekend
this is the way the system has worked since before any of us were born. it didnt start here
"No fault divorce" is the reason.
what do you mean fallen it has always been at the bottom of the ocean. It just happens to change X and z coordinates from time to time.
MANDATED PATERNITY DNA TESTS DONE FOR ALL BIRTHS!! GET IT RIGHT!!
No just because there's some that cheat doesn't mean that there need to be mandatory DNA testing I know that my wife has never cheated on me nor will see and there are a lot of women out there like that now if you want to talk about mandatory DNA testing when a divorce is going on I would agree to that especially if infidelity is at the root of it
Then you dont know how paternity is treated. If you wait till divorce, you're stuck for life.
Yes, mandatory paternity test should be a must. If you got nothing to hide', after all...
@@lord_vader87- Delusional as H3LL you are. SMDH
@@lord_vader87 unfortunately for people it's becoming a thing many states are demanding paternity test at birth before the "father's" can sign the birth certificate
@@lord_vader87 It doesn't matter what you think or that YOU can trust your woman
This is the pure definition of "Using my way with words to turn a speeding ticket into a Death sentence" I've ever heard 😂
More like a life sentence to a death sentence
Preferable
No. You are missing the point, he did that on Purpose! Was part of his plan! He is in jail, no lawyer, no money, no job! He Can't pay bills so she lost house, cars ect! Brilliant plan! In other versions of this story he has friends on the outside beat up her AP! He says what? I'm it here so don't blame me? I like it when there sell company to the employees? They won't give her any of the company? Sucks that women force men to go to these extremes
Exactly Joseph, I didn't have his problem, but I made it to where my ex paid for the divorce 😂
This is blatant bias against the father, and due to the fact that the court has a financial stake in making the father pay because if the mother did the courts would not get anywhere near that amount of money.
But He was NOT the FATHER!
@@josephjuno9555that judge didn’t care about the facts! She only wanted to stick it to men, regardless of the evidence presented.
It's not the divorce that we regret. It is marriage that we condemn.
I have know of a Guy who did this in RL. He hid all the money he had, mortgaged the house, quit his job in good faith before court happened, and sold his car to his friend to hold in trust. He spent 30 days in contempt court, got out left town and then the country the weekend he was out. Never went back to court, had no credit cards, lived in S.E. Asia after a few months in Peru. His X-PGT lost everything and her kids (he did not have any with her) blew her off for ruining their lives in the next 2 years.
why bother with the divorce,extract as much money as possible and exit.
good choice@@runeingebretsen8378
@@runeingebretsen8378 Because if you have life insurance she can claim that.
@@runeingebretsen8378it's so everyone else knows the reason why they leave and the ex can't turn any sane family members against him probably. That or just to stick it to the ex.
@@runeingebretsen8378it's so everyone else knows the reason why they leave and the ex can't turn any sane family members against him probably. That or just to stick it to the ex.
He dragged the judge, ex wife, and let's all not forget lover boy through the mud and back.
All because they all believed he should pay no matter what. Can't believe how he burned the judge while held in content and in jail.
Edit: can't believe how many people liked the comment.
Love this dude!!!!!!!
Better not have home equity, better not have a job, better know someone off shore, better be willing to go to jail. Most men don't have these options. Most men lose everything.
@@georgesontag2192 , not if they make the other parties lose everything first. There are ways to get that done.
Honorable should not be associated with the Judge’s name
I advocate the title of "your higher excrement" considering recent rulings in my country's 'superior court'
Dishonor is more like it
LOL to his credit he did say dishonorable in his story
these judges are so full of it I couldn't give a shit about standing when they enter the room
@@chessking4764
I agree, these people think they are above everyone else and that they believe that everyone should rise when they enter their court.
And if you don’t play along with their game then they will be bias against you.
I believe that is wrong and no one should have to rise to another human being.
There’s only one judge and it’s none of these clowns
If this story is real it DESERVES to have a movie inspired by it. This shit is epic and inspirational as hell!
No kidding!!
Read like revenge porn
Given the man-hating social climate today, and the woke direction of the movie industry, doubtful, I however agree, reminds me a bit of "John. Q", though a drastically different setting.
The only "real" part would be the broken legal system.
The rest of it is illogical fantasy written by a person who doesn't have the faintest clue about how the law works, banks work (or the laws and regulations they're under), can't keep his story straight (quit his firm job years ago when the kids were born but "hadn't been working there for a few weeks" when the soon-to-be ex called looking for him), apparently the wife didn't notice the garage getting emptied out, etc.
Written by a clown.
But the court proceedings are probably the realest part. I'm 45 and the number of people I've met through church, work, etc that have been through nightmare court scenarios (I lost a friend of mine back in 2014 who was in his 60s and being forced into bankruptcy due to divorce and alimony from decades ago) is mind-blowing.
The courts are no longer part of a legal justice system. It's had its authority co-opted to further the destruction of man, family, and society.
@@ObservationofLimitsYeah, seems like he’d have been caught trying to stash the money away at least a few times. The court would be able to go through his finances to see where deposits were made within a certain timeframe, and it would look especially suspicious if the money for all of those accounts he supposedly passed the money through came from his bank account. I’m not an expert in any respect, but even I know that it would leave a huge paper trail that would inevitably lead right back to him, even if he used cash deposits only. And they’d be able to hold him until they found it, since he expressed that he would not comply, and being held in contempt is remedial, not punitive.
Plus, he called his wife a “304”, which I don’t think sees much use outside of online spaces.
Offshore trust holding an offshore LLC was a brilliant strategy used by the op.
One lesson we as men need to take from feminists is fighting for change, we cannot keep accepting laws that bind us to ex wives and kids that aren't ours. Something needs to be done.
and some men say that feminism doesn't teach anything worthwhile... heh
Something more than commenting.
This guy was so smart to hide his money from his cheating ex wife
ALL men should plan accordingly from before ever getting married.
@@redrustyhill2 , the women too if they possibly marry some scumbag. Also, technically, all forms of currency are worthless in the end, and ditto for all of their related ilk.
Way to go for him
You out did yrself on this story, omg I loved it, the way he talked to the judge had me laughing so hard.
Glad you liked it
@@LostLoveChronicles At least credit the Author you took it from.
@@hrhagadorn for all future videos starting next week, we will be adding a section for that in the description box.
Glad to hear that. I know a few of the authors that post on that site and they work hard on those stories and put their time into it for free.
@@hrhagadorn can you help us connect with them. May be we can help them get more traffic and appreciation for their work. please email us, so we can have a word for that :- insightsphere8185@gmail.com
It may be just a story, but it's a heartwarming story.
a love story....
@@jonyjoe8464 , et al, so where on the doll did they hurt you?
Need more "over my dead body" men
Too many fold when hearing "you're going to jail"
Me: "Try to do so, and you all will regret your long lists of p
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Free place to sleep 3 meals a day. Cheating ex-wife, loses house and car. I call that a win 😅
Perhaps the finest example of therapeutic fiction yet. Thank you.
Plenty more on a certain lit erotica site where this story came from
most of these stories are. I explained a few of them to my mom and yep Nora Roberts did indeed write something similar every time.
This is terrible. It's not even believable fiction if you have the slightest idea how the world works.
The only believable part was the court system and the judge and him losing it
The rest of it is terrible fantasy thought up by an idiot ignorant of how the world works (not to mention the inability to keep the story straight)
@@ObservationofLimitsWhy do you watch these then
What a feel good story and it doesn't even matter if it is fiction or not.
Not my kids not my problem….wowwwwwww this guy is a boss
The sad part is that this is only achievable by the truly rich people The average person or middle class individual will never be able to pull this off and will be forced into the entirety of what was judged here
"the 'HONORABLE' judge..." 😂
Dude get your head out of your butt! NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, put all your money into a JOINT ACCOUNT WITH YOUR WIFE! You don't get a DNA TEST, HOW DO YOU KNOW THEY ARE YOUR? House wife will cheat as well!
In the first place why marry? And why marry a western woman? And why marry without a prenup?
@@imdon8920 these judges also circumvent prenups and force men to anyway. Though you can actually report judges like in the OP and have them disbarred. If the judge isn't impratial and fair they are not doing their job.
@@GLUFSAREN They can't circumvent all prenups, only the ones that are made in questionable timing. If you agree to sing the prenup 3 months before the wedding, go with the procedure, and record the whole thing, there's nothing the judge can do.
So the " Judge" got hers as well. XD
When I first hear the ruling, I thought to myself "sounds like some California or New York nonsense". No-fault divorce needs to be removed completely from the system. In addition to accountability to judges, law enforcement, and politicians.
Oh shut up '; for all the BS about Cali were it not for that liberal states great wealth being the 5th largest in the world, the US would be failing because the so say heartland can only produce f....d oppressive laws and a sh...y economies.
Only people whom know how the system works can do shit like this. This story reminds me of "The Shawshank Redemption," to a big degree.
Or a story from Literotica titled NO.
@@snafuthegreat , you are not great, and you are one from your parents.
Zero is zero!
It is significant to note that when OP acknowledged that not only the judge, but the judicial system blatantly voided the equal justice under the law contract, he was no longer obligated to keep that contract either. While the judge was able to abuse the system in her attempt to enslave OP, he had every right to use every option available to him to free himself from judicial tyranny. He had every right up to and including the elimination his enslavers, but he chose a softer and more effective approach. Since when have the courts established the rights of women to place a statute of limitations on paternal fraud against men? And to eliminate the constitutional rights of a man innocent of any crime in an exchange to protect the unconstitutional rights of innocent children that are not biologically his? In such instances he is just as innocent as the children! Yet, the courts continue to only enforce portions of the marital contract that allows themselves to establish and maintain the power to enslave others, while ignoring the inconvenient parts of fidelity and loyalty that make a marriage what it actually is!
Marriage is insurance for a woman's declining SMV. So men should say No thanks. Have kids by surr0gacy or marry non Western women and stay over there.
and it will get political etc.
They've been actively trying to destroy the nuclear family for years
It has to do with the marriage "license". Back in the old days you would get married and the priest would give you a marriage certificate. What this license does is create a contract between the couple and the government. You lose your Constitutional rights at that point because it is a contract.
@@hankscorpio6111 men fall in love but women are in business. Marriage has nothing to do with love. It's a formation of an LLC. In divorce court how much you love her isn't taken into account. No. The judge and the woman just want to get to the assets of the LLC you formed. In which case men are better off staying single, paying for everything a wife can provide and adopt kids or do surr0gacy, until they invent AI wombs. Stay safe gents.
I know of two men who did close to what this OP did. Both spent about 2 weeks in jail. Both also left town and have never been seen or heard from again. Neither left any children. The children they left were not theirs according to legend. Neither left much money and one left the marital property in hock to the bank. Both wives lost everything after their now ex-husbands got out of jail. One case goes back to the early 1980s and the other to the middle 1990s. I loved that part where the OP called the Judge she was #1!
😊
I was told I had to pay a cheating X $2,000 /mo for life and yearly adjusted for inflation. That was the early 90's. I left the country and have never returned. Until they passed, I saw my parents 1 or 2 times a year in another country. It is funny that with cash, you can purchase a legal birth certificate for somewhere else.
Love it!
Yeah, so you don’t know if they were actually their children. If they were, it’s pretty fucked up. If not, then understandable
The time before easy recording device and DNA test was hell for those poor men. How many gold diggers and scam artists got away with it?
Chad man right here, sticking it to a corrupt court system.
Oh my God, the insults to the judge were legendary - I was laughing my head off! 😅 (and I’m a woman, btw)!
This would make a fantastic movie
Everything a lawyer does is based around ethics. The issue is that those ethics are not what the general population thinks are ethical.
They should make a movie out of this it will be a hit😂😂😂
OMG, every Red Pill YT channel would have a reaction review with their $.02, appraisals, or a how to guide. Would love to see that 🤣🤣🤣
@@randallanderson4560 , red pill/male incel/MGTOW philosophy is just as toxic as female incel/FGTOW, feminist, chauvinist/masculinist, LGBTQ+, and racist philosophies. I have no tolerance towards the lot of them in the end, as they all collectively destroy humankind. I treat their adherents like zombies and act accordingly.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 right out of the gate, the way he told off that judge is freaking epic! Laughed so hard my cheeks hurt. Definitely going to rewind that and listen to it again. So good.
on the way out of court i would have screamed,try sucking a sausage sometime maybe that is what you need.
I would have to wonder if being found in contempt wasn't part of the plan. Beautiful way to drag things out and have a solid reason not to be able to pay. Also, having council dropping him and having him cool his heels in county lockup also makes it incredibly difficult for opposing counsel to get anywhere.
Of course Comtempt was. BIG Part of plan! Can pay if no job and no money!
Judge should be held in contempt, simple as that.
The judge should be removed from the bench and blacklisted. If they're willing to twist the rules and play white knight to a cheating wife, then they have no business being a judge.
The judge should be arrested, impeached, and disbarred, as well as never be let outside of a prison.
🤣🤣🤣 This is best one yet 100% awesomeness
If a judge is so blatantly crooked in their ruling to the point robbing the husband.
I swear judges who even try this should honestly be disbarred for such b.s.
That's the one thing that makes me doubt the story. A judge can issue contempt of court but normally that has to be adjudicated by another judge BUT the plausible deniability there is that she was a family court judge and they don't even have to follow the constitution so them not having to have their contempt hearing wouldn't surprise me.
@@ashyarafanmikeit happens more than you think, no one holds them in contempt, and they get away with it
It just happened to Trump. 80 million for a woman that had zero evidence he did anything to her and told everyone the truth that she was crazy. That dude needs disbarred and every ruling he ever made looked into.
@@ashyarafanmike , I would make it a federal requirement that family court judges follow the Constitution as well, ans also nullify blatantly racist or sexist legislation, including the legislation that promotes the so-called "majority" or "minority", and LGBTQ+ individuals, as well.
Already a few minutes in and I love this guy 😂
The golden rule has two parts, the spoken and the implied, the spoken is "Do unto others as you would have them do done unto you" the implied is "Do unto other as they be done unto you" OP is one of the few that understands this second part. If someone is awful to you then you have every right to be awful back to them after all they are treating you the way they want to be treated so why not oblige them?
“You are stand on my last nerve, should I start jumping up and down?”
My goodness. I couldn't stop laughing at this. We all need a Ralph. 😂
Jesus. These judges think they are gods.
in my country they have 99% sure they are... just ask any Brazilian around about a guy nicknamed "cabeça de p1r0ca" (letters changed on purpose)
they really think just because they say so it must be be so,god complex much.
They love to hate on men. Do many average men have it so bad. They are shackled for life. But you never hear of wives being put under similar judicial rulings even when they make more than their husbands. All it takes to mess up your life as a man is to invite a woman into your life and/or put babies in them. Marriage is a scam against men. Stay single, have kids by surr0gacy or marry a non western woman and stay over there.
Just try and fight a family court judges ruling. Like fighting one of those Greek gods of legend.
@@frankconley6321 Well, Heracles did defeat Ares two times in a row, and injured Hades and even Hera. Diomedes also injured Ares and Aphrodite. Therefore, they are fallible, despite them being Deities.
One of your best stories
Holy S**T, now that is what I call a crazy story! Some of these revenge stories deserve the light on television or some other video services.
NGL I'd have offered to make a drawing in crayon while I was contempting it up lol
Very good and pretty much hilarious story 👍🏻👍🏻
This is the best i have read. I really needed the laughs i enjoyed . Thank you
That was such an enjoyable story. 🙂 At first I thought "oh, is he as disagreeable as I am? this will be fun", but it turned out that he's much more well-behaved. Still, this was a lot of fun!
Pretty sure it is fake, but it is still entertaining. The sad thing is that, though fake, it still has a lot of truth in it. US divorce courts DO favor the women, even if the women are garbage. It is a big part of why marriage is dying in the US.
Also why a lot of marriages these days start with a prenup
Mmmhmm. Facts. Us needs to overhaul it's divorce laws asap or risk having to subsidize sperm banks to pay men for their seed because that's the only way a man will get a woman pregnant in the coming years.
@@jonlam855 in some states prenups are not valid either.
@@jonlam855 , I do not accept a prenup.
@@GLUFSAREN It really depends on how and when the prenups are signed and whether both sides have a lawyer as witness, etc. like if the husband pulls up the prenup the day of the wedding, it won't count. There's a lot that goes into the terms that make a prenup valid or not to make sure its fair
bro was played the curt so well he beat them at there onw game🤣
Before anything is revealed you "have an epiphany and rid your family of material shackles" and just drain the accounts and liquidate and get fired, and say you bought a tent for the family and actually have bought a ton of gold and cash and stash it somewhere safe out of reach and say how you are certain they would love you regardless and the new free life etc.
Never buy gold, its traceable and has been confiscated by the federal government under F.D.R. there are better ways.
Cash and gold? No get Monero, crypto is accessible once you leave the country with no need to smuggle it.
Bravo! High time that the scales of justice were balanced, by whatever means.
"Lawyers think scruples are what they use for money in Russia!" Brilliant!!! 😅😂
🔥✊🏾I L🤎VE THIS DUDE!!!…F🤬KING Wit The 👩⚖️ LIKE DAT🤣!!!…👊🏾💯
Awesome ending !!!! Was hooked, line and sinker 😊
This is why you always own an axe, remember the judge's name, and deal with the problem outside of court, because if they're going to ruin your life, they shall oblige to you making sure they can't enjoy theirs either.
I don't believe a word of this, however, it is interesting and enjoyable fiction that would also make a decent movie script.
He could appeal the ruling but if this is a a no fault state then his EX does get alimony, 50% assets and child support. Be careful who you marry.
Don't marry!
Don't live with them!
no fault states should not exist
I agree 100%.@@lostharmony27breaker98
You wanna stay safe as a man
Don't marry
Don't put babies in western women
Stay single, have kids by surr0gacy
Prenup? What a joke, ask Tyrese or Jeezy. Tyrese has spent 1m bux fighting off his ex wife's lawyers from cracking open his prenup. The newest legal sport.
Only marry non Western women and stay over there.
There's nothing a wife can do for you that you can't hire for.
@@lostharmony27breaker98 There are lobbyist working to get rid of them now. The problem is that politicians love them.
My experience in divorce court is different. The judge only talks to your lawyer. They will never talk to you directly. When the judge awards her your income, they take it from wage garnishment by court order to your employer. I never got the opportunity to talk to the judge. I could never complain, I could never negotiate anything....... this was in the USA.
You are 100% correct in any case I've ever seen. The only way guys can possibly do anything is if they find out way in advance and start the shuffle. If you came home one day and are served, you can't do a damn thing, its already too late. And you won't be saying a damn thing to the judge. Why men marry in this day and age and involve the government into reallocating their wealth beyond what they already do with taxes, it just hurts my head.
@@jers7590 , yes, you can do something, a lot of things, actually, and no one will be able to stop you if there is no one that is around to stop you.
Can this man's mistrial be reported to the supreme court. This is Jim crow levels of injustice and sexism. The Judge cannot be allowed to continue doing this.
Now this is a better story of a man taking charge
This is the epitome of turning a speeding ticket into a death sentence with just a clever play of words.
Fantastic story, one of the best ones I’ve heard for a while. 🏆😎
Glad you enjoyed it
This is fake as hell, but hilarious 😂😅😂
Agreed! So entertaining.
even if this is fake, there are lots of men that have done similar, many forced to as the support payments are more than they earn.
Nooooo...really. Its fake?!
@@adamsmith1306 yeah, duhh 😆
It maybe fake. However, it's a great RED PILL 💊 content.
It reads like an Adam Sandler movie. Even the characters sound like Adam Sandler friends
That’s why our justice system is so fucked up. Many judges don’t care about what’s right and wrong they can make a judgement if they want to if something is right or wrong but they aren’t held to judge in right and wrong only to judge on laws.
The man is a legend.
Epic twist at the end with the judge, I love poetic justice.
This dude sounds like a certified "Chad"😂😂😂
This is so much interesting, have loved it so much, my gosh, this man has the best attitude he is not asmip. I like this man
"This story hit home. Emotionally charged and thought-provoking. 💔✨"
Thoroughly enjoyed this story 👌
This was one hell of a story . The man made his divorce and his assets air tight and she got next to nothing and made the judge impotent and that bit of irony with her experiencing the same thing she tried to put him through . Karmas a bitch and its cool hes living his best life and stood on business and principles in the face of insane corruption from one man to the next i salute you .
Interesting story, if there was a Trust setup he would not have had to do any of that, cause a Trust is outside of the jurisdiction of the court, and they could not have done anything to the man.
Damn that was a one side verdict. Do pay all that the husband would have had to making a million a month.
Great story. This one is a keeper lol
90 days is the max. She can't keep extending it
so are you ready to apologize,no you b,have sucked a sausage lately.
90 days max for one contempt charge but a judge if they so choose can just keep you there with multiple contempt charges for not following the judges orders or for what he says the the judge
I appreciate a man with a plan.
Respect!
OP is petty , I like that it
keeps you focus.
These writers have more credibility and creativity than Hollywood writers. I find this more entertaining than what we see on television.
I replayed the courtroom part so many times 😂😂😂😂
Love this dude he was methodical in his planning
I feel like I just read "The Count of Monte Cristo" again !!! So THAT is what it takes to escape an Unfair and Unjust/Corrupt System ? WOW !
Why in the world would they put a man-hater on the bench as a judge? That just shows you how broken the judicial system really is.
Its just the unfortunate reality in blue states, the entire order of society has been broken.
most family court judges are man haters or simps its why marriage is such a raw deal now and should not even be considered at all
This would make one hell of a movie .
This is more entertaining than most modern movies.
This story is just too good to be true.
3500 a month, more than half of everything he built and he still has to pay for everything?
Can't understand why he'd be upset.
Especially when she was the one doing everything wrong.
What a ridiculous fantasy. I wish things like this can happen in real life.
Things like that HAVE happened before and still happen to this day.
I once met an englishman in Barbados who did that. Except he didnt spend a day in jail. He just transferred all of their money, sold his company and liqidated it. Closed all the accounts and left the country on a business trip that never ended to this day.
I got the shit end too like this guy in my marriage, I downsized my life paid little support according to my income and lived humbly but happy, Built my life up better later .today she is shrieking harpie no one cares about meanwhile I make good money and drive a supercar.
This needs to be a movie. I’d play it on loop.
I love this story.
Too bad it is partially true that they always reward the wayward spouse.
This man is a kindred soul. This was the most enjoyable reddit I've heard in quite some time.
9:46 Why that prick married her if he despised her from the beginning?
Because she was beautiful. That's all it takes for some men - a pretty face.
@@sienkiewiczmonika1161 Yeah. He described his new lover the same superficial way: her body and $ex are great. He didn't say that he fell in love, he didn't say he likes her. Nothing about truly important things.
Turn the other cheek is not meant to enable abuse. It really means to bear the pain without lashing out, and level the playing field.
The path to victory is never an easy one, but it's almost always the rewarding one.
If Malicious Compliance was a story 😂
He said "you're all probably thinking i'm the asshole right about now" nah, he seems cool; I would buy him a few beers if he's ever in town.
OP should have demanded court ordered paternity tests on the kids and then sued to have his name removed from the birth certificates. He also needed a much better lawyer.
A better lawyer would not help with a biased judge like the one in this story
@@jld12er , but a private detective/private investigator, as well as connections to higher level judges, WOULD help that matter, though. Show all of the corruption to the media with the copies of the evidence that you have, arm your vehicle, and make...allies to assist you, and a lot of them, and they will learn that you mean business. Also, make sure that you check your food and always pay attention to things, as those jerks will try to infiltrate your house.
@paxhumana2015 sorry but no everyone already knows family court is biased and corrupt but nobody does anything do you know why Politics and money. Yes there is too much money to be made doing things this way from child support alimony and lawyer costs then there is the case most judges get hired from elections and who has one of the most active and wrll funded lobbies that would be the feminist lobby and they like it this way heck they actually lobbied for it to be this biased and judges like all politicians and trust me they are politicians all want the female vote so sorry the only way to change things is by enough men to say screw it and not marry or cohabitation with women