They should have asked him who he met at the airport , whom ALSO had the same plans: not to get married. (I wish i could upload the text message screenshots 😭)
It's a shame that Laura got off completely clean, when it was clear that even her family knew that she was awful, she treated Jeremy badly, she treated AD badly, she pushed Jessica to do a Sarah ann, and is allergic to taking responsibility.
I feel like the people who join on Zoom always get off clean. We saw the same thing with the Jackie and Josh situation in season 4. *_even her family knew that she was awful_* - Her parents saying that she walks all over men if they let her, was WILD.
@@naturalnaela maybe Trevor should have tried that strategy lol. How come you're such a piece of crap Trevor? Errr sorry looks like my mic isnt working, ask me again later
They went hard on sarah ann but not hard enough on jeramy. Also, i feel like they diminished jimmys feelings about the off camera 'secret'. I personally feel, if you tell me something off camera its STAYING off camera. He had every right to be upset
Someone said Jeramey is getting less heat bc it seems like he's more willing to take accountability, while Sarah Ann seems to be trying to explain or give excuses...idk why it is but I think everyone needs to move on atp. I agree about Jimmy's secret...it was a huge breach of trust and I still don't really see that Chelsea understands that. Now his friends is mad at him and Chelsea is chilling.
Thx for recapping the season! 😊 Hope you rvw the Perfect Match. I agree that reunion was mostly to pump up the brand but it was good overall, an improvement. HBD🎉
It's been a while, so maybe Clay is a lot healthier. But I have a sneaking suspicion that he's just smooth as hell 😅 Also ad, dating matthew, oh my what are you doing girl?
I believe Clay is putting in the work, I just hope he continues to do the work. A year really is not enough lol. I think AD always wondered about Matt. Don't get me wrong, she would have been very happy with Clay but she def wondered about Matt
I'm with you in that sliver of a minority😅 that thinks Sarah ann was picked on. Seemed like Jessica was on the attack for no real reason during the reunion, Chelsea too. And also that Chelsea's silly little comment was anything but. She was borderline abusive to Jimmy and we just totally waved it away. All in all your summary is right on the money and thanks for putting it up!
We are a small few lol. I wonder if Jess is feeling so strongly about it bc she wishes she would have ended up with Jimmy and she's envious of Sarah Ann for actually going for it. 🤔 Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and watching! 🤎
Let's be honest, it's because Chelsea and Laura are Becky's, if a black woman was treating Jimmy or anybody the way that Chelsea does... everyone would have attacked her and spoken out about it especially on social media.
I noticed this online too, Karen's and Becky's felt sorry for Chelsea and it's because they identify with her, and her toxic behavior, birds of a feather flock together 😂
@@naturalnaela I kind of read it as Jess wanting to stay relevant. Jimmy's interview seemed so innocuous and she's acting like it was unforgivable. She's probably still confused how Chelsea was picked from the pods --hey I'm the hot articulate one and look at these messes around me, how come I'm not the star yet😭
Nah Jess and Sarah didn't do the same thing. Jess never reached out to Jimmy. She also took full accountability and admitted that even considering it was wrong and apologized. Sarah Ann came in hot with no remorse or regrets.
I feel despise the fact that I can see your point to how Jessica is giving a pass and not Sara-anne but I feel you cannot condone people for intention, but you can condone people for action. Jessica plot the idea, but she did not act on it so it’s not about her not getting the man more about the fact she didn’t act on it and Sarah-anne did. And I’m inclined to believe that if she would have act on it, Jimmy would have expose her (Jessica)so no, it’s not the same.
Fair is fair if Jess was wrong for TALKING about Jimmy, Sarah Ann was wrong for meeting up w/ Jeremy & possibly hooking up, I've never been so interested by a man so much we talked from 11am -6pm at his home. 😶🌫
I think it is completely wrong to try to make Jess even remotely equal to Sarah, and in terms of morality. It’s a disservice to and attack on Jess’s character to equate Jess’ general comments on her attraction to Jiimmy and wondering how she would feel when she might talk to him when she sees him ( which they all know they will when Netflix, put them together like they do every season) in no way makes her at all at the same level as Sarah Anns blatant disregard of a valid engagement (that can lead to marriage and therefore is valid and just as real and binding as any other agreement/PROMISE between two people, how can you trust them otherwise??) and the reaching out… A.k.a. action, not thought which is different!!…
The difference between jessica and sarah ann is cause jessica was all talk and never stepped over a boundary, but sarah ann ran over it. The message wasn't bad bad from sarah ann but ik i only text someone like that when i want them to choose me 😗 but she also just saw the show as entertainment so maybe she didn't think it'd matter cause the show ain't real 🤷♀️
I feel like Jess might be envious of Sarah Ann for actually going for it, and it's coming out as "you didn't handle it right and I did!!" I keep saying it but I just can't have that energy for a show where they only know their fiances for 2 weeks, anything can happen and that's evident in the fact that only one couple is married rn.
Sarah Ann said if things don’t work out she would be open to seeing him again, which is exactly how Jessica felt about Jimmy. She didn’t specifically say that but that’s what was implied. The only difference is Sarah Ann got picked and Jess didn’t.
Jessica is the LIB Kardashianque sweet heart, so they weren't gonna go too hard on her. Everyone was being a mean girl towards Sarah Ann, including Amy, AD and Chelsea. But not hard enough on Jeramey. The nerve of Jeramey calling Jimmy the villian. Jeramey's a jerk. I think they were easy on Chelsea regarding the Megan Fox thing because she was being dragged so brutally on social media. But I did want someone to ask why she brought up looks in the experiment. Also if is she in therapy, because of her emotionally abusive behavior.
Jess is living in that pretty privilege lol, it really might just be that. Yeah idk, I just feel like regardless of how they feel about Sarah Ann, ganging up on her like that is just uncalled for...it's been a year, let's move forward. But, to be fair...Jimmy was the villian for a bit lol before we saw that Chelsea was insecure, we thought Jimmy was just a jerk. Jeramey looks worse though. *_They were easy on Chelsea regarding the Megan Fox thing because she was being dragged so brutally on social media._* - Fair. She has been getting dragged about that. I do think she got off easy in regards to how she treated Jimmy, bringing up that thing about his friend was another calculated move on her part.
Why weren't you here for the right reasons?? "Why don't you vet people, why do you hunt people with popular instagrams, why did you allow Lydia and Uche to stay" Why did you betray his trust and share that on camera? ” why did y'all are air it on TV??" Love is blind is a magical place where everyone always comes for the right reasons, other than trevor, it's a great way to get married. "180 people tried this, and only 18 are still married, and this includes a few seemingly toxic marriages, with lots of bitterness and sadness and heartbreak along the way, multiple lawsuits, and with people more likely to come to the reunion having already met someone else then still be with a pod match." Trevor is the worst, but I just can't take the self-righteousness. Sarah Ann is right, it's a very entertaining shitshow, but I won't be lied to and told that it's this beautiful paradise.
😂😂 No bc all of this is so true. "We're not here for entertainment" Really? I cannot tell, we're entertained lol. I think they don't want to admit that bc they feel like it will take away from the experiment/experience, but it's reality TV which is, and has always been entertainment first.
Them scolding Sarah Ann for her entertainment video when literally having Trevor on for 5mins of shame was ALLL entertainment … also Chelsea is a mean girl with her fucking comments towards Sarah Ann? Chelsea can dish it but clearly she couldn’t take it if the producers explicitly chose not to hold her actions accountable at the reunion - and she shitalks them being broken up? j says they’ve had ups and downs but ultimately they want to work on it and choose the relationship - Chelsea were you the one harping on this while begging jimmy not to break up with you because of your actions (regardless of her intentions or insecurities). Imo Chelsea talks so much shit to SA when SA literally has her man from the pods?!?! I think she’s jealous that their relationship is still going strong and she meangirls SA to be in villains Laura and Jess’ good graces 💀
I enjoyed the reunion but it was messy and although Ken and jimmy weren’t really questioned about there issues hopefully ad knows her worth and leave him alone
Vanessa and Nick go in on the trevor and Sarah for entertaiment and fame but then they introduced Jessica, Easy And Micah are all Serious love is blind contestants but they are all single again and going now to perfect match. so this 3 are not going for fame and money and fame
If Sarah Ann meant the apology to Laura at the lake house why did she come with all that heat to the reunion? Also after apologizing to Laura that day for stealing her man that week she then did the jet skis. something is not adding up. People are absolving her of her actions, but I think her actions are wrong outside of the message that she sent. And she should just stand in that. Jeremy doesn't seem to care one way or the other, but at least knows how to apologize for it to shut it down. That's why Sarah Anne gets more heat than he does. Because she wants to defend her wrong actions and still get the supposed prize. I don't think either of them should suffer. They have a right to be together they should just accept the heat that comes with that
I think Sarah Ann went to the reunion with the heat bc they had all been coming at her as a group. Jess removed her from the cast groupchat, Chelsea was sitting there telling her no one was ever mean to her while Jess was yelling at her, then Chelsea threw shade about her and Jeramey "always being broken up", AD was coming at her at the lake. I'm not expecting Sarah Ann to sit there and take all that calmly. We forget that AD was shaking her butt in front of Jimmy at that mixer when she found out he liked her body...is that ok? BC no one ever vilified her for that. Laura encouraged Jess to reach out to Jimmy... My POV: A man or woman can't be "stolen" someone leaves bc that's what they want to do. Laura was making Jeramey feel away during that vacation, trying to change his style, blowing up at him over beandip when she started it. I agree that the timing of the jet skis was weird and they probably shouldn't have done that but I mean, Laura and Jeramey had already solidified that it was over, before that. Bad taste yes, but he was single.
@@naturalnaela she caught Heat from the group because she disrespected the group. Both she and Jeremy acted in a way to get themselves dejected. Even at the lake house Jimmy and Johnny agreed that they didn't want to be involved in Jeremy nonsense. How do we have better judgment about the treatment she deserves then the people who are actually there and didn't watch edited content? I just think it's weird that people are standing up for Sarah even when the people who were there know that her behavior was inappropriate. She unfollowed the ladies but still follows all the guys. Not cool. also AD wiggled her butt in response to Chelsea when asked how do you get a butt like that. That was not a response to Jimmy. To me it looked like AD had an overall flirtatious Vibe with everyone, both men and women not specific to Jimmy whereas Jeremy was targeted by an ex Sarah Ann. I'm not saying she's wrong to try I'm just saying she should accept the heat.
@@naturalnaela I agree, especially with the truth that people can't be stolen from relationships, people choose infidelity, and people choose to exit out of relationships because they knew or just realized never really work for them in the first place -- some people were already looking for an excuse to leave... cough cough Jeremy.
@Sababbby I don't think the question is whether someone can be stolen. The question is were her actions wrong. Right? If we're defending Sarah Ann, we're saying she wasn't wrong. Put yourself in that situation. If a woman in your friend group pursues your man and he leaves. You have mutual friends. Of course you blame your partner and good riddance, but do you keep that woman in your circle? When your mutual friends are offended by her actions and decide to eject her from the group, do you defend her? When she sees you again and has anger towards you because of the heat she's getting for her actions how do you respond? Honestly, now. No one is defending Jeramey, but no one would really be defending Sarah Ann either, if it were them in Laura's shoes
*_How do we have better judgment about the treatment she deserves then the people who are actually there_* - I agree with this, they do know the situation better than any of us ever will but I guess my thing is...you can not like her but do you all have to gang up on her? It just feels weird to me. I'm not really into people being ganged up on and then being expected not to defend themselves, especially after a year and after y'all have already cut ties with them. All the anger just feels off to me. I understand why they don't like her, I don't understand them handling it this way. Maybe she simply unfollowed the women bc they're the ones being mean and the guys aren't. Me personally, I don't follow people's men, especially not if me and the woman aren't speaking but I can see how that could happen. Laura told her man to touch AD inapproatitely and they found a way to make it past that, I think they simply don't like Sarah Ann, which is fine but then why spend all this energy hating her?
That was cringy as hell with Trevor. Let’s be real though, I feel like there’s a piece in every one of these people on this show that is hoping for gained clout
I think the difference between Sarah Anne and Jessica is the fact that Sarah Anne acted on it. Don’t get me wrong I was still looking sideways at Jess bc that was total mean girl energy, but at the end of the day she didn’t actually go and contact Jimmy about possibly getting together. I don’t care for either of them, and at the end of the day the biggest A-hole is Jeramy BY FAR, but I do think it makes a difference the thoughts you have in your head vs acting on them.
Yeah, I def understand that that's the reason people are upset about it. I agree that there is a huge difference in thoughts you have in your head vs acting on them and in any regular situation I would be mad at Sarah Ann too. I just can't see myself keeping that same energy for a show where he only knew his fiance for about two weeks, and in person, less time than that 😭 I 100% still think Jeramey was in the wrong and should be held accountable bc he was the one in the relationship, but Sarah Ann didn't sway him, he was already looking her way.
@@naturalnaela I get what you’re saying about 2 weeks not being enough time for us to take it that seriously, but I saw someone else make a comment about how if you’re going into this you kinda have to buy into the premise of it (the “it’s serious, and we’re gonna get married”) for it to work out, which is probably why people, specially the ones directly involved with the show, felt so upset about Sarah Ann’s behaviour and her comments afterwards. When it comes to Jessica though, I’m gonna give her some grace and assume she was embarrassed in retrospect about how she acted/what she said (at least that’s what it looked like to me when she tried walking back her comments at the beach with Jimmy), and probably sees some of her worst traits reflected in Sarah Ann… people do tend to lash out at the ones who remind them of their weaker parts.
They should have asked him who he met at the airport , whom ALSO had the same plans: not to get married. (I wish i could upload the text message screenshots 😭)
OMG THIS!!! I really wanna know who that was. Maybe it was one of the men who didn't really get screen time, but that would have been so nice to know.
It's a shame that Laura got off completely clean, when it was clear that even her family knew that she was awful, she treated Jeremy badly, she treated AD badly, she pushed Jessica to do a Sarah ann, and is allergic to taking responsibility.
I feel like the people who join on Zoom always get off clean. We saw the same thing with the Jackie and Josh situation in season 4.
*_even her family knew that she was awful_* - Her parents saying that she walks all over men if they let her, was WILD.
Big facts!
@@naturalnaela maybe Trevor should have tried that strategy lol. How come you're such a piece of crap Trevor? Errr sorry looks like my mic isnt working, ask me again later
I think it’s because what Jeremy did was worse, so she got off the hook
Girll was waiting for your recapp!!
I know!!! I’m sorry. My 9-5 been trying to take me out this week 😩😩
No worries!! The quality of this recap didn't miss, worth the waitt! @@naturalnaela
I love how everyone still mixes up Jimmy Jeramy and Johnnys names
It was confirmed that Chelsea didn’t start her casting job till season 8. Which have already been filmed. They are currently working on season 9.
They went hard on sarah ann but not hard enough on jeramy.
Also, i feel like they diminished jimmys feelings about the off camera 'secret'. I personally feel, if you tell me something off camera its STAYING off camera. He had every right to be upset
Ohh .. you're right
Someone said Jeramey is getting less heat bc it seems like he's more willing to take accountability, while Sarah Ann seems to be trying to explain or give excuses...idk why it is but I think everyone needs to move on atp.
I agree about Jimmy's secret...it was a huge breach of trust and I still don't really see that Chelsea understands that. Now his friends is mad at him and Chelsea is chilling.
Thx for recapping the season! 😊 Hope you rvw the Perfect Match. I agree that reunion was mostly to pump up the brand but it was good overall, an improvement. HBD🎉
Clay is just pised that AD had a couple of dates with Matthew 😂😂
He just might be but imma need him to get over it 🤣
Thank you for the great reviews! Happy BD and See ya in April!
Laura and Chelsea got off lightly
Yeah Netflix must really like them
It's been a while, so maybe Clay is a lot healthier. But I have a sneaking suspicion that he's just smooth as hell 😅
Also ad, dating matthew, oh my what are you doing girl?
I believe Clay is putting in the work, I just hope he continues to do the work. A year really is not enough lol. I think AD always wondered about Matt. Don't get me wrong, she would have been very happy with Clay but she def wondered about Matt
Chelsea didn’t join the casting team until season 8 😭 (they’ve already filmed through season 11)
Damn so who can we blame for this 😭😭
Yeah we said this already about Chelsea not casting S6 on your live. 😅
listen, I'm liable to forget lol@@marshajulessa2995
@@naturalnaela maybe that’s why they brought her in to better vet people as someone who’s gone through it 😭
I'm with you in that sliver of a minority😅 that thinks Sarah ann was picked on. Seemed like Jessica was on the attack for no real reason during the reunion, Chelsea too. And also that Chelsea's silly little comment was anything but. She was borderline abusive to Jimmy and we just totally waved it away. All in all your summary is right on the money and thanks for putting it up!
We are a small few lol. I wonder if Jess is feeling so strongly about it bc she wishes she would have ended up with Jimmy and she's envious of Sarah Ann for actually going for it. 🤔 Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and watching! 🤎
Let's be honest, it's because Chelsea and Laura are Becky's, if a black woman was treating Jimmy or anybody the way that Chelsea does... everyone would have attacked her and spoken out about it especially on social media.
I noticed this online too, Karen's and Becky's felt sorry for Chelsea and it's because they identify with her, and her toxic behavior, birds of a feather flock together 😂
@@naturalnaela I kind of read it as Jess wanting to stay relevant. Jimmy's interview seemed so innocuous and she's acting like it was unforgivable. She's probably still confused how Chelsea was picked from the pods --hey I'm the hot articulate one and look at these messes around me, how come I'm not the star yet😭
Girly enjoy your birthday moth and your time off, can't wait for next videos ❤
A moth is an insect loool
Thank you so much!! 🫶🏾 I'll see you here in April!
@@Poeticfloetic so a missing letter is what bothered you so much you had to speak out ?
Nah Jess and Sarah didn't do the same thing. Jess never reached out to Jimmy. She also took full accountability and admitted that even considering it was wrong and apologized. Sarah Ann came in hot with no remorse or regrets.
I feel despise the fact that I can see your point to how Jessica is giving a pass and not Sara-anne but I feel you cannot condone people for intention, but you can condone people for action. Jessica plot the idea, but she did not act on it so it’s not about her not getting the man more about the fact she didn’t act on it and Sarah-anne did. And I’m inclined to believe that if she would have act on it, Jimmy would have expose her (Jessica)so no, it’s not the same.
The Megan Fox comparison was hilarious! I 🤣 because the dude was DUPED.
Fair is fair if Jess was wrong for TALKING about Jimmy, Sarah Ann was wrong for meeting up w/ Jeremy & possibly hooking up, I've never been so interested by a man so much we talked from 11am -6pm at his home. 😶🌫
I need another 2 pairs of legs - one for AD so she can finally STAND UP 🤯 and one so I can keep 2 feet permanently on Clay’s neck 🧐
❤️😂😂
Chelsea started her casting job for season 8 apparently, so she was not in charge of this season! But season 8 I will be keeping an eye on.
Then hopefully she’ll make it better bc this was bad and season 5 was worse
I think it is completely wrong to try to make Jess even remotely equal to Sarah, and in terms of morality. It’s a disservice to and attack on Jess’s character to equate Jess’ general comments on her attraction to Jiimmy and wondering how she would feel when she might talk to him when she sees him ( which they all know they will when Netflix, put them together like they do every season) in no way makes her at all at the same level as Sarah Anns blatant disregard of a valid engagement (that can lead to marriage and therefore is valid and just as real and binding as any other agreement/PROMISE between two people, how can you trust them otherwise??) and the reaching out… A.k.a. action, not thought which is different!!…
The difference between jessica and sarah ann is cause jessica was all talk and never stepped over a boundary, but sarah ann ran over it. The message wasn't bad bad from sarah ann but ik i only text someone like that when i want them to choose me 😗 but she also just saw the show as entertainment so maybe she didn't think it'd matter cause the show ain't real 🤷♀️
I feel like Jess might be envious of Sarah Ann for actually going for it, and it's coming out as "you didn't handle it right and I did!!"
I keep saying it but I just can't have that energy for a show where they only know their fiances for 2 weeks, anything can happen and that's evident in the fact that only one couple is married rn.
Sarah Ann said if things don’t work out she would be open to seeing him again, which is exactly how Jessica felt about Jimmy. She didn’t specifically say that but that’s what was implied. The only difference is Sarah Ann got picked and Jess didn’t.
THIS@@blaqsiren6008
Jessica is the LIB Kardashianque sweet heart, so they weren't gonna go too hard on her. Everyone was being a mean girl towards Sarah Ann, including Amy, AD and Chelsea. But not hard enough on Jeramey. The nerve of Jeramey calling Jimmy the villian. Jeramey's a jerk.
I think they were easy on Chelsea regarding the Megan Fox thing because she was being dragged so brutally on social media. But I did want someone to ask why she brought up looks in the experiment. Also if is she in therapy, because of her emotionally abusive behavior.
I mean Jimmy is the one who asked, unless I am remembering it wrong
She brought up the celebrity look-alike conversation@@Ash-xt1ej
Nope, Chelsea brought it up just to say the Megan Fox thing.
Jess is living in that pretty privilege lol, it really might just be that. Yeah idk, I just feel like regardless of how they feel about Sarah Ann, ganging up on her like that is just uncalled for...it's been a year, let's move forward.
But, to be fair...Jimmy was the villian for a bit lol before we saw that Chelsea was insecure, we thought Jimmy was just a jerk. Jeramey looks worse though.
*_They were easy on Chelsea regarding the Megan Fox thing because she was being dragged so brutally on social media._* - Fair. She has been getting dragged about that.
I do think she got off easy in regards to how she treated Jimmy, bringing up that thing about his friend was another calculated move on her part.
Trevor Trevor Trevor 😭🚮😂
I cannot believe he fumbled his redemption arc that poorly 😭
Why weren't you here for the right reasons??
"Why don't you vet people, why do you hunt people with popular instagrams, why did you allow Lydia and Uche to stay"
Why did you betray his trust and share that on camera?
” why did y'all are air it on TV??"
Love is blind is a magical place where everyone always comes for the right reasons, other than trevor, it's a great way to get married.
"180 people tried this, and only 18 are still married, and this includes a few seemingly toxic marriages, with lots of bitterness and sadness and heartbreak along the way, multiple lawsuits, and with people more likely to come to the reunion having already met someone else then still be with a pod match."
Trevor is the worst, but I just can't take the self-righteousness. Sarah Ann is right, it's a very entertaining shitshow, but I won't be lied to and told that it's this beautiful paradise.
😂😂 No bc all of this is so true. "We're not here for entertainment" Really? I cannot tell, we're entertained lol.
I think they don't want to admit that bc they feel like it will take away from the experiment/experience, but it's reality TV which is, and has always been entertainment first.
@@naturalnaela for sure, they will always do the pr stuff. I can't blame them but I don't give it applause either 😅
Totally agree with you regarding the Sarah Ann and Jess double standard!
Chelsea is casting for season 8. But I think they didn’t say that and announced it the way they did to throw her under the bus.
I am so over Jessica. She shouldn’t have been at the reunion. She took up time that was supposed to go to Jimmy & Chelsea and Kenneth & Britney.
She came ready to fight, that's for sure. I have liked her throughout the season but yeah I didn't like how she acted at the reunion
Them scolding Sarah Ann for her entertainment video when literally having Trevor on for 5mins of shame was ALLL entertainment … also Chelsea is a mean girl with her fucking comments towards Sarah Ann? Chelsea can dish it but clearly she couldn’t take it if the producers explicitly chose not to hold her actions accountable at the reunion - and she shitalks them being broken up? j says they’ve had ups and downs but ultimately they want to work on it and choose the relationship - Chelsea were you the one harping on this while begging jimmy not to break up with you because of your actions (regardless of her intentions or insecurities). Imo Chelsea talks so much shit to SA when SA literally has her man from the pods?!?! I think she’s jealous that their relationship is still going strong and she meangirls SA to be in villains Laura and Jess’ good graces 💀
I enjoyed the reunion but it was messy and although Ken and jimmy weren’t really questioned about there issues hopefully ad knows her worth and leave him alone
It was def messy, but I feel like that's what they wanted this season.
@@naturalnaela so true
guys, correct me if I'm wrong - Laura looks so familiar - was she on The Bachelor before?
Vanessa and Nick go in on the trevor and Sarah for entertaiment and fame but then they introduced Jessica, Easy And Micah are all Serious love is blind contestants but they are all single again and going now to perfect match. so this 3 are not going for fame and money and fame
You know Im witchu! The Sara Ann witch hunt was very unnecessary, and they let Chelsea AND Laura off the hook for bad behavior.
How can you want to exist as a regular couple when you meet on love is blind and still living of the brand... these people are desilusional.
If Sarah Ann meant the apology to Laura at the lake house why did she come with all that heat to the reunion? Also after apologizing to Laura that day for stealing her man that week she then did the jet skis. something is not adding up. People are absolving her of her actions, but I think her actions are wrong outside of the message that she sent. And she should just stand in that. Jeremy doesn't seem to care one way or the other, but at least knows how to apologize for it to shut it down. That's why Sarah Anne gets more heat than he does. Because she wants to defend her wrong actions and still get the supposed prize. I don't think either of them should suffer. They have a right to be together they should just accept the heat that comes with that
I think Sarah Ann went to the reunion with the heat bc they had all been coming at her as a group. Jess removed her from the cast groupchat, Chelsea was sitting there telling her no one was ever mean to her while Jess was yelling at her, then Chelsea threw shade about her and Jeramey "always being broken up", AD was coming at her at the lake. I'm not expecting Sarah Ann to sit there and take all that calmly.
We forget that AD was shaking her butt in front of Jimmy at that mixer when she found out he liked her body...is that ok? BC no one ever vilified her for that. Laura encouraged Jess to reach out to Jimmy...
My POV: A man or woman can't be "stolen" someone leaves bc that's what they want to do. Laura was making Jeramey feel away during that vacation, trying to change his style, blowing up at him over beandip when she started it.
I agree that the timing of the jet skis was weird and they probably shouldn't have done that but I mean, Laura and Jeramey had already solidified that it was over, before that. Bad taste yes, but he was single.
@@naturalnaela she caught Heat from the group because she disrespected the group. Both she and Jeremy acted in a way to get themselves dejected. Even at the lake house Jimmy and Johnny agreed that they didn't want to be involved in Jeremy nonsense. How do we have better judgment about the treatment she deserves then the people who are actually there and didn't watch edited content? I just think it's weird that people are standing up for Sarah even when the people who were there know that her behavior was inappropriate. She unfollowed the ladies but still follows all the guys. Not cool. also AD wiggled her butt in response to Chelsea when asked how do you get a butt like that. That was not a response to Jimmy. To me it looked like AD had an overall flirtatious Vibe with everyone, both men and women not specific to Jimmy whereas Jeremy was targeted by an ex Sarah Ann. I'm not saying she's wrong to try I'm just saying she should accept the heat.
@@naturalnaela I agree, especially with the truth that people can't be stolen from relationships, people choose infidelity, and people choose to exit out of relationships because they knew or just realized never really work for them in the first place -- some people were already looking for an excuse to leave... cough cough Jeremy.
@Sababbby I don't think the question is whether someone can be stolen. The question is were her actions wrong. Right? If we're defending Sarah Ann, we're saying she wasn't wrong. Put yourself in that situation. If a woman in your friend group pursues your man and he leaves. You have mutual friends. Of course you blame your partner and good riddance, but do you keep that woman in your circle? When your mutual friends are offended by her actions and decide to eject her from the group, do you defend her? When she sees you again and has anger towards you because of the heat she's getting for her actions how do you respond? Honestly, now. No one is defending Jeramey, but no one would really be defending Sarah Ann either, if it were them in Laura's shoes
*_How do we have better judgment about the treatment she deserves then the people who are actually there_* - I agree with this, they do know the situation better than any of us ever will but I guess my thing is...you can not like her but do you all have to gang up on her? It just feels weird to me. I'm not really into people being ganged up on and then being expected not to defend themselves, especially after a year and after y'all have already cut ties with them. All the anger just feels off to me.
I understand why they don't like her, I don't understand them handling it this way. Maybe she simply unfollowed the women bc they're the ones being mean and the guys aren't. Me personally, I don't follow people's men, especially not if me and the woman aren't speaking but I can see how that could happen.
Laura told her man to touch AD inapproatitely and they found a way to make it past that, I think they simply don't like Sarah Ann, which is fine but then why spend all this energy hating her?
That was cringy as hell with Trevor. Let’s be real though, I feel like there’s a piece in every one of these people on this show that is hoping for gained clout
I think the difference between Sarah Anne and Jessica is the fact that Sarah Anne acted on it. Don’t get me wrong I was still looking sideways at Jess bc that was total mean girl energy, but at the end of the day she didn’t actually go and contact Jimmy about possibly getting together. I don’t care for either of them, and at the end of the day the biggest A-hole is Jeramy BY FAR, but I do think it makes a difference the thoughts you have in your head vs acting on them.
Yeah, I def understand that that's the reason people are upset about it. I agree that there is a huge difference in thoughts you have in your head vs acting on them and in any regular situation I would be mad at Sarah Ann too. I just can't see myself keeping that same energy for a show where he only knew his fiance for about two weeks, and in person, less time than that 😭
I 100% still think Jeramey was in the wrong and should be held accountable bc he was the one in the relationship, but Sarah Ann didn't sway him, he was already looking her way.
@@naturalnaela I get what you’re saying about 2 weeks not being enough time for us to take it that seriously, but I saw someone else make a comment about how if you’re going into this you kinda have to buy into the premise of it (the “it’s serious, and we’re gonna get married”) for it to work out, which is probably why people, specially the ones directly involved with the show, felt so upset about Sarah Ann’s behaviour and her comments afterwards. When it comes to Jessica though, I’m gonna give her some grace and assume she was embarrassed in retrospect about how she acted/what she said (at least that’s what it looked like to me when she tried walking back her comments at the beach with Jimmy), and probably sees some of her worst traits reflected in Sarah Ann… people do tend to lash out at the ones who remind them of their weaker parts.