Naila, hi! I watched this podcast about the breakup of your relationship. Thank you for your bravery. I don't think it's dirty laundry. Some of the things from your podcast resonate very much. I broke up with my girlfriend in July. And I also drew some conclusions. 1. It is necessary to check the time on each other's watches every day. How we feel in different situations. Ask each other this, don't be shy. 2. Deep emotional connection. When was the last time we talked about something intimate? Not about work, hobbies, but about something hidden? 3. The balance between being the perfect husband/wife and dissolving into another person. I still don't understand how to find this balance. Although I am already 33 years old. But you definitely can't lose yourself in another person. But where is this balance? 4. Don't let things take their course. Nothing will resolve by itself. You need to carefully monitor the signals. 5. Intuition. Strangely enough, intuition is stronger than logical consciousness. Because intuition is consciousness, only its ancient reptilian part. You need to listen to the voice of intuition. Ps. I didn't understand all things for 100 percent (language barrier). But I understood most of the podcast. I'm learning English from your videos. Good luck. You are grandiose and brave. I understand that it's still hard for you. I understand you. I want to say that I'm hugging you, but we don't know each other. I'm sure you can handle it. And of course your experience will be useful to you in the following relationships. Wisdom and experience. Everything that doesn't kill us makes us stronger (Nietzsche).
Naila, hi!
I watched this podcast about the breakup of your relationship. Thank you for your bravery. I don't think it's dirty laundry.
Some of the things from your podcast resonate very much. I broke up with my girlfriend in July.
And I also drew some conclusions.
1. It is necessary to check the time on each other's watches every day. How we feel in different situations. Ask each other this, don't be shy.
2. Deep emotional connection. When was the last time we talked about something intimate? Not about work, hobbies, but about something hidden?
3. The balance between being the perfect husband/wife and dissolving into another person. I still don't understand how to find this balance. Although I am already 33 years old. But you definitely can't lose yourself in another person. But where is this balance?
4. Don't let things take their course. Nothing will resolve by itself. You need to carefully monitor the signals.
5. Intuition. Strangely enough, intuition is stronger than logical consciousness.
Because intuition is consciousness, only its ancient reptilian part. You need to listen to the voice of intuition.
Ps. I didn't understand all things for 100 percent (language barrier). But I understood most of the podcast. I'm learning English from your videos.
Good luck. You are grandiose and brave. I understand that it's still hard for you. I understand you. I want to say that I'm hugging you, but we don't know each other. I'm sure you can handle it. And of course your experience will be useful to you in the following relationships. Wisdom and experience.
Everything that doesn't kill us makes us stronger (Nietzsche).
Thank you for this comment. I agree with the those questions they are so important 🙌🏽
REAL TALK 🙏🏾💛🌈