rexleej If this ain't my family nothing is I got two sisters we don't agree but the last thing you want to do is mess with one of us cause we'll get together and roll up on you
sugabaybee22 Thats the ??? I ask errtime i see this scene i dont even talk ta my exs so the damn sho aint coming. Ta my wedding. Not that ima eva get married.
I love Big Momma 🥺💕⭐️ she always knew how to solve a problem and put things back in order so gracefully. That’s why they fell apart the way they did when she passed...
Lol seriously I'm not the most innocent guy out there, but who is that stupid to dance with another chick on their wedding day? Not talking about family, but ANOTHER CHICK!!
Difference between the elders and current generation. They knew how to deescalate a situation. The later generations spend too much time reacting to it.
Red Davis so so soooo true... This generation nowadays don't really give a damn too much anymore because they allow so much of it... And therefore it's against the law if you chastise the new and upcoming for acting on it😔 #thisageisSoSad21stcentury
This scene and Teri going after Faith are the only scenes that I can watch from this movie. I love this scene. It's so sweet how Big Mama and Lem were dancing together.
And this was just the beginning of the movie. What a brilliant way to start of a good film that was made on a budget of only 7.5 million! It's still classic Black American film, I wish folks would bring it up more. The film depended solely on performances, and BOY did the talent deliver!
Diana Chin when she saw big mama dancing instead of his ex, she was smiling. Couldn’t have been me. Smiling my foot. I would’ve still been looking for her and kicking his butt.
To be fair, Vanessa and Vivica look NOTHING alike. Vanessa is light skinned with blue eyes and Vivica is dark brown like a Snickers bar and has Brown eyes. Nia looks nothing like Vanessa either. To be honestly fair, Gina looks much more like Nia and Vivica than Vanessa looks to either of them. Realistically speaking, looks wise, Vanessa should have played the Cousin who Faith, Bird, and Maxine use for money. Lookswise, Maxine should have been the oldest, Faith the Middle, and Bird the youngest, and Teri a Cousin who is the responsible only child who is a Rich Lawyer.....
Now that I look back at this movie Ahmad and Teri was the only ones with sense. Ahmad was trying to keep the family together right along with big momma before she died then he had to take on her job basically. Teri was basically a ATM like she said “Automatically Teri’s Money” and basically got betrayed by her sister and her cousin.
Lol after rewatching last night. Ahmad didn’t have sense either but he was a child so it makes sense. Cause why ru inviting the home wrecking cousin to Sunday dinner at the end of the movie.
The girl that was dancing with Lem was straight up bold and disrespectful. Like lady how do you dance on another woman's man like that on their wedding day. And sad thing is he didn't even try to resist.
Just because big ma was dancin with him still ain't no excuse for what he was doin I woulda slapped him n walked out . Wouldn't have my pretty face no more🤣
Not excusing what Lem did, but Bird was allowing Simuel to feel her up in her wedding dress. She also took that expensive bracelet from him, instead of giving it back.
Darius Wilder yeah that was lowdown but then probably if her ex wasn't as evil conniving or had that demeanor of a stalkers eye it would have been more of a virtual blessing to Lem... But Lem would have been just as dead wrong and evil if he would have put his hands on her out of context or just anger or if she didn't advise him to either... But Lem handled it the right way... Beat the hell outta the exs ass and then confronted his lady hard about it.... Shooooot i would have been more madder than a hatter on crack too if i found that my girl did that behind my back too... That's that snake in the grass elephant in the room wolf in sheep clothing Satan in Gods house type of crap right there... I love this movie tho but movies like these display and epitomize different lessons of life Learning curves in it though... One of those pictures that you can relate back on and really think about different kinds of family friends and foes you deal with yesterday or everyday.
See BIG mama knew what was about to go down, so she stepped in and calm things down, and all they can do, is to laugh, now she's no fool, big mama didn't want any embarrassment.👍
BAY 16 The line “That’s what she gets, dragging somebody in here who ain’t got nothing and putting them off on family.” Lem is a convicted felon who she married probably to her family’s dismay.
As soon as Maxine said to go beat the girl up.........No Diggity kicked in. It Dr Dre's pianos amped up the scene!!!! That made me want to see a beat down even more!!!!!!!
One of my favorite classic Black movies of all times, I love Byrd’s wedding dress it’s totally unique in these current style crazy of hoochie mama wedding dress and never ending sea of strapless cookie cutter styles.
I'm starting to think that Teri & Maxine never really got along ( even b4 Kenny & Maxine got together). It's always the oldest sibling who tries to control everything.
Yeah I had the same experience some years ago and it was tough on our family as well but the best thing you can do is just pray and try to remember the good times that you had with her and take advantage of the family get-togethers but let some time pass by and slowly over time you would notice your family trying to do little small things to get together and try to recreate the love that you guys had when your Big Mama was with guys on earth and probably the family will come back together because that's the way it was meant to be and that's the way your big mama will want it and the family will realize it.. don't get me wrong you guys will always miss her BUT it will get a little easier over time and you'll see parts of her inside of every single one of you, which will make you laugh, smile and cherish those moments! .. So pray because light will shine soon again on your family and she is looking down from heaven!😊.. you're also in my prayers it may God be with you and your family!🙏😊😊😊
Poor Teri,she couldn't trust her own dayummmm relatives around her men! Maxine took Kenny away from her, and Faith screwed Miles after Teri was gracious enough to let her stay with them. That's a bit too much backstabbing for her to stick around! 😩
I still can't watch this movie. It was SO GOOD but....triggers me and my trauma with my gramma passing. The hospital scene where he sees her legs for the first time.....nope. Too close to home for me! I applaud the makers of this film...it is timeless
I love how even though they dont get along that much, Teri and Max were still ready to whoop some ass for their baby sister
rexleej If this ain't my family nothing is I got two sisters we don't agree but the last thing you want to do is mess with one of us cause we'll get together and roll up on you
rexleej ikr
rexleej djtul
If tytgky
Thats definitely how me and my sisters go to wars for each other. We would have jumped the chick and the husband
But yet they wouldn't do the same for terri though. SMH. This family messed up
why TF are your exes at your wedding? Over my dead body....
girl my wedding in Dec Ain't nobody dancing with my husband But me and my momma
Ronda Hackett Congrats 🍾🎊
sugabaybee22
Thats the ??? I ask errtime i see this scene i dont even talk ta my exs so the damn sho aint coming. Ta my wedding. Not that ima eva get married.
hahahahaha!
sugabaybee22 well she didn't tell him to GTFO of here she misses him
Big Momma already knew her girls were plotting in that bathroom. She handled it 🥺😭😭😭
😆😆 Yu Already know!
😢❤❤❤❤❤
I wonder what big mama said to the ex?
I love Big Momma 🥺💕⭐️ she always knew how to solve a problem and put things back in order so gracefully. That’s why they fell apart the way they did when she passed...
Couldn't of said it better myself
Right because I'd feel lost without my grandmother if she passed.
Sadly that’s why most black families fell apart. Our Big Mamas left us🥹😭😔
💗💗💗
Thats the grandmama that I strive to be❤
"Your man girl" 😂😂🤣🤣 Maxine was such an instigater
"....Bumpin'." 😂😂😂
*_*instigator_**
About to drop a baby and ready to throw hands lol
Gwol Bumpin!!! 🤣🤣
I like how she did that little dance ❤️❤️❤️
MAX: "Terri Why you always gotta let everybody know you paid for everythang"
TERRI: "🗣Cus I DO" 🤣
Lmao that's right Terri, LET EM KNOW 🤣
In '97 everyone was team Maxine
In '22 Everyone is team Teri.
Just in case they forgot 💅🏾.
Terri was a control freak who thought she was smarter than everyone else.
My sister would say "you" to me and I would be like it's true
Vanessa Williams is so beautiful with those pretty eyes.
SHE DOES. ♥️
Lem was so wrong to be bumping with his ex chick when HE JUST MARRIED BYRD! Like where tf do they do that at?! But Big Mama handled it well though.
D Clark He was drunk
@@almightysaww5152 and ? 🥴 pretty sure he knew that wasn’t his wife drunk and all
Anyone knows who played Lem ex?
@@DapperDonzX lisa raye
@@jasonstanley818 Lisa Raye has never been that size. It wasn't her.
Big Momma always knew what to do.
the 90's were the best!
Byrd: "this is my wedding day, I'm supposed to be happy" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 this would be me!
Natasha N me too 😂😂😂😂😩
Her husband was having fun
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥰🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@rileyfreeman1531 while he was drunk & never stop to mention that he's been married.
Lol seriously I'm not the most innocent guy out there, but who is that stupid to dance with another chick on their wedding day? Not talking about family, but ANOTHER CHICK!!
@Dats a paddlin 🤣🤣🤣 You ain't no good
Exactly what I said!
At the reception, in front of both sides of the family. That is extreme disrespect.
That was his EX at that bruh, Lem was just dumb drunk lmfao
Exactly That is disgusting.. I don’t even see the justification of that. If he can do that at his wedding reception what else would he do? 🤔
Neither Simuel or hoochy mama would've made it far out of the wedding without an ass whoopin if they were real.
I'm saying I wouldn't even invite my own ex to my wedding let alone let her ex coming to our wedding just to show out
I'm witcha on that on God PERIODT
I Know I'm Late But Can Someone Please Tell Me Who Played His Ex Gf .
Who played the ex? I can't find it anywhere.
@@smootaaaa7261 let me know when you find out cuz I need to know. She's like untraceable.
“Your man girl bumpin!” Oh Hell Noo🤣🤣😂💀
Difference between the elders and current generation. They knew how to deescalate a situation. The later generations spend too much time reacting to it.
Red Davis so so soooo true... This generation nowadays don't really give a damn too much anymore because they allow so much of it... And therefore it's against the law if you chastise the new and upcoming for acting on it😔 #thisageisSoSad21stcentury
Who raised the new generation ............Yeah
Cartoon Expert they're 15 year old mamas
@@HeyitsBri_ who raised those teen moms?
Bria D exactly from y’all generation dummysss !
I love how Teri is counting the money and Bird snatched it out her hand like “I’m mad and all, but I ain’t that mad” 🤣🤣
Bird probably owe her that money anyway 😂
@@betterthanemril988😂😂😂😂 right!
I know that’s right!!!! Lol
This scene and Teri going after Faith are the only scenes that I can watch from this movie. I love this scene. It's so sweet how Big Mama and Lem were dancing together.
MsRain123 I agree with you.
I love the final Sunday dinner that Ahmad conned everyone into attending. Watching them make that good makes my mouth water.
And this was just the beginning of the movie. What a brilliant way to start of a good film that was made on a budget of only 7.5 million! It's still classic Black American film, I wish folks would bring it up more. The film depended solely on performances, and BOY did the talent deliver!
Definitely sets the tone and characterization
@@kitaboo2245 It made 43 million, it was the budget that was 7.5
I liked the movie from the beginning. I knew I would like it.
Awe she reminds me of my grandmother. *Tears
+NippysGuard that's how I see my grandma because when things in my family get dramatically crazy I see her as the glue that holds us together.
Leave it to the ''Big Mommas'' to always save the day!! Cause Lem was about to lose his limbs dancing with his ex!!
I see what you did there
NellyBelle Ikr? because no matter what drama my family had my grandma always knows what to say to uplift us.
yep, big momma quietly tossed that chick out and changed the subject by dancing with Lem!
Diana Chin when she saw big mama dancing instead of his ex, she was smiling. Couldn’t have been me. Smiling my foot. I would’ve still been looking for her and kicking his butt.
@@marilynsummit1764 Yes! LOL
I love how Lem and Big Mama were dancing 💖💖💖💖
I like Lem's ex. He's crazy for not marrying her.
Seeing this made think of my mama; she was like big mama - always there, my rock. I miss her so much I want to cry.
Sorry for your loss
Awwww I send you my condolences and prayers, sweetie.
I miss my mom to 😰
🙏🏾
Best scene of the movie
Tara Morris One of the best scenes in the movie. The best scene was the dinner they had after Big Mama passed.
Love how uppity and snooty Terry was, yet she was down to throw hands lol
SAME LMAOO
Hell yeah she still gots some hood in her lol you see how quick she pulled that knife out on Miles 😂
She beat up her sister for stealing her man lol
Yup, she was ghetto trash at the core, sort of like Claire Huxtable. If a dude were to do the same, he'd be labeled a dog.
I love how Bird snatch that $ back from Terry that Samuel gave her and put in back in its place!
de o
I just noticed that too lol
Their Names Rhyme, Semuel & Lemuel. Samuel Was Semuel & Lem Was Lemuel.
This movie is so amazing it’s so genuine & relatable
No body made me more emotional and loved than Big Mama. Appreciate your elders people
big Momma always makes things better just like my other grandmothers do in my family tell youtubers do your grandmothers do the same in your family.
aye this is 1 of my favorite movies my grandma is 94 she has out lived all her friends && enemies she's a blessing to the fam!!
Maxine and Teri look like they would be sisters in real life
Not gonna lie as a kid I thought they all were family in real life.
To be fair, Vanessa and Vivica look NOTHING alike. Vanessa is light skinned with blue eyes and Vivica is dark brown like a Snickers bar and has Brown eyes. Nia looks nothing like Vanessa either. To be honestly fair, Gina looks much more like Nia and Vivica than Vanessa looks to either of them. Realistically speaking, looks wise, Vanessa should have played the Cousin who Faith, Bird, and Maxine use for money. Lookswise, Maxine should have been the oldest, Faith the Middle, and Bird the youngest, and Teri a Cousin who is the responsible only child who is a Rich Lawyer.....
Now that I look back at this movie Ahmad and Teri was the only ones with sense. Ahmad was trying to keep the family together right along with big momma before she died then he had to take on her job basically. Teri was basically a ATM like she said “Automatically Teri’s Money” and basically got betrayed by her sister and her cousin.
Lol after rewatching last night. Ahmad didn’t have sense either but he was a child so it makes sense. Cause why ru inviting the home wrecking cousin to Sunday dinner at the end of the movie.
YO BIRD!! BIG MOMMA SAID GET YOUR BLACK ASS OUTTA HERE!!
I scream everytime he says that 😂
Great scene
+kriss kross me too
Big mama kept a lot of us together 💙 RIP grandma Wanda and Grandma Helen ❤️🩹
"Shoot! Whatchu talkin about?... We happy!" 😂😂
That get me every time!!!
Just watching this clip makes me want to watch the movie! I love it!
Vivica reminds me so much of one of my aunts in this scene. She played this role too well 😁😇
Ah man Vivica so.much like my sister!💗
They were ready to ride for their sis lol Iktfr !
The girl that was dancing with Lem was straight up bold and disrespectful. Like lady how do you dance on another woman's man like that on their wedding day. And sad thing is he didn't even try to resist.
Vivica reminds me of Whitney houston in the preachers wife in this scene 😍
This is my favorite scene in this whole movie!
she cool cool i wish i had a grandma like her
Absolute classic. I remember watching this movie before I was old enough to even talk good. ❣️
Me too
Just because big ma was dancin with him still ain't no excuse for what he was doin I woulda slapped him n walked out . Wouldn't have my pretty face no more🤣
After she let Simuel walk in and feel on her tittie she didn't have much room to be mad
@@Lilbro901 facts
Exactly. He was so wrong.
Not excusing what Lem did, but Bird was allowing Simuel to feel her up in her wedding dress. She also took that expensive bracelet from him, instead of giving it back.
@@blpalv15 yup red flags
Big Momma took care of Business!
Because she bout it lol. Aka... My family
Big momma had to whoop some a##😂💩
Big Momma doin the Bankhead bounce always makes emotional man. That was my grandma dance moves 😂 I love this film
Mannnnnn if Vanessa Williams, Vivica A Fox and Nia Long were sisters in real life every dude when be tryna holla nonstop
I just noticed how Bird snatched that bill back🤣😂🤣😂
I was watching this classic yesterday
For our family it was my grandaddy, when he passed away everything changed. Its like we ain’t even a family no more
I love this film, just rewatched it on dvd
Lem coming to the shop was my favorite screen.... he was about to beat her ass😂
He wasn't that stupid though, just shook her a little.
LifeIsNotorious why
C. Jackson abuse normalized...get help
Darius Wilder yeah that was lowdown but then probably if her ex wasn't as evil conniving or had that demeanor of a stalkers eye it would have been more of a virtual blessing to Lem... But Lem would have been just as dead wrong and evil if he would have put his hands on her out of context or just anger or if she didn't advise him to either... But Lem handled it the right way... Beat the hell outta the exs ass and then confronted his lady hard about it.... Shooooot i would have been more madder than a hatter on crack too if i found that my girl did that behind my back too... That's that snake in the grass elephant in the room wolf in sheep clothing Satan in Gods house type of crap right there... I love this movie tho but movies like these display and epitomize different lessons of life Learning curves in it though... One of those pictures that you can relate back on and really think about different kinds of family friends and foes you deal with yesterday or everyday.
Yasika Sambora none of this wouldn't have happened if bird didn't go to the ex boyfriend
Why is Maxine trying to fight pregnant lol
exactly, great comment!
This made me cry😢 made me miss my grandma
My favorite movie about black family, followed by best man holiday, my favorite about black friendship.
"Yo man girl... Bumping"
With the motion she was doing
Girl just all up ha butt😭
That dress 👗 was too short.
@@neshamojanay9423 She knew what he liked 🤷🏾♂️
See BIG mama knew what was about to go down, so she stepped in and calm things down, and all they can do, is to laugh, now she's no fool, big mama didn't want any embarrassment.👍
She gave her some of her soul food and sent her on her way lol
No cap, who the hell was inviting Byrd & Lims ex’s to the damn wedding & why was Lim drunk enough to be that stupid 😂😂
Big Mama saved the day! 😂❤
She saved bird marriage. Cause ole big booty girl in the blue straight up stole him.
Miss you mommy you were our rock happy thanksgiving in heaven ❤🙏
and maxine dissin bird's husband behind her back but using bird to tag team teri every chance she get. #twofaced
How did she diss Bird's husband? Just curious!
BAY 16 The line “That’s what she gets, dragging somebody in here who ain’t got nothing and putting them off on family.”
Lem is a convicted felon who she married probably to her family’s dismay.
@@BabySwearWords Oh I get it now. Thanks for clearing that up.
Sister’s are always phony like that towards each other 😭😭😭I’m sure she said it in her face numerous times already
As soon as Maxine said to go beat the girl up.........No Diggity kicked in. It Dr Dre's pianos amped up the scene!!!! That made me want to see a beat down even more!!!!!!!
I love how ole girl in the blue didn’t give a damn about the wedding and just straight up grinded on lem right in front of bird.
Why the high yellaz the villains though 😂
Change of pace?
They're usually the goody goody two shoes in Black films.
I remember as a younging watching this movie I ain't know what THIC was until I seen her dancing with the groom😍
Lmao you not alone on that
Aww I just cried....I remember this movie.
Unforgettable movie scene from my childhood lol
I hate a family member that always gotta let somebody know what they did for other people. All that mean is that it wasn’t from the heart
Bird: This Is My Wedding Day, I'm Supposed To Be Happy!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
hard working actors. i feel em!!
Should be checking Lem not the broad. This the PG version. Lol
Lol
Terri slick tried to get her money back lol
One of my favorite classic Black movies of all times, I love Byrd’s wedding dress it’s totally unique in these current style crazy of hoochie mama wedding dress and never ending sea of strapless cookie cutter styles.
“Who is that hoochy coochy mama out on dance floor with my husband”
Max : “I told you” LMFAOO
I'm starting to think that Teri & Maxine never really got along ( even b4 Kenny & Maxine got together). It's always the oldest sibling who tries to control everything.
#14 favorite movie of all time
All my years watching this movie and I just noticed Bird snatching that money back and putting it back in her dress lmao
I love this movie.
0:03
Bird - What?
This marriage was over before it started.
Yep
💯
"I told you!.." in the backround
good old days
She said…
“Nobody about to disrespect me on my wedding day!’
I know that’s right!!!😁😄😂
She said this while ole girl in the blue got lem huffin and puffin 😊
Idk why I didn’t see it before but vivica a fox has always been crazy that’s not acting that’s who the hell she’s always been 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Big Mama already snatched up the hoochie and hid the body 😂
Shoot! What y’all talking about?! We happy! 😂😂😂
Why she say it like that though lol too funny
This was my mama lord i miss her! Rip mama shelly! 7.17.19
Sounds just like my grandmother the glue that holds the family together RIP
My family’s rock passed away last December and my whole fell apart. I lost my best friend and best grandmother ever 😢
Yeah I had the same experience some years ago and it was tough on our family as well but the best thing you can do is just pray and try to remember the good times that you had with her and take advantage of the family get-togethers but let some time pass by and slowly over time you would notice your family trying to do little small things to get together and try to recreate the love that you guys had when your Big Mama was with guys on earth and probably the family will come back together because that's the way it was meant to be and that's the way your big mama will want it and the family will realize it.. don't get me wrong you guys will always miss her BUT it will get a little easier over time and you'll see parts of her inside of every single one of you, which will make you laugh, smile and cherish those moments! .. So pray because light will shine soon again on your family and she is looking down from heaven!😊.. you're also in my prayers it may God be with you and your family!🙏😊😊😊
This was my favorite move as a kid man...
Wait a minute, why didn't they go off about the groom?, he was bumpin on her too. They were enjoying each other on the floor.
The bathroom sence made me realize y Vivica A. Fox was in Set it off she bout tht I'm bout bout life lol
That girl he was dancing with was unbelievably delicious looking. Lord have mercy.
Poor Teri,she couldn't trust her own dayummmm relatives around her men! Maxine took Kenny away from her, and Faith screwed Miles after Teri was gracious enough to let her stay with them. That's a bit too much backstabbing for her to stick around! 😩
YAS BIG MAMA!
So funny how Vivica's stomach was damn near flat when she opened the door for Ahmad, but when she came out of the bathroom it was huge and round.😂😂
love this movie
I still can't watch this movie. It was SO GOOD but....triggers me and my trauma with my gramma passing. The hospital scene where he sees her legs for the first time.....nope.
Too close to home for me! I applaud the makers of this film...it is timeless
Yes Darnell you are these huffas daddy miss you very much.
that scene was too funny and that hoochie was fine