For the love of God. If you already have a rough relationship why tf would either of them want to add the extra stress of a landlord/tenant relationship 🤨
What I think is that the son sees it that way. He probably didn’t like dads rules growing up. I’m sure dad make mistakes but the son is very entitled. I’m sure the dad just didn’t want to see his son on the street especially with his grandchildren. I rather my kid be cussed at than hit by a car when the parents weren’t even watching the kids. Anything could’ve happened God forbid they could’ve got snatched. He gave this son a place to live plus sounds like a free babysitter.
Facts. I was in a really bad housing situation for once in a different state from my parents and my mom kept imploring me to move back home and figure my life out. As tempting as the offer was (no rent, ability to save up money) I knew it would be at least a few months before I could get on my feet and as awesome as my parents are, my little sister still lives with them and we get along AWESOMELY long distance and together in small doses (so, like, no more than two weeks) but it would be hella uncomfortable and probably straight up volatile if it went on for months. Thankfully they are services in this country for those that truly need it and I was able to find a shelter and save up my money, etc. Not ideal but better than destroying a familial relationship
Anyone who says they would never cut off a family member probably has never had a toxic family relationship. My own mental wellbeing outweighs family ties in my book, and any other relationship. I don’t talk to my mentally abusive narcissistic older brother.
It's not the same in that case his parents doesn't raised him well at all You had a kid like that you have failed as parents Sister and brother stuff even Mariah Carey don't talk to hers so
I agree... I always say that I didn't choose my family but I can choose whether I want to deal with them. Of course I'll do whatever I can to save/repair relationships but when my mental health is being compromised, I'll have to choose to cut ties.
I can't believe how spoiled and selfish the son is. He hasn't paid any rent, keeps moving his girlfriend in, they're sleeping while they leave the grandson on his dad. He has the nerves to complain about him yelling at his son. The stuff he's suing him for is ridiculous. He needs to grow up, get his own spot, watch his own kid, and stop acting like his dad is just supposed to fund his life. He is not very productive and he's too darned old for this crap.
The biggest mistake the father of the boys made was getting mad at his Dad for disciplining his grandsons for doing something wrong. It will catch up with him & his sons relationship later. 😮
The plaintiff sounds like an ungrateful child, he says he has always had a bad relationship with his father, yet his father has given him a roof over his head for 2 years, babysits the grandchild while the plaintiff gets to sleep during the day (as he works at night) then he has the cheek to stop paying rent for 5 months and is still in the place. If the plaintiff had the slightest bit of maturity, he would think of the bigger picture and hold his tongue and play nice for the sake of the grandson...
The son is pathetic. He is an entitled, whiny brat. His mother needs to stop coddling him. If you don’t get along with your dad then move!! He is an adult not a child so stop acting like one. Your father doesn’t owe you anything. Make your own way in life!
Exactly right. Just because someone breeds does not make them an honorable person. If the kid behaves terribly, where do they learn it from? If they didn't learn it from their parents, then why did their parents let those people teach them that behavior? Yes, parents can be disgusting human beings.
I cut off my mom and step-dad coming up on 5 yrs ago now. Guess what, I'm happier and my children don't have that toxicity in their life. Blood doesn't mean family.
@@Catloudan so, who raised him to be like that? His dad? So his dad shouldn't be surprised that his son turned out the way that he did, right? Because if Dad didn't raise him, who did, and why did his father allow it to happen?
W.T.F? I've been living on my own since 15 including an Army career that started at 17, 58 now and comfortably retired. Pathetic excuses for grown men today.
I think it is an over exaggeration when the plaintiff said his father had 'smashed' the bike, like the grandfather said, he threw it in anger and it hit the stop sign, so it's NOT SMASHED. And since the plaintiff is so poor, it was probably the grandfather that paid for the bike anyway...
They're both toxic. It's no surprise that the son has so many issues with a father who clearly has anger management problems at a minimum. If he couldn't behave like a rational adult, imagine how he behaved around his son growing up. It's not a shock that the son isn't behaving like a grown adult either. They both need therapy.
That's what every kid does, though. Try to make their parents go against each other and make them break up. Especially girls, where they take a liking to their dad and hate their mom. Then their dad takes the daughter's side and the mom is forced to leave as the daughter grins.
@@ohcaptainmycaptain4829no, not 'every kid' is like that at all. Many love their families and are petrified of them breaking up. Only dysfunctional kids pit parents against each other. I'm sorry your own experience has severely tainted your reality.
@@ohcaptainmycaptain4829 did you see this in a movie and think it's real life. Smh.... never seen nor heard this type of situation oxcured. I'm not saying it's impossible but you're weird.
For the grandfather to immediately seek an order of protection , he must’ve wanted his son to stay away from him for awhile and chose this incident as a way out .
That family was dysfunctional to the max! I didn't agree with the father throwing the kid's bike against the stop sign. Angry or not, he shouldn't had done that.
When people tell me saying 'axe' instead of 'ask' is a 'cultural black thing,' I'm referring them to this video. Ugh.... speak words that mean what you want to say, please.
Lol. I saw that, too. Well, the video saying it’s wrong for a teacher to correct a student who says “axe” and request them to use the grammaticlly proper word “ask”. I swear, the more we “bend” to this lunacy, because they will not stop, the darker our future seems. Take care!
I'm glad this case is dismissed, though I'm highly offended by this family's actions and attitudes. According to a Chinese proverb, “A man must insult himself before others will.” Also, according to an Italian proverb, “He who seeks a quarrel finds it near at hand.”
Both sides have their faults clearly. But there doesn't seem to be nothing wrong with the son and he didn't say he was on hard times so why doesnt he get his own place? Its probably the same reason he is having problems with his parents...doesnt want to pay bills or act like a grown up or parent if he is just wanting to take naps with his gf he moved in and not watch his kid. Parents are parents and have short comings and many have a list of things you say your not going to repeat when you have your family...unless your like this grown man who won't pay rent but will use money to consult a lawyer...for what...to force his dad to give him money? Like the judge said it might be weak reasons for the restraining order but it was granted and he violated it. I understand all about family helping family but this guy could've done his part and paid rent and if he really couldn't afford it then mow the law, throw the trash...something. Not nap with your gf. Your balding dude. Time to grow up. Give your parents time to miss you so when you visit they are happy to see you.
The family ones are always *the most difficult cases to watch here* . And then, usually, because one or both parties are *so stubborn and obstinate* they lose a loved one forever.
'I always spoil my kids. I always find a place for them to live' Yeah, such generosity there, buddy. If having a place to live is spoiling, geez, I don't want to know yr definition of bare minimum
Once again, here are two family members who can't get along. The son is spoiled and shifty-eyed. He wouldn't know the truth if it jumped up and bit him on the butt. If the son can't follow the law he certainly isn't going to obey his father. They obviously do think the courts are their disciplinarian. Truly, what woman would want either one of them? As difficult as the dad is, I do believe him more than this spoiled brat son.
The dad deserved more, you're right. Edit: he probably beat his kid all the time lol - he broke his grandkids bike due to getting enraged he crossed the street without permission Come on
So sad that father and son can’t get alone... You will definitely miss your Dad when he is gone.. and father I have lost a son you don’t want to live a life without your son Please make peace with each other for god’s sake.. You got grandchildren, you supposed to forgive each other. What I would give to have my son back here .... 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Praying for peace for you all🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💙💙💙
@@DL-ep5uk I am so truly deeply sorry for what happen to make you feel that way. Some wounds never heal.. I have a feeling the wounds was so deep that it’s untreatable.. But Thank god you all have each other .. I wish you all a life of love and Happiness together.. May. God protect each of you .. I send my thoughts and prayers to you all My you all have a life full of love and Happiness Together ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The son is very spoiled and just like the judge said stop babying him. The mom seems to be the main problem tho if this was still going on. The dad idk probably was cheating but son clearly didn’t get whooped enough as a kid to learn respect
Came a point my dad and I almost threw fists we didn't talk for about a year, I decided I didn't want to be one of those idiots who hold a grudge forever so I said hi dad and we went from there like nothing ever happened. My dad passed some years back and left me a nice inheritance
Harvey is always asking people on the street if they would sue a family member for $$, then he always says everyone has their price. This may sound crazy but I would NEVER sue anyone in my immediate family. I don't have perfect relationships with any of them either it's just because of the simple fact that for most of us family is all you have in this world. Sure some lucky people might have established friends that are like family but I sure don't. Even for 10 million dollars I wouldn't sue family. It's not worth the damage that it's gonna cause in the end.
These litigants were boring. I want to see the murder trial from Harvey's first interview giving the death glare to his 2nd interview (about the "would you cut off your father for having you falsely arrested" question). That first lady threw ALL the shade on the second one, haha.
I thought I would hate the dad and agree with the son... nah, he's the one with some sense and been done wrong. The son is a spoiled, manipulative, pos of a man child. He needs to man up, stop living off of people, and take care of his family on his own.
Plaintiff is a a hot selfish nasty mess and I’m sure the father has to do with it 🤷🏾♀️….. so it’s best they part and heal apart then if they want, speak….. but it’s a generational mess! And they all have the same name 😂
I think the Mom babies the son and listens to everything he says. Plus there is no way a wife would get a restraining order if this wasn't her husband's history. He wasn't convincing that he wasn't cheating. Judge didn't even believe him. Mom's and their boys I swear...... 😂
Sounds like he yelled at the kid because he was being unsafe. He’s a grandpa and if the parents are no where to be found and he’s watching them then yes he can tell them what to do
Shout out to all the families who would think of the grandson first and work out their differences amicably for his sake.
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For the love of God. If you already have a rough relationship why tf would either of them want to add the extra stress of a landlord/tenant relationship 🤨
What I think is that the son sees it that way. He probably didn’t like dads rules growing up. I’m sure dad make mistakes but the son is very entitled. I’m sure the dad just didn’t want to see his son on the street especially with his grandchildren. I rather my kid be cussed at than hit by a car when the parents weren’t even watching the kids. Anything could’ve happened God forbid they could’ve got snatched. He gave this son a place to live plus sounds like a free babysitter.
Facts. I was in a really bad housing situation for once in a different state from my parents and my mom kept imploring me to move back home and figure my life out. As tempting as the offer was (no rent, ability to save up money) I knew it would be at least a few months before I could get on my feet and as awesome as my parents are, my little sister still lives with them and we get along AWESOMELY long distance and together in small doses (so, like, no more than two weeks) but it would be hella uncomfortable and probably straight up volatile if it went on for months. Thankfully they are services in this country for those that truly need it and I was able to find a shelter and save up my money, etc. Not ideal but better than destroying a familial relationship
Anyone who says they would never cut off a family member probably has never had a toxic family relationship. My own mental wellbeing outweighs family ties in my book, and any other relationship. I don’t talk to my mentally abusive narcissistic older brother.
It's not the same in that case his parents doesn't raised him well at all
You had a kid like that you have failed as parents
Sister and brother stuff even Mariah Carey don't talk to hers so
I agree... I always say that I didn't choose my family but I can choose whether I want to deal with them. Of course I'll do whatever I can to save/repair relationships but when my mental health is being compromised, I'll have to choose to cut ties.
The sponge needs to get his own life away from daddy’s money. 🤣
My name is Bob so I'm often called SpongeBob for doing the very same thing. 😂
Lmao. Loved this comment. Sponge.
I can't believe how spoiled and selfish the son is. He hasn't paid any rent, keeps moving his girlfriend in, they're sleeping while they leave the grandson on his dad. He has the nerves to complain about him yelling at his son. The stuff he's suing him for is ridiculous. He needs to grow up, get his own spot, watch his own kid, and stop acting like his dad is just supposed to fund his life. He is not very productive and he's too darned old for this crap.
Who raised him and let him does that 😂😂😂😂 his parents
Sounds like the Dad was helping his son's family out. Dad seems to care, sons spoiled.
The biggest mistake the father of the boys made was getting mad at his Dad for disciplining his grandsons for doing something wrong. It will catch up with him & his sons relationship later. 😮
The plaintiff sounds like an ungrateful child, he says he has always had a bad relationship with his father, yet his father has given him a roof over his head for 2 years, babysits the grandchild while the plaintiff gets to sleep during the day (as he works at night) then he has the cheek to stop paying rent for 5 months and is still in the place. If the plaintiff had the slightest bit of maturity, he would think of the bigger picture and hold his tongue and play nice for the sake of the grandson...
The son is pathetic. He is an entitled, whiny brat. His mother needs to stop coddling him. If you don’t get along with your dad then move!! He is an adult not a child so stop acting like one. Your father doesn’t owe you anything. Make your own way in life!
Creepy Creepy guy...living at the house not paying rent people like that should not have children
This such a sad family
Let's keep this family in prayer
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I’m so tired of people saying “He’s your dad.” or “She’s your mom.” 😬
Exactly right. Just because someone breeds does not make them an honorable person. If the kid behaves terribly, where do they learn it from? If they didn't learn it from their parents, then why did their parents let those people teach them that behavior? Yes, parents can be disgusting human beings.
I cut off my mom and step-dad coming up on 5 yrs ago now. Guess what, I'm happier and my children don't have that toxicity in their life. Blood doesn't mean family.
To be fair this dad doesn't look like her deserve that childish self entitled son.
I mean it is true. U must not be a parent.
@@Catloudan so, who raised him to be like that? His dad? So his dad shouldn't be surprised that his son turned out the way that he did, right? Because if Dad didn't raise him, who did, and why did his father allow it to happen?
Still living there.... yall better watch out for that man
Apologies and forvgiveness can go a long way. I wish this famly healing.
W.T.F? I've been living on my own since 15 including an Army career that started at 17, 58 now and comfortably retired. Pathetic excuses for grown men today.
It's always very sad and unfortunate to see families in court, particularly father and son. Guys we need to do much better.
How are you a grown man living with your dad, kids then moved in a girlfriend 😂
DOUG I JUST LOVE YOUR SAVAGERY BECAUSE IM TALKING ABOUT THE WHOLE FAMILY TOO
Not homeboy with the pushing hairline causing chaos in another person home. Get your own home or place to live and there’s no issue 🤷🏻♀️
Pushing hairline😂😂😂😂
This should have been on Jerry Springer. 😂
What a train wreck. 🤦🏻♀️
That boy suing for his broken front seat 😂😂 you can't make this stuff up!
I think it is an over exaggeration when the plaintiff said his father had 'smashed' the bike, like the grandfather said, he threw it in anger and it hit the stop sign, so it's NOT SMASHED. And since the plaintiff is so poor, it was probably the grandfather that paid for the bike anyway...
how pitiful. I would never take a family member to court.
They're both toxic. It's no surprise that the son has so many issues with a father who clearly has anger management problems at a minimum. If he couldn't behave like a rational adult, imagine how he behaved around his son growing up. It's not a shock that the son isn't behaving like a grown adult either. They both need therapy.
I just admire the judge's hair. It's so beautiful. 💁♀️ Anyway the plaintiff is a jerk. Imagine trying to break up your parents!
That's what every kid does, though. Try to make their parents go against each other and make them break up. Especially girls, where they take a liking to their dad and hate their mom. Then their dad takes the daughter's side and the mom is forced to leave as the daughter grins.
@@ohcaptainmycaptain4829 We're taking about a 40 some year old man here , NOT some kid .
She has a great production team that makes sure her hair is 👌🏽
@@ohcaptainmycaptain4829no, not 'every kid' is like that at all. Many love their families and are petrified of them breaking up. Only dysfunctional kids pit parents against each other. I'm sorry your own experience has severely tainted your reality.
@@ohcaptainmycaptain4829 did you see this in a movie and think it's real life. Smh.... never seen nor heard this type of situation oxcured. I'm not saying it's impossible but you're weird.
Man I'm glad I'm not in a family like this
Well you didn't have kid yet because a kid like make pb
@@Jsarmy87124 the world has enough kids
Dude needs to grow up
Harvey...please cut off that mustache/goatee. It looks like chocolate around your mouth! LOL - Love you People's Court!!!
I love JM hair and makeup here
😢 wow just wow I hope they all find peace
Why doesn't this son get his own apartment. Doesn't need to live in daddy's basement. Don't get it. And he has a girlfriend and rugrats.😢😢😢😢
For the grandfather to immediately seek an order of protection , he must’ve wanted his son to stay away from him for awhile and chose this incident as a way out .
😂😂😂 don't have kid you can't raised properly! This embarrassing and shameful oh my god
Wow! Boy if u don’t get your over grown self with kids outta his house!
That family was dysfunctional to the max! I didn't agree with the father throwing the kid's bike against the stop sign. Angry or not, he shouldn't had done that.
When people tell me saying 'axe' instead of 'ask' is a 'cultural black thing,' I'm referring them to this video.
Ugh.... speak words that mean what you want to say, please.
Lol. I saw that, too. Well, the video saying it’s wrong for a teacher to correct a student who says “axe” and request them to use the grammaticlly proper word “ask”.
I swear, the more we “bend” to this lunacy, because they will not stop, the darker our future seems.
Take care!
🙄🙄🙄 Imagine getting so pressed over accents.
NOW WHAT IN THE TRAILER PK BUBBA IS GOING ON HERE. A BUNCH OF DYSFUNCTIONAL BS USING THE COURT SYSTEM FOR GAMES SMDH
Is this what our court system is for? NO
Wow what a mess
I'm glad this case is dismissed, though I'm highly offended by this family's actions and attitudes. According to a Chinese proverb, “A man must insult himself before others will.” Also, according to an Italian proverb, “He who seeks a quarrel finds it near at hand.”
Both sides have their faults clearly. But there doesn't seem to be nothing wrong with the son and he didn't say he was on hard times so why doesnt he get his own place? Its probably the same reason he is having problems with his parents...doesnt want to pay bills or act like a grown up or parent if he is just wanting to take naps with his gf he moved in and not watch his kid. Parents are parents and have short comings and many have a list of things you say your not going to repeat when you have your family...unless your like this grown man who won't pay rent but will use money to consult a lawyer...for what...to force his dad to give him money? Like the judge said it might be weak reasons for the restraining order but it was granted and he violated it. I understand all about family helping family but this guy could've done his part and paid rent and if he really couldn't afford it then mow the law, throw the trash...something. Not nap with your gf. Your balding dude. Time to grow up. Give your parents time to miss you so when you visit they are happy to see you.
This was an emotional train wreck of a relationship.
Can’t stand people who feel entitled. When you’re a grown ass adult, your parents don’t owe you a damn thing
The family ones are always *the most difficult cases to watch here* .
And then, usually, because one or both parties are *so stubborn and obstinate* they lose a loved one forever.
'I always spoil my kids. I always find a place for them to live' Yeah, such generosity there, buddy. If having a place to live is spoiling, geez, I don't want to know yr definition of bare minimum
These people are weird 😂😂😂😂
I hate when children are involve ,they lost grandparents and a place to go when they need to be spoil by their grandparents
Speechless.. Family issues like this is beyond me🤦🏾♂️
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According to a Chinese proverb, “A man must insult himself before others will.”
Once again, here are two family members who can't get along. The son is spoiled and shifty-eyed. He wouldn't know the truth if it jumped up and bit him on the butt. If the son can't follow the law he certainly isn't going to obey his father. They obviously do think the courts are their disciplinarian. Truly, what woman would want either one of them? As difficult as the dad is, I do believe him more than this spoiled brat son.
Dang Doug!!! 😂😂😂😂
The plaintiff was hoping for a settlement to use to move on the 31st.
Even if all this happened, let it go and get your own place! Don’t take your parent to court. That’s wild!!! Pay more or move out.
Shenanigans!
Sometimes, you just gotta walk away.
If his father was that abusive, why didn't he just leave? It's that simple.
He didn’t get enough whoopins.
That's what I always say or think when I see annoying bratty kids and so-called grown kids.
The dad deserved more, you're right.
Edit: he probably beat his kid all the time lol - he broke his grandkids bike due to getting enraged he crossed the street without permission
Come on
@@irideaunicorn1620when I see annoying adults, I just assume their parents were shit 🤷♀️
Ha ha, you got hit as a kid. I hope you don't have any 👀
So sad that father and son can’t get alone... You will definitely miss your Dad when he is gone.. and father I have lost a son you don’t want to live a life without your son Please make peace with each other for god’s sake.. You got grandchildren, you supposed to forgive each other. What I would give to have my son back here .... 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻Praying for peace for you all🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💙💙💙
@@DL-ep5uk I am so truly deeply sorry for what happen to make you feel that way. Some wounds never heal.. I have a feeling the wounds was so deep that it’s untreatable.. But Thank god you all have each other .. I wish you all a life of love and Happiness together.. May. God protect each of you .. I send my thoughts and prayers to you all My you all have a life full of love and Happiness Together ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I don't miss my deceased father. I wasn't happy when he died, but I wasn't deeply grieved.
The son is very spoiled and just like the judge said stop babying him. The mom seems to be the main problem tho if this was still going on.
The dad idk probably was cheating but son clearly didn’t get whooped enough as a kid to learn respect
Came a point my dad and I almost threw fists we didn't talk for about a year, I decided I didn't want to be one of those idiots who hold a grudge forever so I said hi dad and we went from there like nothing ever happened. My dad passed some years back and left me a nice inheritance
My Dad owes me money too.. but he brought me here so ill let him have it.
Bet not ask for nothin else tho 😂
Harvey is always asking people on the street if they would sue a family member for $$, then he always says everyone has their price. This may sound crazy but I would NEVER sue anyone in my immediate family. I don't have perfect relationships with any of them either it's just because of the simple fact that for most of us family is all you have in this world. Sure some lucky people might have established friends that are like family but I sure don't. Even for 10 million dollars I wouldn't sue family. It's not worth the damage that it's gonna cause in the end.
Harvey, you need to take it easier.....you look as if you need a shave and a nap. Good luck!!
If you have such a bad relationship with your dad, why are you living in his basement and moving your girlfriend in.
Get your son out. I agree with the Judge, he needs to grow up and be a man. Leave your folks alone.
The son is not a tree he can leave!
These litigants were boring. I want to see the murder trial from Harvey's first interview giving the death glare to his 2nd interview (about the "would you cut off your father for having you falsely arrested" question). That first lady threw ALL the shade on the second one, haha.
Kid needs to grow up and stop suing the dad who allows him to stay there for free apparently.
The son is entitled. Tragic!
Sick people!! They hate each other but they stay together just to hurt the other one
7:12 the plaintiff is a bum!! Bet he sponges off of his parents still to this day
The Last name Kettering is a huge name here in Dayton Ohio. Wondering if they’re any relation?
I thought I would hate the dad and agree with the son... nah, he's the one with some sense and been done wrong. The son is a spoiled, manipulative, pos of a man child. He needs to man up, stop living off of people, and take care of his family on his own.
As nice as the dad is.... Entitled adults, more often than not, were entitled kids.
Plaintiff is a a hot selfish nasty mess and I’m sure the father has to do with it 🤷🏾♀️….. so it’s best they part and heal apart then if they want, speak….. but it’s a generational mess! And they all have the same name 😂
What a lazy son! Grow up and look after yourself. Dad and mum deserve some time away from you!!
Which family members are most likely to sue another... between mother, father, sin, daughter, brother, sister?
Ah the Harvey facial hair era... Not working out Harvey.
Disguting "family"SON NEEDS TO GROW UP N PAY FOR HIMSELF!!!
I think the Mom babies the son and listens to everything he says. Plus there is no way a wife would get a restraining order if this wasn't her husband's history. He wasn't convincing that he wasn't cheating. Judge didn't even believe him.
Mom's and their boys I swear...... 😂
Do all judges interrupt the litigants??
Sounds like he yelled at the kid because he was being unsafe. He’s a grandpa and if the parents are no where to be found and he’s watching them then yes he can tell them what to do
7:12 that was kinda unnecessary 💀
the son needs to grow up but as the father how do you kick your son and grandkids out knowing they have nowhere to go🤦🏽♀️. I’d never!!
Maybe the son needs to go into the 🐶 dog house for a while. 😊😊😊😊😊😊
This is some dysfunctional family.
SHES RIGHT
hunky junky munky funky
The defendant is a whiner thought he could win?
Maybe just maybe the rent got increased because you moved in your girlfriend. More water, electricity, gas being used.
JM got it right. Grow up and move out!
TERRIBLE SON
SMH... SAD
What does Douglas say just before he gives the paper to judge? "You may seat..... ???"
"Be seated, and come to order."
@@gameshowguy2000ohh yes thats it thanks 😅
Both the father and the son have trouble with undefined pronouns.
clean up
The plaintiff's name is Oscar Mayer Wiener.
The plaintiff is a man baby.