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  • Опубликовано: 27 апр 2024
  • Do couples give up too easily on marriage? More newlyweds, married only a few months, are pulling off their wedding bands and calling it quits. Dr. Phil’s guests haven’t even been married a year, and are already wondering if they made the right decision. (From Dr. Phil Season 4)
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  • @tashaelle6264
    @tashaelle6264 Месяц назад +35

    The 2nd wife: I just wanted a guy to like me.
    He MARRIED you, woman! And now you're not giving him what you gave 40 dudes who you just "wanted to like you". He deserves sooooo much better and more.

    • @coldshot1723
      @coldshot1723 4 дня назад +1

      She just wants a guy to like her for about 15 minutes ... then leave. She's had 40 of them already.

  • @ladydi37115
    @ladydi37115 Месяц назад +344

    I truly hope that 2nd husband divorced that girl. She does not love him. I'm sure it hurt him, but a lifetime of a loveless marriage is torture and a waste of a lifetime 😢

    • @maloryburkhalter6667
      @maloryburkhalter6667 Месяц назад +7

      She doesn't love herself. But this was easily the early 2000s. I would where they are now?

    • @ladydi37115
      @ladydi37115 Месяц назад +7

      @maloryburkhalter6667 I would love to see a where are they now show!!!!

    • @charlottesweb2812
      @charlottesweb2812 Месяц назад +8

      My guess is she got pregnant because she wanted a baby (god help the child) and he went along with it for some crazy reason because he really loves her (which I'll never understand). Strange situation...

    • @CommonSense8421
      @CommonSense8421 Месяц назад +6

      Was like watching my ex and I all over again almost word for word when they were talking to Dr. Phil. Literally best thing I did was get an annulment

    • @waderivers99
      @waderivers99 27 дней назад +13

      She's every man's nightmare. He's very lucky it only took him three months to find out.

  • @berry7usagii
    @berry7usagii Месяц назад +339

    “You should respect my privacy” is SUCH a typical line used by cheaters. This guy (second couple) needs to RUN

    • @kitkat3155
      @kitkat3155 Месяц назад +21

      Not always, I’m a private person and have always been like this but I have never cheated and would never dream of it. But in this case with her behavior and history he does need to run.

    • @rae1620
      @rae1620 Месяц назад +18

      @@kitkat3155 I'm a private person, too, and not a cheater. But this woman*has* cheated and is using her "privacy" to put him in the wrong.

    • @berry7usagii
      @berry7usagii Месяц назад +9

      @@kitkat3155 I mean different to respecting privacy in general which is what good people usually do, cheaters ALWAYS tend to use this excuse. I say this from not only my personal experience but that of many of my friends and endless people who post on the internet I’ve seen so many stories like that. Of course we are each entitled to our own privacy, but in a relationship, usually it is good to be open to your partner and refrain from keeping too many secrets, that way the relationship tends to stay secure (albeit having said that, each situation is different). But it’s such a common line cheaters say unfortunately :(

    • @berry7usagii
      @berry7usagii Месяц назад +7

      @@rae1620 yes exactly, they say this to try and make their partner the bad guy so they don’t get caught.

    • @robertauld1334
      @robertauld1334 Месяц назад +12

      No privacy in marriages. Your spouse should know everything or at least if they don't be able too.

  • @personperson9635
    @personperson9635 Месяц назад +483

    The second husband deseves a wife who loves him completely!

    • @lindaallen4067
      @lindaallen4067 Месяц назад

      PLEASE don't have a baby with that self centered and dishonest woman!

    • @williamwallace8164
      @williamwallace8164 Месяц назад +32

      Yes...Donny needs to LEAVE her YESTERDAY. She is NEVER going to change. The "marriage" is NEVER going to change. She does not DESERVE him, in the LEAST.

    • @Lisa59
      @Lisa59 Месяц назад +30

      I just wanted to tell him to dump her and run. She needs to get straightened out before she gets into a serious relationship

    • @mariasmith6338
      @mariasmith6338 Месяц назад +12

      SMH! Poor guy I wonder where they are now.

    • @Cocomc26
      @Cocomc26 Месяц назад +7

      The first wife is so beautiful

  • @christinaowens3309
    @christinaowens3309 Месяц назад +110

    And please do not take foster children. These children come from broken homes and do not need to be put right into another one. To do so would be so unfair to those children and selfish of you.

    • @flenzy
      @flenzy 28 дней назад +7

      Well said. Very well said.

    • @KM-nq7ez
      @KM-nq7ez 26 дней назад +2

      100 percent truth…. A marriage better be STRONG when you bring these precious, but sometimes extremely challenging children into your home….. stress an already dis functioning marriage…. Don’t even THINK about it!

    • @user-eo7hg4pf8i
      @user-eo7hg4pf8i 24 дня назад +1

      Surely they wouldn't be allowed to foster?

    • @christinaowens3309
      @christinaowens3309 24 дня назад +2

      I would think they wouldn't be approved.

    • @brendakruger2597
      @brendakruger2597 23 дня назад

      I wish my husband would buy me a car😢

  • @janeg8274
    @janeg8274 Месяц назад +458

    I swear as a teacher in public school for 24 years it MAKES ME SO DAMN MAD when ADULTS treat having children like they are having Kittens or Puppies! The kids are DESTROYED!!!!🤬🤬🤬

    • @ladydi37115
      @ladydi37115 Месяц назад +14

      💯 facts!!!

    • @lucindajones2892
      @lucindajones2892 Месяц назад +14

      Absolutely agree!

    • @karenmacomber5692
      @karenmacomber5692 Месяц назад +7

      Yes, my daughter was to young to realize but my son wasn't

    • @naomibeery8098
      @naomibeery8098 Месяц назад +9

      Thats none of your business. Your job is not to worry about what individuals do in the bedroom or their reasons for having children. You have no idea how serious people are or were. Your job is to educate and mind your business

    • @kendrakolker2065
      @kendrakolker2065 Месяц назад +20

      Thank you for teaching. Teacher's don't get paid enough or get enough credit.

  • @WalkinTheWalkers
    @WalkinTheWalkers Месяц назад +247

    I've been with my man for 17 years. And I can honestly say that even when he brings me home a box pizza, I'm super excited! That means he thought of me! It's the little things that make the biggest difference. He is my best friend. And I wouldn't trade that for the world.

    • @Monae6890
      @Monae6890 Месяц назад +15

      Right it’s the little things that show they love you and are thinking about you

    • @whitney9810
      @whitney9810 Месяц назад

      Are you a stay at home mom?

    • @punkylynneramone1981
      @punkylynneramone1981 Месяц назад +7

      It's the little things 😊

    • @kaybee4132
      @kaybee4132 Месяц назад +6

      Love that sentiment! ❤

    • @Nurturing2
      @Nurturing2 28 дней назад +4

      SO happy for y’all❣️

  • @stellachipembele3147
    @stellachipembele3147 Месяц назад +102

    The lady in the second episode is Narcissistic.

    • @BijouRose
      @BijouRose 7 дней назад +4

      She has an avoidant attachment style for sure but that doesn’t mean she has a personality disorder. People are so quick to diagnose others with Narcissistic Personality Disorder these days.

  • @georginasawyer6524
    @georginasawyer6524 Месяц назад +134

    Donny run !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! please dont have a kid you will so regret this

    • @flenzy
      @flenzy 28 дней назад +4

      Also, can you imagine life for that poor kid who has this lying and cold person as a mother? A lifetime of therapy would follow once they left the home.

    • @saltycat662
      @saltycat662 17 дней назад

      She'll get pregnant just to spite him and he'll be dumb enough to go along with it.

  • @R.Jack-Knowledge
    @R.Jack-Knowledge Месяц назад +65

    The second couple needs to just end it. The guys oblivious to the fact she's not into him. She's using him. She might even be in the closet. But she is certainly not into that guy. She's not attracted to him physically or anything.

    • @ST-rj8iu
      @ST-rj8iu 15 дней назад

      no. 40 other partners prior to him? no she is not in the closet. He is bad in bed.

  • @Morrison-yi7mq
    @Morrison-yi7mq Месяц назад +73

    The second couple she does not deserve him.

    • @salt8124
      @salt8124 Месяц назад

      She love her and herself only! She is not even that attractive 😳😳🥶🥶

  • @andrewholland9097
    @andrewholland9097 Месяц назад +93

    In the second couple, the guy is very attractive and seems smart and kind. A lot of quality women would love to be with him

    • @elcheapo9444
      @elcheapo9444 День назад +1

      Are you prepared to marry him if he dumps her?!
      Put your money where your mouth is !!😮😮😮

  • @anneliejones2229
    @anneliejones2229 Месяц назад +140

    The second couple should not even go home together. There is no marriage, no friendship no relationship whatsoever.

    • @Desiraeegutierrez
      @Desiraeegutierrez 29 дней назад +4

      Youre right!!! My husband bought me a beat up expedition as a marriage gift and i still get excited when i see it everyday. I also show my husband love and support by taking him to the store and buying him new clothes and boots for work.

    • @teeniequeenie8369
      @teeniequeenie8369 19 дней назад +2

      @@Desiraeegutierrezthey are talking about the second couple NOT the first one.

  • @GREEKATION
    @GREEKATION 29 дней назад +111

    The second couple… RUN DUDE RUN 🏃

    • @jacquelineithell307
      @jacquelineithell307 19 дней назад

      Hey man get out while your still SANE that’s from a woman

    • @kayladavis7140
      @kayladavis7140 8 дней назад

      For real. As soon as she said she went to that other dude and if he hadn't said no to her then she would be with him. That totally means that she isn't in love with her husband.

  • @jennyromero37
    @jennyromero37 Месяц назад +201

    Donny needs to run far away from his wife and never look back. His wife does not care about anyone but herself.

    • @mikeydoodle143
      @mikeydoodle143 20 дней назад +5

      I hope he already divorced this woman. Clearly, she does not love him. She is despicable

    • @Sheila612Miller
      @Sheila612Miller 20 дней назад +1

      ​@lolaizajazzminDonny is 2nd husband in this story

    • @elisegreen2024
      @elisegreen2024 19 дней назад +2

      Please run Donny!

    • @rogeriosertorio3177
      @rogeriosertorio3177 18 дней назад +2

      And fast...!

    • @marlene56423
      @marlene56423 13 дней назад +1

      She is the definition of loosey goosey😅

  • @iramchavez6898
    @iramchavez6898 Месяц назад +39

    The guy from the 2nd marriage should run like Forrest Gump 😂😂😂😂

  • @DodgaOfficial
    @DodgaOfficial Месяц назад +107

    Second lady is a classic case of a women that used to be far more attractive and slept around with alot of toxic guys that had all the superficial things she wanted. Now that she is not as attractive, she's taking what she can get, but you can't fake attraction. Her husband is handsome, very nice, a good guy, but he doesn't have that bad boy energy and toxic drama she's used to and it doesn't spark anything in her, but he provides stability while she keeps her fishing lines out hoping one of her bad boy exes or one night stands will commit.
    He needs to move on, she's never going to be into him, and he's a good guy, with alot to offer.

    • @user-eo7hg4pf8i
      @user-eo7hg4pf8i 24 дня назад +8

      You got that 100% right. Except she will try and pin a baby or two on him for the income.

    • @bonniebloom4953
      @bonniebloom4953 14 дней назад

      Oh God I hope they took the Dr. Advice and not have a child!!!!

    • @capkronos00
      @capkronos00 8 дней назад

      If he's such a great guy then why does he already have two failed marriages behind him? The wife is definitely major trouble but he seems to be overly clingy, insecure, smothering and borderline paranoid. That type of behavior is also difficult to deal with.

    • @ruthslater6364
      @ruthslater6364 3 дня назад

      I agree 💯. She's never hoing to want him. He's a whiney crybaby.

    • @ruthslater6364
      @ruthslater6364 3 дня назад

      ​@@user-eo7hg4pf8iBINGO. she will be pregnant as soon as she gets home. Dr. Phil can't be this dumb.

  • @ziggywalsh5562
    @ziggywalsh5562 Месяц назад +308

    The second couple will never work. They’re not even in the same solar system.

    • @cristineconnell7803
      @cristineconnell7803 Месяц назад

      She wanted a 1 nighter with lifetime benefits! 😢

    • @Savingdea
      @Savingdea Месяц назад +1

      That’s true !!!

    • @Savingdea
      @Savingdea Месяц назад

      I’m from the real world

    • @mandlas.4305
      @mandlas.4305 Месяц назад +1

      Exactly.

    • @KimberleeWagner-kj8yz
      @KimberleeWagner-kj8yz Месяц назад +1

      Why are they even thinking about having kids? Doesn’t make sense. There is no chemistry on her side. Forget it young man!

  • @susangoodwin8067
    @susangoodwin8067 Месяц назад +149

    The first couple are really cute together. The husband has a good sense of humor. I hope they make it work.

    • @MoPugsplz
      @MoPugsplz Месяц назад +12

      They’re very pretty looking couple

    • @amandam6263
      @amandam6263 Месяц назад +13

      Totally agree. They’re precious. I hope they make it. Seems like they definitely could.

    • @kevincarpenter2525
      @kevincarpenter2525 29 дней назад +13

      She's beautiful and he seems like a nice guy...but they don't know each other and have little in common. He's avoiding her, and she's disappointed that he not living up to a fantasy she has.

    • @maritaberndt6200
      @maritaberndt6200 23 дня назад +4

      The guy doesn't really want to be a husband and father. I hope he grows up.

    • @myrasmama
      @myrasmama 22 дня назад +6

      They are cute! I could see the love when he looked at her.

  • @spudnut00
    @spudnut00 Месяц назад +229

    "Eating bon-bons and taking naps all day."? The kids *and* the house are immaculate. Let *him* stay home for several days and keep everything running smoothly.

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 Месяц назад +14

      Seriously!!!!

    • @ladydi37115
      @ladydi37115 Месяц назад +16

      Exactly 💯

    • @jscho8674
      @jscho8674 Месяц назад +10

      I noticed that as well!

    • @jesusisgod4992
      @jesusisgod4992 Месяц назад +25

      As someone who is childless, I sit around and eat bon bons and take naps. When you have children, you are constantly doing things.

    • @cristineconnell7803
      @cristineconnell7803 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@jesusisgod4992Hopefully 😂😂

  • @Hipocratease
    @Hipocratease Месяц назад +47

    The logic is mind blowing of the second wife. Husband run!!

    • @karenmacomber5692
      @karenmacomber5692 Месяц назад +3

      Im sure my soon realized what happened and he went down hill from there

    • @Savingdea
      @Savingdea Месяц назад +2

      ❤❤❤

  • @user-yy9mt6kl3h
    @user-yy9mt6kl3h 29 дней назад +458

    unrelated maybe, but There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; each is different. What works for one couple may not work for another. However, I've realized that there's always a way to resolve issues. Five years ago, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of marital difficulties, but we managed to reconcile

    • @user-sk7kd8vs2w
      @user-sk7kd8vs2w 29 дней назад +3

      Your words hold great meaning, and I sincerely hope my sentiments are in harmony with yours. Despite our current separation, I cannot picture my life without her; my love for her is profound. I long to have her back, and I'm willing to make any sacrifice to achieve reconciliation. We've explored various paths, including therapy, in our journey to mend our relationship

    • @user-yy9mt6kl3h
      @user-yy9mt6kl3h 29 дней назад

      Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

    • @user-sk7kd8vs2w
      @user-sk7kd8vs2w 29 дней назад +1

      Your guidance is well-received. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt

    • @user-yy9mt6kl3h
      @user-yy9mt6kl3h 29 дней назад +1

      I promise you will not regret it

    • @catholicfaithofmine2664
      @catholicfaithofmine2664 27 дней назад +3

      So true, but there is a such thing as being taken advantage of in a marriage. When one person is a giver and one is a taker, it's not good.

  • @No_Preservations
    @No_Preservations Месяц назад +131

    That second girl is for the streets.

    • @zeenatmustapha2240
      @zeenatmustapha2240 Месяц назад

      She is a street girl, come on 40 men and husband she,s not ready for a stable relationship.

    • @elcheapo9444
      @elcheapo9444 День назад +1

      She has a future as an exotic dancer.

  • @NYBroncos
    @NYBroncos Месяц назад +109

    The 2nd couple should never have gotten together.

    • @mandlas.4305
      @mandlas.4305 Месяц назад +2

      The wife was broken on the inside from one night stands. This is why people should wait for marriage. God is wise

  • @voxmomvoxmom3067
    @voxmomvoxmom3067 Месяц назад +67

    A child?She’s too emotionally immature to look after one.They will divorce and he will have a lifetime of misery and child support.He should bite the bullet and leave her and find happiness with somebody who will appreciate him. she’s no good,sad but that’s the truth.

  • @ScanMan1967
    @ScanMan1967 29 дней назад +29

    She tells him 20 guys, she tells the show 40 guys when in reality its probably 100. Dude...RUN!!

    • @belindascott2747
      @belindascott2747 24 дня назад +1

      I bet you wouldn't say that if it was a man that had 100, which is normal!

  • @jackieblue2341
    @jackieblue2341 Месяц назад +138

    He needs to leave her for a woman who would appreciate him. The second couple. Think the first couple have a chance

    • @MrsTorches
      @MrsTorches Месяц назад +4

      The first couple could be a TV show, lol. 😂
      I think they're both Most Likeable Character material...
      I'm on her side with the car, tho 😅

    • @ladydi37115
      @ladydi37115 Месяц назад +2

      100% agree

    • @ladydi37115
      @ladydi37115 Месяц назад +8

      ​@MrsTorchies, I agree! I loved that 1st couple...the 2nd one, I hope he divorced her or, better yet, annulled the marriage. I doubt he did that, though, because you could tell he loves her. Too bad she doesn't feel the same...clearly.

    • @Savingdea
      @Savingdea Месяц назад +1

      Etd I’m sure

    • @CanMoose
      @CanMoose Месяц назад

      They might have a chance if the husband learns to respect all the hard work his wife does

  • @user-oh9lm1zb8x
    @user-oh9lm1zb8x Месяц назад +178

    Such a shame. There are so few good guys out there. She’s ruining him. So sad.

    • @freyamccauley
      @freyamccauley Месяц назад +1

      Is she? How do you think that?

    • @lilaworley8935
      @lilaworley8935 Месяц назад

      Actually men make up 50% of the population.

    • @TheGreyFortress
      @TheGreyFortress Месяц назад +9

      ​@@freyamccauleyshe means the second couple.

    • @jonathandevereaux298
      @jonathandevereaux298 28 дней назад

      He's not one of the good ones. Spineless men aren't men and that whining personality would kill any intimacy for women.

    • @deriklfixit
      @deriklfixit 7 дней назад +1

      There's tons of GREAT GUYS, its just that women ruin them. or overlook them.

  • @candacem6932
    @candacem6932 Месяц назад +69

    The second couple is not going to make, the wife is too immature. She likes the thrill of the chase, but once she gets him she is bored and ready to start chasing again.

    • @Savingdea
      @Savingdea Месяц назад +1

      I like chase ❤❤❤

    • @Savingdea
      @Savingdea Месяц назад

      But he does not meet me mentally.

    • @CommonSense8421
      @CommonSense8421 Месяц назад +1

      Just like with my ex and I. Was like watching my own life on tv. She wanted to get married not be married.

  • @user-oh9lm1zb8x
    @user-oh9lm1zb8x Месяц назад +330

    Husband’s face when he finds out her body count says it all. Her face when he says I’ve shown you all of me and she just stares also says it all. She does not love him.

    • @TheHare-rv3hj
      @TheHare-rv3hj Месяц назад +28

      Her intimacy issues have nothing to do with him. She just doesn't love right now. I think she's terrified to love and sabotages good situations because she doesn't trust. There's baggage from her upbringing that she needs to get resolved.

    • @Undertakerfan700
      @Undertakerfan700 Месяц назад

      @@TheHare-rv3hjShe just belongs to the streets dawg

    • @Undertakerfan700
      @Undertakerfan700 Месяц назад +1

      @@TheHare-rv3hjShe is for the streets, doofus

    • @cristineconnell7803
      @cristineconnell7803 Месяц назад +35

      ​@@TheHare-rv3hjWish people would deal with their issues, instead of thinking a wedding will fix it!

    • @none2951
      @none2951 Месяц назад +3

      How is it complex 😂

  • @islandgirlruby2750
    @islandgirlruby2750 Месяц назад +153

    No one falls in love faster than someone who needs somewhere to stay, I call them hobosexual

  • @conniekepke7676
    @conniekepke7676 Месяц назад +79

    #2 guy RUN DON'T WALK

  • @kimberlyheibel8759
    @kimberlyheibel8759 Месяц назад +112

    The second couple is so conflicted. She doesn't love him. There is no affection, no love, nothing there. I feel for her husband.

  • @lynnraymer9065
    @lynnraymer9065 Месяц назад +56

    My husband and I got married 32 yrs ago after dating for 3 weeks!! We still do everything together . We still hold hands. We never fight. We've never said a mean word to each other. Respect and love!! We have 3 kids and 2 grandchildren!!! ❤❤❤❤

    • @user-ho4vq9ki2v
      @user-ho4vq9ki2v Месяц назад

      That’s great to know. You are a y

    • @user-ho4vq9ki2v
      @user-ho4vq9ki2v Месяц назад +3

      Testimony that it is possible to have a good marriage, it just has to be either the right one.

    • @kimberlyriley5545
      @kimberlyriley5545 Месяц назад +5

      We also knew each other for 3 weeks been married almost 35 years ❤

    • @jackielouw4752
      @jackielouw4752 Месяц назад +3

      Wonderful ❤

  • @breezeh1127
    @breezeh1127 Месяц назад +14

    2nd wife is disrespectful, selfish, a liar and not good enough for him. She disgusts me. If he was my son I would pay for the divorce.

  • @juanitasullivan3372
    @juanitasullivan3372 Месяц назад +69

    Dump the girl!!!! She just ripped his heart out when he heard the real number.

    • @EuphoricSoundDJ
      @EuphoricSoundDJ 21 день назад +3

      27 was already a lot
      He should have seen that as a red flag as it is.

  • @rhiannonalcock5524
    @rhiannonalcock5524 Месяц назад +32

    Zero chemistry in the second couple.

  • @kittyeyes888
    @kittyeyes888 Месяц назад +27

    I’m mortified that the second wife wants a child. 😳

  • @abourgeois2
    @abourgeois2 Месяц назад +45

    The first couple actually can make it. They held hands the entire time

  • @user-zb5or2bh9j
    @user-zb5or2bh9j Месяц назад +28

    The second couple has no love. It’s like the woman is a stranger in the marriage. The husband needs to walk.

  • @Enoughalready20237
    @Enoughalready20237 Месяц назад +69

    Pursuing Foster Care?! While their marriage is falling apart?!

  • @CC-lk1sj
    @CC-lk1sj Месяц назад +59

    The second couple need to be separate immediately. She is not going to change period.
    He needs to move away and ensure you don not have a baby with this mentally unstable woman.
    Wanting to bring a baby just because “I want to be mom” it is selfish. Babies, kids deserve a loving, caring parent and a loving home

    • @marks.7593
      @marks.7593 12 дней назад +2

      The 2nd couple should go home and start divorce proceedings. He should NEVER sleep with her, because if he does and she becomes pregnant, he is on the hook for child support for 18 years and forever tied to her. They should run in opposite directions.

  • @romaneros4583
    @romaneros4583 Месяц назад +42

    This second woman is the perfect example that a woman with a large body count can't pair bond. She is damaged by her own poor decisions.

    • @seadragon1456
      @seadragon1456 Месяц назад +6

      For real. Nobody is capable of bonding to one person after having all those options.

    • @Savingdea
      @Savingdea Месяц назад +1

      True 😂😂

    • @chilo8187
      @chilo8187 Месяц назад +4

      Probably sexually abused as a child, people don’t do that for no reason

    • @lxnie_
      @lxnie_ Месяц назад +2

      not even what’s going on buddy. think a little deeper and harder and i promise you you’ll get it

    • @user-zp6wk9pl8v
      @user-zp6wk9pl8v 12 дней назад +1

      @@lxnie_oh yes cause you know her anymore than he does buddy?

  • @veronicasanchez696
    @veronicasanchez696 Месяц назад +64

    She married the nice guy because she knows bad guys mistreat her but she likes bad guys He needs to move on she needs help all kinds of red flags she doesn’t even show him even the bare minimum love and respect she is just afraid of being alone when she’s old but she wants to eat her cake and keep hubby close if she were to tell him she doesn’t love or want to be with him he’s gonna leave and find someone he deserves so she keeps him there for safety that’s so terrible of her and very selfish

  • @CanMoose
    @CanMoose Месяц назад +17

    I hate it when guys say the wife stays home eating bon bons and playing with the kids.
    Staying home with lil children to raise them is a full time job, 24/7.. not an easy job at all, but a very respectable one that SOMEONE needs to do.

  • @ProvocateuAstrology2
    @ProvocateuAstrology2 Месяц назад +101

    Miss dishonesty needs to be ejected from her seat and marriage

  • @janebaker4912
    @janebaker4912 Месяц назад +27

    Second wife has some trauma in her past. Poor woman. She needs to work on that. Maybe not be married. Work on herself. Let this man go.

  • @EarlBaldbear
    @EarlBaldbear Месяц назад +32

    First couple should succeed. They both seem like good people. And they are both spectacularly attractive, for what it's worth. They are most of the way towards reconciling.

    • @ajj9694
      @ajj9694 8 дней назад

      They are a cute couple. I hope they made it.

  • @lincolnlane9235
    @lincolnlane9235 Месяц назад +26

    Anul it, let it fade away and move on. She’s not invested, she can’t be trusted, and the wild child in her is not going to dissipate.

  • @mikennapastion791
    @mikennapastion791 28 дней назад +9

    I feel so bad for the second guy, like her heart isn’t in it the way his is.. he has a big heart and deserves a sweetie.

  • @janewilmer9276
    @janewilmer9276 26 дней назад +6

    The secret to a happy marriage is having a servant attitude, not being self-centered, wanting the best for the other, and having a sense of humor.

  • @RobynA11
    @RobynA11 Месяц назад +46

    I cannot believe she called that car a ‘hoopty’. He bought her what they could afford. It’s better than Chevrolegs, lady. Show some gratitude

    • @888hereandnow
      @888hereandnow 27 дней назад +2

      Yes better than pushing a stroller with 2 kids

    • @Azzne-
      @Azzne- 25 дней назад +3

      You can be both grateful and acknowledge that it’s a hoopty 😂

    • @WendyP1965
      @WendyP1965 17 дней назад +1

      Exactly!

  • @oadougz
    @oadougz Месяц назад +13

    That last "couple" I felt so bad for the Husband. He deserves waaaayyyy better. She was desperate, probably married for money, and clearly she has some mental health issues. He needs to go to therapy so he doesn't end up in this situation again and use his mind more than his heart.

  • @Enoughalready20237
    @Enoughalready20237 Месяц назад +38

    The tears by this young man at 30:20 - I’m so sad for him.

    • @lindaallen4067
      @lindaallen4067 Месяц назад +5

      He really didn't know her... she lied to him!

  • @happycook6737
    @happycook6737 Месяц назад +51

    It does hurt when no one remembers your birthday!

    • @sarahwall3528
      @sarahwall3528 Месяц назад +3

      My husband died 8 years ago and I remember his birthday as I did for 48 years. I think some young people don’t really have a capacity to completely love another person now. They’ve been so indulged by their parents and grandparents and feel they’re the centre of the universe.

    • @anneoreilly4900
      @anneoreilly4900 20 дней назад +2

      Yes, but he should have talked about how he wanted to spend the day. The wife can’t meet unspoken expectations.

  • @user-JesusSonofGod777
    @user-JesusSonofGod777 Месяц назад +39

    Unfortunately the husband needs to end this marriage because his wife doesn’t love or care about him. He seems like a really good guy…& deserves a good woman to treat him right

    • @itlngrl67
      @itlngrl67 18 дней назад +1

      She doesn't even like him. Sad

  • @vanessamatodes
    @vanessamatodes 27 дней назад +11

    The second husband deserves a better lady than this immature wife. She literally lives with an agenda to hurt him

  • @hussainaishaya-audu1844
    @hussainaishaya-audu1844 Месяц назад +29

    The first couple love each other. You can tell. They are just not communicating right.

    • @maritaberndt6200
      @maritaberndt6200 23 дня назад +2

      I can relate to the birthday thing.
      But I can also relate to her disappointment that he isn't around for her and the kids and that he isn't being a partner to her.

    • @mangoyacho
      @mangoyacho 22 дня назад

      @@maritaberndt6200 but he has to work to provide - perhaps she could go to work in the salon too.

    • @ajj9694
      @ajj9694 8 дней назад

      I hope they made it!

  • @ashleysmashley1674
    @ashleysmashley1674 Месяц назад +36

    The first couple, you can tell he loves her dearly

    • @someone3187
      @someone3187 19 дней назад +6

      And so does she

    • @aprilbeeson5331
      @aprilbeeson5331 17 дней назад +5

      They just don't know how to communicate without getting offended.

  • @karenmacomber5692
    @karenmacomber5692 Месяц назад +39

    I went through the same thing and after a year and 4 months, one night he said he was going Christmas shopping for me and never came back. Two kids he he left behind 11months and 4 years old and i still can't get over it. I can't get it out of my mind happened in 1993

    • @Durka-Durka
      @Durka-Durka Месяц назад +10

      Did you get divorced and get child support, or did he disappear? Please get over it. You're better off with a man who has a spine.

    • @Dan16673
      @Dan16673 Месяц назад +4

      Wtf rly? An update? Any word from him?

    • @positivelyradiant9655
      @positivelyradiant9655 Месяц назад +6

      😮😮😮😮 Oh my gosh! That’s crazy, I’m sorry you went through that!!

    • @loriloucks3738
      @loriloucks3738 Месяц назад +9

      After 6 years my guy handed me my travel mug and gave me a kiss good bye and I left for work, came home and him and all his stuff was gone.

    • @seadragon1456
      @seadragon1456 Месяц назад +7

      I didn’t realize men really did that.

  • @lorainewebber65
    @lorainewebber65 Месяц назад +39

    Second dude needs to run, he can find someone that will treat him the way he deserves to be treated, she's not worth it

  • @michellecleland5515
    @michellecleland5515 Месяц назад +16

    first couple...I can't get over how beautiful they both are. Not important for this topic but wow!! They have amazing genes.

    • @GypsyGirl317
      @GypsyGirl317 3 дня назад

      They seem like lovely people as well - I hope they make it. ❤️

  • @cathy2142
    @cathy2142 Месяц назад +12

    Jezebel! Those smiles on the second lady. Scary. She is PROUD of her lustful behavior while married. I feel for the husband. If there was adultery run man run!

  • @angelh8262
    @angelh8262 Месяц назад +11

    Narcissist’s always turn on the tears and play the victim. It’s all an act. Please get out of this relationship. She will never, ever change.

  • @Lisafisico
    @Lisafisico Месяц назад +18

    I am mind blown, and nothing ever surprises me! Send the guy my way, I'll love him. He needs to leave her, she doesn't even like him, no matter love him! Wow!

  • @shrutefarms4741
    @shrutefarms4741 Месяц назад +24

    Second women is a child a selfish immature child who will never be a good partner… for anyone. Move on guy!

  • @laraderksen4297
    @laraderksen4297 Месяц назад +14

    Second couple- he deserves so much better. She’s not being a very good human let alone life partner at this point. I hope he left her.

  • @americanmade1701
    @americanmade1701 Месяц назад +21

    #2 is a nut..RUNNNNN

  • @beverlytolbert2278
    @beverlytolbert2278 Месяц назад +29

    The 2nd couple..WHY is he staying? WHAT is he staying for?!?! He's a fool if he stays with her.

  • @teedee1170
    @teedee1170 Месяц назад +14

    No ways can you lie to someone like that! He married a person who he doesn’t know! Walk!

  • @rainewaters6371
    @rainewaters6371 19 дней назад +4

    That first couple are just beautiful and obviously in love. Their troubles actually sound normal and probably what most young couples go through. 💕

  • @jackiedoocey8798
    @jackiedoocey8798 Месяц назад +39

    She cant stand him

  • @leanneheinemann3862
    @leanneheinemann3862 Месяц назад +16

    My husband and I, got engaged after 3 months, married within 12 months. We’ve been married 46yrs.

    • @nonap5225
      @nonap5225 2 дня назад +1

      Same here. We will be married 62 years in a month. Never regretted getting married. At 81 years old and 80 years old, we still have a deep love for each other. We also have Jesus in our lives. Jesus is the glue that keeps us together.

  • @candicear-43
    @candicear-43 Месяц назад +14

    I hate to say this but it feels like with the 2nd couple that she loves the life he provides but not him. I think thats why she wants a baby. He'll be on the hook for 18 yrs financially. He would still be supporting her, in a way if she leaves him.

  • @jennifers8843
    @jennifers8843 Месяц назад +32

    The second woman is way to immature to be in a committed relationship of any kind.

  • @dorthymcbride3384
    @dorthymcbride3384 Месяц назад +19

    She committed fraud! She might need to be a call girl, NOT a MOTHER....NOT YET!!

  • @princessangerloo5905
    @princessangerloo5905 Месяц назад +27

    The reality is that marriage is completely and utterly unrealistic.. most people get married to get their own selfish needs met, but don’t want to serve the other person. A marriage WILL NOT survive if you don’t put the other person’s needs in front of your own.. If you are only concerned with yourself, you will NEVER have a successful relationship of any kind. Most people want to be RIGHT instead of being HAPPY

    • @belindaschafer1593
      @belindaschafer1593 Месяц назад +1

      🎉yes, agree

    • @Undomaranel
      @Undomaranel Месяц назад +2

      The reality is that our ancestors in every culture figured out that the best way to create a stable and fair system for children to grow and mates to be divided among each other was some form of marriage. That ONLY works if your society has some mentality towards growing or adventuring, or completely oppresses everyone into compliance. If people are not rising to meet the expectation, that's societal decay. Humans have proven time and people over and over again that marriage works. It's individuals being selfish animals by refusing to be what makes us human and live by altruistic virtues that ruins it for everyone.
      Marriage is totally realistic, if your people are people rather than selfish animals. If your people have the mindset of, "We need to give part of myself to you and grow together rather than use you for my satisfaction," then your culture will last. If not? Your society will fail and the rising generations will scorn your failure and build something that actually works.

    • @seadragon1456
      @seadragon1456 Месяц назад +4

      I’ve been married for 11 years and although my marriage is fine. I agree that marriage isn’t realistic. You never know what you’re going to get stuck with. 😬
      I’ve watched so many marriages fail before 10 years and for a whole book of reasons.
      People grow and sometimes they grow into completely different people. 1 side does all the work and gets burnt out. Money problems…. If everyone was big $$$ at marriage things would be better. Let’s not forget in the bedroom some men aren’t lovers. Some are 30-60 second dudes. Some think they are entitled to their wives bodies whenever they want.
      I don’t think humans were suppose to be monogamous.

    • @debbielowe5496
      @debbielowe5496 Месяц назад +1

      100%

    • @maloryburkhalter6667
      @maloryburkhalter6667 Месяц назад +3

      That is just not true. We have a really bad game of telephone where people STILL say "50% of marriages end in divorce". That is absolutely not correct. It is more like 14%. That stat was back in the 80s and it was over 1 year looking at the divorce rate and marriage rate for that year. Now the percentage increases with 2 3 4th time marriages or marriages with large age gaps. Marriage is hard for sure but so is anything in life. Family is hard. Friendships are hard at times when they last a long time. Marriage is still absolutely worth it when two people decide to share their whole life with eachother.

  • @user-oh9lm1zb8x
    @user-oh9lm1zb8x Месяц назад +72

    Wow. He’s far from underachieving. He owns his own business and is taking care of his responsibilities. She needs to stop thinking it’s his responsibility to take care of her. They need to take care of each other.

    • @catholicfaithofmine2664
      @catholicfaithofmine2664 Месяц назад +7

      Exactly 💯. He's not her personal ATM. He's not working just for her it's for the whole family.
      Catered to? No He's not your maid.

    • @jeanneeber
      @jeanneeber Месяц назад +4

      👉 Who's already catering to 2 other human beings 24/7/365? All day & all night every day? What did he do for her, today?

    • @kiimmig2293
      @kiimmig2293 Месяц назад +5

      @@jeanneeberYES!! His comments about napping and eating bon bons all day was an example of his understanding of her jobs! ZERO!
      He’s out and about conversing with adults, making major FAMILY decisions, in his name only, but thinking she’s going to gush all over him ? 🤬
      He needs a month of staying home and doing her job IMO. It’s not magic fairies that are doing all the jobs.

    • @patriciakeith6164
      @patriciakeith6164 Месяц назад +3

      It's a 💯 percent part in each of them to make it work it's a marriage with demands on each part not a one way street

    • @patriciakeith6164
      @patriciakeith6164 Месяц назад +2

      ​@@kiimmig2293 Wonder if his name is Al Bundy and a shoe salesman

  • @MrOverdogg
    @MrOverdogg Месяц назад +48

    THE SECOND COUPLE, THE WIFE IS A GARDEN TOOL, HE NEED'S TO GET OUT OF THIS FOOLISHNESS ASAP.

    • @Lisa59
      @Lisa59 Месяц назад

      A garden tool! hahahahahahaha! Yeah, he needs to get away until she is straightened out

    • @sidewaze67
      @sidewaze67 Месяц назад +2

      Nope tools are useful! 😅

    • @MrOverdogg
      @MrOverdogg Месяц назад +1

      @@sidewaze67 tools are only useful for what they are used for and that tool has been used a lot.

    • @WendyP1965
      @WendyP1965 17 дней назад

      Exactly!

  • @mattysheehan9786
    @mattysheehan9786 29 дней назад +5

    As a husband who loves spoiling my wife, I can tell you for 100% certainty that I would absolutely hate it if she wasn’t grateful to me… which she is every single time for every little thing, and it’s marvelous and makes me even happier

  • @chrisapollo6676
    @chrisapollo6676 Месяц назад +6

    2nd couple: dude, you need to walk. Scratch that - RUN!!!
    She’s for the street. She’ll destroy you - do not get her pregnant.
    RUN!!!
    She’s looking for an 18 year payday.
    You cannot fix her.
    You don’t understand, dude.
    You need to RUN!

  • @billysmith5721
    @billysmith5721 Месяц назад +14

    SOMETIMES THERE IS NO ANSWER OTHER THAN DIVORCE

    • @Savingdea
      @Savingdea Месяц назад +2

      It’s for the best G

  • @gooseylou2
    @gooseylou2 Месяц назад +13

    She will not change… best predictor of future behavior… he’s in love with an idea …

  • @lastlaugherboss
    @lastlaugherboss Месяц назад +41

    Shes for the STREETS!! 😂😎

  • @deslobo-ep6jn
    @deslobo-ep6jn Месяц назад +8

    this fella seems like a really nice guy ❤️ works hard for his family he's not abusive, isn't cheating,loves his family, she needs to grow up and stop being an annoying ungrateful person he is a good role model for men

  • @MaanSelene
    @MaanSelene Месяц назад +14

    Do you know how many women in the audience would sell their soul to the devil himself right there on the stage for a husband like Donny? Holy mozes....

    • @flenzy
      @flenzy 28 дней назад

      Not me. He's a classic doormat. I'll bet that he'll never leave and that she will someday. He'll subconscious be attracted to another woman just like her. It's his comfort level and probably feels familiar. Wonder how his mother treated him.

  • @charleanneeichler2028
    @charleanneeichler2028 18 дней назад +3

    The first couple were so beautiful, they do love each other, it shows and I pray they make it. You guys can do it!!!!

  • @alanaadams7440
    @alanaadams7440 Месяц назад +15

    Run buddy and do not look back. You are a good man go find a nice woman

  • @barbaramilone2800
    @barbaramilone2800 Месяц назад +30

    I've had my share of not-so-good relationships, but I eventually met my soulmate. We were married for ten years (together, almost twelve) and had two daughters. We both worked full-time and managed to share the load at home. We shared the cooking and cleaning. He did the handyman stuff, and I did the paperwork, according to our strengths. Unfortunately, he had a heart attack and passed away when the girls were only 9 and 6. That was 27 years ago, and unfortunately, I have never met anyone like him again. The real princes are few and far between, but with some work and give-and-take (and reasonable thinking), I think the first couple has a chance. I hope so.

    • @jscho8674
      @jscho8674 Месяц назад +3

      I am so sorry you lost your husband so young. I almost lost mine under the same circumstances when our twins were 9. Even just coming close to losing him was a nightmare. My heart aches for you, and for him too. He must have been so incredible special to have never met another man worthy enough. I hate that it ended so young for you two, but I bet the legacy of your man and your marriage are treasured throughout your family. ❤

    • @barbaramilone2800
      @barbaramilone2800 Месяц назад

      @@jscho8674 Thank you so much for your kind words!!!

    • @jacquicampbell5049
      @jacquicampbell5049 Месяц назад +1

      This is my worst nightmare. The men in my husband's family tend to pass away young, and I honestly don't know how I would cope without my husband. He is my soul mate, even though he would get the ick hearing me say that🙊

    • @user-cq9wv1vp4i
      @user-cq9wv1vp4i Месяц назад +1

      Ah that's so sad. At least you met your soulmate and have 2 beautiful children. I am still waiting, 42yrs old 😢. 💜

    • @barbaramilone2800
      @barbaramilone2800 Месяц назад

      @@user-cq9wv1vp4i He's gotta be out there somewhere! I'm 69 and have not yet given up hope! 😀

  • @TG-fq6vy
    @TG-fq6vy Месяц назад +27

    Oh, here we go with the singing. They are always going to be a big singing star and they’re sacrificing their career that they don’t have and never would.😂

    • @DaisyChain3339.
      @DaisyChain3339. Месяц назад +4

      Always a rapper and producer.

    • @DodgaOfficial
      @DodgaOfficial Месяц назад +4

      They always suck too, I never see any clip of them singing or rapping where I'm like "damn they're so talented."

    • @helenmcdonnell2585
      @helenmcdonnell2585 22 дня назад +1

      Childish.. the world doesn't need another rapper

  • @BunnySlippers82
    @BunnySlippers82 Месяц назад +5

    Second wife does not love her husband, she's searching for a bad boy who will choose her over all his other women and it's not going to happen. That poor man deserves real love and she's not it.

  • @TruthIris
    @TruthIris Месяц назад +21

    First woman thought he should have jumped at her wanting ice cream but did absolutely nothing for his birthday. Scoffed at the car he bought her. No hope for either couple.

  • @jazzy5975
    @jazzy5975 Месяц назад +12

    The last woman is self sabotaging

  • @lutesingh623
    @lutesingh623 Месяц назад +7

    “All you have to do is be open with me” 😢 man soo sad❤

  • @kauaiank4537
    @kauaiank4537 Месяц назад +14

    The second couple of the guy needs to run run and run fast

  • @MOFEY..
    @MOFEY.. Месяц назад +52

    Who would live together after 4 days💀

    • @lindajackson2382
      @lindajackson2382 Месяц назад +15

      SOMEONE THAT HAS NO PLACE TO STAY! That's why they DATED SOMEBODY TO BEGIN WITH!!! LOL

    • @mrshadenoughofallthis911
      @mrshadenoughofallthis911 Месяц назад +17

      My husband & I moved in after a week. Still happily married 25 years later.

    • @djnolan00000
      @djnolan00000 Месяц назад +10

      All kinds of reasons, though i doubt any of them are healthy.

    • @sugaredviolets2085
      @sugaredviolets2085 Месяц назад +12

      @@mrshadenoughofallthis911You’re the exception not the rule.

    • @spudnut00
      @spudnut00 Месяц назад +6

      When I was a young, divorced mom of many children, I met a man who knocked on the wrong door while looking for an address. I spent ten minutes with him at six in the evening, he was back by ten, and moved in by eight the next morning. He changed my life in every positive way imaginable and my kids adored him. We eventually ended our romantic relationship but we remained friends until he died a natural death. My (near retirement age) kids still talk about him, affectionately. I don't think it's so much about the 'timing' as it is about the people involved. My oldest daughter married her husband (at age 19) after only knowing him for a few months. Forty years later, they still adore each other and have had only two arguments.

  • @cherylholub3100
    @cherylholub3100 Месяц назад +29

    My son got a divorce after 3 months. She was having an affair before they got married.

    • @happycook6737
      @happycook6737 Месяц назад +7

      😱I hope your son finds someone awesome.

    • @cherylholub3100
      @cherylholub3100 Месяц назад

      @@happycook6737 He was single for 17 years and he is married to a wonderful lady. All he wanted from his divorce was his daughter and he got soul custody of her.

    • @dr.sammypryor
      @dr.sammypryor Месяц назад +4

      I am sorry dear.

    • @jscho8674
      @jscho8674 Месяц назад +3

      What a nightmare.

    • @cherylholub3100
      @cherylholub3100 17 часов назад

      @@happycook6737 He got remarried after 17 years and she is fantastic.

  • @lindamueller2858
    @lindamueller2858 Месяц назад +23

    The first couple : This is why you should never have kids before marriage

  • @shannonvetrano3431
    @shannonvetrano3431 Месяц назад +12

    My husband promised on our first date. We were married for 10 years together almost 12 before he died and he's still the best most beautiful man I've ever known and I miss him every single day ❤

  • @somenygaard
    @somenygaard Месяц назад +10

    27 or 40 the difference is 13 but actually the numbers are the same when it comes to the subject matter. She isn’t into you. Maybe she’s a freak and you just aren’t satisfying her. Definitely something seriously out of whack.