This is my first time seeing your channel Sam, and it is an excellent topic. I am a 57 year old American retired in Cebu for a year and a half. I am dating a 23 year old Filipina. I looked at many Filipina dating profiles, and judging by their age parameters only, it looks like approximately 25% of them are willing to date a man 50 or over. I think that you are absolutely 100% right about age gap relationships being driven by money. I will quote Briffault's law: No female will mate with any male unless she receives an advantage from the male. So the older foreigner with a $2,000 pension can offer his Filipina ten times the advantages when you compare him to her neighbor Tonio in the village who makes $200. Also, the foreigner can assist with a visa and US citizenship if desired. It is very difficult to find a single quality woman in America, and many American girls would not be interested in an older guy with a $2,000 income, which is the American equivalent of Tonio's income. So you can see why the older foreigner and younger Filipina are actually a good match instead of dating in their own countries. Every time I go to the shopping mall, I see older foreigners with their younger Filipinas. If I hang out at the mall for a while, I will often have a Filipina come up and introduce herself to me. Tonio can't afford to take her to the mall, but I can, and all women worldwide love to shop. If I want to have a child, I am forced to find a woman of childbearing age, 20-30. I sure can' t have children with a woman my age. If I wanted a woman my age I could easily find one without much trouble in America.
Well said Michael. You are living the Philippine dream. Which city do you live in. I lived near Cebu city for almost 2yrs before moving to Dumaguete. Thank you for joining us today. You have a great day!
@@SAMLAMB Sam....and Michael - excellent video and comments by you, Michael. First, see you in May, I hope, Sam. I will "finally" be back home in Dumaguete after running around SE Asia and being stuck here in Manila for a bit trying to get some things done and land a Chinese VISA. I agree with your comments - as an explanation for about 85-90% of the reasoning for Filipinas falling for washed-up semblances of men like us (well, me at least - you still have some kick left in you). The other 10-15% is somewhat cultural in that I believe Filipinas are more open to the age gap than women in many other cultures. Maybe Thailand and a few other SE Asian countries are on par, but certainly not Vietnam, Korea, Japan and others would be quite so welcoming, albeit the income depravity is not the same. But even with the same lack of material possessions, I don't think you get quite the same buy-in that you can get with some Filipinas, and that is NOT a knock against them. I think it speaks highly of their general open mindedness to people who don't fit a "cookie-cutter" image that the world tells them to accept. Not to down-play their desire to better their socio-economic condition, and can one blame them? Michael - spot on when it comes to the child-bearing. If you desire children when you are 40-50-60, or whatever, so be it. Your business. But a 50-60 year old woman does not have that option. Truth be told, in the animal kingdom (to which we also belong), males instinctively migrate to fertile females. And the other males (and females) don't refer to them as "pigs" - unless of course they ARE pigs. But the poor boars lost that job when they discovered artificial insemination. We guys can't buy a break.
@lightfighter685 It's all about self-control of budget . I keep a reasonable budget for myself. I'm worth a lot, and it's going to stay that way. Everything I budget though is disposable. Live laugh make merry . Just have a cap on it.
There are many reasons for this. 1. Many older guys want to start a new family. A young girl can have kids. 2. Most of the Filipinas have kids. The guy she was with dumped her, because he wasn't stable. She looks for stability. 3. She also seeks a better life. 4. She seeks an looks for wisdom an support. The ability for her to learn an grow. 5. In most cases a young filipina can learn, she can be what the older guy is looking for. 6. Her family knows she will be taken good care of financially an in many cases, he will help or support her family. 7. In most cases the older man will not cheat. He really doesn't want drama, and she likes this because most Filipino guy's cheat. 8. She wants a full an stable life. Very simple. Plus if an when he passes, she receives his benefit's. The younger guys are not retired. They have no pension. They want to play around. The filipina knows this game well. Best wishes, good video.
Financially independent educated young good looking Filipina won’t date men 10 years older than them. Choose a poor provincial Filipina and you’ll have a fighting chance of hooking up with them. That’s just survival.
@@kathiemathias212Well, I’m 28, educated and financially independent dated a 62 year old foreigner.😊 And, I don’t date him for money, cause I am making my own money.
LOL Why? I will refer back to when I was 44 and dating a 22 yr old lingerie model, My mother asked me why. My dad folded over the corner of newspaper and said, "WHY??? Because he CAN, that's whay"
You are spot on in this video.. You are correct about some of these popular vloggers and what they are peddling. After meeting you, I was amazed at how you chose to put away the 8:15 rose colored glasses and saw things for what they are. I hope that viewers come over for a few months, stay single, and see how Phillipine culture really is. Good luck on finishing up the house repairs.
Really appreciate your comment Whatsnext. The house has been a thorn on my rear end for the last two years. All will be fine. You be safe and have a great day!
Whatever each other's situation is, my answer would always be "because they can". I'm more of a "that's their business" person. People need to be more worried about their own situation than someone else's. Less Karens in the world would make this a happier place to live.
No on the cultural idea. Economics, sure. Filipino men being players,cheaters,etc. Of course I'm not saying 100%, or ALL. I spoke with lots of filipina lady's, young and old. Some date older expats for the chance to have biracial children. I truly pray Razel is doing well. Sam be careful in GA. I was in Atlanta last week.
Based on years of dating and marriages in the U.S. most 50 year olds think I am too old for them (I am 67). In the Philippines my 50 year old filipina still looks like she's in her 30s and that is perfectly fine with me.
First of all, what is old. Sure 50s, 60s and 70s is old, but not like it used to be. Each man's personal health is different, but most men don't start acting really "old" until their 80s. That's when their bodies don't move like they used to, and even their speech and way of talking changes. Secondly, what does young mean? I consider 18 off limits, and 19-25 to be "young" and the target group you want to start with first. Thirdly, why wouldn't you date a young Filipina if you can? duh. And if you ARE in your 70s or 80s, if you date them young, when you leave this planet, she still has her whole life ahead of her. So you're welcome.
Great comment, Fever… I like 80 as😀😀 being old. That means I have a couple more years to consider myself as young…more I think of it your comment is really making me feel young…BEST comment ever!
You’re definitely correct! It’s NOT a culture thing. It does have a lot to do with stability. I’m Filipina and I personally cannot date a man over 60. I have a limit. 59 is the oldest I would date because I’m 54. lol
Louisa, Louisa. Love your attitude and sense of humor. We have something in common, I feel exactly the same as you do. I will never date a man over 60 🤣🤣🤣Thank you for joining us today.
what you are saying is perfectly reasonable to me. when we turn on the network TV , stream TV or watch youtube content, its mostly the same. People want to watch younger beautiful people doing interesting things . And that content with nice looking actors or nice looking couples dominate the media . we are are all " conditioned " to think a different way, when reality is quite different. My wife and I have been married for over 40 years, we have 3 adult children and grandkids, and no one cares about my boring middle class life . Thats why when we watch TV , or watch the news, or watch TV adverstisements, I try to separate what I am being " SOLD" versus Reality .
I just got married and maybe there are a lot of expats with younger philipinas but I am 61 and married a 50 yr old who is loving dedicated mature and a good mother. I hope to get her here soon
Thanks, I also agree with you that is not a culture here to have a gf or marry young girls but it doesn't mean that these young girls are easy to get. There are also young girls that are matured enough in handling relationships and they are looking for older ones because of their life experience managing life situations. It is only my observation.
Sam, you conclusion regarding young Filipinas is 100% correct. However, you fell short of stating it is the nature of women globally not just Filipinas. I believe Filipinas like women globally are master survivalists.
Wow !!! Master survivalist, Globally? As in the best in the world? I have to think on that. There’s a lot of crap going on around the world right now which forces women to survive. But I do get your point. I know many Filipinas who are trying to survive right now. Thank you for joining us.
I understand, Sam. I'm perfectly happy with my fiancée in her mid-forties. We are equals except I'm around 70. Her friends are the same. We don't want a young, inexperienced lady without life experience. I don't think that I am "robbing the cradle," marrying a forty five year old woman, is at all weird. We're happy and I am happy to help raise her teenage sons and nephews. Boys need a father figure and my fiancée appreciates my experience and maybe some wisdom. I like your content a lot, Sam. I'd like to get to know you when we're both in Dumaguete. Thanks.
You are a great man, willing to help raise her child and nephew…I should be back in Dumaguete by August…leave a message on my messenger or email…you be safe.
Hi Sam, just wondering are you and razel doing ok, seems she has been away alot. I just love you both together and hope all is well between you both, keep happy and razel if your watching this keep strong Sam loves you and we love you hope to see you both together soon, you have that big dynamic when your together , keep happy Sam and razel, hope you get the house sorted soon cheers guys
We are doing fine, Jenny. RAZEL had to deal with her situation and at the same time I had to deal with my situation back in the USA. Hopefully by summer we can finally get back to some semblance of normalcy . For me once the house is sold I’ll be fine. But for RAZEL It’s going to be a long journey. I’ll be with her every step of the way. Maybe at times it may not seem I’m 100% physically with her. But I’m not far behind just in case she falls backwards. Losing both parents to sickness so close to each other can be tough on anyone. Thank you for your prayers and encouragement. You guys mean a lot to us. Like we’ve said many times before. We only make videos cuz we enjoy it and nothing else. And I just enjoy reading all of you guys comments ( positive and negative) 😃. You be safe Jenny. And have a great day!
The answer is for the government stop being afraid and force the business man to pay a fare wage. When you go to any mall. Most of the name brand clothing and shoes cost just as much as they do in the USA if not more. I don’t understand how these businesses owners can get away with paying their employees $10 day in major cities and $6 or $7 a day in the province.
THIS MALAYSIAN AMERICAN IS LIKE MALNOURISH NORTH KOREAN, VERY PROUD TO BE AMERICAN ,, FINDING ALWAYS WOMEN OR SEXUALITY IN PHILIPPINES, VERY MUNTIDY GUY.
House market here in Florida stinks. I got to short sale my house here in Palmetto Florida. I'm leaving America June 4th to permanently live in Philippines
@SAMLAMB it's Gio here I'm telling you rent till market changes I'm telling you. Intrest rates here are 6.8% alot of housing on the market and in foreclosure. Banks don't want the houses
@SAMLAMB 3803 5th Avenue West, Palmetto Florida 34221 look it up on red fin that's my 4 bedroom house look at everything I did over 6 years since I bought it new roof, solar system, new AC, new water heater, new hurricane windows and shutters, new dishwasher. Figured we were going to stay here she's been here 2 years and doesn't like it at all
Why should anyone cares about who I date, each individual is responsible for their own life. I do have the right to do the things that makes me happy as long as I am not deliberately making anyone uncomfortable. It doesn’t matter what you do it’s impossible to please everyone.
Thank you Bradley. We appreciate you. We’ll be making more content soon. It’s been a tough 6months for RAZEL and I. RAZEL is slowly getting back to her old self again and she’ll be joining me soon in our future videos. You be safe
I would never have a young Filipina girlfriend, my girlfriend is just turned 60 and I'm 70, yep keeping to my age group 😊 is the name of the game for me.
You are exactly what Im talking about. It’s not just older guys with younger women…you watch RUclips and you think every old expat are with young Filipinas…thanks for joining us Richie …
Sam all your comments were very accurate. It's sad that Filipinas and the Filipino population in general are squeezed into making those kinds of decisions. We in the Western countries really don't have any concept how deeply poverty affects the trajectory of these people lives. We have poverty in the US but until you see how much humility Filipinos have and how they find the strength to still be good decent people in the face of really abject poverty then maybe we can appreciate life more, by understanding the reason behind the decisions they are forced to make.
Well said Charles. Your thoughts and comments are some of the reasons I made Philippines my second home. I’ve traveled the world and I’ve never seen anything like it. The people of Philippines as a whole should be very proud of themselves.
Their more interested in us, I don't even search, they come at me the younger ones,the older ones think they to old, like 35 to 45, which i prefer,cause of maturity, but the young ones are mature too, but I not discriminating, if they like I like😊
SSV, I’ve been told that a 100x .. but thanks for watching it till 10:32. I think you’ll appreciate this my last video was originally 18min long. I shared it with a friend and he said my introduction was way too long. So I shaved almost 5mins. So I’m working on it 😅 Just imagine having to endure 5extra min of me rambling before getting to the point hehe. I’ll be making a follow up video today. Off the last video. Wish me luck. Alright be safe. Thanks for helping me out.
@@SAMLAMB No I actually watched the whole thing, you never know when there will be another wisdom nugget. It's probably just my ADHD, but I just want the brass tacks, conversely, I also get that YT pays based on watch time, comments, etc. So it's all good. Every PH vlogger seems to be running on "island time". LOL
@@ssvgroup2563when I’m recording I normally record for about an hour. Then I work on bringing it down to 20min. Alright chat later. You be safe and have a great day!
I must be the exception to the rule. I'm retired in the Philippines since 2016. Been dating the same woman i met online in 2007. I'm 69 and she's 61. 👍🇵🇭🇺🇲
Its a money thing. We exchange $$ for beauty. The unspoken agreement. Good 4 us good 4 them. You guys get into your feelings about love and such. As long as she respects and appreciates thats love ❤️ 2 me..
Your going to get the Dumagete Grandpas upset. Your being too honest they really believe that a fourteen hour flight made them the object of a young Filipinas desire. Not to mention that they count on selling that dream to get views.
i dont reckon its cultural, i think its about the income disparity. the men are very high value due to their income, they can offer the girl a much better future. i really think its that simple, but if the man cant take on these responsibilites and manage his budget well, and learn to say no here and there, hes gonna have big problems.hopefully the man isnt so generous he compomises himself. but hopefully hes generous enuf to better the girls life.
Reckon, which southern states are you from? Great comment Erin. I’ve always been over generous. RAZEL has to keep me in check. Otherwise I’d go broke hehe. I do have a pretty nice lifestyle. From being a homeless young boy to being adopted by a military man. I had a proper upbringing. My dad was strict but fair. I feel I am one of the luckiest person in the world. I’ve always felt that the person I choose to spend my life with and that person is willing to put up with my inadequacies. She’ll have a pretty good lifestyle too.
Sucks when is only for money nothing like been In love . Unfortunately life is very costly They have everything they want but empty inside and fake beeing inlove
Brenda. I’ve thought about that. That’s why I go all in when it comes to helping my Filipina. RAZEL and I have been in a relationship for 6yrs. I’ve taught her how to survive without me. By teaching her finances. She’ll be fine when I’m gone.
Date young girls? In my experience , when I meet a woman over the age of 25, she has some other man's children , and responsibilities that I'm not interested in having?
I don't care! all my efforts are for bettering myself and all around me, what small thinking irrelevant people think or say means nothing and I don't waste any energy on them at all, loving life here in Makati.
I remembered when I first read the original comment I thought I was wasting my energy in replying. Then I thought I better make a video on this topic. Thank you for taking the time and joining us today.
in other countries they dont date old foreigners like they do in the Philippines, even if the pay isnt good in the country. yes, they date old guys in ph because they have money, but also its like almost like a fad to date foreigners in the Philippines, they want foreigners around them, it makes them look good to be around foreigners. but yea they would rather be with one who is less than 20 years older than them for sure. but i talk to a few of them, im younger, they want me to just have babies with them because they like my eyes and my nose. they dont even want to get married or come to usa. they want me to stop by and do my thing so they can have a baby.
@@SAMLAMB i have never had any children. im just saying, in the philippines they really like foreigners, their families and communities will encourage them to get with foreigners, it isnt like that in other countries. everyone in the world wants money and girls everywhere want to marry up, but i think the massive amount of old dudes with young girls in ph is not solely based on money.
@smittylikesto Smitty, thank you for the comment. Every time I read a message like yours it makes me rethink why foreigners are so popular in the Philippines. I’ve made many videos dealing with this exact subject. Although you see a lot of old white guys with young Filipina. There’s just as many old Asian guys with young Filipina. You just don’t notice it. Whether it’s old , young, white, asian, or black, I still feel the main reason you see so many old white guys with young Filipina is because they stick out like a sore thumb. And when you show that on RUclips we as humans are drawn to that. I’ll share this quick story: the first time I had 2 girlfriends I was not sure who to pick. So I’m in a taxi, and I told the taxi driver my dilemma. His comment changed everything. Now most taxi drivers make about $20 -$50 a day …he’s about 35 to 45 yrs old and he said, what’s the big deal I have a wife and 3 girlfriends… and you see those homeless people in the park, they probably have 2 or 3 girlfriends. Then he said women are 3 to 1 to men here in the Philippines, So if you’re broke and have no money just by pure numbers a man should have 3 girls if money was not an issue. So the answer to so many old white dudes with young Filipina. Is a matter of economics, and survival for a woman. There’s just not enough men for them to choose. That’s just my opinion
@@SAMLAMB i dont think there is a ratio like that in the philippines as a whole, but i have heard in the big cities there is a lot of young single women. maybe there is also the fact that marrying a foreigner can give them the chance of leaving the country, i think that might be just as important as the money.
A transition has been in the works in the Philippines the old are dying off and more younger has been appearing in the Philippines men in their 30s and 40s. RUclips vlogger jasper in the Philippines said something that is so smart. He was talking about the expats who quickly build houses for scamming girls and in alot of cases after it is built she says i dont love you anymore bye and she moves in her filipino bf and family in the foreign mans house nothing he can do about it. Jasper said he told his gf i dont think about building you a house until we together for 4 years smart man he talks about the expats who let their hearts runaway with themselves and the simps quickly build and lose 🤗
I disagree, not all Filipina are easy to get. There are more of us ..Filipina who are still reserved and care for a real meaning of love and lifetime relationships especially the matured or at the age of 45 and up.
@analoves9048 I agree with you Ana. I’m glad you chimed in. Thank you for supporting my thoughts. Just because most bloggers have young gf and that’s all their subscribers see and hear does not mean all old expats gfs are young girls. You have a great day. And good luck on finding your special someone.
In the western world, especially in America,vast majority of guy's end up with an.old dried up elephant, aka "big Shirley" so there bitter about their entrapment, as they slowly fade and die 😂 Instead, they could be busy living up life in SE Asia, south America, Africa etc where young women are available, plus most important, there actually women, not dried up elephants, aka "big Shirley" w/ the cow bell 🙏
I haven’t dated an American woman since I moved to the Philippines after my divorce 17yrs ago. And my experiences with American women is better left unsaid
I think the opposite. The males are the real gold diggers…literally…we work our butt off for years just to have a little bit of that gold…and along comes a beautiful Filipina and and in less than a week all our gold is gone. lol 🤣🤣🤣
@@SAMLAMB Im watching you from north east india,Itanagar ..It sounds very odd..your experience so it doesnt mean you ll make 1,2,3 ...episodes change da topic ...Your look Asian
This is my first time seeing your channel Sam, and it is an excellent topic. I am a 57 year old American retired in Cebu for a year and a half. I am dating a 23 year old Filipina. I looked at many Filipina dating profiles, and judging by their age parameters only, it looks like approximately 25% of them are willing to date a man 50 or over. I think that you are absolutely 100% right about age gap relationships being driven by money. I will quote Briffault's law: No female will mate with any male unless she receives an advantage from the male. So the older foreigner with a $2,000 pension can offer his Filipina ten times the advantages when you compare him to her neighbor Tonio in the village who makes $200. Also, the foreigner can assist with a visa and US citizenship if desired. It is very difficult to find a single quality woman in America, and many American girls would not be interested in an older guy with a $2,000 income, which is the American equivalent of Tonio's income. So you can see why the older foreigner and younger Filipina are actually a good match instead of dating in their own countries. Every time I go to the shopping mall, I see older foreigners with their younger Filipinas. If I hang out at the mall for a while, I will often have a Filipina come up and introduce herself to me. Tonio can't afford to take her to the mall, but I can, and all women worldwide love to shop. If I want to have a child, I am forced to find a woman of childbearing age, 20-30. I sure can' t have children with a woman my age. If I wanted a woman my age I could easily find one without much trouble in America.
Well said Michael. You are living the Philippine dream. Which city do you live in. I lived near Cebu city for almost 2yrs before moving to Dumaguete. Thank you for joining us today. You have a great day!
@lizagalvez3019Liza, no disrespect, but that mindset would put you in the poor house. And there’s nothing romantic about being poor.
@michaelbeggs2013, and u won't be happy! Filipina loves are the best!
@@SAMLAMB Sam....and Michael - excellent video and comments by you, Michael. First, see you in May, I hope, Sam. I will "finally" be back home in Dumaguete after running around SE Asia and being stuck here in Manila for a bit trying to get some things done and land a Chinese VISA. I agree with your comments - as an explanation for about 85-90% of the reasoning for Filipinas falling for washed-up semblances of men like us (well, me at least - you still have some kick left in you). The other 10-15% is somewhat cultural in that I believe Filipinas are more open to the age gap than women in many other cultures. Maybe Thailand and a few other SE Asian countries are on par, but certainly not Vietnam, Korea, Japan and others would be quite so welcoming, albeit the income depravity is not the same. But even with the same lack of material possessions, I don't think you get quite the same buy-in that you can get with some Filipinas, and that is NOT a knock against them. I think it speaks highly of their general open mindedness to people who don't fit a "cookie-cutter" image that the world tells them to accept. Not to down-play their desire to better their socio-economic condition, and can one blame them? Michael - spot on when it comes to the child-bearing. If you desire children when you are 40-50-60, or whatever, so be it. Your business. But a 50-60 year old woman does not have that option. Truth be told, in the animal kingdom (to which we also belong), males instinctively migrate to fertile females. And the other males (and females) don't refer to them as "pigs" - unless of course they ARE pigs. But the poor boars lost that job when they discovered artificial insemination. We guys can't buy a break.
@lightfighter685 It's all about self-control of budget . I keep a reasonable budget for myself. I'm worth a lot, and it's going to stay that way. Everything I budget though is disposable. Live laugh make merry . Just have a cap on it.
It's not cultural, it's about ECONOMICS.
100%
There are many reasons for this.
1. Many older guys want to start a new family. A young girl can have kids.
2. Most of the Filipinas have kids. The guy she was with dumped her, because he wasn't stable. She looks for stability.
3. She also seeks a better life.
4. She seeks an looks for wisdom an support. The ability for her to learn an grow.
5. In most cases a young filipina can learn, she can be what the older guy is looking for.
6. Her family knows she will be taken good care of financially an in many cases, he will help or support her family.
7. In most cases the older man will not cheat. He really doesn't want drama, and she likes this because most Filipino guy's cheat.
8. She wants a full an stable life. Very simple. Plus if an when he passes, she receives his benefit's. The younger guys are not retired. They have no pension. They want to play around. The filipina knows this game well.
Best wishes, good video.
Great reply Allen. I hope you don’t mind me sharing your thoughts on my future videos. Thank you for joining us
Number 3&6 :)
Why you want to START A FAMILY over 50?who is going to raise your kids? You can't even attend your kids wedding...
You are a 100% right its only obvious. How many young Filipinas from from wealthy families are dating older men? Probably next none.
Thank you for chiming in.
Financially independent educated young good looking Filipina won’t date men 10 years older than them. Choose a poor provincial Filipina and you’ll have a fighting chance of hooking up with them. That’s just survival.
@@kathiemathias212Well, I’m 28, educated and financially independent dated a 62 year old foreigner.😊 And, I don’t date him for money, cause I am making my own money.
@jessicacalamba8581 I love that , Jessica. Thanks for the comment
More than a fighting chance.
60 year old there is like being brat pitt@kathiemathias212
LOL Why? I will refer back to when I was 44 and dating a 22 yr old lingerie model, My mother asked me why. My dad folded over the corner of newspaper and said, "WHY??? Because he CAN, that's whay"
Luv it. 😂😂😂
Your dad reminds me of mine 😂
You are spot on in this video.. You are correct about some of these popular vloggers and what they are peddling. After meeting you, I was amazed at how you chose to put away the 8:15 rose colored glasses and saw things for what they are. I hope that viewers come over for a few months, stay single, and see how Phillipine culture really is. Good luck on finishing up the house repairs.
Really appreciate your comment Whatsnext. The house has been a thorn on my rear end for the last two years. All will be fine. You be safe and have a great day!
Whatever each other's situation is, my answer would always be "because they can". I'm more of a "that's their business" person. People need to be more worried about their own situation than someone else's. Less Karens in the world would make this a happier place to live.
I agree with you 100%. Be safe Dennis.
No on the cultural idea. Economics, sure. Filipino men being players,cheaters,etc. Of course I'm not saying 100%, or ALL. I spoke with lots of filipina lady's, young and old. Some date older expats for the chance to have biracial children. I truly pray Razel is doing well. Sam be careful in GA. I was in Atlanta last week.
I will be going through Atlanta. Down in Venice Florida everything is pretty quiet. Not much going on except fishing and pickleball haha
Thank you for your prayers John. We really appreciate it.
Old man's darling, young man's slave. Women's motto!
Based on years of dating and marriages in the U.S. most 50 year olds think I am too old for them (I am 67). In the Philippines my 50 year old filipina still looks like she's in her 30s and that is perfectly fine with me.
Love it Johnny. We should all find a soulmate like yours.
Haha, I'm 66 yrs young and my 22 yr old filipina looks like she's in her early 20's....
First of all, what is old. Sure 50s, 60s and 70s is old, but not like it used to be. Each man's personal health is different, but most men don't start acting really "old" until their 80s. That's when their bodies don't move like they used to, and even their speech and way of talking changes.
Secondly, what does young mean? I consider 18 off limits, and 19-25 to be "young" and the target group you want to start with first.
Thirdly, why wouldn't you date a young Filipina if you can? duh.
And if you ARE in your 70s or 80s, if you date them young, when you leave this planet, she still has her whole life ahead of her. So you're welcome.
Great comment, Fever… I like 80 as😀😀 being old. That means I have a couple more years to consider myself as young…more I think of it your comment is really making me feel young…BEST comment ever!
Young beauty’s make you feel vibrant. They are fun, carefree, and tend to breathe life into an older man.
That’s a fact How to live thanks for joining in.
I can tell you exactly why they are dating. None of my business.
Haha. Always love your answers Goatman. Hope all is well.
You’re definitely correct! It’s NOT a culture thing. It does have a lot to do with stability. I’m Filipina and I personally cannot date a man over 60. I have a limit. 59 is the oldest I would date because I’m 54. lol
Louisa, Louisa. Love your attitude and sense of humor. We have something in common, I feel exactly the same as you do. I will never date a man over 60 🤣🤣🤣Thank you for joining us today.
@@SAMLAMB lmao! Too funny😂
what you are saying is perfectly reasonable to me. when we turn on the network TV , stream TV or watch youtube content, its mostly the same. People want to watch younger beautiful people doing interesting things . And that content with nice looking actors or nice looking couples dominate the media . we are are all " conditioned " to think a different way, when reality is quite different. My wife and I have been married for over 40 years, we have 3 adult children and grandkids, and no one cares about my boring middle class life . Thats why when we watch TV , or watch the news, or watch TV adverstisements, I try to separate what I am being " SOLD" versus Reality .
Great comment Wallace. Thank you for chiming in. You have a great day!
I just got married and maybe there are a lot of expats with younger philipinas but I am 61 and married a 50 yr old who is loving dedicated mature and a good mother. I hope to get her here soon
@wesandlanie, congratulations! Happy Life! BE Blessed!
You will, Wes. Through your comment I can see your action and character. You deserve the best. Thank you for your participation. Be safe.
Thanks, I also agree with you that is not a culture here to have a gf or marry young girls but it doesn't mean that these young girls are easy to get. There are also young girls that are matured enough in handling relationships and they are looking for older ones because of their life experience managing life situations. It is only my observation.
I agree with you 100% thanks for joining us today.
Sam, you conclusion regarding young Filipinas is 100% correct. However, you fell short of stating it is the nature of women globally not just Filipinas. I believe Filipinas like women globally are master survivalists.
Wow !!! Master survivalist, Globally? As in the best in the world? I have to think on that. There’s a lot of crap going on around the world right now which forces women to survive. But I do get your point. I know many Filipinas who are trying to survive right now. Thank you for joining us.
I understand, Sam. I'm perfectly happy with my fiancée in her mid-forties. We are equals except I'm around 70. Her friends are the same. We don't want a young, inexperienced lady without life experience.
I don't think that I am "robbing the cradle," marrying a forty five year old woman, is at all weird. We're happy and I am happy to help raise her teenage sons and nephews. Boys need a father figure and my fiancée appreciates my experience and maybe some wisdom.
I like your content a lot, Sam. I'd like to get to know you when we're both in Dumaguete. Thanks.
You are a great man, willing to help raise her child and nephew…I should be back in Dumaguete by August…leave a message on my messenger or email…you be safe.
From my Filipinas point of view, she couldn't get the level of maturity she wanted in her love, from a younger guy....foreign or not.
I can agree with that Robert. Great point.
Come on, dude get real you mean she couldn’t get the money she came from the old man
Good information on your videos👏🙏
Thanks John. Be safe
Hi Sam, just wondering are you and razel doing ok, seems she has been away alot. I just love you both together and hope all is well between you both, keep happy and razel if your watching this keep strong Sam loves you and we love you hope to see you both together soon, you have that big dynamic when your together , keep happy Sam and razel, hope you get the house sorted soon cheers guys
@jennymark7403, well said and I second all u said!
We are doing fine, Jenny. RAZEL had to deal with her situation and at the same time I had to deal with my situation back in the USA. Hopefully by summer we can finally get back to some semblance of normalcy . For me once the house is sold I’ll be fine. But for RAZEL It’s going to be a long journey. I’ll be with her every step of the way. Maybe at times it may not seem I’m 100% physically with her. But I’m not far behind just in case she falls backwards. Losing both parents to sickness so close to each other can be tough on anyone. Thank you for your prayers and encouragement. You guys mean a lot to us. Like we’ve said many times before. We only make videos cuz we enjoy it and nothing else. And I just enjoy reading all of you guys comments ( positive and negative) 😃. You be safe Jenny. And have a great day!
Im 71 and my Filipina wife is 41 and ŵe dont notice age gap!
😍 love it
🙏🙏 for Razel and family . lol I’m only 58 and my wife is 38 so not old in his category 😂
lol. Hope all is well Derek. Be safe
That’s the same for me in age range!
same reason rich guys in the US date younger women- they can
100% agree
The answer is for them to get out of poverty, $$$
The answer is for the government stop being afraid and force the business man to pay a fare wage. When you go to any mall. Most of the name brand clothing and shoes cost just as much as they do in the USA if not more. I don’t understand how these businesses owners can get away with paying their employees $10 day in major cities and $6 or $7 a day in the province.
Well, I'd love to see more 40 to 60 years of age beautiful Philipina.
Me too Michael. And there’s millions of them in the Philippines. I see them every day in Dumaguete.
Buy a plane ticket
Many Fillipinas I have talked to are pretty honest about age gap dating , economics, monogamy and security
You are correct sunmoon. Thanks for joining in
Nice video Sam.
Btw, how old are you?
I’m old enough to be someone’s grandpa, thanks for the comment Trashy😄
THIS MALAYSIAN AMERICAN IS LIKE MALNOURISH NORTH KOREAN, VERY PROUD TO BE AMERICAN ,, FINDING ALWAYS WOMEN OR SEXUALITY IN PHILIPPINES, VERY MUNTIDY GUY.
House market here in Florida stinks. I got to short sale my house here in Palmetto Florida. I'm leaving America June 4th to permanently live in Philippines
Ouch. That doesn’t sound good, Jen. I maybe forced to rent out the house if I can’t get my money out of the property.
@SAMLAMB it's Gio here I'm telling you rent till market changes I'm telling you. Intrest rates here are 6.8% alot of housing on the market and in foreclosure. Banks don't want the houses
@SAMLAMB 3803 5th Avenue West, Palmetto Florida 34221 look it up on red fin that's my 4 bedroom house look at everything I did over 6 years since I bought it new roof, solar system, new AC, new water heater, new hurricane windows and shutters, new dishwasher. Figured we were going to stay here she's been here 2 years and doesn't like it at all
@JenGioPhilippineJourney good advice
Why should anyone cares about who I date, each individual is responsible for their own life. I do have the right to do the things that makes me happy as long as I am not deliberately making anyone uncomfortable. It doesn’t matter what you do it’s impossible to please everyone.
We said Owen. I like that
Wow glad i found u again! New subscriber!
Thank you Bradley. We appreciate you. We’ll be making more content soon. It’s been a tough 6months for RAZEL and I. RAZEL is slowly getting back to her old self again and she’ll be joining me soon in our future videos. You be safe
@@SAMLAMB yes I went through that with my parents! Hope and pray for u guys, be Blessed!
I would never have a young Filipina girlfriend, my girlfriend is just turned 60 and I'm 70, yep keeping to my age group 😊 is the name of the game for me.
You are exactly what Im talking about. It’s not just older guys with younger women…you watch RUclips and you think every old expat are with young Filipinas…thanks for joining us Richie …
Great video Sam
Thank you Miguel. Hope all is well. You have a great day.
Sam all your comments were very accurate. It's sad that Filipinas and the Filipino population in general are squeezed into making those kinds of decisions. We in the Western countries really don't have any concept how deeply poverty affects the trajectory of these people lives. We have poverty in the US but until you see how much humility Filipinos have and how they find the strength to still be good decent people in the face of really abject poverty then maybe we can appreciate life more, by understanding the reason behind the decisions they are forced to make.
Well said Charles. Your thoughts and comments are some of the reasons I made Philippines my second home. I’ve traveled the world and I’ve never seen anything like it. The people of Philippines as a whole should be very proud of themselves.
Their more interested in us, I don't even search, they come at me the younger ones,the older ones think they to old, like 35 to 45, which i prefer,cause of maturity, but the young ones are mature too, but I not discriminating, if they like I like😊
Andre, Andre…live your honesty 😎😎😎 thanks for joining in.
Finally gets to the point at 10:32.
This could have been a 2 minute video, or a 1 minute short.
SSV, I’ve been told that a 100x .. but thanks for watching it till 10:32. I think you’ll appreciate this my last video was originally 18min long. I shared it with a friend and he said my introduction was way too long. So I shaved almost 5mins. So I’m working on it 😅 Just imagine having to endure 5extra min of me rambling before getting to the point hehe. I’ll be making a follow up video today. Off the last video. Wish me luck. Alright be safe. Thanks for helping me out.
@@SAMLAMB No I actually watched the whole thing, you never know when there will be another wisdom nugget.
It's probably just my ADHD, but I just want the brass tacks, conversely, I also get that YT pays based on watch time, comments, etc. So it's all good.
Every PH vlogger seems to be running on "island time". LOL
@@ssvgroup2563when I’m recording I normally record for about an hour. Then I work on bringing it down to 20min. Alright chat later. You be safe and have a great day!
I'm 48 and my filipina wife is 42. I think taboo just gets more talk and news.
This is all talk Jason. You have a great Filipina. Hold on to her and never let her go.
Go Dawgs!!
Dawgs are going to be great to watch this year. Can’t wait.
I must be the exception to the rule. I'm retired in the Philippines since 2016. Been dating the same woman i met online in 2007. I'm 69 and she's 61. 👍🇵🇭🇺🇲
Its a money thing. We exchange $$ for beauty. The unspoken agreement. Good 4 us good 4 them. You guys get into your feelings about love and such. As long as she respects and appreciates thats love ❤️ 2 me..
I have to agree with you Dawg… thanks for the comment…Bulldogs looked good during the spring game….
Your going to get the Dumagete Grandpas upset. Your being too honest they really believe that a fourteen hour flight made them the object of a young Filipinas desire. Not to mention that they count on selling that dream to get views.
Yeah, that’s why I didn’t mention any names…don’t want any grandpa’s upset with me…lol
i dont reckon its cultural, i think its about the income disparity. the men are very high value due to their income, they can offer the girl a much better future. i really think its that simple, but if the man cant take on these responsibilites and manage his budget well, and learn to say no here and there, hes gonna have big problems.hopefully the man isnt so generous he compomises himself. but hopefully hes generous enuf to better the girls life.
Reckon, which southern states are you from? Great comment Erin. I’ve always been over generous. RAZEL has to keep me in check. Otherwise I’d go broke hehe. I do have a pretty nice lifestyle. From being a homeless young boy to being adopted by a military man. I had a proper upbringing. My dad was strict but fair. I feel I am one of the luckiest person in the world. I’ve always felt that the person I choose to spend my life with and that person is willing to put up with my inadequacies. She’ll have a pretty good lifestyle too.
Sucks when is only for money nothing like been In love . Unfortunately life is very costly They have everything they want but empty inside and fake beeing inlove
Not all are fake being in love, right?
Global
My 60 year old Belgium friend just married a 54 year old widowed Fillipina
Congrats !!!
What happens when the older retired guy drops dead at a normal age and this younger Filipina female no longer has access to his retirement money
Brenda. I’ve thought about that. That’s why I go all in when it comes to helping my Filipina. RAZEL and I have been in a relationship for 6yrs. I’ve taught her how to survive without me. By teaching her finances. She’ll be fine when I’m gone.
Of course it isn’t cultural or you’d see more young Filipinas with old Filipino men lol😂- let’s be honest! No money no honey for old dudes!
😂😂😂 thank god I have a few dollars in my pocket
Date young girls?
In my experience , when I meet a woman over the age of 25, she has some other man's children , and responsibilities that I'm not interested in having?
I don't care! all my efforts are for bettering myself and all around me, what small thinking irrelevant people think or say means nothing and I don't waste any energy on them at all, loving life here in Makati.
I remembered when I first read the original comment I thought I was wasting my energy in replying. Then I thought I better make a video on this topic. Thank you for taking the time and joining us today.
There is an old Filipina saying that another girl risen up from poverty with marriage to
a foreigner.😊
Lots of truth in that…I like it…thanks for joining us Dave
If it’s on you tube, it must be true!!🙃🤣🤪
Exactly, 😎😎
And at your age you have to choose same ages us you it's means you like pleasure not love!!!!!
I agree with you fc2. Thanks for joining us
in other countries they dont date old foreigners like they do in the Philippines, even if the pay isnt good in the country. yes, they date old guys in ph because they have money, but also its like almost like a fad to date foreigners in the Philippines, they want foreigners around them, it makes them look good to be around foreigners. but yea they would rather be with one who is less than 20 years older than them for sure. but i talk to a few of them, im younger, they want me to just have babies with them because they like my eyes and my nose. they dont even want to get married or come to usa. they want me to stop by and do my thing so they can have a baby.
Woah, have you ever been paid to be a baby maker? Are you keeping records of where your future children might be? Just curious
@@SAMLAMB i have never had any children. im just saying, in the philippines they really like foreigners, their families and communities will encourage them to get with foreigners, it isnt like that in other countries.
everyone in the world wants money and girls everywhere want to marry up, but i think the massive amount of old dudes with young girls in ph is not solely based on money.
@smittylikesto Smitty, thank you for the comment. Every time I read a message like yours it makes me rethink why foreigners are so popular in the Philippines. I’ve made many videos dealing with this exact subject. Although you see a lot of old white guys with young Filipina. There’s just as many old Asian guys with young Filipina. You just don’t notice it. Whether it’s old , young, white, asian, or black, I still feel the main reason you see so many old white guys with young Filipina is because they stick out like a sore thumb. And when you show that on RUclips we as humans are drawn to that. I’ll share this quick story: the first time I had 2 girlfriends I was not sure who to pick. So I’m in a taxi, and I told the taxi driver my dilemma. His comment changed everything. Now most taxi drivers make about $20 -$50 a day …he’s about 35 to 45 yrs old and he said, what’s the big deal I have a wife and 3 girlfriends… and you see those homeless people in the park, they probably have 2 or 3 girlfriends. Then he said women are 3 to 1 to men here in the Philippines, So if you’re broke and have no money just by pure numbers a man should have 3 girls if money was not an issue. So the answer to so many old white dudes with young Filipina. Is a matter of economics, and survival for a woman. There’s just not enough men for them to choose. That’s just my opinion
@@SAMLAMB i dont think there is a ratio like that in the philippines as a whole, but i have heard in the big cities there is a lot of young single women. maybe there is also the fact that marrying a foreigner can give them the chance of leaving the country, i think that might be just as important as the money.
@smittylikesto I agree 100%
The family of the young girls expect her to bring in money to support her family. 😂
A transition has been in the works in the Philippines the old are dying off and more younger has been appearing in the Philippines men in their 30s and 40s. RUclips vlogger jasper in the Philippines said something that is so smart. He was talking about the expats who quickly build houses for scamming girls and in alot of cases after it is built she says i dont love you anymore bye and she moves in her filipino bf and family in the foreign mans house nothing he can do about it. Jasper said he told his gf i dont think about building you a house until we together for 4 years smart man he talks about the expats who let their hearts runaway with themselves and the simps quickly build and lose 🤗
Good point Blue
What does expat mean? A Filipino that leaves the Filipines and comes back or an outsider who goes to live in the Filipines?
Looks like it’s both…just googled
They are the ones who come after you on the dating sites.
Haven’t used the dating site in over 6yrs. Ever since RAZEL and I met. I’ve heard some crazy stories from other expats.
Philipina women are easy to get,
Not all, XXK
I disagree, not all Filipina are easy to get. There are more of us ..Filipina who are still reserved and care for a real meaning of love and lifetime relationships especially the matured or at the age of 45 and up.
Not true. My wife was not poor when I met her, so she wasn’t rushing to leave Cebu.
@analoves9048 I agree with you Ana. I’m glad you chimed in. Thank you for supporting my thoughts. Just because most bloggers have young gf and that’s all their subscribers see and hear does not mean all old expats gfs are young girls. You have a great day. And good luck on finding your special someone.
It is always the money!
And more 😅
They are very jealous
These are poor people and old farts like this guy take advantage for now, one day karma always gets its way 💀
It's economics. Duh.😮
Love your comment fruitloops
In the western world, especially in America,vast majority of guy's end up with an.old dried up elephant, aka "big Shirley" so there bitter about their entrapment, as they slowly fade and die 😂
Instead, they could be busy living up life in SE Asia, south America, Africa etc where young women are available, plus most important, there actually women, not dried up elephants, aka "big Shirley" w/ the cow bell 🙏
Agree to first part. Hmmm disagree with big Shirley just in case I know her 😂
Hi lots of scam ,young philipina with olds foreigner
It is not cultural,
Why you're not featuring your countries women, always in Asian? Secret?
I haven’t dated an American woman since I moved to the Philippines after my divorce 17yrs ago. And my experiences with American women is better left unsaid
Thank you so much for joining us in a conversation
I Love you ❤️👍🙏
Thank you for your comment Leslie. You have a great Day!
Any way gold diger all females
I think the opposite. The males are the real gold diggers…literally…we work our butt off for years just to have a little bit of that gold…and along comes a beautiful Filipina and and in less than a week all our gold is gone. lol 🤣🤣🤣
Im watching your Many Episodes ,R you enemies of philipine woman ?
Of course not. I do respect all Filipinas.
@@SAMLAMB Im watching you from north east india,Itanagar ..It sounds very odd..your experience so it doesnt mean you ll make 1,2,3 ...episodes change da topic ...Your look Asian
@asumdai4894 that’s cool Asum. How is India. Hope you have a great day.
I am 56 and my Filipina 52
Thank you for sharing Pedro
Good for you
Not Philippmes.FO.
?
Because they can for now.
Go Dawgs!!!