I've known many married couples complain about they husband s then when they die they see a different light, he was amazing I loved him so much etc .. the glasses are different colour, so I say love lots be grateful (not a door mat )😄.. I always come back to choose your argument wisely, we all leave and nothing lasts.. .. Sue 🥰🥰🥰
I really enjoyed hearing Mark and Nadias comments here BUT I would be really interested to hear the same 8 points about infidelity put to Nadias parents. They have had a longer marriage and I wonder if they have any nuggets of wisdom to offer ❤️❤️
I was cheated on by someone who I was in a long term relationship with. I spent such a long time trying to work out why he did it, I am not a perfect person by any means but he knew that I loved him and I tried to support him as much as I could with his mental health issues. He lied so many times I can’t count. Although I am on the road to healing, my heart hasn’t mended. The worst thing is I blamed myself and assumed I wasn’t good enough and he made a choice to be with a better woman than me. I will never understand people who aren’t happy in a relationship don’t try to communicate and work it out or end the relationship, there is no reason to cheat.
Hi Gabrielle I’m in a similar situation but I’m still with him atm as this all happened on Monday but he’s told me he doesn’t think he can ever have emotions or love towards me we’ve not had sex for months and he’s emotionally unavailable but The woman I’m suspecting him to be cheating on me with is an ex woman he had an affair with while married .. but every relationship he’s had he’s cheated on each and every woman with the next woman he’s had 7 children with 3 women and in each case he’s in a relationship with one and gos bk to the ex gf but he can’t give anyone any emotion 🖤 xxx I’m feeling very hurt abandoned and broken hearted trouble is I’ve got no where to move to as I can’t get private rent so I’m having to stop with him until I can hopefully get a council place I’m forever feeling sick 🤢 xxx
@@angelaknowles73ak oh Angie I am so sorry this has happened to you. Your mind must be all over the place. Do you have a friend or relative that you can stay with? If you need to, speak to the Samaritans for help. The best thing is to do is try and get some space away from him, I know that’s hard though. Sending big hugs xxx
Bless you Gabrielle you will meet someone who loves you bless I been through a cheating man the saying is the grass is never geener on the other side my heart goes out to you Gabrielle bless you stay strong lovely Gabrielle 😍 ❤ 😘😘
I Belive that you both done amazing ,my mum and dad its made them stronger also my relationship with my Dad has got better ,he has got to understand me.
I think infidelity is very complex - obviously some people are serial cheaters; but for some people who have been faithful for years or decades affairs happen for many reasons - not one person is at fault entirely 🌹
I agree I’m in the middle of a relationship issue sort of finding out but not got total proof of my partner cheating and finding out he’s a serial cheater but when I confronted him only on Monday this week he actually said he doesn’t think he can ever have emotions or be able to love me or anyone ever and he really does blame his childhood and uses that as an excuse 💔
I thought that Mark, you became ill when you stopped, when your film was finished! ❤️xx… ……..sending lots of love to chi chi! I love her, such a beautiful dog! Xx……..Nadia: a penis alone isn’t enough! Mark: Has to have someone attached to it! That really made me laugh! 😂😂x
I worry about sex side of things as since menopause its gone a bit saying that a lot i have put on weight which not helping my self confidence bloody hard but sex life is not the same but 25 years in im hopein we be ok thank you both listening to you both helps you make me feel im not alone in this feeling thank you both its a case of just being there for each other when times are bad 😘😘😘💟💟💟
Being together 24/7. I think it’s very hard , but meals, wash up , tidy etc. Some people had a lady that helps in hse., not happening during lockdown Kinda lucky our kids left & used to given space without effort Towards end wanted to talk to my friends over coffee etc ( too old for affair). Never thought about it when young 💐
Not enough people are mature enough to be in a long term relationship or marriage
Another reason: Malignant narcissism
I've known many married couples complain about they husband s then when they die they see a different light, he was amazing I loved him so much etc .. the glasses are different colour, so I say love lots be grateful (not a door mat )😄.. I always come back to choose your argument wisely, we all leave and nothing lasts.. .. Sue 🥰🥰🥰
I really enjoyed hearing Mark and Nadias comments here BUT I would be really interested to hear the same 8 points about infidelity put to Nadias parents. They have had a longer marriage and I wonder if they have any nuggets of wisdom to offer ❤️❤️
I was cheated on by someone who I was in a long term relationship with. I spent such a long time trying to work out why he did it, I am not a perfect person by any means but he knew that I loved him and I tried to support him as much as I could with his mental health issues. He lied so many times I can’t count. Although I am on the road to healing, my heart hasn’t mended. The worst thing is I blamed myself and assumed I wasn’t good enough and he made a choice to be with a better woman than me. I will never understand people who aren’t happy in a relationship don’t try to communicate and work it out or end the relationship, there is no reason to cheat.
Gabrielle I have had a very similar situation u and will never understand it myself so with u there x
@@selinaloufogg thanks Selina, sending hugs xxx
Hi Gabrielle I’m in a similar situation but I’m still with him atm as this all happened on Monday but he’s told me he doesn’t think he can ever have emotions or love towards me we’ve not had sex for months and he’s emotionally unavailable but The woman I’m suspecting him to be cheating on me with is an ex woman he had an affair with while married .. but every relationship he’s had he’s cheated on each and every woman with the next woman he’s had 7 children with 3 women and in each case he’s in a relationship with one and gos bk to the ex gf but he can’t give anyone any emotion 🖤 xxx I’m feeling very hurt abandoned and broken hearted trouble is I’ve got no where to move to as I can’t get private rent so I’m having to stop with him until I can hopefully get a council place I’m forever feeling sick 🤢 xxx
@@angelaknowles73ak oh Angie I am so sorry this has happened to you. Your mind must be all over the place. Do you have a friend or relative that you can stay with? If you need to, speak to the Samaritans for help. The best thing is to do is try and get some space away from him, I know that’s hard though. Sending big hugs xxx
Bless you Gabrielle you will meet someone who loves you bless I been through a cheating man the saying is the grass is never geener on the other side my heart goes out to you Gabrielle bless you stay strong lovely Gabrielle 😍 ❤ 😘😘
I Belive that you both done amazing ,my mum and dad its made them stronger also my relationship with my Dad has got better ,he has got to understand me.
Nadia you so right about how women feel about taking about these things you so so right love listening to you 😘
Also agree with Mark about having the closeness is important about the man side of things xx
Good one guys…..again!😘 I do hope Chi Chi is ok ❤️
I think infidelity is very complex - obviously some people are serial cheaters; but for some people who have been faithful for years or decades affairs happen for many reasons - not one person is at fault entirely 🌹
I agree I’m in the middle of a relationship issue sort of finding out but not got total proof of my partner cheating and finding out he’s a serial cheater but when I confronted him only on Monday this week he actually said he doesn’t think he can ever have emotions or be able to love me or anyone ever and he really does blame his childhood and uses that as an excuse 💔
It’s like when you retire that’s difficult
I thought that Mark, you became ill when you stopped, when your film was finished! ❤️xx… ……..sending lots of love to chi chi! I love her, such a beautiful dog! Xx……..Nadia: a penis alone isn’t enough! Mark: Has to have someone attached to it! That really made me laugh! 😂😂x
Hi xx I agree strongly “ if you don’t ask you don’t get 😉❤️
Love you as a couple xx and sending love 💕 for you as a family for little love Chi Chi xxxxxxx
I worry about sex side of things as since menopause its gone a bit saying that a lot i have put on weight which not helping my self confidence bloody hard but sex life is not the same but 25 years in im hopein we be ok thank you both listening to you both helps you make me feel im not alone in this feeling thank you both its a case of just being there for each other when times are bad 😘😘😘💟💟💟
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Is sex more important to men?
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Great topic and great discussion as always x
Being together 24/7. I think it’s very hard , but meals, wash up , tidy etc. Some people had a lady that helps in hse., not happening during lockdown
Kinda lucky our kids left & used to given space without effort
Towards end wanted to talk to my friends over coffee etc ( too old for affair). Never thought about it when young 💐
I am worried UK is coming out too early?????? Foot ball matches. Large crowds😢
Hi 🙋🏻 guys sweetie 💕👍🏻🙋🏻🏡how’s the doggies 🐶🐾🐻❄️🐾lovely watching Teddy Betty and dena Kiki 👍🏻🙋🏻❤️
Hi Nadia & Mark💐