The inner child (narcissistic abuse)

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  • Опубликовано: 1 июн 2024
  • Website www.petravandeijl.com/healing...
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Комментарии • 31

  • @sandraturcotte3591
    @sandraturcotte3591 2 года назад +8

    Hello Petra. I’ve missed seeing your videos. Your way of discussing this topic really resonates with me. Thank you

    • @Trevorjennings679
      @Trevorjennings679 Год назад

      Hello Sandra, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the Virus?

  • @SunandSunflowers
    @SunandSunflowers 2 года назад +3

    Lived in a home of dysfunction they would shut me down for being inquisitive, wanting to play the piano and precipitate in sports. I look back on my childhood with dread. Till this day I can be triggered by toxic ppl and go into wounded child. I Suffer with bad tremors.

  • @jasu5142
    @jasu5142 2 года назад +4

    Have a cousin just like this . She’s treating her children like crap !

    • @fredmad4988
      @fredmad4988 2 года назад +1

      Narc parents always makes the children feels like a burden to the narc parents.Slamming doors,slamming plates while dish washing.

  • @TheMidlifeGallivanters
    @TheMidlifeGallivanters 2 года назад +3

    Hi Petra. This work is such important work. Lovely to see you again xo

  • @wildlightarts
    @wildlightarts 2 года назад +2

    I don't understand how it can be said that a child being abused in a dysfunctional family is living from their authentic self. Aren't they mirroring dysfunctional behaviors, until they get actual help and get away from their abusers? Do you mean they are authentically acting out the dysfunctional patterns the family is displaying on a daily basis? It's good to see you, Petra. Thank you for sharing your perspectives.

    • @PetraVanDeijl
      @PetraVanDeijl  2 года назад +3

      That's not what I said, Wild Light. Everyone is born authentic. It's dysfunction, trauma and abuse which causes wounded children. When this happens, the wounded child develops coping mechanisms. What do you mean by "acting out"?

    • @wildlightarts
      @wildlightarts 2 года назад +1

      @@PetraVanDeijl I'm sorry I misunderstood what you said. It sounded like you were saying several contradictory things, but that could just be a form of neurolinguistics. I was suggesting that the wounded child often displays the family dysfunctions, when wounded. Being wounded, when abused, is an authentic display of what is happening internally and externally when one is being abused, be it a child or an adult. That's just how it's seemed to me, in relation to my life experiences and moving back to the home where I experienced child abuse, during covid.

  • @vibehigh5280
    @vibehigh5280 2 года назад +1

    Thank you, Ms.Petra, for sharing this video. Peace and love be with you always. 😊

  • @lauB30
    @lauB30 2 года назад +2

    Heel herkenbaar, heb al 2jaar het gevoel dat ik stil sta, denkend is dit nou mijn leven zo wil ik niet verder nog 50jaar, zou graag opnieuw geboren willen worden en andere keuzes maken want nu zit ik vast

  • @shirleyakpelu1831
    @shirleyakpelu1831 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for the information 🤠

  • @shirleyakpelu1831
    @shirleyakpelu1831 2 года назад +1

    It's good to see you Petra.

  • @jen4074
    @jen4074 Год назад

    💕

  • @mandiek26b84
    @mandiek26b84 2 года назад +2

    I love you

    • @Trevorjennings679
      @Trevorjennings679 Год назад

      Hello Dear, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the Virus?

  • @Jenny-fu3tq
    @Jenny-fu3tq 2 года назад +1

    Wow
    I missed you
    🤗💖

    • @PetraVanDeijl
      @PetraVanDeijl  2 года назад +1

      Love and light to you Jenny x

    • @Trevorjennings679
      @Trevorjennings679 Год назад

      Hello Jenny, how are you doing today, hope you’re fine and safe from the Virus?

  • @tondeyam
    @tondeyam 2 года назад +3

    I found this video to be very helpful, useful, and spot on as for what I've experienced. I believe I can greatly benefit from your breathwork class and I would love to join. However, I am in the U.S. and the only accepted currency I see is euros. Would I be able to join?

    • @PetraVanDeijl
      @PetraVanDeijl  2 года назад +2

      Yes, of course you can join! Payments through PayPal are automatically converted.

    • @floxendoodle942
      @floxendoodle942 2 года назад

      So I think it’s about $27 US dollars, is that correct?

    • @tondeyam
      @tondeyam 2 года назад +1

      @@floxendoodle942 $1-$2 more

    • @floxendoodle942
      @floxendoodle942 2 года назад +1

      @@tondeyam Thanks. On the website, the commas after the number 25 threw me off, as I’m used to periods. Just wanted to make sure my number was in the ballpark. 👍

    • @tondeyam
      @tondeyam 2 года назад +2

      @@floxendoodle942 Same 😄 and np 💕

  • @kindandinternationl9386
    @kindandinternationl9386 2 года назад +1

    You don't have the alert bell on your site. this sends us a notice that a new video is available from you.

    • @PetraVanDeijl
      @PetraVanDeijl  2 года назад

      I have always had the alert button on my channel, don't understand how it's not visible. Thanks for letting me know.