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Here at 11pm. Thank you for still having it available. Good topic. I find narcissists very cold. Thats how I know them. I know one who is warm with cats but cold with people. Rubics cube.....great analogy. Met two, one hid it well. The other I got a very bad feeling but thought I was wrong. Was able to get away from them.
So are you saying that Dennis Nielsen and Jeffrey Dahmer (sp?) were such toxic personalities (lacking in ability for human connection) that they became extremely lonely. This was the only way to be with people, and make sure they didn’t leave? It’s making me think about people who intimidate people into staying with them. People who try to undermine your confidence, isolate you, cut you off from others to make sure you don’t leave. Is there a connection here?
Yes and no. Social isolation for these two worldwide known killers was a common theme in their discussion on why they killed and harmed others like they did. For me, this is only one half of the story and only one way to describe one component of their behavior. There is A LOT wrong here but social isolation, loneliness, disillusionment, a desire to be accepted, and lack of interpersonal skills were at the core of these killers. It propelled them to do what they did. The same is true for Adam Lanza and all of the recent mass murderers. There most definitely is a connection to what you are saying for sure. We just need more research on why things escalate from undermining your confidence, isolating you, cutting you off from others, etc. to murder in some cases.
I was born in '84 but I remember how people used to be more superficial with looks and critical even the way clothes had more commonly smaller sizes now there are more big sizes in stores butit's a lot of superficial a.i. social media where kids hit hard these day
Great topic. I wasn't certain if anyone else has experienced this very real topic.( Ive been worried lately that their disconnect button ..was always on growing up.)
Very intense video and key terminolgy in this one. Thanks, Tamara. These beings hide in plain sight everyday. Very scary fact. I have had my feelings about certain people I have come across in my life who may have been a psychopath. But one never truly knows. I just do my best to keep away from what and who gives me unfavorable and eery energy/vibes.
I tried telling my therapist and she told me I was just making it up. I wish understood how scary and dangerous these people are and how easily they fool others.
It's scary but important to acknowledge that psychopaths really do live and walk among us, although it's only 1% of the population, it seems like 1% too much. Ever heard of Ariel Castro? He kidnapped three young women in the early 2000s and kept them prisoner in his house and abused them horribly for a decade. Thank goodness they were able to eventually escape. But the fact that Castro was able to get away with it for a decade surrounded by neighbors and keeping up appearances in a densely populated city in such a way that no one around suspected he had these women chained up in his house is just insane. Anyway, hope you feel better in time for the next live!
Hi Tamara!. I just finished watching this live you just did last night. Chilling, yet informative! We've all heard the expression "The eyes are the windows to the soul." I've found this to be true in regards to the psychopathic stare. I've caught snippets of the court trials of serial killers and other various violent criminals. In almost all of them, you really can see it in their eyes, as if they are lacking a soul. It's quite creepy.
This is one topic that is never discussed in the minority communities. The stuff we see online today gives me ClusterB vibes. You dress a young sociopath or Psychopath up in designer clothing, a dodge charger, no one would ever consider them to have a personality disorder. Its the very reason "i believe" they can knock each other down and think nothing of it. Nor do they care about cameras and consequences. These young men and women have little to no empathy running around out here. I feel like its only getting worse
Always insightful on subject matters that I can identify with. You are the G.O.A.T., Ms. Támara. I have a question, is it true that psychopaths aren't born psychopathic, or even sociopathic, but they are groomed to become one from a very unhealthy parent, or parents, or even other family members who are undiagnosed narcissistic psychotic? Because I believe a few members of my family were led down a dark, and unhealthy path, because they were influenced by these unhealthy people. Now they are suffering from psychosis beyond understanding.
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I told my dad the other day run away run away from your family. Its an ironic statement because he always has my mom and sister's back then he "butt dialed" me but i just said did you butt dial me he said yeah and i hung up because im sure it was not 😊
46:40 I don't know maybe I am a psychopath. No I don't want to spoil somebody's food for them being verbally rude with me or for cutting me in traffic - not sure this would even come to my mind. But imagine you're dealing with literal fascists or somebody who's doing their bidding, and these people are willingly trying to harm you, get your money, rights, property and freedom, or put you in harm's way otherwise (Judges for example), and they succeeded, and you are not the only victim. I am outraged by the injustice etc, not going to pretend I wish them well
So sad that someone could mask till they get married and then show their true colors .. you tell ppl this and they think your crazy , who does this the narcopath sad bc everybody doesn’t see it but you . 😵💫
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Their use of alcohol and friends and fun will always forever rule their world
Here at 11pm. Thank you for still having it available. Good topic. I find narcissists very cold. Thats how I know them. I know one who is warm with cats but cold with people. Rubics cube.....great analogy. Met two, one hid it well. The other I got a very bad feeling but thought I was wrong. Was able to get away from them.
So are you saying that Dennis Nielsen and Jeffrey Dahmer (sp?) were such toxic personalities (lacking in ability for human connection) that they became extremely lonely. This was the only way to be with people, and make sure they didn’t leave?
It’s making me think about people who intimidate people into staying with them. People who try to undermine your confidence, isolate you, cut you off from others to make sure you don’t leave. Is there a connection here?
Yes and no. Social isolation for these two worldwide known killers was a common theme in their discussion on why they killed and harmed others like they did. For me, this is only one half of the story and only one way to describe one component of their behavior. There is A LOT wrong here but social isolation, loneliness, disillusionment, a desire to be accepted, and lack of interpersonal skills were at the core of these killers. It propelled them to do what they did. The same is true for Adam Lanza and all of the recent mass murderers.
There most definitely is a connection to what you are saying for sure. We just need more research on why things escalate from undermining your confidence, isolating you, cutting you off from others, etc. to murder in some cases.
I was born in '84 but I remember how people used to be more superficial with looks and critical even the way clothes had more commonly smaller sizes now there are more big sizes in stores butit's a lot of superficial a.i. social media where kids hit hard these day
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Great topic. I wasn't certain if anyone else has experienced this very real topic.( Ive been worried lately that their disconnect button ..was always on growing up.)
Thank you! Hope it was helpful.
I wouldn't be surprised if you are right. Sometimes it has started in childhood.
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Very intense video and key terminolgy in this one. Thanks, Tamara.
These beings hide in plain sight everyday. Very scary fact. I have had my feelings about certain people I have come across in my life who may have been a psychopath. But one never truly knows.
I just do my best to keep away from what and who gives me unfavorable and eery energy/vibes.
I tried telling my therapist and she told me I was just making it up. I wish understood how scary and dangerous these people are and how easily they fool others.
You need a new therapist!
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It's scary but important to acknowledge that psychopaths really do live and walk among us, although it's only 1% of the population, it seems like 1% too much.
Ever heard of Ariel Castro? He kidnapped three young women in the early 2000s and kept them prisoner in his house and abused them horribly for a decade. Thank goodness they were able to eventually escape.
But the fact that Castro was able to get away with it for a decade surrounded by neighbors and keeping up appearances in a densely populated city in such a way that no one around suspected he had these women chained up in his house is just insane.
Anyway, hope you feel better in time for the next live!
Hi Tamara!. I just finished watching this live you just did last night. Chilling, yet informative!
We've all heard the expression "The eyes are the windows to the soul."
I've found this to be true in regards to the psychopathic stare. I've caught snippets of the court trials of serial killers and other various violent criminals. In almost all of them, you really can see it in their eyes, as if they are lacking a soul. It's quite creepy.
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This is one topic that is never discussed in the minority communities. The stuff we see online today gives me ClusterB vibes. You dress a young sociopath or Psychopath up in designer clothing, a dodge charger, no one would ever consider them to have a personality disorder. Its the very reason "i believe" they can knock each other down and think nothing of it. Nor do they care about cameras and consequences. These young men and women have little to no empathy running around out here. I feel like its only getting worse
Always insightful on subject matters that I can identify with. You are the G.O.A.T., Ms. Támara. I have a question, is it true that psychopaths aren't born psychopathic, or even sociopathic, but they are groomed to become one from a very unhealthy parent, or parents, or even other family members who are undiagnosed narcissistic psychotic? Because I believe a few members of my family were led down a dark, and unhealthy path, because they were influenced by these unhealthy people. Now they are suffering from psychosis beyond understanding.
My nickname is Sunny! Hullo! Thank you for the quick but very Helpful tip, to use 5 or 6 tea bags In one cup. Even better to skip tea bags and brew Loose Leaf tea. But yes! In a hurry ? Tea bags can Be good . However, they can be bleached …
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I told my dad the other day run away run away from your family. Its an ironic statement because he always has my mom and sister's back then he "butt dialed" me but i just said did you butt dial me he said yeah and i hung up because im sure it was not 😊
Omg talk about perspective
You and my sister are both Gemini but polar opposites..... I don't know exactly who she helping....... Just saying....😢😮
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46:40 I don't know maybe I am a psychopath. No I don't want to spoil somebody's food for them being verbally rude with me or for cutting me in traffic - not sure this would even come to my mind.
But imagine you're dealing with literal fascists or somebody who's doing their bidding, and these people are willingly trying to harm you, get your money, rights, property and freedom, or put you in harm's way otherwise (Judges for example), and they succeeded, and you are not the only victim. I am outraged by the injustice etc, not going to pretend I wish them well
So sad that someone could mask till they get married and then show their true colors .. you tell ppl this and they think your crazy , who does this the narcopath sad bc everybody doesn’t see it but you . 😵💫
Interesting, my daughter seems cold and callous but not psycopathic