AstroChat 001: Was He a Narcissist or a Karmic Lesson in Love? 💭🤔

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  • @jupiterjames_
    @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад +4

    *Do You Agree With This Theory? Which One Do You Think It Is? Narcissist or Karmic Lesson? Let Me Know In the Comments Below!* ✨
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  • @Princess9831
    @Princess9831 6 месяцев назад +34

    That’s crazy that this popped up on my list. This reminds me of the quote going around on tik tok. That you were put in their path to show them what unconditional love is and they were put in your path to teach you what self love is.

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад +3

      wow, i love that quote! 🙌🏾✨

  • @callofcyryn
    @callofcyryn 6 месяцев назад +30

    Narcissists certainly do exist, but I believe you absolutely seek/allow things you think you deserve. The universe teaches us through the experiences that give us a new perspective that ultimately changes our reality! I’ve dealt with narcissists and toxic people who were just unhealed. Both taught me to trust my intuition and how to spot them from a mile away so I have higher quality friendships as well as business relationships. I am grateful for the lessons in any form they come in because it creates a better future I never knew was possible! I’m certainly not going to call my exes to thank them personally, but ho’oponopono works just fine lol thank you so much for this one! You’re brilliant! ❤

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад +2

      Ugh! I completely agree! Thanks for
      your insight, and jumpstarting the conversation! 🫶🏽✨

  • @larisssa1228
    @larisssa1228 4 месяца назад +3

    exactly! So on point.” What if the guy wasn’t here to be changed by you but to change you” exactly can’t agree more

  • @kingbee44
    @kingbee44 4 месяца назад +3

    Ouch, this one hit me in the bullseye! I would always date people who would be romantic and spoil their previous partners (and tell me about it!), but be withholding and breadcrumb me. Like, not plan anything for my birthday, for example - real basic shit!
    It was so humiliating and hurtful, but ultimately it made me get very eagle eyed to that behavior early on. I was also a classic over-functioner, so I learned to be better at receiving and relaxing.

  • @user-xb6dx4tt7o
    @user-xb6dx4tt7o 3 месяца назад +1

    Life lesson for sure. It was after escaping a four year relationship with a narcissist that I finally began giving myself love and acceptance. That was my lesson. And now at age 58 I’m in my first truly healthy and fulfilling relationship. I’d love to know where that was in my chart!

  • @maddy5320
    @maddy5320 6 месяцев назад +12

    Wow love this perspective, that’s my new favorite line, “what if it’s you that is meant to change not them” that was brilliant ❤🩵❤️🙌

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you! 🙌🏾🫶🏽✨

    • @247iamtam
      @247iamtam 6 месяцев назад

      Absolutely!
      Jupe has come through yet again with The Real Spill and have us looking within!

  • @zeneric7370
    @zeneric7370 6 месяцев назад +7

    I believe everything in life is a lesson whether it's a karmic lesson or just any lesson. You can learn from everyone a narcissist, empath, or anything in between.

  • @melhughes1093
    @melhughes1093 3 месяца назад

    Wow, the perspective you offered was right on time. Definitely meant to change me, not the other person.

  • @DeniseGunn-t6m
    @DeniseGunn-t6m 12 дней назад +1

    Definitely changed me. In hindsight, I was a billboard for the quickest route to easy money. I was confused the entire time about why he was treating me badly. When he opened a separate account for our military pay deposit, I still didn’t know what was going on. It wasn’t until the therapy from a narcissism psychologist that it sunk in. I don’t think it’s karma. I think it’s jealousy. It’s displaced hatred.

    • @megayummyrockstar
      @megayummyrockstar 10 дней назад +1

      You left right?

    • @DeniseGunn-t6m
      @DeniseGunn-t6m 10 дней назад

      @@megayummyrockstar Define leave. It’s been 1 year and 5 months of celibacy. I’m focused on my health. I’m not building anything with him. I love my kids. So I’m working on not being resentful and other therapy stuff. “I will not go back and forth with you.”

  • @indigojes
    @indigojes 6 месяцев назад +8

    I had no clue I married my karmic love lesson 20 years ago today 2/14 until I hit my 2nd north node return back in 2017/2018, then my marriage fell apart. I grew up and soon began to see what a narcissist looked like up close and personal, yikes 😳!!!! Great video Jupiter James…I lean on the side of both like each of us, we have a shadow side. It’s up to each of us to learn the lesson to reach enlightenment.

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад

      Yes! thanks for sharing and offering your insight to this! 🫶🏽✨

  • @Ashdash_100
    @Ashdash_100 6 месяцев назад +3

    You are absolutely correct my friend ❤️‍🔥 Genesis 50:20 i
    As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today.

  • @tamelashafer8852
    @tamelashafer8852 4 месяца назад

    You on point… I have been researching and diving very deep for years… from Psychology, attachment types, trauma related information, esoteric, quantum, spiritual knowledge, archetypes, neuroscience, numerology, and everything relationships/petter recognition….
    I am seriously impressed with your gifts of cosmic sight and am delighted to have been guided by the Universe to you & your channel…
    Om Shanti Shanti Shanti 💜♾️🙏🏼🕉️

  • @SoulSphere108
    @SoulSphere108 4 месяца назад +2

    Woah. This resonated so much. I was dumped by a narcissist and its painful as hell. I have Jupiter in my 12th house and other karmic connections. I definitely belive that this is Gods plan because i dont love myself enough, i want to save others. my mum also has narcissistic qualities. Shew its a hard lesson to learn.

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  4 месяца назад +2

      💞Love Planets in 12th House or Pisces: 💍 Remedy for “Lost Love” Effect & How To Find Soulmate! 💞
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  • @Sunfl0w33r
    @Sunfl0w33r 6 месяцев назад +2

    This video was a word and has me deeply reflecting on past
    Relationships I’ve had and my current one😅lol… I used to stay calling people “narcissist” and feeling like a victim. Though i feel like I’ve grown past that perspective, you’ve exposed a new depth of viewing those relationships for me. I’ve been trying to find peace with those past relationships as in what was my role in the matter per say or the purpos?.But that’s such a deep perspective that I’m grateful for you to have framed. What if they were meant to change YOU. You’ve opened my eyes even more with that one! Thank you 💕🥹

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад

      You're so welcome! Every "mistake" is just a learning lesson in disguise! A pillar in which we grow from! 🫶🏽✨

  • @Soothinglemonburn
    @Soothinglemonburn 6 месяцев назад +2

    Loveee this astro chat idea 🧡
    You know that electric “i recognise you” feeling when you meet someone? When i get that feeling with someone thats usually when its going to be a karmic lesson with that person. The relationship feels super charged/intense/heavy in some way. I used to think that its because you have chemistry with someone that creates that spark…but nah ive met people i didnt feel that feeling with at the start who i ended up having really good chemistry with after knowing them a bit longer. So i get kinda scared now when i get that electric feeling at first glance with someone i wonder if theyre gna turn my life upside down if i let them into my life

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад +1

      I know exactly what you mean!!! its in that same instant that when you meet this person you kinda already feel like " oh man this is gonna be trouble!" kinda feeling and yet you can't help but play into the experience! i've been there! and you are right, always a MAJOR karmic lesson! 😭✨

    • @Soothinglemonburn
      @Soothinglemonburn 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@jupiterjames_ yeah so weird how someone else like a friend will look at the same eyes and not get that feeling/feedback. Haha i matched with a guy on tinder and was like omg yoo his eyes and my friend couldn't see it. It's so cool how that works 😶‍🌫️

  • @jordasia1
    @jordasia1 6 месяцев назад +3

    I'm glad you made this video, as a person with a Scorpio 7H stellium (moon, Venus, Pluto, mercury) I needed to hear this because it does feel like most of my relationships are karmic because they never work out and I'm always used or manipulated by the other person. I hate it because I really want a wholesome relationship.

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад +3

      This isnt a permanent thing or a curse, just something you must pinpoint and address! This will get better with time as you will begin to see the pattern and learn not to entertain it! Thus attracting more fruitful and solid relationships! 🫶🏽✨

    • @jordasia1
      @jordasia1 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@jupiterjames_ thank you!

  • @Ashdash_100
    @Ashdash_100 6 месяцев назад +4

    Love these chats !!

  • @247iamtam
    @247iamtam 6 месяцев назад +2

    Both! (for me)
    Absolutely both!
    This video evokes deeper insight cause of course its easier to blame the other person and not yourself #EvenThough "The writing is on the wall!"
    Good Stuff Jupe #AsUsual
    Tell me about myself while teaching me about myself!

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you! So glad you resonate with this chat! Let me know of any other topics or ideas you'd like to gain clarity on or chat about within astrology! 🫶🏽✨

  • @Golden_Queen_888
    @Golden_Queen_888 6 месяцев назад

    Yeah it’s all about attraction, your vibration, believe system & ur feminine/musculine energy..
    My spiritual teacher once told me that: every person u meet is like the universe at large, u attract from them what u r a vibrational match to ..

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад

      Wow, i love that!! ✍🏾✨🫶🏽

  • @lemoniizsk
    @lemoniizsk 6 месяцев назад +1

    Narcissists is real my ex was one he did same thing to all his ex but kept it secret . i was just so lucky to get out of toxic relationship.

  • @gisp4622
    @gisp4622 3 месяца назад

    I agree...but it's not accurate to ask a current partner. The woman suing him would have said all those nice things too when they were together otherwise she wouldn't have given him money

  • @ShevyCardoza
    @ShevyCardoza 6 месяцев назад

    I have just binged through your channel. I really love your approach and so much of what I have heard is really accurate to my experience. And yes, I do think I was meant to change. I went through horrible abuse. I dont think it had to happen for me to learn a lesson but I do think all that happened pushes me to become more of who I really am. ❤

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад +1

      Amazing, I love that you are resonating with the material! Also thanks for sharing ☺️✨

  • @brashawnsiriboe
    @brashawnsiriboe 6 месяцев назад +2

    We are survivin

  • @barbaralewis9789
    @barbaralewis9789 6 месяцев назад

    Keep Doin This So Happy To See U ...Very Very Motivational ...Happy Thrusday 😎💪🏿 ❤❤🎉🎉🎉😘🫠🤗💯

  • @rubirose196
    @rubirose196 6 месяцев назад +1

    Agreed. Amazing!

  • @soulfullydrivendance4610
    @soulfullydrivendance4610 6 месяцев назад

    Great topic! Honestly my love life changed when I stopped and asked how I’m contributing to my own misery, like what in me thought that was acceptable treatment. When I stopped focusing on the other party and how I can show up better myself, I understood my lessons. I also have Capricorn in my 7th house soooo lol. We can give too much power to the other person when it was never about the other person it was about ourself and our own lessons

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад +1

      Yes Yes Yes! Wish I could pin this comment for all the Capricorn 7th Housers out there! Glad to know you are working through your karma and learning how best to use the energy!! kudos! 🫶🏽✨

    • @soulfullydrivendance4610
      @soulfullydrivendance4610 6 месяцев назад

      @@jupiterjames_ your content is 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @Fit-tism
    @Fit-tism 6 месяцев назад

    This was so good. Thanks for this video. You gave me something to think about.

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад

      So glad this got you thinking!🫶🏽✨

  • @sophies_poppin
    @sophies_poppin 17 дней назад

    I find that a lot of people who have 1st house placements are narcissists. That’s just my experience

  • @xyz-jv9df
    @xyz-jv9df 6 месяцев назад +2

    I was wondering why it can't be both. . . As a lesson is self love, boundaries etc , d universe might actually send me towards a karmic lesson who was also a low level narcissist. I can see this person healing themselves now aftr their life spiralled , 5 yrs later. I have already moved on, but I am happy for them. They still struggle with their narcissistic tendencies. But this person was d one who triggered me enough to walk away from them, n eventually it made me walk away from my toxic fam n relatives. They were d trigger for me to start self love n boundary setting. So I think a narcissistic can be a karmic lesson too.

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад

      I definitely think it is both, sometimes! I think the universe is a master all making all things true at once, especially in these types of expiriences! 🫶🏽✨

  • @astarisborn36
    @astarisborn36 6 месяцев назад

    I love this conversation topic! These are things I want to ask an astrologer lol like how do we know what is a karmic lesson and what is just straight up abuse?

  • @InspiredSoul812
    @InspiredSoul812 6 месяцев назад +2

    I hate when people throw the word Narcissist around because people allowed a toxic person to sweep them off their feet. Yes there are Narcs but most of the time you chose them sweet words and broken promises shouldn’t be motivated a person to give their all and be left with nothing they’re WORDS what can the person do for you ?

  • @gigigigi9739
    @gigigigi9739 6 месяцев назад

    I’m
    Pretty sure all my relationships in the past 20 yrs was karmic. Maybe both with my last one because I wasn’t learning my lesson. Pluto was just in my 7th house where my natal Venus is at. Been single 6 yrs now. Cancer rising

  • @jennytorres9771
    @jennytorres9771 6 месяцев назад

    I was expecting astrology to be spoken about in this video.

  • @ellabarnes4599
    @ellabarnes4599 6 месяцев назад

    In unrelated matters, I'm inquiring about the 5th house lord video from a month ago. If it's about the planet that rules our 6th house, then why is the video on houses? I don't understand and I so LOVE 5th house, I want to clarify. Hope for a response - thanks!!

  • @missthingtv
    @missthingtv 6 месяцев назад +1

    Can you please do a video for cancer and Pisces through the houses?

  • @sunlovr13
    @sunlovr13 6 месяцев назад

    ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @Brinasays121
    @Brinasays121 6 месяцев назад

    I think two things can be true!

  • @GiveonKing
    @GiveonKing 6 месяцев назад +1

    I think your 8th house tells you about karmic relationships

  • @kittthompson
    @kittthompson 6 месяцев назад +2

    I don’t agree with this. I think it’s victim blamey for people in abusive situations.
    Judge-Judy is one thing for entertainment, its hammed up for U.S telly like Springer was etc, but there are real life awful situations that people are living who don’t deserve the abuse to “teach them a lesson” this rhetoric has very real and serious consequences.

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад +1

      Of course, there are always valid situations of actual abuse to victims and we are never discounting that experience!
      This topic is more so to get the brain moving and to offer a birds eye view perspective of the experiences we go through in life! I think the universe is a master at making a lot of things true at once. I believe that there are victims of abuse, and the ones that did it, serve as a teacher to ultimately help the victim, grow, change, and evolve for the better! 🫶🏽✨

    • @kittthompson
      @kittthompson 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@jupiterjames_ Your statement makes it sound as though abusers are teachers and the survivors needed to be abused to be taught a lesson. Imagine reading this as someone who has been a victim of child abuse or modern slavery, or someone in an abusive home environment.
      By this mentality, enslaved people also needed to learn lessons, or people who have been s*xually assaulted.
      I’m honestly horrified at the insensitivity of this thought process. No victim of abuse is thinking “I’m really glad I went through this destructive, abusive situation. It has really helped me to evolve and grow.”
      It sounds like you’re praising abusers as teachers of important lessons. I’m really disappointed that you’re publishing this on a public platform.

  • @Golden_Queen_888
    @Golden_Queen_888 6 месяцев назад

    Yes plz post more such videos I absoloutely like ur mindset + u give us ur review as an astrologer.. I would love that honestly 💕🌱🪴

    • @jupiterjames_
      @jupiterjames_  6 месяцев назад

      Thank you! Will do! 🫶🏽✨