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So according to ‘design mom’, men can prevent unwanted pregnancies by being chaste until marriage (just like the Bible says)? Great, point taken! All men should make it their mission now to follow the biblically-instructed mission of WAITING UNTIL MARRAIGE. Then abortions will go down, because women won’t have 'unwanted pregnancies’….
I was reminded by something my dad told me about dehumanization. My dad is the national guard and was deployed during War On Terror. He was a sniper and he said he was trained to never refer to an enemy as a person but as a "target" or any other code word. It was so soldiers could kill quicker and easier. Kind of like saying the baby inside a womb is just a "fetus" or a "clump of cells".
@@zanido9073 I agree that, if it were justified, it wouldn't matter what your child would potentially do (eg. Gandhi). But it isn't justified. So yes, whether your child is Gandhi is irrelevant. But your conclusion is the inverse of the true one.
@@Bonesawisready926 Why did this make me laugh more than any other comment on this video xD If this were reddit, I'd have shelled out a gold medal for you so fast. Thank you for the clever comedy I didn't know I needed today
"...there are 0 consequences for men who cause unwanted pregnancies." Yeah, because no man has ever been thrown in jail for not paying child support, right?
And it doesn't matter if he can't pay it due to child support being outrageous. Or the child support not going to the child? It's child support not mommys "pay check".
More so. They decide who lays with them and enters them. Stop with the taking away of agency and responsibility from women, it's by definition misogynistic.
It seems like the younger girls will sleep around and hump anything that shows them any kinda attention and money. Then they will hump like rabbits. Then blame the man for it.
Doesn't change the fact that you both chose to take that risk, so you both bear responsibility for the outcome. The only difference is women have the opportunity to lie about the risk by claiming they are on birth control or in a part of their cycle where pregnancy is highly unlikely. Men have no way to verify these claims. If a man claims he's using a condom, that can be verified easily. A man could lie about having had a vasectomy, but before sleeping with him, you could also ask him to offer proof of that, which would be clearly documented by the doctor/facility that performed it. It all boils down to not wanting to take responsibility for your own actions on both sides. You can't expect to go through life doing whatever you want and any time something bad happens you can just hit the reset button.
The more I listen and watch, the more I understand the whole leftist agenda is about Population Control. From encouraging the Abortion Holocaust to forcing kids to be gay and trans, it's all about stopping humans from being born.
when they DON'T want the kid, then it's all the man's fault they got pregnant, but when they DO want the kid then they wanna take all the credit for that child's existence. Can't have it both ways ladies.
Whoa! whoa! So you’re telling me that men shouldn’t stick their wang in a woman to avoid getting her pregnant and women should be more discerning when it comes to their partners? Wow! It’s not like certain, ancient belief systems have been advocating for this attitude since the beginning of history... OH WAIT!!!!
That last sentiment about men not wanting to date is 100% true! I personally have only dated one person since 2020 and it’s because of this exact reason! I feel like women only want to date so they aren’t lonely instead of trying to build an intimate and personal relationship with someone who they claim they “love”
Thank you Brett for talking about tracking your cycle and naturally preventing pregnancy! So many people still scoff at it, but it's how my husband and I successfully prevented pregnancy for over 2 years and then successfully got pregnant as soon as we decided to try. It's pitiful how little so many women know about their own bodies. Knowledge is power.
Some women like myself have irregular cycles that makes tracking difficult, but I suppose it doesn't help when you're not taught how to track them in the first place (also myself). I think it's so cool how you could do that and congratulations on your kid. 😁
That's awesome that you can do that, but as someone else already stated, there's a lot of us with irregular cycles that never know for sure when they're coming. I've tried both tracking it myself and using different apps to no avail. That being said, I still believe that unplanned pregnancies are on both participant's shoulders equally, blaming just the man is stupid.
Yes I realize I am very blessed to have extremely regular cycles which makes it very easy for me to track. The book I read to learn about natural family planning was very in depth and said that even those with irregular cycles could use certain methods. But I've never had to deal with that so I'm not going to say it would be easy or even possible for everyone. I realize I am lucky. The book was Taking Control of Your Fertility. It was interesting anyways to learn a lot more about my body than I knew before. I just didn't want the side effects of hormonal birth control but I know people who successfully used copper IUDs and condoms and neither of those are hormonal options either. Personally I'm just afraid to use condoms cause that's how our first was conceived😂 But we love him to death! I've just heard so many people who outright scoff at any thought of natural family planning and think it is something from the Stone Ages.😅
@@samanthastutzman21 Thanks for the info! I'll be looking into it ASAP. 😁 I can't use birth control because it really messes me up, so it's nice to know I have other options that aren't gonna kill me financially (and it's perfectly natural too!).
@@therealtrissmerigold I recommend the Creighton Model. By tracking your ovulation you'll start to understand why you're having abnormal periods. It's used for more than achieving and avoiding pregnancy. It doesn't require an app or temperature checks. It just requires learning how to chart your observations and what to look for every time you wipe yourself before and after using the restroom and before and after showering. The key to getting pregnant is cervical mucus. The sperm need cervical mucus to survive. Sperm, in the absence of good mucus will die literally within hours or even minutes when placed into the vagina. Estrogen is the hormone which stimulates the production of cervical mucus from the cervix. After ovulation progesterone stops the mucus production. It's progesterone that supports the lining cells of the uterus preparing them for pregnancy. If a woman is infertile or has had a miscarriage it could be because her progesterone production is low. You can find a gynecologist who knows the model and how to read your chart. You'll also be helped by a Creighton Model teacher who meets with you in follow-up sessions to make sure you're making accurate observations and charting correctly. The materials are $30 and the follow-up sessions are $50. The follow-up sessions are spaced out over the course of a year. It's inexpensive. I just wish more women knew about it.
Women have the baby maker. Women control access to the baby maker. Women can work out when the baby maker is operational. Maybe women need to use their baby makers a little more responsibly, since they're the ones that will be making a baby.
@@deusdex1186 men have the seed. Men are the only reason we can use our baby maker. Maybe men should act like men and own their shit and stop trying to push responsibility onto others. You talk about personal responsibility in the same sentence that you deflect blame. You are a hypocrite and need to figure your shit out, otherwise you come across as a pushover who's never left their mother's basement, except to get more dorotos and mtn dew
@@eroe2742 Nope. Control access you your baby maker. Men have no clue when you're fertile. You don't have that excuse, despite most women also having no clue when they're fertile.🙄 Also, the typical feminist insults and shaming tactics are pathetic. It's really your only go-to when your little feeling are hurt by reality.😆
My brother was an 'unplanned pregnancy', yet is a loved member of our family. So, since he was unplanned, he is according to their standards unwanted?!?
A big problem with our society today is the tendency to blame others for problems that would largely be mitigated or not exist at all if we encouraged more self-responsibility. Not taking responsibility for our actions can all too easily lead to perpetually bad behavior. If we can blame others for our bad behaviors, then we are more likely to commit those behaviors, as we see far too much of these days. Have some accountability and take responsibility for your actions!
@@zanido9073 Tell that to all the people still wearing masks while promoting irresponsible sexual activity then panicking over how much they need abortion. If it's so incompatible I'm curious how so many people seem to act that way all the time.
Damn, if I didn't know any better I'd think abstinence and accountability were literally lethal to some of these women. Just don't have consensual sex with anyone you aren't prepared to raise a child with, man or woman. I can't fathom how people are so comfortable being intimate with strangers without considering the only two outcomes of the activity. Either a child is conceived or not. If you aren't prepared for both results regardless of how much you tried to adjust the odds of either outcome, don't do the activity with that person.
@@Imsuper656 Please elaborate on how my advice on taking into account the natural outcomes of one's decisions before making them makes me sanctimonious or arrogant. Also as an atheist, I'm probably as far from pious as anyone could be. I simply think that most of the issues regarding reproduction can be resolved, or at least more easily addressed, with more focus on personal responsibility rather than focusing on blaming others for the outcomes and making laws to regulate people's actions. Outside of extreme scenarios involving the unwilling, pregnancy isn't something that should surprise anyone or catch anyone off guard. Every method of contraception runs the risk of failure with the exception of abstinence. My suggestion is merely to make peace with the possible outcomes of the decision before you make it. A fair suggestion in my opinion considering one outcome is an entirely new human life. Regardless of the odds, you shouldn't gamble unless you're okay with losing a bet. We call those who gamble irresponsibly 'addicts'. Regardless of how much outside help the individual receives, it's up to them to be more responsible. Just because sex addiction is so commonly accepted doesn't make it any less of a problem.
This is extremely personal and i can't believe i'm going to share it again or millions to see. I'm always careful when having intimate relation, yet just this one time i forgot the condom... She lied to me and told me 6/7 years later that she had an abortion... I broke down. I would've done everything for that kid!
Back in highschool this one girl asked a guy a question about ejaculation and if men can "shoot it out" anytime they wanted. I looked at her and said no, thats not the case. We cant just force it to happen like we can clap our hands. While the act is intentional, and yes as men we need to be highly responsible (or as i like to say stop thinking with the wrong head), it requires an amount of stimulation that varies each time. Also sometimes you can feel it coming on and have time to react, other times not so much. So to say that it is 100% mens fault 100% of the time because they have full control over the involuntary aspect of it 100% of the time is absolutely rediculous and shortsighted. Not making an excuse for bad choices, but instead calling for responsibility on both sides because it is both sides that take part point blank
Can confirm. Also sometimes you get hand cramp before the wahoo when you've had to resort to manual mode. And I'm not ambidextrous... fu- uh damn.. Similar with women, otherwise they're either all faking or some so they are when they're not lol
Hey ladies…. Abstinence is 100% effective, men have Zero say in pregnancy if you practice abstinence. When I practice abstinence, I have always succeeded, 100% of the time, of not having been part of an unplanned pregnancy.
"If a woman doesn't want kids she shouldn't go clapping guys. " ♀: no guys you say... i am about to pull what is called a pro gamer move arf? 🐕 (snort) OINK!!🐷
Yes and this book is a direct challenge to that. All unwanted pregnancies are caused by men. Time to stop blaming women and take some responsibility for your actinos.
You know, you could advocate for men to be responsible in the bedroom without blaming them, as well as encourage women to be responsible too. As Brett said here, it takes 2 to tango.
@@ym5891 Of course it is. You presented me with a hypothetical scenario and I explained the fact that it varies from case to case. We’re all human, we’re all individuals, no two people are going to have the exact same experience in life.
@@meleebrawler6462 Based on your unwillingness to answer, the most logical conclusion would be to make it mandatory for a woman to receive consent before pregnancy. No consent = rape. Would clear things up real fast, none of those 'case to case' bs.
When Brett talked about good ranchers packaging being better packaged than most men out there I died a little bit. Then my wife laughed out loud and I died more. Thanks Brett. Here’s my soul going up to heaven years early due to that slaying……
Obviously. Men are told this constantly for 50 years. It’s the women that choose the wrong men. Let them fck unprotected and ontop of that they break up families in divorces bc of money mainly.
Some men don't want to be fathers, and if a woman tricks him into fatherhood, she deserves to do it alone. She should also be banned from all forms of welfare for choosing to have a child like that.
If I'm correct then there was a pretty big group of people in the mid 1900s in my home country of Germany that also labeled everything they didn't like as either a disease or ridden with diseases.
Her argument falls flat in a few key areas. First, when she says "there are no consequences for men with regards to an unplanned pregnancy ...," the millions of men paying child support for 18-21 years would beg to differ. Second, she calls for "more responsibility", but caveats it "just not for me and my kind." That is not a call for more responsibility; it is a call for laziness. Finally, and I say this as someone how has spent my entire professional career solving problems, whenever you identify a problem and your solution is "we need to overhaul everything", you are being insincere. I'll give an example to demonstrate: We could immediately eliminate over 90% of unplanned pregnancies if everyone would simply stop having "fun" with people they are not married to. Obviously, that would solve much of the problem; however, anyone with half a brain and a basic understanding of human nature would realize that is not a feasible solution. The same is the case for this woman's proposed solution (interestingly enough, there is a large group of younger men who are heeding her call ... and her fellow girl power advocates are complaining about that now, too - see Matt Walsh's video from the other day).
They used th say something along the lines of: What do you call people who use withdrawal as birth control? Parents!" A similar saying applied to using menstrual clcle.
“Once reproduction became a biological choice for the mother, then fatherhood became a social choice for the man.” - Rob Henderson Basically, once it was determined that the woman could just destroy her baby, the man's social responsibility to take care of the woman and the child was also destroyed.
For some people as long as they get to kill babies, any reason is a good reason. With comments like yours, I don’t think there is any reasoning with you.
For some people as long as they get to kill babies, any reason is a good reason. With comments like yours, I don’t think there is any reasoning with you.
@beastbombshell3589 pretty sure that would be completely illegal. Most abortions are choices made by the women who had them. Also you literally are grossed that he called fatherhood a social choice. But didn't comment on motherhood becoming a biological choice for women. Which is a clear double standard in your thought process. Bot hare 100% true in this day in age and in my opinion neither should be true. Both men and women need to be held more responsible for their actions
As far as getting pregnant, yes 50/50. As far as carrying the child to term, obviously the mother does that. As far as the actual raising of the child? Yes the responsibility should be 50/50.
More like 30/70. While both people are needed to create a baby, and the responsibility to raise that baby is 50/50, at the end of the day, its the woman, not the man, that'll carry that baby for 9 months while it develops in their body, go through tremendous pain to birth it, and then feed it for another 7+ months. Women are affected the most by it, therefore they bear the majority of the responsibility. No different then how someone with an allergy, bears the most responsibility to avoid anything that could trigger that allergy, as they will be the one affected the most. Yes, if others are decent people, they'll take some responsibility for it as well, but the majority rests with the person most affected.
I commented earlier saying the same thing. I ain't religious, but was baptised in the LDS church. They teach all lives are sacred from birth until death
I really don't understand why preventative measures are never addressed. If a consenting couple has sex and she ends up pregnant, then they're both responsible for that outcome.
She got a book deal based on tweets from 4 years ago and now she's just finished the damn thing, and it sucks. And she had the convenience of an 18 month lockdown/shutdown to further inspire her to hunker down and give it her best - and this was it?!
What bothers me the most are the mothers on social media who post happy times with their own kids while also advocating for you to kill yours. I will never understand this position. They're basically advertising that they would never kill their own but it's totally fine to kill yours.
@Alana Marie the solution to an overloaded foster system is not to start killing children, some solutions could be to increase foster homes & have better resources for sex ed & pregnancy prevention for people who are going to be having recreational sex & support systems for single mothers with few options. In no way can murder be justified on the basis of "they might have a bad life & become a criminal", killing someone because they might commit crime? because they might have a less than perfect childhood? because their mother would rather abandon them in pursuit of a career? that seems nonsensical to me & to anyone who has suffered anything! i wouldnt trade my traumas for death, especially when i have survived them & can help others both heal from theirs & hopefully help as many avoid it in the future there are so many solutions to accidental pregnancy that don't involve the loss of life & trauma to the woman, the majority of which are preventative
I can top that by a million. I've seen a chick on social media who is actively pro-abortion, and goes to marches, and yet has a relative whose baby died in the womb due to a congenital condition, and posts stories in remembrance, pictures with comments mourning the loss, wears commemorative t-shirts, and basically saying the whole thing is a tragedy, when she actively supports babies in the exact same state being killed every day. It is without a doubt the most hypocritical thing I've ever seen, to mourn a baby dying in the womb due to natural causes, yet supporting millions of babies being killed by human hands in womb. And the worst part is she is oblivious to it.
@Alana Marie Every human on the planet knows sex leads to pregnancy. If it doesn't, you got lucky. Super simple. Don't have sex if you don't want to get pregnant.
The thing that shocked me the most was that the author of this book is LDS. I’m a part of that religion and abortion is something we strictly believe is not to be used.
Not even all unplanned pregnancies are “unwanted.” There are many women who are coerced, threatened, and pressured into abortion with even babies that they wanted. All of the terrible issues with abortion do not whittle down to…this thing. 🙄
Sex is voluntary and you can track the exact days you are fertile. This is what my husband and I do. We've had one planned child and have had no unplanned pregnancies.
So I used to be a liberal because I was pro-choice but once I had my ex get an abortion, I realized that I was pro-life. Abortion literally changed my perception of the world and men need to start taking charge by talking it out with the mother.
I wasn't a liberal, more a libertarian with some socially left leaning view points (including being "pro-choice") and the same thing happened to me when my ex-fiance and I had an abortion. It took me a few years to realize it but it was a big catalyst for change in my personal views. Not knowing better, not knowing or wanting to push harder to accept responsibility for our decisions and instead taking what seemed to be an easier way out, is one of my greatest regrets.
May I ask you a question? I am a very firm socialist, and hold many, what you might consider, far left ideologies. However. I am neither pro choice nor life, since I think that both are one-sided characatures of themselves. I have some views that do not fit neatly into the view sets of people with my ideology. For example, I think being transgender simply isn't real, and that it is a popular fad that's just used for people without personalities to make into their whole identity. Secondly. I see that "wokeness" is just a holier-than-thou stunt to keep people in like and oppress original thoughts and real social progress. 🤔 But at the same time.. When I see a video pointing these issues out.. I relate to some, because they are right. But then others, like this woman's channel "The Comment Section" says some of these things right, while spewing ignorent half truths, lies, conspiracy, and focused sessions on media updates like someone releasing a book that I just could not care less about if I tried. My point being. I don't feel like I fit in anywhere. My ideologies involves some things that reject me from one side (the left), but I also *hate* the other side (the right) with burning passion. 🔥 What do I do in this situation. I'm asking you because I want a different perspective that I don't commonly indulge in. What are your thoughts? What do you think I should do?
@@lorrainebrunner2490 ma'am. Your identity is your own to decide and create. How is someone supposed to answer you? "You should be conservative" like what? You are the only one who knows what you agree with and what you stand for. Own it and figure it oit
It's the woman's choice If she wants an abortion or not. Making abortions illegal doesn't stop them happening, jusy more women will die because they used an unsafe method to perform one.
I love how closing your legs is unimaginable to the “modern (broken) women asking men to grow up for them xD It’s so quaint, they just don’t see it as an option 😅
this is a stupid argument. Regardless of whether you think it's anyone fault or not, people should have agency over their own reproduction. Nobody should be forced to carry a child to term whether it was their "fault" or not.
The real problem is this hook-up culture everyone in my age group seems to love taking part in. It's not good for EVERYONE. Yet these fools aren't ready to accept that.
The "responsible way" is wherever and whenever you both want to (hopefully not in public). In this day and age, doing it with someone you're monogamous with is almost unheard of, but, it's definitely better AND far more responsible that way, as well.
Was going out with a woman who told me she was on the pill. My sister later told me she was asked by this person if she thought I would marry her if she got pregnant. I stopped seeing her the same day, I always felt that some of the late term abortions were because they only done when the possibility of getting a husband wasn't going to happen. I also knew a woman who was married three time after first getting pregnant
The easiest way to figure this out is do a simple test case. If men could prevent all unwanted pregnacies with birth control they didn't have to use DURING sex, how many unwanted pregnancies would there be? If you answered ZERO, then you're a smarty. If women could prevent all unwanted pregnancies with birth control..... yada yada they already can and obviously they don't..... soooo, it's men's fault? Hmmm... when they figure out how to allow men to have birth control that also doesn't eliminate all sex from happening completely, I somehow get the strong suspicion alot of the same women complaining about this will be upset that they cannot get pregnant unless a MAN decides to.
Another fine example of the Olympic Level Mental Gymnastics required to absolve women of any and all responsibility for their own actions. The female who wrote this book believes that women have no self agency in all this? Not sure, but I would find it laughable except that I am certain some people take her seriously.
I guess it's time for me to write the rebuttal book, "Exercise Discretion When Spreading Your Legs." The New York Times will surely give it a positive review, right? 🥰
@@matthewmorrisdon5491 You know what, your totally right. I didn't realize what logically followed from my comment. Men absolutely do need to take responsibility, expecially because that is a big part of how God made men. Blair's comment that women do NOT need to take responsibilty is clearly not true, as Brett said: it takes 2 to tango, but there definitely a lot of men not taking the responsibilty to raise their children right now, and thats a problem.
PSA: About two weeks after my period, I will be doing my make up WAY MORE than usual and be incapable of stoping myself. I'll think "put down the brush! You have more important shit to do!!" and still won't be able to stop. This is when I'm ovulating. During ovulation, women's hormones are compelling them to mate which causes them to be more attractive (shinier hair, smoother skin, etc.), to "signal" their fertility to potential mates (wearing dresses and skirts, putting additional time into their appearance, etc.) and often times they will even experience an increased libido during this time. Women can observe changes in their own behavior/ feelings to be able to tell when in their cycle they typically ovulate. These changes will be much more pronounced when they are not on birth control (i.e. when this information is more applicable/useful to them) as with myself (don't worry I'm single and celibate). Educate yourself and observe your cycle, ladies. Gentlemen, you can also pay closer attention to your woman (especially about two weeks after her period) for some of the more outward indicators | listed above (I believe there's even more than that), as well as just asking your gf/ wife/partner about her birth control (when did you take it last, which one do you use, etc.). Family planning is a two way street, people!
@@dylcart8881 Yeah but men aren't bailed out of unwanted pregnancies like women are. A woman can kill "a clump of cells" but men can't even abandon it and will go to jail if they don't pay child support (which benefits the mother more than the child) for 18 years
@@sada3366 your statement just proved why men shouldn't go around stacking their body count. If women have to take responsibility, so should men lmao 🤣 If women shouldn't have sex if they don't want the risk of a child. Men should do the same lmao 🤣 Like Brett said, it takes two.
This is why you have sex with people you know and have talked to about wanting or not wanting a child. Responsible relationships have conversations, one night stands don’t and those are the main reasons why there is so much unwanted pregnancies and fatherless children
Hey! I have conversations during one night stands too, it’s not all grunting and moaning 😹 Though I always use protection and like to 💦 on the girl’s face 👩🏻 or boobs, so there’s little risk of accidental breeding.
1:56 that segue had me rolling! 😂😂😂 Also, this is a new take on playing a victim. Creative and disturbing. Next step, lawsuits against men for their... juice... getting on them during relations.
There are no consequences for men? That's outrageous! They should invent some sort of test you can do to prove whether a man is the father of a child or not, and then we should pass laws requiring absentee fathers to pay the mother each month to support the child. That way we could hold men responsible for unplanned pregnancies! 🙄
If the woman won't allow the father to have the child in his home and custody half the time, she loses the child. If she spends any of the child support money on herself, she loses the child and the money for its support. And if she the child without the father's consent, she is solely responsible for the child, including financially. There, I fixed it for you. Now they can share the responsibility AND the joys 50/50. 😊
Yea this is a good idea, but let's forget about the test part. Let's just leave it up to the mother to decide that the richest among the dudes she slept with is the actual father 😂
The blame is shared for sure and as a man I am perfectly fine putting a lot more responsibility on men. We’ve carried society this far why wouldn’t it be up to us to take it the next step further.
Every girlfriend I've ever had since high school has "stretched" the truth about their birth control intake. They usually just say, "go ahead" trying not to be too graphic here. We men take people at their word too often.
I am definitely judging you for talking about how you slept around all the way back on high school without any shame. I mean I know you have forgiveness and I really don’t want you to feel bad about yourself. I don’t. But I definitely can’t see you as a victim. Of course the kind of girl who sleeps around is going to lie. I bet you were lying a lot, too.
Wow. I just was scrolling through RUclips while being ill, but thanks for providing the window into these narrow minded realms of US conservatism… deliberately misunderstanding is live and well, I see. To state the obvious: The book is just being as provocative as all of you, reminding society and men of what should be natural with a few new nuances. And it’s great you always were and will be responsible, are keeping track of you cycle, have a super regular cycle and only meet men that are responsible and never inflicted pressure in a sexual context. I am happy for any woman that can say that. And I am happy to see so many responsible guys in the comments, that are totally willing to take care of their children, if the mother is not a lying, manipulative gold digger. I am concerned about how the whole abortion-ban develops for everyone from a safe distance in Europe and feel for every person suffering the consequences. It’s not like abortion has been legal for that long and we know what happened before it became legal…
You can actually get pregnant for about 4-5 days a month. She needs to take a reproduction course. (My husband do NFP, and hey, avoid unplanned pregnancy)
@@Crystal-pv1sf Not true. I have seen firsthand women who were 15 days away from their ovulation and still got pregnant. Very rare, but it does happen.
@@crazysilly2914 it cannot happen. No egg, no baby. It just means they ovulated early. It’s basic biology. I have 6 kids and an education in reproduction and lactation. So I’m telling you, you cannot get pregnant without ovulating. Period.
Child support is paid AFTER a child is born, this conversation is about conception. Frankly, your argument is worse: child support means the man didn't face the consequence of in-home fatherhood and coparenting with the child he helped concieve. All that author was saying is this: if we as a society have a problem with abortions, the first step is that men need to stop cumming in women without their explicit consent. That's what causes an unwanted and/or unplanned pregnancy. Men have control over their own penises everytime they decide to have sex, women can't stop a man from ejaculating into them because they can't control the man's penis! If the only thing a man has to worry about is money or child support, then that's an imbalance in responsibility -especially considering that women share that financial burden (single mothers especially), along with the physical, psychological, and spiritual costs of becoming a parent.
@@ariyahawkins7446 That's a whole lot of word salad. First of all, men and women have equal responsibility when it comes to pregnancy, full stop. I pointed out a real injustice that men face; that men have no choice in parenthood. If you can abort it, we should be able to abandon it. Otherwise, no abortions and no abandonment. A conceived child is a child that a man will have to support no matter what, so your entire spiel is moot. Secondly, you're talking about men making the choice to cum in a woman (something most men don't do without the express desire to have a child btw) think of it this way. A man uses a condom, the woman says she's on the pill, and they have sex. Little does the man know that the woman poked holes in the condoms and lied about taking the pill and now the woman is pregnant. The man has no idea that he was deceived and the woman gets a big fat child support check. The man has no say in this situation and the woman has all the control. Maybe Women should think about just how much control they have over their bodies before choosing to take from another (aka abortion and child support.) Finally, conservatives have been calling for men and women to have less sex for decades. Now that every option for women to dodge responsibility has been removed (to further promote equality might I add) now women want to act like sex is the issue and that we need to have less sex. Holy shit, it's almost as if marriage, abstinence and making smart choices have been promoted for decades because they work. Who would've thought. Too bad all these liberal women don't want to acknowledge the fact that they play an equal role in it and therefore they can prevent a pregnancy by closing their legs and saying no, but you can't expect liberals to take responsibility for anything, now can you? Women wanted to be whores, now they have to deal with the consequences of whoring around. The sexual revolution at it's finest. Oh, and by the way, many men do want to be a part of their children's lives. But sadly the women have an advantage in court and use the child as a weapon against the men. If you drive your men away and take their children from them don't expect support beyond a check in the mail. This is a crisis of your own making. And it gets even worse when a woman can abort their child without the father's express consent. How's that for a warning?
That's true. There are many manipulative and vindictive mother's that use their children as weapons. That happened with my husband and his daughter. His daughter is all messed up now and her mother will probably never see her role. We fought to see her and sadly the law was on the mother's side. CPS had been called so many times by the school and we never got his daughter. They always wanted to give the mother chance after chance even though she was not fit to be with her. It's sad how the system failed my stepdaughter. We have our own children now and we're so grateful every day that we're married to each other. As a Christian, our son and new baby will have the best foundation rooted in God with a loving family.
Personally I believe it is the woman's responsibility to protect her uterus from an unwanted pregnancy 100%.. I can't have a baby but if I could I certainly would make sure I protected myself and did not put that responsibility on some other person 💯💯💯
I solved the problem entirely by myself, no one has ever thought of this before: -don't have sex outside of marriage -get married, have lots of sex -know your cycle and plan your babies accordingly You're welcome.
@@MrH347 true, but I have 2 married friends who were on birth control and still got pregnant. One had multiple while on bc, I call her fertile myrtle 😄 so bc isn't perfectly effective. Why waste the money when you can just know your cycle? And condoms just aren't as fun.
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So according to ‘design mom’, men can prevent unwanted pregnancies by being chaste until marriage (just like the Bible says)?
Great, point taken!
All men should make it their mission now to follow the biblically-instructed mission of WAITING UNTIL MARRAIGE. Then abortions will go down, because women won’t have 'unwanted pregnancies’….
Popping? as in 'pop shot' huh? hahaha 😂🤣🤪 Sorry couldn't resist.
new zealand started the lgbt madness and now we will end it,in spectacu;ar fashiopn.keep up the good work
I already am
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Only Brett could transition from "Packaging up your meat and keeping it tight" into a shill for Good Ranchers. 10/10.
I agree. It may be cringe but I am grinning during every second of it.
That’s some next level Knowles advertising. Not that I’d think he’d go there but it’s quite clever.
Why we gotta sexualize the wagyu now? You know beastiality is soon on the lefts agenda, no need to beat them to the punch.
I'm in this comment and I don't like it.
She's already a legend
I was reminded by something my dad told me about dehumanization. My dad is the national guard and was deployed during War On Terror. He was a sniper and he said he was trained to never refer to an enemy as a person but as a "target" or any other code word. It was so soldiers could kill quicker and easier. Kind of like saying the baby inside a womb is just a "fetus" or a "clump of cells".
Ultimately it's irrelevant what it is. It could be Ghandi himself inside there and abortion would still be justified.
I would agree that it is very much intentional
@@zanido9073 I agree that, if it were justified, it wouldn't matter what your child would potentially do (eg. Gandhi).
But it isn't justified. So yes, whether your child is Gandhi is irrelevant. But your conclusion is the inverse of the true one.
Yup. My daughter is 💯 percent my fault. Her mother wasn't even there.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm glad someone is finally stating the proper way things should be. Who cares about the woman jk lol
Schrodinger's feminism
dude just spawned a child by mitosis
@@Bonesawisready926 Why did this make me laugh more than any other comment on this video xD
If this were reddit, I'd have shelled out a gold medal for you so fast. Thank you for the clever comedy I didn't know I needed today
"...there are 0 consequences for men who cause unwanted pregnancies." Yeah, because no man has ever been thrown in jail for not paying child support, right?
And it doesn't matter if he can't pay it due to child support being outrageous. Or the child support not going to the child? It's child support not mommys "pay check".
The "packaging" of meat segue was just priceless. Always package correctly. Yep.
I think women , not using or lying about being on birth control are equally responsible.
More so. They decide who lays with them and enters them. Stop with the taking away of agency and responsibility from women, it's by definition misogynistic.
Yes exactly!! Or pure laziness
is anal birth control? 🤔
It should be a felony. There are women who trap men by lying about birth control.
It seems like the younger girls will sleep around and hump anything that shows them any kinda attention and money. Then they will hump like rabbits. Then blame the man for it.
Both men and women are responsible. It doesn’t change the fact that an innocent human life is formed.
Doesn't change the fact that you both chose to take that risk, so you both bear responsibility for the outcome.
The only difference is women have the opportunity to lie about the risk by claiming they are on birth control or in a part of their cycle where pregnancy is highly unlikely. Men have no way to verify these claims. If a man claims he's using a condom, that can be verified easily. A man could lie about having had a vasectomy, but before sleeping with him, you could also ask him to offer proof of that, which would be clearly documented by the doctor/facility that performed it.
It all boils down to not wanting to take responsibility for your own actions on both sides. You can't expect to go through life doing whatever you want and any time something bad happens you can just hit the reset button.
Men have one form of contraception, women have over 15 forms
If BOTH parties are responsible, then the book and author should say that.
It didn't.
The more I listen and watch, the more I understand the whole leftist agenda is about Population Control. From encouraging the Abortion Holocaust to forcing kids to be gay and trans, it's all about stopping humans from being born.
@@Jacen777 couldn’t have said it any better
when they DON'T want the kid, then it's all the man's fault they got pregnant, but when they DO want the kid then they wanna take all the credit for that child's existence. Can't have it both ways ladies.
Whoa! whoa! So you’re telling me that men shouldn’t stick their wang in a woman to avoid getting her pregnant and women should be more discerning when it comes to their partners? Wow! It’s not like certain, ancient belief systems have been advocating for this attitude since the beginning of history... OH WAIT!!!!
@Alana Marie they do lmao
@Alana Marie You need to get out more because it definitely does haha
@Alana Marie Ya'll use that same script everytime like ya'll are trapped in your own personal bubble...oh wait-
@Alana Marie hahahahaha you have no idea what its like being a man clearly XD
The idea that “all ejaculation is voluntary” speaks volumes to how much this woman knows about men. 🤣
No kidding. That stuff will show up while we sleep. 😄
I also love that she is doubtless of the opinion that men can't have opinions on women's issues, but she as a woman is giving opinions on men's issues
@@ducksp6405 I really hate it when wake up and my underwear is all slimy
@@ruralconservative6625 we all fucking hate that. Natural process so nothing to stop it but it would be less annoying if it didn’t happen 🤷♂️
@@fluffyspark798 😂
That last sentiment about men not wanting to date is 100% true! I personally have only dated one person since 2020 and it’s because of this exact reason! I feel like women only want to date so they aren’t lonely instead of trying to build an intimate and personal relationship with someone who they claim they “love”
maybe women just arent your thing, ever try a man in a dress? lol
Thank you Brett for talking about tracking your cycle and naturally preventing pregnancy! So many people still scoff at it, but it's how my husband and I successfully prevented pregnancy for over 2 years and then successfully got pregnant as soon as we decided to try. It's pitiful how little so many women know about their own bodies. Knowledge is power.
Some women like myself have irregular cycles that makes tracking difficult, but I suppose it doesn't help when you're not taught how to track them in the first place (also myself). I think it's so cool how you could do that and congratulations on your kid. 😁
That's awesome that you can do that, but as someone else already stated, there's a lot of us with irregular cycles that never know for sure when they're coming. I've tried both tracking it myself and using different apps to no avail. That being said, I still believe that unplanned pregnancies are on both participant's shoulders equally, blaming just the man is stupid.
Yes I realize I am very blessed to have extremely regular cycles which makes it very easy for me to track. The book I read to learn about natural family planning was very in depth and said that even those with irregular cycles could use certain methods. But I've never had to deal with that so I'm not going to say it would be easy or even possible for everyone. I realize I am lucky. The book was Taking Control of Your Fertility. It was interesting anyways to learn a lot more about my body than I knew before. I just didn't want the side effects of hormonal birth control but I know people who successfully used copper IUDs and condoms and neither of those are hormonal options either. Personally I'm just afraid to use condoms cause that's how our first was conceived😂 But we love him to death! I've just heard so many people who outright scoff at any thought of natural family planning and think it is something from the Stone Ages.😅
@@samanthastutzman21 Thanks for the info! I'll be looking into it ASAP. 😁
I can't use birth control because it really messes me up, so it's nice to know I have other options that aren't gonna kill me financially (and it's perfectly natural too!).
@@therealtrissmerigold I recommend the Creighton Model. By tracking your ovulation you'll start to understand why you're having abnormal periods. It's used for more than achieving and avoiding pregnancy. It doesn't require an app or temperature checks. It just requires learning how to chart your observations and what to look for every time you wipe yourself before and after using the restroom and before and after showering. The key to getting pregnant is cervical mucus. The sperm need cervical mucus to survive. Sperm, in the absence of good mucus will die literally within hours or even minutes when placed into the vagina. Estrogen is the hormone which stimulates the production of cervical mucus from the cervix. After ovulation progesterone stops the mucus production. It's progesterone that supports the lining cells of the uterus preparing them for pregnancy. If a woman is infertile or has had a miscarriage it could be because her progesterone production is low. You can find a gynecologist who knows the model and how to read your chart. You'll also be helped by a Creighton Model teacher who meets with you in follow-up sessions to make sure you're making accurate observations and charting correctly. The materials are $30 and the follow-up sessions are $50. The follow-up sessions are spaced out over the course of a year. It's inexpensive. I just wish more women knew about it.
It's like blaming the shower 🚿 for getting you wet when you take a bath 🛀
thats why i dont take showers
...well THATS a new one for me...
That is 100% right.
Why is the shower on if you're taking a bath?
@@brettemiller8046 bath, short for bathing. Think about it
As always, the solution to our problems is to blame anyone and everyone else. Personal responsibility? That's oppressive.
Tell that to Susan B. Anthony.
Women have the baby maker.
Women control access to the baby maker.
Women can work out when the baby maker is operational.
Maybe women need to use their baby makers a little more responsibly, since they're the ones that will be making a baby.
@@deusdex1186 men have the seed. Men are the only reason we can use our baby maker. Maybe men should act like men and own their shit and stop trying to push responsibility onto others. You talk about personal responsibility in the same sentence that you deflect blame. You are a hypocrite and need to figure your shit out, otherwise you come across as a pushover who's never left their mother's basement, except to get more dorotos and mtn dew
@@eroe2742 Nope. Control access you your baby maker.
Men have no clue when you're fertile. You don't have that excuse, despite most women also having no clue when they're fertile.🙄
Also, the typical feminist insults and shaming tactics are pathetic. It's really your only go-to when your little feeling are hurt by reality.😆
This is called personal responsibility. Women are impregnated by men. YOU are the source; YOU are responsible. Stop blaming women for your actions.
My brother was an 'unplanned pregnancy', yet is a loved member of our family. So, since he was unplanned, he is according to their standards unwanted?!?
A big problem with our society today is the tendency to blame others for problems that would largely be mitigated or not exist at all if we encouraged more self-responsibility. Not taking responsibility for our actions can all too easily lead to perpetually bad behavior. If we can blame others for our bad behaviors, then we are more likely to commit those behaviors, as we see far too much of these days. Have some accountability and take responsibility for your actions!
Its sad how I noticed this years ago before my 20s and there are plenty of people older than me who don't know this.
Men can choose to not ejaculate inside a woman if they don't want a baby
That transition to the sponsor plug was so bold and yet so smooth.
No one is better than Brett at segwaying into sponsors 🤣
Like _Lucky Strike_
It's Toasted. 😉
It's funny when you imagine them wearing masks during a hook-up but not using any form of birth control.
😂😂
"I was wearing protection!"
yea that would be pretty weird since those are pretty incompatible behaviors.
Also known as a strawman argument
@@zanido9073 Tell that to all the people still wearing masks while promoting irresponsible sexual activity then panicking over how much they need abortion. If it's so incompatible I'm curious how so many people seem to act that way all the time.
@@valderon3692 you think people are wearing masks while having sex but not wearing condoms?
Damn, if I didn't know any better I'd think abstinence and accountability were literally lethal to some of these women. Just don't have consensual sex with anyone you aren't prepared to raise a child with, man or woman.
I can't fathom how people are so comfortable being intimate with strangers without considering the only two outcomes of the activity. Either a child is conceived or not. If you aren't prepared for both results regardless of how much you tried to adjust the odds of either outcome, don't do the activity with that person.
How pious, sanctimonious and arrogant if you!
@@Imsuper656 Please elaborate on how my advice on taking into account the natural outcomes of one's decisions before making them makes me sanctimonious or arrogant. Also as an atheist, I'm probably as far from pious as anyone could be.
I simply think that most of the issues regarding reproduction can be resolved, or at least more easily addressed, with more focus on personal responsibility rather than focusing on blaming others for the outcomes and making laws to regulate people's actions. Outside of extreme scenarios involving the unwilling, pregnancy isn't something that should surprise anyone or catch anyone off guard. Every method of contraception runs the risk of failure with the exception of abstinence. My suggestion is merely to make peace with the possible outcomes of the decision before you make it. A fair suggestion in my opinion considering one outcome is an entirely new human life.
Regardless of the odds, you shouldn't gamble unless you're okay with losing a bet. We call those who gamble irresponsibly 'addicts'. Regardless of how much outside help the individual receives, it's up to them to be more responsible. Just because sex addiction is so commonly accepted doesn't make it any less of a problem.
100%
Honestly easy for us to say when:
1. We're logical
2. We're not exactly drowning in temptation out here
"just don't have sex 4head"
imagine living in an advanced civilization where people can take control of their own reproduction 🤔🤔🤔
Natural Family Planning for the win! Both as a way to achieve pregnancy and as a way to avoid it.
Smooth transition on the advertising plug!...like father like daughter! Taking Ben’s cue's for sure!
Can you imagine being married to someone like that? Must be hell.
This is extremely personal and i can't believe i'm going to share it again or millions to see. I'm always careful when having intimate relation, yet just this one time i forgot the condom... She lied to me and told me 6/7 years later that she had an abortion... I broke down. I would've done everything for that kid!
I am sorry to hear that
How do you forget to get a condom just wondering
Did you ever ask her about asking you to take care of the baby since she didn't want it after you found out
@@michellebaymiller3388 it very easy to forget stuff I sometimes forget immediately what my grandma would ask me to do and would have to ask her again
@@lelynnmcphee3967 I bet he didn’t most men would not that’s just how they are
Back in highschool this one girl asked a guy a question about ejaculation and if men can "shoot it out" anytime they wanted. I looked at her and said no, thats not the case. We cant just force it to happen like we can clap our hands.
While the act is intentional, and yes as men we need to be highly responsible (or as i like to say stop thinking with the wrong head), it requires an amount of stimulation that varies each time. Also sometimes you can feel it coming on and have time to react, other times not so much. So to say that it is 100% mens fault 100% of the time because they have full control over the involuntary aspect of it 100% of the time is absolutely rediculous and shortsighted.
Not making an excuse for bad choices, but instead calling for responsibility on both sides because it is both sides that take part point blank
Can confirm. Also sometimes you get hand cramp before the wahoo when you've had to resort to manual mode. And I'm not ambidextrous... fu- uh damn..
Similar with women, otherwise they're either all faking or some so they are when they're not lol
You don't have Spider-Man capabilities...that sucks
@@ronaldschroeder1691 haha
Did nobody take sex ed? The woman can get pregnant from pre-cum, you don't need to ejaculate to get someone pregnant.
@@ronaldschroeder1691 not with that attitude anyway.
Hey ladies…. Abstinence is 100% effective, men have Zero say in pregnancy if you practice abstinence. When I practice abstinence, I have always succeeded, 100% of the time, of not having been part of an unplanned pregnancy.
Solid ad transition 🤌The meat at good ranchers is amazing.
If a woman doesn't want kids she shouldn't go clapping guys. 🤷♂️
Simple
♀: how am i supposed to collect my child support?
They just let anyone shoot up the club raw. Disgusting
Let guys clap her, but hey it's 2022 it could be that a "she" is clapping 🤣🤣🤣
"If a woman doesn't want kids she shouldn't go clapping guys. "
♀: no guys you say... i am about to pull what is called a pro gamer move
arf? 🐕 (snort) OINK!!🐷
It must be great to be part of the "take no responsibility" industry.
Yes and this book is a direct challenge to that. All unwanted pregnancies are caused by men. Time to stop blaming women and take some responsibility for your actinos.
You know, you could advocate for men to be responsible in the bedroom without blaming them, as well as encourage women to be responsible too.
As Brett said here, it takes 2 to tango.
How can a man be responsible if the woman can lie about her fertility at any point?
@@ym5891 It’s one of those case by case things.
It’s the same reason we can’t just believe all women when it comes to rape.
@@meleebrawler6462 Thats still not an answer.
@@ym5891 Of course it is. You presented me with a hypothetical scenario and I explained the fact that it varies from case to case.
We’re all human, we’re all individuals, no two people are going to have the exact same experience in life.
@@meleebrawler6462 Based on your unwillingness to answer, the most logical conclusion would be to make it mandatory for a woman to receive consent before pregnancy. No consent = rape. Would clear things up real fast, none of those 'case to case' bs.
Not the use of wrapping up men's "meat" to transition to Good Ranchers 🤣
I love your transitions so much
I love the clever and seamless transitions into the Good Ranchers plugs.
How did she do that sponsor transition with a straight face.
Your sponsors are always well placed
“If a man deposits his sperm”
Man: *walks to a woman*
“I’m here to make a deposit”
When Brett talked about good ranchers packaging being better packaged than most men out there I died a little bit. Then my wife laughed out loud and I died more. Thanks Brett. Here’s my soul going up to heaven years early due to that slaying……
Brett, this is the best ad transition yet. Absolutely hilarious, and shows exactly why you are the single best political youtuber on the platform
If you are a man who has a child step up and be a father there is nothing better than seeing your child's smile when you get home from work.
BEST part of my day!
Obviously. Men are told this constantly for 50 years. It’s the women that choose the wrong men. Let them fck unprotected and ontop of that they break up families in divorces bc of money mainly.
Even if you and the mother aren't together anymore, you are STILL a father. Act like it.
You get to know something believed to be extinct or a myth, "unconditional love".
Some men don't want to be fathers, and if a woman tricks him into fatherhood, she deserves to do it alone. She should also be banned from all forms of welfare for choosing to have a child like that.
If I'm correct then there was a pretty big group of people in the mid 1900s in my home country of Germany that also labeled everything they didn't like as either a disease or ridden with diseases.
Her argument falls flat in a few key areas. First, when she says "there are no consequences for men with regards to an unplanned pregnancy ...," the millions of men paying child support for 18-21 years would beg to differ. Second, she calls for "more responsibility", but caveats it "just not for me and my kind." That is not a call for more responsibility; it is a call for laziness. Finally, and I say this as someone how has spent my entire professional career solving problems, whenever you identify a problem and your solution is "we need to overhaul everything", you are being insincere. I'll give an example to demonstrate:
We could immediately eliminate over 90% of unplanned pregnancies if everyone would simply stop having "fun" with people they are not married to. Obviously, that would solve much of the problem; however, anyone with half a brain and a basic understanding of human nature would realize that is not a feasible solution. The same is the case for this woman's proposed solution (interestingly enough, there is a large group of younger men who are heeding her call ... and her fellow girl power advocates are complaining about that now, too - see Matt Walsh's video from the other day).
They used th say something along the lines of: What do you call people who use withdrawal as birth control? Parents!" A similar saying applied to using menstrual clcle.
“Once reproduction became a biological choice for the mother, then fatherhood became a social choice for the man.” - Rob Henderson
Basically, once it was determined that the woman could just destroy her baby, the man's social responsibility to take care of the woman and the child was also destroyed.
Suffregets called abortion a "male crime" a hundred years ago.
For some people as long as they get to kill babies, any reason is a good reason. With comments like yours, I don’t think there is any reasoning with you.
For some people as long as they get to kill babies, any reason is a good reason. With comments like yours, I don’t think there is any reasoning with you.
@Beastbombshell
ok i wll pressure is not force
@beastbombshell3589 pretty sure that would be completely illegal. Most abortions are choices made by the women who had them. Also you literally are grossed that he called fatherhood a social choice. But didn't comment on motherhood becoming a biological choice for women. Which is a clear double standard in your thought process. Bot hare 100% true in this day in age and in my opinion neither should be true. Both men and women need to be held more responsible for their actions
Is it just me or does anyone else think that the responsibility is 50/50
The responsibility is not 50/50.
Not unless you want to say men are responsible for the bodies of women.
@@ym5891 ohhh i was gon somewhere else with that but DAMN...you nailed it!
More 100/100
As far as getting pregnant, yes 50/50. As far as carrying the child to term, obviously the mother does that. As far as the actual raising of the child? Yes the responsibility should be 50/50.
More like 30/70. While both people are needed to create a baby, and the responsibility to raise that baby is 50/50, at the end of the day, its the woman, not the man, that'll carry that baby for 9 months while it develops in their body, go through tremendous pain to birth it, and then feed it for another 7+ months. Women are affected the most by it, therefore they bear the majority of the responsibility. No different then how someone with an allergy, bears the most responsibility to avoid anything that could trigger that allergy, as they will be the one affected the most. Yes, if others are decent people, they'll take some responsibility for it as well, but the majority rests with the person most affected.
Yeah... as a Latter Day Saint (aka Mormon) her view on unwanted pregnancy is not at all in line with our views.
I commented earlier saying the same thing. I ain't religious, but was baptised in the LDS church. They teach all lives are sacred from birth until death
That's because her views are that of a leftist, she only mentions that she is LDS to hide the fact that her ideas are leftist garbage.
Thank you I am glad there are other members that will stand up for our beliefs. Have a good day.
I really don't understand why preventative measures are never addressed.
If a consenting couple has sex and she ends up pregnant, then they're both responsible for that outcome.
What's your point, she didn't in any way indicate that she was representing Mormon's. Not that anyone really gives a damn about Mormons anyways
In responsible society there is no conflict.
But when people blaming others there is chaos and endless conflict.
She got a book deal based on tweets from 4 years ago and now she's just finished the damn thing, and it sucks. And she had the convenience of an 18 month lockdown/shutdown to further inspire her to hunker down and give it her best - and this was it?!
“Women…Open up Your Legs Responsibly” [My new book title]
I was thinking the same thing.
👏👏👏👏👏
I'd read it 🤣👌
Dang it Cooper, I've heard it enough times. You convinced me, I'll try Good Rancher's. The little joke made me chuckle 👍
What bothers me the most are the mothers on social media who post happy times with their own kids while also advocating for you to kill yours. I will never understand this position. They're basically advertising that they would never kill their own but it's totally fine to kill yours.
Right it doesn't make any damn sense
@Alana Marie If ya'll didn't have picket fence childhoods, why risk getting pregnant?
@Alana Marie the solution to an overloaded foster system is not to start killing children, some solutions could be to increase foster homes & have better resources for sex ed & pregnancy prevention for people who are going to be having recreational sex & support systems for single mothers with few options. In no way can murder be justified on the basis of "they might have a bad life & become a criminal", killing someone because they might commit crime? because they might have a less than perfect childhood? because their mother would rather abandon them in pursuit of a career? that seems nonsensical to me & to anyone who has suffered anything! i wouldnt trade my traumas for death, especially when i have survived them & can help others both heal from theirs & hopefully help as many avoid it in the future
there are so many solutions to accidental pregnancy that don't involve the loss of life & trauma to the woman, the majority of which are preventative
I can top that by a million. I've seen a chick on social media who is actively pro-abortion, and goes to marches, and yet has a relative whose baby died in the womb due to a congenital condition, and posts stories in remembrance, pictures with comments mourning the loss, wears commemorative t-shirts, and basically saying the whole thing is a tragedy, when she actively supports babies in the exact same state being killed every day. It is without a doubt the most hypocritical thing I've ever seen, to mourn a baby dying in the womb due to natural causes, yet supporting millions of babies being killed by human hands in womb. And the worst part is she is oblivious to it.
@Alana Marie Every human on the planet knows sex leads to pregnancy. If it doesn't, you got lucky. Super simple. Don't have sex if you don't want to get pregnant.
The thing that shocked me the most was that the author of this book is LDS. I’m a part of that religion and abortion is something we strictly believe is not to be used.
Not even all unplanned pregnancies are “unwanted.” There are many women who are coerced, threatened, and pressured into abortion with even babies that they wanted. All of the terrible issues with abortion do not whittle down to…this thing. 🙄
Sex is voluntary and you can track the exact days you are fertile. This is what my husband and I do. We've had one planned child and have had no unplanned pregnancies.
Alice Paul called abortion the "ultimate exploitation of women."
Strong pull out game with a condom works wonders as well.
@@shelbysycamore637 If you don't buy the cow, you shouldn't drink the milk.
@@matthewmorrisdon5491 how many of your bastards am I paying for though to WIC program buddy?
@@shelbysycamore637 Thank God I am single with no gf.
So I used to be a liberal because I was pro-choice but once I had my ex get an abortion, I realized that I was pro-life. Abortion literally changed my perception of the world and men need to start taking charge by talking it out with the mother.
I wasn't a liberal, more a libertarian with some socially left leaning view points (including being "pro-choice") and the same thing happened to me when my ex-fiance and I had an abortion. It took me a few years to realize it but it was a big catalyst for change in my personal views. Not knowing better, not knowing or wanting to push harder to accept responsibility for our decisions and instead taking what seemed to be an easier way out, is one of my greatest regrets.
May I ask you a question?
I am a very firm socialist, and hold many, what you might consider, far left ideologies. However. I am neither pro choice nor life, since I think that both are one-sided characatures of themselves. I have some views that do not fit neatly into the view sets of people with my ideology. For example, I think being transgender simply isn't real, and that it is a popular fad that's just used for people without personalities to make into their whole identity.
Secondly. I see that "wokeness" is just a holier-than-thou stunt to keep people in like and oppress original thoughts and real social progress. 🤔
But at the same time.. When I see a video pointing these issues out.. I relate to some, because they are right. But then others, like this woman's channel "The Comment Section" says some of these things right, while spewing ignorent half truths, lies, conspiracy, and focused sessions on media updates like someone releasing a book that I just could not care less about if I tried.
My point being.
I don't feel like I fit in anywhere.
My ideologies involves some things that reject me from one side (the left), but I also *hate* the other side (the right) with burning passion. 🔥
What do I do in this situation.
I'm asking you because I want a different perspective that I don't commonly indulge in.
What are your thoughts?
What do you think I should do?
@@lorrainebrunner2490 ma'am. Your identity is your own to decide and create. How is someone supposed to answer you? "You should be conservative" like what? You are the only one who knows what you agree with and what you stand for. Own it and figure it oit
@@lorrainebrunner2490 moderates or independents exist for a reason, honestly
It's the woman's choice If she wants an abortion or not. Making abortions illegal doesn't stop them happening, jusy more women will die because they used an unsafe method to perform one.
I love how closing your legs is unimaginable to the “modern (broken) women asking men to grow up for them xD It’s so quaint, they just don’t see it as an option 😅
haha! so true!
You think that method would stop a rapist?
@@Imsuper656 no a gun stops a rapist
this is a stupid argument. Regardless of whether you think it's anyone fault or not, people should have agency over their own reproduction. Nobody should be forced to carry a child to term whether it was their "fault" or not.
@@zanido9073 a human life will ALWAYS be more important than your need to satisfy your horniness without worry or consequence
The real problem is this hook-up culture everyone in my age group seems to love taking part in. It's not good for EVERYONE. Yet these fools aren't ready to accept that.
The "responsible way" is wherever and whenever you both want to (hopefully not in public). In this day and age, doing it with someone you're monogamous with is almost unheard of, but, it's definitely better AND far more responsible that way, as well.
Was going out with a woman who told me she was on the pill. My sister later told me she was asked by this person if she thought I would marry her if she got pregnant. I stopped seeing her the same day, I always felt that some of the late term abortions were because they only done when the possibility of getting a husband wasn't going to happen. I also knew a woman who was married three time after first getting pregnant
You bastard should not have had sex before marriage!
@@matthewmorrisdon5491 HaHaHa
@@davidscott9572 You should buy the cow before you drink the milk.
@@matthewmorrisdon5491 Ha Ha Ha Cows are expensive milk is cheap
@@davidscott9572 No milk without the cow.
The ad transition really killed me this time
Time for my daily dose of Brett reacting to stupid people! Lol love ya Brett
so brett can react to herself? 🤔
@@Blox117 shush little child
The easiest way to figure this out is do a simple test case. If men could prevent all unwanted pregnacies with birth control they didn't have to use DURING sex, how many unwanted pregnancies would there be? If you answered ZERO, then you're a smarty. If women could prevent all unwanted pregnancies with birth control..... yada yada they already can and obviously they don't..... soooo, it's men's fault?
Hmmm... when they figure out how to allow men to have birth control that also doesn't eliminate all sex from happening completely, I somehow get the strong suspicion alot of the same women complaining about this will be upset that they cannot get pregnant unless a MAN decides to.
@@Blox117 Why would you bother watching and commenting a channel you don't like? seems really sad. I hope you get help.
@@Gumblethebear im her boyfriend. no need to be jealous
Best. Ad. Transition. Ever.
Another fine example of the Olympic Level Mental Gymnastics required to absolve women of any and all responsibility for their own actions. The female who wrote this book believes that women have no self agency in all this? Not sure, but I would find it laughable except that I am certain some people take her seriously.
I love how you slid into that sponsorship. I actually laughed out loud 😂
I guess it's time for me to write the rebuttal book, "Exercise Discretion When Spreading Your Legs." The New York Times will surely give it a positive review, right? 🥰
Alice Paul called abortion the "ultimate exploitation of women."
LOL, facts!
Hate speech!
@@elijahbrents2812 Men need to take responsibility.
@@matthewmorrisdon5491 You know what, your totally right. I didn't realize what logically followed from my comment. Men absolutely do need to take responsibility, expecially because that is a big part of how God made men. Blair's comment that women do NOT need to take responsibilty is clearly not true, as Brett said: it takes 2 to tango, but there definitely a lot of men not taking the responsibilty to raise their children right now, and thats a problem.
I swear to god, she is the world's best at the ad segue
Holy shit this was the greatest slide into an ad promotion ever😂Brett you’re the definition of sassy
PSA: About two weeks after my period, I will be doing my make up WAY MORE than usual and be incapable of stoping myself. I'll think "put down the brush! You have more important shit to do!!" and still won't be able to stop. This is when I'm ovulating. During ovulation, women's hormones are compelling them to mate which causes them to be more attractive (shinier hair, smoother skin, etc.), to
"signal" their fertility to potential mates (wearing dresses and skirts, putting additional time into their appearance, etc.) and often times they will even experience an increased libido during this time.
Women can observe changes in their own behavior/ feelings to be able to tell when in their cycle they typically ovulate. These changes will be much more pronounced when they are not on birth control (i.e. when this information is more applicable/useful to them) as with myself (don't worry I'm single and celibate). Educate yourself and observe your cycle, ladies. Gentlemen, you can also pay closer attention to your woman (especially about two weeks after her period) for some of the more outward indicators | listed above (I believe there's even more than that), as well as just asking your gf/ wife/partner about her birth control (when did you take it last, which one do you use, etc.). Family planning is a two way street, people!
If a woman doesn't want a child....CLOSE YOUR LEGS!!!
that would require 2 iq points per 🦵
If a man doesn't want a child... Don't go around stacking your body count.
Simple.
It works both ways, although women hold the key.
Or she could show What Dat Mouth Do, she could Back Dat Ass Up or, and here's a novel thought: Just Say No! 🤔
@@dylcart8881 Yeah but men aren't bailed out of unwanted pregnancies like women are. A woman can kill "a clump of cells" but men can't even abandon it and will go to jail if they don't pay child support (which benefits the mother more than the child) for 18 years
@@sada3366 your statement just proved why men shouldn't go around stacking their body count.
If women have to take responsibility, so should men lmao 🤣
If women shouldn't have sex if they don't want the risk of a child.
Men should do the same lmao 🤣
Like Brett said, it takes two.
This is why you have sex with people you know and have talked to about wanting or not wanting a child. Responsible relationships have conversations, one night stands don’t and those are the main reasons why there is so much unwanted pregnancies and fatherless children
Hey! I have conversations during one night stands too, it’s not all grunting and moaning 😹
Though I always use protection and like to 💦 on the girl’s face 👩🏻 or boobs, so there’s little risk of accidental breeding.
1:56 that segue had me rolling! 😂😂😂
Also, this is a new take on playing a victim. Creative and disturbing. Next step, lawsuits against men for their... juice... getting on them during relations.
To me, it screams man hating Twitter Feminazi with a tik tok degree in equality.
I agree aim for the mouth not the eyes!
Best transition ever. Packaging up your meat.
There are no consequences for men? That's outrageous! They should invent some sort of test you can do to prove whether a man is the father of a child or not, and then we should pass laws requiring absentee fathers to pay the mother each month to support the child. That way we could hold men responsible for unplanned pregnancies! 🙄
Such genius! I can't believe no one has thought of this 🙄
If the woman won't allow the father to have the child in his home and custody half the time, she loses the child. If she spends any of the child support money on herself, she loses the child and the money for its support. And if she the child without the father's consent, she is solely responsible for the child, including financially.
There, I fixed it for you. Now they can share the responsibility AND the joys 50/50. 😊
Yea this is a good idea, but let's forget about the test part. Let's just leave it up to the mother to decide that the richest among the dudes she slept with is the actual father 😂
I usually think your sponsor transitions are kinda predictable but I have to say this one made me laugh 😂
As soon as I saw the video on my feed, I had to watch. 😂You're just that good Brett.
no she not, she said my meat is small.
💦
time to teach her a lesson 🤜🕳🤛
The Ad transitions are always so clean
I always told my kids to "wrap it in latex or she be taking your paychecks". Sadly, one didn't listen.
Love your content Brett
It's sooooo easy to NOT get pregnant
Alice Paul called abortion the " ultimate exploitation of women. "
just don't have sex 4head
I need the bloopers for that sponsor transition. Scheller, make it happen.
Fr. Ripperger has a great series on courtship.
The blame is shared for sure and as a man I am perfectly fine putting a lot more responsibility on men. We’ve carried society this far why wouldn’t it be up to us to take it the next step further.
Two abortion videos in one day? Nice job Brett 👏👏👏
Because like I'm not even american and I feel this shit is very stupid
Every girlfriend I've ever had since high school has "stretched" the truth about their birth control intake. They usually just say, "go ahead" trying not to be too graphic here. We men take people at their word too often.
You can be graphic 😂
Don't be a dummy bus on her tummy not in the Barbie pocket
I am definitely judging you for talking about how you slept around all the way back on high school without any shame.
I mean I know you have forgiveness and I really don’t want you to feel bad about yourself. I don’t.
But I definitely can’t see you as a victim.
Of course the kind of girl who sleeps around is going to lie. I bet you were lying a lot, too.
@@tell-me-a-story- Nothing wrong with having sex. You really need to relax lol
@@koukkoufos2000 So you say. Honestly people act like they’re going to die I’d they aren’t having sex all the time.
The biggest villain here is whoever gave her that haircut.
cheers to keeping it tight
Wow. I just was scrolling through RUclips while being ill, but thanks for providing the window into these narrow minded realms of US conservatism… deliberately misunderstanding is live and well, I see.
To state the obvious: The book is just being as provocative as all of you, reminding society and men of what should be natural with a few new nuances. And it’s great you always were and will be responsible, are keeping track of you cycle, have a super regular cycle and only meet men that are responsible and never inflicted pressure in a sexual context. I am happy for any woman that can say that.
And I am happy to see so many responsible guys in the comments, that are totally willing to take care of their children, if the mother is not a lying, manipulative gold digger.
I am concerned about how the whole abortion-ban develops for everyone from a safe distance in Europe and feel for every person suffering the consequences. It’s not like abortion has been legal for that long and we know what happened before it became legal…
Hi Brett I love your content keep up the good work 💗
Brett that transition from men packaging their meat to your meat ad got me laughing hysterically 😂😂😂😂😂
You can actually get pregnant for about 4-5 days a month. She needs to take a reproduction course. (My husband do NFP, and hey, avoid unplanned pregnancy)
Alice Paul called abortion the "ultimate exploitation of women." I am single so I will never cause a woman to get pregnant.
you can actually get pregnant at any time during the whole month. But it is a lot less likely than during those special 4 days...
@@crazysilly2914 you have to be ovulating. And then sperm lives for 3-5 days on average. So no, unless you’re ovulating, you won’t get pregnant.
@@Crystal-pv1sf Not true. I have seen firsthand women who were 15 days away from their ovulation and still got pregnant. Very rare, but it does happen.
@@crazysilly2914 it cannot happen. No egg, no baby. It just means they ovulated early.
It’s basic biology. I have 6 kids and an education in reproduction and lactation. So I’m telling you, you cannot get pregnant without ovulating. Period.
Oh my gosh, the good ranchers' transition was epic!
Wow that transition at 2:00. Epic!
"Men face zero consequences in a pregnancy"
Every man paying child support would like to have a word with you.
Child support is paid AFTER a child is born, this conversation is about conception. Frankly, your argument is worse: child support means the man didn't face the consequence of in-home fatherhood and coparenting with the child he helped concieve. All that author was saying is this: if we as a society have a problem with abortions, the first step is that men need to stop cumming in women without their explicit consent. That's what causes an unwanted and/or unplanned pregnancy. Men have control over their own penises everytime they decide to have sex, women can't stop a man from ejaculating into them because they can't control the man's penis! If the only thing a man has to worry about is money or child support, then that's an imbalance in responsibility -especially considering that women share that financial burden (single mothers especially), along with the physical, psychological, and spiritual costs of becoming a parent.
@@ariyahawkins7446 That's a whole lot of word salad.
First of all, men and women have equal responsibility when it comes to pregnancy, full stop. I pointed out a real injustice that men face; that men have no choice in parenthood. If you can abort it, we should be able to abandon it. Otherwise, no abortions and no abandonment. A conceived child is a child that a man will have to support no matter what, so your entire spiel is moot.
Secondly, you're talking about men making the choice to cum in a woman (something most men don't do without the express desire to have a child btw) think of it this way. A man uses a condom, the woman says she's on the pill, and they have sex. Little does the man know that the woman poked holes in the condoms and lied about taking the pill and now the woman is pregnant. The man has no idea that he was deceived and the woman gets a big fat child support check. The man has no say in this situation and the woman has all the control. Maybe Women should think about just how much control they have over their bodies before choosing to take from another (aka abortion and child support.)
Finally, conservatives have been calling for men and women to have less sex for decades. Now that every option for women to dodge responsibility has been removed (to further promote equality might I add) now women want to act like sex is the issue and that we need to have less sex. Holy shit, it's almost as if marriage, abstinence and making smart choices have been promoted for decades because they work. Who would've thought. Too bad all these liberal women don't want to acknowledge the fact that they play an equal role in it and therefore they can prevent a pregnancy by closing their legs and saying no, but you can't expect liberals to take responsibility for anything, now can you? Women wanted to be whores, now they have to deal with the consequences of whoring around. The sexual revolution at it's finest.
Oh, and by the way, many men do want to be a part of their children's lives. But sadly the women have an advantage in court and use the child as a weapon against the men. If you drive your men away and take their children from them don't expect support beyond a check in the mail. This is a crisis of your own making. And it gets even worse when a woman can abort their child without the father's express consent. How's that for a warning?
Men love their babies, but sometimes the mother can make things unbearable.
Men don't abandon their kids, they flee from the mother.
That's true. There are many manipulative and vindictive mother's that use their children as weapons. That happened with my husband and his daughter. His daughter is all messed up now and her mother will probably never see her role. We fought to see her and sadly the law was on the mother's side. CPS had been called so many times by the school and we never got his daughter. They always wanted to give the mother chance after chance even though she was not fit to be with her. It's sad how the system failed my stepdaughter. We have our own children now and we're so grateful every day that we're married to each other. As a Christian, our son and new baby will have the best foundation rooted in God with a loving family.
Nah. Both parents can be crap parents. It's not a gender thing.
What men are fleeing is responsibility and selflessness. Don't blame women for your bad behavior.
Women love their babies, but sometimes the father can make things unbearable.
Women don't kiII their kids, they're freeing themselves from the father.
Actually I believe this book is promoting good pullout game.
The Hodge Twins talk about that all the time! 😁
There is such a thing as pre ejaculate, and you cant control that.
weird that nobody in this thread knows you can get pregnant without ejaculation
@@zanido9073 It's weird that you don't know the whole issue is *the woman is just as responsible for a pregnancy as a man.* Try to keep up, please?
@@charlesws7825 that has nothing to do with my comment. Most people in this thread (and Brett) seem to think pulling out reliably prevents pregnancy.
That packaged meat segway was masterful💯🤌 made me choke on my culver's
Personally I believe it is the woman's responsibility to protect her uterus from an unwanted pregnancy 100%.. I can't have a baby but if I could I certainly would make sure I protected myself and did not put that responsibility on some other person 💯💯💯
I solved the problem entirely by myself, no one has ever thought of this before:
-don't have sex outside of marriage
-get married, have lots of sex
-know your cycle and plan your babies accordingly
You're welcome.
There is also the option of contraceptives, you know condoms, birth control and things of that nature.
How very heretical.
@@MrH347 true, but I have 2 married friends who were on birth control and still got pregnant. One had multiple while on bc, I call her fertile myrtle 😄 so bc isn't perfectly effective. Why waste the money when you can just know your cycle? And condoms just aren't as fun.
Blame me for your pregnancy all you want. That sponsor segue was still GOLD.
It takes two to tango. If neither persons wants a child then surely it's their responsibility to make sure that they become a parent?
Brett just crossed 3 million subs. Go, girl!
It’s good to hear Good Ranchers tightens it’s meat just like me.