Exactly clay! Thinking of my ex as a Human being with imperfections , fears, doubts personal struggles made change my perception of her and allowed me to see her in a new light. Not as my heartbreaker but as a human who is still discovering herself.
Thank you Clay ! Almost all of the statements that you made were verbatim of what he has said to me. I was pretty wounded at the time and heard him from the insecurity frame of mind. He is a good man and we have been in no contact for a long time. Your channel gives me hope 💖
Separation is at a month and a half. At Test Drive, moving towards Riding the Dragon. Almost there, but struggling to get her to open up more frequently. Needed this video. Thanks homie 👌
I believe we've hit Riding the Dragon. Been applying the stuff in your videos, ain't made a mistake since. Moving quickly and steadily. Thanks for your content man.
@@collinlasky9062 currently I'm no longer pursuing her. My current focus is lifting weights and making money. She did some shit that really pissed me off, pushed things back to stage one or two, but honestly I'm the one who brought us there. Gotta take time to invest in myself. Not spending time on someone who can't give me basic respect.
My ex won't even get let me get that far. HE REFUSES TO ANSWER ANY SEMI PERSONAL QUESTIONS. Im Gonna try dating again. It's been 14 years since my ex( my ex holds a grudge much) Thanks Clay!
Hello thanks for the video, it is soothing the great suffer of i am having. Me and my husband seperated 5 months ago, he was angry with me and i changed a lot in time and showed him im better person. He was cold and telling me there was no feeling for me when he broke with me. He stayed at home with me till now, he wants to move out and still has no feelings for me. I gave all the space, didnt talk much and we also work together. 2 days ago, we talked finally about us and feelings and everythinh ee are going through. This was a connection indeed but followed up my husbands’ will to move out. How will i behave him? Is the at the earliest stages? Should i try to connect him or give more space? Thanks, and good luck for everyone here. I feel for you!
I wished this video came up yesterday 👀 I met my ex crush in gym n he lately started talking to me again.. In a flirty way I guess n funny.. We had like 1 hour together.. I wished I asked him something deep 🥴
@@ClayAndrews but wht should i do to make him realize there still is something between us.. He endet dating last August because of his position as a commander.. We weren't allowed to date.. He liked me a lot.. Than started avoided eye contact n now he opens up a little again.. But I still don't won't to text him as I acted very annoying months back. Could u give me an advice plz?
This video presupposes that women will actually open up and communicate with you about what's troubling them about the relationship. They don't. Ever. Ask all the questions you want, they'll bottle up their feelings and only show them when they're walking out the door.
Exactly clay! Thinking of my ex as a Human being with imperfections , fears, doubts personal struggles made change my perception of her and allowed me to see her in a new light. Not as my heartbreaker but as a human who is still discovering herself.
Thank you Clay ! Almost all of the statements that you made were verbatim of what he has said to me. I was pretty wounded at the time and heard him from the insecurity frame of mind. He is a good man and we have been in no contact for a long time. Your channel gives me hope 💖
Separation is at a month and a half. At Test Drive, moving towards Riding the Dragon. Almost there, but struggling to get her to open up more frequently. Needed this video. Thanks homie 👌
I believe we've hit Riding the Dragon. Been applying the stuff in your videos, ain't made a mistake since. Moving quickly and steadily. Thanks for your content man.
@@kenyonegbert1125 how’s it going?
@@collinlasky9062 currently I'm no longer pursuing her. My current focus is lifting weights and making money. She did some shit that really pissed me off, pushed things back to stage one or two, but honestly I'm the one who brought us there. Gotta take time to invest in myself. Not spending time on someone who can't give me basic respect.
That " Stuff " do not work
The only chance is permanent No Contact!
@@kenyonegbert1125 update
My ex won't even get let me get that far. HE REFUSES TO ANSWER ANY SEMI PERSONAL QUESTIONS. Im Gonna try dating again. It's been 14 years since my ex( my ex holds a grudge much) Thanks Clay!
I understand that this must be confusing for you. It sounds like your ex may still be at the Test Drive phase.
First like and first comment I love you dude keep up the work
Thanks! Will do!
I just don't know how to go about doing this when she is back with her ex
What if their emotional experience is wrapped up in a rebound relationship?
Rebound relationship is the best thing that could happen.
Hie Clay, loved it! Can you please give some more information when the person is an introvert/stubborn?
you have to make him feel like he has the power if he is introvert
When to do this? I'm into No contact these days and it's been 1 week only .
Hello thanks for the video, it is soothing the great suffer of i am having. Me and my husband seperated 5 months ago, he was angry with me and i changed a lot in time and showed him im better person. He was cold and telling me there was no feeling for me when he broke with me. He stayed at home with me till now, he wants to move out and still has no feelings for me. I gave all the space, didnt talk much and we also work together. 2 days ago, we talked finally about us and feelings and everythinh ee are going through. This was a connection indeed but followed up my husbands’ will to move out. How will i behave him? Is the at the earliest stages? Should i try to connect him or give more space? Thanks, and good luck for everyone here. I feel for you!
I haven’t seen these videos since I was really upset w my breakup..
I laugh so hard I cry Clay it’s a wonder I don’t have a heart attack.
thanx a lot....
u give me strength.
good luck in your situation u can do it :)
It's my pleasure. Thanks for watching our videos as well. :-)
Alex Comont, Chris Seiter and Mark Rosenfield are all great people I follow on here too. 😊
You forget to mention, “Coach Lee”. All of them are great. But coach lee is my fave. 🥰
@@keepgrowing9941 mine too fav
Just forget your dumper. They lose the love from their dumpee months ago before the breakup day.
I wished this video came up yesterday 👀 I met my ex crush in gym n he lately started talking to me again.. In a flirty way I guess n funny.. We had like 1 hour together.. I wished I asked him something deep 🥴
It's never too late still to apply what you have learned in the future. For sure, you'll have another opportunity to interact with him. :-)
@@ClayAndrews but wht should i do to make him realize there still is something between us.. He endet dating last August because of his position as a commander.. We weren't allowed to date.. He liked me a lot.. Than started avoided eye contact n now he opens up a little again.. But I still don't won't to text him as I acted very annoying months back.
Could u give me an advice plz?
make a video about on/off relations
Do you do coaching?
Yes, we do. You can check our coaching services over here. >> www.modernlove.life/coaching
I’m sure you did
What do you say when they say they don’t want to lead you on or like you said they feel uncomfortable and give you false hope
Alk away know youre worth xx
This video presupposes that women will actually open up and communicate with you about what's troubling them about the relationship. They don't. Ever. Ask all the questions you want, they'll bottle up their feelings and only show them when they're walking out the door.
My ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick is very cagey about her emotions Clay.
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