Thank you for this well written and superior confrontation of WW and her Boss. The preamble OP used to pin the cheater into the predicament was the apex of the story. This is one of the best post on any channel.
In this story about the next morning over coffee that discussion triggered a memory. Back in 2002, I was asked to join a man and his brother as they set up the confrontation of that brother's wife and her AP in a swanky downtown Atlanta Hotel. Basically, I was asked to be there to help protect the wife and the AP from the brother. Because the AP opened the door the confrontation happened in the room a large suite. Yes, I had to dance keeping the brother off the AP, and over time things calmed down so they could talk. The wife said the same things in this story. It was just s*x and meant nothing to her. She never stopped loving him. Then the brother after calming down looked at her and said the words that were the end of their marriage. You might have loved me, but you disrespected me. Then reached into his pocket and brought out the medical report of his STD. This was how he discovered she was a slot. After throwing the paper at her he turned and exited the room followed by my friend and I. The love birds did not follow us out. To this day I have no idea what happened to either of them that night. I just know about a month later the AP's wife had him served on his job. A job that required a security clearance and management saw it. The AP did not lose his job, but he did lose his security clearance and had to leave that dept, losing almost a full third of his income as well. The wife was served at her job several days later. She was a Delta Flight Attendant based out of Atlanta. She was served according to what I was told very near the TSA checkpoint as she was headed to the gate. This brother at the time was a Naval Officer and Aviator. He is today a 2-star Admiral happily remarried and the father of 3 children. The ex he lost touch with many years ago it was easy because they had no kids together.
She truly disrespected him and put his life in danger, and she was selfish, too. If she loved him like she claimed, she wouldn't have hurt him. You don't hurt the ones you love or care about.
Very well articulated story that shares the heartbreak and consequences that betrayal shows. It is true you do not get over it, but you learn to live with the feelings betrayal leaves you with. Some people are repeat offenders like my ex either way it is the. OST ultimate smack in the teeth you will ever get. Now get over that. Cx
OP needs to listen more carefully. she gave him the answer to his question of "why"...for the novelty. It was new and different. That's 95% of the reason for everyone.
This guy has a very high opinion of himself. Also a true alpha male doesn’t need to speak on himself. He should have went scorched earth but since he’s really a beta here we are
Life’s not always black and white. I agree that he’s not an alpha male but he’s not a complete beta doormat either. I give him credit for divorcing but criticism for him for helping his ex financially through the AP.
@@SalemK-ty4ti I guess he felt that for all the years they were together and happy, he owed her something. And besides, every month that the POS AP has his account deducted for rent and car payments, he’s reminded that her Ex has him by the b$&ls and can blow up his world at any time.
@jxlc916 Everyone needs self respect otherwise they become depressed and when you’re depressed you are more likely to let people take advantage of you. Then it’s a vicious cycle where sadly you chase validation by doing everything for the person who is walking all over you and doesn’t love or care for you. That’s why you should always have enough respect for yourself and always be ready to walk away from people who disrespect you. If you have self respect then you will go through life without being depressed and miserable.
@@SalemK-ty4ti You are a clueless simp, he is a beta for putting her on a pedestal, treating like a queen, and putting her needs before his. She became the prize instead of him. That's totally beta, this guy was a push over, he would do anything for his wife. That's beta, that's being a push over. What did she do to be treatead like a queen, which an alpha never does? A total Beta Simp, push over.
I get why OP had AP pay rent/car payments for OP's ex-wife, and it was strategically smart not outing them to company so as to get the both of them fired because then OP would probably have to pay alimony. It's just sad AP's wife has to live with a serial cheater not knowing the truth about him!!!
When temptation and tingles hit a woman if they are not strong enough in commitment and love yes affairs can happen. And need dealt with appropriately. If you have respect for yourself and a spine. Everyone that loves their cheating wife or girlfriend has to deal with it their own way not ours. It is difficult. Depends on many, many things. How long it went on with, how many times, what happened, who with, where it happened. Doesn’t ever make it right but knowing helps you decide how to act in your actions. Scorched earth, walk away, but always inform all involved so the truth is know. Hold your head high and rebuild your life one day at a time. Never stay for kids. Remorse and hard work with therapy and marriage counseling seldom works as YOU NEVER TRUST AGAIN FULLY AND NEVER FORGET. Want a used body back to kiss and sex? H NO! All those body parts were given to another. Very maturely handled! Good story!
You're right, sir. Knowing about it helps you decide how to act. Once the trust is broken, it can not be repaired. Thanks for watching! I'm glad you enjoyed it.
They say that they don’t know why they adulterate. Answer is simple, 1. She is a sinner with no moral compass. 2. She had no fear. Fear and/or jealousy will control a woman. Plus she allowed herself to be alone with a man other than her husband. It is also interesting that women now claim they want a tall man to defend them. See, they will cheat on them too. This guy probably already has a younger better looking woman.
As always “ I don’t know why” . The answer is easy, first someone shows them something that makes them seem special, tells them what they want to hear, shows them how they will make them feel special. Unfortunately this works easily because women’s brains work differently from men’s brains and they don’t ever think about the consequences. When they say it was just zex , they are not telling the truth, for women they have to feel a emotional connection with the partner and that’s were the affair fog comes from. This is why marriage is going down hill fast and divorce is becoming the norm. In the end you have to ask yourself “ is marriage really worth it “?
Despite OP claiming he's an alpha male, I think he is a weak husband. His punishment on AP of his wife is too linien and solf. He supposed to teach that guy a thought lesson and ruined his life forever.
I think people who have affairs are narcisitic she/he thinks they deserve extra special experiences and new lovers but in the end they lose their support systen. Narcisistic folks seens to be uncapable of self reflection, too much alcohol or self absorption? The difference is men do it too except most women forgive and move on.
Why u wife wanna be the bad girl when you get married then been a good girl that your husband had fall in love with nobody want that bad girl only them bad guy's into that when you feel like your love is fading you need to talk to your husband and let him know you want a divorce don't set up there and put your feelings over his but I'm gonna tell you this the dating market we single men been giving up looking no one trying to be faithful to they husband our sho him love our respect he took you in took care of you woman for years you can at least be honest to the guy they deserve that if you feel as your love him is over give him a divorce and do not cheat on him nobody want no cheater stop letting them Chad's fool you woman into thinking all men like the bad girl no I prefer the good one
Guys goes after married women because they can send them home because they're tied to someone single women you can't they have nothing but an empty apartment or roommates to go home to. How long before ap's wife wonders where the extra money is going to? Because OP told him to pay for his now ex wife's expenses for 3 years ap is probably cursing himself now he's got to pay more money for his misdeeds.
Why she didn't do the effort with this loser, it's simple, he put her on a pedestal, he was buying love, he was giving everything even when she didn't deserve it. He was not a prize, he was a loser bombarding her with love. For the other guy she had to do the effort and even became slutty to try to please the boss. This loser didn't turn her on at all, she would give him the bare minimum. This Mr nice guy always putting her needs before his, is totally clueless, he never learned. And by the way the boss wife deserves to know, why leave her in the dark, this mr nice guy was so weak he couldn't go all the way with his revenge.
The Y will never be able to be fully entered, because there is no real answer to that question that would justify the action that destroyed me lives. You will never get a true answer, because there is none she can search her whole life and try to find an answerand she will never find one because there is not one in for the boyfriends and husbands and fiancé that has been cheated on. You will never get a legitimate answer to that question. I’m sorry but it’s true.
Thank you for this well written and superior confrontation of WW and her Boss. The preamble OP used to pin the cheater into the predicament was the apex of the story. This is one of the best post on any channel.
Thank you so much for the nice comment. I'm really glad you enjoyed it. Thank!
I would have told the wife of the cheating husband after he did the 3 year payments lol
In this story about the next morning over coffee that discussion triggered a memory. Back in 2002, I was asked to join a man and his brother as they set up the confrontation of that brother's wife and her AP in a swanky downtown Atlanta Hotel. Basically, I was asked to be there to help protect the wife and the AP from the brother. Because the AP opened the door the confrontation happened in the room a large suite. Yes, I had to dance keeping the brother off the AP, and over time things calmed down so they could talk. The wife said the same things in this story. It was just s*x and meant nothing to her. She never stopped loving him. Then the brother after calming down looked at her and said the words that were the end of their marriage. You might have loved me, but you disrespected me. Then reached into his pocket and brought out the medical report of his STD. This was how he discovered she was a slot. After throwing the paper at her he turned and exited the room followed by my friend and I. The love birds did not follow us out. To this day I have no idea what happened to either of them that night. I just know about a month later the AP's wife had him served on his job. A job that required a security clearance and management saw it. The AP did not lose his job, but he did lose his security clearance and had to leave that dept, losing almost a full third of his income as well. The wife was served at her job several days later. She was a Delta Flight Attendant based out of Atlanta. She was served according to what I was told very near the TSA checkpoint as she was headed to the gate. This brother at the time was a Naval Officer and Aviator. He is today a 2-star Admiral happily remarried and the father of 3 children. The ex he lost touch with many years ago it was easy because they had no kids together.
She truly disrespected him and put his life in danger, and she was selfish, too. If she loved him like she claimed, she wouldn't have hurt him. You don't hurt the ones you love or care about.
I think she did it because it's forbidden fruit. Too bad it was poisoned.
I wouldn't have given her a week. You are better than I am.
Very well articulated story that shares the heartbreak and consequences that betrayal shows. It is true you do not get over it, but you learn to live with the feelings betrayal leaves you with. Some people are repeat offenders like my ex either way it is the. OST ultimate smack in the teeth you will ever get. Now get over that. Cx
OP needs to listen more carefully. she gave him the answer to his question of "why"...for the novelty. It was new and different. That's 95% of the reason for everyone.
You are never going to get an honest answer to why they cheated. So don’t waste your time looking for one. Just move on and divorce.
She cheated for the thrill. The forbidden fruit.
This guy has a very high opinion of himself. Also a true alpha male doesn’t need to speak on himself. He should have went scorched earth but since he’s really a beta here we are
Life’s not always black and white. I agree that he’s not an alpha male but he’s not a complete beta doormat either. I give him credit for divorcing but criticism for him for helping his ex financially through the AP.
@@SalemK-ty4ti I guess he felt that for all the years they were together and happy, he owed her something. And besides, every month that the POS AP has his account deducted for rent and car payments, he’s reminded that her Ex has him by the b$&ls and can blow up his world at any time.
Its sad & annoying the AP's wife is oblivious to all of this
@jxlc916 Everyone needs self respect otherwise they become depressed and when you’re depressed you are more likely to let people take advantage of you. Then it’s a vicious cycle where sadly you chase validation by doing everything for the person who is walking all over you and doesn’t love or care for you. That’s why you should always have enough respect for yourself and always be ready to walk away from people who disrespect you. If you have self respect then you will go through life without being depressed and miserable.
@@SalemK-ty4ti You are a clueless simp, he is a beta for putting her on a pedestal, treating like a queen, and putting her needs before his. She became the prize instead of him. That's totally beta, this guy was a push over, he would do anything for his wife. That's beta, that's being a push over. What did she do to be treatead like a queen, which an alpha never does? A total Beta Simp, push over.
I get why OP had AP pay rent/car payments for OP's ex-wife, and it was strategically smart not outing them to company so as to get the both of them fired because then OP would probably have to pay alimony. It's just sad AP's wife has to live with a serial cheater not knowing the truth about him!!!
Eventually, he’ll give himself away.
The OBS oblivious to this annoys me 🤬
Cheaters got off so easy smdh. OP should have Roasted AP the OBS have the absolute right to know her Husband is cheating on her Gawd I'm super annoyed
When temptation and tingles hit a woman if they are not strong enough in commitment and love yes affairs can happen. And need dealt with appropriately. If you have respect for yourself and a spine. Everyone that loves their cheating wife or girlfriend has to deal with it their own way not ours. It is difficult. Depends on many, many things. How long it went on with, how many times, what happened, who with, where it happened. Doesn’t ever make it right but knowing helps you decide how to act in your actions. Scorched earth, walk away, but always inform all involved so the truth is know. Hold your head high and rebuild your life one day at a time. Never stay for kids. Remorse and hard work with therapy and marriage counseling seldom works as YOU NEVER TRUST AGAIN FULLY AND NEVER FORGET.
Want a used body back to kiss and sex? H NO! All those body parts were given to another.
Very maturely handled! Good story!
You're right, sir. Knowing about it helps you decide how to act. Once the trust is broken, it can not be repaired.
Thanks for watching! I'm glad you enjoyed it.
We will never understand why we cheat but it's usually the same answer good luck 👍 to to you sir.
They say that they don’t know why they adulterate. Answer is simple, 1. She is a sinner with no moral compass. 2. She had no fear. Fear and/or jealousy will control a woman. Plus she allowed herself to be alone with a man other than her husband. It is also interesting that women now claim they want a tall man to defend them. See, they will cheat on them too. This guy probably already has a younger better looking woman.
As always “ I don’t know why” .
The answer is easy, first someone shows them something that makes them seem special, tells them what they want to hear, shows them how they will make them feel special.
Unfortunately this works easily because women’s brains work differently from men’s brains and they don’t ever think about the consequences.
When they say it was just zex , they are not telling the truth, for women they have to feel a emotional connection with the partner and that’s were the affair fog comes from.
This is why marriage is going down hill fast and divorce is becoming the norm.
In the end you have to ask yourself “ is marriage really worth it “?
True or not this is how an alpha male should treat a cheating wife
Despite OP claiming he's an alpha male, I think he is a weak husband. His punishment on AP of his wife is too linien and solf. He supposed to teach that guy a thought lesson and ruined his life forever.
Why did she do it? That’s easy-because she could.
I think people who have affairs are narcisitic she/he thinks they deserve extra special experiences and new lovers but in the end they lose their support systen. Narcisistic folks seens to be uncapable of self reflection, too much alcohol or self absorption? The difference is men do it too except most women forgive and move on.
To explain the why, can be simple: She is not a monogamous person and she is weak enough to give in.
Why u wife wanna be the bad girl when you get married then been a good girl that your husband had fall in love with nobody want that bad girl only them bad guy's into that when you feel like your love is fading you need to talk to your husband and let him know you want a divorce don't set up there and put your feelings over his but I'm gonna tell you this the dating market we single men been giving up looking no one trying to be faithful to they husband our sho him love our respect he took you in took care of you woman for years you can at least be honest to the guy they deserve that if you feel as your love him is over give him a divorce and do not cheat on him nobody want no cheater stop letting them Chad's fool you woman into thinking all men like the bad girl no I prefer the good one
Guys goes after married women because they can send them home because they're tied to someone single women you can't they have nothing but an empty apartment or roommates to go home to. How long before ap's wife wonders where the extra money is going to? Because OP told him to pay for his now ex wife's expenses for 3 years ap is probably cursing himself now he's got to pay more money for his misdeeds.
Man don't Flirt with women That don't back.
Nice voice ❤
Sad.
i wonder why all the cheating stories women are the cheaters never the man. in real life i counsel the opposite.
Why she didn't do the effort with this loser, it's simple, he put her on a pedestal, he was buying love, he was giving everything even when she didn't deserve it. He was not a prize, he was a loser bombarding her with love. For the other guy she had to do the effort and even became slutty to try to please the boss. This loser didn't turn her on at all, she would give him the bare minimum. This Mr nice guy always putting her needs before his, is totally clueless, he never learned. And by the way the boss wife deserves to know, why leave her in the dark, this mr nice guy was so weak he couldn't go all the way with his revenge.
The Y will never be able to be fully entered, because there is no real answer to that question that would justify the action that destroyed me lives. You will never get a true answer, because there is none she can search her whole life and try to find an answerand she will never find one because there is not one in for the boyfriends and husbands and fiancé that has been cheated on. You will never get a legitimate answer to that question. I’m sorry but it’s true.