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- Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2024
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As a society we need to normalize cutting out toxic family members like we do to toxic friends
Agreed so hard. But whenever we try to others tell us "oh how could you they're your parent/family? That's your mom you shouldn't treat your mom that way!" Yeah well she shouldn't have treated me the way she did either, so?
@@tenshimoon True and they also weren’t locked in a house with them with no where to go. Most people who say that wouldn’t have been able to walk our shoes. They would fall the first time they tried to take a step.
THIS PERIOD
i told my therapist i want to cut off my abusive parents when im older and she said it was unhealthy and "ignoring the problem wont make it go away" like-
@@amelia-jo5kv she is wrong for that
When u have parents but it feels like u don't. They are never here, and when they are they want nothing to do with me.
my mother was always there for me but i don't live with her and i am forced to live with my father who does not care about children at all. We are told to shut up and work hard. My father often puts chores before homework and is so lazy that ill have to get up in the middle of my online class to make him a coffee and such. However, you must definitely have it so much worse and you don't want to listen to other people tell you why its bad. If you ever want someone to talk to, I will be there for you. What social media do you have? I can give you my details and honestly, fuck our parents. You don't need them, i am proud of you and you're doing so great dude!!
@@respectallpeople4512 Your problems are just valid as mine. They are different, but your problems mean something. Have you talked to your dad about how you feel? Maybe that could help, or seeking some sort of counseling. I find therapy is a really good way to deal with your problems. It has helped me a lot, and maybe it could do you some good. Also, is your dad just forcing you to do things for him or is he also abusive (emotionally, physically)
@@tvds8350 my dad doesn't hit me too often so i guess it's more emotional :) ive had three types of therapy but thanks to my step mother, i don't take therapy anymore. I tried talking to him but he is in the mindset that he is the parent so he knows what is best. He does not trust me and in the last five years, I have visited somewhere outside of school or home twice. T W I C E... I really want to talk with you heh because my friends are mostly fake and my parents always call me names. They even laughed at me when they forced me to tell them what i dream to be when I am older. Fuck parents! :D
@@respectallpeople4512 Yeah, you can talk, this is a no-judgment space. I'm glad you have your stepmom. Your dad seems like a very stubborn person, and I feel you. I have friends I talk to but then they report me to the guidance counselor and then these people expect me to talk to random people that know who I am. They have forced me into like 5 meetings with this counselor. It’s hella annoying. Also the fake friends stuff I get, I have a best friend but she really doesn’t get the whole at home stuff. She feels bad and sees me as a liability almost. My parents swear at me all the time calling me son of b****, motherf*****, and many others. Rn it’s ok, but sometimes it’s really bad, I appreciate my parents. But I am not close to them in anyway, waiting until I turn 18, and getting the f*** out of there.
@@respectallpeople4512 OMFG TELL ME ABOUT IT!! I’m Asian, and they have my whole life planned out for me. Like bruh.
Lets promise ourselfs that we will be better than our parents.
ok so i was thinking maybe just maybe a parent is watching this if yes
"Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child"
I do
I do
*I solemnly swear to be better than my parents*
I do !
Promise
I get it. Some people can’t be parents. Shouldn’t be parents. But can’t you at least love your kids...
Ikr? Like the perfect example was the dad from the end of the fucking world, that dude loved James and tried his best to be his dad even after his mom’s death. I respect him and may he rest In peace
Tbh if people can't be parents they shouldn't have kids
Oh man... That Will Smith scene ALWAYS makes me cry... So raw and sad. Also... This scene lacks Loki, Gamora and Nebula, parental issues are too much in those 3
Ah yes, very true.
And Steven Universe.
“He’s not supposed to be here for you! You’re supposed to be here for him!” THAT HITS HARD!!
As always, that Will Smith scene makes me cry.
I finally Found one! That has Lucifer in it!!! People always forget about him in these edits. (Which I find weird knowing he is always flaunting his Daddy issues)
Woah there you’re gonna start with supernatural. I’m balling my eyes out right away 😭😭😭
Every video similar to this, has something similar to Supernatural in it
I know..
So Mary was alive??
sometime we need our parents but they dont, and there starts a toxic relationship
"What was so wrong with me that you would leave??"
😭😭😢
You never wanted me mom and that hurts so bad
Let's all remember, like different people, that not all parents are lovey dovey, cuddly. Love languages are a thing and environment can shape how someone loves.
That being said, all love languages support and build up their child. Love languages do not excuse neglect or abuse.
2:18 The Best Series Ever
THE ORIGINALS
KLAUS MIKAELSON IS THE MOST BROKEN CHARACTER EVER
I totally agree. I mean people always say that he's so cruel but people never notice what made him like this. He's not cruel, just broken 💔
They will never see how much they hurt us, They will never know how much damage they have done, They will never know how bad they messed up our lives. But guess what we still see how much they don’t care. Us children don’t deserve that..people don’t deserve that.
I can relate to this my dad left me when I was 1years old and never called or messaged to ask if I had food to eat or water to drink but he says I'm his favorite daughter ......😭😢😢😢😢😢💔😔
I never saw him
Favorite daughter... does this imply he has other children that he treated worse than u?!!! That is extrmemly fucked up, I'm so sorry you had to go through that.
I really wanna know how a perfect family fells like
There's no such thing. Every family has their flaws, but that's what makes you family. You love each other no matter what. I get it tho a perfect family would be nice 😅
@@Haylizzle cool 😤
I do believe there is no perfect family but a "healthy" one is possible.
I don't believe in the perfect family
But I believe in love and a healthy relationship
@@mionnepallidare8116 That's all I want from life. A family that as a whole, won't do more harm than good.
Who else here had abusive parents that still till this day take no responsibility and blame you for everything ?
@Kai Slater I’m so sorry to hear that my friend my parents were horrible they abused and hated me but played victim and blamed me I feel you man
Me.
My parents both went through some degree of mental/physical abuse, and one of them still has somewhat abusive mother today and had a hard time cutting her out of her life. My grandmother was the only one I knew as a child, and I loved her until I was older and realized what she did to my mom. Unfortunately, my parents still subconsciously take after their parents in some way, which has mostly lead to a lot of anxiety in my life.
I think that even if you don't want to be like your parents, if you didn't cut the toxic people out of your life soon enough, you end up adopting some of the traits you hated so much and pushing that onto your own kids.
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I'm so sorry who had to go through this
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They will never truly see how much they hurt me.
Edit: hey everyone seeing this I just saw how many people liked this and I just want to say although your parents may hurt you there are so many more people who love you including me I love all of you and any one of you can always talk to me
Thankyou I really appreciate it ❤️
@@a_gurl596 of course
I know this is very sad, but can we take a moment to admire Brooke's badass sentence at the end
The last season of Lucifer sent me spiralling. I have cried so much each episode. Like it's all fun and games but Lucifer's relationship with his dad just hit me like a train.
As an adult I tried to connect with the family that wasn’t there. It literally took my mom 💩ing in front of my roommates to make me realize she wasn’t ever going to be supportive of me. She never got past her issues and it affected me.
My oldest daughter is 3 and I’m running as fast as I can to stop the generational trauma. For anyone out there suffering, it’ll never be ok. But it gets better. So many of us have personality disorders we need to become aware of to heal. If you suffer, go learn why. Do you have BPD etc because of your childhood. Then address those issues.
We will be the parents we didn’t have as a kid
… and Klaus became an amazing father
That hits hard. My dad was never in my life. Not when I needed him. For the first 11 years of my life he was in jail and even when he got out, he didn't want me. Everything was always put above me whether it was drugs, women, or whatever. I was never his top priority. I longed so badly for his love and attention that I ignored the neglect . Convinced myself if I was good enough, if I did everything he said, he might show me just a little bit of love. Real love. Its funny to long for something so bad even though you've never experienced it. Eventually I realized he didn't care about me, so I closed myself off. I thought there must of been something wrong with me if even my own dad didn't want me. I had to accept this brutal truth and move on with my life. I had to stop letting the pain of the abandonment I felt eat me alive. So what if he does not care about me? I made it 11 years without him, I don't need him now. Sometimes though, I just wish he was here. I started high school about a week ago. Would of been nice to have my father wish me luck or something. Look for anyone who's out there with a situation like mine, whether its your dad or mom, just know this if your parents don't want to see how amazing and beautiful you are then they never deserved you in the first place.
i don’t even know how anyone could dislike this. maybe it’s the parents, in denial of what they’ve done. maybe it’s kids who’re trying to convince themselves nothing happened to them, it wasn’t the parents who were wrong.
my sympathies go to the kids. there’s nothing wrong with you.
to the parents, please do yourself a favor and go to the therapist so maybe, MAYBE you’ll deserve the children you hurt so badly.
0:35 “so there’s the door”
me: “there’s the door b!tch” 🚪🤏🌝
The worst pain in life is having parents but still not having them
"How come he don't want me man?"
Hits so damn hard q.q
The sad part is Mary didn't have a choice in being out of her son's lives, but she couldn't be their mother because she remembers them as children when she died - now they're older than she is, physically and mentally, and she just *can't* be what they need, want, or hoped for.
You just know the Video is going to break your heart when it starts with the Winchesters
They had to start with Supernatural! I teared up in seconds!
I have realized I never once called my dad, dad and I left my little brother in a toxic household. My mom convinced me I shouldn’t eat 3 meals. Society has broken me. I just needed one person there for me.
the pain of betrayal is something we expect from other people and if your wise you also expect them from you friends to but the thing is the pain of betrayal hits more especially when it comes from your parents whom you have trusted since you were born
“It’s not like I’m five anymore sitting up in bed asking mom (when’s daddy coming home?)” Jesus Christ that hit me hard.
i always felt like a failuer cuz id always get in to trouble for something i could never do anything right so growing p i felt like no one cared or loved me and all i wanted was to be loved but i was yelled at or told something mean i belived it i still kinda do and they dont see what iv been through or felt its something id never wish on anyone feeling so alone and traped
Ur not alone:(
Same, I feel you
Relatable
“Will is not a coat that you hang in the closet and then picket it up when you’re ready to wear it.” Exactly. You don’t get to pick and choose when you want to be in your child’s life, you’re there from day one. I’m thankful I have 2 wonderful parents that have raised me to be the woman I am today. They’re not perfect, but they were-and still are-always there for me no matter what.
What episode is the originals one. The ending of those are so passionate and angry full of hate , anger , pain and saddnes. All we need in life is our parents. And when their not there or gone that's the worst pain ever.
It's originals ep 18 of season 2
@@ilyasglobal thanks
The worst pain… the worst pain anyone could feel doesn’t come from one’s enemy, it comes from the ones closest to them
I felt the voice in Dean Winchester
I rather have my parents abandon me then getting abused every. single. day.
*Will Broke Me*
To the creator, this is awesome thanks, not many are brave enough to be so real 💜
My birth parents left me on the streets of China when I was born, then my adoptive father left me when I was ten, and my mom acts like I'm a failure because I don't think the same way she does. Will Smith's words hit hard and his mindset is exactly how mine is.
After my dad divorced my mom, she kept telling me stuff about my dad and my stepmother. Bad things. She wanted me to see them as the villains she thought they were. But how could I? He's my father. I love him. And she can't accept that after how he left her. And even when I'm comforted by those villains who truly care about me and my feelings, I feel so torn between two worlds. I keep rehearsing speeches. Telling her how much it hurts to hear your mother say "He's just altering the story to make himself look like the good guy." I've even told her a few.
But she won't listen. She'll never listen to the suffering of her child.
The scene with Kara always broke me. She went through so much so young
This video only intensifies the fact that even if you grew up with parents doesn't exactly mean they were around
Don't ask for a apology I don't want nobody to feel sorry about me.
He was never there for me when I learned how to fight by myself.
Bro that Kara scene always has me balling my eyes out 🥺🥺🥺😭😭
Sam and Dean went through so much….They just wanted normal lives but at a very young age, they were forced into killing things normal kids couldn’t even imagine…Especially Dean…Taking care of Sammy and having to hunt? I mean what type of parents do that?! First Mary makes a deal which is why she dies, then John makes a deal and he dies…They just wanted to have both parents there and to be loved
I mean they grew up to be badasses that could kill anything and anyone
I say their childhoods were a small price to pay
😥😥Supernatural is a one of a kind story, the Winchester kids deserved better. Dean shouldn't of had to be a farther from that young of and age and they shouldn't of had to use guns at the age of 6-7.
Fresh Prince UNCLE NAILED IT!
WILL ISN'T A COAT YOU PUT ON & TAKE OFF!...PARENTS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE THERE FOR THERE KIDS NOT BE A CONVENIENCE WHEN THEY HAVE A HEALTH PROBLEM & COMPLETELY IGNORE ALL OF YOURS.
I swear I will never become like my mother and I will never abandon my child like my father
You live and learn. Rather forget than think about something you'll never get the answer to.
felt felicity
Including Lucifer in here was a very smart choice :')
“baby that’s your family” “you have to forgive them, they’re blood.” “your family loves you” okay if they’re my family why are they hurting me? if they care so much why do they treat me like this? why do they make me hate myself? why do they make it feel like i won’t ever have a future, or be worth anything?
It’s funny because I finally realized that my mom and dad never really loved me. After ALL these years of being treated shitty. I thought that what my parents did was normal, normal! My parents broke my toys and threw them away while I was at school if I ever pissed them off. They call me names and they mock me. They never use my pronouns because “it’s too hard” TOO FUCKING HARD. They’re obsessed with my phone usage. They threaten me if I don’t do what they want me to do. They wake me up when I’m sleeping to make sure my electronics are downstairs, even on school days. I have a therapist who thinks I’m just acting like a child, like this isn’t a “big deal” and I’ve TRIED telling her but she won’t listen to me either. No one fucking does. I remember a day where I self harmed and my mother asked why I didn’t tell her. I..I told her I was scared she’d get mad and she left me there..she ran off to her room crying and shut the door. This other time I called her out for body shaming me and she turned it around and said I was body shaming her. My father told me that I will always be a girl and he’d say that a chair cannot be a table and a table cannot be a chair. Using objects as a reference to being transgender. He prays for me, so that I’d change. He’d pray for me to turn to god, to believe in heaven. My father says he supports me but would I really believe that bullshit? My mother also claims to be supportive but in reality, she’s just an ignorant clown who doesn’t know SHIT about me. My parents think they know best and it’s so funny because I hate them now because of their big egos. Their nasty attitudes. I remember my father told me to go find a safe place if my father was ever yelling too hard. My father told me that. He didn’t say he’d stop yelling, he said that I SHOULD leave. My parents would always make jokes saying, “oh I cant wait till you move out!” That shit tore me apart. Every night I go to bed crying because I force myself to cry so that the pain I feel in my guts will go away. As I’m writing this, I feel like I’m being dramatic. Could someone possibly tell me otherwise? My parents threaten, mock, yell, “joke”, make fun of me, calls me names, invalidates me, makes me cry, disregard my feelings, never check in, and so on. Yet my therapist acts like this is normal, is it? Am I going crazy? Am I dramatic?
half of them don't know what they did wrong, they just abandon their children thinking it was the best for them when all they wanted was their parents love as a child
Im sick of feeling like I can’t do anything good. that I'M the problem in our family. Really fucking sick of it.
I feel like I wana cry, I have loving and caring parents, but yet I know others are not lucky, be grateful for the love you get from your parents guys❤😭
I promise to be like my mom when she was 17.. On my 17th
I promise to never be like my dad when he was 21.. On my 21st birthday.. (I'm from Oregon this is legal here). I was ripped away from them because of daddy's abuse towards mommy... And mommy's abuse towards drugs.. He tried to be parents with her but the more he learned what she was doing the more angrier he got... He said that he laid hands on her when he never should have done it... And she lost custody of me and my little brothers.. And had to sober up because of losing all 3 of her kids.. She had every drug.. and almost died.. Now I can't even look at her properly without remembering my little brothers in dirty clothes an diapers.. At least I have them back in my life again but it hurts everytime.
I let it ago along time ago but it came back to me.
This makes me cry so easily omg- 😀😀😀😀
What i like to think about my dad that rarely comes around: he cares about me but there's just things he cares about more.
I was with my cousin one day and my little cousin where out side playing with her parents and our other cousin and the dog I left for a moment and i look back and saw all of them playing like this happy little family it was all I wish for
I don't know why the will smith part gets me but it does work...(deleted and reposted) a brave choice and yes it cuts. He shows more raw emotions than any other scene...
I’ve never been put first and no one stays it can’t hurt any more
Both of mine hate me and never wanted me. I deserve it… no matter how hard I try
Son' why do you fucking hate me so much dad?!
Dad , what ?
Son, why do u hate me what did I do ?
Dad ,I don't hate you
Son, Then why do you act like I am not there or call me shut and hit me is that love to you?
Dad, I umm. .
Son, go say you love me go say because I know you don't love me I see it in your eyes very day
Grey's Anatomy 18x10, congrats man, they used your music again for the perfect scene, they've got good taste
for others its always their father thatleft them and who give them trauma but for me it was my mom who left with another guy when i was six yrs old and my dad stay strong and love me the best he can and now im 26 and my dad still by my side unmarried!!
This Lucifer is right about his father
Damn even the devil has parental issues
😭❤
I loved my father and he left me.. i still ask myself what did i do wrong that made him leave me..that made him choose alcohol over me and my mom.
Dont make something that you cant love...
Im sorry.....
Maha King I Love You So Much Bro Fan Fame Best Favorite Famous See Again Soon Still Need To Know Songs Coming Home Crying
Y grandparents raised me, not because my parents are bad but because they weren't ready and knew I would have a wonderful life with them. I fixed my abandonment issues with my mother unfortunately my father is a slightly different case he was there more than my mom was but my mom and I did the best we could to fix things my dad just seems like he's not interested but at the same time loves me 🤔
I wish neglect was my only problem, I’ve had plenty of opportunities to have a better life but my parents got in the way of that. They are a part of the reason as to why i am what I am. And at 23 years of age. What a waste…
11/22/2021 I don’t know if I want to keep going or just stop here now 😞
There's always a brighter day waiting for you, hang in there love. 😘
i wish supernatural didnt end
Man do you wish you could cry I do
My father always said that he would never be like his dad who left him for a new family. I had some great years with him but now that he has met a new girlfriend he has been putting distance between him and me and my sister and I want so desperately not to be like him when I become a father.
He needs to let it go.
some people should of given their kid up to adoption before they hurt them
I'm gonna be a better father than him and I'm already a better father than him.
3.15 am ya'll 😓🥺
Always tryna hurt me.
I watched all shows except one tree hill
1:30 😔
My dad never loved me and wverytime I tried it broke me the veral abuse and neglect but I forgive him forgiveness is the only way
Love this, so sad. What is the music you used?
What is this TV or film called on the first scene please
It's a series called Supernatural
Will🤧🤧🤧
My own dad told me and my siblings infront of my mom that he didn't love us just my mom
ForeverThankyouFaderGodMaeForeverWolfSisterWolf💓 💖 💛 💗 💕 💙 💓Wolf2 WolfGirlWolfBoy
Feels so familiar..
1:57
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