Two friends. One older. One younger. The older says the younger does not contact me but she knows I care and that I'm here for her. The younger says the older does not contact me but she knows I care and that I'm here for her. It's a bit like my laptop that just froze and needed a reboot.
We have to stop caring about INFJs who disappear. It’s a really bad ENFJ habit to looking to love and help and care for the loners. We have to leave them alone if they leave us alone. They know we care about loyalty as much as they do and they still walk away. They know exactly what they’re doing. Only hurting ourselves. Our big Fe lets us care about people who don’t even like us. Waste of time and energy.
Two friends. One older. One younger. The older says the younger does not contact me but she knows I care and that I'm here for her. The younger says the older does not contact me but she knows I care and that I'm here for her. It's a bit like my laptop that just froze and needed a reboot.
We have to stop caring about INFJs who disappear. It’s a really bad ENFJ habit to looking to love and help and care for the loners. We have to leave them alone if they leave us alone. They know we care about loyalty as much as they do and they still walk away. They know exactly what they’re doing. Only hurting ourselves. Our big Fe lets us care about people who don’t even like us. Waste of time and energy.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. ENFJs do care deeply.