I love you guys .... You are so cute and so amazing... You are my idols and you have given me strength in my hardest times... I wish you be happy and stay blessed and stay together all your life.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
my sister is gay and a male colleague told her that “sie nur mal so richtig gut durchgenommen werden muss”, which roughly translates to “she just needs to be fucked real good (by a guy)”. Same was told to a friend of mine by her therapist! Since I am a newly out bisexual, I am actually worried about how to react if I should be confrontet with comments like these myself
The comment I hate is probably , *what a shame, you are pretty why are you a lesbian?* Like I don't what guya think of me Or *so, when will you go back to liking me* I am nor bi, I have never found a guy pretty or anything I have always being a leabian. Is annoying how some men and woman think lesbian hate men and stuff like I just don't care about men
I’m actually probably more uncomfortable in the boys locker room since I’m gay. Cause I don’t want to be a pervert and I also can’t just have a casual chat with my naked friend cause... attraction is a thing.
Hear this all the time, especially from older people and family members: “You just haven’t found the right man yet“ Yeah thank you :/ The right man for me is a woman
I also hate it when girls will say they’re going to stop dating men and start dating women even though their straight because it’d “be easier”. Like do they not understand the type of difficulties people face all the time from having to come out and just live their life? It’s so invalidating.
I hate when I tell a person who identifies as straight tell me “we’re all a little bi” when I tell them I’m bi. It feels really invalidating as well :-(
I won’t say that straight women don’t have it hard at all but at least they don’t have to worry about receiving backlash from others while in public, having their relationships fetishized, or being afraid of being potentially rejected by your friends or family because of who you love.
you know maybe they just had really awful experiences with guys and have very good experiences being freinds with girls, and hoping that a relationship with a girl would be easier for them because they feel more connected to girls? like, maybe they can't imagine a girl could hurt them the way a guy has. i understand your view, but maybe try to see it from their perspective and don't hate
I used to have very short hair between the ages of 11-13 and the amount of negative comments I used to get ruined my self esteem completely and made me feel very confused about who I was. Luckily I figured out my sexuality by myself but those times were horrible. So, thank you for covering that topic! Love you guys and your videos!
I totally understand. I would often just get short haircuts as a kid because long hair was so tedious and the amount of rude comments and bullying I’d get was ridiculous, even from my dad and family (not my mom though she’s amazing). Now that I’m an adult I’m so nervous about getting a short haircut even though I want to because I’m so insecure about it now. I think as a kid a lot of it had to do with the gender roles and stuff we enforce on kids, and to see a girl who wore glitter leggings and pink skirts while also having a pixie cut was really shocking and incomprehensible to others. Especially since the small town I grew up in is well. Like just now starting to change for the better.
SAME!!! I have a masculine haircut and mostly use vague oversized clothes ,men would approach me on the streets and call me a fag, to be a man, that I will burn for liking it in the ass (I was a young girl) like it was hell, even old woman told my that my family hated me for my decision, I wasn't even gay or queer, I just cut my hair ,luckily now I am at a better place
I never realized how heteronormative my family was until I shaved my head. It's great at helping you weed out those people in your life. I don't care what they think because I've never felt so confident and beautiful. Great video!
Yay a new Alexis & Lilian video!😍 I hate that heteronormativity is the default, the worst is being out w my femme gf and getting hit on or hearing “are you two sisters?” Before she dyed her hair😂
I used to have long hair in high school, after that I cut it really short and, ugh, you don't know how many times I heard that I look like a man. Believe me, the last thing I wanna be is a man, really haha. Hugs pretty girls
"Do you notice more gay characters on television and movies. There's clearly a gay agenda going on." That's the question that is beyond irritating. The hair thing drives me nuts. Lilian, you rock that hairstyle.
I am so thankful I found you two. I'm going through a very very hard time in my life personally trying to figure out my sexuality at age 42 being a mother of 3) These videos make me both happy and very sad.
Yes, the haircut logic ... According to this, my mother, who had born and raised 4 children, would probably also be a lesbian, because she wore her whole life short hair... 🤦 And I secretly want to be a 2 meter tall and 150kg woman, because I have long hair?... 🤣 Sometimes, people are only using their head to keep the throat dry when it rains.
"i want a gay friend, we will go shopping and talk about boys"... girl that's misogynist and homofobic at the same time i can't stand it, i mean, why is it better if your friend is a boy and not a girl??? and also... gay guys aren't like a fashion trend or a cool object!!!
My response to Adam-eve stuff. Me. So you believe there was an Adam and an Ev . Their response. Yes. Me and they had children , them yes me and these are both boys , them yes me then explain the rest of how this story goes. Them silence
I have a funny story When I was in high school my friend groups was the Gays though I didn't really realize it at the time and this guy in my art class asked if I like 'tacos' and I thought he was talking about like the food and so I said sometimes bc I didn't want to seem uncool for not liking a very popular food. It took me years to realize what he was actually asking and I laugh about it now
I would love to watch a video about things bisexual people are tired of hearing! Also I've heard the sort of "Everybody is a little bit bisexual," or that a lot of people -- especially a lot of women -- have the potential to be bisexual. That would be an interesting discussion too. :)
Perhaps this is new to you: but we, your loving parents, are frequently asked those questions too. Sometimes I go ballistic, usually it's just ridiculous. Any plans for kids? We have got a grandson from our daughter and her wife, cute...
Lilian you are killing it with all these impressions :) hard to believe you are not the winner in charade nights! Glad the Miso cup made is being put to good use as granny dishware
I'm bi, and I struggle with imposter syndrome in both straight and queer circles because of all the negative stigma. It's a legit mind f*ck--I'm too straight for some but too gay for others??
Thank you for the great videos, I appreciate the love! I just came across your channel today, and I'm so glad I did. Also, thanks for the Skill Share link!
Honestly best video. Lost it laughing so hard at Lillian just giving it how it is...you both are very lucky to have found one another. I wish you all the best and truly hope in 30 years time I see a video with you ladies together. Because of some of the reasons you discussed in this video I always concened and have found it challenging emotionally when I finally came out again after trying to do what society expected of me church Christian lifestyle as they say. I have been exposed to the pretty heavy conditional acceptance and love but the last 5 years I defend am learning. I really enjoy the psychology videos and content you both share. Two talented and intelligent human beings. Never been one to watch a couple video until I accidentally came across yours and I am so grateful. I will add though now other couples have popped up I watched 3 different ones and honestly I say with as much kindness as possible noone is close to as authentic or informative as what I see and believe you both as a team are trying to achive by being valuable teachers basicly free content for so many matters good bad hapoy sad and real life. If anyone does read this amazing...I do have a question why is it difficult to find a partner whom is old school values in the lesbian community. % of infidelity and unabld to stay long term life partners frightens me.
Great video my friends ! 🙌🙌🙌🍾🍾👏👏 I’m not new to this world. But I’m new at exploring it. I don’t have a queer community around me, this makes it very difficult, but your videos when i saw them, god, i didn’t feel alone anymore ♥️ so thank you ♥️🍾🙌👏👏
I ABSO-FREAKING-LUTELY LOVED THIS VIDEO! YOU BOTH KNOW HOW IT IS TO THE MAX, I HAVE HAD ALL OF THESE EXPERIENCES AND YEAH IT IS SO FREAKING ANNOYING! GOD BLESS YOU BOTH I LOVE YOU BOTH!💯❤🏳️🌈
(This includes a question for advice which hopefully is okay). I hate it when guys fetishize my attraction to women, especially when they do that then use hateful slurs towards gay men. My best friends roommate is fun to hangout with and we’re slowly becoming friends, but recently I’ve noticed he says homophobic stuff and it just makes me really uncomfortable (mostly when he’s drunk so I can be somewhat forgiving unless it’s about other members of the LGBTQ+). Last night while playing video games with me, him and my bestie Becky he commented on her character saying “no offense but she looks like a d*ke (the lesbian slur), and I really like it”. Then he proceeded to call another person in the game a f**got because of something about their car idk. I don’t think he knows I’m gay since I don’t feel like I need to bring it up unless it comes up in conversation. He is normally really nice and respectful, and was drunk this night but it still got under my skin. My social circle is small so I’ve never really had to ask these things of people before (not to say people haven’t heckled me before). Sorry if this is a bad place to ask this, I just don’t have anyone else I can ask who may understand why it would offend me.
When we are drunk, the truth come out. What we actually thinks.. isn't it. I had never tried drinking yet bt i have listened that fact.. it's true right. So now you gonna know what they actually think about gay people.
Im also an introvert.. I don't used to talk to everyone. Even i like being calm and just thinking.. don't like speaking much. So i too don't have friends to share my thoughts. But you know, it seems easy to express our views on place like here.. because we know.. there are the people who can understand. ..
If you want to continue the friendship, but don't want to out yourself before you are sure of his real opinion of lgbt people, you can just correct him by stating your opinion. For example you could say that there is nothing wrong with men being gay. This way you won't be automatically outed. Also please don't think that he has to be homophobic for saying such a thing. Maybe he just hasn't thought about how that would come across or what that actually means to people. Sometimes we say things we really don't mean. In any case if you can't reason with him and he really is homophobic, it probably would not be healthy for you to continue the relationship. But don't worry about missing out on a friend, there are so many people in the world, you will find other to have fun with :-)
i think some girls are just trying to be nice and show they are openminded and don't have anything against lesbians or bisexual women when they're like "i kissed a girl when i was 13" :) i get it that it can be annoying
I came out as bi to my family when i was in the middle of high school and my step mum was like well you haven't had sex yet so you really don't know. I knew at that point, i knew i was attracted guys but i knew definitely wasn't str8 and i noticed i throught girls were attractive so yeah
Hey Alexis and Lilian, a question I have been asked in the past is....... When did you decide you were Lesbian ?? It’s not something that you decide, you don’t wake up one morning and say to yourself I know today I will be lesbian. Being Lesbian, or whatever gender your attracted to isn’t a choice. I don’t say to heterosexual people when did you decide to be heterosexual.
Thank you for the video. Definitely made me laugh (especially with the Bonus). Interestingly (and I am the first to admit my view is from my personal experiences) each of the examples I would say is a direct result of the approach of a number of main stream church doctrines. They so emphasize the 'do's and don't' of their particular theology to push out individuality from such a young age that the people end up being essentially drones with their questions, understandings and comprehensions. I know it is bad of me but when I hear those questions (and others) my first thought is (as I am patting them on the head) "It's ok sweety. You'll learn.". (gee...after reading my comment I am thinking that I have feelings on this subject) :)
Of course there are many more! Which ones are you most annoyed by, and how do you usually respond? We'd love to hear your favourite comebacks!
Ight cool
I love you guys .... You are so cute and so amazing...
You are my idols and you have given me strength in my hardest times...
I wish you be happy and stay blessed and stay together all your life.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My neighbors asking for my sister when she is my GIRLFRIEND.
my sister is gay and a male colleague told her that “sie nur mal so richtig gut durchgenommen werden muss”, which roughly translates to “she just needs to be fucked real good (by a guy)”.
Same was told to a friend of mine by her therapist! Since I am a newly out bisexual, I am actually worried about how to react if I should be confrontet with comments like these myself
The comment I hate is probably , *what a shame, you are pretty why are you a lesbian?*
Like I don't what guya think of me
Or *so, when will you go back to liking me* I am nor bi, I have never found a guy pretty or anything I have always being a leabian. Is annoying how some men and woman think lesbian hate men and stuff like I just don't care about men
“I just don’t want gay people in the locker room. What if they stare?”
NEWSFLASH: plenty of gay people only stare at the floor in locker rooms 😂
I’m actually probably more uncomfortable in the boys locker room since I’m gay. Cause I don’t want to be a pervert and I also can’t just have a casual chat with my naked friend cause... attraction is a thing.
There's a youtuber who does top 5 things straights are tired of. Very accurate
I'm literally suffering from second hand embarrassnent from this trash lol
Hear this all the time, especially from older people and family members:
“You just haven’t found the right man yet“
Yeah thank you :/ The right man for me is a woman
my grandma said that
Hi
It’s me!!!
Sorry boys! :)
I also hate it when girls will say they’re going to stop dating men and start dating women even though their straight because it’d “be easier”. Like do they not understand the type of difficulties people face all the time from having to come out and just live their life? It’s so invalidating.
I hate when I tell a person who identifies as straight tell me “we’re all a little bi” when I tell them I’m bi. It feels really invalidating as well :-(
I won’t say that straight women don’t have it hard at all but at least they don’t have to worry about receiving backlash from others while in public, having their relationships fetishized, or being afraid of being potentially rejected by your friends or family because of who you love.
@BlackDrum I apologize, I didn't mean to insult you if I did, I'm not totally aware of these things. Also, side note, I'm Asian, not white.
@BlackDrum But thanks for explaining that to me. I'll keep that in mind.
you know maybe they just had really awful experiences with guys and have very good experiences being freinds with girls, and hoping that a relationship with a girl would be easier for them because they feel more connected to girls? like, maybe they can't imagine a girl could hurt them the way a guy has. i understand your view, but maybe try to see it from their perspective and don't hate
Another one is when they say, "well I think women are pretty sometimes, that's normal."
I used to have very short hair between the ages of 11-13 and the amount of negative comments I used to get ruined my self esteem completely and made me feel very confused about who I was. Luckily I figured out my sexuality by myself but those times were horrible. So, thank you for covering that topic! Love you guys and your videos!
I totally understand. I would often just get short haircuts as a kid because long hair was so tedious and the amount of rude comments and bullying I’d get was ridiculous, even from my dad and family (not my mom though she’s amazing). Now that I’m an adult I’m so nervous about getting a short haircut even though I want to because I’m so insecure about it now. I think as a kid a lot of it had to do with the gender roles and stuff we enforce on kids, and to see a girl who wore glitter leggings and pink skirts while also having a pixie cut was really shocking and incomprehensible to others. Especially since the small town I grew up in is well. Like just now starting to change for the better.
SAME!!! I have a masculine haircut and mostly use vague oversized clothes ,men would approach me on the streets and call me a fag, to be a man, that I will burn for liking it in the ass (I was a young girl) like it was hell, even old woman told my that my family hated me for my decision, I wasn't even gay or queer, I just cut my hair ,luckily now I am at a better place
“Not Adam and Steve“ I can’t 😂😂😂
😂😂
This makes me happy I'm straight. At least straights aren't wannabe victims. 😁
Fair enough
Well said!
@@xingkejong Thanks!
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Lilian actually looks really feminine with short hair. Not everyone can pull off that look.
Ya, right
Wish I could I loveeeee short hair
Yes. And absolutely sexy.
I never realized how heteronormative my family was until I shaved my head. It's great at helping you weed out those people in your life. I don't care what they think because I've never felt so confident and beautiful.
Great video!
. . .I'm gay and I even know straight ppl aren't like this.
Yep
Thanks :)
@@ugrand913 😉
Check things straight ppl are tired of hearing and seeing. It's more true
Yay a new Alexis & Lilian video!😍 I hate that heteronormativity is the default, the worst is being out w my femme gf and getting hit on or hearing “are you two sisters?” Before she dyed her hair😂
Absolutely right 🤭
I used to have long hair in high school, after that I cut it really short and, ugh, you don't know how many times I heard that I look like a man. Believe me, the last thing I wanna be is a man, really haha. Hugs pretty girls
Yesss 👏🏼😂👌🏼
Same. Here😂
"Do you notice more gay characters on television and movies. There's clearly a gay agenda going on."
That's the question that is beyond irritating.
The hair thing drives me nuts. Lilian, you rock that hairstyle.
*coughs* heterophobic
Question 9: "How can you two look so cute together?"
but this is a nice comment! I think
I am so thankful I found you two.
I'm going through a very very hard time in my life personally trying to figure out my sexuality at age 42 being a mother of 3)
These videos make me both happy and very sad.
I can relate. Doing the same at age 41 with 2 kids. It's not easy...
Glad and proud to say my bi sis doesn't approve of this trashy video LOL
Yeah I am first! I love your channel. Congo for 100k subs!! Love from India 🇮🇳
One more... Love from India 🇮🇳
One more love from india
Wow let all Indians gather here👇
@@pranavig2340 😇🇮🇳🌈
Hehe. Indians assemble! 💙🇮🇳
Yes, the haircut logic ... According to this, my mother, who had born and raised 4 children, would probably also be a lesbian, because she wore her whole life short hair... 🤦
And I secretly want to be a 2 meter tall and 150kg woman, because I have long hair?... 🤣
Sometimes, people are only using their head to keep the throat dry when it rains.
“Oh, you’re a lesbian!? I also have a friend that is gay, do you know “Sarah”?
and the sad thing is that you probably do know her
I hate when people introduce me as their lesbian friend, like I don't wanna be part of a hate crime
"i want a gay friend, we will go shopping and talk about boys"... girl that's misogynist and homofobic at the same time i can't stand it, i mean, why is it better if your friend is a boy and not a girl??? and also... gay guys aren't like a fashion trend or a cool object!!!
"some of the things that grINd oUR gears" 😂😂😂
Y'all are so awesome! thanks for the laughs (and the truths)!!💕
I just ‚love’ when my friends say that if they were gay, dating would be much easier. Like no ... dating is demanding whatever gender you date
The acting in the Bonus has me dead😂😂😂😂
I clicked as soon as possible. This’s probably my fastest time ever lol 💕🥰
Mine too !!
Haha! 😂
My response to Adam-eve stuff. Me. So you believe there was an Adam and an Ev . Their response. Yes. Me and they had children , them yes me and these are both boys , them yes me then explain the rest of how this story goes. Them silence
😉😂
Wow I never thought about it like that... And even if they had boy and girl that’d be incest so...?! This story is so weird...
I don’t understand what you say to the adam eve stuff. Can you rephrase? Just trying to decipher.
@@agoel6223 I sent a reply did you see it
I have a funny story
When I was in high school my friend groups was the Gays though I didn't really realize it at the time and this guy in my art class asked if I like 'tacos' and I thought he was talking about like the food and so I said sometimes bc I didn't want to seem uncool for not liking a very popular food. It took me years to realize what he was actually asking and I laugh about it now
You joke but 4 of my best friends turn out gay lol XD
I would love to watch a video about things bisexual people are tired of hearing! Also I've heard the sort of "Everybody is a little bit bisexual," or that a lot of people -- especially a lot of women -- have the potential to be bisexual. That would be an interesting discussion too. :)
Ew so many lies and self pity
Perhaps this is new to you: but we, your loving parents, are frequently asked those questions too. Sometimes I go ballistic, usually it's just ridiculous. Any plans for kids? We have got a grandson from our daughter and her wife, cute...
Lilian you are killing it with all these impressions :) hard to believe you are not the winner in charade nights! Glad the Miso cup made is being put to good use as granny dishware
Hahaha loove you and yes the mug is a star!
I'm bi, and I struggle with imposter syndrome in both straight and queer circles because of all the negative stigma. It's a legit mind f*ck--I'm too straight for some but too gay for others??
I really like short hair on myself, but i don't want to be "the stereotypical lesbian", so then i don't cut my hair...
Kind of sad, i know
me too :(
do what you want :)
@@theplantainchiplover i just really hate prejudice
@@phe603 that's totally fair and reasonable
You’re both so beautiful, love you guys! Thank you for being so open 💕
Um . . . heterophobic much? lol
This video gives me second hand embarrassment 😬😬😬
Agreed
Yep yep
7:42 "Why don't you just use your imagination" lmaooooo
"finally got sick of the men, huh?". 🙄🙄🙄
Thank you for the great videos, I appreciate the love! I just came across your channel today, and I'm so glad I did. Also, thanks for the Skill Share link!
I love that you're always so calm, you're videos are relaxing but not boring. Love you so much ❤️
Thank you, that’s sweet of you 💕
Good to see you.
I watch this with my bf and it's so true! Also watching for all the Alexis reaction 😂
Worst I've heard so far:
Them: "oh you're gay?"
Me: *stares blankly*
Them: " what a waste "
Me: *too shook to say anything *
UGH SAME
gays, the only thing what i wanna say it’s what the quality of the videos extremely grew up! thanks a lot 💛💛💛
Honestly best video. Lost it laughing so hard at Lillian just giving it how it is...you both are very lucky to have found one another. I wish you all the best and truly hope in 30 years time I see a video with you ladies together. Because of some of the reasons you discussed in this video I always concened and have found it challenging emotionally when I finally came out again after trying to do what society expected of me church Christian lifestyle as they say. I have been exposed to the pretty heavy conditional acceptance and love but the last 5 years I defend am learning. I really enjoy the psychology videos and content you both share. Two talented and intelligent human beings. Never been one to watch a couple video until I accidentally came across yours and I am so grateful. I will add though now other couples have popped up I watched 3 different ones and honestly I say with as much kindness as possible noone is close to as authentic or informative as what I see and believe you both as a team are trying to achive by being valuable teachers basicly free content for so many matters good bad hapoy sad and real life. If anyone does read this amazing...I do have a question why is it difficult to find a partner whom is old school values in the lesbian community. % of infidelity and unabld to stay long term life partners frightens me.
Great video my friends ! 🙌🙌🙌🍾🍾👏👏 I’m not new to this world. But I’m new at exploring it. I don’t have a queer community around me, this makes it very difficult, but your videos when i saw them, god, i didn’t feel alone anymore ♥️ so thank you ♥️🍾🙌👏👏
thank you for everything you angels 💛💛💛
Your voice is so soothing!
Love your videos! Thanks for all the info..it helps to understand .
"Sorry 50 year old man." LMFAOOO
I love your videos so positive. Great haircut by the way
How is it like to be a lesbian/bi woman in Berlin? I'm probably moving there and I'd love you guys to talk a little bit about it :)
I have to say straight girls are more attractive inside and out. They also don't smell like fish
love the hair lilian!!!!!
"Oh! You're gay? Oh.....I have a lot of gay friends".........(they haven't).....🇬🇧 🇬🇧 🇬🇧 💖💖💖♀️♀️♀️
As usual, Alexis is stunningly beautiful.
2:38 “wow Ricky”
Love you guys🙏
"how do you have sex?" HOW DO THEY THINK THIS IS APPROPRIATE TO ASK A PERSON YOU DON'T KNOW WELL??? ALSO CAN'T YOU USE GOOGLE?
I ABSO-FREAKING-LUTELY LOVED THIS VIDEO! YOU BOTH KNOW HOW IT IS TO THE MAX, I HAVE HAD ALL OF THESE EXPERIENCES AND YEAH IT IS SO FREAKING ANNOYING! GOD BLESS YOU BOTH I LOVE YOU BOTH!💯❤🏳️🌈
Lol 😆 yes very true! I just walk away.
Nice video!!
Hi, I'm Asexual (also a Lesbian) so I know how many misconceptions there are about Asexuality.Thank you for this video!
Alexis is just so beautiful, I can't stop starring at her (respectfully of course)
Omg this is so recognizable.....So annoying!! >.< But love this video with you both
What skin products do y’all use?!!!👏🏼
Love love love this vidie 👌🌻
First: Outwards Confidence = Inner Insecurety for sure.
Yes please do a video on things bisexuals are tired of hearing 😫😫😫🥰🥰
I always hated the "oh u like women, so do ican we all b "freinds"? comment, UGH
(This includes a question for advice which hopefully is okay). I hate it when guys fetishize my attraction to women, especially when they do that then use hateful slurs towards gay men. My best friends roommate is fun to hangout with and we’re slowly becoming friends, but recently I’ve noticed he says homophobic stuff and it just makes me really uncomfortable (mostly when he’s drunk so I can be somewhat forgiving unless it’s about other members of the LGBTQ+). Last night while playing video games with me, him and my bestie Becky he commented on her character saying “no offense but she looks like a d*ke (the lesbian slur), and I really like it”. Then he proceeded to call another person in the game a f**got because of something about their car idk. I don’t think he knows I’m gay since I don’t feel like I need to bring it up unless it comes up in conversation. He is normally really nice and respectful, and was drunk this night but it still got under my skin. My social circle is small so I’ve never really had to ask these things of people before (not to say people haven’t heckled me before). Sorry if this is a bad place to ask this, I just don’t have anyone else I can ask who may understand why it would offend me.
When we are drunk, the truth come out. What we actually thinks.. isn't it. I had never tried drinking yet bt i have listened that fact.. it's true right. So now you gonna know what they actually think about gay people.
Im also an introvert.. I don't used to talk to everyone. Even i like being calm and just thinking.. don't like speaking much. So i too don't have friends to share my thoughts. But you know, it seems easy to express our views on place like here.. because we know.. there are the people who can understand. ..
If you want to continue the friendship, but don't want to out yourself before you are sure of his real opinion of lgbt people, you can just correct him by stating your opinion. For example you could say that there is nothing wrong with men being gay. This way you won't be automatically outed. Also please don't think that he has to be homophobic for saying such a thing. Maybe he just hasn't thought about how that would come across or what that actually means to people. Sometimes we say things we really don't mean.
In any case if you can't reason with him and he really is homophobic, it probably would not be healthy for you to continue the relationship. But don't worry about missing out on a friend, there are so many people in the world, you will find other to have fun with :-)
@@phe603 absolutely right 👍😇
I think your hair rocks!
.....what on earth did I watch? Dislike from me
Likewise
Heterophobia shows in this video lol
As a gay boy I agree with ya
Another thing people say is you just need a man to change or you can't say your lesbian when you have no experience with the opposite gender
"Oh...you have a girlfriend...(random male) can I watch, join in, will you tell me about it?"
i think some girls are just trying to be nice and show they are openminded and don't have anything against lesbians or bisexual women when they're like "i kissed a girl when i was 13" :) i get it that it can be annoying
Ahhh looking forward to the day when the world sees what a huge waste of everyone's time heteronormativity is! ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜
You 2 are beautiful
Have a great day
Happy Pride ❤️
I came out as bi to my family when i was in the middle of high school and my step mum was like well you haven't had sex yet so you really don't know. I knew at that point, i knew i was attracted guys but i knew definitely wasn't str8 and i noticed i throught girls were attractive so yeah
Its funny, i guess people think the short haired one is the lesbian. But its the opposite. She is the menlover and the long haired one is the lesbian.
(Replies to the Adam and Eve comment): God made Homosapians, not Heterosapians💀🙇🏾♀️
They aren’t Adam and Eve, they are Eve and Lilith ✨✨
I’m tired of hearing them too. It’s so annoying
Straight ppl are tired of hearing stuff too
Hey Alexis and Lilian, a question I have been asked in the past is....... When did you decide you were Lesbian ?? It’s not something that you decide, you don’t wake up one morning and say to yourself I know today I will be lesbian. Being Lesbian, or whatever gender your attracted to isn’t a choice. I don’t say to heterosexual people when did you decide to be heterosexual.
Criiiiinge
I'm tired of hearing I can't have both a faith in God and go to church + be an open lesbian in a monogamous relationship.
My auntie said : What happened? Why did you turn into a lesbian ? Because you are afraid that no man will love you ?
So hurt
My straight friend outing me at a bar because im getting attention from a man she likes..
There's one, you are too pretty to be a lesbian 😂
yes hate that
Ikr. Like what they think how lesbians look like? We lesbians are also girls okay😩
Both model??☺
U r both gorgeous beautiful😘
Yeah the first one I’m tire f hearing they be so annoying
I'm gay and tired of heterophobics like u
I'm gay and I am tired of heterophobia. It's horrible.
Thank you for the video. Definitely made me laugh (especially with the Bonus). Interestingly (and I am the first to admit my view is from my personal experiences) each of the examples I would say is a direct result of the approach of a number of main stream church doctrines. They so emphasize the 'do's and don't' of their particular theology to push out individuality from such a young age that the people end up being essentially drones with their questions, understandings and comprehensions. I know it is bad of me but when I hear those questions (and others) my first thought is (as I am patting them on the head) "It's ok sweety. You'll learn.". (gee...after reading my comment I am thinking that I have feelings on this subject) :)
actually, it's adele and eve
can you react to lgbt tiktoks? :D
the one comment that i find annoying and most patronizing has transwoman is. your so brave. the other is, so what is your birth name.
Or the variant of that, “What’s your *real* name?” I’ve heard that one.
@@racheln8563 Especially when you have legally changed your name and they call you by your former name.