Ladies please don’t make the mistake I made. Yes while I knew not to be out looking for a man; one sought and found me. He was not sent by God. The Holy Spirit spoke to me as we were taking our vows saying “Don’t do this” and I questioned whether I heard what I heard. I married him anyway. I married a narcissist, and did not have any idea what he was but soon found out. It was in hell on earth. Thank God for bringing me out of that with my mind intact. Please seek God when dating and listen to His voice when He speaks. Let God bring you your mate. He knows who is best for you 🙏🏾
Already made that same mistake. You are telling my story lol. God is sooo GOOD! And yes...heard it when I was trying to write vows. Every time. Never wrote them because it wouldn't come out. Now I know why.
MY SISTER... I almost have the EXACT SAME STORY; writing a book about it. I almost lost my mind & life, trying to forget about all the hurt & pain I experienced while w/him. You're in MY prayers... That God will continue to watch over your ❤, your spirit & your mind, while stretching your FAITH & CONNECTING YOU w/the father so that E EVERYTHING HE SAYS, you will hear + FEEL! 🙏🏽🙌🏽👆🏽❤️
@@KimberlyBonTon Thank you so much, I appreciate your prayers. I look forward to reading your book and hope to tell my story one day as well. Keep me posted on the release.
It is no joke how the agents of satan target God's daughters. In the end I would not want to be in their shoes because they will be cut off and thrown down suddenly. God is saying ENOUGH! These narcissists belong to satan. To put it bluntly and as a matter of fact. I've been targeted by a few, and it is incredible how well the ones posing as godly can act and speak, but underneath are totally evil. Jesus warned us about these wolves in sheep's clothes. I say, cling to Jesus and put all your love and trust and life hidden in him as your rock and salvation like your life depends on it if you don't, especially in these times, cuz it does. God protect and cover us all in Jesus mighty name!
1. Trust in God's devine timing 2. Surrender your expectations 3. Seek God's guidance through prayer 4. Cultivate Patience & Perseverance 5. Align Desires with Gods will
Same as don’t trust anyone but God! You can have high expectations with him because his word never comes back void. Flesh will fail you. God won’t! 💕 I hope this answered your question.
It's time for us as ladies to wait on God for our mates. We will know our mates through 😢the Holy Spirit. We don't suppose to chase men at all, Queens.
I did this and waited for three years. Heartbreak after I knew it was from God sending me this special person. He said he was going to ask my family for my hand and swore he would marry me. It's over now. Bamn over
8 yrs in being abstinent, staying busy, waiting, trusting, serving & preparing. Lord help me to continue to stay strong & patient. Signed I still believe🙏🙌💗
You will be fine. It gets loney but you will be okay. Consume yourself in his presence. He will show you wonders to prepare you for his kingdom first. You know the words says SEEL YE THE KINGDOM OF GOD FIRST AND ALL OF THESE THINGS SHALL BE ADDED TO YOU... When father wakes you 2 3 4 in the moring get up s[end time with him, tell him Im here what you want to talk about. Listen in quiteness is when he speaks. Visions you will encounter. um, your discernment will become very sharp. Just as you I was abstinent for 23 years. Dont get loney for if you do you will taken by the wrong one. That's where I am 23 years I gave in 7 years ago with nothing still physical. But My heart my mind craved the conversation of the man I did not go to the father and ask if this is he, I assumed it has cost me Guilt, Confusion, and interrupted my peace . I am struggling with the guilt knowing I let Father down. I know he forgives me however I must forgive myself...For you, wait wait for his timing because his timing is peaceful for the MAN HE HAS FOR YOU... you want have look. But through everything go to father and get confirmation if he is the one. Please do not override him. NEVER GET LONEY
"These church players are worse than the ones in the club!" SO true, Pastor! I knew one that REALLY had me believing he was the real thing! Wiser, stronger & more discerning now thanks to the Lord Jesus and you!! I🔥✝️🔥
Absolutely! Pastor Blakes. I decided to wait for God when my Husband found me and the only thing that separated us was his passing after 20 years of a successful Marriage. Thomas, my sweet Husband gave me a plaque that said " we weathered the storms wit one umbrella" I loved his thoughtfulness. This is such a great message. Thank you for always sharing your wisdom !
@@theresasmith2335The lord told me years ago to bring a man before him in prayer even before the first date. Pray and fast about him and trust me God will give you your answer without delay
I am already currently happily married to my wonderful wife of 32 years, but I appreciated being able to share this with some of my lady friends whom would appreciate this wisdom
The illustration about patience has left me in tears 😭 I remember when I was engaged (oddly enough the man was in his 50s while I am in my 30s), I asked God whether I was supposed to move forward with marriage and He said, “no, not right now”. Two years later, having read your books, and listened to numerous videos, I have accepted I’ve made a special request & He’s working on me and my future husband, I simply have to remain committed to patience in His plan. Thank you, Father
This is my new beginning. You saved me from a toxic and narcissistic relationship about 3 years ago. I'm now embarking on a journey to marriage from step number one. God brought me back to your channel and i intend to learn every detail before dating for marriage. Today was lesson number one. Thank you and God bless you.
My husband passed year ago I still miss him. Been single since. Jesus please give me strength I seem to bear the weight of the world on my shoulders as a single mom, I often face challenges that can seem insurmountable especially with raising two children with special needs. I won’t give up but Lord I’m so discouraged. I’m trying to balance everything but Lord I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children. Jesus hear my prayers and please continue to give me strength.❤️💕
Sister, seek the tangible help that you need. And, in your efforts, I do believe that God will show up for you in ways you've never imagined. Your efforts will not be in vain. In Jesus's name.🙏🏻
Definitely wait on your mate.I’d been praying about a man that had been lingering in my life. I’d not cut the cord as I generally do, our history kept us connected. But I’d kept my distance physically. I prayed heavily about it and this person said something so off putting they were blessed and BlockT! Sometimes all you have to do is LISTEN. Praise be to the most High! I don’t need any further warnings.. I trust God in choosing my mate.
Yes sir, I asked GOD if he’s the one for me and that night I went to sleep and .ll received my answer that night in a clear dream of no he’s not. I woke up that morning and accepted the answer. I never looked back.
This is a great video! I wish I had this wisdom over 40 years ago. I made a horrible mistake listening to silly ppl telling me to be with someone I didn't really find joy in or didn't really have much in common with. I thank GOD I have nothing to do with those ppl anymore because I realized they didn't have my best interest in mind. Listen to what GOD says & not what our so-called friends say. When we need our friends where are they? When we need GOD he's always right there with us ready to hear us & help with all things whatsoever! Years ago after The LORD Blessed me with my husband one of those ppl found me on social media & asked me to hangout with her when I'm in her city. I totally ignored her, because I knew she wanted me to see me become miserable again. She's always wanted me to be sad. But when u have the joy of The LORD u won't have any desire to return to your sad place & so-called friends!!!
Well done. I've had the same experience with "friends", a whole group of them. Took me DECADES to figure out what those people really wished on me and my life. Cut THE WHOLE DAMN PACK of wolves off 3 years ago. Best decision EVER. And it was God who showed me the truth and guided me through it. Now, I live my life as a hermit, a self-sufficient individual without friends and I lack nothing. God is my friend, the true kind that you can ALWAYS depend on. Peace and God bless. 🙏💙💫
@@ChevronChick-717 I don't have many friends either & GOD is plenty of company for me. I'm married now, but if those ppl had their way I would be down & out! 😭😭
I DIDN'T LIKE THE WAY MY LATE HUSBAND LOOKED. I PRAYED FOR HIM AND GOD SENT HIM TO ME THE EXACT MAN I PRAYED FOR BUT I ALMOST ABORTED MY BLESSING. THANK GOD FOR MY SPIRITUAL MOM THAT HELP GUIDE ME THROUGH MY FOOLISHNESS. I THANK GOD FOR THE 14 YEARS I HAD WITH HIM. HE WAS SUCH A BLESSING IN MY LIFE.🙏🏾
Wonderful topic Bishop! This is a season of healthy mates and God ordained marriages. There is a shift in the spirit and I’m not only believing upcoming testimonies for myself, but for others as well. Get ready men and women of God!!
@@danitragoss1070 Amen! Thank you Sis!! I truly believe that 2024 into 2025 we will be seeing an increase in God ordained love connections and marriages!
Outstanding Bishop! Great segment of discussion. Actively listening. I agree with this Revelation. Trusting God's plans. Jeremiah 29:11, in Jesus name, Blessings unto you and First Lady Lisa ❤ AMEN
Bishop you have given tonight a road map to safety, security , love and happiness for a chosen suitable mate from our Father GOD. Bless you Bishop Blakes!!
Thank you for that! So hard to know sometimes if you should try online or not. I'm not comfortable with the idea and have kept praying for God to provide a more natural way.
I would never try to meet someone online. Never have either. Everything inside me is screaming "NO" on this issue. 🛑❗💯 But good luck and prayers to anyone who takes their chance.
I'm here because I'm 53, and have never been married. I've been choosing all the wrong ones. The last guy ghosted me after making promises, then I just saw him over the weekend with another woman. I'm so done with heartbreak. Thanks for this video, RC!!
PASTOR I REALLY DO BELIEVE THAT THE MOST HIGH YAH IS MAKING HUSBANDS IN THIS SEASON LIKE YOU'VE BEEN SAYING A MAN KNOW WITHIN 7 TO 8 MONTHS WE SHOULD NOT LET THESE 🤡 STRING US ALONG PASTOR BLAKES PLEASE BRING US THE 🔥 CANT WAIT FOR THIS ONE ❤❤❤❤
Hi Bishop! Wanted to come visit your church in Houston but got a stomach ailment & was in the hospital. I’m out now so pray for me to be able to come 2 visit this Sunday😅😅😅😅😅😅
Thank you Bishop! This was soooo good! The Lord used you to answer the question i have asked him for years as to why it's taking so long? You said, "because you have a special order." Powerful statement! You have no idea how much that gave me peace, while im waiting for the Lord to bring me my special order!
Timely word! Mine must be VERY special because I’ve been waiting for a loooong time! And just when I was so tempted to compromise, God yanked me back on track with His word and now this message. I know the wait is worth it and even if my husband isn’t around the corner, I can’t sell myself short or dishonor God. It just gets hard sometimes! Please pray for those of us in the wait! Thank you for this ministry!
I've regret everyday that I did not wait on Gods timing. I REGRET IT EVERYDAY. That is the number one mistake I've made. Number 2) Me looking for a man/husband. when the word clearly says when a MAN finds a wife he finds a good thing, the bible NEVER mention when a WOMAN finds a Husband SHE finds a good thing.... Oh, I hope someone caught that.... I am dealing out of ORDER now nothing but confusion and hurt.. BUT this to will pass..... Like an old wise man stated to me , My Grandfather, he says if a man leave another for YOU as sure as Daddy is setting here ; He will LEAVE you for someone else..... I wish he was here for me say you were so right.!!!!!.
"In all they ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path, so yes I am still waiting." Life is so difficult without someone in your corner , going in your direction. Good analogy with the order/chef. 50 year old boyfriend. LOL!
A lot of men today are openly demanding that a woman split the bills 50/50 or they don't want her. That's not a provider or protector mindset. That's an "I'm looking for help" mindset.
my partner told me that, we have financial issues and he doesnt know how to provide himself, and we dont have kids, but i wonder, if I even know dont have for clothes,and meal on table, what then. Now I must go search for job to pay for 50% food and bills🥲, beacuse he said I wanted a wife who will work as I.
I literally prayed and asked God to show me who my fiance really was..he became Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde right before my eyes shortly after and i left immediately! Grateful that i dodged a bullet. If you ask God..he will show you what you need to see...and quickly!
Also, we can save ourselves a lot of trouble by praying something like “Lord, if this is not the person you’d desire for me to be with me, break the relationship/ block a relationship from forming/ separate us with your holy fire.” ♥️♥️🔥
I took the decision in 2022 to let GOD handle my marriage. I realized that every aspect of my life was moving on well.. job, finances, education, etc because GOD was fully in charge of them. But when it came to relationships, it was stagnant and stale. I had taken GOD out of it. I was the type who wouldn't even accept a job because GOD told me not to but will go ahead and date a man even when GOD told me know. Well, it resulted in a baby with a man I didn't even like. Now, I have decided to turn that aspect of my life over to GOD finally. When men approach me now, I tell them to ask for my DADDY'S (GOD) consent first. It feels really liberating. Most importantly, GOD has led me to content like this that is helping me to be a better wife. I've thrown my clock out the door at 37. Just enjoying life with DADDY's care and support. I'm really beloved!!!!
Thank you pastor for this,i meet someone after 7 yrs,seems a good man his caring hard working and family oriented,i really like him my only challenge his moslem and Christian,i have been talking to good about him but my heart is still on him..
AMEN 🙏🏽 I am now 💯 committed and submitted to the Holy Spirit. When God sees its time for me to be married, let it be. I am so blessed 🙌🏾 to have a relationship with the most high. 🙏🏽💜
Enjoy learning about yourself. A self-exploration journey is a must!! Who are you? What are your core values? What are your beliefs? What are my non-negotiable? Who am I becoming? Do I like it? What do I want now? What do I don't want?
I so enjoy listening to you !! I am also glad I found this platform. You have absolutely confirmed everything that I have been doing by placing God in charge. The amount of peace it brings is incredible. You and your wife are a beautiful inspiration. Thank you for doing what you do!
Thats right let him chase you Women and you pray for Gods To cover him and lead and direct him in the right direction ,God knows whats best for us ,praise Jesus always put God on number one
Blessings R C Blakes, Jr🙏🏾💕. I can’t thank you enough for what God has called you to do so well. I too, believe that The Most High is making husbands and wives in this season. My 19yr old daughter loves your messages and trust your guidance as she recently dealt with a person whom she trusted and found to be disheartening and dishonest. And with your platform she’s now equipped to move forward rightfully righteously. Praise God for using you as a vessel to bring People together in his Kingdom for his Glory🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Great words of wisdom. I heard “a whisper” tell me not to marry my ex-husband, but I did what I wanted and it did not end well. God was never a part of it, but he will allow you to make your choices. When it was over He was there to dry my tears and help me pick up the pieces.
This is so true. I never wanted to get into another relationship after 3 years of being single. I prayed to God about it and met what I thought God had sent me. It was amazing for almost three months, then the bottom fell out. Heart broken and God has forgiven me for my hurt in myself for believing he was sent from the Lord. I felt blessed and thanked God for him. I told this person I had prayed about it before I met him. He became a person that had changed overnight. I don't think I can go through another heartbeat like this any time soon again.
Just going through this now. I too thought he was God sent and thanked God for him. Boy oh boy, I got a ride awakening. Now I know better. This too shall pass.
@@sharllotemazoe5323 yes and it is so heartbreaking. They were amazing and then it all just fell apart. Came in my life so full of positivity, then went out like a earthquake. I know God is working on his heart as I have prayed and trust in the Lord to do his work on this...
Don’t give up Sis! Hold on! God sees us and he won’t leave us without help. Focus on you. Do the work to be ready when he arrives. “Only God knows who’s suitable for us.”
You are speaking the natural bone truth. This happened to me. I found my soulmate because I pray 🙏🏽 and I waited for God to pick him and now we are married happy and loving life so wait on God he know what he’s doing.❤❤❤❤❤
Ladies please don’t make the mistake I made. Yes while I knew not to be out looking for a man; one sought and found me. He was not sent by God. The Holy Spirit spoke to me as we were taking our vows saying “Don’t do this” and I questioned whether I heard what I heard. I married him anyway. I married a narcissist, and did not have any idea what he was but soon found out. It was in hell on earth. Thank God for bringing me out of that with my mind intact. Please seek God when dating and listen to His voice when He speaks. Let God bring you your mate. He knows who is best for you 🙏🏾
Already made that same mistake. You are telling my story lol. God is sooo GOOD! And yes...heard it when I was trying to write vows. Every time. Never wrote them because it wouldn't come out. Now I know why.
Hugs. I’m sorry you had to go through that pain
MY SISTER... I almost have the EXACT SAME STORY; writing a book about it. I almost lost my mind & life, trying to forget about all the hurt & pain I experienced while w/him. You're in MY prayers... That God will continue to watch over your ❤, your spirit & your mind, while stretching your FAITH & CONNECTING YOU w/the father so that E EVERYTHING HE SAYS, you will hear + FEEL! 🙏🏽🙌🏽👆🏽❤️
@@KimberlyBonTon Thank you so much, I appreciate your prayers. I look forward to reading your book and hope to tell my story one day as well. Keep me posted on the release.
It is no joke how the agents of satan target God's daughters. In the end I would not want to be in their shoes because they will be cut off and thrown down suddenly. God is saying ENOUGH! These narcissists belong to satan. To put it bluntly and as a matter of fact. I've been targeted by a few, and it is incredible how well the ones posing as godly can act and speak, but underneath are totally evil. Jesus warned us about these wolves in sheep's clothes. I say, cling to Jesus and put all your love and trust and life hidden in him as your rock and salvation like your life depends on it if you don't, especially in these times, cuz it does. God protect and cover us all in Jesus mighty name!
1. Trust in God's devine timing
2. Surrender your expectations
3. Seek God's guidance through prayer
4. Cultivate Patience & Perseverance
5. Align Desires with Gods will
@@Blue-zx5mp What kind of expectations are you referring to? ☺️. Like, don’t have any expectations?
Same as don’t trust anyone but God! You can have high expectations with him because his word never comes back void. Flesh will fail you. God won’t! 💕 I hope this answered your question.
No more boyfriends. I am waiting for my God given husband. Hallelujah!!!!
In the mighty name of Jesus🙏🏽🔥🔥🔥
58, never married, no kids, celibate 13 yrs, do it for me God!
He will!!
Sounds like you’re not ready.
I’m 41 same story. I believe ‼️
God is able.
He will definitely do it beyond your expectations. 🙏
Yes he will!
It's time for us as ladies to wait on God for our mates. We will know our mates through 😢the Holy Spirit. We don't suppose to chase men at all, Queens.
That's right Amen!!!!
I did this and waited for three years. Heartbreak after I knew it was from God sending me this special person. He said he was going to ask my family for my hand and swore he would marry me. It's over now. Bamn over
Jesus name Amen!
You will be waiting forever. God never brought me a mate. I know many women waiting their whole lives and nothing .
@@fionagrant2023That's because it is NOT EVERYONE'S portion in life to be married. Some are destined to be single, like Paul was.
8 yrs in being abstinent, staying busy, waiting, trusting, serving & preparing. Lord help me to continue to stay strong & patient.
Signed I still believe🙏🙌💗
Same here God is protecting us (our bodies) for our husbands to be..
You will be fine. It gets loney but you will be okay. Consume yourself in his presence. He will show you wonders to prepare you for his kingdom first. You know the words says SEEL YE THE KINGDOM OF GOD FIRST AND ALL OF THESE THINGS SHALL BE ADDED TO YOU... When father wakes you 2 3 4 in the moring get up s[end time with him, tell him Im here what you want to talk about. Listen in quiteness is when he speaks. Visions you will encounter. um, your discernment will become very sharp. Just as you I was abstinent for 23 years. Dont get loney for if you do you will taken by the wrong one. That's where I am 23 years I gave in 7 years ago with nothing still physical. But My heart my mind craved the conversation of the man I did not go to the father and ask if this is he, I assumed it has cost me Guilt, Confusion, and interrupted my peace . I am struggling with the guilt knowing I let Father down. I know he forgives me however I must forgive myself...For you, wait wait for his timing because his timing is peaceful for the MAN HE HAS FOR YOU... you want have look. But through everything go to father and get confirmation if he is the one. Please do not override him. NEVER GET LONEY
He’s got you and WILL NOT FAIL!! 🎉🎉🙌🏽💕
How do not be irritated or sad . I’m struggling and being a momma and taking care of everything it get angry and lonely
Yes Queen
"Love God more than you love your partner."
"Once our desires are lined up with God's desires, the heavens are opened over everything."
TEEEAAAACCCHHH BISHOP!!!! "God prepares HUSBAND'S NOT BOYFRIENDS!!"🔥🔥
Praying for all watching this video that God would progress and advance our marital destinies & the Lord would protect us from any counterfeits ❤
AMEN I agree for All🙏🏾
Amen ❤
Amen
Amen 🙏🏽
Women, remember that you're not the Hunter. Let the man do the chasing/hunting while you pray for God's direction.
Amen!!!!!!!
Thank you and amen! 🙏🏾
Amen.
@@queentinadoire6931 absolutely I always let them chase not me
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"These church players are worse than the ones in the club!" SO true, Pastor! I knew one that REALLY had me believing he was the real thing! Wiser, stronger & more discerning now thanks to the Lord Jesus and you!! I🔥✝️🔥
Girl! U ain't lying!
....Facts....Been there done that..praying for discernment. & guidance.
I was there! Thank you Jesus for grace, mercy and healing ❤️🩹
Whew Chile 💯
Stay strong Sister Queens, as we wait. God is busy making our husbands, while He prepare us as wives. 🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾
Absolutely! Pastor Blakes. I decided to wait for God when my Husband found me and the only thing that separated us was his passing after 20 years of a successful Marriage. Thomas, my sweet Husband gave me a plaque that said " we weathered the storms wit one umbrella" I loved his thoughtfulness. This is such a great message. Thank you for always sharing your wisdom !
1. God is original matchmaker.
❤so true!
The man God sends you won't take you away from him. Us, ladies must take our time and ask questions lots of questions. You will know if God sent him.
@@tarrasashurst6788 I ask questions but,Satan is real,so what if he answers every question right without hesitation?
@@theresasmith2335The lord told me years ago to bring a man before him in prayer even before the first date. Pray and fast about him and trust me God will give you your answer without delay
@@theresasmith2335 Give it time. You will see if the way he answered those questions are true.
I am already currently happily married to my wonderful wife of 32 years, but I appreciated being able to share this with some of my lady friends whom would appreciate this wisdom
The illustration about patience has left me in tears 😭 I remember when I was engaged (oddly enough the man was in his 50s while I am in my 30s), I asked God whether I was supposed to move forward with marriage and He said, “no, not right now”.
Two years later, having read your books, and listened to numerous videos, I have accepted I’ve made a special request & He’s working on me and my future husband, I simply have to remain committed to patience in His plan.
Thank you, Father
God knows what’s best for us .He knows what we need and who He created for us .Trust God
This is my new beginning. You saved me from a toxic and narcissistic relationship about 3 years ago.
I'm now embarking on a journey to marriage from step number one. God brought me back to your channel and i intend to learn every detail before dating for marriage.
Today was lesson number one.
Thank you and God bless you.
Trusting God overrides youthful lust and eliminates deception
My husband passed year ago I still miss him. Been single since. Jesus please give me strength I seem to bear the weight of the world on my shoulders as a single mom, I often face challenges that can seem insurmountable especially with raising two children with special needs. I won’t give up but Lord I’m so discouraged. I’m trying to balance everything but Lord I’m struggling to make ends meet, to pay bills, and to put food on the table for my children. Jesus hear my prayers and please continue to give me strength.❤️💕
Praying that the Lord will grant you with the security of a second marriage as he did Ruth ❤ may God be with you and provide for your family
God Bless
Sister, seek the tangible help that you need. And, in your efforts, I do believe that God will show up for you in ways you've never imagined. Your efforts will not be in vain. In Jesus's name.🙏🏻
Me 2!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Me 2!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
FINALLY ..... I've been waiting for someone to speak about "Letting GOD choose/decide". Thank you!!!!!
"IF you wait RIGHT, then you are waiting for GREATER!!"🔥🔥🔥
"It's easy letting folk in... it's hell getting folks out."
Definitely wait on your mate.I’d been praying about a man that had been lingering in my life. I’d not cut the cord as I generally do, our history kept us connected. But I’d kept my distance physically. I prayed heavily about it and this person said something so off putting they were blessed and BlockT! Sometimes all you have to do is LISTEN. Praise be to the most High! I don’t need any further warnings.. I trust God in choosing my mate.
God is the best matchmaker ❤️🙏🏿
Trusting and believing in GOD for every single thing.
Thank you for the Prayers
"Prior to Lisa, I was never a husband"👏👏👏
Felt that bc I’m was married but was far from a wife
12yrs in being abstinent, waiting patiently, trusting, serving & preparing. staying strong & patient.
I still believe and have faith
Yes sir, I asked GOD if he’s the one for me and that night I went to sleep and .ll received my answer that night in a clear dream of no he’s not.
I woke up that morning and accepted the answer.
I never looked back.
This is a great video! I wish I had this wisdom over 40 years ago. I made a horrible mistake listening to silly ppl telling me to be with someone I didn't really find joy in or didn't really have much in common with. I thank GOD I have nothing to do with those ppl anymore because I realized they didn't have my best interest in mind. Listen to what GOD says & not what our so-called friends say. When we need our friends where are they? When we need GOD he's always right there with us ready to hear us & help with all things whatsoever! Years ago after The LORD Blessed me with my husband one of those ppl found me on social media & asked me to hangout with her when I'm in her city. I totally ignored her, because I knew she wanted me to see me become miserable again. She's always wanted me to be sad. But when u have the joy of The LORD u won't have any desire to return to your sad place & so-called friends!!!
Well done.
I've had the same experience with "friends", a whole group of them. Took me DECADES to figure out what those people really wished on me and my life.
Cut THE WHOLE DAMN PACK of wolves off 3 years ago.
Best decision EVER.
And it was God who showed me the truth and guided me through it.
Now, I live my life as a hermit, a self-sufficient individual without friends and I lack nothing. God is my friend, the true kind that you can ALWAYS depend on.
Peace and God bless. 🙏💙💫
@@ChevronChick-717 I don't have many friends either & GOD is plenty of company for me. I'm married now, but if those ppl had their way I would be down & out! 😭😭
Amen, Pastor!!!! 2 Thessalonians 3:5: “May the Lord direct your hearts into God's love and Christ's perseverance.” Wait on God!
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I DIDN'T LIKE THE WAY MY LATE HUSBAND LOOKED. I PRAYED FOR HIM AND GOD SENT HIM TO ME
THE EXACT MAN I PRAYED FOR BUT I ALMOST ABORTED MY BLESSING. THANK GOD FOR MY SPIRITUAL MOM THAT HELP GUIDE ME THROUGH MY FOOLISHNESS. I THANK GOD FOR THE 14 YEARS I HAD WITH HIM. HE WAS SUCH A BLESSING IN MY LIFE.🙏🏾
Thank you for sharing somebody needed to hear this testimony ….
wait, you weren't attracted to your husband? And God made him attractive to you?
I think she looked past that small thing . Everything is not about looks . Maybe he gave her what she needed and loved her . 💕
Divine Timing. Ready for the supportive message and guided by this today. Peace and Blessings to all 🙏🏽❤️✨️
Amen 🙏🏼
Wonderful topic Bishop! This is a season of healthy mates and God ordained marriages. There is a shift in the spirit and I’m not only believing upcoming testimonies for myself, but for others as well. Get ready men and women of God!!
Amen!! I so receive this. And stand in full agreement!
@@danitragoss1070 Amen! Thank you Sis!! I truly believe that 2024 into 2025 we will be seeing an increase in God ordained love connections and marriages!
Amen ❤
Outstanding Bishop! Great segment of discussion. Actively listening. I agree with this Revelation. Trusting God's plans. Jeremiah 29:11, in Jesus name, Blessings unto you and First Lady Lisa ❤ AMEN
YES, AND AMEN!!! 😊🙌❤️🙏🏽
I listen to you so much my 10 year old told me, momma we need to go to Queenology. 🤣
Listen to the babes ❤
Bishop you have given tonight a road map to safety, security , love and happiness for a chosen suitable mate from our Father GOD. Bless you Bishop Blakes!!
Hello hello to all who’s watching our counselor Bishop Blakes
The worst thing is to date online. Please wait for God. The best way is old fashion in person.
Thank you for that! So hard to know sometimes if you should try online or not. I'm not comfortable with the idea and have kept praying for God to provide a more natural way.
Facts☮️💟✝️
I would never try to meet someone online. Never have either. Everything inside me is screaming "NO" on this issue. 🛑❗💯
But good luck and prayers to anyone who takes their chance.
Facts. Online dating is the worse🙏🏽
True💯
B. Genesis 2:18. Only God knows who is suitable
I'm here because I'm 53, and have never been married. I've been choosing all the wrong ones.
The last guy ghosted me after making promises, then I just saw him over the weekend with another woman. I'm so done with heartbreak.
Thanks for this video, RC!!
Lord that’s so true! When I pray and ask God, He shows me!
PASTOR I REALLY DO BELIEVE THAT THE MOST HIGH YAH IS MAKING HUSBANDS IN THIS SEASON LIKE YOU'VE BEEN SAYING A MAN KNOW WITHIN 7 TO 8 MONTHS WE SHOULD NOT LET THESE 🤡 STRING US ALONG PASTOR BLAKES PLEASE BRING US THE 🔥 CANT WAIT FOR THIS ONE ❤❤❤❤
I believe this too!!!
I believe it too! I believe my husband is out there somewhere
I believe ❤
It’s true!! A man who knows doesn’t waste time with other women when he has found the true love of his life❤🫂😍✅✅
Hi Bishop! Wanted to come visit your church in Houston but got a stomach ailment & was in the hospital. I’m out now so pray for me to be able to come 2 visit this Sunday😅😅😅😅😅😅
You are keeping it real, Pastor Blakes. Godly women do not want a 'demon' in their lives.
Thank you Bishop! This was soooo good! The Lord used you to answer the question i have asked him for years as to why it's taking so long? You said, "because you have a special order." Powerful statement! You have no idea how much that gave me peace, while im waiting for the Lord to bring me my special order!
Yes, Pastor Blake's, you are speaking very clearly & honestly.
Timely word! Mine must be VERY special because I’ve been waiting for a loooong time! And just when I was so tempted to compromise, God yanked me back on track with His word and now this message. I know the wait is worth it and even if my husband isn’t around the corner, I can’t sell myself short or dishonor God. It just gets hard sometimes! Please pray for those of us in the wait! Thank you for this ministry!
Amen you go gurl God bless🔥❤️🙏🏽
I don’t know how I ended up on this word, but I’m so glad I stopped. This gave me so much insight on my journey.
Talk about it. My desires will align with God's desires. Amen.
I've regret everyday that I did not wait on Gods timing. I REGRET IT EVERYDAY. That is the number one mistake I've made. Number 2) Me looking for a man/husband. when the word clearly says when a MAN finds a wife he finds a good thing, the bible NEVER mention when a WOMAN finds a Husband SHE finds a good thing.... Oh, I hope someone caught that.... I am dealing out of ORDER now nothing but confusion and hurt.. BUT this to will pass..... Like an old wise man stated to me , My Grandfather, he says if a man leave another for YOU as sure as Daddy is setting here ; He will LEAVE you for someone else..... I wish he was here for me say you were so right.!!!!!.
Cyber huggs to you
"In all they ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your path, so yes I am still waiting." Life is so difficult without someone in your corner , going in your direction. Good analogy with the order/chef. 50 year old boyfriend. LOL!
I agree 100% prepare yourself for your mate, get close to God, walk in your purpose, and God's will until he feels you are ready for your spose.
A lot of men today are openly demanding that a woman split the bills 50/50 or they don't want her. That's not a provider or protector mindset. That's an "I'm looking for help" mindset.
my partner told me that, we have financial issues and he doesnt know how to provide himself, and we dont have kids, but i wonder, if I even know dont have for clothes,and meal on table, what then. Now I must go search for job to pay for 50% food and bills🥲, beacuse he said I wanted a wife who will work as I.
This is a beautiful message. Thank you Pastor!
God is the original marriage maker ❤🙏🏼
There is a book called let God be your matchmaker it’s really good ❤
I literally prayed and asked God to show me who my fiance really was..he became Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde right before my eyes shortly after and i left immediately! Grateful that i dodged a bullet. If you ask God..he will show you what you need to see...and quickly!
❤ so true!
Yes quickly!
Also, we can save ourselves a lot of trouble by praying something like “Lord, if this is not the person you’d desire for me to be with me, break the relationship/ block a relationship from forming/ separate us with your holy fire.” ♥️♥️🔥
Good to know
Lisa's hair is so pretty. Lovely photo together.
I took the decision in 2022 to let GOD handle my marriage. I realized that every aspect of my life was moving on well.. job, finances, education, etc because GOD was fully in charge of them. But when it came to relationships, it was stagnant and stale. I had taken GOD out of it. I was the type who wouldn't even accept a job because GOD told me not to but will go ahead and date a man even when GOD told me know. Well, it resulted in a baby with a man I didn't even like. Now, I have decided to turn that aspect of my life over to GOD finally. When men approach me now, I tell them to ask for my DADDY'S (GOD) consent first. It feels really liberating. Most importantly, GOD has led me to content like this that is helping me to be a better wife. I've thrown my clock out the door at 37. Just enjoying life with DADDY's care and support. I'm really beloved!!!!
Thank you pastor for this,i meet someone after 7 yrs,seems a good man his caring hard working and family oriented,i really like him my only challenge his moslem and Christian,i have been talking to good about him but my heart is still on him..
AMEN 🙏🏽 I am now 💯 committed and submitted to the Holy Spirit. When God sees its time for me to be married, let it be. I am so blessed 🙌🏾 to have a relationship with the most high.
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Enjoy learning about yourself. A self-exploration journey is a must!! Who are you? What are your core values? What are your beliefs? What are my non-negotiable? Who am I becoming? Do I like it? What do I want now? What do I don't want?
Yes self inquiry requires a season of solitude
I so enjoy listening to you !! I am also glad I found this platform. You have absolutely confirmed everything that I have been doing by placing God in charge. The amount of peace it brings is incredible. You and your wife are a beautiful inspiration. Thank you for doing what you do!
Thats right let him chase you Women and you pray for Gods To cover him and lead and direct him in the right direction ,God knows whats best for us ,praise Jesus always put God on number one
This is exactly what I needed to hear. God’s timing is perfect. Thank you.
This is the first time I get to see you live I feel like we all will be blessed thank you Jesus and thank you pastor RC Blake's
Being a wife is more than being fine.
Blessings R C Blakes, Jr🙏🏾💕. I can’t thank you enough for what God has called you to do so well. I too, believe that The Most High is making husbands and wives in this season. My 19yr old daughter loves your messages and trust your guidance as she recently dealt with a person whom she trusted and found to be disheartening and dishonest. And with your platform she’s now equipped to move forward rightfully righteously. Praise God for using you as a vessel to bring People together in his Kingdom for his Glory🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Bishop as a God-fearing KING, who's trust is in the LORD (Ps 21: 7), this RUclips video is gonna be a BLAST
I’ll be celebrating 5 years of celibacy .. 🇿🇦I pray continues to sustain me in his grace
While I wait and pray
Hallelujah!! This is good! He will bring who is suitable and complimentary.
Great words of wisdom. I heard “a whisper” tell me not to marry my ex-husband, but I did what I wanted and it did not end well. God was never a part of it, but he will allow you to make your choices. When it was over He was there to dry my tears and help me pick up the pieces.
2. Surrender your expectations
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This teaching was a blessing 2025 I will being posting my wedding photos; thanks a million Bishop Blakes🙏🏽
This is so true. I never wanted to get into another relationship after 3 years of being single. I prayed to God about it and met what I thought God had sent me. It was amazing for almost three months, then the bottom fell out. Heart broken and God has forgiven me for my hurt in myself for believing he was sent from the Lord. I felt blessed and thanked God for him. I told this person I had prayed about it before I met him. He became a person that had changed overnight. I don't think I can go through another heartbeat like this any time soon again.
That last sentence...how about EVER? Wait on the Lord, Queen.
Just going through this now. I too thought he was God sent and thanked God for him. Boy oh boy, I got a ride awakening. Now I know better. This too shall pass.
@@msm3668 I'm waiting in Jesus name...
@@sharllotemazoe5323 yes and it is so heartbreaking. They were amazing and then it all just fell apart. Came in my life so full of positivity, then went out like a earthquake. I know God is working on his heart as I have prayed and trust in the Lord to do his work on this...
I cannot stop being thankful for the huge impact you made in my life. Your teachings were so helpful on my journey 👑
Gods timing is the best . I will wait for my husband . Sometimes is tough because of pressure may God give me courage.
Yes, you are making very good sense Bishop! Appreciate your wisdom nuggets. 🙏🏾
Love this content!!!!! ❤😂 Thank you!
You are already great (1 Kings 18: 44-46).
Thank you so much.
The Holyspirit really does guide my life, because I needed to hear this today.,
I trust God’s plan for my life. I’m open but no longer looking.
I am sooooo glad that you made a video on this topic. I'm sending much appreciation your way ❤
1. Trust in Divine timing
I really need to watch this, starting to lose Hope 😢
Me too
I feel you cause I had a meltdown yesterday
Keep your head up. The Lord will sustain our hunger with this word and his Word. He is our comfort ❤ ♥ ❤
Don’t give up Sis! Hold on! God sees us and he won’t leave us without help. Focus on you. Do the work to be ready when he arrives. “Only God knows who’s suitable for us.”
Same here….
Me too ! It def helped !
Yes, I am trusting GOD
Glad to know I’m on the right path.. Amen!! Trusting God timing
Blessings Everyone
You are speaking the natural bone truth. This happened to me. I found my soulmate because I pray 🙏🏽 and I waited for God to pick him and now we are married happy and loving life so wait on God he know what he’s doing.❤❤❤❤❤
Paster, ive waited 17 yrs. Satan keeps saying its late. 49 but im holding on to faith
His timing is Right On Time! Wow! We sd that at the exact same time.
Love this sermon Pastor. This sermon confirmed things that God had spoken to me some years ago. Praise God for His awesome love for us.
Thank you so much Pastor ❤✝️🙏
Yes, you right wait patiently on God for your mate because you don't know what kind of spirit you are going to deal with in the flesh.
Thank You Jesus while You manufacture My Special Husband 🙌🏽🙏🏽… as I Align my desires with Your Will. Yes Lord.
Help me Want what You want for me…❤
Love this...Always speak the Truth!!!
6. Embrace Godly values in your relationship
Get in the word. Yes. Knowing the Word will illuminate our spouse to us.
This was EVERYTHING!!! Thank you Bishop!!♥️
Thanking God in Advance 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️
Pastor RC Blake I just want to say thank you. 🙏