Waiting on God To Bring the Right Person

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  • @vladhungrygen
    @vladhungrygen  7 месяцев назад +34

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    • @hannahkirubai.j2
      @hannahkirubai.j2 7 месяцев назад

      Iam from India, to all the confusions and questions I got the clear message God spoke to me with all the points discussed. This should have been posted last Nov'23 itself but not late at the right time God made me to hear this message for preparing my life as single for Christ Jesus to build a divine relationship with him before entering into God divine plan for my marriage life. Thank you Pastor for your prophetic message for this time which all young generations should be listening to apply the principles in single life. May God bless you more and more. Pray that the prophetic anointing follows abundantly in your ministry to touch and transform people's life. Thank you😊

    • @jonathanprince3095
      @jonathanprince3095 7 месяцев назад

      Pastor thank you for the divine counseling,may God help the youngsters of our generation in our fly & church to be Blessed

  • @sindicindy325
    @sindicindy325 7 месяцев назад +1095

    Better single with God than with the wrong person.

    • @rosysunshine2
      @rosysunshine2 7 месяцев назад +15

      Amen sister ❤🙏

    • @Tigan182
      @Tigan182 7 месяцев назад +17

      Exactly... Was in relationship during my teens... Been single for 7 years now... got my PhD degree. Best days of my life..!

    • @jinsu0504
      @jinsu0504 7 месяцев назад +4

      I agree 100% but im at an age where i am desperate to have children....

    • @praisegirl264
      @praisegirl264 7 месяцев назад +1

      Right!

    • @YonnyNoland
      @YonnyNoland 7 месяцев назад

      Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @divineshinri2260
    @divineshinri2260 7 месяцев назад +649

    "The people in the world are so hot... hell is hot" 😂😂😂 vlad that was so loud. But truth 🤣

    • @kunteriayasso
      @kunteriayasso 7 месяцев назад +5

      Fr

    • @choechoe8024
      @choechoe8024 7 месяцев назад +7

      That was such a humour ❤

    • @ValGom
      @ValGom 7 месяцев назад +4

      Ahahaha I was cackling

    • @BRESSATV
      @BRESSATV 7 месяцев назад +4

      The people in the world are so hot.... he'll is Hot 😂😂

    • @IrvingRodriguez-wi5mb
      @IrvingRodriguez-wi5mb 6 месяцев назад

      By my observation and a comment of my pastor this is realy common in churches with women one of the main reason many leave church.Especially now that alot of influenceers on social media are telling men to go to churches to look for good woman to marry.

  • @jesuschristislord6790
    @jesuschristislord6790 7 месяцев назад +815

    I'm 36. Never been married. Would like this year to be the year. I've spent a lot of time single. But I will continue to focus on God. I will build up myself as well. I have a house and cars, a job. But I still could finish a two year degree. I could work on getting in better shape, making more money, learning more. There is a lot I can do in the meantime.

    • @bridgetlilly-02
      @bridgetlilly-02 7 месяцев назад +88

      Although most of the things you mentioned are good, to be a husband you also have to work on your calling as the leader of the house , the priest of the house and the father. Some of these things require you to mentally prepare and spiritually prepare. All the Best in your journey..

    • @dreamsaresharedhere_
      @dreamsaresharedhere_ 7 месяцев назад +42

      Talk to the girl dude

    • @Lahermanamartha
      @Lahermanamartha 7 месяцев назад +29

      Don’t give up. Keep praying for that person. God will answer your prayer in the right time. He always listens

    • @TheKoollatina
      @TheKoollatina 7 месяцев назад +19

      God will bring the right girl at the right time.

    • @ta-letcecilio310
      @ta-letcecilio310 7 месяцев назад +21

      Same brother. turning 37 this yr. Im catholic but not active at church. Always busy, stress-out, negative, worrying and impatient with my plans. But God is calling me to focus on him and to be closer to him again. Gonna improve myself to be better person, work on emotionally and spiritually. so if i meet my future husband (if God’s will) im ready and prepared for him. I started to go church and read bible again. Keep on praying. God knows our heart’s desires. 😊

  • @zackdelarosa14
    @zackdelarosa14 7 месяцев назад +157

    I pray for my future wife that she prioritizes God above all else, that she makes Him her #1 love and only #1 love, that she allows Him on the throne of her heart, that nothing on this earth below this earth or beyond this earth takes His spot and when she is ready we start a relationship that flourishes into a marriage and have beautiful children we can dedicate to the Lord

  • @words.priceless
    @words.priceless 7 месяцев назад +26

    May God grant all the single people trusting God for a partner who they can build a Christian home with, in Jesus name amen

  • @08prema
    @08prema 7 месяцев назад +291

    I am 57 and still waiting. I feel left out God, so move me in the right way soon my Lord.

    • @4everFameUz
      @4everFameUz 7 месяцев назад +79

      I work in a hospital. A man married his wife. She was 76 years old!!! They are married for 10 years, now! Miracles do happen! Keep believing that God will send you your mate the Lord, chose for you! God can do anything!

    • @checkboy-ug7ps
      @checkboy-ug7ps 7 месяцев назад +5

      D:

    • @lorrainesaviano855
      @lorrainesaviano855 7 месяцев назад +6

      AMEN 🎉

    • @lorrainesaviano855
      @lorrainesaviano855 7 месяцев назад +3

      AMEN 🎉

    • @CommentingSomeMore
      @CommentingSomeMore 7 месяцев назад +27

      Amen. I am a single mom in my 30s. I’m emotionally preparing myself to wait as long as it takes. Maybe it will be soon or maybe it will be when my child is an adult and I’ll be in my 50s at that point. I trust in the Lord. He is still working on me. Jesus will always be enough. Recently he has reminded me of the very bad choices I’ve made in choosing men for myself in the past. I’m done doing it my way.

  • @kellydames6982
    @kellydames6982 7 месяцев назад +99

    lm 41, never married and l am waiting for God. Please pray for me. God bless

    • @shaneflournoy-bv4tu
      @shaneflournoy-bv4tu 7 месяцев назад +10

      46 man of God here still waiting for God to bring the one. Have been praying for 4 years for a woman of God!

    • @lawandacole6547
      @lawandacole6547 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@ProphetTemmysame here

    • @rosemary.3181
      @rosemary.3181 7 месяцев назад +6

      Receive a good partner in Jesus Christ name. AMEN

    • @rileypresley5605
      @rileypresley5605 6 месяцев назад +3

      Maybe Shane and Kelly should meet?

    • @fonz114
      @fonz114 6 месяцев назад +1

      I'm 42, I'm the same never been married, looking for the woman who is the right one, chosen by God.
      I pray you find your soulmate 🙏

  • @brandywineblogger1411
    @brandywineblogger1411 7 месяцев назад +108

    15 years married and looking forward to many more.
    I too was in my 50s, Masters Degree, owned my condo, decent job, involved in non-profits and a Christian.
    Being single gave me a poor image of myself. But how can someone else love you if you don't love yourself first?
    I finally said to God - OK, here I am Lord, Thy will be done.
    If you want me to be single, just let me be the most interesting single around.
    One day, out of the blue, the museum where I was pres. of the board got an email re: coming to do research.
    It was an old college classmate.
    16 months later we were married in a beautiful church wedding.
    We both know God brought us together at the right time in our lives and are convinced ours truly was a marriage made in Heaven.
    Listen to Pastor Vlad.
    I gave my life to God's time table and stopped worrying about not being married.
    Relax, work on you, and you may be surprised one day too.
    God bless!

    • @Easypeasy74
      @Easypeasy74 7 месяцев назад +2

      That’s an encouraging and beautiful story.

    • @RachelNichols-writer
      @RachelNichols-writer 7 месяцев назад

      Why did Mr. "I-Deserve-a-Perfect-Blonde-Supermodel" deign to ask you out years after you were past your prime? He obviously didn't think you were good enough at 18 or 20. It's not as if you're hotter now.
      And why did you accept his marriage offer since your best years are behind you, both of you are unattractive, and you can't have a family? I see no point to getting married now that I'm sick all the time and can't have kids and my best years are behind me. (My autoimmune illness does make a difference.) My older body kind of disgusts me and so do my contemporaries.
      If a guy I'd gone to college with asked me out now, I'd say, "Don't bother. You should have asked thirty years ago. Go hire a home health worker instead. And learn to cook." The real reasons old widowers get remarried after the women they actually loved die.

    • @RachelNichols-writer
      @RachelNichols-writer 7 месяцев назад +1

      Why did your old classmate deign to ask you out in your fifties since he didn't think you were worthwhile at twenty.
      Still bitter about what happened at twenty and I am fifty now. Before you tell me that makes me poor marriage material I say I don't care anymore. It's too late in life for anything good. My body is old and in horrible pain and all the men my age repulse me. Chronic illness and a very disappointing life in many ways. But I don't want the booby prize of a sham "marriage" this late in life. I just sit around waiting. Not for marriage but the end. Like most old people do.
      Fifty is too late to bother to start anything. Especially if you suffer Chronic Fatigue Syndrome

    • @nellymasango7176
      @nellymasango7176 6 месяцев назад

      Why r U so discouraged? God can turn things around for you Nd in u. Please keep believing, we serve a mighty able God, who will never fail us...... Just believe in Him Nd leave the rest to Him.
      Please share Ur testimony there after because you will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.....Amen

    • @rachellecaraon
      @rachellecaraon 6 месяцев назад

      Amen and amen❤

  • @Philippines888
    @Philippines888 2 месяца назад +9

    I am 50, single, never been married and no kids… still waiting for a godly man that God would have for me, in Jesus name amen!

  • @charlotte-allan
    @charlotte-allan 7 месяцев назад +212

    As a 33 years young divorced single mother of one, I agree with this message 100%. Been single 2 years and the first year of that was spent healing. Now I'm a university student and I'm learning a new language and volunteering with the NHS, among other things I'm working toward. In your singleness you can do SO much that you won't have time for in a relationship. Being single with God is better than being in an ungodly relationship.

    • @Danae78
      @Danae78 7 месяцев назад +4

      True, I wasted time in an ungodly so called "friendship " and it made me take 80 steps back from where I wanted to be with God in my life. Don't waste you heart on someone who doesn't line up with God's Will.

    • @Kutlwanoo
      @Kutlwanoo 7 месяцев назад +1

      Wow! Thank you for sharing

    • @Celicalover
      @Celicalover 7 месяцев назад

      Hello pleased to meet you is it possible to Create contact please? ☺️

    • @Celicalover
      @Celicalover 7 месяцев назад

      @@Danae78 Hello pleased to meet you is it possible to Create contact please? ☺️

    • @musicgal9830
      @musicgal9830 7 месяцев назад +1

      At least you’ve been on one date hun lol I laugh at people who really don’t know what true singleness is like.

  • @dachater1
    @dachater1 7 месяцев назад +192

    This is such a painful topic for me. Trusting God for the right person has been the most confusing and difficult area of my life where satan has manipulated and I have compromised due to the wait and vulnerability. I’m now 45 now and just want the right person. I’ve had to turn down a few men. Lord help me in this area 🙏🏼

    • @romanbastrop99
      @romanbastrop99 7 месяцев назад +21

      I completely understand what you're going through! I, too, am praying for my husband. Hang in there. At the right time, He will make it happen. Praying for you. ❤

    • @Myriam-Minister
      @Myriam-Minister 7 месяцев назад

      Focus on the Lord. That means surrendering all to him and not entertaining men you know have no relationship with Jesus or they are baby Christians.
      The devil sends counterfeits to trip you up! When you focus on the kingdom and His righteousness All other things will be added to you.
      God wants to be your first love! Check your heart. Will you abandon God as soon as you receive a partner? If your relationship is weak. God won’t compromise or send the one till YOUR heart is right.
      Because relationships if NOT founded on God can become idolatry and that goes into 1 Corinthians idolaters do not enter the kingdom of heaven.
      Seek Jesus! Build a strong foundation so you can have a kingdom marriage with kingdom children that are raised up in Christ!!! I hope that makes sense. God bless you sis! Keep trusting God! He is so worthy and an amazing father who wants the best for you!

    • @theresaedwards8812
      @theresaedwards8812 7 месяцев назад +12

      Embrace the love of God

    • @Kherian888
      @Kherian888 7 месяцев назад +9

      I will pray for you

    • @miyuumiyuu1789
      @miyuumiyuu1789 7 месяцев назад

      Generational curses might be the reason you can’t find the right partner. In some families, the devil has already established demonic laws saying that no one will ever be married or that if someone gets married, they will end up divorcing. You should consider going to Vlad’s ministry if you are in the US and go through deliverance.

  • @conceitedminaj
    @conceitedminaj 6 месяцев назад +28

    I'm 37 and in the waiting season.. sometimes I loose faith in God feeling i will grow alone without having kids... I battle with negative thoughts but I know that the attack is coming from the enemy... I know God will keep his promises over my life but he wants me to constantly seek him which I will.... I will never give up on God because he won't give up on me... love you jesus ❤

  • @marytetreault8168
    @marytetreault8168 7 месяцев назад +48

    When my sister and I were teens, my mother told us not to fixate on looks in a prospective mate. She said, "You will not notice his handsome looks after your first day married. After that you will only notice how he treats you."
    Word to the wise.

  • @KelliRoberts-ix5bv
    @KelliRoberts-ix5bv 7 месяцев назад +216

    God is Good!!! My Husband and I just Acquired a new House here in Notting Hill worth (£159K), Despite all the ups and down in House Crises in U.K..... As you Congratulate me your own testimony awaits you. Praise God! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @SusieRobertson-hc7xm
      @SusieRobertson-hc7xm 7 месяцев назад

      Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?......

    • @SusieRobertson-hc7xm
      @SusieRobertson-hc7xm 7 месяцев назад

      I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

    • @KelliRoberts-ix5bv
      @KelliRoberts-ix5bv 7 месяцев назад

      Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Maria Luisa Abrams.

    • @KelliRoberts-ix5bv
      @KelliRoberts-ix5bv 7 месяцев назад +1

      After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.

    • @MichelleGibson-gc5pt
      @MichelleGibson-gc5pt 7 месяцев назад

      Wow...I know her too she is a licensed broker and a FINRA agent she is popular in
      US and Canada she is really amazing woman with good skills and experience.

  • @Spooklilly-Latina4Freedom
    @Spooklilly-Latina4Freedom 7 месяцев назад +178

    All thanks to God for bringing me together with my husband, my other half. We became friends first without the pressure of a romantic relationship so we really got to know one another & loved each other just as a fellow human being & friend. It was then that we crossed over into a romantic relationship. Unfortunately we were atheists then, but God is so good he still looked out for us and blessed us & now we are building a meaningful relationship with God, such a vital component of our lives as individuals and as a couple. We've passed 20 years blessed together. So if you already have a relationship with God you are ahead of the game. May God help you find the helpmate that is meant for you & may your union be blessed 🙏♥️

    • @mygodismighty
      @mygodismighty 7 месяцев назад +3

      That's beautiful. Thanks for your well wishes!

    • @sarahidris1
      @sarahidris1 6 месяцев назад

      Amen Lord. Amazing testimony of your God’s ordained love story!

    • @thebaxman4459
      @thebaxman4459 2 месяца назад

      Well it must be so wonderful knowing YOU NO LONGER have to wonder if or when you will EVER find/meet someone special anymore!

  • @08prema
    @08prema 7 месяцев назад +68

    My mom and dad are passed, and I am an only child, so pray for me@Vlad.

    • @danielmugisha4107
      @danielmugisha4107 7 месяцев назад +11

      May the Almighty God fill you up with his presence in Jesus Christ name and may the loneliness disappear forever I pray that happiness, peace freedom from Jesus Christ reign in your heart and may God bring close to you people who will always connect you with God may the Holy Spirit guide you forever in Jesus Christ name Amen!

    • @peachyCat.
      @peachyCat. 7 месяцев назад +8

      I will pray for u too. Im also an only child. 😊

  • @judymbuthia6628
    @judymbuthia6628 5 месяцев назад +8

    "At the right time, I, the LORD will make it happen". Trusting God's timing as I continue living according to His purpose.

  • @CrownedDiaries
    @CrownedDiaries 7 месяцев назад +71

    A relationship with God will heal your wounds while a relationship with a person will exposed them …. Wow 🔥

  • @darioguerrero2580
    @darioguerrero2580 2 месяца назад +3

    I'm 32 years old, and I feel like that as I get older, my time's running out on finding my future God-fearing wife, and I struggle with patience. Now that I became a newborn Christian a couple of weeks ago, I know the road is not going to be easy, and the enemy will do everything he can to throw me off, but I'm not going to buckle under the pressure. Y'all pray for me that through God's timing and will, He'll bless me with her.

  • @gillianwilliam5688
    @gillianwilliam5688 7 месяцев назад +28

    I believe one day soon God will bring the right person in my life

  • @user-qb9pf5jo6l
    @user-qb9pf5jo6l 7 месяцев назад +84

    I think the problem that I have when serving in Church or going to church events just for finding a relationship is that your heart is not in the right place and you are leaving God behind. Our all hearts must be focus of serving others if you are in a Church volunteering and Serving God if you are worshiping, NOT looking for your potential partner at every moment you see someone around.

    • @bintssembajja9298
      @bintssembajja9298 7 месяцев назад +7

      This is the absolute truth😂.whenever i go to church, am looking among the brothers who would be a potential spouse. But i realise that my heart is not on God but other things. Thank you for this comment. Am going to pray about this.

    • @20vannesa
      @20vannesa 4 месяца назад

      Tbh I don’t think it’s bad to do that! I mean if God put in our hearts to desire having someone one day. I do this too but my focus is on God but then again I want a spouse 😩😭

  • @christoffeljongwa192
    @christoffeljongwa192 2 месяца назад +2

    " you don't get prepared for married when you engaged, you get prepared when you single" I FELT THAT

  • @perlaperezgutierrez4761
    @perlaperezgutierrez4761 7 месяцев назад +10

    Wow! There are many of us that are in the same situation. I am 41 and waiting on Lord for a spouse. We should pray for one another for encouragement and strength in this solo time. I am struggling mentally and spiritually I will pray for those going through the same as me.

    • @rosepetals8181
      @rosepetals8181 7 месяцев назад

      No kidding👍🙏✝️

    • @britt1784
      @britt1784 12 дней назад +1

      It is encouraging to see that we are not alone like the enemy would make it seem!

  • @stephaniedominguez2320
    @stephaniedominguez2320 7 месяцев назад +45

    I’m 31, single but I’m not quite ready to mingle. I have to work on the best version of myself. The Holy Spirit conviction in my life has been super intense, I’m a different person but God says I still need improvement. Thank you Lord for changing me!

  • @SachelleCambria
    @SachelleCambria 7 месяцев назад +16

    Seven years ago, I quit living in sin and decided to stay single. I’ve made God my priority and stopped focusing on finding a mate.

  • @keelhe893
    @keelhe893 7 месяцев назад +18

    I found that when I stopped postponing my life for an imaginary wedding date my discontentment disappeared … I was able to check off my to-do list and enjoy life

  • @sara24242
    @sara24242 7 месяцев назад +3

    37 (woman), single & never married, I believe God must have someone amazing since I’ve waited so long!

  • @Nicosielove
    @Nicosielove 7 месяцев назад +42

    What Pastor Vlad is saying is true HOWEVER, I know a few good couples, I am talking about couples that have been married for 50 plus years and are still in love, they all didn't tick all the 10 boxes mentioned in this video when they met their spouses. God makes things happen, at the end of the day you just need to pray and trust God, if it happens it happens, but if it doesn't happen then just let it go. There is nothing wrong with being single.

    • @lifewithmahalia
      @lifewithmahalia 7 месяцев назад +2

      Especially when you grew up in a household that didn't have love, then you're not required to have a relationship with your family. You just need to have a heart of forgiveness ❤

    • @20vannesa
      @20vannesa 4 месяца назад

      I truly believe everybody story is different. I know couples who got married and they were still healing from a lot. They helped each other heal. It’s not always that you have to prepare so when it happens it will happen bc God will allow it.

  • @NoRodnoReel
    @NoRodnoReel 7 месяцев назад +58

    Amen! So many people seem to view God as their eternal matchmaker. I’m not saying he doesn’t put people together but it seems like some get so caught up in finding a mate that it affects their relationship with God. All they pray and think about is finding a mate and they forget to think about their relationship with God. God doesn’t just want to hear you talk about your desire for a mate, he knows what you need and what we really need is a relationship with him. Once we find complete contentment in God and in our singleness we will grow and will become the kind of person that is worthy of a mate.

    • @homecourtstory
      @homecourtstory 7 месяцев назад

      Are you in a relationship?

    • @NoRodnoReel
      @NoRodnoReel 7 месяцев назад

      @@homecourtstory Not at the moment.

    • @homecourtstory
      @homecourtstory 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@NoRodnoReel ok, thanks for responding. I’m single too and have gotten advice from people who are naturally always in a relationship about how to handle singleness. So it’s like I’d rather hear it from someone going through or has gone through long periods of singleness. I like how you said find contentment in God first. And I’ve had to come to realize that God is not a genie that just grants our every wish. Because He knows what’s best for us.
      But thanks for your wisdom and have a great day bro

    • @NoRodnoReel
      @NoRodnoReel 7 месяцев назад +7

      @@homecourtstory Of course Bro God bless, I would have a hard time giving advice on something I’ve never been through or am currently going through. It’s not easy having to wait but when you trust in God and his plan it makes it so much easier.

    • @ledbyhisword_
      @ledbyhisword_ 6 месяцев назад +2

      This conversation was so wholesome

  • @bintssembajja9298
    @bintssembajja9298 7 месяцев назад +23

    This is speaking direct to me. When my husband of 10 years left me, i thought the world ended with him. But God was so close to me, i picked up my broken pieces, sought for help from God and my pastor, i enrolled in nursing school, and am praying that i finish my studies. I am now devoted to seeking God, to know His will for my life and i know along the way, He will bring me the right one. Am in my waiting season but am patient and i trust God because i know He will choose the best for me.

  • @ghost_to_a_ghost
    @ghost_to_a_ghost 7 месяцев назад +11

    My ex wife and I were married in 2014 and our marriage ended several years later in 2019. My ex had become "woke" for lack of a better word in 2016 and started reading a lot of third-wave feminist stuff from Jezebel and other similar "news" sites. she started going to bars every night and would come home drunk and start hitting me. I tried to make it work for three years but she finally left me. I have been single ever since, and I have grown my relationship with Christ to levels I very even knew were possible. I'm 39, now. If God has a lady set aside somewhere for me, I know He will bring her in to my life when the time as come. Or I might stay "single" forevermore! I'm fine with either. My relationship with Yeshua is far more important to me than any other relationship I have ever been in. God comes first, my parents and family second, and my friends third. To all you Christian single guys and gals out there, just remember that you are NEVER alone; God is always there holding your hand and guiding you thru each day and night. He will never leave you. ❤🙏 Thanks for another wonderful video, Brother Vlad!

  • @timktmusic
    @timktmusic 11 дней назад

    Listening to this taught me that I'm far from being ready for a godly relationship. But if God says I'll need to wait and work on some stuff first, then so be it. 👍

  • @MotshidisiLekgetho
    @MotshidisiLekgetho Месяц назад

    I'm a 35 y/o single Christian woman and never been married and i love all the points you just made. I'm also on the very same journey of getting closer to God as i trust Him completely and give Him full authority over my life. It feels good to not be worried. I'm not even looking, no flirting no dates no sex and i couldn't be bothered. I'm just so focused on my self development and prayers as i trust when the time is right and we are both ready in the eyes of God He will make us cross paths❤😊God first the rest shall follow..thats me.

  • @mr.edztraordinary5041
    @mr.edztraordinary5041 7 месяцев назад +40

    It's 1am here in the Philippines, still awake, watching. ❤

    • @toungetwister2023
      @toungetwister2023 7 месяцев назад

      Same here kababayan

    • @sonukumar597
      @sonukumar597 7 месяцев назад

      In India it’s 2AM I’m still watching it ❤😂

  • @lissastanley2
    @lissastanley2 7 месяцев назад +15

    I’m 18 and the advise he have about rekindling relationship with family really hit. I just know that I can’t have a relationship with my father, he’s just too strict. This ended up pushing all of us away from him. And we really aren’t comfortable. It’s not that he’s a bad person. He was too strict growing up and now even having a conversation with him or watching tv when he’s around has become very uncomfortable

    • @tastehisgoodness
      @tastehisgoodness 7 месяцев назад +3

      Aw❤ I get you😊 but God, our perfect Father, is able to restore the relationship!❤

  • @reubenranjan7199
    @reubenranjan7199 2 месяца назад +2

    One of the points that hit me the most was from your own personal time as a single man, that you did not disciple girls, and also that you didn't DM them. I think these simple boundaries are so powerful to stay away from/avoid sin.

  • @AzubiLife7282
    @AzubiLife7282 7 месяцев назад +12

    Definitely keeping this on REPEAT…

  • @maharanighufron6783
    @maharanighufron6783 5 дней назад

    Thank you Pastor Vlad for this topic. I am so blessed. I am 43 years old and unmarried. I also don’t know when God will make me get married. Right now I am going through each stage as Pastor said. I remain grateful.❤

  • @Serendipity_li
    @Serendipity_li 7 месяцев назад +10

    Amen.We are at peace when we are in God’s timetable.41 yet happy and trusting God.

  • @monicanjau6567
    @monicanjau6567 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love my growth spiritually and the woman that I have become, I have also taken steps to develop myself professionally, I feel I am ready for marriage, but there is no sign of anyone pursuing me 😭

  • @renaldoaggrey7060
    @renaldoaggrey7060 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much for this I am 30 next month and I have never even had a girlfriend growing up I always thought I would find someone around 25 when I reached 25 and no one was there I wasn't too upset as my friends weren't married but when they did get married I started to feel the loneliness and like you said became a bit desperate. But God knows what He is doing and His timing is best. I have subscribed

  • @Godslonelyman7
    @Godslonelyman7 29 дней назад

    Pray for me. I thought I was finally reaching a high point with my faith. Reading scripture daily, starting every morning with a prayer, and being mindful of what content I consume…
    Lately I’ve been angry, and so frustrated that everyone around me has a girlfriend/ wife.. I’m growing tired of waiting. I’m starting to doubt and give up hope in that area of life.

  • @MallorysNaturalBeauty
    @MallorysNaturalBeauty 7 месяцев назад +19

    Waiting ✋️ hallelujah! Bring me closer to You Lord

  • @0McCart
    @0McCart 7 месяцев назад +7

    I so need this message as a 51 year old widow. The dating world in this day and age is not like where it used to be.

  • @zubairhabib8975
    @zubairhabib8975 7 месяцев назад +15

    Waiting for the God's plan to be filled in my life.

  • @JS-jx9jt
    @JS-jx9jt 7 месяцев назад +23

    I liked it all. I usually avoid these types of videos because they tend to be opinions without any actual substance. Like the “why are you still single?” People.
    Thanks for putting this out.

  • @cartoonmamma
    @cartoonmamma 7 месяцев назад +8

    Pastor, I can honestly say as a person in their 50s, I, have by the grace of God accomplished, and will continue to accomplish every single one of these points. :-) I am so thankful and happy to welcome the man God has for me when he gets here lol I’m ready! God has been working on me for a very long time and I’ve been very stubborn also lol unfortunately but I am on board now

  • @jacobthirtyone
    @jacobthirtyone 7 месяцев назад +27

    This video came at the right time, the one advice that was like highlited to me the most is developing my relationship with God. Amazing video as always, may God bless you all!

  • @juliettaloves
    @juliettaloves 7 месяцев назад +6

    Trusting only the Lord with His timing and plan for me while I seek Him in purity, righteousness and obedience. Dancing with my King Jesus till He sees me fit to hand over to a mortal man❤ Thank you Pastor for this message 🙏🏼

  • @alexzarycka8016
    @alexzarycka8016 7 месяцев назад +4

    Contentment and physical and emotional health stood out to me the most. Those are the areas I want to work on most

  • @DeadTom22
    @DeadTom22 7 месяцев назад +21

    Thank you Pastor Vlad!
    I'm currently in a season of growth and waiting to prepare for my future wife. This message was encouraging!
    God bless you!

  • @Theeflawlesswallace
    @Theeflawlesswallace 7 месяцев назад +60

    The boys in the world are so hot!
    “You know, hell is hot.”
    🤣🤣 Pastor Vlad funny

  • @philhamilton8731
    @philhamilton8731 7 месяцев назад +12

    Wonderful advice. Thank you, Vlad. I lost my wife three years ago to cancer after 22 years of marriage. I would like to be married again some day. I am still relatively young, so in the mean time I am learning to be content with this current season and working on myself. It's hard, but I know that it's for the best. I tried "forcing" potential partnerships and it did not turn out well. I know now that if I ever have a another partner, I will meet them in God's time and not mine. Vlad's point regarding contentment really resonates with me, as I am learning to accept that perhaps I will remain alone in this life and that's okay, because I believe I will be reunited with my wife again when my time here is through.

  • @thembekilemoyo-d5s
    @thembekilemoyo-d5s 6 месяцев назад +3

    43 single and childless.Thank you pastor for words of enouragement .l come to realise that God's timing is the best and patience pays.Will therefore wait for God's time.

  • @raviadagatla7103
    @raviadagatla7103 2 месяца назад

    Praise God...Hallelujah 🙌 🙌 Wonderful Message Pastor...learnt a lot...Building your character and Building yourselves...Glory to God...Hallelujah 🙌 🙌

  • @maryrosecericos154
    @maryrosecericos154 7 месяцев назад +3

    Annointed Man of God.. His Wisdom is indeed from the LORD. His ways of living is Godly as well

  • @No-handleneeded1
    @No-handleneeded1 7 месяцев назад +5

    Everything you said is on point! Especially the part about building relationships with your parents and siblings. Those are the people that will be there for you in your lowest of times.

  • @marjoriebennett8443
    @marjoriebennett8443 6 месяцев назад +2

    I am content with Jesus in my life. My life is full of good things. Jesus is altogether Lovely. The Holy Spirit teaches and guides me in all things. I very much enjoyed this video. I give thanks to God for whatever He will do in my Life. I wait for Him.

  • @gustavoalonsolopezwolf9098
    @gustavoalonsolopezwolf9098 7 месяцев назад +11

    This was very very informative to me as a single divorced man. I see how there's some more thing in my life I can grow on. I have been preparing to find someone new though. Maybe I also need to destroy that visual expectation of whom I expect to find. I also need to focus a little more on myself. I'm working, I have my own apartment, i pray, go to church but i need to learn to find more joy in being single right now. Sometimes I'd randomly find myself getting sad because I'll see hapoy couples and if makes me feel so empty my efforts to find myself in failure and alone. But I will gratefully take your advices and lessons Vlad thank you and God bless.

  • @rubyencinas1170
    @rubyencinas1170 28 дней назад

    Learn to be contented and pure in your waiting season ❤

  • @neffalum
    @neffalum 5 месяцев назад

    Amen

  • @soniadawson1723
    @soniadawson1723 Месяц назад

    Truth spoken!

  • @lorainethompson8573
    @lorainethompson8573 4 месяца назад

    Excellent advice, this is why we should pray God's will for our lives in finding a mate and not our will.

  • @rehemacheptoo4752
    @rehemacheptoo4752 4 месяца назад +1

    Wow,this is all I need right now. I'm in a season of rest,where God has instructed me to wait and rest in Him. I wasted a bigger part of my life chasing after that perfect relationship to find happiness but now I know I had to go through all that for a reason. I am happy now that I'm being guided in this season and so far I am at peace. Thank you for this,It is of great help to me. The Lord bless you😊

    • @grace.1123
      @grace.1123 2 месяца назад

      what instruction did God give you to know to wait and rest in Him? I had a breakup in February I am still getting over and I want this season I'm in now to be a season of quiet and stillness to focus on my relationship with him, but I'm not exactly sure how I should go about it practically.

  • @Daniel.Emmanuel10
    @Daniel.Emmanuel10 6 месяцев назад +1

    I’m 21. I know who God wants me to marry. We go to the same church. However, God said he will confirm when to pursue her for courting. This video helps me focus on what to do while following the instruction he said to “wait”.

  • @nokukhanyangulube0686
    @nokukhanyangulube0686 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm building relationship with my Family wow and I'm on spiritual growth journey and fasting more praying more and studying actually I'm at peace with God and I'm so proud of myself... I'm enjoying my waiting season because I'm not just waiting but I'm serving the Lord.

  • @BiankyGirl
    @BiankyGirl 7 месяцев назад +3

    My gosh this is a TREASURE TROVE of sound advice. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @EARTHTOMICH8LLE
    @EARTHTOMICH8LLE 7 месяцев назад +3

    I loved this video so much!!!! I’ve always felt so lonely and I can’t believe I’ll be 28 this year. My greatest fear was NOT being loved but all I was missing was loving myself through GOD. Jesus is that solutions whether I’m single or married. So glad my eyes and ears came across this ❤ peace every one 🙏🏻

  • @michaelpelidis9088
    @michaelpelidis9088 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm afraid these tips might make it way more complicated than it should be. Even though I agree with everything in the video I believe most christian couples I know did not take thoses steps of self improvement before getting married, yet by God's grace their marriage is prosperous

  • @AmaranthineIntrigue
    @AmaranthineIntrigue 7 месяцев назад +3

    Whenever I feel content and focused on the Lord, a "christian" guy will come around and totally disrupt my life. I guess I need to learn to not make him such a big part of my life (even though this type of guy demands more) and stay focused on me and my relationship with the Lord. This video was very helpful, all your points were good to remember. Thank you!

  • @samanthakorner3670
    @samanthakorner3670 7 месяцев назад +4

    What stood out for me was #5 understand your values and what you seek in a partner and that's really something we as the younger generation need to pray about alot of times we decide how we want our future spouse to look like or where we want to meet him..

  • @Lylie77
    @Lylie77 7 месяцев назад +2

    May God bless every beautiful soul who trust God to find heavenly partner

  • @suzettetabora5913
    @suzettetabora5913 5 месяцев назад

    Waiting for God’s timing

  • @GoldenPalm24
    @GoldenPalm24 Месяц назад

    Wow I needed this today. God is good!!! Thanks

  • @thebaxman4459
    @thebaxman4459 2 месяца назад

    Early in June I turned 50 and I'm VERY upset that God has NOT blessed me with someone VERY special. For the record, it has NEVER been easy for this 50 year old virgin to SIMPLY find / meet a date or a girlfriend or someone special. This is something I have been going through since 9th grade, I KID YOU NOT!
    When I see my friends HAPPILY post these pictures on Facebook of them with their significant other taking trips to the beach or the mountains or New York City or Disney World, I get SO VERY irritable and jealous. BEFORE I'm an elderly man, I would like for MY turn to come! Truly and honestly, I'm above and beyond FED UP with dateless weekends, ALWAYS looking through an outside window! I do NOT want to go through this for the rest of my life, even if God INSISTS this for ME!
    Can someone PLEASE tell me WHY it HAS to be God's Will and absolutely NO exceptions if I'm EVER going to find / meet someone special?!??!?!

  • @marissajames6830
    @marissajames6830 7 месяцев назад +19

    Contentment brings peace

  • @AditiJohn
    @AditiJohn 3 дня назад

    Thank you so much pastor Vlad ❤
    May God bless you ❤❤

  • @owoyelenelson2759
    @owoyelenelson2759 7 месяцев назад +4

    Waiting on God for the right person

  • @LisaLisa-jp4tw
    @LisaLisa-jp4tw 7 месяцев назад +15

    Praise God.. Welcome Holy Spirit.. From India

  • @Ana-q7e6q
    @Ana-q7e6q 3 месяца назад

    atraction is just aa important as any other thung like respect , love , values

  • @KiraboIrene-x6c
    @KiraboIrene-x6c 2 месяца назад

    Thanks pastor for strengthening me

  • @sophiamckay4336
    @sophiamckay4336 7 месяцев назад +7

    I receive this word. Thank you heavenly Father for speaking to us thru this man.

  • @StylishApologetic
    @StylishApologetic 7 месяцев назад +1

    I’m taking them all. But the one that stood out was the last one. Making sure you have your boundaries with guys who aren’t your husband. Even if they are just friends. You have to consider the long term effect

  • @santa-marinafriederich5135
    @santa-marinafriederich5135 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for encouragement! 42 and still reserved for the right one 😊

  • @spooneythebadger
    @spooneythebadger 7 месяцев назад +5

    53 years old; good career, own my home/vehicles; have done all of the things I was supposed to do to be a the kind of man that a good Christian woman would want to marry. Have reached the point where there is nothing further I can do. I used to pray that God would lead me to the spouse that He wants me with. Now I pray when I go to sleep that I simply don't wake up; let the next season of my life be with Christ.

    • @irisroda9655
      @irisroda9655 7 месяцев назад +3

      😢

    • @anniebrown342
      @anniebrown342 7 месяцев назад +2

      I'm still waiting and trusting God at age 53 too,don't lose faith He is an on time God😊

    • @miyuumiyuu1789
      @miyuumiyuu1789 7 месяцев назад

      For some people, they might have done all the steps that Pastor Vlad mentioned but still can’t find a spouse for a very specific reason. Having been in a deliverance ministry for a while now, I have discovered that the presence of a spiritual husband/spiritual wife (incubus/succubus) will prevent some people from getting married or will cause them to marry the wrong people. Because spiritually you are be married to those spirits/demons they will be chasing away the partner God has prepared for you. If you are in the US, you should consider visiting Vlad’s ministry and go through deliverance.

    • @gajetblack5614
      @gajetblack5614 7 месяцев назад +2

      Please don't give up on God. He's never late.
      My husband's aunt (never married before) got married at 57. Have been married for 31 years and going...
      Blessings 🙌

    • @spooneythebadger
      @spooneythebadger 7 месяцев назад

      Thanks for the kind words. Given that the vitality of my youth is gone as is my ability to have a son to carry on the family name I just don't see the point anymore. Finding a spouse at this stage will never fix the difficult times when I really needed a supportive companion nor make up for the decades without intimacy. Statistically, men who don't marry by age 40 can expect to die 10 years earlier than men who do. God would have to do more than send me a suitable spouse, he would need to defy the very laws of nature that He created. With God all things are possible, but not all things are probable. I just don't understand why He doesn't just bring me home. @@gajetblack5614

  • @RonkeMusic
    @RonkeMusic 7 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you! What you said about carrying yourself now how you intend to be when you’re married, really resonated with me

  • @Juliano-ll2gn
    @Juliano-ll2gn 4 месяца назад

    I read the Book of Psalms 3X for my fiancé 🙏❤️🙏

  • @MagdalenaValentino-k2n
    @MagdalenaValentino-k2n 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing. It was very enlightening. God bless you

  • @angloaust1575
    @angloaust1575 Месяц назад

    The right one...if there is one
    Several could be compatible
    However marriage is not always the answer
    Not all are made for it
    The apostle Paul managed
    Without it!

  • @ashimalal
    @ashimalal 7 месяцев назад +1

    Praise The LORD

  •  4 месяца назад

    Thank you Pastor, your teachings are very true.

  • @teatree9755
    @teatree9755 7 месяцев назад +4

    I'm on track 🙏 thanks for the confirmation I'm doing the right things, except #8. I see i need more boundaries with male acquaintances

  • @maifolau6996
    @maifolau6996 7 месяцев назад +4

    Be open!!

  • @AnNguyen-oj1xd
    @AnNguyen-oj1xd 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm turning 33 this year and I'm praying every day that if i live alone for the rest of my life, i will still believe in God's plan, in my faith till i die.

    • @eddiesaenz9291
      @eddiesaenz9291 7 месяцев назад +2

      I’m quite the opposite. I’m an old man going on 67 years old. I’ve been divorced going on 4 years I’m asking praying to God to allow me to Be married one more time it’s tough getting old but to me getting old and being alone is REALLY HARD please pray for me as I will pray for you.e😕💔

    • @AnNguyen-oj1xd
      @AnNguyen-oj1xd 7 месяцев назад

      @@eddiesaenz9291 I'll pray for you! Actually just in case I couldn't find the one, I've always wanted be growing old with someone.

  • @dariequeen5
    @dariequeen5 7 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for this Lord and Pastor Vlad. My kingdom spouse is coming soon 🥰🙏🏾💖

  • @gracemsonthi
    @gracemsonthi 7 месяцев назад +2

    Timely message. I realized I need to trust God in this area, I trust Him with my career finances etc but I have never fully surrendered my love life. I feel lonely sometimes. It hits me so bad!! My phone is dry. I’m on dating apps but nothing ever seems to work or happen I thought of deleting them coz I rarely have time to go on there, I keep busy with work then log in after days. I’m 31 single mom of two the devil has been whispering in my ear it’s too late I won’t someone who will love me. But iv put finding my HUSBAND has part of my prayer petitions in the mean time I will do what you have said. Strengthen my relationship with God, develop myself, take care of my self etc. I am leaving my love life in Gods hands 🙏🏽

  • @CandyK_117
    @CandyK_117 3 месяца назад

    I love and needed this message.
    Master (God), Mission (Purpose), Mate (Marriage)

  • @queendah7446
    @queendah7446 7 месяцев назад +1

    This was a timely word, wow. He teaching nothing but truth here.❤❤❤

  • @Adrianacr1991
    @Adrianacr1991 7 месяцев назад +1

    There’s conviction in my heart. Everything said was on point and true. Lord help me 🙏🏾