Jordan Peterson - The Dangers of Being Weak & Naive
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- Original source: • 'Mysticism, Spirit and...
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I started doing martial arts 4 years ago to gain self confidence. All I can say is that it really helped me gain self esteem. I can recommend it to anybody. It does take discipline and hard work but it's worth it. Peterson, as usual, uses great examples in explaining what he means.
Freeworkout Playlistsdotcom sure search for an martial art academy near you (what styles there are), then search here in the web what style do you think you would like the most and go for that! I've started with karate and later jiu jitsu but next month I'm gonna starting boxing! Good luck!
as nike famously said just do it
I'm glad someone else took up martial arts as a form of improving themselves. I have been going for 8 years now and it can really change the way you look at things. My only suggestion to someone looking into starting is that you find somewhere that will teach you the mental aspects that goes along with it, not just how to throw a punch or kick. Traditional is the best way to go.
If I do it I want to learn it for self defense purposes if I’m ever in a sketchy situation and am at a disadvantage it’s nice to know I wouid be learning something that can protect you in a sense but that’s just me I know there’s tons of reasons why people love or do martial arts it’s quite nice all together but very hard work goes in it if you want to excel in it from my understanding of it
How is your martial art journey going ?Still doing it ?Just out of curiosity
"If you haven't integrated the shadow you're naive."
Brilliant.
comfy sweater game on point
I actually want that sweater. Maybe not his specifically... but that style tho. I'm a stylish 21 year old.
Fred Roger's Sweater. sing along w me: Who is the Professor in your neighborhood, in your neighborhood, in your neighborhood, in your neighboooorhooooddd; He's the professor that you meet, while your Slaying your Dragons Bucko!
@@rhysoliver227 now you’re 25
Brilliant man! God bless him.
So much so :) god bless you too
I always learn so much from Jordan. Thank you for posting!
"Bad people are, from the point of view of art, fascinating studies. They represent colour, variety and strangeness. Good people exasperate one's reason; bad people stir one's imagination." (Oscar Wilde)
At 1:19, Dr. Peterson tells why:
- "Recognizing yourself as the locus of evil, let's say, actually, in some sense, gives you far more respect to yourself, strangely enough because, the same respect that you might have for a wild animal or even a monster. "
That's a really stupid quote
"Quote that has very loose connection to content" - some "smart" guy
Not having integrated the dangerous aspects of the self is like saying "I have a Rocket Launcher, and I don't know how to use it!"
Not how but when
Any advice for a kid who was way too sheltered and feels too inexperienced and unstable to competently live in the world?
Look for books in this subject, and go out in the world, each punch will give you a reality shook
Well then live more. You’ll have to get hurt a certain times...
@@avidadeanderson8170 very well
I'm that person too. Hoping to improve
@@avidadeanderson8170 Hey, just saw this. I'm doing a lot better than I was when I posted this comment! Thanks for the advice.
That sweater game though....lol
..consider that one 'spanked'.
....as in..'too death'.!...🍰 latersh.
Fred Roger's Sweater. sing along w me: Who is the Professor in your neighborhood, in your neighborhood, in your neighborhood, in your neighboooorhooooddd; He's the professor that you meet, while your Slaying your Dragons Bucko!
If a girl is pretty but naive she has lots of people that want to be with her and attracts some dishonest people who will hurt her then once she goes through the pain and realizes every one has actually either used her or manipulated her she becomes fearful with an even lower self esteem that others never knew she had then no one wants anything to do with her because she’s not the popular outgoing pretty girl and never was. She just acted that way because she thought everyone was kindhearted.
I like the disintegrated shadow . That's why I used to pretend that I'm weak, that why i let them poke me or use me in a way till i lose it and bang ... I engaged in ruthless fights, actually i kind liked it much cause ...... It was like a unwarned storm came and slapped the hell out of you. And people get scared when I rage out and liked that.
I have had bursts of rage throughout my life even though I am relatively rational. I do not get that anger often but when I do, it is a sight to behold. I did it in front of my sister's children and after I cool off, I apologized and explained the situation as calmly as I can. I need to make it so that I do not get worked up like that.
I used to have a lot of anger and it basically completely disappeared when I changed my diet. I don't eat carbs and I don't get angry.
That's interesting. I did not think about diet being a factor in my anger before. I do notice that I get angry when I do not eat but not the diet itself.
Therdina Zinastina don’t underestimate the impact of your diet on your state of mind
Ya when I changed my diet and quit drinking caffeine and eating no caffeine I feel better.
The children have been the spark. The other stresses in my life have been the powder keg.
He talks a lot about weak men and what a danger they are to society. But what about weak women? You know the ones that are so ready to be offended and triggered by words. What affect do they have on raising children and society?
I’m weak and sheltered so I was terrified to click on this video, but I need to toughen up because I’m resentful too
How are you now friend?
@@youngmarshall Much better in life. I wrote this whilst unemployed and failing at my studies. I'm now employed at a good job, own property, my own car and most importantly, I am not afraid of the world and able to think much more clearly
THANKS FOR ALL! Could you please make a playlist about personalities - the Big Five. It really helps in and out of the classroom!
Well said. Some people don't know evil.
I love this man, as in, I love his mind and his ethical thinking... And I am very grateful for him existing, and being able to listen to him...
Nevertheless, I will express something that some viewers might be wondering... That is... Although his advice in integrating the shadow is very useful, he might be missing/ putting out of his calculations, (at least in his talkings, but maybe he thinks it is not the theme of the talking), one reason for not developing a shadow, or the capacity to stand up for yourself for your self-respect: emotional or physical abuse or violence by a close family member, when growing up, that can lead individuals to later develop something similar to stokolm syndrom... It is not the abused individual's fault, and yes, even though the advice might be the same, I guess they will have to have better judgement and more work than a person who was never abused at home...
And with this I don't pretend to diminish this wonderful contribution he again gave
This is why we as Catholics do an extreme examination of conscience - we are always looking for our inner dragon so we can get a leash on him. Bi polar and all this other junk is what happens because people stopped looking for their inner dragons - yes people are bi polar, yes people have psychological issue, yes children are ADHD, .... I don't really believe in any of those things - what I believe is that as a society we stopped doing the things that prevent all of that.
I am not afraid, I was born to do this
Straight to the point you are!
“The Christian soul knows it needs Divine Help and therefore turns to Him Who loved us even while we were yet sinners. Examination of conscience, instead of inducing morbidity, thereby becomes an occasion of joy. There are two ways of knowing how good and loving God is. One is by never losing Him, through the preservation of innocence, and the other is by finding Him after one has lost Him. Repentance is not self-regarding, but God-regarding. It is not self-loathing, but God-loving. Christianity bids us accept ourselves as we really are, with all our faults and our failings and our sins. In all other religions, one has to be good to come to God-in Christianity one does not. Christianity might be described as a “come as you are” party. It bids us stop worrying about ourselves, stop concentrating on our faults and our failings, and thrust them upon the Saviour with a firm resolve of amendment. The examination of conscience never induces despair, always hope…Because examination of conscience is done in the light of God’s love, it begins with a prayer to the Holy Spirit to illumine our minds. A soul then acts toward the Spirit of God as toward a watchmaker who will fix our watch. We put a watch in his hands because we know he will not force it, and we put our souls in God’s hands because we know that if he inspects them regularly they will work as they should…it is true that, the closer we get to God, the more we see our defects. A painting reveals few defects under candlelight, but the sunlight may reveal it as daub. The very good never believe themselves very good, because they are judging themselves by the Ideal. In perfect innocence each soul, like the Apostles at the Last Supper, cries out, “Is it I, Lord” (Matt. 26:22).”
― Fulton J. Sheen, Peace of Soul: Timeless Wisdom on Finding Serenity and Joy by the Century's Most Acclaimed Catholic Bishop
You know Bishop Sheen and Jordan Peterson speak the same psychology. Anybody who watches Jordan Peterson should equally enjoy listening to Fulton J. Sheen.
I am not afraid, I was born to do this indeed I concur.
Amen.
You hit the nail on the head. Father Rippinger (his homily’s on RUclips are the best I have heard) talks about this with bipolar disorder...can’t speak for all cases but this is very true. Develop your shadow then control it to remove that dark/bipolar side of you. It can absolutely be done.
In a spiritual sense, I think the integration of the shadow can more than double one's potential, but also and mostly open the door for enlightenment which for the naive is bar exceptional cases of "crash recognition" (like with the author of "Power of Now") out of reach.
This man is a saviour
Yep. No one likes the weak. Some say they may love the weak, but get tired of them eventually. After all, everyone loves a megalomaniac.
Good advice
Beautiful speech ; ) K
So where does one begin to integrate the shadow ?
Is there anything that explains the process ?
This clip is as specific as it gets:
ruclips.net/video/QBet_lgh4wc/видео.html
Also:
Carl Jung - Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious
Carl Jung - Aion
Thank you 👍
Excellent question😎 I was a soldier from 18 til 36 and throughout training there was a phrase that would always come up “controlled aggression” in many aspects we were taught that in order to overcome fear you had to do it aggressively. In conflict/ combat you bring “the beast” but in order to be successful and to utilise tactics you need to be able to control that beast enough to think on your feet and be aware of all situations around you. To be able to listen to commands and be able to feed back information of your part in the battlespace so that, if need be, the plan can change and decisions can be made. This works in that environment but rarely (if any time) works in any other.
Now in my life at 42 I am studying Counselling to help Veterans. When it comes to anger through my studies I tend to look at Emotional Intelligence as a key factor. Being angry is easy and normal. Every emotion has a positive side to it. I doubt anyone would get anywhere in their lives if they were happy with everything but it is being angry at the right level, at the right subject/person, for the right amount of time that is the challenge for us. Watch a video of a drill sergeant yelling at a recruit and then try to imagine doing that to a child or an employee in a white collar job in an office. Of course this is just one aspect and there are many other pieces to this puzzle that come to play such as behaviours and life experience of an individual and what has worked for them with situations in the past but as I pointed out, what works in one environment may not work in others which is why I tend to see Emotional Intelligence as being a foundation to being able to acknowledge the “shadow side” and how to utilise it in many ways for positive outcomes.
Michael Stott wow, that's given me so much to think about, thank you!
Based on all the thumbnails of Jordan, It is my belief that Peterson wishes to embody maybe at a subconscious jungian level, the entity which dwells on top of the dominance hierarchy across all levels of psychic experience...
a mime.
WOW, awesome totally truth
First step: Integrate your shadow
SECOND step: get kids
I love how he stops while coming out the correct and precise word to say what he means.
Reminds me of jokers one bad day story
Awesome bite-sized extract!
Nonetheless, I can't help but notice the title is once more a tad clickbait-er than it should be. Please consider this when posting, I believe it truly matters :)
Good 👍
I thank you so much, Peterson; as usually, we'll explained. I can see your summary in my reading / practice of "A Course In Miracles"
I believe what makes the negative energy stronger and weaken self is, the gap we create between God and our real Self. As a result of long term practice in the illusionary world snapping out of it is challenging though it is possible in a rare cases. Generally, to get out of it, we need to focus inwardly and love our neighbors as Self; without looking back and dwell on guilt and loss. It takes time, but worth every ounce of breath to know who we really are, the ego free Self, God's children. God bless♥️
Well! This helped me understand myself more than any psychologist has ever
2:55 - 3:23 I wonder (seeing as Peterson has delved into the archetypal themes within the harry potter series) if he has noticed the similarity between this idea and the "obscurus" from fantastic beasts and where to find them, also from J.K Rowling. From what I remember, when a child suppresses and ignores their magical power, a parasitic obscurus forms, which bursts forth episodically with destructive malevolence, as it's own, uncontrolled entity, or "autonomous spirit" coming out in a "burst of rage"?
The monster is within us all. We must befriend that monster, to keep it at bay
I was naive for many many many years because I was totally neglected grossly neglected and emotionally abused as a child and had a narcissistic step mother and a codependent Father which was basically absent both of them and we moved around a hundred times before I was 50 because I didn't even know what stability was had no friends I had no family my mother didn't want us to be educated and I had no idea how abused I was when I got married I married narcissistic men because I was naive and I'm almost pissed that it's like you're saying that naive people are bad don't get me wrong I understand exactly what he said after going through 50 years of abuse I had to deal with my shadow I wanted my husband dead I wouldn't do it but I was sure praying God would vengeance is mine says the Lord and I realize that I have that in me and I have to deal with that but I'm almost offended that it would be spoken of as we've done something bad we had no control that we were abused
Im both impressed and concerned about Peterson and the people watching him. On one hand , his way of thinking is really great for spiritual development , but at the same time , society needs inmature and naive people in order to function properly.
Wow. Didnt expect this to be about "random" bursts of rage. Which I have been dealing with irregularly throughout my life.
So then, what is the root cause of this and how does one stop it?
All i can think about would get myself to a really bad spot
how can I integrate my shadow?
ruclips.net/video/QBet_lgh4wc/видео.html
Books on that:
Carl Jung - Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious
Carl Jung - Aion
1:46 Ohh, this must be why I'm not comfortable around children
I am the beast I worship
Whats up with the pyramid at the end of video
I think the word he is looking for at the begging is "countenance"
But how do we do it, integrate our shadow, our evil selves
Can someone lend a hand and elaborate a bit on what he means by “undermining the child’s courage”? Thank you.
Could be something very subtle like ignoring the child when it has done something well just out of pure resentment. Let's say the kid has done an amazing drawing with a lot of effort and tries to show it, but the parent just says "Yeah yeah, I got no time for this right now." without looking at it once. It's very easy to be an asshole like this, especially when the child was misbehaving before and the parent ignores it deliberately as revenge.
I've dug out a clip that explains this in more detail:
ruclips.net/video/4sGBOMiR0gc/видео.html
Around 1 minute into the video he starts explaining it.
Over protection also kills courage, you need to let kids fall sometimes. Encourage them to do things that they want to try and let them learn with some encouragement but saying no to every idea will make them internally weak and full of self doubt
jose ocampo ,
Take 8:18-20 of the book of JUDGES and elaborate in the book of Proverbs yourself, by applying Psalms 68:30 from the NKJV.
Good luck!
Thanks to all for your help! It’s very much appreciated!
The good thing is I’m naive but not weak.
I'm naive but actually pretty strong.
Instead of being critical of ""weak ppl "" being dangerous .,,,u should be critical of ppl who make them resentful,bitter and do harm to them .
This world is a jungle man...a modern jungle where people who are weak obviously get abused and taken advantage of... It doesn't matter how many times he address that you should not exploit a weak person this society won't listen to him or anyone telling them the same thing... so its better to tell people about getting powerful and being dangerous... this is the only way to help weak person.
Delicious sophisticated nutrition for the being.
Can anyone just explain me what he said?
Some of the words really confused me!
@AdrianSShole thanks!
Don’t embarrass yourself to others. Be at a position of power with everything you do even if your in a disadvantage. Don’t ask too many questions, ask questions that’s important when engaging with someone. Even if u don’t know something, don’t ask questions act like you know something and then google whatever information you need to know
@@anthonycelestin3559 hmm that's right!
But how to do the work?
Fred Roger's Sweater. sing along: Who is the Professor in your neighborhood, in your neighborhood, in your neighborhood, in your neighboooorhooooddd; He's the professor that you meet, while your Slaying your Dragons Bucko!
This is why I hate my father!
Continual devaluing a child over several years.... 😡😠😠
Hate does that. He probably grew up with it too. As did mine. Let us not foster hate like them. Perhaps a lot of piti.
Seriously wow, also anyone who likes this MIGHT like SOME of the work of Micheal Tsarion!
The intigration of the Shadow?
Those who are first now....
00:53 The word he is looking for is BDE
It's better to be amoral and evil in life, you will actually live well
7 deadly sins
Sweater +1
i really think that what he said isnt that smart and intelligent, im not hatin, im just sayin he thinks that he is smart but truthfully just basic ideas....
You are right, JBP is a smart man but that doesn't mean everything he says is. His fans will worship literally anything he says, even when alot of it is, as you said, recycled ideas of basic psychology.
What he talks about isn’t basic Psychology. If you want to see basic or pop Psychology check out Psychology Today.
It sounds like you are quite learned when it comes to a wide array of Psychological concepts. I don’t always understand or agree with everything he says but that’s okay. I can still learn something.
+omar trachen And you're basing this off one video? What's your foundation?
The thing is that people don't know about or can't articulate most of these idea, basic or not. So it's a good thing that someone is putting them forward - so we can hear them.
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.....ah.....no.