The Truth about Interracial Dating in South Africa

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  • @honeydate
    @honeydate Год назад +537

    South Africans are very hung up on race. We were only allowed to bring home coloured or white partners - this is how racist my parents, grand parents, neighbours, community was. When my sister rebelled and married her black love my parents didn’t even attend the wedding! Yet what a wonderful husband and father he is that others look up to him.

    • @Talent4Realz
      @Talent4Realz Год назад +30

      yhoo that is hecticc. I hope your family now gets along.

    • @nlocnil3602
      @nlocnil3602 Год назад +35

      This is a sad reality for many, especially non black I've come to learn. In the black community, as much as tribalism may sway opinions of others we still integrate and cross cultures with a lot less push back from family etc. I wish it were just a default setting in humans

    • @olusimp
      @olusimp Год назад +12

      That’s because they had whites only water fountains last week.

    • @msbells7718
      @msbells7718 Год назад +4

      and how's the relationship with the grandkids (if there are any)? , usually it's those mixed babies that warm people's hearts 💕

    • @khanyi8512
      @khanyi8512 Год назад +15

      I mean everyone over 30 was alive during Apartheid (south African) of course we’re hung up on race…

  • @myselfazania7771
    @myselfazania7771 Год назад +649

    I was in a flight with a Dutch man who had just finished his vacation in Joburg. He said he went to a braai with a bunch of Afrikanners who were so excited to see him and talk to him because Dutch and Afrikaans are so similar. He said everything changed when his black wife Joined them . The Afrikaans boys suddenly changed when they saw his wife and they started talking less to him and he really didn’t understand because he thought they would be excited for him since they live in Africa but atmosphere became so tense when the black woman joined the braai.

    • @subzeromidnight5388
      @subzeromidnight5388 Год назад

      Lmfao! Typical afrikaners. Yeah they don't take too kindly to us blacks hey😄. The English white south african is much more laid back than the afrikaners. Afrikaners will have the audacity to speak Afrikaans to a young black person and get mad when we ask them to speak English, coz we don't speak Afrikaans like our parents who were forced to do so under apartheid, we the youth born after apartheid speak our native languages and English but afrikaaners are living in the past and expect a black to know Afrikaans and they can't even pronounce the clicks in the xhosa language like the English who can

    • @zamekakaiser351
      @zamekakaiser351 Год назад +13

      Woooou

    • @bonganemasondo9486
      @bonganemasondo9486 Год назад +134

      Some people are still racist and it's sad coz we all bleed the same blood

    • @myselfazania7771
      @myselfazania7771 Год назад +97

      @@nhloniphoingqwele5433 unfortunately. Cape Town is the hub or racism in the whole world

    • @nhloniphoingqwele5433
      @nhloniphoingqwele5433 Год назад

      I don't think they are prepared to change their general behaviour towards African , now they are using ANC failure to justify their natural toxicity . Western Cape should be independent because the ANC blah blah blah , the need to distance himself from any environment that has black people perpetuating colonial culture of segriggation .

  • @Reyes911
    @Reyes911 Год назад +137

    As a black woman with a white fiancé we got so many death stares from black people in Cape Town, people would be rude to us in shops for no reason, it got to the point where we even stopped holding hands in public it was very uncomfortable… truth be told there’s still a lot of racial tension I know it’s hard to overcome the past and move forward but Jesus Christ there’s still a long way to go…

    • @lucilleferreira5015
      @lucilleferreira5015 Год назад +20

      @Bianca Dos Reis this happened to us too. Went on honeymoon in Cape Town a few years ago and people were rude to us as well. Non stop staring and actually made us uncomfortable. This was from all races actually and not one particular group. Never stop holding hands to please others, make them feel uncomfortable with your love for one another ❤️

    • @leigh4326
      @leigh4326 Год назад +22

      Shame for me it was white people in Cape Town. A young white guy even stood up and stared at us from all angles, in Stellenbosch a white lady and her daughter stared at us and even asked to take their meal as takeaway. A nice Xhosa gentleman ran out the restaurant and spoke to my boyfriend at the time whose my husband now to say it’s beautiful to witness such. In Cape Town it’s mostly whites who have a problem with us. In Durban everyone from Indian, Coloured, White and Black older men and in Jhb it’s mainly our foreign nationals with a problem. In EC everyone was nice, in Limpopo they asked how to get a white one etc😂

    • @ashton1952
      @ashton1952 Год назад +3

      @@leigh4326 it's crazy that people could be like this, you'd think by now we'd have made better progress as humanity

    • @gstar3569
      @gstar3569 Год назад

      I cant say anyone in my immediate family, friend circles or colleagues who are white would ever death stare a interracial couple. I wonder why a contingent of black South Africans hold such racist views towards white people... Its not cool at all! The mistrust thing is a bit rich at this point hey! But I wish you guys all the best in your relationship, if the love is real who fucking cares man!

    • @leigh4326
      @leigh4326 Год назад +2

      @@gstar3569 Thats nice to know 🙂. Black with a capital plus add people or you can call us African when referring to us.

  • @artlover7934
    @artlover7934 Год назад +71

    The new generation don't care about race, we just date as long as we have feelings for each other we see no problem just the of them who have a problem

  • @lungamadoda6992
    @lungamadoda6992 Год назад +194

    I’m a black South African lady and I’ve lived in london and Canada , I’ve dated everyone I have never had an issue with race in the UK and Canada interracial relationships are common it’s not a big deal, however here in South Africa it’s a big deal to date outside your race ,South Africa still has a long way to go.

    • @tinker2054
      @tinker2054 Год назад +7

      True

    • @caesar3909
      @caesar3909 Год назад +11

      Around the time when the west was desegregating is when apartheid was starting so you can't compare SA with the UK or Canda. The histories & current circumstances are completely different

    • @lungamadoda6992
      @lungamadoda6992 Год назад +8

      @@caesar3909 your point? I did say South Africa has a long way to go.

    • @Elross_
      @Elross_ Год назад +2

      ​@@caesar3909 Wich is why the comment was right

    • @accountretired9479
      @accountretired9479 Год назад

      Black South African ladies date and sleep with anyone and everyone as long as they pay, so of course you not going to have a problem with interracial dating

  • @Calmacalma11
    @Calmacalma11 Год назад +43

    My dad is white, and my mom is white, and I was born, raised and still live in Hillbrow, Johannesburg. My primary school was in the kasi and was practically 90% black with the odd coloured and Indian. So since early, I've only ever found black women attractive. And considering where I live, I'm probably going to end up having mixed kids.

    • @miss_phudding2118
      @miss_phudding2118 3 месяца назад +1

      And you know what, that's absolutely ok. ❤

    • @ReiLew
      @ReiLew 2 месяца назад +3

      As you should bro. Get yourself a Black Woman💯

  • @sweetness.shongwe6612
    @sweetness.shongwe6612 Год назад +179

    As a person who’s been in an interracial relationship (black and Indian) for 3 years and some change now, in the beginning the “disgusted” “rude” stares would really get to us but now it’s really whatever we don’t pay attention to it anymore and yes it still happens. We’ve even faced racial discrimination in public places.

    • @christid5838
      @christid5838 Год назад

      My friend in Sweden reckons (from the SA society in Stockholm) a cord girl from Upington married a Swede and says she’s more used to it, but when her mum visited, she said people are looking everywhere they go. I also had a card GF in London who visited her Polish BF and said people were positively gawking. It happens I think. Most importantly is, as you obviously can, to live through it. I think if people would act self consciously it could actually kill a relationship. (I have an Afrikaans friend who only dates women up to close to 20 years older than him who’s mother was harping on about “all my friends”, he was saying give them my number if they want to ask me something.😜)

    • @christid5838
      @christid5838 Год назад

      Card or whatever they come up with is my autocue for khullid,, my machine can’t edit on YT, unfortunately.

    • @yoniem9835
      @yoniem9835 Год назад +6

      I'm in a long term relationship with Indian guy I know exactly what you talking about

    • @gstar3569
      @gstar3569 Год назад +1

      do you really get stares? I can imagine the older generation but the people in my circles really couldn't care!

    • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960
      @oreochocolate_lavacake9960 Год назад

      Oh gosh I'm so sorry ❤

  • @MillyMolz
    @MillyMolz Год назад +61

    I'm a Black SAn woman dating a man of Indian descend. In the spaces we go to, we don't get comments much but when we do, it's always positive. We're making process as a people. 😊

    • @HonkeyKong54
      @HonkeyKong54 Год назад

      Nobody's gonna bat an eye over that imo. In my experience it's usually whites and blacks together that cause the most sht.

    • @cynthiadagama9303
      @cynthiadagama9303 Год назад +6

      It's difficult between black women and indian men especially if u live in the townships. 💔

    • @DearBill
      @DearBill 3 дня назад

      Have to be honest , colored and black people share lot of struggles in common.
      And being black requires you are a colored person.
      The fact is really dislike is sometimes light skinned Middle Easterner can be perceived as White (especially in Brazil , which is very untrue) while it is more appropriate to consider them as BROWN people such as Australia , France or South Africa.

  • @millie8311
    @millie8311 Год назад +66

    As someone who is in interracial marriage in South Africa honestly its only young generation that are not racist about it the way people stare at us 🤣🤣🤣I realized they not as open as they say they are one person told me I must think careful of the consequences of my actions 😂😂 haibo why cant 2 humans love each other despite they color I say its the mindset It is really sad I was told once to not teach my kids one of my African languages and he should speak his fathers language its so sick I mean he has the right to learn any language he wants whether its the African or Afrikaans or English language😔

  • @abdultheartist
    @abdultheartist Год назад +186

    As some who has been in an interracial relationship. I believe the cultural divide is the biggest con. Everything else is chilled

    • @euphonie8693
      @euphonie8693 Год назад +2

      Yup

    • @cosispokethetruth2400
      @cosispokethetruth2400 Год назад

      Only a Christian would say such a thing

    • @janrdoh
      @janrdoh Год назад +2

      Yeah I have had plenty "hook ups" so to speak but long term cultural differences make long term less appealing. Maybe if I was actually looking for long term relations even within my own race it would make a difference but right now I am not.

    • @suezcontours6653
      @suezcontours6653 Год назад +11

      @@euphonie8693 Lots of black girls love white men in South Africa. Trust me the cultural divide doesn't exist except in Politics.

    • @euphonie8693
      @euphonie8693 Год назад +2

      @@suezcontours6653 Great to hear😊

  • @justine3268
    @justine3268 Год назад +54

    Great video !! Funny, interesting and so relevant ! Loved what the dog had to say😂

  • @filmsbynix
    @filmsbynix Год назад +28

    My parents never cared, my grandparents and great grandparents were in inter racial relationships (white, Asian, coloured). What's important in my family is religion

  • @mgdolbey212
    @mgdolbey212 Год назад +35

    I'm white my fiance is black my best friend is black when my and i woman started dating I lost some friendships she did too but all that did was show us that we are together because we share a bond deeper than being worried about what people think about us in recent times I've noticed that people don't stare as much as they used to anyway be with the person that completes you it doesn't matter what culture they are from

  • @Capie
    @Capie Год назад +104

    Been in an interracial relationship for 18 months ... got a lot of negative stares and a lot of negative comments from black people! We tried to make fun of it. The cultural differences is a big thing to be tollerant of!

    • @tyali84
      @tyali84 Год назад +34

      I have been in interracial dating almost all of my life. It is surprising that you got a lot of negative from Black people because it is rare to find my people being defeatist about that sort of thing. Yes Black people will stare from curiosity but they rarely utter anything negative. I find that White people are the one's who have a bigger problem seeing and accepting interracial dating. This is something we have discussed with my friends who are also in interracial relations; we noticed that Caucasian families and population are the one's not fully comfortable with the idea.

    • @yeahyeahwowman8099
      @yeahyeahwowman8099 Год назад

      @@tyali84 more dismissive is something I'm not so sure about. Sure maybe against black people, Indians, Mexicans, especially asians usually want the same thing. Sort of a difference between people talking crap online as opposed to yelling crap in public. In my defense, you are more likely to see a black dude with a white women in public than a white dude with a black girl, when somethings not as common, people have more of a tendency to get mouthy in public.

    • @icringealotnowadays973
      @icringealotnowadays973 Год назад +7

      @@tyali84 I’ve been in an interracial relationship for 6 years now and this is nothing but the truth!

    • @vikaphelokazi9096
      @vikaphelokazi9096 Год назад

      @@yeahyeahwowman8099 Where are you from?

    • @yeahyeahwowman8099
      @yeahyeahwowman8099 Год назад

      @@vikaphelokazi9096 from California. From that are you gonna form some kind of statement like, well that's a liberal place or something, lol.

  • @unathiradebe5786
    @unathiradebe5786 Год назад +13

    "White girls are HOT!", with his zulu accent, i'm cryingggg😭😭😭

  • @jacknicolas9373
    @jacknicolas9373 Год назад +39

    My father is white and is married to a black woman and gave me two awesome and beautiful mixed sisters. My uncle is also white and married to a black woman. If you really like eachother it's 100% fine. I think the reason there is so many people who hold back from interracial dating is because of what others might think like family or friends or even just random people. Also some people don't want their children to be mixed for many reasons. I am mostly attracted to light brown skin that some colourds and indians have. That caramel colour is just so hypnotizing.

    • @osiamelebogo
      @osiamelebogo Год назад

      “That caramel colour is hypnotising” you just like me fr🤟🏾🤣

    • @Dlo_Chess1_1
      @Dlo_Chess1_1 Год назад +1

      Y’all sound like y’all just fetishizing mixed kids

  • @sandiledube279
    @sandiledube279 Год назад +29

    Bro I'm black & one of my closest friends are white & we still get questionable looks in public. Interracial friendships are still quite controversial. Country needs a lot of work culturally.

    • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960
      @oreochocolate_lavacake9960 Год назад +3

      For real though I'm black and one of my best friends is Indian-Pakistani and some people in my family who are racist always make rude comments about her so we often just go to her house or someplace else

  • @zekiel8342
    @zekiel8342 Год назад +21

    I find that it's mostly older people that are usually hostile towards these kinds of relationships..stemming from the fact that apartheid ended just 28 years ago..even if it ended 100 years ago it would probably still be similar ..as long as there are ignorant people on this earth racism will never stop. Most of us are brought up in racist environments which cause us to become racist ourselves because as children we watch what other people say and do and it affects us as we get older. It is up to us to raise our children in the correct way.

  • @pierre2898
    @pierre2898 Год назад +40

    Been married to my Zulu wife for 8 years now. We have 3 beautiful kids. It seems that most people are worried about their family accepting their partner and this usually leads to never taking the relationship the whole way. We luckily have really open-minded direct family.

    • @lwazivanstaden8571
      @lwazivanstaden8571 9 месяцев назад +1

      A 'human' wife not a 'Zulu' wife.

    • @blobby.the.fat.dinosaur
      @blobby.the.fat.dinosaur 7 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@lwazivanstaden8571what they were talking about was the ZULU CULTURE and just saying HUMAN doesn't bring the point across

  • @thetubee8139
    @thetubee8139 Год назад +33

    I was watching this video alone then one of my friends joined me he then said it changed his life we decided to watch it on an overhead projector with the whole community. Everyone's life was impacted bro thanks for changing our lives.

  • @fatudaniel7301
    @fatudaniel7301 Год назад +3

    More videos please Noah. Your RUclips channel is GROWING!

  • @1HourOf.
    @1HourOf. Год назад +2

    Great content. You thought out the box with this topic👏👏👏

  • @njblegopersonal2668
    @njblegopersonal2668 Год назад +31

    My parents were amongst the first for interracial relationships in the 'new ZA' but they just happened to fall in love and embraced each other's culture. They taught me both perspectives. People are still judgemental and assuming. I still think there is comfort in finding someone with the same culture, depends community you grew up in since it gives you a frame of reference of what to look for. It's also easier to embrace someone else's identity if you don't have one of your own.

  • @bloomingthoughts_
    @bloomingthoughts_ Год назад +42

    Interesting video. I think the biggest barriers lie in the history of our country.This has brought about superiority and/ inferiority complexes amongst the races. And past scars and how we grow up influences how we relate to other races which can either hinder or encourage us to explore relationships outside our norm. But I think love is love outside of race or cultural differences.

    • @suezcontours6653
      @suezcontours6653 Год назад +4

      definitely would encourage black women to date out more. Race loyalty didn't do the black Americans any favours. It's actually used to diminish them.

    • @respectknuckles428
      @respectknuckles428 Год назад

      @@suezcontours6653 WE ARE TOGETHER!! 80% HOW THE HELL DID YOU GET FROM SOUTH AFRICA TO US FBA'S???

    • @leigh4326
      @leigh4326 Год назад +1

      @@suezcontours6653 no sorry Suez, this isn’t about race loyalty. Black men in South Africa love and respect Black women. When that discrimination of Black women came through it came from the US with a yo-yo called Da Les but it didn’t take off. I’m married interracially to an American but not because I was never cherished by my own in South Africa. I just happened to meet him overseas at school but other than that our Black love stories aren’t struggle stories. Young Black men become successful and marry young Black women it’s not taboo. I just don’t like how people think to love your own is a fashion statement or loyalty campaign. Angeke 😅 you guys don’t bother the anti-Black squads in our country whom keep to themselves.

  • @rachelmhlanga100
    @rachelmhlanga100 Год назад +2

    🔥🔥🔥the content I’ve been waiting to consume🔥🔥🔥proper innit

  • @laonemanyeula
    @laonemanyeula Год назад +19

    Honestly this is not a big deal in the UK, met my white husband in England and been together going 11 years now. We now live in Berlin with our son and have never had any problems.

  • @reorapetsemekgoe248
    @reorapetsemekgoe248 Год назад +2

    Yohhh❤your content is amaazzziiinnnggg🎉

  • @dawoodwilliams3652
    @dawoodwilliams3652 Год назад +52

    Interracial dating and marriage in SA is still taboo in many spheres.
    But the real determining factor to most would be culture and religion.
    hence even if people from the same race would date or marry, it can still be a point of contention to many families because of the cultural differences.

    • @Kelo.Nomndayi
      @Kelo.Nomndayi Год назад +17

      Language also plays a major role😅 sometimes English data bundles run out

    • @nhloniphoingqwele5433
      @nhloniphoingqwele5433 Год назад +5

      I don't think so . I believe the white community really needs to learn to be more human it's 2022 . Calling white girls names ( KfC) k being THE K word . For dating black guys. Also the Afrikaans community is very racist I don't think it's differences In culture or religion I strongly believe it's who they are .

    • @Huios1000
      @Huios1000 Год назад +4

      I don’t think it has to do with religion, culture or language barrier. Apartheid never ended, it’s still very much alive in the hearts and minds of whites.

    • @ashton1952
      @ashton1952 Год назад +1

      @@nhloniphoingqwele5433 Agree, English can be just as racist just more skilled at hiding it.

    • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960
      @oreochocolate_lavacake9960 Год назад

      The thing is from my experience I actually realised that even though we're different races and cultures they actually are similar and you end respecting eachother much more when you learn about them particularly in black,coloured and indian(Asian) context

  • @ipostsongs5305
    @ipostsongs5305 Год назад +3

    Dope video, i love the music too, you should totally do a spottily playlist.

  • @nottolearnbuttouse
    @nottolearnbuttouse Год назад +3

    i like the vibe there. well made video :)

  • @brendadickson9583
    @brendadickson9583 Год назад +2

    Love this video we should love whoever we want n love has no colour Thank you Noah good job

  • @ntsikayesizweboqwana3758
    @ntsikayesizweboqwana3758 Год назад +1

    Man I love the way you striking conversation socially with such unspoken topic big ups bro more success

  • @sammpaul
    @sammpaul Год назад +3

    Good video and the editing is so good. Keep it up! W Noah.

  • @lordmartin6769
    @lordmartin6769 Год назад +6

    the Quality of your videos is insane........ the editing style keeps me hooked....usually interview videos like this get boring half way through

  • @a7super_07
    @a7super_07 Год назад +2

    A video about my country,thank you!

  • @aqeelahsharmar07
    @aqeelahsharmar07 Год назад +2

    This is insane !!!! Good job

  • @PhelisaG
    @PhelisaG Год назад +54

    Even though I have always been in school with white people, even at university and have never really experienced much racism except when I was at Stellnbosch university, dating a white South African seems crazy. I don't know I just don't trust the sincerity but I guess it's because maybe I have never met people who were genuinely nice to me. I can be friends with them, but there has been such a divide that I am like no.

    • @kiaranilraj9469
      @kiaranilraj9469 Год назад +3

      Same! We get the most stares and whispers in stellies 🙈

    • @anthonytesla8382
      @anthonytesla8382 Год назад +3

      @@kiaranilraj9469 Stellies is hell on Earth for black students apparently

    • @nkhensanimakhuba9631
      @nkhensanimakhuba9631 Год назад +3

      Why do black people apply to Stellies knowing full well that there is racism there???? Because it seems like Stellnbosh is not willing to change the systematic racism there, so why go there??? I’m not trying to be rude or anything, it’s just out of curiosity.

    • @twon8019
      @twon8019 Год назад +1

      @@nkhensanimakhuba9631 honestly, imagine fighting the academic demons and racism😭😭 yoh Mina I’d never, I’m all for fighting racism but at a safe distance, and you’ll be fighting alone against a group of white people, considering that black people in South Africa are divided, a black person would literally do nothing if they saw a fellow black being terrorised by a white man because it doesn’t affect them

    • @PhelisaG
      @PhelisaG Год назад +1

      @@nkhensanimakhuba9631 Racicsm is everywhere even at work and that was not going to stop me from studying what I wanted there. In my time there I had 1 racist encounter which was enough and that could have happened anywhere.

  • @soultouchingtimelessrecord9523
    @soultouchingtimelessrecord9523 Год назад +1

    DOPE CONTENT BRO, KEEP IT COMING

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    Gained yourself a subscriber, content seems very diverse from what I've always seen on the tube.

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    @asafe_space Год назад +1

    This was great❤👏

  • @lethokuhlengidi9425
    @lethokuhlengidi9425 Год назад +1

    Great video man!!🤝

  • @Capetownboy13
    @Capetownboy13 Год назад +23

    As a White boy living in Somerset West, I've never dated a White girl.. Love my black but especially mixed girls

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    @phoenixthenarrator7349 Год назад +2

    This Is Beautiful. This Channel Is Amazing. Lets Start A Revolution Right Here And Start Interracial Relationships And See How It Goes.

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    @omarkassim8662 Год назад +4

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  • @malimlaba6709
    @malimlaba6709 Год назад +1

    the music is phenomenal in this video

  • @tydronlee8214
    @tydronlee8214 Год назад +1

    Back with a banger

  • @euphonie8693
    @euphonie8693 Год назад +3

    Really Good last words ❤

  • @SiyabongaNtshingila
    @SiyabongaNtshingila Год назад

    Damn your videos are crazy good.

  • @Kurt208
    @Kurt208 Год назад +1

    come on man only 3 videos please give us more love ur content

  • @AniqTheGreatKhotle
    @AniqTheGreatKhotle Год назад +20

    The other huge issue about interracial relationships especially here in RSA is language. Dating outside your race or culture means you need to meet each other half way when it comes to language. Speaking English all the time is tiring, you don't even express yourself very well... I've been in an interracial relationship before, and I always preferred everyone speak their own language, home language, but you'll always find yourself gravitating towards English.

    • @christid5838
      @christid5838 Год назад +3

      That is what I would say, yes. I was married to an Englishman from Zim (and you don’t want to think how that lot carried on, no matter I earned more, was better educated, came from a wealthier, educated family-I was Afrikaans basically, though by then practically, but physically a citizen too, British myself). But from my side, that he didn’t share in my SAFFA sense of humour. I had a few African from SA GFs over the years and we got each other’s jokes. And, as you say, my friends found his visits tiresome for having to pack out the half hearted English.

    • @ThandoKING
      @ThandoKING Год назад +5

      @@christid5838 What are you talking about 😂😂😂

    • @deniserobertson4588
      @deniserobertson4588 Год назад

      Shocking response... Throwing a bottle at you😢😢😢

    • @Nghilifa
      @Nghilifa Год назад

      @@ThandoKING She's saying that the cultures were too different to work out, it's not as if every person of european descent share the same culture and cultural values etc, so even though they "looked the same" phenotypically speaking, the differences were to great. That's what I got out of it at least.

    • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960
      @oreochocolate_lavacake9960 Год назад +1

      But then again you do find black people who only speak English or a black person speaks another language that's why I think we need to be a bit more open minded

  • @03mmanu3l5
    @03mmanu3l5 Год назад +1

    kudos to my brother rocking the offerzen shirt 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @madlokovumngadi5159
    @madlokovumngadi5159 Год назад +19

    In my youth which was the early 2000s, I dated a white boy who lived in Hyde Park Johannesburg. He was my first interracial relationship. My family was cool about it except that they didn't want to hang much with us because my family was not fluent in English and the boyfriend didn't speak any vernac either, so the language bearer was the issue. On his side, his mum was super cool, maybe because she was also dating a black biker dude (hahahahahahaha), I loved that woman, may her soul rest in beautiful peace. Unfortunately, after his mom passing, he moved overseas, and I was not willing to move there so it had to end. The only problem were the outsiders, more especially white South Africans. They once threw a bottle at me for dating him.

    • @Calmacalma11
      @Calmacalma11 Год назад

      What's "vernac" ntwana?

    • @madlokovumngadi5159
      @madlokovumngadi5159 Год назад +4

      @@Calmacalma11 vernac is local /indigenous languages such as Zulu, Sotho, Pedi, etc in South Africa

    • @Nghilifa
      @Nghilifa Год назад

      @@madlokovumngadi5159 That's a disrespectful term, vernacular that is.

    • @madlokovumngadi5159
      @madlokovumngadi5159 Год назад

      @@Nghilifa ok. What is the respectful term?

    • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960
      @oreochocolate_lavacake9960 Год назад +2

      ​@@Nghilifa isn't it just the shortened version?

  • @carmenpc6724
    @carmenpc6724 Год назад

    Great Video 🤩

  • @randommrblue3155
    @randommrblue3155 Год назад +6

    Awesome video.
    I for one will date any woman, regardless of colour, as long as she has the personality I'm looking for.

  • @keitumetselekgau4084
    @keitumetselekgau4084 Год назад +16

    People are open to it .It's just that the cultural differences as well as the family reluctance and openness can also be a barrier

  • @slatethegreat_
    @slatethegreat_ Год назад

    Great video!

  • @MANO-mw5iw
    @MANO-mw5iw Год назад +13

    As a young black person in SA, I don't mind dating other races. I don't think the same mindset goes for older generations

    • @DearBill
      @DearBill 3 дня назад

      You can try colored people.

  • @theophilusmokgehle9961
    @theophilusmokgehle9961 Год назад +2

    This was really funny 😹

  • @diyalectic52
    @diyalectic52 Год назад +8

    I've been in two relationships with black men and two relationships with white men, current partner white, going on 4yrs. We definitely get looks, especially when we travel to the more densely white or densely black areas. Coloured people in SA don't look as much at us with that particular facial expression but you do get some curious looks from them. In all my dating life dating people outside my race (Coloured), I only got one comment from an old white man, but everyone else kept their comments to themselves and were kind nevertheless. So, maybe we're making some progress but it doesn't go completely ignored.

  • @Rosette1853
    @Rosette1853 Год назад +17

    Personally speaking i am into interracial dating😂i love your edits by the way😊😊Pulling up at UCT soon ...hope to see you

  • @amomentinsign8337
    @amomentinsign8337 Год назад +1

    stellar!!!

  • @alandav8572
    @alandav8572 Год назад

    Keep em vids comin

  • @yeahyeahwowman8099
    @yeahyeahwowman8099 Год назад +82

    The more the races talk crap about eachother, the harder it will be, end of story. Of course you can fall in love, have your perfect interacial love story, it doesn't erase everything going on around it. It is easy to sit there and say, well it's my choice, so is how everyone else chooses to respond to it.

  • @paulette1482
    @paulette1482 Год назад +4

    Would love to see this at Wits

  • @siyasanga_makie
    @siyasanga_makie Год назад +9

    The kid at 1:46 😂😂😂 with his eyes wide open and whole chest out: “WHITE GIRLS ARE HOT” 😂😂😂 someone please get him a date ♥️

  • @metsepoopedi4327
    @metsepoopedi4327 Год назад

    Absolutely great content and editing. Fantastic. 🤌🏾🤌🏾

  • @hellendiale
    @hellendiale Год назад +7

    Those two are also in an inter-height relationship 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
    #banter

  • @FLIRTATIOUS_NATE
    @FLIRTATIOUS_NATE Год назад +9

    🤣🤣💀wow never thought I would see this happen in South Africa 😂😂💀

  • @rambelanimushaisano
    @rambelanimushaisano Год назад +10

    I think apart from Race and Culture the race politics in South Africa can really affect your relationship if it is not attend to in time.

  • @timothyzulu
    @timothyzulu Год назад

    Awesome stuff mahn.. Watching from the University of Zambia.. UNZA

  • @Rosette1853
    @Rosette1853 Год назад +6

    noah nooo the hookup little thing for the married man killed me😂😂😂😂

  • @phumeza343
    @phumeza343 Год назад +5

    To be honest in our country South Africa interracial relationships still gives stars especially where I'm staying in Cape Town

  • @ivannightly1919
    @ivannightly1919 Год назад +11

    having dated a black woman the only people who bugged us about dating was black men like 1 in 3 had to make some comment no one else cared

  • @temamanikela
    @temamanikela Год назад

    Great video

  • @bankxbrooks
    @bankxbrooks Год назад +3

    That "institutionalized by Kendrick Lamar" beat at the start of the video still slaps 😭

  • @bronwynkraay8863
    @bronwynkraay8863 Год назад +4

    Nande’s laugh>>>>

  • @nadiadomingoselebedi
    @nadiadomingoselebedi Год назад +21

    I’m from Cape Town. In a interracial relationship married for 6 years and I promise to this day we still get stared at. It doesn’t even matter which area we are in, we will get those looks. Sometimes people are genuinely confused and then other times people are just out right assholes and pass comments. And then there’s the people that think my husband stole our son because he has a different skin colour and features than his . It’s wild

    • @millie8311
      @millie8311 Год назад +2

      It is really sad I was told once to not teach my kids on of my African languages and he should speak his fathers language its so sick I mean he has the right to learn any language he wants whether its the African or Afrikaans language😔

    • @shanegovender746
      @shanegovender746 Год назад +2

      @Nadia Domingo Selebedi sometimes the looks are people admiring y'all . I'm indian guy and at 1st it was shocking how many African women were taking an interest in me then after a while of dating 3 African women it just became normal . The cultures are nice , Zulu culture and some other African cultures are similar to mine . I find it's mainly the older people who less accepting or the younger ones like sheep who follow corrupt leaders .

    • @shanegovender746
      @shanegovender746 Год назад +3

      @@millie8311 ignore those people who told you that , teach your kids as many languages as you can . I speak isizulu and some zulus are shocked I can speak their language . I told a Zulu girl her clan praises and she was shocked 😂😂😂 , she said its a shame she knows nothing about my culture . Every time she only asking me to buy her saris , I saw her once with a sari and I thought she was Indian 😂 mean time she's Zulu and no I'm not dating her .

    • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960
      @oreochocolate_lavacake9960 Год назад

      ​​@@millie8311 oh you could even teach them both that way they can even be multilingual and communicate with many people whether in an African language,Afrikaans or English

  • @tondo3000
    @tondo3000 Год назад +4

    KEEP GOING GUYS, MAKE THOSE MIXED RACE BABIES. THE FUTURE

  • @sunflowers_n_coffee
    @sunflowers_n_coffee Год назад +3

    I believe people should love and be with whoever they want to be with regardless of race or culture. If the person has the values you have prayed for then go for it. Life is too short to worry about what people will think. Most people have ended up marrying people who they don't even love or like just to please others. At the end of the day when u are depressed those people that you are trying to please will be busy enjoying their own lives. Love knows no race or culture if its genuine.

  • @gabriellachitamu5096
    @gabriellachitamu5096 Год назад +4

    ITS THE SIMS MUSIC FOR MEEEEE

  • @MrMutant
    @MrMutant Год назад

    U just got another Subscriber

  • @akonampotso9374
    @akonampotso9374 Год назад

    Informative video

  • @sinamisohlongwane6556
    @sinamisohlongwane6556 Год назад +15

    Im a black man and I don't see anything more beautiful then our black women and black love and I think we should grow that a bit more because we have had too many issues in our past and we are still trying to find our feet I would love nothing more then to continue growing South African black love and success and seeing more young black people treating and loving each other better."Abame kancane nabelungu PLEASE!".

    • @glitterrose1810
      @glitterrose1810 Год назад +8

      You’re a black South African man that understands the assignment.

    • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960
      @oreochocolate_lavacake9960 Год назад +3

      I agree black love should be able to prevail and mend our relationships in our community but in terms of intteracial relationships I think we need to build Solidarity in the communities First between Asians,blacks and Coloureds we need to stop talking bad about eachother especially the elders I can't even invite my brown friends over to my house cause of my parents

    • @R.RicardoY
      @R.RicardoY 9 месяцев назад +3

      Everyone can marry whichever race they want, no one can stop them, we have right to date who we want, I'm not a ppl pleaser 😂😂😂😂

  • @lifeOFzeff
    @lifeOFzeff Год назад +5

    Im white my wife is coloured. We moved from houtbay to St Helena bay. We realised fast that St Helena bay was thee most racist place I've ever been in.

  • @refiloekotu4933
    @refiloekotu4933 Год назад +5

    This was exciting to watch, of course people are
    open to dating outside their races when they're asked versus in reality.
    Obviously there's a lot where that comes from...
    If a white person said they're not interested in black women at all, people will be quick to classify that person as "racist", totally overlooking preference... I think interracial relationships can be normal if both partners don't make it weird for each other.

    • @christid5838
      @christid5838 Год назад +1

      That is true. I was in an African expat group in London (was actually the only W one, come to think of it, and the thing was more, I “prefer”…

  • @lkayngobese_
    @lkayngobese_ Год назад +1

    Why are you asking the dog though?🤣❤️

  • @ho-ney205
    @ho-ney205 Год назад +4

    I think south africa got better in terms of interactional relationship cause this new generation i mean 2000s they don't care they date each other as long as they have feelings for each
    At this school that i used to got to they were a lot of black n white and indian honestly

  • @sanah6933
    @sanah6933 Год назад +7

    I'm open to interracial dating as long that individual is not born raised in SA
    I have lost hope for other races in SA the gutter. That's my opinion

  • @khulekanimalele5652
    @khulekanimalele5652 Год назад +12

    I think it's easier for people to date or sleep with other races just for bucket list or the experience of it. But when it comes to marriage they prefer their own bcoz they understand their struggles. that's just my opinion

    • @zimumuhlemachika4184
      @zimumuhlemachika4184 Год назад +1

      That's a deep point to raise..bucket list vs commitment

    • @Calmacalma11
      @Calmacalma11 Год назад +1

      Mara for me I'm already mixed so I don't have my own people, so I may as well marry someone of a different race. And anyways, I've always found black women the most attractive, and for me personally I have the best friendships with black girls. Angazi how to talk to white girls

    • @khulekanimalele5652
      @khulekanimalele5652 Год назад

      @@Calmacalma11 just imagine arguing in english, nah it doesn't have that vibe lol, try mixed girls also u can understand each other better

    • @Nghilifa
      @Nghilifa Год назад +2

      @@Calmacalma11 You said your parents were white in another post, but here you say you're mixed, which one is it?
      "My dad is white, and my mom is white, and I was born, raised and still live in Hillbrow, Johannesburg. My primary school was in the kasi and was practically 90% black with the odd coloured and Indian. So since early, I've only ever found black women attractive. And considering where I live, I'm probably going to end up having mixed kids."

    • @Calmacalma11
      @Calmacalma11 Год назад

      @@Nghilifa my mom is Korean ntwana. My dad is white

  • @user-nr6cd2ex9n
    @user-nr6cd2ex9n Год назад +1

    It’s nice seeing y’all ladies taking back the land ✊✊ power to you ladies 🔥🎉

  • @ivanpuz3907
    @ivanpuz3907 Год назад +3

    I saw a lot of beautiful women in the video. This one indian girl is stunning.
    We don't have this kind of diversity over here.
    Greetings from Croatia

  • @Johan01-w3c
    @Johan01-w3c Год назад +22

    Being in an interracial relationship myself for over 5 years, white/coloured. Situations/stares/remarks/people will only get you down if you let them. Do you, f@&# the rest. If the person makes you happy, fufilll your needs as a partner go ahead

    • @suezcontours6653
      @suezcontours6653 Год назад +2

      white and colored? I don't think that counts. You're already mixed with white so.... Coloreds are descendents of the original white settlers.

    • @yldan1753
      @yldan1753 Год назад

      ​@@suezcontours6653 now that's some hectic ignorance. Educate yourself friend. You're probably the oak at the braai that makes a fool of himself when he opens his mouth

    • @cynthiadagama9303
      @cynthiadagama9303 Год назад

      @@suezcontours6653 👀also descendants of the original black Africans..

  • @louishenn3028
    @louishenn3028 Год назад +7

    Most of the people in this video are very young and, therefore, very progressive. If you ask older demographics what they think the answers will probably start to differ.

  • @queyoung754
    @queyoung754 Год назад +1

    I see what you kinda did there with the brother from Washington DC, I swear Americans can just talk ona beat & it'll sound🔥 3:15

  • @ronaldoganne8133
    @ronaldoganne8133 Год назад

    When is the next vid coming out Noah?

  • @asaplee28
    @asaplee28 Год назад +1

    Coloureds been running the country now our very own sisters are coming back hard🔥😍

  • @kiaranilraj9469
    @kiaranilraj9469 Год назад +4

    I've been in my fair share of interracial relationships and I'm currently in an interracial marriage. Like all relationships it's about compromise, keeping an open mind and having the willingness to teach and learn. But ngl the constant stares and whispers get very annoying also when someone of the same ethnicity think they can "steal" your partner away smh 🙈

  • @larrynivren8139
    @larrynivren8139 Год назад +4

    There are no "races" WE ALL are just HUMANS.... just love who loves YOU too......