I’m 71, single, nice brokerage account, fit, healthy and do four International trips a year, most recently in Italy hiking the Alps, date occasionally but not looking for a relationship or marriage… very happy 😊
That sounds like a wonderful approach to the New Year! Embracing companionship and new connections can bring so much joy and excitement. It's great that you're starting this new chapter with a clean slate and a positive outlook. How are you doing today?🥰
Hello, what I have found out is many men my age of 64 soon to be 65 want a young woman. They can't keep up with me but they want a 30, 40, or 50-year. 🙂 I am glad you talked about this because this has been my experience.
younger women. I do think we men over 50 are foolish for pursuing younger women because doing that means we miss out on dating ladies our own age who are interesting, accomplished, sexy and even glamorous ?
@@johnballard6725 that may what be what you want John. But don't shame other men for what they want. It's not illegal for an older man to desire a younger woman. It's not your problem. Who cares? There are much bigger problems in the world to worry about than SOME older man like in a woman.
Hello, I'm new to your channel and I'v enever hard that phrase before, lol... I'm just returing from Arizona and they are very healthy out there; no need for a nurse with a purse.
I’m a young 66. I’ve retired twice, but still working. I’m definitely looking for an exclusive relationship that will develop into marriage. I’m trusting God.
63F. Another great video! Nice tip on the over 50-60 dances. I love to dance so will try that. I am curious about your own experience with not taking dating experiences too seriously especially when you are going through some of the rude behavior typical to OLD (online dating) ghosting, breadcrumbing, etc. How were you able to keep your head up after a string of these? I was using OLD for a while and grew exhausted by all of the rude behavior and as a result I did make some mistakes, settling for a man who I knew was not right for me. I have learned so much about what I want in a romantic relationship so ended the relationship . I am now single, but desire companionship. I am trusting God to guide my steps and I am putting some action into place as well. I want to combine IRL with OLD but the online dating thing makes me leery. Thanks for reading/responding. Blessings💕
Happy New Year! It sounds like you have been through a lot and you are right. Now you know what you do want. In the beginning I spent a lot of time on sites that didn't stay within the parameters that I set and I ended up chatting and wasting time with Men on the other side of the country. Most of them were only wanting a penpal. If you are out and about and around a lot of people all of the time then you won't need to do the online thing. Like you said though, it doesn't hurt to combine them. Most of my experience with online dating was really positive so I hope its that way for you too, this time around!
I'd say - stick to what you know you want and what you desire in a mate. Make a list, check it twice [oh wait - that's a song!] - and stick to it. Write down your must haves, and also your "won't do's", so you have a fall back to check with your self and don't get distracted or side tracked by men that trigger your chemical reactions and/or emotional hurt responses. At our age, time's too short to waste on someone we intuitively know is really not a good fit, and so is the time required to come back from another failed relationship to try again...
I love your high vibration and awesome attitude towards dating & life overall. I'm in my early 50s and I must say that you have given me some hope. I'm currently single and I would absolutely love to be in a committed and loving relationship with a man with whom we're on the same wavelength. I pray that with the help of therapy, I'll have the courage to date again....I'm scared to be honest...been hurt & disappointed before. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@vivianjohnson94 Thank you for your question! I talked a little bit about where to meet people at the end of this video. So watch it all the way to the end.
Also check with your local city services. City ran Senior Centers have activities like pickle ball, table tennis, line dancing, card games, conversation groups. Join a local one❤. There are several where I live.
These men are not trying to get to know people. They look at the outer appearance .they really dont want to see a persons heart. I enjoy going out and enjoying myself . I dont want to ever let a man think im desperate for a man. Some of these men are very emotional.
My ex husband 77 just moved in with woman he left me for, she's 55. I'm 69. he was definitely looking for younger supply for his last rollercoaster ride. Me I don't trust any of the men anymore
I don’t fear this dating over 60 thing at all. I’m no nurse and keeping my purse clutched😂, but finding healthy men my age is quite the task. I’ve tried dating up to 16 years younger, but they have their own issues. I dance but those old dudes 🤦🏾♀️ I’m thinking about starting a Sexy 60 group in hopes to cast my net a little further. Sometimes you need to launch out into the deep.
😮I don't believe that men over 60 are looking for a nurse/purse/cook. They want an attractive interesting companion to share experiences with and of course a little bit of physical touch sex and appreciation is a nice to have.
I'm sorry to hear you're a widow as it's never easy to lose a loved one. I felt like my life has come to an end the time my wife passed away. But then God show up. I have just one son which made everything difficult then, but he's now a grown up🥰 God has been so good to me! How are you doing today?
@@PatThomas-r3w I totally understand you Pat. I feel that way the period my wife passed away, though my job keeps me busy always☺ I'm here for you if you need a company to keep yourself busy and not to overthink please🥰
Gosh - you cracked me up!!! When you go through enough people... I know you didn't mean to say it like that, but that was so funny! That nurse with a purse thing - it goes both ways. And in all reality and actuality - we are getting older, and we're - sooner or later for most of us - will have some health issues, and if we are lucky to have a partner - we want to be babied and taken care off when we are down. From minor to normal aging problems, the cold or the flue, to possibly debilitating, life changing or even life ending things. It is what it is, and there is no figuring that out ahead of time, unless the person you're dating is already unwell or sick. For most of us - one minute you're fine and as well as your body can be, subject to your age - and the next minute you catch something as debilitating as the initial rounds of covid have been - when people died to the right and left of it, or complications arising from it. I survived it, but my life energy + endurance have not been the same since. It's the same as getting hit in a car accident, or not watching your step and falling over the dog, the cat or a grandchild. You can plan out and select a partner carefully in advance, until life happens. Are you going to walk, when your partner steps on the rake or hoe and hurts him/herself, slips on the winter ice and breaks something, develops cancer or has some other debilitating illness? I do agree with you about not going out and meeting enough people though. Like anything in life - it's a numbers game of averages, with a sprinkle of good luck, opportunity and the intuition and/or awareness when you meet someone who could be a good match. How many times are we out and about, running errands and totally miss that someone is looking at us, or smiling at us, or keeps contra walking us in the grocery store aisle, in the coffee shop or at the gas station? How long does it take you to realize that you just missed the opportunity to have had a nice little talk, practice smiling or making small talk - until you're back at home and start unloading your car? Or do you catch it while still in situ and while you have a chance to correct your oversight? And then finally - are you bold enough to take action??? I think that is why we're still single - not enough action taking [or going through people, LOL]...
@@JohnMarkson-w3d Foggy, gray and chilly. Oh wait - that's the weather outside my window! I'm wonderful - thank you for asking. How's it where you are??? Snowed in + iced out or smoked out by the wildfires?
@@ssiegreen5292 It sounds like quite the wintry scene outside your window! I'm glad to hear you're feeling wonderful. As for me, I'm in a place where the weather is always just right! 😉 I hope you have a cozy day indoors. If you need anything to brighten the gray, just let me know. Stay warm and take care! 🌨❄😊
@@JohnMarkson-w3d Actually - I'm in GA in the south - and pretty much the entire state is holding it's collective breath to see if we get snow this weekend. State of Emergency actions are already pre-planned if there should be an elusive snowflake making an appearance somewhere close to us here. I keep getting the weirdest google notifications on my phone about it. Personally I always think it's hilarious [I'm originally from Germany and used to snowy winters] - but people here in the south either act like it's the end of the world or they get overly excited when it snows. I honestly couldn't care more or less, I'm keeping my butt home this weekend, LOL. I'm fine with all the others driving in [possibly non-existing] snow and creating pile-ups because they don't know how to drive in it... My heart goes out to all the ppl up north and out in Cali though! My neighborhood got hit with Hurricane Helene pretty bad and we were without power + internet for a week +++ - so I have a new understanding of what it's like to be stuck in a weather catastrophe not of your own making...
@@2late2date-h2tthat is the case no matter what the age group! I have never attended one of those events where there were more men than women at any age.
Where are the men? When I see them, they don't speak they just into working! Into themselves not interested in a relationship marriage being in LOVE ❤❤ AS FOR MYSELF I KNO GOD!!! HAS MY KINGDOM HUSBAND SPIRITUAL ANOINTED SPOUSE COMING!!! I TRUST GOD!!! HE HAS THE PLAN. AMEN!
I’m 71, single, nice brokerage account, fit, healthy and do four International trips a year, most recently in Italy hiking the Alps, date occasionally but not looking for a relationship or marriage… very happy 😊
Happy New Year! Sounds like you have a great life!
😊
I'm 65, Single no mess in my life. Retired. I will be looking for companionship in the New Year!
Happy New Year!
That sounds like a wonderful approach to the New Year! Embracing companionship and new connections can bring so much joy and excitement. It's great that you're starting this new chapter with a clean slate and a positive outlook. How are you doing today?🥰
Hello, what I have found out is many men my age of 64 soon to be 65 want a young woman. They can't keep up with me but they want a 30, 40, or 50-year. 🙂
I am glad you talked about this because this has been my experience.
Who cares what they want? Why is that a problem?
younger women.
I do think we men over 50 are foolish for pursuing younger women because doing that means we
miss out on dating ladies our own age who are interesting, accomplished, sexy and even glamorous ?
@@johnballard6725 that may what be what you want John. But don't shame other men for what they want. It's not illegal for an older man to desire a younger woman. It's not your problem. Who cares? There are much bigger problems in the world to worry about than SOME older man like in a woman.
Hello, I'm new to your channel and I'v enever hard that phrase before, lol... I'm just returing from Arizona and they are very healthy out there; no need for a nurse with a purse.
I’m a young 66. I’ve retired twice, but still working. I’m definitely looking for an exclusive relationship that will develop into marriage. I’m trusting God.
Happy New Year! Ask and it is given, seek and you shall find. Etc!
Amen!
GoodLuck...👁️
Always enjoy your content, thanks for the consistency and the encouragement😊
Thank you so much!
63F. Another great video! Nice tip on the over 50-60 dances. I love to dance so will try that. I am curious about your own experience with not taking dating experiences too seriously especially when you are going through some of the rude behavior typical to OLD (online dating) ghosting, breadcrumbing, etc. How were you able to keep your head up after a string of these? I was using OLD for a while and grew exhausted by all of the rude behavior and as a result I did make some mistakes, settling for a man who I knew was not right for me. I have learned so much about what I want in a romantic relationship so ended the relationship . I am now single, but desire companionship. I am trusting God to guide my steps and I am putting some action into place as well. I want to combine IRL with OLD but the online dating thing makes me leery. Thanks for reading/responding. Blessings💕
Happy New Year! It sounds like you have been through a lot and you are right. Now you know what you do want. In the beginning I spent a lot of time on sites that didn't stay within the parameters that I set and I ended up chatting and wasting time with Men on the other side of the country. Most of them were only wanting a penpal. If you are out and about and around a lot of people all of the time then you won't need to do the online thing. Like you said though, it doesn't hurt to combine them. Most of my experience with online dating was really positive so I hope its that way for you too, this time around!
I'd say - stick to what you know you want and what you desire in a mate. Make a list, check it twice [oh wait - that's a song!] - and stick to it. Write down your must haves, and also your "won't do's", so you have a fall back to check with your self and don't get distracted or side tracked by men that trigger your chemical reactions and/or emotional hurt responses. At our age, time's too short to waste on someone we intuitively know is really not a good fit, and so is the time required to come back from another failed relationship to try again...
Hopefully after I’ve gone through a lot of people I’ll find “ the One”…it’s a numbers game too…
Nice try, Paull!
I agree
That goes both ways
I need a friend a decent friend.
Happy New Year! That's a great thing to focus on. Finding a good friend!
I love your high vibration and awesome attitude towards dating & life overall. I'm in my early 50s and I must say that you have given me some hope. I'm currently single and I would absolutely love to be in a committed and loving relationship with a man with whom we're on the same wavelength. I pray that with the help of therapy, I'll have the courage to date again....I'm scared to be honest...been hurt & disappointed before. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
@@poetrygirl5309 Welcome to the channel. I hope it helps.
Yeah,
It's a shame, in dis world We live in, can't Trust No one..
We have to look at everyone as
Suspect.....fa real...everybody..👁️
Where do you meet older men at? , because I’m going to be honest the dating app is crazy for me
@@vivianjohnson94 Thank you for your question! I talked a little bit about where to meet people at the end of this video. So watch it all the way to the end.
At home, on the couch 🛋️
Watching t.v.....you asked🤣🤣👁️
Excellent
Also check with your local city services. City ran Senior Centers have activities like pickle ball, table tennis, line dancing, card games, conversation groups. Join a local one❤. There are several where I live.
@@jerryrobinson8570 Thank You! Great idea!
These men are not trying to get to know people. They look at the outer appearance .they really dont want to see a persons heart. I enjoy going out and enjoying myself . I dont want to ever let a man think im desperate for a man. Some of these men are very emotional.
My ex husband 77 just moved in with woman he left me for, she's 55. I'm 69. he was definitely looking for younger supply for his last rollercoaster ride. Me I don't trust any of the men anymore
@@conniewingo5844 Thank You for sharing! You’ve definitely gone through a terrible thing. I know it’s hard, but not all men are like your ex!
He ain't got nothing, and neither does she!
Know you got some, good stuff on you...🤣🤣🤣j.k.
I don’t fear this dating over 60 thing at all. I’m no nurse and keeping my purse clutched😂, but finding healthy men my age is quite the task. I’ve tried dating up to 16 years younger, but they have their own issues. I dance but those old dudes 🤦🏾♀️ I’m thinking about starting a Sexy 60 group in hopes to cast my net a little further. Sometimes you need to launch out into the deep.
@@joyfulwog4306 That’s an awesome idea!
Yeah, start your group
😮I don't believe that men over 60 are looking for a nurse/purse/cook. They want an attractive interesting companion to share experiences with and of course a little bit of physical touch sex and appreciation is a nice to have.
That's right
I thought the saying was nurse (older man looking for someone to care for them) OR a purse ( young man looking for a woman to take care of them.)
👏🏾Good Information!👏🏾
@@EthelRLee thank you and happy new year!
I’m 66 retired not really looking. Widow since 2021.
Happy New Year! So glad you’re doing well!
I'm sorry to hear you're a widow as it's never easy to lose a loved one. I felt like my life has come to an end the time my wife passed away. But then God show up. I have just one son which made everything difficult then, but he's now a grown up🥰 God has been so good to me! How are you doing today?
It’s still little rough with Holidays. Only with time.
@@PatThomas-r3w I totally understand you Pat. I feel that way the period my wife passed away, though my job keeps me busy always☺ I'm here for you if you need a company to keep yourself busy and not to overthink please🥰
Weekend meet and greet!🤔
@@bobfisher-zd2lt Happy New Year! I love that idea!
🎉❤Great information
Thank You So Much!
Gosh - you cracked me up!!! When you go through enough people... I know you didn't mean to say it like that, but that was so funny!
That nurse with a purse thing - it goes both ways. And in all reality and actuality - we are getting older, and we're - sooner or later for most of us - will have some health issues, and if we are lucky to have a partner - we want to be babied and taken care off when we are down. From minor to normal aging problems, the cold or the flue, to possibly debilitating, life changing or even life ending things. It is what it is, and there is no figuring that out ahead of time, unless the person you're dating is already unwell or sick. For most of us - one minute you're fine and as well as your body can be, subject to your age - and the next minute you catch something as debilitating as the initial rounds of covid have been - when people died to the right and left of it, or complications arising from it. I survived it, but my life energy + endurance have not been the same since. It's the same as getting hit in a car accident, or not watching your step and falling over the dog, the cat or a grandchild. You can plan out and select a partner carefully in advance, until life happens. Are you going to walk, when your partner steps on the rake or hoe and hurts him/herself, slips on the winter ice and breaks something, develops cancer or has some other debilitating illness?
I do agree with you about not going out and meeting enough people though. Like anything in life - it's a numbers game of averages, with a sprinkle of good luck, opportunity and the intuition and/or awareness when you meet someone who could be a good match. How many times are we out and about, running errands and totally miss that someone is looking at us, or smiling at us, or keeps contra walking us in the grocery store aisle, in the coffee shop or at the gas station? How long does it take you to realize that you just missed the opportunity to have had a nice little talk, practice smiling or making small talk - until you're back at home and start unloading your car? Or do you catch it while still in situ and while you have a chance to correct your oversight? And then finally - are you bold enough to take action??? I think that is why we're still single - not enough action taking [or going through people, LOL]...
@@ssiegreen5292 thank you for taking the time to comment! You make many really really good points!
Hello there, how are you doing today?
@@JohnMarkson-w3d Foggy, gray and chilly. Oh wait - that's the weather outside my window! I'm wonderful - thank you for asking. How's it where you are??? Snowed in + iced out or smoked out by the wildfires?
@@ssiegreen5292 It sounds like quite the wintry scene outside your window! I'm glad to hear you're feeling wonderful. As for me, I'm in a place where the weather is always just right! 😉
I hope you have a cozy day indoors. If you need anything to brighten the gray, just let me know. Stay warm and take care! 🌨❄😊
@@JohnMarkson-w3d Actually - I'm in GA in the south - and pretty much the entire state is holding it's collective breath to see if we get snow this weekend. State of Emergency actions are already pre-planned if there should be an elusive snowflake making an appearance somewhere close to us here. I keep getting the weirdest google notifications on my phone about it. Personally I always think it's hilarious [I'm originally from Germany and used to snowy winters] - but people here in the south either act like it's the end of the world or they get overly excited when it snows. I honestly couldn't care more or less, I'm keeping my butt home this weekend, LOL. I'm fine with all the others driving in [possibly non-existing] snow and creating pile-ups because they don't know how to drive in it...
My heart goes out to all the ppl up north and out in Cali though! My neighborhood got hit with Hurricane Helene pretty bad and we were without power + internet for a week +++ - so I have a new understanding of what it's like to be stuck in a weather catastrophe not of your own making...
I enjoy dancing .
She needs to be active and financially ready to retire. Not overweight
I dated 3 times since my wife died 6 years ago and they were all narcissistic at best
@@JosephYurush Happy New Year! So sorry to hear that! Where did you meet these women?
Great information!! Maybe you could start a dating over 60 meet and greet?
@ happy new year! I think that’s a great idea. I’ve done it in my area in the past. More women attended than men though.
@@2late2date-h2tthat is the case no matter what the age group! I have never attended one of those events where there were more men than women at any age.
hi
Where are the men? When I see them, they don't speak they just into working! Into themselves not interested in a relationship marriage being in LOVE ❤❤ AS FOR MYSELF I KNO GOD!!! HAS MY KINGDOM HUSBAND SPIRITUAL ANOINTED SPOUSE COMING!!! I TRUST GOD!!! HE HAS THE PLAN.
AMEN!
Have more conversation with men.
Thank you love it been there done that since my husband's death