I agree unc. I was brainwashed by the red pill thinking every woman was promiscuous, until I started to take my self seriously by hitting the gym, learning, working on my side business etc. What I find now, is that women are generally receptive to me and I meet women who have good morals. Like I think men need to step back from all of the opinions online, and just rock with the women who rock with them
Rom, I love that you keep a realistic view on men/women. So many other channels on RUclips make it seem like all women are bad or hoes and all men are bad or no good. There are still great men and women. They are out there doing their thing and keeping it real in all aspects. Your channel keeps hope alive for a lot folks which I love.
A lot of us women with natural hair, short clean nails, slim bodies (no bbls) get picked over for what most men see on social media- wigs, long nails bbls etc bc men think we are boring, not attractive or not the "norm." Social media has really worped our minds 😥
My last girl was skinny and shorty was far from boring 😮💨 it’s crazy cuz I could see the insecurity (her being skinny) and the fact she had that insecurity would make her do extra sexually cuz she would tell herself a thick woman would please me more. So anytime it got sexual she’d do more than average thinking if she didn’t he’s gonna go get a thick girl. Got me thinking bout her startin to miss shawty 😂
I think a lot of guys solely focus on what's being said on social media and the Internet and make that out to be reality, which is why they don't think there's any good women out there. The funny part is when a detractor will see you say that "there are good women out here" and they'll be so quick to try and debunk it. "They're ALL like that!" Bruh not every woman out here is sleeping around 24/7 and doing guys dirty, and there are decent to really good women out here.
Whenever says "All" I ask them how many women they have encountered personally. They usually don't answer the question. I've used the same question with women. They can't answer either.
@@genovasquez8361 so I should trigger them or no? Cuz I noticed the more I trigger women the more they like me/latch onto me. When I don’t trigger them they see me as boring. It’s so dumb. I don’t wanna go around triggering them on purpose 🤦🏾♂️
@@genovasquez8361 damn I really f’ed with my last girl so I made her feel like the greatest thing on earth 🤣 and she started drying up down there but when I treated her like dirt she was gushing. It’s so backwards man
It takes a lot of experience to finally develop the eye. Once I developed it I could look at one picture and know whether a woman was in the Demographic that chose me, her style, and whether she was really a dime or not. After you get the experience you can go out and know which women will be feeling you pretty easily
Hear hear hear!! Your teachings are very good & balanced. I've never heard you (once) speaking bad about women like other content creators. I personally think there are plenty good women out there. It depends where you looking.
Respectfully most broads ain't shit.I was gonna bite my tongue.Í have encountered many women.Only 6 I had long term relationships with.Also it depends on how one defines "good". I'm a upbeat positive person so I know it's not me.I go to many different places outside my neighborhood and I'm not a stereotypical dude.From MY experience I wouldn't say "plenty".I would say "some".I would love to see others share their perspective.The video has alot of merit and useful strategies though.Again this is MY experience.
I'm brainstorming places to meet more women. Working as an engineer is tough since there's barely any women in my field. Tried meetups and noticed the guy to girl ratio is like 20:1 on average. And these guys complain about women. I hate when men complain without a solution. I easily get irritated. Still brainstorming although I'm probably thinking too hard with my migraine as I wrote this comment.
I honestly just want to become the most successful black man that I can be. Imm be done with my bachelors by late March ( my term ends June 1st ). I’m going for my masters starting august 1st. If anyone can give me any advice or words of encouragement I’d appreciate it. Also, I’m currently 22 and in the process of moving to South Dakota because of the Air Force.
Congratulations fellow wingman! I'm in the air national guard currently. Trying to get a career but haven't found it yet. I am improving in life before I signed up. You got this
If I could redo things, I'd go back and join the Air Force after I graduated college. My dad served in the Air Force for double digit years but he wanted me to try to do things the college only route.
Congrats bro! From one young man to another, I say take this time to explore and learn about yourself. By explore I mean that in the literal sense and metaphorical. Try new hobbies that interest you, go to different events and meet new people, etc. I'm 25 and I moved to Indiana at the beginning of this year for a job opportunity. Following the advice I gave you, I've learned so much about myself within the past 9 months. Also, always make time for yourself. I don't have a military background, but I assume life will keep you busy since your part of the Air Force. Even if its an hour, take the time to relax, meditate, or whatever you need to do to disconnect from life at that moment. The stress can sneak up on you if you're not too careful. Once again congratulations and I'm proud both of us for making it this far in life.
@@KamauBarry thanks man! I plan on screenshotting this and going back to it. Yes I am busy but thanks for the information. I’m 22 now and once I move and get set at my next base I plan on doing this.
Eh, it's debatable for me. My issues really stem from the culture this country promotes more than anything. Now, with all that being said, I primarily deal with black women so I do not have too many experiences from women from other races. Anyway, it's not really about if a woman is good or not, but more or less her beliefs, stances on her relationships, self, children, and society. And what I tend to find is while most women are not bad "per se", a lot of them have traits are attitudes that are really undesirable. Like feminist-like mindsets even if they don't say they are feminist, daddy issues, broken, delusional, and just immature behavior in general. With that said, I am not saying there are no good women here. However, this environment does make it harder to find a quality women. Shoot, I work at a gym now doing sales and I was talking to this African Chick from Mali. She was talking about how dating here is trash because most people here date to have fun instead of marriage. She even brought up feminism and a couple of talking points the red pill community usually talks about when I said nothing about it at all. As for me and the women I get with, I don't focus on dating model chicks. The last chick I messed with was more quiet and a homebody. She was like a 5-6 in looks. She was skinny but had a little bit of curves and a lil booty, which I can work with. I did want to get with her cause she had an afro on her profile pic on discord when we were online in tech school and I wanted to smash solely because of that lol. I have a wide range of women I don't mind getting with. Don't get me wrong, I would love to smash a baddie, but as long as your body is somewhat fit and you have curves large or small, we can hookup lol. I am cool with a lot of the chicks I talk to at the gym although I haven't messed with one yet because I work at Gold's Gym and competition is rife lol. But, I have been getting bigger and women seem to love me the more we talk so that's how that rolls lol. One chick we talk about everything about society, feminism, masculinity, and just a lot of deep stuff. I even got her to listen to the audio book for "Awakening the Master Feminine" cause I was telling her about my readings and thoughts on "Awakening the Master Masculine". I digress but at the end of the day, I already decided in my mind that I am going to find a woman overseas (most likely African) or probably interracial since I am getting a lot of attention from Latinas and white women lol. I also don't want to raise kids here because of the things I see going on here. I do get attention from American Black women, but they either play hella games, want to dominate you, or just see you as a good guy (lame). It's the weirdest thing ever since I feel that African women and other races of women view me as select more than women of my own culture and race. Still gotta work on becoming more select so we'll see how my options turn out for the next couple of years. I won't ignore a good woman here if I find one in America, but it's most likely be overseas. We'll see though. Life has a funny way of changing your perspective on things.
correct me if i am wrong rom but what i got from the "rat" analogy was that you see something that doesn't align with your agenda and you pay it no mind. if you did , it would be come part of your world. don't give it no energy no time no attention. stay focused on the positive. ( also i admit sometimes i have done that i see a rat and pay it mind , seeing where it goes, to the gutter maybe, and i am giving it energy. ) or a ratchet. i can see she ratchet but maybe she is dolled up so i pay it mind. makes a lot of sense. great wisdom.
These are facts once you change your lifestyle around and change your perspective the universe will shift things for you I don’t even listen to the red pill shit like that no more !
Uncle Rom, you are 100 percent right its all about the mindset. "As above so below as within so without". If men keep consuming that negative content about women well its only going to manifest in reality for them.
I have always said that Unc💯I really can’t relate all the way to a lot of red pill content because I believe not all women are bad especially if she’s really into you. I do agree with the self improvement but not necessarily that all women are bad. I guess if I believed in the pill talk purple is the most logical to me & ur channel should be bigger
Hey Rom: You probably noticed the spammer that's pretending to be you (using your exact avatar picture) and encouraging people to contact them via Whatsapp. I've reported that person. They've been doing the same thing in the comment section of videos on other RUclips channels as well.
[Inspired by the Curls] Body Game check-in... Yesterday I hit up 100 Triple Pump Tyson Pushup Burpees with a Triple set of Jump Squats... That's 300 strict Tyson Pushups and 300 Squats total, then jogged back home. I wanted to find a bodyweight variation that focused on my upper chest and shoulders.
@@540twisted It took me a while to get your joke... There are plenty of civilians who work out that way, involving Burpees ect. Look up Iron Wolk, and James Brews. There's a commenter on this page who posted his workout doing 200 Tyson Pushups which inspired me to do what I did yesterday. Ain't never been to jail playa, and I don't think any of that criminal shish is cute.
Another solid joint Unc. There are definitely more than enough good women out there, the problem is most guys don’t ATTRACT good women. To attract something good, you have to have good energy. You are what you are attract. That’s something I feel like we have to take into consideration
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I agree unc. I was brainwashed by the red pill thinking every woman was promiscuous, until I started to take my self seriously by hitting the gym, learning, working on my side business etc. What I find now, is that women are generally receptive to me and I meet women who have good morals. Like I think men need to step back from all of the opinions online, and just rock with the women who rock with them
Truth.
Very well said.
The red pill is bs
Rom, I love that you keep a realistic view on men/women. So many other channels on RUclips make it seem like all women are bad or hoes and all men are bad or no good. There are still great men and women. They are out there doing their thing and keeping it real in all aspects. Your channel keeps hope alive for a lot folks which I love.
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@RomWills 🙏
A lot of us women with natural hair, short clean nails, slim bodies (no bbls) get picked over for what most men see on social media- wigs, long nails bbls etc bc men think we are boring, not attractive or not the "norm." Social media has really worped our minds 😥
Brittany B you are a unicorn. Rare and hard to find…
My last girl was skinny and shorty was far from boring 😮💨 it’s crazy cuz I could see the insecurity (her being skinny) and the fact she had that insecurity would make her do extra sexually cuz she would tell herself a thick woman would please me more. So anytime it got sexual she’d do more than average thinking if she didn’t he’s gonna go get a thick girl. Got me thinking bout her startin to miss shawty 😂
@@genovasquez8361 it’s wild to me that men your age be breaking backs of women my age😂 everybody eats b 💪🏾
Ain’t nothing like a classy, naturally beautiful, real woman with her own attributes that has a positive, confident attitude.
Hang in there we still like the real!
I think a lot of guys solely focus on what's being said on social media and the Internet and make that out to be reality, which is why they don't think there's any good women out there. The funny part is when a detractor will see you say that "there are good women out here" and they'll be so quick to try and debunk it. "They're ALL like that!" Bruh not every woman out here is sleeping around 24/7 and doing guys dirty, and there are decent to really good women out here.
Whenever says "All" I ask them how many women they have encountered personally. They usually don't answer the question. I've used the same question with women. They can't answer either.
@@genovasquez8361 so I should trigger them or no? Cuz I noticed the more I trigger women the more they like me/latch onto me. When I don’t trigger them they see me as boring. It’s so dumb. I don’t wanna go around triggering them on purpose 🤦🏾♂️
@@genovasquez8361 damn I really f’ed with my last girl so I made her feel like the greatest thing on earth 🤣 and she started drying up down there but when I treated her like dirt she was gushing. It’s so backwards man
Good Women are Assets that add to your life.
It takes a lot of experience to finally develop the eye. Once I developed it I could look at one picture and know whether a woman was in the Demographic that chose me, her style, and whether she was really a dime or not. After you get the experience you can go out and know which women will be feeling you pretty easily
Hear hear hear!!
Your teachings are very good & balanced. I've never heard you (once) speaking bad about women like other content creators.
I personally think there are plenty good women out there. It depends where you looking.
They are forget the red pill.
Focus on the good, the bad is always going to be around, best to just ignore it
Rom is a real one 👊🏾
I gotta get out more
Idd. A good women for a high value men after a while is the best way.
Respectfully most broads ain't shit.I was gonna bite my tongue.Í have encountered many women.Only 6 I had long term relationships with.Also it depends on how one defines "good". I'm a upbeat positive person so I know it's not me.I go to many different places outside my neighborhood and I'm not a stereotypical dude.From MY experience I wouldn't say "plenty".I would say "some".I would love to see others share their perspective.The video has alot of merit and useful strategies though.Again this is MY experience.
great form man this message had layers fr . Thanks unc peace
yep. girls like men. sometimes you got go get what you can. even I can get no model or rich guy. I'm still confident
I'm brainstorming places to meet more women. Working as an engineer is tough since there's barely any women in my field. Tried meetups and noticed the guy to girl ratio is like 20:1 on average. And these guys complain about women. I hate when men complain without a solution. I easily get irritated. Still brainstorming although I'm probably thinking too hard with my migraine as I wrote this comment.
Any athletic club or group you will find quality women
Damn uncle Rom letting the secret out, nerdy women are the bomb 😂
This man is a real life black magician.
I honestly just want to become the most successful black man that I can be. Imm be done with my bachelors by late March ( my term ends June 1st ). I’m going for my masters starting august 1st. If anyone can give me any advice or words of encouragement I’d appreciate it. Also, I’m currently 22 and in the process of moving to South Dakota because of the Air Force.
Congratulations fellow wingman! I'm in the air national guard currently. Trying to get a career but haven't found it yet. I am improving in life before I signed up. You got this
@@KrOnIc343 thanks I appreciate it! I’m pcsing from Alaska to South Dakota and plan on trying my damn best to commission.
If I could redo things, I'd go back and join the Air Force after I graduated college. My dad served in the Air Force for double digit years but he wanted me to try to do things the college only route.
Congrats bro! From one young man to another, I say take this time to explore and learn about yourself. By explore I mean that in the literal sense and metaphorical. Try new hobbies that interest you, go to different events and meet new people, etc. I'm 25 and I moved to Indiana at the beginning of this year for a job opportunity. Following the advice I gave you, I've learned so much about myself within the past 9 months. Also, always make time for yourself. I don't have a military background, but I assume life will keep you busy since your part of the Air Force. Even if its an hour, take the time to relax, meditate, or whatever you need to do to disconnect from life at that moment. The stress can sneak up on you if you're not too careful. Once again congratulations and I'm proud both of us for making it this far in life.
@@KamauBarry thanks man! I plan on screenshotting this and going back to it. Yes I am busy but thanks for the information. I’m 22 now and once I move and get set at my next base I plan on doing this.
Damn caught me off guard all swole and shit lmao.
Just because she is on ig and with body pics doesn't mean she sleeps around 24/7
@@BlackLion76 yup she is doing it for show if it's extra she is probably very out there
I see you playa
Eh, it's debatable for me. My issues really stem from the culture this country promotes more than anything. Now, with all that being said, I primarily deal with black women so I do not have too many experiences from women from other races. Anyway, it's not really about if a woman is good or not, but more or less her beliefs, stances on her relationships, self, children, and society. And what I tend to find is while most women are not bad "per se", a lot of them have traits are attitudes that are really undesirable. Like feminist-like mindsets even if they don't say they are feminist, daddy issues, broken, delusional, and just immature behavior in general. With that said, I am not saying there are no good women here. However, this environment does make it harder to find a quality women. Shoot, I work at a gym now doing sales and I was talking to this African Chick from Mali. She was talking about how dating here is trash because most people here date to have fun instead of marriage. She even brought up feminism and a couple of talking points the red pill community usually talks about when I said nothing about it at all. As for me and the women I get with, I don't focus on dating model chicks. The last chick I messed with was more quiet and a homebody. She was like a 5-6 in looks. She was skinny but had a little bit of curves and a lil booty, which I can work with. I did want to get with her cause she had an afro on her profile pic on discord when we were online in tech school and I wanted to smash solely because of that lol. I have a wide range of women I don't mind getting with. Don't get me wrong, I would love to smash a baddie, but as long as your body is somewhat fit and you have curves large or small, we can hookup lol. I am cool with a lot of the chicks I talk to at the gym although I haven't messed with one yet because I work at Gold's Gym and competition is rife lol. But, I have been getting bigger and women seem to love me the more we talk so that's how that rolls lol. One chick we talk about everything about society, feminism, masculinity, and just a lot of deep stuff. I even got her to listen to the audio book for "Awakening the Master Feminine" cause I was telling her about my readings and thoughts on "Awakening the Master Masculine". I digress but at the end of the day, I already decided in my mind that I am going to find a woman overseas (most likely African) or probably interracial since I am getting a lot of attention from Latinas and white women lol. I also don't want to raise kids here because of the things I see going on here. I do get attention from American Black women, but they either play hella games, want to dominate you, or just see you as a good guy (lame). It's the weirdest thing ever since I feel that African women and other races of women view me as select more than women of my own culture and race. Still gotta work on becoming more select so we'll see how my options turn out for the next couple of years. I won't ignore a good woman here if I find one in America, but it's most likely be overseas. We'll see though. Life has a funny way of changing your perspective on things.
On point 🎯... Keep speaking LIFE big bro!! 👑
I agree, guys are just making an excuse. My Grandpa who’s an OG from Jamaica said it’s been that way since the 60s and 70s
correct me if i am wrong rom but what i got from the "rat" analogy was that you see something that doesn't align with your agenda and you pay it no mind. if you did , it would be come part of your world. don't give it no energy no time no attention. stay focused on the positive. ( also i admit sometimes i have done that i see a rat and pay it mind , seeing where it goes, to the gutter maybe, and i am giving it energy. ) or a ratchet. i can see she ratchet but maybe she is dolled up so i pay it mind. makes a lot of sense. great wisdom.
Think of it like this. If a rat crosses your path it's doing just that. Once it is out of your path you don't think about anymore.
These are facts once you change your lifestyle around and change your perspective the universe will shift things for you I don’t even listen to the red pill shit like that no more !
Uncle Rom, you are 100 percent right its all about the mindset. "As above so below as within so without". If men keep consuming that negative content about women well its only going to manifest in reality for them.
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In their search for truth, a lot of men have been black pilled. So many men now jaded af
I have always said that Unc💯I really can’t relate all the way to a lot of red pill content because I believe not all women are bad especially if she’s really into you. I do agree with the self improvement but not necessarily that all women are bad. I guess if I believed in the pill talk purple is the most logical to me & ur channel should be bigger
Hey Rom:
You probably noticed the spammer that's pretending to be you (using your exact avatar picture) and encouraging people to contact them via Whatsapp. I've reported that person. They've been doing the same thing in the comment section of videos on other RUclips channels as well.
I always block them. That's for reporting them.
[Inspired by the Curls] Body Game check-in... Yesterday I hit up 100 Triple Pump Tyson Pushup Burpees with a Triple set of Jump Squats... That's 300 strict Tyson Pushups and 300 Squats total, then jogged back home. I wanted to find a bodyweight variation that focused on my upper chest and shoulders.
How you get a phone in Jail?
@@540twisted It took me a while to get your joke... There are plenty of civilians who work out that way, involving Burpees ect. Look up Iron Wolk, and James Brews. There's a commenter on this page who posted his workout doing 200 Tyson Pushups which inspired me to do what I did yesterday. Ain't never been to jail playa, and I don't think any of that criminal shish is cute.
@@busyrand that sounds like a beast workout. ill look into it.
Another solid joint Unc. There are definitely more than enough good women out there, the problem is most guys don’t ATTRACT good women. To attract something good, you have to have good energy. You are what you are attract. That’s something I feel like we have to take into consideration
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