How to Feel Comfortable in Your Body During Sex

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
  • In today's video, Christal gives you some tips to feel more comfortable in your body during sex & in the bedroom.
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    In a recent poll we hosted in our Secret FB Group, we asked what:
    What's your biggest struggle when it comes to sex and intimacy?
    1. Low Sex Drive
    2. I don't feel attracted to my partner
    3. My partner doesn't seem to want to have sex
    4. Life is getting in the way
    5. I don't feel comfortable in my body
    The two most popular struggles were, “low sex drive” and “I don’t feel comfortable in my body.”
    So we thought we’d discuss this a bit more. In our first Sex Talk Series we got into the factors plaguing women’s sex drive. In Pt. 2 we expanded the scope of intimacy and how to open up that language within our relationships.
    Now, we are going to talk about how we can begin feeling comfortable in our bodies, because there is no reason why your sexy, gorgeous ass should not be getting pleasure from the gifts your body holds.
    It’s true babe, your body does SOOO much for you, but we choose to dismiss her and make her feel un-worthy of deep satisfaction and joy. We choose to believe she needs “work” instead of worshiping the magical essence of who she is.
    Today, I want to give you some tips that can help you fall into your body a bit more. There’s also a powerful 30 day practice I suggest for anyone who is feeling uncomfortable in their body. This a practice that will not only help you connect with your body but help you re-wire the thoughts you carry about her.
    Here’s the thing babes, I don’t want you to feel like it’s abnormal to feel uncomfortable at times. I mean, its human nature. Even as a teacher of this stuff, I fall into the traps of critizing my body. But it’s really important we find ways to quickly recover.
    For instance, if I feel bloated or my body is in the middle of my period, I will find comfy clothing and materials that accentuate the parts I love. Maybe you’re not comfortable showing off your body but can you play with your eyes? You don’t have to just focus on the physical aspects of sex. Energetic play is also VERY sexy.
    What about your hair?
    I play with my hair all the time when I’m getting in the mood. I can be in boy shorts and a sweatshirt but what makes me feel sexy is playing with my hair. Pulling it over my face, whipping it around or accentuating my eyes.
    There are so many creative ways to feel sexy and if that’s something you want me to go deeper with. LET ME KNOW!
    I’d love to dive deeper.
    Ok, no I want to hear from you? What’s something you absolutely LOVE about your body? What’s the sexiest part of you and how can you accentuate that part more?

Комментарии • 38

  • @mengilpalacios2263
    @mengilpalacios2263 5 лет назад +104

    As a guy, even if a girls body isn't ”perfect” it really turns on a guy on if there confident about there body.
    When a girl isn't confident with there body its a big turn off. Best advice I can give being a guy is to OWN your body no matter how it looks. That in itself is attractive

    • @mengilpalacios2263
      @mengilpalacios2263 5 лет назад +2

      Dm me through IG if you guys want a guys advice on things. IG: mengilpalacios

    • @Theladiescoach
      @Theladiescoach  5 лет назад +7

      This is BEAUTIFUL! Thank you for watching and your comment Mengil

    • @kresivarivkah612
      @kresivarivkah612 3 года назад +2

      Thanks!

  • @naomii494
    @naomii494 4 года назад +20

    I used to starve myself before sex .. I still struggle w stuff like that but I’m trying to change that now

  • @orshkedi
    @orshkedi 2 года назад +1

    I'm a man and this video helped me so much.
    thank you for your help and your support😊

  • @elspethpassionateforyouth6696
    @elspethpassionateforyouth6696 4 года назад +6

    Thanks! She's very warm in her talks. Appreciate your authenticity!

  • @RaisingSevakwithErinHerlihy
    @RaisingSevakwithErinHerlihy 6 лет назад +6

    Love this! Saved and wanna share. I’m going to share it!

  • @wiiitch
    @wiiitch 6 лет назад +13

    I love you so much for this, makes me feel so much better and makes me focus on the good stuff

    • @Theladiescoach
      @Theladiescoach  6 лет назад +2

      I'm so glad it can help babe! Your body deserves to feel beautiful!! xx

    • @vishnus7963
      @vishnus7963 2 года назад

      Gi

    • @vishnus7963
      @vishnus7963 2 года назад

      @@Theladiescoach hi pls reply me I love u

  • @bxnsheesh
    @bxnsheesh 4 года назад +4

    I needed this, thank you ❤

  • @limitlessguy9909
    @limitlessguy9909 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful insight 👍👍👍 why no videos from last couple of years

  • @wynandbezuidenhout9611
    @wynandbezuidenhout9611 4 года назад +2

    It works

  • @rachelglass8135
    @rachelglass8135 2 года назад

    I like how you handled this topic. thanks

  • @muzamilaniofficial7540
    @muzamilaniofficial7540 4 года назад +1

    Wow thanks bbe for helping me
    Am going to share now

  • @yazmin5628
    @yazmin5628 5 лет назад +1

    such a great video thank u so much

  • @lIlIlIlIlI11-i7p
    @lIlIlIlIlI11-i7p 6 лет назад +2

    We men do that to. ;)

  • @oliviamercedes9212
    @oliviamercedes9212 4 года назад +3

    I am extremely insecure about my labia! I'm planning to stay a virgin until I can get the money to have the surgery. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and he wants to have sex! I would love to take our relationship to the next level but I'm just so insecure about it. Can u help me x

    • @imsarah9925
      @imsarah9925 4 года назад +11

      Olivia Mercedes why insecure? genitals are not beautiful at all. a penis too isnt beautiful it’s just there and thats it. don’t do a surgery 😩 you’re born how god wanted it

    • @xxharuchan
      @xxharuchan 4 года назад +3

      Don’t worry, i think when it comes down to it guys don’t really care at all lol. I don’t like my labia’s either and wanted surgery too but my boyfriend reassures me that there’s nothing wrong with my body :)

    • @nikaiairwin5419
      @nikaiairwin5419 4 года назад +5

      Girl I was that way too but my boyfriend tells me all the time how beautiful he thinks I am, every part of me. Trust me it’s never as scary as you think and guys literally do not give a shit, and if he does... BOY BYE

    • @Katie-ww8qk
      @Katie-ww8qk 3 года назад +2

      Your insecurities are only inside your head. Literally there’s no reason to get that surgery. I know it’s hard but your body is natural as it is, your genitals are exactly how a humans genitals should look. It’s up to you obviously but fear isn’t a good reason to do anything

    • @RossanaSantos7
      @RossanaSantos7 3 года назад +3

      Man don’t care about it honey, they want to DO IT

  • @saahophonglo3546
    @saahophonglo3546 3 года назад

    I like it

  • @moniqued4492
    @moniqued4492 5 лет назад +10

    A video about body positivity had nothing but size 2 models in the intro video x(

    • @ayozab8540
      @ayozab8540 5 лет назад +14

      being size 2 is also body positive

    • @irmalair1
      @irmalair1 3 года назад +1

      This is not a "fat positivity" video, that's one 😉😉.
      Two, gurl it's your body, your precious body, size doesn't matter (unless you're on one of the unhealthy extremes) Cheer up! 🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @deepaknandi62677instagram
    @deepaknandi62677instagram 5 лет назад

    Omg

  • @florianhaffner3910
    @florianhaffner3910 4 года назад +1

    What an ironic video. Beautiful people like her on social media/RUclips/magazines ARE the reason why so many women feel insecure and are unhappy. And now she wants to teach us how to accept us. The irony

    • @irmalair1
      @irmalair1 3 года назад +6

      Okay so it's her fault now? She should go get ugly then come back so you can feel better?