Bethany Joy Lenz Gets Honest About Cult Experience

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  • Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
  • Bethany Joy Lenz is sharing her truth. During a wide-ranging sit-down interview with Access Hollywood's Zuri Hall, the "One Tree Hill" alum got candid about her experience of being in a cult and explained why she didn't speak out until now, sharing, "I think anytime we go through trauma there's always shame attached to it and you're not sure about how people are going to perceive you and you don't want to be categorized and lumped in as like oh the girl who was in a cult … so that's now what I am every time I walk into a room, I don't want that, I'm so much more than that, but I think that happens to so many of us because of so many different things in our lives. People just like to put labels and categories on everyone and so that was a big part of it just feeling like I don't know how to talk about this where I feel like I'll be really understood and I was kind of terrified of being misunderstood." Bethany also talked about her new single "Strawberries" and revealed the inspiration behind the track, which is available to stream Aug. 18.

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  • @jugl-studio
    @jugl-studio Год назад +129

    What an incredible interviewer. She was articulate and kind throughout the entire conversation.

    • @marcyfan-tz4wj
      @marcyfan-tz4wj 10 месяцев назад

      i'm not knocking zuri hall's interviewing skills in the slightest but BJL is a remarkably sympathetic figure ( represents qualities that young women and now middle aged men pine for) and anyone interviewing her and not realizing she is beloved regardless of her involvement with unnamed cult is someone doomed to fail on "access hollywood" or anyplace. i cared for her female castmates but not as much as i cared for her....what was the question? i was unaware.

  • @minkagaston
    @minkagaston 10 месяцев назад +36

    I absolutely love Bethany Joy. I'm so glad she was able to move away from the situation and take her life back. I can't wait to read her Memoir.

  • @Iris_Transforms_Healing
    @Iris_Transforms_Healing 11 месяцев назад +26

    I appreciate her statement around not being stupid or having something wrong with you. The truth of the matter is the reason people get involved in cults is because they’re vulnerable. Love and security are the greatest weapons to prevent someone from becoming part of a cult. This emotional need has to be provided from birth and through those formative years when your sense of self is being developed. When an individual lacks the foundation (love and security) they become prey for groups who are seeking such individuals as followers. I’m glad that she was able to come out on the other side when many do not.🦋

  • @arolamichelle
    @arolamichelle Год назад +22

    wow the interviewer did an amazing job ❤️❤️❤️ Bethany Joy also seems like such a kind genuine soul. i hope she continues to heal from her trauma

  • @naomirice4821
    @naomirice4821 10 месяцев назад +11

    My God she is beautiful I've followed her career for the last 20 yrs

  • @SieMarie
    @SieMarie Год назад +18

    I clicked on this for the title & didn't really get any backstory on the cult part... I'm glad she seems like she's dealing with the trauma from it, but like what was the actual story?! This explained nothing...

    • @arolamichelle
      @arolamichelle Год назад +1

      i clicked on it for the title too and understand what you mean. it seems like she didn’t want to give too much away before her book gets released in which she’ll tell the full story. i think this interview was more about letting other victims and survivors know they’re not alone

    • @janderson9477
      @janderson9477 11 месяцев назад +3

      She goes into more details on the ramrod hall show she thought it was a biblestudy at first new to Los Angela’s she had family but they had their own thing and was far away it wasn’t bible study I guess they fed off of her being or feeling like an outsider and made her feel welcome and she said the first sighn was she was getting more distant from her family and that’s true your friends and family they manipulate if it wasn’t for my family I wouldn’t have seen it either Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is a cult I thought nothing of it until my mom noticed they didn’t want my mom to pray or go to church with me little by little my mom spoke to me I was an adult and they told me something isn’t right and little by little they were right I just couldn’t see it because I was so desperate to make friends or I felt that something was missing and that left the door open for the enemy…

  • @djp9673
    @djp9673 Год назад +20

    This is a fantastic, genuine interviewer and I am all here for her 🙏

  • @gsswasami
    @gsswasami Год назад +60

    I love all her Christmas movies. She’s the most natural actress

  • @JimmieJamOfTheDay
    @JimmieJamOfTheDay Год назад +11

    I didn't know about this. She was great on Guiding Light. That's when I first "met her".

    • @minkagaston
      @minkagaston 10 месяцев назад +2

      Same. I loved her as Michelle Bauer and remember being crushed when she left. Then I rediscovered her on One Tree Hill and really loved her in that role as well

  • @warrengomez67
    @warrengomez67 11 месяцев назад +11

    She’s pretty much Hayley in real life too 😂

  • @thinnertasha282
    @thinnertasha282 Год назад +21

    She is an awesome person. She is open about her Christianity.

  • @nancyrogers8377
    @nancyrogers8377 Год назад +5

    Glad she is out of whatever it was she was involved in.

  • @Joey_Waller
    @Joey_Waller Год назад +13

    I love her so much she’s an incredible actor!!!

  • @ashleehinson5173
    @ashleehinson5173 Год назад +6

    Prayers, this is terrible I'm so sorry !

  • @hayles023
    @hayles023 Год назад +13

    She is making music again!!! So happy!

  • @leighterry943
    @leighterry943 4 месяца назад +1

    Always loved Bethany Joy! She's such a beautiful, authentic, & JOYful soul that radiates beauty inside & out! God Bless her for being such a beautiful, open soul who deserves nothing but happiness! 🥰🌟🎁💖🙏

  • @bethk9329
    @bethk9329 Год назад +3

    Name the cult

  • @KaterinaV
    @KaterinaV Год назад +6

    Wait.... what happened?!

  • @KnollMountain
    @KnollMountain 10 месяцев назад +1

    OMG the Bluebird - I love that place. Wish I would have seen her there.

  • @beeshippiemusica3164
    @beeshippiemusica3164 Год назад +3

    I enjoy watching her on Hallmark

  • @karaleblanc7880
    @karaleblanc7880 Год назад +4

    Love this! Thank you!!!

  • @ehsaasmehta696
    @ehsaasmehta696 Год назад +8

    Really I thought she is a beautiful person

  • @JPWick
    @JPWick Месяц назад

    We're debating, in the event of having daughters, to name them Peyton, Brooke, Haley, and Quinn, in that order 💕 #DramaQueens

  • @ShadowGhost-n8d
    @ShadowGhost-n8d Месяц назад +1

    Hmmmm. Interesting

  • @manonmorin-thomas1556
    @manonmorin-thomas1556 Год назад +5

    I love you girl!
    Thank you for sharing this
    Hugs from Montreal❤

  • @Lyfesdance
    @Lyfesdance 11 месяцев назад +1

    Which cult was she in?

  • @BrittaneyPeacock
    @BrittaneyPeacock Год назад +19

    I adore Joy so much

  • @JPWick
    @JPWick Месяц назад

    Dan Scott opening up his house to Haley. Put that in season 10.

  • @williamj.smalllutcf6420
    @williamj.smalllutcf6420 5 месяцев назад

    God Bless you! I would like to wish you inner peace and happiness!

  • @Nazaba09
    @Nazaba09 Год назад +8

    Sad her daughters father died. I wonder if that had anything to do with it.

    • @alshal3638
      @alshal3638 Год назад

      He didn't die. I believe that is someone else with the same name as him.

    • @allayahsimmons9019
      @allayahsimmons9019 Год назад

      ​@alshal3638 you're probably right

    • @tdanielle23
      @tdanielle23 Год назад +1

      ​@@alshal3638he did die.

  • @AshleyBehr
    @AshleyBehr 3 месяца назад

    I love Joy and this was a great interview! ❤

  • @YaaAgubyKete
    @YaaAgubyKete Год назад +9

    This interview said absolutely nothing lol what was the point 😏😏😏

  • @hayles023
    @hayles023 Год назад +9

    She is my favorite! I love the one tree hill girls always! I always would hear my name in one tree hill as she played a character named Hayley which is my name haha.

    • @arolamichelle
      @arolamichelle Год назад +1

      i’ve never seen one tree hill but i’m currently watching modern family for the first time (i’m manyyy years late lol) and there’s a character called Hayley too!

  • @alisondutfield7806
    @alisondutfield7806 8 месяцев назад

    Love her and a great interview

  • @Readmi12c-uu6rg
    @Readmi12c-uu6rg 5 месяцев назад

    Ela é muito linda ❤❤❤

  • @Ranbutch75
    @Ranbutch75 5 месяцев назад

    Thinnnnner

  • @ameliadavis1979
    @ameliadavis1979 Год назад +16

    What is the name of the cult?

    • @ashleyrogers1930
      @ashleyrogers1930 Год назад +2

      She has said before she can't name it because of legal issues

    • @yvonnereid1656
      @yvonnereid1656 Год назад +1

      Its probably Scientology

    • @allayahsimmons9019
      @allayahsimmons9019 Год назад +1

      ​@@yvonnereid1656😂

    • @arolamichelle
      @arolamichelle Год назад

      @@ashleyrogers1930wondering if she’ll name it in her book as she said she’ll go into more detail there

    • @OxybroCone
      @OxybroCone 9 месяцев назад

      It's gotta be RaMA, Dr Frederick Lenz. She's the one who survived the non mass suey

  • @lisamarie8265
    @lisamarie8265 Год назад +18

    She looks like an Olsen twin.

  • @Dan-ys8nk
    @Dan-ys8nk 9 месяцев назад +4

    No offense to Joy, but if she's still practicing Christianity, she's still in a cult. You can be in a mainstream religion or faith, like the Catholic Church for example that has over 1 Billion members, and still be in a cult. There's a lot of people who think that cults are only about 30 people living on a compound following a new age religion. The size of a religion or faith does not determine if it is a cult. The determining factor is the faith based system which indoctrinates people into blindly following something without evidence and accepting it as truth without verification. In turn, it ultimately guides the decisions and actions you take in life such as who you associate with, what you listen to, and more. All Joy did was transfer from one cult to another cult.

  • @Realmom79
    @Realmom79 Год назад +7

    Why do young (yes she’s still young) actresses always do work on their lips? It’s so obvious, and I don’t understand what’s wrong with aging gracefully!🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @shariahhickman3216
      @shariahhickman3216 Год назад +1

      Unfortunately society is now saying big lips are in and everyone wants them to feel beautiful. I hate the beauty standard of the world

    • @mustardpotatoes
      @mustardpotatoes Год назад +24

      She’s always had full lips. It’s possibly just over lining. Either way, it’s not really anyones business what she’s done or not done cosmetically. This woman has so much grace that has nothing to do with her appearance!

    • @blackbirdflyyx
      @blackbirdflyyx Год назад +8

      Her lips have always looked like that (I grew up watching OTH lol) though maybe too much over lining for the interview. Also, yes, full lips is a beauty standard and so is the unreasonable expectation for women to stay young forever, but having fuller lips doesn’t have anything to do with looking younger. Filler in other areas of the face though, yes.

    • @nw22122
      @nw22122 11 месяцев назад +4

      Those are her normal lips. Look back at her younger pics or even her time on One Tree Hill. Her lips have always looked like this.

    • @marcyfan-tz4wj
      @marcyfan-tz4wj 10 месяцев назад +1

      i would agree with you if she looked like innumerable silly young women who have that work done. she looks like she's always looked (as far as i can tell).

  • @Tojoj22
    @Tojoj22 Год назад +1

    She should do a cult horror!!

  • @trackzero0
    @trackzero0 Год назад

    Word soup.
    This isn’t interesting or potent.
    Just another couple of Shegleighs grasping for some limes.

  • @TheFreakMelanie
    @TheFreakMelanie Год назад +4

    Ohh so this is to promote a new song?

  • @MaliCat2.0
    @MaliCat2.0 Год назад +5

    Umm wasn't she one of these terrible people?

    • @kanyetothe
      @kanyetothe Год назад

      Oh? I've heard she's nasty, nasty.

    • @AshleyDavis-hg9kj
      @AshleyDavis-hg9kj Год назад +1

      That is what confuses me she said if you did terrible things or bad it doesn't mean your not bad maybe she means if you learned your life lesson on it.

    • @chrisastacio-felix4115
      @chrisastacio-felix4115 Год назад

      Isn’t the most important thing that she got out, she was manipulated and brain washed and didn’t recognize until after the fact, that’s inspiring because a lot of people don’t get out. Of course she came out with music FINALLY and I’m sure the songs talk about her cult experiences as well as other things,

  • @keremels
    @keremels Год назад

    Haley 🫶🏼
    OMG was that nxium?
    I’m glad she’s ok

  • @crystal5202
    @crystal5202 Год назад +3

    This is all theism and all “beliefs” too. All spiritual or anything else is all cultism, maybe it’s wide spread theism but it’s all cultism