To chat with me and meet other bi people, join us on Patreon.com/notdefining. To book 1:1 coaching, check out www.notdefining.com. For more info on BiCon, go to 2023.bicon.org.uk.
'amazing opportunity for us to just come together' ?? LOL But seriously, this is great - helps a lot with gaining understanding of what life as a bi man is like
Hey thanks for watching and for your kind words of support. At first I didn’t get the joke but I think I got it. Haha! I guess it was an amazing opportunity in many ways lol.
Really appreciate the unedited chat, sometimes slick YT vids with quick edits and graphics heighten my already acute anxiety 😂 Still in the questioning stage of my identity, slowly sifting through concepts like comp het and imposter syndrome from not having had any physical experience with the same gender, which could also be from my tendency towards sapiosexuality.. hoo boy. Grateful for all these wonderful terms, but it’s pretty dizzying! The bi male experience in particular is essential in dispelling myths for the whole community, IMO. Men, ironically, are in the best position to dismantle patriarchy. Your content has been incredibly helpful in this weird process, thank you for being your authentic self 💖 💜 💙
@notdefining Did you hold in a sneeze? I used to do that too until I learned it's bad for you. Apparently, according to internet searches, holding in a sneeze leads to multiple damaging results. Like eardrum ruptures and throat ruptures. I've learned it's bad to hold our breath too - I only do that unless I'd really need to, or a doctor instructs me to. I've stopped holding in my sneezes as well. I'm curious to hear more about the male-female couple who chatted you up. I hope you'll share the details if and when you're comfortable doing so 🤗
Heheh. I guess I did. I always do. Maybe it’s the root of all my problems. Haha. I seem to be fine so far. Yes I will. I’m going to release a video on it soon so stay tuned.
I have always wonder if fancy girls i starting questioning myself back in high school when start to fancy singer call jessie j i didn't want stay to myself that i did then see tv show like eastenders and coronation street that lesbians storyline in it then one coronation street Storyline two girls call sian and Sophie where lesbians then i start having crush on sasha parkson who plays sian powell on coronation street then i start fancy vanessa hudgens who in high school musical i fancy peter andre and zac efron and corbin bleu but only can see myself dating boys not girls i can't face coming out as bisexual because how much i love my love of my life stephen who i know from college and but i fancy my mum friend sue son jack and then i have feelings my ex friend morgan who harssed me last year on WhatsApp and Pinterest and normal text messages but then i starting having crush girl who was on 90 days fiance call Erika Owens please can you answer my question. But turth is i what be with boys then girls but I don't know how stop thinking about it
To chat with me and meet other bi people, join us on Patreon.com/notdefining.
To book 1:1 coaching, check out www.notdefining.com.
For more info on BiCon, go to 2023.bicon.org.uk.
'amazing opportunity for us to just come together' ?? LOL But seriously, this is great - helps a lot with gaining understanding of what life as a bi man is like
Hey thanks for watching and for your kind words of support. At first I didn’t get the joke but I think I got it. Haha! I guess it was an amazing opportunity in many ways lol.
listening to you talk about your healing journey is itself healing!
Thank you so much for saying this. I really appreciate it. Being heard is itself healing for me too. So thanks for taking the time to listen. 🩷🌈
Really appreciate the unedited chat, sometimes slick YT vids with quick edits and graphics heighten my already acute anxiety 😂 Still in the questioning stage of my identity, slowly sifting through concepts like comp het and imposter syndrome from not having had any physical experience with the same gender, which could also be from my tendency towards sapiosexuality.. hoo boy. Grateful for all these wonderful terms, but it’s pretty dizzying! The bi male experience in particular is essential in dispelling myths for the whole community, IMO. Men, ironically, are in the best position to dismantle patriarchy. Your content has been incredibly helpful in this weird process, thank you for being your authentic self 💖 💜 💙
Ah thank you so much. I really appreciate your words and am so with you on your journey. Sending so much bi love to you 🩷💜💙
Are bicycle people welcome at BiCon? (I know, I need more words that starts with bi....)
Are you kidding? Of course! Absolutely. 1000%.
BiCon these nuts (ouch)
@notdefining Did you hold in a sneeze? I used to do that too until I learned it's bad for you. Apparently, according to internet searches, holding in a sneeze leads to multiple damaging results. Like eardrum ruptures and throat ruptures. I've learned it's bad to hold our breath too - I only do that unless I'd really need to, or a doctor instructs me to. I've stopped holding in my sneezes as well.
I'm curious to hear more about the male-female couple who chatted you up. I hope you'll share the details if and when you're comfortable doing so 🤗
Heheh. I guess I did. I always do. Maybe it’s the root of all my problems. Haha. I seem to be fine so far. Yes I will. I’m going to release a video on it soon so stay tuned.
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I have always wonder if fancy girls i starting questioning myself back in high school when start to fancy singer call jessie j i didn't want stay to myself that i did then see tv show like eastenders and coronation street that lesbians storyline in it then one coronation street Storyline two girls call sian and Sophie where lesbians then i start having crush on sasha parkson who plays sian powell on coronation street then i start fancy vanessa hudgens who in high school musical i fancy peter andre and zac efron and corbin bleu but only can see myself dating boys not girls i can't face coming out as bisexual because how much i love my love of my life stephen who i know from college and but i fancy my mum friend sue son jack and then i have feelings my ex friend morgan who harssed me last year on WhatsApp and Pinterest and normal text messages but then i starting having crush girl who was on 90 days fiance call Erika Owens please can you answer my question. But turth is i what be with boys then girls but I don't know how stop thinking about it
Hey thanks for just speaking this out. You are so valid and it’s perfectly natural.