He only married her to convince himself and his family that he is not gay. She is a lonely woman who was desperate for love and was blinded and got tricked.
She’s a grown woman and chose to marry him knowing he wasn’t sure about his sexuality. How is that his fault when SHE had a choice? If things would’ve turned out great for them then she wouldn’t complain but bc it didn’t workout she gets to absolve her personal accountability?
@@ObeyDaqSwaqq no, she doesn't...but he still knew he was attracted to men. Of course she shouldn't have believed him when he said that he was done with that "lifestyle". That's her fuck up. And him not being truthful was his.
@@oodief88 how was he not truthful when he told her he was unsure about his sexuality but would try his best? Both of them agree that he let it be known that he didn’t know whether or not he’d be into women. That is about as honest as it gets.
That's very true because only he really knew how he felt on the inside, not her. He knows himself better than she does. You're either gay, bi, or straight. It's best to just go and get counseling or talk to a psychic about the person that you're thinking 🤔😧about marrying. Naw 4 real, get the counseling and 🙏 pray.
Desperate and in denial. They both used each other. She wanted a pretend father for her kid and he wanted a pretend wife to appear straight. What marital partner doesn't want to spend bdays or holidays with their significant other? Girl bye, you knew who you married 🙄.
Exactly I read a book about this a woman married a gay man got pregnant by another man and passed that baby off as the husbands because he was the son of a preacher. She killed him when he said he was going to come out to his parents
Well you know I'm ok with the part about her looking for a father for her child. This is what every child needs in their corner. Now him on the other hand he shouldn't have committed himself to this marriage. He still had gay tendencies, they didn't have sex, so he would've been better off leaving and going about his business.
Back when people legit thought gay was a “lifestyle”. This is all her fault, she thought he was just going through a phase and would get over it for her. Can’t change people.
If people legit thought that, how is this her fault? He was the one who said that he could change. When he realized he couldn't, he should have left her. So sad that people still victim shame in 2022.
@@minervaloves how is it victim shaming, I go back to the words of noted street thespian Blowfly who said "show me a man that don't like to fuck, and I'll show you a f____t".... that fact that he didn't want no pussy on their WEDDING NIGHT should have been the biggest red flag of them all
You get the person you pick! Period! Marriage doesn’t change the behavior it gets worse! There is something wrong with her to think that he would stop messing around with men. People are who they are and he showed her all his red flags 🚩 before she married him. She was caught up with the title of being married.
The desperation is real in her. All those years with NO SEX?!? I believe he told her that he was gay but would try to not be gay. She went in with her eye closed shut. Four years of "marriage" for this mess.
Boy I tell you..., Now I'm not saying that men don't go through the ringer with some of the women that they have encountered and been with. But a lot of these men like this one scares the hell out of me. 🤔 Ummm..., I'm not sure what woman are supposed to do with the crap that we have to choose from but this is a job for God. We can't change no one, a person has to see their faults and fix them, and then there just comes a time where God 🙏 has to step right into your front door and personally deal with you. And this seems to look like that is exactly what is going to have to happen because this has gotten tired, boring, and stupid!
I feel so bad for these two. She wanted a “husband”, her standards are so low that any man can do, even a gay one. He wanted a wife to lead that “normal life”. Sounds terrible, how is that happiness 😩
Why didn’t the judge talk about the dissolution of the marriage since they had not consummated it? Would it be an annulment instead of a divorce? This seems to be an important issue that should have been addressed.
@@tatianadaniel3569 Hi Tatiana - yes I get that - but she mentioned it - she did not say that that was happening in this case. For the edification of the audience it would have been nice if she actually explained whether or not this was actually appropriate in this case and made it a ruling. She ends every other case with a ruling- why not this one.
@@carlpotter007 Even though Judge Mabelean is a real Judge, on this show, she serves as an arbitrator. She may not have been able to legally inforce that an annulment or a divorce be ordered but the implication is that because they were never sexual after marriage, they may not even be married depending on the laws of the state they were married in.
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No, no, no...what type of esteem does sis have to have ever been with him once she knew he was gay...he didn't need to get himself together, she needs to get herself together...for herself then she will find someone to love her.
My poor sister she thought excepting his denial made her a better woman. So did the judge. As long as he said I’m not gay I want to be with you; it was enough for her. Over four years of self denial for her. He did not deny himself in his action just his words.
She allowed her insecurities to dictate her actions. He looks like a fruit pop in that wedding photo. She knew he was gay when they got together so what did she expect, smh?
This case reminded of a young lady I knew in the 1980's who got married to a guy, & she found out that he was gay & Cross dressing. She didn't know about this til after they were married for 3 yrs. She was deeply hurt obviously, however she got hurt worse because his family knew about his homosexuality & DID NOT TELL HER!!! #SOSAD
So what did she do in the 4 years they wasn't having sex?and what did he do in the 4 years they wasn't having sex 🤔 he probably was out hooking up with other guys.
Yes the man was wrong for deceiving her, but you mean to tell me that this woman is so desperate of having a man that she is blind to see that man is "still" gay? She needs to build up her self esteem and be with somebody who really wants her. As for him, he has to be honest with her and himself that he is in fact gay and stop trying to please other people INCLUDING his family.
I know this is an old episode but I've seen some desperate women but she takes the cake 😂 four years and he didn't touch you what a foolish woman I don't feel sorry for her she knew what it was.
Ain't no way in hell..... he was gay from jump, and she chose to ignore the signs. He said one thing but his actions spoke the complete opposite. She turned a blind eye to it. He is a bottom for sure.
My late husband didn't either on our wedding night but that because I had morning sickness{Though we engaged to be married when I/we got pregnant with our now 7yr old daughter} though there was a desire of course at least.
If he was already Gay did she really think he would stop being gay. There is no way I would ever believe a person saying he would stop being gay. That is who he is. And their is nothing any can do. Point blank
Yeah, I'm still hiding out because some of the stuff that I see on divorce court scares the hell out of me, 4 real. I think 🤔 that I'm going to just continue to have male associates, listen 👂 to my intuition about these jokes called men- most of them anyway. Once we go our separate way after hanging out, I'm going to find a closet to hide inside of.
Okay 👍 and I will say this again, listen 👂 to me please..., "He neeevvvveeerrrr should've gotten married." "He knew that he was still into men, well he should've went out and got him one.
So he's the bad guy for telling her he was gay before she made the adult decision to marry him anyway and now she's suprised he's gay??? She did this to herself, I got zero sympathy for her at all.8:24
So she knew he was gay and into men, but still married him anyways? Girl, bye. Being gay is not a phase. He only married her so he could appear straight when he's not. He's been living a whole lie just because he didn't wanna embrace the fact that he's gay for whatever reason. And she was desparate to find love that she married him even though she knew he was gay.
Well really she wasn't really married physically because her marriage was constimated , But he knew what he knew , so it was just wrong to really marry her. 😞🤔🤔
Girl bye you know your husband was gay before you met him that wasn’t going to change he didn’t want you to touch him because you don’t have the tools to please him. Girl you played yourself
I believe he tried to be straight because back then times was different, but he just couldn't do it. She wanted to force something to be, when a man marries you and don't touch you he is telling you your not it! No disrespect but she played herself, I hope she is happily married today.
What woman in her riGhT miNd wOuld marry a gay man? If I met any man who was sleeping with other men......I wouldn't care WHAT HE SAID.....he wouldn't have a chance of being with me in no kind of way! And if he told me that sleeping with men is in his past.....my response would be......"Your past or future has nothing to do with me"! I hate desperate women who refuse to live in reality! They ignore red flags, they ignore truth, and ignore hard logic and just jump into crazy and harmful situations.......and then cry about it!🤔🙄 Some women need TO STOP trying to make the fantasies IN THEIR HEAD rEaLiTy!!!!!💔
It was still unfair on her end. She believed in what he told her. There is a child involved. He's still wrong perriioodddddd became no one made him marry her. You married a person that you know that you don't even want to have sex with nor touch. He didn't have to do this he just would've been better off washing his hands of her and going on his way.
"We have not consecrated the marriage yet".😂😂😂I"m done, son!!!
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😂😂😂 I woke up my baby I laughed so hard when she said that
He only married her to convince himself and his family that he is not gay. She is a lonely woman who was desperate for love and was blinded and got tricked.
Totally agree with you
That's a shame.
She knew he was gay a person can’t just change that to get married.
They never even had sex that should’ve told her something
Yes, exactly she is just as crazy,she knew he was gay
2 minutes and 30 seconds into the show
Plaintiff:I didn’t know he was still gay
Me:what in the f***???
I had to double take and make sure I was on the right page 😂😂😂
Still gay? That mean SHE KNEW? sure it wasn't the fact that he didn't want no pussy on their wedding night, could possibly have been a clue?
She’s a 🤥 she married him and he still never touched her she knew he didn’t want her
Too sad....two people not living their truth. Hope they are living happier lives now.
He's actually living his. She the one not getting nothing
Now lady, you knew that man wasn't gone stop liking sausage.
Murda lmao
Big ole sashit 😂😂😂
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He knew he still had strong tendencies whe he proposed. He shouldn't have even considered marrying her if he wasn't sure that he might still like men!
She’s a grown woman and chose to marry him knowing he wasn’t sure about his sexuality. How is that his fault when SHE had a choice? If things would’ve turned out great for them then she wouldn’t complain but bc it didn’t workout she gets to absolve her personal accountability?
@@ObeyDaqSwaqq no, she doesn't...but he still knew he was attracted to men. Of course she shouldn't have believed him when he said that he was done with that "lifestyle". That's her fuck up. And him not being truthful was his.
@@oodief88 how was he not truthful when he told her he was unsure about his sexuality but would try his best? Both of them agree that he let it be known that he didn’t know whether or not he’d be into women. That is about as honest as it gets.
That's very true because only he really knew how he felt on the inside, not her. He knows himself better than she does. You're either gay, bi, or straight. It's best to just go and get counseling or talk to a psychic about the person that you're thinking 🤔😧about marrying. Naw 4 real, get the counseling and 🙏 pray.
He doesn’t have tendencies he’s a homosexual period ain’t no tendencies about that
So, they dated for 6 years and married for 4 and never had sex??!!!! Girl wtf!!😫
That part
She was desperate!
SO I WONDER 🤔 IF SHE HAS SEXED ANYONE ELSE SINCE BEING SEXSTARVED BY HUBBY
I would've left at the honeymoon 😭
I wonder have she not had sex In over 10 years
every time i watch this i laugh because the way she scream “ i believed him, i believeeee” 😭
She shouldn't have married him knowing he was into men...this blew my mind
Mine too I mean why him? Just why Lord 🙏🤷? No one needs to be that desperate and lonely bro just choose any piece of a body.
She kept saying she loved him. My question is "what was she in love with about him?"
"Mr. Hooker", "Mrs. Hooker" That is just so funny to me 😂😂😂💔
Thought i was the only one but couldn't see it in the comments 🤣🤣
Who else laughed every time judge Mablean says Mr. & Ms. Hooker 🤣🤣🤣🤣 We need to grow up.
😂😂😂😂got me rolling
I was going to say that his last name being hooker should've been a red 🚩
Lol
Yeah grow up you guys 🤣🤣jk I smirked each time smdh 😄
Me, lol
"We haven't conszicratted our marriage yet.."
Lol 🙄😆🤣👏🤣👏
Desperate and in denial. They both used each other. She wanted a pretend father for her kid and he wanted a pretend wife to appear straight. What marital partner doesn't want to spend bdays or holidays with their significant other? Girl bye, you knew who you married 🙄.
Exactly I read a book about this a woman married a gay man got pregnant by another man and passed that baby off as the husbands because he was the son of a preacher. She killed him when he said he was going to come out to his parents
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Well you know I'm ok with the part about her looking for a father for her child. This is what every child needs in their corner. Now him on the other hand he shouldn't have committed himself to this marriage. He still had gay tendencies, they didn't have sex, so he would've been better off leaving and going about his business.
ABSOLUTELY!
Back when people legit thought gay was a “lifestyle”. This is all her fault, she thought he was just going through a phase and would get over it for her. Can’t change people.
A lot of people go through changes sexually when they are young. Surely you cant say that you know no one who has ever changed their preferences.
If people legit thought that, how is this her fault? He was the one who said that he could change. When he realized he couldn't, he should have left her. So sad that people still victim shame in 2022.
@@minervaloves exactly. If he knew he was gay, it isnt her fault for loving someone.
@@minervaloves how is it victim shaming, I go back to the words of noted street thespian Blowfly who said "show me a man that don't like to fuck, and I'll show you a f____t".... that fact that he didn't want no pussy on their WEDDING NIGHT should have been the biggest red flag of them all
Exactly
You get the person you pick! Period! Marriage doesn’t change the behavior it gets worse! There is something wrong with her to think that he would stop messing around with men. People are who they are and he showed her all his red flags 🚩 before she married him. She was caught up with the title of being married.
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Thats really sad, that she even thought or felt that! Who wants a man who has been with a man. Way.....to much!
she knew peaches liked men lol
Not peaches 🍑 haha
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Stop 🤣😂😅
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The desperation is real in her. All those years with NO SEX?!? I believe he told her that he was gay but would try to not be gay. She went in with her eye closed shut. Four years of "marriage" for this mess.
Boy I tell you..., Now I'm not saying that men don't go through the ringer with some of the women that they have encountered and been with. But a lot of these men like this one scares the hell out of me. 🤔 Ummm..., I'm not sure what woman are supposed to do with the crap that we have to choose from but this is a job for God. We can't change no one, a person has to see their faults and fix them, and then there just comes a time where God 🙏 has to step right into your front door and personally deal with you. And this seems to look like that is exactly what is going to have to happen because this has gotten tired, boring, and stupid!
I feel so bad for these two. She wanted a “husband”, her standards are so low that any man can do, even a gay one. He wanted a wife to lead that “normal life”. Sounds terrible, how is that happiness 😩
Why didn’t the judge talk about the dissolution of the marriage since they had not consummated it? Would it be an annulment instead of a divorce? This seems to be an important issue that should have been addressed.
the judge literally said they don't have to get a divorce because the marriage was NEVER consummated.
@@tatianadaniel3569 Hi Tatiana - yes I get that - but she mentioned it - she did not say that that was happening in this case. For the edification of the audience it would have been nice if she actually explained whether or not this was actually appropriate in this case and made it a ruling. She ends every other case with a ruling- why not this one.
@@carlpotter007 Even though Judge Mabelean is a real Judge, on this show, she serves as an arbitrator. She may not have been able to legally inforce that an annulment or a divorce be ordered but the implication is that because they were never sexual after marriage, they may not even be married depending on the laws of the state they were married in.
She did
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She knew he was gay !! Gurl bye
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No, no, no...what type of esteem does sis have to have ever been with him once she knew he was gay...he didn't need to get himself together, she needs to get herself together...for herself then she will find someone to love her.
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7:51 this part killed me 😂💀 “Mrs.hooker” 😂😂😂
When he came home with hickey's, he better be glad that he found someone that loved him. You can't play with people.
Lol they was probably on da back of his neck...
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The way I ran to the comments 😂😂😂😂
Why is she hollering?
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Loud AF! 😂
Just her way of speaking.
The black man with the bald head in the audience facial expression is hilarious. Lol
She can't even get mad at him. Because she knew what he was n the beginning
No one is going to mention “ We haven’t Consicrated our marriage”.
I replayed it like four times LOL!! I might start saying it that way 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@opheliagoode3149 please don't
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I played it three times crying 😂😂😂
I missed it at first 😆 🤣 😂...
Thanks I needed that...
My poor sister she thought excepting his denial made her a better woman. So did the judge. As long as he said I’m not gay I want to be with you; it was enough for her. Over four years of self denial for her. He did not deny himself in his action just his words.
Not ever having sex, wouldn't they just have the marriage annulled and no need for a divorce. I hope you sister is ok she seems a lovely person.
To tell you the truth it shocked me. This case left me sad
This is a sad situation because he knew and she wanted a father for her child. He was hiding from his family. This was a waste of time
She knew too
Waste, smh😐.
She didn’t see THAT comin?!?!?!? “Still gay” hahahaha.
She just wanted to get married. The biological clock scares a lot of women.
If you wait awhile, it'll pass.
lol It sho' will! Mine lasted three months. And then I was like, nah, I'm good.
Damn he couldn't wait until after 7pm to call☎️his lovers & friends, it would've been free..🤔
You must be young. Landlines not cell
Well me being private eye found them both on fb.. looks like the years have dragged him and she's remarried.. so there's that
Oop! 🫢
This is the most foolish thing I ever saw
She was in denial for a looooong time. He never wanted a woman.
She got on my dayum NERVE! My Husband... my HUSBAND. You married a GAY MAN!
She allowed her insecurities to dictate her actions. He looks like a fruit pop in that wedding photo. She knew he was gay when they got together so what did she expect, smh?
He is the original to do this (even though I know it’s not true). It’s just soo crazy!
This case reminded of a young lady I knew in the 1980's who got married to a guy, & she found out that he was gay & Cross dressing. She didn't know about this til after they were married for 3 yrs. She was deeply hurt obviously, however she got hurt worse because his family knew about his homosexuality & DID NOT TELL HER!!!
#SOSAD
So what did she do in the 4 years they wasn't having sex?and what did he do in the 4 years they wasn't having sex 🤔 he probably was out hooking up with other guys.
I can't believe, she stayed married to him for 4 years. With out sex at all.
OMG I CAN'T believe she DIDN'T KNOW
She better count that as a blessing
A job interview on his birthday weekend mmm hmmm 💅🏾
He was using her in so many ways
She used him too she knew he was gay
Why did he want to marry her? It didn't sound like he needed a beard.
That’s exactly what it was
If your husband is into men, it's a great things that you two haven't had "sex"! Too many diseases out here, Love yourSELF FiRST!!!
I would have got me some, Shoot!!! Waisting my time.
She couldn't tell he was gay,then they never slept together,she was so desperate,you can't pray the gay away
Yes the man was wrong for deceiving her, but you mean to tell me that this woman is so desperate of having a man that she is blind to see that man is "still" gay? She needs to build up her self esteem and be with somebody who really wants her. As for him, he has to be honest with her and himself that he is in fact gay and stop trying to please other people INCLUDING his family.
I know this is an old episode but I've seen some desperate women but she takes the cake 😂 four years and he didn't touch you what a foolish woman I don't feel sorry for her she knew what it was.
Ain't no way in hell..... he was gay from jump, and she chose to ignore the signs. He said one thing but his actions spoke the complete opposite. She turned a blind eye to it.
He is a bottom for sure.
She just married him because no one else will!
She's so beautiful. He's a fool. Well both of them but. He should have never done this.
she must've been mighty desperate to marry him
This is why we need to normalize sexuality. Forcing people to conform to being straight leads to this. Just let people be themselves.
She wanted a ring and the ring hurt her fingers.
Selfish man he was not thinking of anyone but himself. He hurt. This woman. . Fix it. Get rid
My late husband didn't either on our wedding night but that because I had morning sickness{Though we engaged to be married when I/we got pregnant with our now 7yr old daughter} though there was a desire of course at least.
she was a beard...
He reminds me of my ex. Very sneaky. He was bi I noticed because he would flip flop all the time
She knew he was gay she just wanted a husband
If he was already Gay did she really think he would stop being gay. There is no way I would ever believe a person saying he would stop being gay. That is who he is. And their is nothing any can do. Point blank
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Why she let this man waste her time?? Good thing they never had sex or kids....but really lady??
Is that really his last name? And he is gay too! Which means he belong to the street here in beautiful New Jersey.
Wow!
A few minutes in and I knew he was gay she is definitely blind. He told her that he was gay so she played herself.
Okay 👍 and I will say this again, listen 👂 to me please..., "He neeevvvveeerrrr should've gotten married." "He knew that he was still into men, well he should've went out and got him one.
The judge is going out to discuss the judgement with who
🤬WTF.... Ladies, you don't need a man so bad that you'd deal with any and every dude that comes along.
Dear desperado
Mr. Hooker is something else. He shouldn't have used her though.Poor Mrs. Hooker.
This is so WRONG on ALL levels.
U could have been Stevie Wonder not to see he wasn’t gay, come on Gurl. The proof is in the hickeys 😂
So he's the bad guy for telling her he was gay before she made the adult decision to marry him anyway and now she's suprised he's gay??? She did this to herself, I got zero sympathy for her at all.8:24
He is a big flamer
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He likes to dress
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She knew he had been in relationships with men, why tf did she marry him?
Yeah agree that is a big risk
So she knew he was gay and into men, but still married him anyways? Girl, bye.
Being gay is not a phase. He only married her so he could appear straight when he's not. He's been living a whole lie just because he didn't wanna embrace the fact that he's gay for whatever reason. And she was desparate to find love that she married him even though she knew he was gay.
Well really she wasn't really married physically because her marriage was constimated , But he knew what he knew , so it was just wrong to really marry her. 😞🤔🤔
Girl bye you know your husband was gay before you met him that wasn’t going to change he didn’t want you to touch him because you don’t have the tools to please him. Girl you played yourself
Still gay. Why didn’t leave then.
He used her as a cover while still trying to live a double life. Selfish.
He was trying to change.
Then why did he married her. Very selfish of him and as well as playing around with God. He is wrong all around
I believe he tried to be straight because back then times was different, but he just couldn't do it. She wanted to force something to be, when a man marries you and don't touch you he is telling you your not it! No disrespect but she played herself, I hope she is happily married today.
This is like the 5th video I’ve seen from Og court with a desperate women marrying gay men expecting them to all of a sudden want women…weird
What woman in her riGhT miNd wOuld marry a gay man? If I met any man who was sleeping with other men......I wouldn't care WHAT HE SAID.....he wouldn't have a chance of being with me in no kind of way! And if he told me that sleeping with men is in his past.....my response would be......"Your past or future has nothing to do with me"! I hate desperate women who refuse to live in reality! They ignore red flags, they ignore truth, and ignore hard logic and just jump into crazy and harmful situations.......and then cry about it!🤔🙄 Some women need TO STOP trying to make the fantasies IN THEIR HEAD rEaLiTy!!!!!💔
@Cindy Hooker you need to sue Him $ he'd never have extra money to Fly nowhere your best friend lied sis
Judge being hard on HIM but ms cindy clearly knew the T
It was still unfair on her end. She believed in what he told her. There is a child involved. He's still wrong perriioodddddd became no one made him marry her. You married a person that you know that you don't even want to have sex with nor touch. He didn't have to do this he just would've been better off washing his hands of her and going on his way.
She never consecrated, concentrated.....she got conned.
He a bottom too 🫣
Omg
Oh goodness, people are so ignorant. She thought she chould change a guy man into a strait man. How naive can you get.