Great advice. Yes don't overcompensate for their lack of clarity or thoughtfulness. Let them show you who they are. It's been a while since I went on a real date as most guys on dating app try to "hang out" last minute. F* that.
The contemplation state is the best! Is amazing just sit and watch people acting and see their actions! I have a semi date setted and I was the last one writting, I would NEVER write anything... Never! I gave you one shot and that is it. Never downgrade my standards because of any man in this world. NO time for it.
"If he's not treating you as a priority, he's missed the number one box on the checklist". 99% one of men's advice on dating states to do exactly the opposite: "focus on yourself and your life, never make her your #1 priority". Somebody's lying
You are so right, Everytime I go on a date on the very last day when I know the date is agreed, I stop all the messaging to relax and to see if she is that interested too as well
Good advice. I had woman confirmed a date with me and that told me she wasn't sure and also interested in me at the same time. I wont play games with women nor confirm any date. If she cancel last minute or ghost me that's fine because it's better than wasting more time and money on her/him
What if the time and the location were confirmed 3 days ago for tomorrow, but he went silent upon confirming date and location? Should I even text him tomorrow morning to confirm? Because I really don't feel like it
@@xbubbles10x So whenever that happens (I'm a guy) there are only really 2 scenarios for this, the first is he's not invested enough and the second is some guys mess things up via texts and it takes them a lot of effort to type out something that would still maintain the momentum... in that case it's in the guy's best interest to text on the day of to minimise any mistakes and what not (from a guy's perspective). Sometimes you should take initiative before making other plans and flaking on him. You know how annoying it is and we feel the same way
If plans are set and you agreed, you either be there or you cancel. Of course he’s going to go silent, what is there to talk about, everything is arranged you just need to show up.
In my opinion, unless there's a time, date, and location, there's NO date.
Great advice. Yes don't overcompensate for their lack of clarity or thoughtfulness. Let them show you who they are. It's been a while since I went on a real date as most guys on dating app try to "hang out" last minute. F* that.
You should Watch “Kevin Samuels”.. He has more good advise for Modern Women how to get High Value Men. And it’s for free advice.
Are you in your twenties? I don’t think there are many men close to 30 or above that “hang out”, instead of date.
The contemplation state is the best! Is amazing just sit and watch people acting and see their actions! I have a semi date setted and I was the last one writting, I would NEVER write anything... Never! I gave you one shot and that is it. Never downgrade my standards because of any man in this world. NO time for it.
"If he's not treating you as a priority, he's missed the number one box on the checklist". 99% one of men's advice on dating states to do exactly the opposite: "focus on yourself and your life, never make her your #1 priority". Somebody's lying
I’m totally confused
@@alessandra.paredes I'm saying women and men are receiving contradictory advice
it's bc most "relationship experts" are mostly grifters
You are so right, Everytime I go on a date on the very last day when I know the date is agreed, I stop all the messaging to relax and to see if she is that interested too as well
Just to know that I am not being pushy
Good advice. I had woman confirmed a date with me and that told me she wasn't sure and also interested in me at the same time. I wont play games with women nor confirm any date. If she cancel last minute or ghost me that's fine because it's better than wasting more time and money on her/him
What if the time and the location were confirmed 3 days ago for tomorrow, but he went silent upon confirming date and location? Should I even text him tomorrow morning to confirm? Because I really don't feel like it
I’m totally confuse
Yes I would like an update on this too! This exact thing happened to me, the guy showed up and I didn’t. Now I kinda feel like the bad guy
@@xbubbles10x So whenever that happens (I'm a guy) there are only really 2 scenarios for this, the first is he's not invested enough and the second is some guys mess things up via texts and it takes them a lot of effort to type out something that would still maintain the momentum... in that case it's in the guy's best interest to text on the day of to minimise any mistakes and what not (from a guy's perspective). Sometimes you should take initiative before making other plans and flaking on him. You know how annoying it is and we feel the same way
If plans are set, a few hours beforehand, say "See you soon!"
If plans are set and you agreed, you either be there or you cancel. Of course he’s going to go silent, what is there to talk about, everything is arranged you just need to show up.