Once your precious baby girl is born have Josh wrap her in a baby blanket and bring that blanket home with her scent on it and allow the dogs to smell it before you bring her home so they get used to it ahead of time. Sometimes it makes the transition easier. They may be a bit more relaxed when she does come home ❤️
Also before YOU let dogs see you hold her, bring her in in the car seat (I’m sure you would anyway) but let them see you gently take her out and hold her, your pets most likely were already aware of her growing in your belly so they will be awesome and one thing to watch for is sometimes they Can get tooo protective lol. My dog would always stand between my dad and the baby’s pack play/swing etc for a few weeks. It’s very sweet tho, he slept in front of her crib almost every night!
But yes the blanket thing is the best, my doctors even recommended that! And I feel so bad for you, you can DEFINITELY tell that lil mama is squishin your lungs lol! I feel you girl! I’m 29 weeks now with my fourth so I feel your pain!
I just made that comment as well! That’s what I did! I have a Dalmatian & a lab pointer mix. It was so sweet…the dogs sniffed it & even wanted to sleep with it!!! My main concern was them bombarding her when we walked in the door & doing this really helped with that bc it wasn’t a “new” scent. 🤍
Watching you talk about how scared you are brought me to tears. Your ability to be so vulnerable with your followers is so precious. All we can give to you in return are an avalanche of blessings and positive vibes for you and Josh and baby girl when she decides to make her entry into this world xxx
I promise you Kendall I promise promise promise you YOU’VE GOT THIS! Your body knows what it’s doing and you are so strong and capable I promise you that you and your body will get it done and bring your baby into this world and you will feel so proud and strong and empowered and incredible! I know you will I have such a strong feeling that your birth is going to do nothing but strengthen you as a woman and completely empower you! I believe in you and I love you (that must be weird to hear when you don’t know me haha) and you’ve absolutely got this Mama!!!! Sending all my love and positive energy !!! Woooop woooop let’s get this baby here!
@@Kendaily trust me, baby only needs you, your boobs and nappies. There is too much out there, too much fuss, equipment, judgment and advice. Do it your way, enjoy it as much as possible and note that only some advice will fit you as all mamas and babies are different and unique 🥰 you’ve got this and I wish you both so much happiness and a quick easy birth 💜💕❤️
Kendall, I can’t believe it’s almost time!! Sending the most positive, loving, and calming energy towards you and the baby. Your gonna be an amazing momma!❤️
You only get to experience this one time with this sweet little girl. Live in the moment. Enjoy making memories. You'll do fine. Congratulations! And the dogs will love the baby. Everyone likes babies, including animals.
No on ever told me what was going to happen when I was going to have my baby everything just came naturally, I never knew I could have the strength it just was there! Every time I sat in my pillow covered rocker & held my Beautiful Child I couldn't believe the Love that poured out of my heart, I never knew I had that much Love inside of me! You got this don't even worry about all of us mind you we will wait forever for Josh & you and baby that makes 3 ❤️❤️❤️!
You are so much stronger than you think!! Trust in your medical team. Your doctor wouldn't give you these types of recommendations lightly. Both a healthy baby and a healthy mom is what they have in mind. Also, your control issues are going to be on the fritz for a while... There's absolutely zero control over a baby on this side. Enjoy every moment. It all goes so fast. I'm so glad that you're taking the time you need away from the social media world. Enjoy momma!! Congratulations!!
Your feelings of anxiety and fear are totally normal and valid, it is such a huge deal bringing a new life into this world! The last few weeks of pregnancy are so difficult with all of the uncertainties and just wanting the baby to be born already, I struggled so much in the last weeks of both of my pregnancies with the same feelings. And it was so routine for the doctors that they made me feel like I was overreacting and should just ‘stop worrying’. For me it was a huge deal and really scary to give birth but ultimately I had to accept I had no control and had to trust my doctors. You will do great and one day look back on this time and realize how strong of a person you are!
Remember that 1st babies usually take longer to come. So relax, breath and know that you are stronger than you think. 🌸 Labour is like sleep because we need the same conditions to "fall into labour" and progress as we need to fall asleep. We need to feel safe and warm and relaxed, at peace. We need to be in a place in which we feel comfortable and we need to feel free from pressure, anxiety or fear. Wishing you all the best!
Just know its temporary and all will get better each day, on my third pregnancy I had a 11 lb baby natural and ripped and each day I told myself each day I will get better, don't stress sweetie pie and all will work out okay, sending love and light and many blessings your way, thank-you for sharing and BREATHE and all will be okay and Yes, trust and let it be, cut the chords from other peoples energy you picked up, sometimes we pick up other peoples energy. Take your time and don't worry about us, your number one and enjoy your baby girl and your blessed to have Josh and your wonderful family support :)
I had to pick a date at 37 weeks too. I had her a day shy of 38 weeks! She was 7lbs. 8 1/2 oz and 21 inches long! I also ended up in preterm labor at 28 weeks and was in the hospital for a week then on bed rest for ten weeks! I had the two shots for her lung development in case she came before 37 weeks! That was almost 18 years ago! So I would think that you need to talk to your doctor at your next appointment and voice all concerns for your state of mind, Josh’s, and just so you can feel safe! Good luck! Can’t wait to see her! Congratulations! 🎈🍾 ❤️💕
I started reading to my babies in the hospital. My mom and grandmother did the same. We took blankets from the hospital home for our cats so they’d get used to their scent before the babies came home. As soon as we got home we set the carrier on the floor and let them sniff being on guard in case they got aggressive but sitting on either side of the carrier and paying attention to the *cats* and talking to them and asking what they thought. We explained who and what the baby was. You know the intelligence of your pets.
You are so freaking gorgeous, and your entire audience just knows you're going to be the most amazing mother. That baby is so lucky to come into this world having you and Josh as her parents.
You know it's getting really close when you start nesting. The night before my water broke, I was insistent that this one project I was doing in our kitchen was completed. Had nothing to do with the baby. Just something that I felt I needed to complete. Your body just knows. I hope Josh is able to film you holding your baby for the first time. Looking into her eyes for the first time. It's absolutely incredible and I wish I had mine filmed. It's something you will never forget.
I won’t sugar coat it, it is going to be so scary and hard at first but take it day by day and let Josh handle whatever you can’t. Trust him, lean on him and take advantage of all the help he can and is willing to offer. Remember you’re not alone and I promise everyday gets easier. Also don’t spend hours worrying about something that could be wrong with the baby or you. There is nurse hotlines 24/7 for new parents to answer any and all questions that come up. Before you know it your little baby is going to be sitting up, laughing, starting solids etc. and you’ll have gotten the hang of this parent thing. I’m sooo excited for you guys💕🥹
💜💜coming from a 23yr mother of three. All of my babies were induced, all i had an epidural and pushed them out. After my first child I went into my second pregnancy with a more open mindset you could say. My inductions were not planned. My daughter at 39 weeks and my twins at 36 weeks. The delivery never goes how you think they are going to go and lots of things could happen. Just hope for a smooth delivery 💜 It is scary and having children changes your whole life but to see them grow right in front of your eyes is what makes it all worth it. My daughter is almost 5 and my twins just turned 1. All of us are different 💜 we all experience different deliveries 💜 I've been watching your videos for years now and I'm soo happy for you! 💜 Sending you good vibes *If you actually read this sorry its so long
1.I could see the sky through your car windows and it is beautiful there. 2. My grandson was born at 30 weeks and I have every confidence you and your girl are going to be fine and healthy. I don't know your birth plan but if you need an epidural take it and don't feel bad about it. 3. If you're drinking a lot of pickle juice that could be part of the reason you're so swollen. Love and prayers are with you and you and Josh are going to do great!
If it eases your mind just a little, both my boys were born at 37 weeks. My first came on his own and I had to be induced with my 2nd due to growth restriction. Both of them were perfect! My youngest was small but that wasn’t because of his gestational age. He is almost 3 months old now and my oldest is 2! I love your videos and good luck with your sweet little girl!
as an L&D nurse, all I can say is your baby will decide exactly how and when she wants to come. the show is run by the baby, not us! I always tell patients that the first lesson is parenthood is the release of control and it starts with pregnancy and delivery haha! you are AMAZING Kendall & you'll never feel like you did everything right -- the fact that you're scared means you're already the perfect parent. Induction is hard, but usually only done if necessary. Always feel free to get a second opinion, but know that we take gestational hypertension and pre-eclampsia so seriously and it's for your safety. Make the experience your own and make your hospital room comfortable. YOU GOT THIS!!!! We can't wait to meet this little lady🤍
Super stoked for you guys! My wife and I are huge fans, we never go to sleep without watching any new videos! We can't wait for your BabyGirl to arrive...we can't wait to meet her too! I'm sad for Bernie...poor guy he can sense something's up Lol....OMG!!!! Josh had me dying literally LOL! When he said "the green baby food was "Tomatillo Salsa" 😂🤣🤭🙈 you both are gonna be amazing parents! Congratulations 🙌🏼🤩🥳 come to Phoenix sometime! 🤙🏼 Wifey & I are Mexican tell Josh we'll make him so bomb real Tomatillo salsa & authentic Mexican food for you guys! 😊🤙🏼
I'm so glad you were able to take maternity leave early. I worked until the day I had mine. You may have more than one child but you'll never be pregnant with that child again. Use this time to really embrace the time you and her still have alone together. You will miss it once she gets here. I can tell you guys are going to be great parents! She is going to be in a house full of love! Congratulations and treasure everday because they grow fast ❤️
My daughter in law just was induced last Monday (37 weeks) for the same reason swelling and high blood pressure. We have our second granddaughter Sadie Ann. Praying all goes well and let go of the control because you have no control and you will do whatever you have to to get her here. And once she is here it makes it all worth it.
I had my daughter at 37 weeks and it turned out great my son was born at 35 weeks it was an emergency c-section and I wasn't dilating and the cord rapped around his neck even though we had a rough birthday and complications he is now a healthy 17 years old. Don't worry to much it will happen in its own time but if your blood pressure is up it can cut off food and oxygen to the baby just keep that in mind. My prayers are with you and Josh
Birthing is one of the most amazing experiences (I've done it several times). You realize that you have absolutely no control over what your body is about to do. You can't yell at your belly and command that baby to come out any more than, once labor starts, you can stop it by yelling, "Wait! I'm not ready!" This process and this baby are on their own miraculous timetable. And you get to watch your body do what you never thought it could do. You have a truly divine instinct that completely engages and takes over your mind. It's a matter of sitting back (technically) and not fighting the process. Do what you were instinctually made to do. Do everything you learned in your birthing classes. Rejoice in the miracle. You'll be just fine.
And I want to add, if for whatever reason, you have a C-section, it's just as amazing. When you hold that little life in your arms, all of those nights recently that you couldn't sleep, where you felt like your pelvis was a knotted pretzel about to snap in two... it will be ALL very worth it.
Wishing you a beautiful, happy and healthy birth experience! It truly is one of the best moments in life. Congratulations Kendall and Josh! So excited for you both 🤍
Breathe it all is better once you hear that first cry from your sweet baby. I am an RN who had severe complications getting pregnant and staying pregnant. I personally will never tell another Mom what to do or how to feel. I can empathize with some and sympathize with others yet I cannot know your whole past to know how, why you feel whatever you feel. You have to go with what your body is telling you and advice from your doctor. Whatever choice you make will be what is right for you. The love and support you have in your life will get you through it all. Hope you keep laughing and enjoying this time. Sending you positive thoughts💝💝💝
I brought my son home in a car seat and let my miniature schnauzer sniff him. She sniffed him, sneezed, and then walked away!🤣 As my son got older they never really cared for each other. My dog doesn’t really like kid but isn’t aggressive or scared around them. Then when my son was 2 we had a boxer mix(approx. 8 months old per the vet) come to our house and never left so we adopted him. The boxer is now around 9 years old and my son is 11 and they are best friends. He is the most gentle sweet dog I’ve ever met. My son could pull his ears and tail and he wouldn’t even flench. Of course we taught him not to do that. Dogs are amazing with children. They are a blessing in most cases.☺️ Congrats Kendall and Josh!! I know you both will be amazing parents!❤️
Best wishes for a short, easy delivery Kendall!! I was in the hospital for 16 days when I gave birth to my daughter. ( I have a chronic illness that flared up). I was induced on a Monday, had my daughter on Thursday. My labor was on and off for those four days. Usually, once you’re induced, you’ll have a bundle of joy within a few hours. Because I was so sick, the doctor didn’t want to give me any more medication to move things along. It really wasn’t a big deal. Labor feels like gas pain, only easier. Gas pain can last for hours. When you’re having contractions the pain builds up for a couple minutes, peaks, then goes back down, so you do get periods of time where the pain is much less intense. Labor really isn’t bad. If I can say that after having pleurisy, pulmonary edema, and pericarditis during the end of my pregnancy and during labor, you’ll see it’s not as bad as what you might think!! Blessings to you, Josh and the baby!
You look so gorgeous, Kendall!!! The thumbnail is just everything. Wishing you, Josh, Baby & every one of your critters all the blessings of happiness and love as you start this new wonderful (yet sometimes miserable- which is ok & totally normal) journey together. As for advice I have to offer: Lean on your support system when you need it. You can't be the best mom you want to be unless you remember to take care of yourself, mental health especially! And revel in every teeny tiny hiccup of awesomeness from your baby. It sounds like a no-brainer piece of advice. Speaking as a mom whose baby just turned 17 yesterday, the phrase "time flies by so fast" doesn't hold a candle to how quickly it truly flies by. I'm sure you don't need the advice to begin with. You guys got this! Congratulations Josh & Kendall 🖤
Birth in any manner can go how it’s not supposed to or go amazingly well. I feel like induction gets a really bad rap,but my induction was 10000 times better than my spontaneous labor and birth. You just literally don’t know how birth is going to go,which of course is frightening. The best thing you can do is really go in with an open mind✨You’ve got this and I wish you a great birth experience and can’t wait to “meet” baby!!! Congrats again guys🤍
Aw! Kendall you were born to be a mom! You are so nurturing and loving. As a mom of two and a fellow Taurus I understand how the uncertainty scares you. But please understand that this is your life now… with babies all the way up to kids everything is going to be uncertain. But the one thing for certain is you and Josh are gonna be great parents! You both will have a daughter to love and spoil! It is going to be okay. Just breathe! 😘
I had my first baby girl at 38 weeks due to low amniotic fluids. They were great! It was actually a generally comfortable experience. I had the epidural, I felt some pressure, no tearing, and she was perfect. It is always scary when you have never given birth before, but after, you will miss all of the experience. You will miss her in your belly. I cried for an hour a week afterwards in the shower because I wasn’t carrying her anymore. The hormones! Gosh! 😂 Best of luck for a safe delivery and healthy baby! I’m so excited for you guys!
Its sad to say but it's the truth, it is so much more exciting, relaxing and enjoyable when the father is just as happy if not more about the baby coming! just beautiful honestly.
Girlll! I am so sorry you’re scared. I was 18 when I had my first son and I was scared at first but by the time I got to the end I just accepted it. Like, mamas do this every single day since the dawn of time. You got this! (You prob already had her lol) but don’t be scared (that’s easier said than done) but you will be ok… it’s the most amazing thing how someone who has ZERO experience with pregnancy/babies etc… can just become a mom in a split second the second you deliver the baby. You just all the sudden know what to do, and even if you don’t, you figure it out. This baby is relying on you so you have no choice. Besides the immense amount of unconditional love you’ll feel for your baby I think that’s why we’re able to pick it up so easily. Granted at 18 I did have my moms help but my husband (then boyfriend) and I didn’t live with her anymore, we had just moved out. And now it’s 17 years later and I’m 29 weeks pregnant with my fourth lol! You. Got. This. Mama. 💪🏽
Some of my family members were concerned that our large golden retriever would scare or jump on our newborn but he was so gentle and overprotective of her and slept right next to her crib every night. He was very gentle with her and when she was a toddler she would playfully “bother” him at times and he’d totally let her lol. I feel your dogs will be gentle and protective of your baby girl as well…they’re lovable and sweet and have the best “parents” to guide them. 😊❤️
I can hear the breath leaving her as she speaks and recall the feeling of not being able to catch my breath while being pregnant. Can't wait til it's over for you girl. Xoxoxo
It's normal to feel overwhelmed 😕 I understand! I hate not being able to control things. I'm also pregnant (second trimester) been so sick throwing up and it is just very frustrating not being able to stop feeling like crap. Sending love ❤️ everything will be ok
Kendall, you are a beautiful person inside and out, even tho right now you feel like a hot mess! My daughter is also due any day now with her first, and it's such a joy to watch both of you go through this special time! You'll be great, and so will Josh...it seems to me that you already gave your baby a great gift...a loving, strong foundation, and that can not be underestimated ! You'll be in my prayers and just know you are loved!
I was so excited when you announced your pregnancy, I was also pregnant too I had my baby June 8th a little boy. I wish you a smooth delivery (if there is even a thing) and I know you both are going to be amazing parents.
I got induced at 37 weeks with my first less than a month ago. it was such a crazy and long experience. i was in labor for 50 hours but i ended up having a successful vaginal delivery! During it I was thinking I would never do this again. but now that 3 weeks have passed, all i can think of is how thankful and lucky i am to have known my little man for an extra 3 weeks!!!
Dogs are so gentle with babies and children. They understand they are delicate and take on a caring role. It’s important to include them in everything though and allow them to be near the baby. 💕🐾
Aw Kendal I’m sure your baby girl is here by now. I will just say I had gestational bp, never preeclamptic. I had to be induced. (I was 39wks) I ended up with a C-section due to my bp and some decels. Regardless, my baby and myself were safe. (I opted for a scheduled C-section for my second baby due to anxiety and because honestly I just wanted it) WE ARE SO STRONG. Just wait till that baby girls little hand is wrapped around your finger. Just take your recovery slow. You’ll be able to breathe again soon lol❤️✨
Dude you’ve so got this!! You are such an intuitive person already! I know it’s so hard not to overthink everything I did the same thing with my daughter! With my son I had elevated blood pressure as well. I was induced at 37 weeks. Everything went perfect just like it did with my daughter. Trust in yourself that you got this girl!!! You are so amazing and I am so excited for you to experience truly the best day of your life!! It is so life changing and everything you have been waiting for ❤️
3 kids here. My first I had preclampsyia bad. I got induced and for me its no different than going into labor naturally except I like induction better because it's convenient. I Had 1 failed epidural, had 2 successful epidurals. When the epidural worked I literally gave birth watching TV lol. The hardest part is being pregnant. Giving birth was nothing for me in comparison of 9 months of feeling miserable. Girl you got this 👍💯💜💙 any questions feel free I'll tell you straight
I felt the same way you felt, mama. I had elevated BP and did turn preeclamptic and I was induced at 37 weeks. I was so scared, anxious, and felt like I didn't have control. Once she's here, you'll look back at this and be so proud of yourself. You're bringing a human that you've created into this world. You are MAGIC mama!
I have a Dalmatian & a dog that’s 3/4 lab 1/4 pointer. After I had my baby girl, I had bought a specific blanket to do this - I wrapped her up in it & let her be in it for a little while. Then I sent it home with someone & let the pups sniff it & they even wanted to sleep with it 😭 so…that might be something you could do - send a blanket home beforehand so they get her scent before you walk in the door with her. I never really realized until just now that my pups had never been around a little human either before I had my baby girl. But right before I was induced, both of them would start laying their heads on my tummy & my little girl would kick them 😂 then after I brought her home, they both slept curled up under her little bassinet in the living room when she napped & it was the cutest thing ever. 🥰
my son was born at almost 42 weeks this April. my doctor wanted to induce at 40 (neither baby or I had complications though) but I felt I was so close to having him naturally and really had this whole idea of how everything was going to go. it's great to have a doctor who is willing to work with you but also have the babys best interest in mind. he supported my wishes and just asked we do 2 check ups a week until we were ready. in the end I did decide induction was best (plus I was def. done feeling so pregnant) and even though it wasn't my plan and a few other things didn't go as expected (delayed cord clamping wasn't done and neither was the immediate hour long skin to skin) but looking back, none of that really mattered. I have a beautiful healthy baby and without a doubt that was the best day of my life. no matter how or when your little one comes, as long as she is healthy, nothing else will matter. stay strong mama, you got this!!
I was induced because at 36 weeks i was 2cm dialated, and by 40 there was 0 change. She was NOT in a hurry! As a first time mom, i have no other experiences to compair it to, but i had a pretty long labor. Everything was absolutely fine though and she came out perfectly healthy. There is no wrong way to bring your baby into the world! And you'll be in good hands!
I know becoming a new mother is sooo scary and hard but you are going to be such a wonderful mom. Josh will be a great dad too. I hope everything is going great for you guys❤️
I was induced because of high blood pressure. Do what you have to do/ what you want to do. If you do get induced at least you will have a set day & time which may help you feel more in control in that sense. I love you Kendall! You will do AMAZING. Baby will be fine, and so will you.🫶🏻
I just wanna hug you rn! It's very emotional being a new mom! The fur babies will adjust to her and love her just as much as they love y'all ❤️ Your the sweetest too❤️ Your gonna be a perfectly beautiful mom! I truly believe you got this babe! 😘 Love y'all can't wait to see how precious and beautiful she is💕
Josh hit the nail on the head! The worry won’t change what’s going to come. He is such a great support system! Lean on him and you both will be great! You’ve got this momma!!!
Kendall you are one of the most amazing and genuine people I’ve come across on RUclips. I’ve been watching you and Josh for years now and I am truly so happy and excited for you guys. You guys are going to absolutely kick ass as parents. You already are great parents to your fur babies and I have no doubt you will be to your baby girl as well. Also, the baby shower decor is SO CUTE I am in freaking love. I saw the baby’s room on tik tok and I am in love with that as well. Sending an abundance of love to you guys and your sweet baby girl.💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
I just wanna say ,I’ve been watching you GENEROUSLY . So stupid emotional with you during this journey. You are gonna see when I say this , but babe , YOURE DOING GREAT , stop , think , breathe babe. look at that beautiful face , you’re doing so great!cant wait to see how you’re doing in the mommy realm! So soo soooo excited for you . I know exactly how you feel , your emotions when you were discussing in your bathroom, taking off your makeup , I couldn’t relate to you more. Those thoughts were the worst ! But look at you now. You’re doing amazing. Y’all are gonna be great ! See you soon(not in a creep way) lol !
13.40 i get how you feel my first daughter i was diagnosed with obstetric cholostasis and was told by my doctor from 20 weeks that my baby could die then at 37 weeks everything went back to normal but they didnt want her to go over term so was induced at 40 weeks but she pooped in the water and i had to have an emergency c sect . Scary as hell but shes now a beautiful 20 year old young woman and i couldnt wish for a more perfect best friend. You have Josh by your side and whether she comes out naturally or medically helped she is going to grow into a beautiful young lady as you and Josh are amazing!!!! Best of luck and i cannot wait to meet her xxxx
As I understand it, your baby girl is in control now, mama. She'll come when she comes unless you decide to induce. You're strong and powerful and you got this!!! We are women hear us roar 😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You guys are so cool! My baby is 27 yrs old and being a single mother all her life I gotta say you two rock! Also being a dog rescuer all my life you two are on the best path ever! Many many happy memories you'll have as I do ! Good luck cuz when it actually happens it'll blow your mind!!!!! Peace from a fellow Coloradan!
I have been watching you and Josh for a while now. You are strong and can do this. I had my only child at the age of 40. I was like you at 35 weeks and found out I had preeclampsia. I had to have a C-section. I'm here to tell you my son was 4 weeks early and was perfectly fine. You do what you feel is right about your birth plan and know you have this. I will be praying for you and your precious baby girl. 🥰
Thank you for bringing me along I can't have kids and and so flipping happy to come along the journey. I only have fur babies but am so stoked about your little baby girl thanks you so much for sharing for us that can't have this experience 💕 💛 💗 💓 ♥️
Kendall and Josh I’m so excited for you both! 😊💗 I know it’s easier said than done, but Kendall try not to overthink it all and stress. As soon as she’s here, you will just fall so in love with her and as long as she’s in your arms happy and healthy, nothing else will matter. And that’s all she will need for the first few weeks, is to be fed and hugged (and changed lol). I was about where you are when I spontaneously went into labour (35 weeks & 6 days). I was so sure it was too early and just Braxton Hicks, that I thought I’d just go to the hospital to make sure everything was ok. I only took a handbag with me and our nursery wasn’t even set up. I gave birth the next day! The birth didn’t go to plan and ended up with me labouring for several hours and then having an emergency c-section under anesthetic. About 6-7 hours went by between the birth and me getting to meet her - but as soon as I held her, I just felt her melt into me and I knew she knew me. She’s a year old now and we are joined at the hip. 😂 She’s happy and healthy, and my husband and I are still learning every day. It’s hard, but it’s beyond incredible the depth and scope of the love you will feel. The rest, you will play by ear, but you guys are both so in tune with your feelings and have so much empathy for others, that I really think you are going to give this little girl everything she needs. A delay on a bookcase is nothing! 😊 Give it about 10 months and those books will be all over the floor anyway! 😂 💗 Sending you all my love xoxox
I am so happy and excited for you I can't have kids I've had 7 miscarriages so seeing you pregnant makes me feel happy love you God-bless you and your family❤️💋 And make sure when your husband comes home to have a blanket or something that smells like her so the dogs can smell it and no it's her I did that with every one of my cousins kids I raised a lot of my cousins kids
Good luck in hospital Kendall😊Everything will be just fine😊Can't wait to see your precious baby girl😊I am a long time subscriber from Poland and my son was born on the 2nd of August...maybe your daughter will be born on this day too😊 My son is 14 now, such a kind, inteligent and cool teenager. I wish you a beautiful journey of motherhood with your baby, and all the best for both of you❤You will be amazing parents😊 Just all the best to you❤Stay safe and healthy❤
Minions speak their own language for sure but it is most definitely Romance language based. My mom and I recognized some French and Spanish in it and also gibberish lol. As far as your anxieties and fears of getting it all together and making the right choices for you and baby girl, from one woman with anxiety who has given birth to one who's about to, I was where you are before my girl came but it all works out sweetie! New is scary but it's also amazing!! You will all be amazing on the post birth side of this! Love to you guys and your beautiful soon to be sweetie!
Thank you for your honesty about being scared not having control over how or when your baby comes into the world. I’ve had friends look at me like I’m crazy for being afraid to have a baby because of the uncertainty. You’re going to do PHENOMENALLY and you both are going to be outstanding parents 💖💖💖 sending lots of love and positive vibes to you and your loves 💖💖💖
My son is turning 2 in a few days and it feels like just yesterday I was where you are. Your feelings are so valid and they show that you already love and care for your daughter so much that you want to be a great parent to her on her very first day! She will be happiest in your arms and Josh’s. All she wants is nourishment and Mommy! Trust yourself. You are going to do amazing.
Kendall, Congratulations on making it this far in your pregnancy. I hope you are more relaxed at this point. Please take care of yourself and use Josh to reassure you in all your decisions the two of you are in control not the doctor. I am so excited for your daughter to join your family. The dogs will adjust well once they spend time with her. I agree having Josh bring a baby blanket home for Bernie and Sadie to get used to her smell will probably help with them adjusting. Don't worry about uploading we will all be here when you are ready to come back. I'm sending prayers and positive energy your way for a peaceful relaxing birth. Welcome to parenthood. You and Josh are going to be amazing parents.
watching you cry hurt my heart ❤️ I know you’re scared kendall but you have soooo many people surrounding you to help you through this. love you and good luck ❤️❤️❤️
I had pre-eclampsia that developed into HELLP syndrome at 33 weeks. They debated inducing me but I'm very lucky my mum (a nurse of 30+ years) was there to remind them that was not an option with how far into it I was at that point. I had an emergency C-section and it was a whirl wind, but she's about to turn 1 in 2 weeks time a very happy healthy little lady. You're already over the hump of 34 weeks (probably way over if these vlogs are back dated) which is when their brain is fully developed and they're learning to suck and swallow, so are hopefully more likely to take to breast feeding. You may have already had her! Wishing you, Josh and baby all the best as you start an amazing journey together. Cherish every minute they grow up way too fast!
Giving birth is the most natural thing you can do, and your body was made for it. You are a strong, beautiful women who’s body KNOWS WHAT ITS DOING. You have got this mama! I’m sending positive thoughts your way Kendall! You are going to rock this!
There's a recent study that inducing at 39 weeks has less risks then going 40 or more weeks. My water broke at 37+3. It was pretty smooth once I got epidural. Getting there due to old annoying rules took a bit. I hope you have her soon or now. It will be worth it no matter what.
I love you and your transparency ♥️ I know the waiting game is scary I was terrified when I had my daughter. I struggled so bad because I had a birth plan and ended up with a emergency c section. I felt like I had no control over what was happening to my body and I still struggle with wanting to control everything. But honestly it’s all in her hands. And of course the doctors who will do what is safest for you and your baby. Also if your scared about the pain.. it really helps to let it come as much as you can, accept it and welcome it. The more you tense up the worse the pain will be. It helped me a lot to have coloring books and music to just really relax and get in the zone. Love y’all and I am so happy for y’all!! Can’t wait to see that sweet baby.
I’m so beyond excited. You two will be such amazing parents and this baby is already so loved! I’ve been here since the bedroom floor days so I feel like I know y’all. You’re in my thoughts, I hope birth goes super smoothly💓
As a young mom I was super scared of the birthing part and postpartum depression and I was so proud and happy with my experience did it go as planned no but it will forever be the best day of my life !!! You got this mama 💖
I know it's hard. I had to keep reminding myself constantly that there's nothing that I can control with my pregnancies and deliveries. It doesn't help much but I always found it reassuring when I remembered that women do this everyday and it's what we are made for. You are so strong and you have this amazing support system.
Kendall I’ve given birth more than twice and every time was different and though I was not as scared as the first time I still worried with my other pregnancies. I am sure you will make the right decision for you and Josh and your baby. I am sending positive vibes to you and once it is over and you have your precious baby girl you won’t think about any of this and wonder why was I so worried. It’s all a part of motherhood! Love u 🤗🤗👍🥰🙌
MY FUCKING HEART EXPLODED watching this! You will make it through this & you’ll be the strongest you’ve ever been! I don’t know you but I love you & I just know baby girl will have the best parents you & your husband will be phenomenal parents when things get crazy just always remember that y’all are a team you two can overcome ANYTHING!
Awee couldn’t help but to tear up w you boo 🥺 I felt the same way when I had my daughter, I had no choice they had to induce me @ 38wks for her sake & mine but I was so so scared literally doctors had to tell me to stop crying & push bc I just kept saying how scared I was 🥺 it’s a different type of fear, fear of the unknown, that they’ll no longer be safe in your belly & you’re responsible for a whole nother life besides your own.. that didn’t kick in to me until I was minutes away from her being born but at the same time the most beautiful thing I’ve ever experienced in life 🫶🏽✨ you got this mama!!! We are all uplifting you guys & sending all our love & support 😊
After listening to all your worries and uncertainty over the blood pressure and whether to get induced, I wanted to offer some advice as on my first daughter I ended being induced for the same reasons however I was overdue already before the symptoms started. By 37 weeks if your symptoms have not settled my advice would be that the conditions could cause more harm in the extra week than the difference for baby staying onboard for her health benefits. It took me 3 days of induction and then I still had an emergency c section and I was officially 10 days overdue but more by my dates, what I am saying is holding out probably wouldn’t change the outcome of how the delivery will go. I am wishing you both all the best and sure you will all do brilliantly. My sisters boys were born 5 and 6 weeks early but both could breath for themselves and were in good health, trying to put your mind at ease for if you do have to deliver early, lots of love ❤️ ❤️❤️ and best wishes xxx
Your dogs can sense that you are pregnant (even if some aren’t acting like it, they just know) my dog definitely did really well, they will almost certainly KNOW that’s your baby, they will know and sense you guys protectiveness over baby, and they will want to join in on being protective over baby! Slow introduction to be safe (definitely let them smell a blanket the baby has been wrapped in) and they will know! It will be so sweet!!!!!
I just wanted to say that I'm sending prayers and good vibes your way. You and Josh are going to be fantastic parents to you precious little girl. You've already had so much practice with all of your fur babies. It's like you said, Kendall, anything that we do for the first time is a little scary but it's usually not as bad as we make it up to be in our minds. Keep thinking good thoughts and before you know it, you're going to be a mama!🙏❤️
Once your precious baby girl is born have Josh wrap her in a baby blanket and bring that blanket home with her scent on it and allow the dogs to smell it before you bring her home so they get used to it ahead of time. Sometimes it makes the transition easier. They may be a bit more relaxed when she does come home ❤️
Great idea!
This is a great idea.
Also before YOU let dogs see you hold her, bring her in in the car seat (I’m sure you would anyway) but let them see you gently take her out and hold her, your pets most likely were already aware of her growing in your belly so they will be awesome and one thing to watch for is sometimes they
Can get tooo protective lol. My dog would always stand between my dad and the baby’s pack play/swing etc for a few weeks. It’s very sweet tho, he slept in front of her crib almost every night!
But yes the blanket thing is the best, my doctors even recommended that! And I feel so bad for you, you can DEFINITELY tell that lil mama is squishin your lungs lol! I feel you girl! I’m 29 weeks now with my fourth so I feel your pain!
I just made that comment as well! That’s what I did! I have a Dalmatian & a lab pointer mix. It was so sweet…the dogs sniffed it & even wanted to sleep with it!!! My main concern was them bombarding her when we walked in the door & doing this really helped with that bc it wasn’t a “new” scent. 🤍
Watching you talk about how scared you are brought me to tears. Your ability to be so vulnerable with your followers is so precious. All we can give to you in return are an avalanche of blessings and positive vibes for you and Josh and baby girl when she decides to make her entry into this world xxx
I love that Josh is just as excited as you are. He is so clearly going to be an awesome dad! Congratulations you guys!!
He will be 🥲 thank you
I promise you Kendall I promise promise promise you YOU’VE GOT THIS! Your body knows what it’s doing and you are so strong and capable I promise you that you and your body will get it done and bring your baby into this world and you will feel so proud and strong and empowered and incredible! I know you will I have such a strong feeling that your birth is going to do nothing but strengthen you as a woman and completely empower you! I believe in you and I love you (that must be weird to hear when you don’t know me haha) and you’ve absolutely got this Mama!!!! Sending all my love and positive energy !!! Woooop woooop let’s get this baby here!
Thank you so much Jennifer 😀💜💜
@@Kendaily trust me, baby only needs you, your boobs and nappies. There is too much out there, too much fuss, equipment, judgment and advice. Do it your way, enjoy it as much as possible and note that only some advice will fit you as all mamas and babies are different and unique 🥰 you’ve got this and I wish you both so much happiness and a quick easy birth 💜💕❤️
Kendall, I can’t believe it’s almost time!! Sending the most positive, loving, and calming energy towards you and the baby. Your gonna be an amazing momma!❤️
You only get to experience this one time with this sweet little girl. Live in the moment. Enjoy making memories. You'll do fine. Congratulations! And the dogs will love the baby. Everyone likes babies, including animals.
My first son came at 38 weeks and he was super healthy. You do what makes you feel comfortable as long as baby girl is healthy! You've got this!
My son came exactly 2 weeks early as well! So did me and my sister. All perfectly healthy and good sized!
No on ever told me what was going to happen when I was going to have my baby everything just came naturally, I never knew I could have the strength it just was there! Every time I sat in my pillow covered rocker & held my Beautiful Child I couldn't believe the Love that poured out of my heart, I never knew I had that much Love inside of me! You got this don't even worry about all of us mind you we will wait forever for Josh & you and baby that makes 3 ❤️❤️❤️!
You are so much stronger than you think!! Trust in your medical team. Your doctor wouldn't give you these types of recommendations lightly. Both a healthy baby and a healthy mom is what they have in mind. Also, your control issues are going to be on the fritz for a while... There's absolutely zero control over a baby on this side. Enjoy every moment. It all goes so fast. I'm so glad that you're taking the time you need away from the social media world. Enjoy momma!! Congratulations!!
Your feelings of anxiety and fear are totally normal and valid, it is such a huge deal bringing a new life into this world! The last few weeks of pregnancy are so difficult with all of the uncertainties and just wanting the baby to be born already, I struggled so much in the last weeks of both of my pregnancies with the same feelings. And it was so routine for the doctors that they made me feel like I was overreacting and should just ‘stop worrying’. For me it was a huge deal and really scary to give birth but ultimately I had to accept I had no control and had to trust my doctors. You will do great and one day look back on this time and realize how strong of a person you are!
Remember that 1st babies usually take longer to come. So relax, breath and know that you are stronger than you think. 🌸
Labour is like sleep because we need the same conditions to "fall into labour" and progress as we need to fall asleep. We need to feel safe and warm and relaxed, at peace. We need to be in a place in which we feel comfortable and we need to feel free from pressure, anxiety or fear.
Wishing you all the best!
Yes! I had my first one at 42 weeks
@@JessicaRodriguez-zy5gz me too
I have one son after a miscarriage. And he came at 37 weeks. Who is now 2 1/2.
Just know its temporary and all will get better each day, on my third pregnancy I had a 11 lb baby natural and ripped and each day I told myself each day I will get better, don't stress sweetie pie and all will work out okay, sending love and light and many blessings your way, thank-you for sharing and BREATHE and all will be okay and Yes, trust and let it be, cut the chords from other peoples energy you picked up, sometimes we pick up other peoples energy. Take your time and don't worry about us, your number one and enjoy your baby girl and your blessed to have Josh and your wonderful family support :)
I had to pick a date at 37 weeks too. I had her a day shy of 38 weeks! She was 7lbs. 8 1/2 oz and 21 inches long! I also ended up in preterm labor at 28 weeks and was in the hospital for a week then on bed rest for ten weeks! I had the two shots for her lung development in case she came before 37 weeks! That was almost 18 years ago! So I would think that you need to talk to your doctor at your next appointment and voice all concerns for your state of mind, Josh’s, and just so you can feel safe! Good luck! Can’t wait to see her! Congratulations! 🎈🍾 ❤️💕
I started reading to my babies in the hospital. My mom and grandmother did the same.
We took blankets from the hospital home for our cats so they’d get used to their scent before the babies came home. As soon as we got home we set the carrier on the floor and let them sniff being on guard in case they got aggressive but sitting on either side of the carrier and paying attention to the *cats* and talking to them and asking what they thought. We explained who and what the baby was. You know the intelligence of your pets.
That light green colour looks SO PRETTY on you. Matches your eyes! Can’t wait to see baby girl ❤️😍
You are so freaking gorgeous, and your entire audience just knows you're going to be the most amazing mother. That baby is so lucky to come into this world having you and Josh as her parents.
You know it's getting really close when you start nesting. The night before my water broke, I was insistent that this one project I was doing in our kitchen was completed. Had nothing to do with the baby. Just something that I felt I needed to complete. Your body just knows. I hope Josh is able to film you holding your baby for the first time. Looking into her eyes for the first time. It's absolutely incredible and I wish I had mine filmed. It's something you will never forget.
I won’t sugar coat it, it is going to be so scary and hard at first but take it day by day and let Josh handle whatever you can’t. Trust him, lean on him and take advantage of all the help he can and is willing to offer. Remember you’re not alone and I promise everyday gets easier. Also don’t spend hours worrying about something that could be wrong with the baby or you. There is nurse hotlines 24/7 for new parents to answer any and all questions that come up. Before you know it your little baby is going to be sitting up, laughing, starting solids etc. and you’ll have gotten the hang of this parent thing. I’m sooo excited for you guys💕🥹
💜💜coming from a 23yr mother of three. All of my babies were induced, all i had an epidural and pushed them out. After my first child I went into my second pregnancy with a more open mindset you could say. My inductions were not planned. My daughter at 39 weeks and my twins at 36 weeks. The delivery never goes how you think they are going to go and lots of things could happen. Just hope for a smooth delivery 💜 It is scary and having children changes your whole life but to see them grow right in front of your eyes is what makes it all worth it. My daughter is almost 5 and my twins just turned 1.
All of us are different 💜 we all experience different deliveries 💜
I've been watching your videos for years now and I'm soo happy for you! 💜 Sending you good vibes
*If you actually read this sorry its so long
1.I could see the sky through your car windows and it is beautiful there. 2. My grandson was born at 30 weeks and I have every confidence you and your girl are going to be fine and healthy. I don't know your birth plan but if you need an epidural take it and don't feel bad about it. 3. If you're drinking a lot of pickle juice that could be part of the reason you're so swollen. Love and prayers are with you and you and Josh are going to do great!
If it eases your mind just a little, both my boys were born at 37 weeks. My first came on his own and I had to be induced with my 2nd due to growth restriction. Both of them were perfect! My youngest was small but that wasn’t because of his gestational age. He is almost 3 months old now and my oldest is 2! I love your videos and good luck with your sweet little girl!
as an L&D nurse, all I can say is your baby will decide exactly how and when she wants to come. the show is run by the baby, not us! I always tell patients that the first lesson is parenthood is the release of control and it starts with pregnancy and delivery haha! you are AMAZING Kendall & you'll never feel like you did everything right -- the fact that you're scared means you're already the perfect parent.
Induction is hard, but usually only done if necessary. Always feel free to get a second opinion, but know that we take gestational hypertension and pre-eclampsia so seriously and it's for your safety. Make the experience your own and make your hospital room comfortable.
YOU GOT THIS!!!! We can't wait to meet this little lady🤍
Super stoked for you guys! My wife and I are huge fans, we never go to sleep without watching any new videos! We can't wait for your BabyGirl to arrive...we can't wait to meet her too! I'm sad for Bernie...poor guy he can sense something's up Lol....OMG!!!! Josh had me dying literally LOL! When he said "the green baby food was "Tomatillo Salsa" 😂🤣🤭🙈 you both are gonna be amazing parents! Congratulations 🙌🏼🤩🥳 come to Phoenix sometime! 🤙🏼 Wifey & I are Mexican tell Josh we'll make him so bomb real Tomatillo salsa & authentic Mexican food for you guys! 😊🤙🏼
I'm so glad you were able to take maternity leave early. I worked until the day I had mine. You may have more than one child but you'll never be pregnant with that child again. Use this time to really embrace the time you and her still have alone together. You will miss it once she gets here. I can tell you guys are going to be great parents! She is going to be in a house full of love! Congratulations and treasure everday because they grow fast ❤️
My daughter in law just was induced last Monday (37 weeks) for the same reason swelling and high blood pressure. We have our second granddaughter Sadie Ann. Praying all goes well and let go of the control because you have no control and you will do whatever you have to to get her here. And once she is here it makes it all worth it.
You have been such a beautiful pregnant woman. You are stunning. I’m hoping that you and baby girl and josh are home and healthy
I had my daughter at 37 weeks and it turned out great my son was born at 35 weeks it was an emergency c-section and I wasn't dilating and the cord rapped around his neck even though we had a rough birthday and complications he is now a healthy 17 years old. Don't worry to much it will happen in its own time but if your blood pressure is up it can cut off food and oxygen to the baby just keep that in mind. My prayers are with you and Josh
Birthing is one of the most amazing experiences (I've done it several times). You realize that you have absolutely no control over what your body is about to do. You can't yell at your belly and command that baby to come out any more than, once labor starts, you can stop it by yelling, "Wait! I'm not ready!" This process and this baby are on their own miraculous timetable. And you get to watch your body do what you never thought it could do. You have a truly divine instinct that completely engages and takes over your mind. It's a matter of sitting back (technically) and not fighting the process. Do what you were instinctually made to do. Do everything you learned in your birthing classes. Rejoice in the miracle. You'll be just fine.
And I want to add, if for whatever reason, you have a C-section, it's just as amazing. When you hold that little life in your arms, all of those nights recently that you couldn't sleep, where you felt like your pelvis was a knotted pretzel about to snap in two... it will be ALL very worth it.
Wishing you a beautiful, happy and healthy birth experience! It truly is one of the best moments in life. Congratulations Kendall and Josh! So excited for you both 🤍
Breathe it all is better once you hear that first cry from your sweet baby. I am an RN who had severe complications getting pregnant and staying pregnant. I personally will never tell another Mom what to do or how to feel. I can empathize with some and sympathize with others yet I cannot know your whole past to know how, why you feel whatever you feel. You have to go with what your body is telling you and advice from your doctor. Whatever choice you make will be what is right for you. The love and support you have in your life will get you through it all. Hope you keep laughing and enjoying this time. Sending you positive thoughts💝💝💝
I brought my son home in a car seat and let my miniature schnauzer sniff him. She sniffed him, sneezed, and then walked away!🤣 As my son got older they never really cared for each other. My dog doesn’t really like kid but isn’t aggressive or scared around them. Then when my son was 2 we had a boxer mix(approx. 8 months old per the vet) come to our house and never left so we adopted him. The boxer is now around 9 years old and my son is 11 and they are best friends. He is the most gentle sweet dog I’ve ever met. My son could pull his ears and tail and he wouldn’t even flench. Of course we taught him not to do that. Dogs are amazing with children. They are a blessing in most cases.☺️
Congrats Kendall and Josh!! I know you both will be amazing parents!❤️
Best wishes for a short, easy delivery Kendall!! I was in the hospital for 16 days when I gave birth to my daughter. ( I have a chronic illness that flared up). I was induced on a Monday, had my daughter on Thursday. My labor was on and off for those four days. Usually, once you’re induced, you’ll have a bundle of joy within a few hours. Because I was so sick, the doctor didn’t want to give me any more medication to move things along. It really wasn’t a big deal. Labor feels like gas pain, only easier. Gas pain can last for hours. When you’re having contractions the pain builds up for a couple minutes, peaks, then goes back down, so you do get periods of time where the pain is much less intense. Labor really isn’t bad. If I can say that after having pleurisy, pulmonary edema, and pericarditis during the end of my pregnancy and during labor, you’ll see it’s not as bad as what you might think!! Blessings to you, Josh and the baby!
You look so gorgeous, Kendall!!! The thumbnail is just everything. Wishing you, Josh, Baby & every one of your critters all the blessings of happiness and love as you start this new wonderful (yet sometimes miserable- which is ok & totally normal) journey together.
As for advice I have to offer: Lean on your support system when you need it. You can't be the best mom you want to be unless you remember to take care of yourself, mental health especially! And revel in every teeny tiny hiccup of awesomeness from your baby. It sounds like a no-brainer piece of advice. Speaking as a mom whose baby just turned 17 yesterday, the phrase "time flies by so fast" doesn't hold a candle to how quickly it truly flies by.
I'm sure you don't need the advice to begin with. You guys got this! Congratulations Josh & Kendall 🖤
Yessss the thumbnail really caught my attention, she looks like an actual goddess.
Birth in any manner can go how it’s not supposed to or go amazingly well. I feel like induction gets a really bad rap,but my induction was 10000 times better than my spontaneous labor and birth. You just literally don’t know how birth is going to go,which of course is frightening. The best thing you can do is really go in with an open mind✨You’ve got this and I wish you a great birth experience and can’t wait to “meet” baby!!! Congrats again guys🤍
Aw! Kendall you were born to be a mom! You are so nurturing and loving. As a mom of two and a fellow Taurus I understand how the uncertainty scares you. But please understand that this is your life now… with babies all the way up to kids everything is going to be uncertain. But the one thing for certain is you and Josh are gonna be great parents! You both will have a daughter to love and spoil! It is going to be okay. Just breathe! 😘
I had my first baby girl at 38 weeks due to low amniotic fluids. They were great! It was actually a generally comfortable experience. I had the epidural, I felt some pressure, no tearing, and she was perfect. It is always scary when you have never given birth before, but after, you will miss all of the experience. You will miss her in your belly. I cried for an hour a week afterwards in the shower because I wasn’t carrying her anymore. The hormones! Gosh! 😂 Best of luck for a safe delivery and healthy baby! I’m so excited for you guys!
Its sad to say but it's the truth, it is so much more exciting, relaxing and enjoyable when the father is just as happy if not more about the baby coming! just beautiful honestly.
Girlll! I am so sorry you’re scared. I was 18 when I had my first son and I was scared at first but by the time I got to the end I just accepted it. Like, mamas do this every single day since the dawn of time. You got this! (You prob already had her lol) but don’t be scared (that’s easier said than done) but you will be ok… it’s the most amazing thing how someone who has ZERO experience with pregnancy/babies etc… can just become a mom in a split second the second you deliver the baby. You just all the sudden know what to do, and even if you don’t, you figure it out. This baby is relying on you so you have no choice. Besides the immense amount of unconditional love you’ll feel for your baby I think that’s why we’re able to pick it up so easily. Granted at 18 I did have my moms help but my husband (then boyfriend) and I didn’t live with her anymore, we had just moved out. And now it’s 17 years later and I’m 29 weeks pregnant with my fourth lol!
You. Got. This. Mama. 💪🏽
Some of my family members were concerned that our large golden retriever would scare or jump on our newborn but he was so gentle and overprotective of her and slept right next to her crib every night. He was very gentle with her and when she was a toddler she would playfully “bother” him at times and he’d totally let her lol. I feel your dogs will be gentle and protective of your baby girl as well…they’re lovable and sweet and have the best “parents” to guide them. 😊❤️
I can hear the breath leaving her as she speaks and recall the feeling of not being able to catch my breath while being pregnant.
Can't wait til it's over for you girl. Xoxoxo
It's normal to feel overwhelmed 😕 I understand! I hate not being able to control things. I'm also pregnant (second trimester) been so sick throwing up and it is just very frustrating not being able to stop feeling like crap. Sending love ❤️ everything will be ok
Kendall, you are a beautiful person inside and out, even tho right now you feel like a hot mess! My daughter is also due any day now with her first, and it's such a joy to watch both of you go through this special time! You'll be great, and so will Josh...it seems to me that you already gave your baby a great gift...a loving, strong foundation, and that can not be underestimated ! You'll be in my prayers and just know you are loved!
I was so excited when you announced your pregnancy, I was also pregnant too I had my baby June 8th a little boy. I wish you a smooth delivery (if there is even a thing) and I know you both are going to be amazing parents.
I got induced at 37 weeks with my first less than a month ago. it was such a crazy and long experience. i was in labor for 50 hours but i ended up having a successful vaginal delivery! During it I was thinking I would never do this again. but now that 3 weeks have passed, all i can think of is how thankful and lucky i am to have known my little man for an extra 3 weeks!!!
Dogs are so gentle with babies and children. They understand they are delicate and take on a caring role. It’s important to include them in everything though and allow them to be near the baby. 💕🐾
Aw Kendal I’m sure your baby girl is here by now.
I will just say I had gestational bp, never preeclamptic. I had to be induced. (I was 39wks) I ended up with a C-section due to my bp and some decels.
Regardless, my baby and myself were safe. (I opted for a scheduled C-section for my second baby due to anxiety and because honestly I just wanted it)
WE ARE SO STRONG. Just wait till that baby girls little hand is wrapped around your finger. Just take your recovery slow.
You’ll be able to breathe again soon lol❤️✨
Dude you’ve so got this!! You are such an intuitive person already! I know it’s so hard not to overthink everything I did the same thing with my daughter! With my son I had elevated blood pressure as well. I was induced at 37 weeks. Everything went perfect just like it did with my daughter. Trust in yourself that you got this girl!!! You are so amazing and I am so excited for you to experience truly the best day of your life!! It is so life changing and everything you have been waiting for ❤️
2:03 LOVE that you asked for books for baby!
I’m so glad you’re staying in charge of your birth Kendall! Don’t let anyone shame you for asking questions and making decisions.
3 kids here. My first I had preclampsyia bad. I got induced and for me its no different than going into labor naturally except I like induction better because it's convenient. I Had 1 failed epidural, had 2 successful epidurals. When the epidural worked I literally gave birth watching TV lol. The hardest part is being pregnant. Giving birth was nothing for me in comparison of 9 months of feeling miserable. Girl you got this 👍💯💜💙 any questions feel free I'll tell you straight
13:30 motherhood is a beautiful struggle you got this ❤️
I felt the same way you felt, mama. I had elevated BP and did turn preeclamptic and I was induced at 37 weeks. I was so scared, anxious, and felt like I didn't have control.
Once she's here, you'll look back at this and be so proud of yourself. You're bringing a human that you've created into this world. You are MAGIC mama!
I have a Dalmatian & a dog that’s 3/4 lab 1/4 pointer. After I had my baby girl, I had bought a specific blanket to do this - I wrapped her up in it & let her be in it for a little while. Then I sent it home with someone & let the pups sniff it & they even wanted to sleep with it 😭 so…that might be something you could do - send a blanket home beforehand so they get her scent before you walk in the door with her.
I never really realized until just now that my pups had never been around a little human either before I had my baby girl. But right before I was induced, both of them would start laying their heads on my tummy & my little girl would kick them 😂 then after I brought her home, they both slept curled up under her little bassinet in the living room when she napped & it was the cutest thing ever. 🥰
my son was born at almost 42 weeks this April. my doctor wanted to induce at 40 (neither baby or I had complications though) but I felt I was so close to having him naturally and really had this whole idea of how everything was going to go. it's great to have a doctor who is willing to work with you but also have the babys best interest in mind. he supported my wishes and just asked we do 2 check ups a week until we were ready.
in the end I did decide induction was best (plus I was def. done feeling so pregnant) and even though it wasn't my plan and a few other things didn't go as expected (delayed cord clamping wasn't done and neither was the immediate hour long skin to skin) but looking back, none of that really mattered. I have a beautiful healthy baby and without a doubt that was the best day of my life. no matter how or when your little one comes, as long as she is healthy, nothing else will matter. stay strong mama, you got this!!
I was induced because at 36 weeks i was 2cm dialated, and by 40 there was 0 change. She was NOT in a hurry! As a first time mom, i have no other experiences to compair it to, but i had a pretty long labor. Everything was absolutely fine though and she came out perfectly healthy. There is no wrong way to bring your baby into the world! And you'll be in good hands!
I know becoming a new mother is sooo scary and hard but you are going to be such a wonderful mom. Josh will be a great dad too. I hope everything is going great for you guys❤️
I was induced because of high blood pressure. Do what you have to do/ what you want to do. If you do get induced at least you will have a set day & time which may help you feel more in control in that sense. I love you Kendall! You will do AMAZING. Baby will be fine, and so will you.🫶🏻
I just wanna hug you rn! It's very emotional being a new mom! The fur babies will adjust to her and love her just as much as they love y'all ❤️ Your the sweetest too❤️
Your gonna be a perfectly beautiful mom! I truly believe you got this babe! 😘
Love y'all can't wait to see how precious and beautiful she is💕
Josh hit the nail on the head! The worry won’t change what’s going to come. He is such a great support system! Lean on him and you both will be great! You’ve got this momma!!!
Kendall you are one of the most amazing and genuine people I’ve come across on RUclips. I’ve been watching you and Josh for years now and I am truly so happy and excited for you guys. You guys are going to absolutely kick ass as parents. You already are great parents to your fur babies and I have no doubt you will be to your baby girl as well. Also, the baby shower decor is SO CUTE I am in freaking love. I saw the baby’s room on tik tok and I am in love with that as well. Sending an abundance of love to you guys and your sweet baby girl.💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
I just wanna say ,I’ve been watching you GENEROUSLY . So stupid emotional with you during this journey. You are gonna see when I say this , but babe , YOURE DOING GREAT , stop , think , breathe babe. look at that beautiful face , you’re doing so great!cant wait to see how you’re doing in the mommy realm! So soo soooo excited for you . I know exactly how you feel , your emotions when you were discussing in your bathroom, taking off your makeup , I couldn’t relate to you more. Those thoughts were the worst ! But look at you now. You’re doing amazing. Y’all are gonna be great ! See you soon(not in a creep way) lol !
13.40 i get how you feel my first daughter i was diagnosed with obstetric cholostasis and was told by my doctor from 20 weeks that my baby could die then at 37 weeks everything went back to normal but they didnt want her to go over term so was induced at 40 weeks but she pooped in the water and i had to have an emergency c sect . Scary as hell but shes now a beautiful 20 year old young woman and i couldnt wish for a more perfect best friend. You have Josh by your side and whether she comes out naturally or medically helped she is going to grow into a beautiful young lady as you and Josh are amazing!!!! Best of luck and i cannot wait to meet her xxxx
I wish I could hug you. The fear/terror you're feeling is soooo normal ❤️ first time momma hood is scary, but SUCH a gift.
I hope you have a safe birth Kendall. I’ve been watching you and Josh for a long time and I wish you both the best xx ❤️
As I understand it, your baby girl is in control now, mama. She'll come when she comes unless you decide to induce. You're strong and powerful and you got this!!! We are women hear us roar 😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You guys are so cool! My baby is 27 yrs old and being a single mother all her life I gotta say you two rock! Also being a dog rescuer all my life you two are on the best path ever! Many many happy memories you'll have as I do ! Good luck cuz when it actually happens it'll blow your mind!!!!! Peace from a fellow Coloradan!
I have been watching you and Josh for a while now. You are strong and can do this. I had my only child at the age of 40. I was like you at 35 weeks and found out I had preeclampsia. I had to have a C-section. I'm here to tell you my son was 4 weeks early and was perfectly fine. You do what you feel is right about your birth plan and know you have this. I will be praying for you and your precious baby girl. 🥰
Thank you for bringing me along I can't have kids and and so flipping happy to come along the journey. I only have fur babies but am so stoked about your little baby girl thanks you so much for sharing for us that can't have this experience 💕 💛 💗 💓 ♥️
Kendall and Josh I’m so excited for you both! 😊💗 I know it’s easier said than done, but Kendall try not to overthink it all and stress. As soon as she’s here, you will just fall so in love with her and as long as she’s in your arms happy and healthy, nothing else will matter. And that’s all she will need for the first few weeks, is to be fed and hugged (and changed lol).
I was about where you are when I spontaneously went into labour (35 weeks & 6 days). I was so sure it was too early and just Braxton Hicks, that I thought I’d just go to the hospital to make sure everything was ok. I only took a handbag with me and our nursery wasn’t even set up. I gave birth the next day!
The birth didn’t go to plan and ended up with me labouring for several hours and then having an emergency c-section under anesthetic. About 6-7 hours went by between the birth and me getting to meet her - but as soon as I held her, I just felt her melt into me and I knew she knew me. She’s a year old now and we are joined at the hip. 😂 She’s happy and healthy, and my husband and I are still learning every day. It’s hard, but it’s beyond incredible the depth and scope of the love you will feel. The rest, you will play by ear, but you guys are both so in tune with your feelings and have so much empathy for others, that I really think you are going to give this little girl everything she needs. A delay on a bookcase is nothing! 😊 Give it about 10 months and those books will be all over the floor anyway! 😂 💗 Sending you all my love xoxox
I am so happy and excited for you I can't have kids I've had 7 miscarriages so seeing you pregnant makes me feel happy love you God-bless you and your family❤️💋 And make sure when your husband comes home to have a blanket or something that smells like her so the dogs can smell it and no it's her I did that with every one of my cousins kids I raised a lot of my cousins kids
Good luck in hospital Kendall😊Everything will be just fine😊Can't wait to see your precious baby girl😊I am a long time subscriber from Poland and my son was born on the 2nd of August...maybe your daughter will be born on this day too😊 My son is 14 now, such a kind, inteligent and cool teenager. I wish you a beautiful journey of motherhood with your baby, and all the best for both of you❤You will be amazing parents😊 Just all the best to you❤Stay safe and healthy❤
Minions speak their own language for sure but it is most definitely Romance language based. My mom and I recognized some French and Spanish in it and also gibberish lol.
As far as your anxieties and fears of getting it all together and making the right choices for you and baby girl, from one woman with anxiety who has given birth to one who's about to, I was where you are before my girl came but it all works out sweetie! New is scary but it's also amazing!! You will all be amazing on the post birth side of this! Love to you guys and your beautiful soon to be sweetie!
Thank you for your honesty about being scared not having control over how or when your baby comes into the world. I’ve had friends look at me like I’m crazy for being afraid to have a baby because of the uncertainty. You’re going to do PHENOMENALLY and you both are going to be outstanding parents 💖💖💖 sending lots of love and positive vibes to you and your loves 💖💖💖
My son is turning 2 in a few days and it feels like just yesterday I was where you are.
Your feelings are so valid and they show that you already love and care for your daughter so much that you want to be a great parent to her on her very first day!
She will be happiest in your arms and Josh’s. All she wants is nourishment and Mommy!
Trust yourself. You are going to do amazing.
12:53 "I don't need all the random opinions of the internet" yes girl you do NOT need all of our opinions. Love your banter with us Kendall.
I picture kendall finally being able to relax and focus on being a beautiful pregnant lady!!
Kendall, Congratulations on making it this far in your pregnancy. I hope you are more relaxed at this point. Please take care of yourself and use Josh to reassure you in all your decisions the two of you are in control not the doctor. I am so excited for your daughter to join your family. The dogs will adjust well once they spend time with her. I agree having Josh bring a baby blanket home for Bernie and Sadie to get used to her smell will probably help with them adjusting. Don't worry about uploading we will all be here when you are ready to come back. I'm sending prayers and positive energy your way for a peaceful relaxing birth. Welcome to parenthood. You and Josh are going to be amazing parents.
watching you cry hurt my heart ❤️ I know you’re scared kendall but you have soooo many people surrounding you to help you through this. love you and good luck ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Morgan ❤️🥹
I had pre-eclampsia that developed into HELLP syndrome at 33 weeks. They debated inducing me but I'm very lucky my mum (a nurse of 30+ years) was there to remind them that was not an option with how far into it I was at that point. I had an emergency C-section and it was a whirl wind, but she's about to turn 1 in 2 weeks time a very happy healthy little lady. You're already over the hump of 34 weeks (probably way over if these vlogs are back dated) which is when their brain is fully developed and they're learning to suck and swallow, so are hopefully more likely to take to breast feeding. You may have already had her! Wishing you, Josh and baby all the best as you start an amazing journey together. Cherish every minute they grow up way too fast!
Giving birth is the most natural thing you can do, and your body was made for it. You are a strong, beautiful women who’s body KNOWS WHAT ITS DOING. You have got this mama! I’m sending positive thoughts your way Kendall! You are going to rock this!
I’m gunna cry cause watching both you and josh grow has been such an adorable amazing story! Thank you for sharing it with us :)
There are so many benefits to waiting and there is no rush; babies come when they are ready--stand your ground--you're both healthy!
There's a recent study that inducing at 39 weeks has less risks then going 40 or more weeks.
My water broke at 37+3. It was pretty smooth once I got epidural. Getting there due to old annoying rules took a bit.
I hope you have her soon or now. It will be worth it no matter what.
I was induced with both my sons. Everything was fine you’ll do great Kendall. Just remember you will be holding your baby girl soon.
I was induced at almost 38weeks and everything went good, my baby boy is super healthy and almost 3 months old now
13:20 Beautiful, sending you the biggest virtual hug ever 💕
I love you and your transparency ♥️ I know the waiting game is scary I was terrified when I had my daughter. I struggled so bad because I had a birth plan and ended up with a emergency c section. I felt like I had no control over what was happening to my body and I still struggle with wanting to control everything. But honestly it’s all in her hands. And of course the doctors who will do what is safest for you and your baby. Also if your scared about the pain.. it really helps to let it come as much as you can, accept it and welcome it. The more you tense up the worse the pain will be. It helped me a lot to have coloring books and music to just really relax and get in the zone. Love y’all and I am so happy for y’all!! Can’t wait to see that sweet baby.
I’m so beyond excited. You two will be such amazing parents and this baby is already so loved! I’ve been here since the bedroom floor days so I feel like I know y’all. You’re in my thoughts, I hope birth goes super smoothly💓
As a young mom I was super scared of the birthing part and postpartum depression and I was so proud and happy with my experience did it go as planned no but it will forever be the best day of my life !!! You got this mama 💖
You're going to be the most amazing mom and Josh will be a great dad.
Just relax you got this kendall!!!!
I know it's hard. I had to keep reminding myself constantly that there's nothing that I can control with my pregnancies and deliveries. It doesn't help much but I always found it reassuring when I remembered that women do this everyday and it's what we are made for. You are so strong and you have this amazing support system.
Kendall I’ve given birth more than twice and every time was different and though I was not as scared as the first time I still worried with my other pregnancies. I am sure you will make the right decision for you and Josh and your baby. I am sending positive vibes to you and once it is over and you have your precious baby girl you won’t think about any of this and wonder why was I so worried. It’s all a part of motherhood! Love u 🤗🤗👍🥰🙌
MY FUCKING HEART EXPLODED watching this! You will make it through this & you’ll be the strongest you’ve ever been! I don’t know you but I love you & I just know baby girl will have the best parents you & your husband will be phenomenal parents when things get crazy just always remember that y’all are a team you two can overcome ANYTHING!
You two are born to be parents!
Awee couldn’t help but to tear up w you boo 🥺 I felt the same way when I had my daughter, I had no choice they had to induce me @ 38wks for her sake & mine but I was so so scared literally doctors had to tell me to stop crying & push bc I just kept saying how scared I was 🥺 it’s a different type of fear, fear of the unknown, that they’ll no longer be safe in your belly & you’re responsible for a whole nother life besides your own.. that didn’t kick in to me until I was minutes away from her being born but at the same time the most beautiful thing I’ve ever experienced in life 🫶🏽✨ you got this mama!!! We are all uplifting you guys & sending all our love & support 😊
Oh girl, y’all are in for a ride, of the best kind. You will never be in 100% control again. It either makes you or breaks you
After listening to all your worries and uncertainty over the blood pressure and whether to get induced, I wanted to offer some advice as on my first daughter I ended being induced for the same reasons however I was overdue already before the symptoms started. By 37 weeks if your symptoms have not settled my advice would be that the conditions could cause more harm in the extra week than the difference for baby staying onboard for her health benefits. It took me 3 days of induction and then I still had an emergency c section and I was officially 10 days overdue but more by my dates, what I am saying is holding out probably wouldn’t change the outcome of how the delivery will go.
I am wishing you both all the best and sure you will all do brilliantly.
My sisters boys were born 5 and 6 weeks early but both could breath for themselves and were in good health, trying to put your mind at ease for if you do have to deliver early, lots of love ❤️ ❤️❤️ and best wishes xxx
Your dogs can sense that you are pregnant (even if some aren’t acting like it, they just know) my dog definitely did really well, they will almost certainly KNOW that’s your baby, they will know and sense you guys protectiveness over baby, and they will want to join in on being protective over baby! Slow introduction to be safe (definitely let them smell a blanket the baby has been wrapped in) and they will know! It will be so sweet!!!!!
You and your baby will be just fine. You have that pregency glow and so beautiful. You are in my prayers.
I just wanted to say that I'm sending prayers and good vibes your way. You and Josh are going to be fantastic parents to you precious little girl. You've already had so much practice with all of your fur babies. It's like you said, Kendall, anything that we do for the first time is a little scary but it's usually not as bad as we make it up to be in our minds. Keep thinking good thoughts and before you know it, you're going to be a mama!🙏❤️
I think it's beautiful how you expressed how you were feeling because honesty about pregnancy is so nice to hear!!