Was Christian Obumseli’s Death A Grisly Murder or Self Defense?! | TSR Investigates

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
  • The stabbing death of 27-year-old Christian Obumseli has had social media in a frenzy. And according to his friends and family, his girlfriend, 25-year-old Only Fans star Courtney Tailor (whose real name is Courtney Clenney) is to blame. Like most domestic crimes that involve interracial couples the subject of race is now front and center. A past podcast interview with Clenney and some less than positive tweets about Black women from Obumseli has many on social media questioning the entire situation. With no charges filed against Clenney, the question remains: was Obumseli’s death a grisly murder or is this a case of self-defense? The Shade Room investigates…
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Комментарии • 982

  • @tanyiasfermando6361
    @tanyiasfermando6361 2 года назад +368

    LET ME MIND MY BLACK ASS BUSINESS

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 2 года назад +9

      We can't mind our business cause they want us to know 🤷‼️😭 rip 🙏

    • @toriapurnell1436
      @toriapurnell1436 2 года назад +27

      ME TOO¡!! Lololol. HE DEFINITELY WON'T BE GETTING A GEORGE FLOYD MOVEMENT

    • @nic4sure205
      @nic4sure205 2 года назад +18

      @Ronald Weedly from us BW she is…

    • @phyllisgarrison3561
      @phyllisgarrison3561 2 года назад +2

      Me too!

    • @QUEEN_88F4Eva61
      @QUEEN_88F4Eva61 2 года назад +13

      Right me too👀matter of fact let me get my black ass off this video

  • @BaSuperStar
    @BaSuperStar 2 года назад +707

    My preference is to send prayers to the family & mind my black woman business while watching how this play out…

    • @divestedkonservativekarame4269
      @divestedkonservativekarame4269 2 года назад +16

      I want to say I think it was rightfully done. But I don't think it's a point in trying to harp on the guys preference. That just looks desperate. But Courtney definitely had a right to stab him if he was trying to hurt her. And it appears to be by most accounts that that's what was going on.

    • @jamezhall2066
      @jamezhall2066 2 года назад +17

      @@divestedkonservativekarame4269 exactly!! So she just stabbed him cuz she wanted to? It had to be something that lead up to that. Also the way they treated her blew my mind. A 72 hr hold for mental evaluation?? Let’s be honest .. had that been the other way around .

    • @marcblake6609
      @marcblake6609 2 года назад +1

      Black women, please don't defend this white supremacist name Toby. Not Kunta Kinte

    • @ursulatroxler7428
      @ursulatroxler7428 2 года назад +9

      I’m doing the same thing

    • @godgift2earth
      @godgift2earth 2 года назад +1

      @@jamezhall2066 t4

  • @queenesquiresquad
    @queenesquiresquad 2 года назад +454

    Yes, he does not deserve to die. However, that doesn’t mean Black women have to rally for him. We can pray for his justice from a distance. ❤️🙏🏾

    • @sweetonyxakararegem692
      @sweetonyxakararegem692 2 года назад +78

      @@maddogsenglishmen8020 Yeah why dont you ask the dead man how he felt about BW when he was alive? Its his problem dont make it ours.

    • @TheJennycococure
      @TheJennycococure 2 года назад +20

      @@maddogsenglishmen8020 This woman was literally talking about only dating rich black guys last month. And we all know if this had been him stabbing her, he’d likely be dead from police shooting or in jail awaiting trial.

    • @TheJennycococure
      @TheJennycococure 2 года назад +17

      @@maddogsenglishmen8020 Making up scenarios that NEVER happen is like looking in the mirror and seeing Shrek but calling yourself Prince Charming. Good luck in that fantastical fog of lies.

    • @beautifulanomaly7701
      @beautifulanomaly7701 2 года назад +3

      All of this

    • @TheJennycococure
      @TheJennycococure 2 года назад

      @@maddogsenglishmen8020 OJ was ARRESTED and remained in jail during his trial and ended up in jail, from another case, with a sentence I’m sure had a LOT to do with his being found not guilty for the murder of his wife. Smollett didn’t murder anyone but also had 100k bail and was charged twice and is now out on appeal and can STILL go back to jail. Now do Kyle Rittenhouse and George Zimmerman.

  • @nea415
    @nea415 2 года назад +135

    Since non blacks were his preference, his family should ask the non blacks to rally for justice 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @noelboissy
      @noelboissy 2 года назад

      Shut up, that so stupid to add comments like that.

    • @terrancecharles2108
      @terrancecharles2108 2 года назад +1

      Well said. Facts

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 2 года назад +1

      He picked up this self hate and colorist (to the extreme of "preferring" whiteness) as learned from African Americans as taught to them by force by white Americans.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 2 года назад

      Sowing division all over social media so that African Americans further isolate themselves.
      As Toni Morrison said she did not get away from the white gaze until she hung around Africans. Whites know what they are doing.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 2 года назад

      Playing you like a fiddle. No victim is perfect. They will highlight your flaws to deny you justice too & lose public sympathy. Same ole playbook.

  • @QueenMuva
    @QueenMuva 2 года назад +65

    Black Queen's will sit this one out

    • @churchroadrecordsreviewsan231
      @churchroadrecordsreviewsan231 2 года назад

      Black women are bitter and will talk to a white guy no problem but bash a back guy for talking to a white woman..its sad really

    • @laurabernard4821
      @laurabernard4821 2 года назад +1

      😂😂🤣

  • @krisandrastone7904
    @krisandrastone7904 2 года назад +303

    I wish his family the very best. I truly hope they find justice. I pray that black men and white women he so desperately loved rally and march for him. And seek justice for him.

    • @sarahkl5744
      @sarahkl5744 2 года назад +21

      Exactly

    • @Vamasta7163
      @Vamasta7163 2 года назад +22

      Lol RIGHT!!

    • @Netta0712
      @Netta0712 2 года назад +13

      😂😂😂

    • @QueenMuva
      @QueenMuva 2 года назад +6

      This the one!

    • @markquinn1216
      @markquinn1216 2 года назад +5

      I hope you said the same thing about the 2 bw who were recently murder by wm.

  • @APD089191
    @APD089191 2 года назад +292

    I hope this situation serves as a warning to immigrants like myself. A lot of times, immigrant parents tell their kids to stay away from African Americans instead of telling them to stay away from toxic people regardless of race.
    This is the result. He was sure that only African American women can be toxic, so much so that he couldn’t see that she was not only toxic but radioactive even when she admitted it.

    • @GravyFromScratch
      @GravyFromScratch 2 года назад

      It’s sad. Especially when African Americans are the sole reason immigrants can come to this country and be comfortable 😔🤡

    • @queenesquiresquad
      @queenesquiresquad 2 года назад +25

      Truth❤️

    • @lyricjackson8301
      @lyricjackson8301 2 года назад

      It breaks my heart that Immigrants are teaching their kids to “stay away from blacks” … and y’all wonder why a lot of y’all get so much hate from us. Y’all come here trying to surpass us and treat us worse than the White Man does. I’m glad your eyes are opened but for the MILLIONS of other immigrants and their parents who are prejudging an entire group of ppl… they cannot be upset when we do the same shit to them. 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @APD089191
      @APD089191 2 года назад +31

      @@lyricjackson8301 Well Lyrics, I’m a first generation immigrant in Canada. I immigrated alone at 16 so my parents didn’t teach me anything. I learned to not associate with a certain type of people but funny enough, I went through college and university and didn’t make one single Caucasian friend and I don’t know how it happened. I just realized reading the comments on the case that a lot of African Americans have this feelings that they are looking down by black immigrants and I want them immigrants to check themselves out.
      I also want African Americans to check themselves because they also fall for the propaganda that black immigrants are less than for a long time. I’m Haitian and even living in Haiti as a child I knew about the bullying and the Haitian booty scratcher shit. So its time to see that we have been taken for a ride a check ourselves and see that our destiny is connected in so many ways.
      Also if you have ever had any bad experiences with black immigrants whether from the motherland or the Caribbean, I apologize in their names and please take the time to sometimes check them for their prejudices.

    • @APD089191
      @APD089191 2 года назад

      @@queenesquiresquad The propaganda got us right where they wanted us. Sad!

  • @saint.hudson13
    @saint.hudson13 2 года назад +125

    People have been reporting the GoFundMe because the family is always
    flossing luxury vacations, cars, hotels and expensive items all over social media, but begging for $100,000? This is supposed to be a family of millionaire and that goes against the terms of the site 🤔

    • @NiniBonita
      @NiniBonita 2 года назад +16

      No life insurance 💅🏽🇬🇲

    • @haveagoodday629
      @haveagoodday629 2 года назад +20

      THANK YOU! If you all, or Toby, were rich, why would you need to set up a go fund me? 🤔

    • @Impossibly_gorgeous
      @Impossibly_gorgeous 2 года назад +16

      Has any progress been made with shutting down the gofundme?

    • @nopenope3206
      @nopenope3206 2 года назад +9

      Yeah I was surprised a Nigerian family needs money for attorney fees, family expenses and to transport him to Nigeria. Never the less only his girlfriend and Toby really knows what happened. My condolences to the family of Toby. Regardless of what he's said about black women, I pray for healing to the family and hold no grudge against Toby, let him rest in peace.

    • @azizahamura2592
      @azizahamura2592 2 года назад +4

      @@nopenope3206 Tobukuechewe doesn't know anything, he's dead.

  • @paige4128
    @paige4128 2 года назад +79

    Toxic!!!?? Isn't this the woman who Christian Obumseli put on a pedestal? She for sure can't be toxic... I mean she's better than black women, right? I'm being sarcastic but I'm sure you all get my drift. So now the family is saying she's toxic? Oh. O.K. Well, I hope they realize that they won't be getting justice because she's a white woman and we all know how this story is going to end. My condolences.

    • @blackbeauty6509
      @blackbeauty6509 2 года назад +6

      It's amazing so many black guys date caucasian women when this is a real thing. That woman is getting a slap on the wrist!

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 2 года назад

      No victim is perfect. This is how ALL black people are denied justice. Their flaws are put out in social media so people turn on them. Media does the same by highlighting the "criminality" of black men and women to turn the public eyes against them like they tried with Ahmed Aubry and Breona Taylor even tho they were innocent.

  • @derekwebster8442
    @derekwebster8442 2 года назад +290

    I'm going to leave this up to the Nigerian community to get justice. Leave us African Americans out of this. 🤞🏾

    • @feebee1451
      @feebee1451 2 года назад +70

      Facts let them deal with his "white problem" since he had so much to say about black women .

    • @blackberry9013
      @blackberry9013 2 года назад +2

      Period

    • @norapeace6526
      @norapeace6526 2 года назад +27

      @kadeja mccutchin Didn’t you just say in another post that you weren’t black?
      Edit: Yeah I checked!! U said “we not black” well fight your own battles then!!!

    • @FreeB1Speech
      @FreeB1Speech 2 года назад

      @kadeja mccutchin no we are not…”All skin folks ain’t kin folks” Hold Your Own 🥜 🌰$!

    • @msconcreterose93
      @msconcreterose93 2 года назад +22

      @kadeja mccutchin no, we’re not. His family doesn’t even think so. We’re akatas to them.

  • @BlondeIsAnInvestment
    @BlondeIsAnInvestment 2 года назад +141

    Sounds like the family member here didn’t really know him.

    • @Casualteatalk
      @Casualteatalk 2 года назад +44

      Exactly my thoughts as well. None of them seem close to him. The last 3 years he’s been running in a completely white circle excluding family. Then the lady who is his cousin in this video got called out on twitter too because she posted tweets saying she doesn’t like black people either. Now she’s crying out for help on a black blog for support.. the irony

    • @franowusu1431
      @franowusu1431 2 года назад +14

      Exactly fake crying

    • @meangreen6044
      @meangreen6044 2 года назад

      No they knew him, Africans teach their kids to bring anyone home but black. They teach them anti black American very young. They probably never posted a Blm or cared when a black person died unjustly but they want us to care about him? Yeah not happening

    • @ShiningLight411
      @ShiningLight411 2 года назад +10

      @@Casualteatalk Whaaaat?? If this is true, the self-hate is real!

    • @nikkinanette8807
      @nikkinanette8807 2 года назад +4

      Lies, they raised him!!!

  • @SholomonSun1342
    @SholomonSun1342 2 года назад +123

    Imma say this: he wrote his own death. He put it out in the universe and it gave him a FULL RETURN. note to self: we all need to stop thinking that our words don’t have power because they can manifest into something that we can’t even fathom. So SPEAK LIFE!

  • @breebree5510
    @breebree5510 2 года назад +44

    I'll let Becky 👱🏼‍♀️ take over the protesting for this one 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @blackberry9013
    @blackberry9013 2 года назад +66

    Felt sorry for him, until I saw the awful tweets about blk women. Ppl need to be mindful of the energy, they put out into the universe👀🤷🏿

    • @fatonyalmitchell3281
      @fatonyalmitchell3281 2 года назад +5

      Whatever he said is it's worth dying for ⁉️🤷

    • @BaSuperStar
      @BaSuperStar 2 года назад +12

      Watch that whole podcast ol girl was on… they sat up& trashed blk women Tommy Soto & a lady got in physical altercation on the show it was a few months back

    • @feebee1451
      @feebee1451 2 года назад +2

      Me too smh

    • @norapeace6526
      @norapeace6526 2 года назад +1

      What he say??

    • @blackberry9013
      @blackberry9013 2 года назад +4

      @@feebee1451 no sympathy here🙅🏿

  • @R.G.Willmore
    @R.G.Willmore 2 года назад +79

    ON BEHALF OF THE FOUNDATIONAL BLACK AMERICAN COMMUNITY OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO THE FAMILY FOR THEIR LOSS, BUT WE THE FBA COMMUNITY WILL CONTINUE TO STAY ON CODE, AND SIT THIS ONE OUT DUE TO THE FACT THAT HE WAS AN AFRICAN WHO SPOKE POORLY OF FBA COMMUNITY WOMEN, ONCE YOU DISRESPECT OUR QUEENS WE HAVE NO LOVE FOR YOU!!

    • @margaretgreen1576
      @margaretgreen1576 2 года назад +7

      WORD ❗UP. SISTERS PLEASE. STAY ON. CODE B1
      🙏🌹🌹💖. TO THE FAMILY

    • @weekendnomad5038
      @weekendnomad5038 2 года назад +5

      I was talking to my husband about this and I said the same thing.. after what he had been known to publicly say about BW y’all don’t owe him nothing but a 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @lion_inv2584
      @lion_inv2584 2 года назад

      As an African, I understand! He was 17 as I recall, no remorse?

    • @arnoldotiu8598
      @arnoldotiu8598 2 года назад +1

      @@lion_inv2584 right, as an african i say good riddance to bad rubbish

    • @Sonworshipper
      @Sonworshipper 2 года назад

      BLESS YOU

  • @sevenbeauty6502
    @sevenbeauty6502 2 года назад +110

    His cousin didn’t help us Black Americans wanna change our minds. She acted like that man was our family too so since he posted that 10 years ago we Black women the ones he hated post to fight for him! It’s crazy she should have never said anything….

    • @blackberry9013
      @blackberry9013 2 года назад +9

      Thank you!

    • @TheSunkissedmein2000
      @TheSunkissedmein2000 2 года назад +1

      Bro shut up he's a BM give him his flowers and move on. If it was a BW y'all would be saying rip angel.

    • @goldenhassan8993
      @goldenhassan8993 2 года назад +1

      What are you saying 😭?

    • @Sarahsosaa
      @Sarahsosaa 2 года назад +49

      @@TheSunkissedmein2000 So when a bm dies after he has dragged bw through the mud, bw are supposed to give him flowers and support him after he didn't support them? Make it make sense to me good sir

    • @Casualteatalk
      @Casualteatalk 2 года назад +39

      Are any of you aware that the cousin was exposed on twitter for tweets saying she doesn’t like black people either. Now she’s on here crying looking for sympathy. She called black men wild animals and said she cannot date one unless he was mixed with foreign smh I’m glad twitter exposed her shady ass. She needs to go cry on CNN and see if they’ll help

  • @paulodelorios8482
    @paulodelorios8482 2 года назад +54

    We are sitting down this time. My condolences to his family.

  • @nikitaworld4913
    @nikitaworld4913 2 года назад +88

    As a African woman myself, since white was his preference he’s shaming black woman on twitter I guess let watch and see if his preference will gets the Justice he deserves. Like she said it was self defenses , Black women can’t really have Alots of say about this because this is his reference . Best believe she’ll walk ✌🏽✌🏽 I prayed his mother find some type of comfort in this situation because no mother want to buried theirs child .

    • @Fading_with_beauty
      @Fading_with_beauty 2 года назад +4

      Preference has nothing to do with justice!! I sware people will run their mouth so hard to feel valid in the hate against interracial relationships. As a melanin women myself I say that to say this; stop pointing fingers when five are pointed right back. I pray he gets justice and this evil money hungry individual gets what she deserves. The high power has not color!! And we all will have to answer one day. Stay humble and stop the hate and judgmental ways. Be better

    • @ChipSkylarkMe12
      @ChipSkylarkMe12 2 года назад +31

      @@Fading_with_beauty He said so many hateful and degrading things about BW and black people in general while saying white was better. So all she is saying is let’s see if those WW that he worshipped is going to demand his justice.

    • @Fading_with_beauty
      @Fading_with_beauty 2 года назад +1

      @@ChipSkylarkMe12 I appreciate the fact that you went out your way to explain something that’s very clear. My understanding from him degrading his own is a personal issue and flaw with himself and many do this on a daily many ways, though it’s not justifiable for the “I told you so slur “ backhanded crassly energy. When we become better we will be better as a unity. Some can handle what is and move humble without judgmental colorism ways. Others imply their opinions and that is what will ever be. As a women of color , I would never assume another is less valuable because of preference of the opposite. I know exactly what’s she’s saying. And it sadness me for the future of my daughter and other kids that is our future.

    • @blackbeauty6509
      @blackbeauty6509 2 года назад +16

      @@Fading_with_beauty it is sad but it is more disturbing that a Nigerian man would think so negatively about his blackness causing him to have a negative opinion on others. We have to be accountable for the things we say. Unfortunately he wasn't corrected on his colorization issues and it is going to haunt him bc many of us are not going to go out of our way to support this one.

    • @Impossibly_gorgeous
      @Impossibly_gorgeous 2 года назад

      @@Fading_with_beauty money hungry? 🤣🤣🤣🚮🚮 he moved in with her and she kicked him out after they broke up a month to his demise. He had been stealing her only fans money for 3 months. He still kept going back to her house to assault her after being thrown out. Thats why she called the police on him 7 times.before she sliced his butt. I know someone who knows the family personally. His name is Elgin Kyei Baffour. You sound like a dirty no-good mammy right now

  • @ndj988
    @ndj988 2 года назад +51

    How ironic. He prefers white woman yet gets killed by one. Smh may he rest in peace 🙏

  • @wholesome-jen3104
    @wholesome-jen3104 2 года назад +39

    Yes but Jessica, actions have consequences . Unfortunately his hateful words toward black women is the very reason why he isn't being supported. Similarly to the way he had a preference, black folks have a choice on whom to support or not support. Period. BTW I'm African born and although I empathize with his death , I will not support this.

    • @citeebayconvey2935
      @citeebayconvey2935 2 года назад

      Try supporting your sèlf,no one needs your help..

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 2 года назад

      Playing you like a fiddle. No victim is perfect. They will highlight your flaws to deny you justice too & lose public sympathy. Same ole playbook.
      Africans rallied for George Floyd despite his flaws.

  • @visme2240
    @visme2240 2 года назад +56

    His family keep putting it out there seeking the black community to stand up but what about the yt community standing up where are they because the yt’s are being very quiet right about now. Suddenly they don’t want any parts of putting a young yt girl in jail for what she did to a blk man I haven’t heard or seen any of them protesting or standing up in support of his family for justice

    • @javionriley8739
      @javionriley8739 2 года назад +11

      I don’t see the Nigerian government doing anything!! 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @feilatan
      @feilatan 2 года назад +3

      Right, they want to lay the burden at the door step of the AA community who he and his cousin hated. She tweeted negative things about black men. Seek help from those you loved…

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 2 года назад

      No victim is perfect. This is how ALL black people are denied justice. Their flaws are put out in social media so people turn on them.
      Media does the same by highlighting the "criminality" of black men and women to turn the public eyes against them like they tried with Ahmed Aubry and Breona Taylor even tho they were innocent.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 2 года назад

      @@javionriley8739 That's ridiculous. You know Nigeria like the rest of the world is suffering from terror (Book Haram) and other atrocities inflicted by America and the British. The US is the world empire by denial/deception tormenting the world through it's wars, terror and foreign policy according to Chomsky who calls the US the wholesale terror provider.

  • @FreeB1Speech
    @FreeB1Speech 2 года назад +37

    Honestly I don’t care…My preference is not rallying for Nigerians that disrespect African American..#FBA

    • @C_hinemerem
      @C_hinemerem 2 года назад +7

      Wtf. 😂😂😂😂. Y’all are disrespectful too

    • @hbjj4785
      @hbjj4785 2 года назад

      African-Americans are the most disrespectful community among the black people.

    • @Sunflowers_220
      @Sunflowers_220 2 года назад +5

      Keep Nigerians out of it :p I am a part Nigerian. And my Nigerian Black ass feels in the dephts of my soul its not my fight its white womens fight.
      Let them rally in the street. That family is grieving, and i get it. I wish them all healing and justice however I am not rallying the street for a man that disrespected me.

    • @kas3583
      @kas3583 2 года назад +1

      @@C_hinemerem We disrespectful in our own country. What about yall?

    • @C_hinemerem
      @C_hinemerem 2 года назад

      @@kas3583 which of ur country. U better find ur country

  • @thefavoredone1217
    @thefavoredone1217 2 года назад +39

    I'm sitting this one out.

    • @blackberry9013
      @blackberry9013 2 года назад +3

      Yep, I'm politely on the "bench" for this one🤷🏿

    • @bgreen5234
      @bgreen5234 2 года назад

      @@blackberry9013 you got room for one more?

  • @saint.hudson13
    @saint.hudson13 2 года назад +58

    It’s was not just BLACK AMERICAN WOMEN he was disrespecting, it was BLACK AMERICAN PEOPLE (men too). Furthermore it wasn’t just him, it was members of his family; as recent as this year! If the shade room is going to “investigate”… investigate right! 🙄🙄🙄

    • @NiniBonita
      @NiniBonita 2 года назад +8

      And gays as well 🇬🇲

    • @haveagoodday629
      @haveagoodday629 2 года назад +3

      @@NiniBonita 😮😮😮

    • @theolivebranch.7629
      @theolivebranch.7629 2 года назад +30

      He disrespected black people everywhere. As an African girl, when black women in America are getting attacked and mistreated I feel it too. The hate black on black women affects us everywhere.

    • @malaika2863
      @malaika2863 2 года назад

      Including his mother. Ain't it sad, he brought his West African colonialism mind set with him and thought that shit will fly. There are West African people TODAY.. especially in Nigeria and Ghana who still say Whites are GODS. They are mentally damaged.

    • @kahdijabarry7364
      @kahdijabarry7364 2 года назад +2

      What did he's family said about black Americans???

  • @officialrainaa6117
    @officialrainaa6117 2 года назад +57

    Seeing the black woman in his family speak so highly of him and wanting justice for him when he didn’t even like or respect them because of the color of their skin is beyond me. I know their his family so yes I expected them to do so but damn.. 🙄

    • @kittykatz4001
      @kittykatz4001 2 года назад +3

      He was talking about AA women. He wasn’t talking about African women.

    • @officialrainaa6117
      @officialrainaa6117 2 года назад +23

      @@kittykatz4001 don’t be slow , we’re BLACK WOMAN 🙄.

    • @kittykatz4001
      @kittykatz4001 2 года назад

      @@officialrainaa6117 You’re the slow one. These children of immigrant African men (born in 🇺🇸) join AA men in publicly dragging and disparaging AA women. Even if they prefer to exclude African women from their dating pool, they don’t publicly degrade African women.
      He wasn’t talking about Nigerian women.
      Stop “all lives mattering” his public anti AA women hate.

    • @ItsJadeDUH18
      @ItsJadeDUH18 2 года назад +14

      @@kittykatz4001 he was talking about all black women, which he clearly stated in his tweets…

    • @kittykatz4001
      @kittykatz4001 2 года назад +1

      @@ItsJadeDUH18 No. elsewhere on RUclips, an African woman was honest and agreed with me and I thanked her for not gaslighting me.
      You and I will have to agree to disagree.

  • @shakyelarnold7392
    @shakyelarnold7392 2 года назад +9

    An African man named Toby, with a history of hating black women, killed by his white woman... this don't sound like s script to anybody else. 🤔🤔

  • @IndianRedd
    @IndianRedd 2 года назад +83

    Sounds like he found his preference 🙏🏽

    • @designhub360customapparel
      @designhub360customapparel 2 года назад +3

      In the ground

    • @lifeandtimesofsazi3192
      @lifeandtimesofsazi3192 2 года назад +1

      @@designhub360customapparel 😂😂😂

    • @luvbig41
      @luvbig41 2 года назад +1

      Yep...much like the two sistas who were murdered while dating white men. The white men were never charged.

    • @citeebayconvey2935
      @citeebayconvey2935 2 года назад

      Yes ,but who have you got...?

    • @IndianRedd
      @IndianRedd 2 года назад

      @@citeebayconvey2935 i got ur dad dummy

  • @teachertx
    @teachertx 2 года назад +19

    This has nothing to do with us, bw. All the energy a few bw are putting into this is unfortunate. That man would have stepped over your bleeding body to lay down a towel for a ww to walk over so she didn't get blood on her shoes! Please believe.

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 2 года назад

      Are you an astroturf? Or just drunk on social media's/media's toxic rhetoric?

    • @testtest2609
      @testtest2609 2 года назад

      No victim is perfect. This is how ALL black people are denied justice. Their flaws are put out in social media so people turn on them.
      Media does the same by highlighting the "criminality" of black men and women to turn the public eyes against them like they tried with Ahmed Aubry and Breona Taylor even tho they were innocent.

  • @AngelasTravelAdventures
    @AngelasTravelAdventures 2 года назад +24

    All i have to say, if she was black and he was white, she would have been arrested and not sent to mental facility!!! She knew she she'd walk away from this and not serve time. Its disgusting!!!! I feel sorry for his family. And the tweets that say he wrote was from when he was 17 years old? That is over 10 years ago. I dont agree with his tweets, they are troubling at best, especially considering he is African but he didnt deserve to die. And the human trafficking thing! BS!!

    • @ourtruth216
      @ourtruth216 2 года назад +1

      It doesn’t matter, it’s his actions. He dated a white women who sold her body for money. He obviously still lacked morals and respect with in the black community . He just decided to stop posting it to avoid backlash lol you can tell how a person changes by their behavior… not just what they say

  • @msconcreterose93
    @msconcreterose93 2 года назад +16

    Isn’t this the same cousin who was calling African Americans akatas a few days ago???

    • @kas3583
      @kas3583 2 года назад +1

      Yep that's her

    • @daphnee646
      @daphnee646 2 года назад +1

      Really? Where did she says that? and what is akatas means?

  • @kisha4040
    @kisha4040 2 года назад +13

    Why are his precious White snowbunnies so silent about this?

    • @blackbeauty6509
      @blackbeauty6509 2 года назад +4

      They are siding with her which is to be expected.

  • @lb6902
    @lb6902 2 года назад +9

    once again, black men and their preferences. RIP Toby

  • @NiniBonita
    @NiniBonita 2 года назад +13

    Just minding my Gambian / Black woman business on my April 3rd B-day ♈️💅🏽🇬🇲|🇺🇸.

  • @jamezhall2066
    @jamezhall2066 2 года назад +25

    I’m so confused! What does the Nigerian society has to do with this couple and their so called “toxic” relationship? Pls explain to me. The family in all respect should know what happened even if they weren’t close to him. Rest In Peace 🕊

    • @melissamcclain34
      @melissamcclain34 2 года назад +5

      I'm assuming the cousin brought up the Nigerian Society because he was Nigerian and his death is a loss to not only his family but Nigerians as a whole. or at least thats how I understood it

    • @fiestyblktina1237
      @fiestyblktina1237 2 года назад

      It's because they're very trabial and see themselves different and better than African Americans. You notice she didn't say the blk community. They call us Akata which is a racial slur for African Americans making fun and light of our enslavement and out ancestors having to pick cotton.

    • @jamezhall2066
      @jamezhall2066 2 года назад

      @@melissamcclain34 AHHH I get it. Totally understand. Thank you

    • @trutj22
      @trutj22 2 года назад

      He was a Nigerian.

    • @citeebayconvey2935
      @citeebayconvey2935 2 года назад

      Don't worry about these akata hypocrites that slaughter their selves every day,its just another cry baby outburst which they are none for..

  • @teachertx
    @teachertx 2 года назад +13

    The good news is that he will always be linked to this ww...and isn't that what he would have wanted? So congrats to him 👏🏾

  • @cynnsantana9973
    @cynnsantana9973 2 года назад +13

    Welp!!!! Becky them better put their walking shoes on BW sitting this one out

  • @Impossibly_gorgeous
    @Impossibly_gorgeous 2 года назад +9

    Lets see.. she breaks up with him and he still keeps going back to her house, to the extent that she has to go to the police 7 times for DV and she's the toxic one? Miss me with that BS

    • @Bigday-ki1fw
      @Bigday-ki1fw 2 года назад +1

      How do you know she’s is the one breaking up lol? And how do you know she’s not the one initiating the “get back together ?” And their mutual friends said she was the aggressor all the time not him . People on here are stupid haha

  • @ursulatroxler7428
    @ursulatroxler7428 2 года назад +7

    She has the complexion for protection

  • @R.G.Willmore
    @R.G.Willmore 2 года назад +3

    I'M GOING TO GET ME A CHEESEBURGER, AND FRIES, ANYBODY WANT ANYTHING?

  • @lovelee2831
    @lovelee2831 2 года назад +29

    As a young black man I learned very early in life to stay with my race,that has always paid me. I will teach my kids and their kids kids to love,cherish, date and marry beautiful black queen.

    • @jreteeksjreteeks8868
      @jreteeksjreteeks8868 2 года назад +7

      You can love who you want, just don’t say nasty things about another race of women because they are not your preference.

    • @Thatdudekay2
      @Thatdudekay2 2 года назад

      Black women can also stab you

    • @citeebayconvey2935
      @citeebayconvey2935 2 года назад

      Where are they,and which community ,the one with 80 percent single mums...lol

    • @ninapolley5363
      @ninapolley5363 2 года назад

      Sweet.

  • @reeching9876
    @reeching9876 2 года назад +15

    You see who he with right.?..case closed lol

  • @shaunfrink2310
    @shaunfrink2310 2 года назад +20

    Y’all know damn well “Whitey” ain’t gon’ let her go to prison

  • @dnajee8805
    @dnajee8805 2 года назад +20

    Hanging with the 👿

    • @dorightbyjesus_scorpion9489
      @dorightbyjesus_scorpion9489 2 года назад +7

      Yep! The same devil who took him right out of here too unfortunately. Grass isn't always Greener on the other side.

  • @prettyladie8327
    @prettyladie8327 2 года назад +6

    His cousin with that fake cry tho…Chile he didn’t like you either AKATA….That vanilla fairy was abused & violated….That poor woman is innocent & y’all need to stop stressing her out…..

  • @salmarufaidimmua6023
    @salmarufaidimmua6023 2 года назад +6

    Date who you want to date but don't look down on the other race just becos is not your preference... Every race has its GOOD and BAD.. no single race is best...

    • @ninapolley5363
      @ninapolley5363 2 года назад +1

      And especially don't bash your own race on social media.

  • @Donique_23
    @Donique_23 2 года назад +11

    Hmm, walking around nice and free, i mean are we expecting anything different. She is goung free end of story

  • @karl5056
    @karl5056 2 года назад +24

    IG should suspend her IG account due to this incident . this violates IG rules & etiquette.

  • @ShiningLight411
    @ShiningLight411 2 года назад +12

    My condolences to his family, but I will let the investigators handle this.

  • @kas3583
    @kas3583 2 года назад +27

    We gon let the Nigerian community handle this one. Since they "werk haad" they should be alright. My only question is why did they hire a "lazy akata" attorney. 🤷🏾‍♂️✌🏾 #HYON

    • @R.G.Willmore
      @R.G.Willmore 2 года назад +6

      LET HIS FELLOW AFRICANS " NIGERICANS, ETHIOPIANS, LIBERIANS, AND SOMALIS " RALLY FOR HIM.

    • @kas3583
      @kas3583 2 года назад +3

      @@R.G.Willmore 💯

    • @R.G.Willmore
      @R.G.Willmore 2 года назад

      @@kas3583 the 46 million African American community don't need to get involved with African booty scratcher's business!

  • @trinichick76
    @trinichick76 2 года назад +6

    His latest anti BW tweets were sent out when he was 20. Is that a kid?

  • @Beyoutifull_Queen
    @Beyoutifull_Queen 2 года назад +19

    She do need to be arrested

  • @michaelmcdougall7367
    @michaelmcdougall7367 2 года назад +3

    If you noticed, the young lady only spoke of the Nigerian community that was impacted by his death. They don't give a darn about Black America.
    After his tweets, be careful what you ask for, you might get it and some.

  • @missyma7858
    @missyma7858 2 года назад +4

    If their is domestic violence their is usually a paper trail of police reports and/or restraining order(s)!

  • @ophelia2669
    @ophelia2669 2 года назад +5

    Be careful out there Black men.. we not saying you can't pick who you want but you better choose wisely when you dealing with Karens.

  • @writtenhousesecurity6499
    @writtenhousesecurity6499 2 года назад +4

    He kept going back. You play dangerous games you get dangerous prizes.

  • @JohnAReese
    @JohnAReese 2 года назад +3

    Self Hate Killed Him! He had the right name though “Toby” and God won’t handle her lmfao

  • @fivefiveqt214
    @fivefiveqt214 2 года назад +4

    No one is saying he deserved to die. We’re saying that this isn’t a race issue, it’s a domestic violence issue that involves a BM and his WW preference. So help us understand why BW are being called on to advocate for a BW hating BM that got killed during a domestic dispute with his docile, meek, submissive, feminine, can do no wrong WW. The audacity. 🙄

  • @CleanUpAllThisTea
    @CleanUpAllThisTea 2 года назад +5

    HE WASN’T ON THE LEASE!

  • @karl5056
    @karl5056 2 года назад +15

    Accidentally killing someone after a argument is not a 'get out of jail',, free card. The Rule of Law stands above everything. This woman needs to be held accountable for her actions....society demands her debt to be paid. Put her in prison for what she done. What type of person stabs another human being IN THE FIRST PLACE?! She couldn't pay her rent & they were probably arguing and she went psycho and emotionally nuts, and this is what happens. No IG in prison! Enjoy ur Rockstar lifestyle in PRISON.

  • @clarkclarke
    @clarkclarke 2 года назад +5

    Well he is dead ..
    cannot defend himself ..
    It will be sad if she gets away with this ...
    Prayers to the family 💔🙏🏾

  • @R.G.Willmore
    @R.G.Willmore 2 года назад +3

    AS I SAID BEFORE! FOUNDATIONAL BLACK AMERICAN COMMUNITY STAY ON CODE, DO NOT FALL FOR THIS! THIS IS AN AFRICAN ISSUE, LET THEM DEAL WITH IT!!

  • @mattmccullough1093
    @mattmccullough1093 2 года назад +4

    I will pray for that Man's family and my heart goes out to his family and it's sad what happened to him.

  • @delilah6390
    @delilah6390 2 года назад +9

    Sorry to that man 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sade9425
    @sade9425 2 года назад +17

    The bonnet tho *sigh
    He didn’t deserve to die and she should be jailed. It’s obvious he still had the same sentiment for white and black women. Having a preference means one likes both things but prefers one over the other. It’s not a preference if one of the things is disliked/hated.

    • @patricesutter4344
      @patricesutter4344 2 года назад +3

      She embodies everything he claims to hate . So he probably was beating her.

    • @amberjoy2806
      @amberjoy2806 2 года назад +1

      Not a bonnet

  • @linck7up
    @linck7up 2 года назад +4

    if she was black no 1 be talking about it

    • @wandaboynton2021
      @wandaboynton2021 2 года назад

      How u no what somebody would do,shut up.

    • @ninapolley5363
      @ninapolley5363 2 года назад

      If she was black..he would still alive.imo

  • @Netta0712
    @Netta0712 2 года назад +6

    Once again he got his preference, and his karma . She drove the karma bus how ironic #RIP

  • @propertybycrystal1
    @propertybycrystal1 2 года назад +4

    The very thing he worshiped murdered him. Like MLK said it’s not the color of your skin, but the content of your character, and he learned that the hard way.

    • @LadyGodiva0611
      @LadyGodiva0611 2 года назад

      MLK did too! Betty Moitz was side chick that he was in love with before and during marriage with Coretta…

    • @propertybycrystal1
      @propertybycrystal1 2 года назад

      @@LadyGodiva0611 If true, MLK didn’t worship a female, she didn’t murder him, some white racist did, so your point is moot.

    • @propertybycrystal1
      @propertybycrystal1 2 года назад +1

      @@LadyGodiva0611 weather they did or didn’t that has zero to do with what happened. It doesn’t relate. This girl they murdered this guys wasn’t a side chick threat was his girlfriend, they lived together. MLK wasn’t murdered by a woman. What is your point????

  • @SamSam-jp5zk
    @SamSam-jp5zk 2 года назад +4

    Good unbiased reporting. Kudos

  • @elelni123
    @elelni123 2 года назад +6

    Sick people in this world 🌎

  • @Youngboylang_
    @Youngboylang_ 2 года назад +4

    WHY YALL DELETE THIS POST OFF INSTAGRAM

  • @atnitaznawm8617
    @atnitaznawm8617 2 года назад +3

    if he was alive I don't think bw speaking out to support him would mean anything to him,so bw shud just save their energy nd post nothing about him,don't mention his name

  • @autumnjade815
    @autumnjade815 2 года назад +3

    Maybe she can address the meme he posted in 2020 comparing BW to WW.

  • @berthareels4289
    @berthareels4289 2 года назад +3

    I wonder if he hated his Black momma and his female family members???

  • @xPROGNOSISx
    @xPROGNOSISx 2 года назад +14

    What y’all making for dinner? We just had some pasta and homemade ice cream. 😋

    • @GravyFromScratch
      @GravyFromScratch 2 года назад +3

      Sounds splendid! 😋

    • @tyeoyershat1680
      @tyeoyershat1680 2 года назад +3

      Chicken, mash potatoes and green beans and some buttery corn bread...homemade ice cream tho that sounds fire

    • @LorieNo1
      @LorieNo1 2 года назад +2

      Nachos and Dr Pepper floats 😋

  • @stefaniehopson3524
    @stefaniehopson3524 2 года назад +13

    Well we allll know how this will play out! If she even has to go to trial, she'll probably get a hug from the judge after being found not guilty 😩

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn 2 года назад +5

      Burn that cape Sis!! This is NOT Black womens problem!! 🤷🏾

    • @stefaniehopson3524
      @stefaniehopson3524 2 года назад

      @@AnastasiaBeaverhousn facts!!! And I'm with you when ya right...it's just so twisted ya know BUT i agree with ya sis 😌

  • @thetrilogy80
    @thetrilogy80 2 года назад +5

    vanity -excessive pride in or admiration of one's own appearance or achievements

  • @shaylarobinson700
    @shaylarobinson700 2 года назад +4

    She did it!!!

  • @blackwonderBW
    @blackwonderBW Год назад +1

    Nigerian-born guy got a taste of America in the worst way. This dude prob thought dating a cute snowflake was "dating up". What he failed to realize is, in the US you're not Nigerian, Dominican, or from Chad. You are simply black. Which means non-blacks can attack you with impunity. As an FBA, believe me I know.

  • @brownsugar9942
    @brownsugar9942 2 года назад +12

    I have read the comments below and I can see both sides of the argument.
    I can see why black American women don’t want to fight for this unfortunate young man, and I can see why his family would like and need their support. And yes, we are all black no matter where we come from in this world.
    But my thing is, when this young man was saying the unkind things he said, did his family or any of the African community publicly correct him, so that the wider African American community can see that not all the African community think like this. Did his family members say to him privately, that the same people he is insulting may be the only ones (black American women) who will be able to turn to if African comm ever need help (with for example police brutality) if not, then you have no right to ask for their help, demand it their help or guilt trip them into giving their help.
    Furthermore, if you had no problem with what he was saying, you should be asking white women for help instead, seeing as he liked them so much and the African community did nothing to challenge the vile things he said.
    Black American women are not at your beck and call, just there for you to use if ever they are needed. They are human beings with feelings, and from what I can see, their feelings have been hurt.
    I also think his family should publicly apologise to the women he insulted. The apology may go some way to mend bridges and heal the wound between the two communities.
    I hope this young man rests in peace and the family get the justice they seek.

    • @ninapolley5363
      @ninapolley5363 2 года назад

      His family didnt know,,that's what his cousin said.

  • @luxylu8773
    @luxylu8773 2 года назад +1

    Holding grudges is why we don't elevate

  • @soniapinkney3007
    @soniapinkney3007 2 года назад +2

    He wouldn't want help from Black women ???

  • @zee608
    @zee608 2 года назад +3

    Black women stand back and stand by this is not your fight drink your water eat your fruit and deep condition those beautiful curls💅🏾

  • @ericaminta9408
    @ericaminta9408 2 года назад +2

    I feel so incredibly terrible for the Men and his family.

  • @tigerlilly9038
    @tigerlilly9038 2 года назад +1

    Saving my cape for mid term gerrymandering battles..Good luck pray you get justice.

  • @marcblake6609
    @marcblake6609 2 года назад +9

    He's dying to be white. Literally

  • @deepdarkcocoa7956
    @deepdarkcocoa7956 2 года назад +2

    If I did choose to support, it would be for HER (his cousin) I wouldn't waste my time rallying for someone who made it very clear that he hated me.

    • @ritemolawbks8012
      @ritemolawbks8012 2 года назад

      The accused murderer is no friend of yours either. She'll attract more self-hating Black and Nigerian men.

    • @Ms777lalaland
      @Ms777lalaland 2 года назад +1

      @@ritemolawbks8012 well… that’ll be their personal preference problems🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @weekendnomad5038
    @weekendnomad5038 2 года назад +2

    Woooowww no one can expect BW to back this man.. all they owe him is a 🤷🏻‍♀️ that’s on you bro

  • @StephanieNiecey
    @StephanieNiecey Год назад +4

    🤣🤣 Black women stay out of this.

  • @Paraplegicoctopus-jh3mn
    @Paraplegicoctopus-jh3mn 2 года назад +3

    Why do people have to talk down to people they apparently have no interest in? You can't just have a preference and do you, you've gotta bring your fellow sisters down because? Smh. RIP still tho.

  • @sunnysmile3798
    @sunnysmile3798 2 года назад +3

    My heart breaks for her & her family. Idgaf what his preference was 10 yrs ago. He was not ready to die he’s the victim here. She needs to be sentenced for his murder. Throw her in jail where riches don’t matter. She’ll be wearing the same inmate uniform & eating off the same tray as the rest of those criminals. Prayers for his loved ones.

    • @feilatan
      @feilatan 2 года назад

      Of course you don’t care, it was not you who he hated and degraded.

    • @aquatofana6565
      @aquatofana6565 2 года назад

      May she be let free as she should. Free my girl. He finally found his everlasting peace

  • @shayj5124
    @shayj5124 2 года назад +2

    My cape is at the dry cleaner.

  • @carsondouglas8600
    @carsondouglas8600 2 года назад +3

    Was taken to the sunken place.💀

  • @carobrown9498
    @carobrown9498 2 года назад +2

    Sorry saving my tears n sorrow for some who did not need to put BW down to justify their existence...

  • @stormystormy5429
    @stormystormy5429 2 года назад +3

    I read his tweets about blck women. And the culture. He didn’t even love nor like his own ppl. Sad case but he got what he was lookin for tbh.

  • @TwinkleStarr3109
    @TwinkleStarr3109 2 года назад +1

    I’m so sorry for all his loved ones. If this was in self defense , that’s different, but if it’s murder may she spend many many years in prison.

  • @Ms.FullPotential
    @Ms.FullPotential 2 года назад +4

    Stop dating Becky’s !!!

  • @ybshadyii4375
    @ybshadyii4375 2 года назад +1

    New Subscriber here in Mississippi!!! 🤜🤛

  • @lift-offdesignstudio
    @lift-offdesignstudio 2 года назад +8

    Based on the information provided, he was evicted from the apartment due to domestic violence.
    There are states where this automatically serves as a restraining order.
    In the event if he attacked her, she has every right to defend herself. He should not have been in her house either way.
    Please people leave toxic situations before it ends up deadly.
    I'm sorry about his death may he rip.🕊

  • @mattmccullough1093
    @mattmccullough1093 2 года назад +1

    We need to quit making it about race just because there's conflict between a white person and a black person it doesn't always have to do with race.

  • @diegorojas3594
    @diegorojas3594 2 года назад +2

    Where is black lives matter, we need now