Stop PUNISHING Yourself! ⚠️
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- Stop PUNISHING “younger versions of you” that didn’t know any better!
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Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
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Stop PUNISHING Yourself! ⚠️
How to forgive yourself and move on! In this short, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals the truth about self love and self forgiveness... Discover how to let go of the past and how to forgive yourself for past mistakes!
How to forgive yourself for past mistakes and how to stop feeling guilty.
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It’s hard to forgive yourself when with the decision you made at that time, eventually hurt others and affected their life. Yeah sure it’s mom guilt but this guilt that I feel goes way deeper.
The decision I made change the course of several peoples lives, including my own, that was not uplifting. At the time I was very shy, scared, immature. Child, at the age of 20 little did I know the decision I made at that would change the course of my life and not for the better.
To forgive that deep of a wound is more difficult than just stop punishing yourself.
This really made me cry so hard, I’ve spent so much time hating the younger version of myself. And the mistakes I’ve made, I’m trying to work on healing that part of me. I am so glad I saw this, I really needed to hear this.
💯 Same too!
me too bro 🤞💯
Me too ❤❤❤
I finally forgave that younger version of myself total uncontrollable crying but such a healing..I had no idea how much I had suppressed Thank you Jesus for allowing me to let go❤🙏❤️
I know me also
Peace and love from Belgium 🇧🇪
Rachid
Totally agree. If we didn't make those mistakes then, we wouldn't be persons we are today.
Thank you for this.
What if you don't like the person you are today? Maybe that's the root 🤔
@@lorraine-y3lThat’s the cool thing about being alive.
You get to redefine yourself however you see fit at any moment in time.
You can wake up tomorrow and just decide to have a different perspective on the world.
That’s what life’s about. The growth and learning to love yourself and the world around you.
Trust me, EVERYONE’S got skeletons. Because we weren’t the people we are today 😊.
@@AttainTheGrain thank you so much for your words. You are so right...
@@AttainTheGrainthank you so much this really helped me. i really needed to read that and i’m so grateful i did thank you
I'm pretty sure my younger self knew better. I just didn't care. That's what bothers me.
You didn't know how much better, better was
Exact same thing my therapist told me 3 years ago. This way I can tell you know what you are talking about. Keep it up.
Glad this resonates! 🙏
I knew better but I didn't do better. Those are my regrets.
we mess up. It's okay.
same..
Yep. The whole "you did the best u could with the information you had" is not always factual. The decisions we made were not the best ones for us at that time.
I knew better too if I would've just stayed away from certain ppl I would've been cool but I guess like they say everything happens for a reason
...we all facing a spiritual battle 🙏..
We really couldn't do better!
This made me cry. I have been so hard on myself lately about decisions that I made in the past that maybe would have set me on a different path. Seeing people my age and where they are at in life compared to myself is sooooo hard 😢 I learn everyday not to judge myself based on what my younger self did / didn't do.
Forgive yourself for everything, you’re all you got.
Forgive yourself
You shouldn't punish someone young for dumb mistakes, you should just let them know they made a mistake, them going thru the period of regret will be punishment enough.
Now this is incredible! I talked about this to my nearly 18 y old daughter this afternoon! I had a rough childhood and was always remembering what happened, but lately I had an epiphany that what happened was not my responsibility as I was a child.. I forgave my parents as they did what they knew and could.. and I’m deciding to stop torturing myself by bringing up what happened! I can’t change the past but I can change how I feel about it! It’s not an overnight transformation as I’ve been working on it for a few years, yet I’m so glad my mindset changed about my life as a child! Thanks for the great work you do!
Yes I love seeing these videos cus I made a mistake when I was 15 and I still cant get over it but seeing this helps alot
Holy fckn shyt. I never thought about my trauma like that. Wow. I’m gonna ponder this during my days off and start working past my regrets.
Glad this was insightful! Here's a good place to start btw: www.julienhimself.com/8p
This is awesome. Why don't they ever explain it as simply as this? They always say "the past is in the past" which is not enough. Yeah like I know it's in the past, but I could never get out of it. But this made it finally click! Just a simple perspective!
I just burst into tears because it was the thing I wanted to hear❤!
You have so much wisdom bro. Continue sharing 🤜🤛
Thank you! A lot more to come! 🔥
I needed to hear this. I punish myself because of childhood trauma. I am a great person and treat others kindly but when it comes to me I would never talk down to a friend like how talk down to myself.
Slowly slowly knowing other that I just used by someone according their needs
Very true❤. Wisdom comed with age. We all make mistakes ,just learn from them and we can then do better in the future❤
My gratitude is infinite!💜I hated her 32 years! I love her now I can't believe I hated her!
I have big respect for you replying to almost every comment on your videos.
Also i have learned and taken alot into consideration from you, so thank you Julian.
Glad my content has been helpful for you! And yes, I love keeping in touch with people who watch my content through the comments and seeing what resonates or not... Allows me to continue to perfect my teachings! 🙏
Currently feeling like this over a breakup from years ago atp. I feel a lot of guilt for becoming numb and ending it but in that time I felt it was right for me to end it bc he was hurting in the relationship. We were super young too so that plays a part in our actions as well. Bc he hurt me, once I stopped wanting to be with him I became mean and kept pushing him away when I begged me to stay and told me he’d changed. Now he’s engaged and seems super happy and I feel like had I just let go of the hurt. Been kinder regardless of my hurt from the relationship I’d have all those things he’s giving to her. I keep wondering if I’m a bad person and if God loved them more than he loves me bc they’re building a beautiful life while if been cheating on and in an abusive relationship after him. A lot of guilt has weighed on me this past few weeks. This kinda eases me.
Idk how he hurt you but HE HURT YOU and you only responded to the disrespect because you knew you didn’t deserve that. Who’s to say you letting him back in was going to be any different people can say they change but without enough time to make actual change it’s just words to keep you. Even if he has changed and is happy in his marriage it took for him to hurt you and learn from his mistakes I know it sounds cruel and unfair but the man for you won’t hurt you. Stop punishing yourself by entering abusive relationships because you subconsciously think you deserve it for the void you wish your ex would fill.. Better will come you just have to believe it and love yourself so you can be ready to receive it
That piano fits in video very well
We make the best decisions at the time….always!
Would you say this is true of a murderer if no where do you draw the line
Nope.
Thank you Julien for all your courage, this video made me cry, I saw myself reflected and told myself that I had done the best I knew how, and I automatically started crying a lot, sometimes I have a judge inside my head. 1 year ago I started in a deep dark night, I taught seduction to other men and something similar to your story happened to me, I realized that I was doing everything to fill my gaps and my pain. I started watching all your content with subtitles in Spanish since I'm from Madrid, and it helped me a lot, every time I feel better and I know it's a slow process, I'm still getting a lot of pain, but little by little I see that things are changing, Now my focus is teaching spirituality and I am sharing your teachings and those of other teachers to the students I work with, thanks for everything.🙏🙏
it was hard... but reality helps me move on
Amazing video!
I can’t tell you how much this video helped me, Sir!
Thank you truly! 🙏🏻😊
I listened to another of your videos of forgiving parents and that HUGELY helped me too.
Can’t thank you enough.
Nobody has been able to help me as much as you
Thank you. Sorrow is rough. Ugh.
Just write your all feelings. Then write without judgement. Write without words WHY HOW, any regret, shame, guilt. You will get freedom of that feelings.
Nope . I was a really weak and brain dead person , i didn't speak ever in last 9 yrs if my school lyf.
My bestfriend assaulted me by always peeking in washroom stall multiple times ehile i went in and when i came out she would say ohh i saw u were wearing _ , then once i caught her peeking in she said u can't hide from me i saw everything i stayed quiet and said to myself oh leave it , when i accidentally hurt them and apologized too they wouldn't talk to me until 3 days. But i had no seld respect when it comes to me i always say nothing , never mention my boundaries never respect myself. A self resoect ridden individual
A friend was jealous of me so i cut her off when i cut her off i didn't even gave her a valid reason to break up i just said don't contact me ever i won't talk you.
She involved another ex toxuc friend with her and told ger blatant lies and both were calling be backstabber and cheater in class . I stayed quiet.
I always stayed quiet cause of my innocence, dumbness, inability to say no, my people pleasing tendencies, my social anxiety,shy , introverted, and fear psychosis .
I reget my whole existence. Always stayed quiet. Was never straightforward and bold. I stayed queit that's why people torture me more thunking this girl wouldn't speak up so we will do anything to her.
I'm going through the same thing I want to stand up for myself it is also a form of self love not letting anybody treat you wrong .I have a long way to go
I really needed to hear this. I am free to make mistakes and learn from them
I cannot forgive myself from ages 19-23 I just cant.
Yeah Thank you JB!!!
Got to love this person
This made me cry.
Had this conversation with myself the other day Good you know other people feel it to
Wow!! Unbelievable! You are the best !!
...I felt free right away!
May Lord Jesus give Glory to Himself trough you 🙏
God bless you 🙏 ❤
is there a full version of this? thanks
I just can't get over a girl i liked so much that i fuked it up with her and she just wouldn't give me a chance even to talk to her and to try make it up , its been 4years and i just can't get ovrr it i feel like i wasted someone that i really liked and things would've been better if i was more mature and talked to her before things got out of hand
Incredible
Thanks for this julien
That's a very interesting respective thanks I needed this
" Amen , I love that version of me. I feel I succeeded though . 100 / 💯 Yes I did do the best thing I knew...😁😳🏀🥳🥳🥳🥳🙏🏿🤝🏾💯🏆🥇
This is beautiful
Great one
Well, I see warning signs but I ignore them because they have really valuable attributes in my eyes. But the blue hair bob cut never fails as a red flag
That's a good point. Except if you know the younger version of you knew better, and didn't do their best.
❤ thank you 😢
Amen, I needed to hear this today. 😊
Thank you❤
So true ❤
thank you , i needed to hear this
Julien, you are sooooo wise! 😎🙏
You sounded like Matthew Hussey for a sec😂
Where is the full video to this?
But i didn’t do my best, i was knew better
Thank you, julien.
🙏🙏🙏
Yes 🙌🏾
Guilt and shame is of the devil, but there is forgiveness in Christ Jesus. Whatever it is you’re dealing with, give it to Him, and trust in His grace for salvation! Romans 5:8 ❤️ 2 Peter 2:20
I’m not perfect at all, but there is forgiveness for anyone willing to turn to Jesus
Jesus love you so much
And Jesus loves you too ❤
Where’s the full version of this?
I did search the full video and found it based on the thumbnail. Julien did a great job here. She deserves a great life!
@@attilafustos why didnt u just share the link bro
Found it. Cheers
ruclips.net/video/MRqpw1Igo54/видео.html
@@attilafustoslink?
Waw truth be told
I love God and Jesus❤❤
Oh, yeah? Try me. Apparently I can't redeem myself. I was once taken to my boss's office--with her and her chef colleague--for touching my coworkers too much (CASUALLY on arms or shoulders). I was always very outgoing and tactile at work. The chef told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment. That I shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school or tell my stories, because they may be inappropriate or upsetting (can't remember her exact words) to others. Now yeah, I pretty much didn't have a filter, but I don't think I said anything *_horrible._* I only meant to have fun with my crew. I really didn't get specific information from the chef about subjects and references. She liked that I was outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits. And again, that I shouldn't touch anyone without consent.
But I didn't _mean_ any harm or discomfort. If I had known anyone would feel either, (though technically no one showed signs), I would not have touched them. And anyway, people casually do it to each other. But despite my side, whenever I expressed my story on YT videos, commenters would still make me feel bad, as if I didn't feel bad enough. "Well, you shouldn't be touching coworkers" or "You sound like a creep" or "The workplace is not where you act that way." I often think "Why can't someone just respond to my story and shame without talking about my wrongdoing or correcting me?" I own if I made anyone uncomfortable, and I would make it up to them if I knew whom. What's it gonna take to redeem myself? Am I permanently a bad person?
Yes yes
What if you did know better?
What if I did know what to do but, chose wrong anyway?
There was probably something pushing you on the wrong side
If only we buy houses when we 4 years old XD
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Well idk . I definitely have lost 26 years at this point .
I got in trouble for trying to kill myself
I got a record. I am to stupid to overcome it . I doing it tonight
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2 nd place runner up in Pagan...
No
Crying
Love that this is the person you've become from where you came from❤️🩹 beautiful and meaningful, ty for being you.
Thank you ❤