I dont get the modern dating scene at all. Im 25, fit, make 6 figs, have a house (my only debt), fully own 3 cars, probably slightly above average in looks, loads of interesting hobbies, etc. the whole 9 yards every modern chick seems to ask for. But every time I get likes back on a dating app (about 10 to 20% of my likes get returned which seems well above average) the chicks are always super disrespectful or just talk with cardboard tier personality. The last one sat there and ate chips into her freaking microphone when chatting online and interrupting me constantly, like wtf lol. Any time I mention kids as a life goal that usually leads to a ghost afterwards, a few I got to plan a real date with have always flaked at the last minute. Ive even met some people randomly online but got baited and time wasted by 'transgender' people a couple times too. So I'm super wary of that now. Im just confused, I never have had a girl show interest in me first. I get out there a good amount in the real world too and am sociable but just nobody seems to care. I think these horrible dating apps and experiences are starting to damage me. I always go in expecting a ghost or some other horrible deal breaking interaction now, which so far always does happen, but I hate that its constantly in the back of my mind now every time I meet someone new I might be interested in.
its rough out there, but right now i feel girls are just not interested. I mean eating chips through a convo? Does that portrait any desire to actually date from her part?
Dating apps are messy so stop using them! How many times does this need to be said?! If you truly are 25 with all Of those other positive qualities that you listed - you should be able to go to any bar or social gatherings and attract women without much problem.. but usually when guys have a great career, wealth or education and still can’t attract women there’s a big personality roadblock that keeps them from women paying attention to them Are you only looking for beautiful women or are you willing to date rather average looking women?
That's why I never go on dates...only if I'm going to her house or mine...only time Ive has sex is going from a bar to the house or from dating app to the house...only 1 time I went on date and got laid
Well it's not letting women be the choosers. It's lifting women up above men while being hypergamous. None of the dating issues would exsist if women were ok dating a man with a high school education. Women have always been the selectors. In every species the evolutionary pressures is put on the selectee which becomes bigger stronger and smarter for the selectors.
I know guy changing girls like socks from aps. And those girls are quite pretty. Not everyone is loser. The problem is - too many guys think that they are handsome while they are average. 6 feet won’t get a girl if face is average or less.
Women were 🍆ed by the patriarchy. I’m not a simp, this is a fact. There were TONS of women that didn’t want kids if they had freedom and/or were educated, that were forced to have kids. This is the outcome. Women are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Be alone, marry beta bux oofy doofy, or get pumped and dumped by Chadrone. Women that were genetically uninterested in reproducing in the environment available, forced to, now existing with the freedom to not reproduce. This is what happens.
Stopped using dating apps in 2018. They were a great place for me to find women that loved free dinners and ghosting. Dating apps are definitely a total waste of time and money
i recently re-downloaded tinder after near a decade i think or close to that. I was curious how much its gone down hill and holy shit nothing but, fat,single mothers, literal whores (online and real life) and chix with dix or pending on the person wombo combo of each which was actually and disgustingly the most common, oh yea you bet your ass i uninstalled it. Im a curios person not a lunatic
I hadnt used any of the apps since 2015, downloaded tinder for 6 months in 2019... I was in for a rude awakening, nothing but bots, gold diggers and single moms... Happy i met my wife organically at a concert in 2019, but dang! I have no idea why any man would ever waste his time on the apps, theyre all a cess pit thatll just leave you depressed!
80% of my friend circle feel like this. it breaks my heart seeing them lonely and developing a dark view on the world. they speak about it and i dont know what to answer. its so tragic.
@@raymond_sycamore im glad you are reading so much and mixed me up, it lowers my anxiety. in the past i mentioned that im married, infact im only addicted to your channel because i nagged you somewhere in a comment section with it D: im chronically online and imported my wife from russia. i met her on a penpals site. i dont know if i can recommend it, cause i wrote with ton of people, seeked attention, had true interest in speaking with strangers (woman did not wanted to be bothered and even block like 20 countrys from the get go but if they like you the flirt is on) - now i would never find the power to do that and she did not had a profile picture and i view it as sheer luck that she wanted to practice her german with me. turned out to be good and she is my bf now. with my friends, its they find one which they talk to and get slight interest back, but then they are on hold and be set in the unknown. to counter this strategy and calm the mind, there is alternative needed, but who has access to it AND they dont want to, cause they are already invested, or the searching would hurt them. it breaks my heart.
Mines mixed but I think more are married. I’m talking like 10 of us total 6 are married. Eh but then the “newly” developed add on friends to our core group are single I will admit. At my best friends wedding on the party bus to the wedding there were single dudes in there but I saw after most of the chicks had dudes there. The problem is even the let’s say bridesmaids who are single you know especially if the age group is in their 30s you know they’ve just been with too many guys by that point. I gotta be real I think anything beyond like 5 partners for women and anything after they’re too convinced they’re settling and respect isn’t there. My point is idk id like to think a party bus on its way to a wedding the men and women would normally be mingling flirting but it wasn’t like that at all. I was lowkey chuckling to myself at the time lol. But what’s better is as I mentioned all those women had dates at the wedding or reception except for one. Can’t say the same for the groomsman.
My favorite conment by women: "You have to be confident, women are attracted to confidence!" You're not alone brother, been 5 yrs for me and I check a lot of their "boxes". Could I go out looking, sure.. but is it reeeeally worth it in this new dating environment - Mm no.. Plan is to move abroad in a few yrs. In the meantime I'll keep collecting mailbox money, keeping to myself while finishing my last rental investment.. then ✌🏼to live a care free life. I'm 47and 6'4" w all my hair but that doesn't matter bc im not showing off w expensive items 💁🏼 why would you want those women anyway?
Well it is true, if a guy is mediocre looking and ok job but is confident and fun to be around then he will attract women.. they may not be supermodels but he shouldn’t be expecting that in the first place. Is it worth putting yourself out there to meet women? Depends what you want - if you want casual dating and sex then yes it is worth it for most men.. that is, providing the guy is not socially awkward or full of negativity and knows how to read and talk to women. “To live a care free life” That’s not a good way to live though. Trying to live the easiest, most risk free life does not make one happy or fulfilled - it simply reduces the stress in their life.. trust me, I’ve tried living very low risk life and it simply doesn’t work long term - now I’m at a crossroads where I know I will have to start risking more ..
@brianmeen2158 hey Brian! Yeah I'm not saying confidence isn't important. My point was more about the lack of confidence we end up with after years of rejection and disappointment. Women simply cannot understand why the majority of men are discouraged, or the difference between the ones who just fake it. I can go out and fake it what will THAT give me happiness? No. Women simply want to live a fairytale that doesn't exist so they try to mash it together with multiple men, hoping eventually they'll find 'the one' with it all . They don't. And here we are. Why bother. Move overseas and you can walk down the street and meet 50 women no problem. Here in the US 😂 nope.
At this point dating apps don't work for at least 90% of men and from those top percenters the vast majority have to severely settle for women in the bottom 20%. I think dating apps are only worth it for the top 0.1% or even 0.01%...the top 0.01% of men can at least have almost as many matches as an exceptionally unattractive 70yo lady, which is still A LOT!!!
Also I really can’t stress enough not to get married You took to long to get your shit together to have a girl take half of it Have kids with her and be faithful but don’t get married I can’t stress this enough If she stays with you after the kids exit high school then yes get legally married and if you get divorced so be it
What's the difference if you have kids or even just cohabitate? Be it marriage or children/cohabitation, she's still going to get a crap tonne of money out of you. I'm not even trying to discourage a desire for marriage/family. I'm just wondering what the logic is behind being ok with everything except the formality.
😸 If you must go thru the Meat Grinder of the Marriage Divorce Wheel I would advise to Stay Broke and get in and out of it in your 20s with a high school college sweet heart and call it a day. Get Divorced while your still broke and have nothing.
Most people get married while they are younger broke or don’t have much man and woman. The perception of losing anything when you divorce is low. If you two built a life together where you each walk away with 50/50 and take more each than what you had when you joined forces it’s often a win for both sides. The majority of men that refuse to marry are those that are about something and have accumulated a significant or at least a decent or respectable amount of money while single. Getting married while you’re broke is easier to embark into than when you have money.
@appendix-q6k 😸 yup pretty much, if she married you when your only 19 and your a broke loser fu its probably because shes really into you, and why would you pass up on your Muse or Unicorn? do you know how rare they are? But most content creators are stupid giving horrible advice on Wealth Maxxing and Gym Maxxing and getting old and staying single. By the time you do all that your expected to start at ZERO whereas if you really wanted a family you could already be fishing with your teenage Son at the lake. Your also depriving your Children of having you around much longer in their lives. Its devastating for children when their Fathers passed away. But know you rather listen to these stupid content creators and get old and age out with nothing to show. Sure Broh. LOL. Hows that working out for you?
I don’t think there is any real way to make sense out of the madness. I know actual bums (that don’t shower and smoke weed all day) who are in relationships with the same girl since high school, and decent looking guys who struggle to get anywhere. Wherever the dice falls we basically succumb to it. I don’t really fight it, girls come and go but I stay on my mission and just focus on my art and my passions.
Hmm it’s almost like there is some uncontrollable, deterministic, biological element at play. Something innate maybe. Something that is at the… genesis of our problems.
@@Invisitatus Some average, some decent looking. I guess their looks and the way they carried themselves definitely was just irresistible to some chicks.
West is COOK, looks matter and it’s impossible. If we all caring about “don’t judge a book by itself cover”, cut the fluff and get to reality. We all can get our lives in order. I hope for you , Raymond. Great video
One of your problems is that you think you look average. Sorry but I think that's unlikely. In my (admittedly hetero/male) guesstimation you're below average. Don't take this as a dig, I'm below average too. Once I found this out (using Photofeeler which I paid for) so many things started making much more sense. Aaron Clarey is wrong to think that if a guy's not fat he's already above average because half the men are fat. That's not how attractiveness works. It's not a GPA score but rather a series of road blocks. If you get blocked by one, you're done. We're as attractive as our least attractive quality, and in the current year women don't feel they need to compromise. They're not going to go with an ugly guy just because he's ripped. I know because I fell for the gymcel meme advice and now I still go to the gym 5 times a week purely out of spite.
😸 correct, no shame, just the facts maam, the boys of today call it Sub-5, or taking the Black Pill, back in the 70s and 80s the old school terms would be nerd / geek / dweeb / loser / misfit / black sheep / rif raf and in the 40s we were called the Unter Mensch , nowadays the Average Joe is being neglected as well
I will not be going on a date tomorrow either friend, I suspect most of us won't. I'll be heading out to church and spending time with some of my extended family, a much better use of my time.
@TheAmericanEagleRises-p2r Im in the same boat. Most of my Family doesn't speak to each other or get along. The only people who care about Me are my Dad and Sister, even then I barely ever talk to them. I'm 23 never dated or had Relationship, I'm 6foot 3inch relatively attractive guy and the Loneliness can be hard sometimes 😕
You said you ‘don’t have $500 lying around to buy new glasses with’ - that’s a problem right there. Dating has become monetized sadly (unless you’re a ‘chad’) .
Why would you want to have a relationship with a person who PMS’s for 7-10 days per month? That’s like a dealing with a psycho 25-33% of the time! Who needs that?
Ive never used a dating app. Ive generally met ppl at work, on the subway or in a parking lot. I think its a numbers game : you have to get out and be around as many ppl as possible. I havebt tried this, but i think it would be good to make it known to all you friends if youre available and looking - and to ask if their husband/wife have any single friends.
Doesn’t work that well anymore cause no one cares except for what goes on in their life and if something or someone doesn’t benefit them then people don’t care
If Raymond changes everything on an ever-expanding laundry list of items, he'll find someone who loves him *for who he is* . Irony can be pretty ironic sometimes.
He needs to improve his personality, get nice clothes, get jacked, where contacts, make more money, learn to paint music, be politically active, get a nice house, get a nice car, groom his beard, skin care routine, get a hair transplant/hair extension, orthognathic extension, rhinoplasty, buccal fat removal, blepheroplasty, trans max, and MAYBE he’ll have a chance.
Have you tried manifesting the woman you want? It works well for us Capricorns. Im confident i just fixed your problem. In all seriousness i understand your frustration. It aint easy, brother. I find that focusing on building, maintaining, and strengthening relationships with the men in your life to help a great deal. It allows you to have good companionship and maintain a level of confidence and positivity. Doesnt solve the sex issue, but it can help out alot.
All i can do is listen, Raymond. It would be like you listening to me agonizing over wanting to sail the seas knowing I'm going to get caught in a storm and die. What do you tell a guy ? Nothing ! You say nothing because he's just going to get pissed off at you and tell you it's not going to happen to him. No worries though because you can't get a date like I can't afford a sailboat or a date :) Will just pitty each other.
"to shell out 500 bucks for flowers and shit." I've never spent more then 90 bucks for two people at any restaurant, Nor over 60 bucks for any gift for an S.O. I don't care how the metrics look, that kind of spending is plain SIMPIN' , and doing it hard.
The last guy I knew that went on a few date a while back his currently in prison. But outside of that, I personally have no friends who went (or publicly shared) on a date for years.
Raymond, i'll tell you some aweful news. Nietzsche says everyone gets the story of Pandora's box confused. Hope isn't locked inside the box for the future, hope is locked in the box because hoping is fruitless.
😇🙏 Hope is one of the Fruits of the Holy Spirit, it does not come from you nor can you generate it yourself, not by your Free Will nor by your Good Works, it must be given to you as a Gift from Above - Galations 5 : 22 🍎🍊🍒🍇🍓🍌🍐
PreWatch Comment: I think Dating today is completely transactional and everything that could pull a dollar out of someone it being used. If you are not some chad with a load of money, good looking face and buffed out arms and chest, you are unwanted. Women talk endlessly about wanting a feminine man or someone more in touch with their emotions. It's all BS. some woman seemingly want someone to be a door mat, if not a door mat, than someone to put them in their place, even if it borders on abuse. Now I could be wrong on this, but it seems like those are the vocal minority confusing many guys and leaving them wondering "I did what they asked, why don't woman want me?" I think these woman are who's destroying society, and I think they're the reason the population is crashing. Post Watch: I agree with what you say, the dating apps are completely worthless. Most of what I hard about them are years old memes and jokes about them being for Hook ups and little else. Having to pay a fee to message someone is a complete waste of time and having to verify that you have friends has to be the most asinine thing I've ever heard. I think the Western World will be a very difficult place to live in in the next few years. Not trying to be a doomer or anything, but I see the crashing population and the way the economy and infrastructure is falling apart and it's really starting to worry me. When I was still struggling with Ads on YT, I'd get ads endlessly for bumble and Tinder while talking to my boyfriend. I don't know if Adsense was trying to get me to break up with him or not, but the endless stream of "You can find you're person, on Bumble" drove me up a wall. Like, I didn't find him on Bumble. I found him my own way, and you advertising to me to find someone other than him irritated me. Something I've noticed from a channel I watch called "Think Before You Sleep" is a lot of corporate channels, like Jubilee, pushing propaganda (especially Leftist Propaganda) about population control and fat activism. This stuff is diluting the mind of people and making them think and act in ways that are destructive to themselves and society. Something he's also pointed out is quite a few creators regurgitating the words of a Tik Tok star called SheraSeven. She makes content telling women about ways to get into transactional relationships with men and get every dime they can and get out before they get caught. I don't recall if the engages in this gold digging herself but it dominates most of her content feed. Speaking of TBYS, there's quite a bit of advice I've heard from him that has helped me significantly. Most of it is embedded in his videos, but stuff like fashion, color theory, dress, and hair/Beard styling is there. Also, I don't get how being bald is unattractive for some but so attractive for others. I ran into many women who say they love how Bruce Willis or Dwayne Johnson look. I guess if you're an actor, bald is hot, if not "Ew".
@raymond_sycamore Then they have money not to care. I'd say not to care about them back. You acknowledging what they said and how it affected you gives them fuel to do it more. Give them the recognition, and they will do it more. It's a bully's game of satisfaction from other's misfortunes.
@@raymond_sycamore I may have misread this, but I'd say ignore them. Many people like how you look and like what you talk about. Its a real phenomenon that people are experiencing, feeling unloved and abandoned by the world. The millionaires, billionaires, and other exceptionally rich people are severely out of touch with the real world. All they see is gold and dollar signs. I listen to what you have to say not because you are rich or famous or this crazy guy on the internet. I listen and watch because I think you are down to earth and have a lot of good things to say. The rich people like Dwayne Johnson, and others, I don't care for. They are out of touch and so is the rest of Hollywood. Idk, maybe I just read too much into things.
🙂 correct, they are the Destroyers of Mankind, they are the useful idiots of the elite and the overlords, depopulation and extinction thru any means necesary is their Endgame and their Utopia, its Madness 😸
Raymond, I'm saying this with the kindest of intentions- complaining about not getting dates isn't going to get you dates. Constantly talking about it comes across as desperate and needy. I'm saying this as an old, single guy who isn't getting dates, but who got dates when I was younger. Being seen as desperate or needy is woman repellent. Enjoy your life as a single man and if someone comes along- great- if they never come along, that's great too.
@@raymond_sycamore Modern women are not worth your peace of mind nor your effort. Be true to yourself and what you want to be, don't ever change that for a woman. When you are laying on your deathbed you aren't going to be concerned with how many women jumped into the sack with you, but by how true to yourself you were. Take it from a guy who got laid a fair bit in his youth- when you are an old man alone with yourself, no time you spent with a woman will matter.
It’s very interesting you know. When you go outside, you do see relationship dynamics that do disapprove the manosphere rhetoric. But, I feel like a bit of luck is involved and an exception doesn’t disapprove the rule.
@@tadghostal8769 real shit bro, where I’m from the number is like Every 3 out of 1000 according to a government survey. But, gotta keep an open mind as to how that data is collected.
@@raymond_sycamore luck is an important thing in life and I just feel some get lucky and some don’t and obviously there’s gonna be abnormalities when trying to apply a system of thought to anything. Reality is weird
🙂 Dating Apps are meant for the Studs, the Chippendales, the Models, the Gigolos, the Beautiful, the Ballers, the Swaggers, the Criminals, the Psychos, the Narcisists, the Men with Carisma, the Rich and the Famous, The Superman, The Elite, it was never ever meant for the Average Joe or the Sub-5, it is what it is, the sooner we all can see it and accept it the better
Feminism. I dated in the early 2000s and it was a nightmare then. The types I were meeting were either single mothers, 304s, or Chad/gold chasers. I even came across an obese chick at a party wanting a Chad.
Sometimes you have to have the “IT” factor for women for them to like you. What that “IT” factor is subjective to each woman. Often times when you see these inferior looking men with hot women it’s often times due to something that these women see in these men. Looks simply won’t cut it.
@ also if a woman perceives that you’re better looking than her she might have it in her head that she doesn’t stand a chance the same way men think. After all we are humans and I think we share similar insecurities. Once somebody has it made up in their mind that something is a specific way good luck convincing them otherwise. Once our minds are made up it’s final.
@@Invisitatus not always true. You heard the presenter say that he sees hot women with sub par men in relationships. So looks wise the man is inferior to her. I see plenty of women that are with men that are chubby and shorter than them so it can’t be the looks. The “it” factor is something unique to each person think of it like a custom baked cake to your liking.
🙂 yup, also Looks Maxing, Wealth Maxing, Gym Maxing, Health Maxing, Status Maxing, Career Maxing, Geo Maxing, and even then your never ever going to be good enough for them, The Black Pill is a very hard pill to swallow but once you really see it, it will bring you Peace 😇🙏
@@MrSamadolfo He should focus on getting a woman, if that is what he really wants. But he's just in that desperate mode right now, he knows very well how annoying they are after a few months. Amazing how some men lose sight of that in their desperation.
@DruuzilTechGames honestly, most people can fix that unless they're truly hideous. I went from undateable to full Chad in a couple years once I took it seriously, hopped on dating apps and had more women chasing me than I had time for. If you're average height, average facial attractiveness, decent job, well built physique and lean enough to see abs when flexing, you just have to be able to hold a decent conversation and inspire some curiosity in them.
You are angry and i understand it but you are trying a bit too hard. I do too sometimes man trust me. Also I say you’re trying too hard for little things regarding what you say but specifically what made me write this comment is when you said you hoped you went viral And got wealthy for saying men don’t need companionship and just need sex. I don’t know it just shows you’re craving major attention almost on the surface now. Which to be fair I like a lot of RUclips videos but those who make their own talk shows do crave that more than those who don’t. I understand this all Comes off abrasive and judgmental and who am I to say these things but i recognize some of them in myself. If you weren’t likable in certain ways you wouldn’t have 3300 People watching but I’m telling you I understand the anger but it does get tiresome. Edit my apologies it’s 3600 and no I’m not being a smart as 300 People is 300 people Which is significant
But most women I know really feel bad if they are single on Valentine’s Day. If they are in their 30s and beyond then tend to feel even worse so I doubt that these women will be perfectly fine with buying flowers for themselves
I dont get the modern dating scene at all. Im 25, fit, make 6 figs, have a house (my only debt), fully own 3 cars, probably slightly above average in looks, loads of interesting hobbies, etc. the whole 9 yards every modern chick seems to ask for. But every time I get likes back on a dating app (about 10 to 20% of my likes get returned which seems well above average) the chicks are always super disrespectful or just talk with cardboard tier personality. The last one sat there and ate chips into her freaking microphone when chatting online and interrupting me constantly, like wtf lol. Any time I mention kids as a life goal that usually leads to a ghost afterwards, a few I got to plan a real date with have always flaked at the last minute.
Ive even met some people randomly online but got baited and time wasted by 'transgender' people a couple times too. So I'm super wary of that now. Im just confused, I never have had a girl show interest in me first. I get out there a good amount in the real world too and am sociable but just nobody seems to care. I think these horrible dating apps and experiences are starting to damage me. I always go in expecting a ghost or some other horrible deal breaking interaction now, which so far always does happen, but I hate that its constantly in the back of my mind now every time I meet someone new I might be interested in.
Get your passport. The US is no place for a traditional man.
its rough out there, but right now i feel girls are just not interested. I mean eating chips through a convo? Does that portrait any desire to actually date from her part?
10-20% is insanely high, brother. Thank you for for sharing your experience, sounds awful.
And your experience is by far more positive than most guys.
Dating apps are messy so stop using them! How many times does this need to be said?!
If you truly are 25 with all
Of those other positive qualities that you listed - you should be able to go to any bar or social gatherings and attract women without much problem.. but usually when guys have a great career, wealth or education and still can’t attract women there’s a big personality roadblock that keeps them from women paying attention to them
Are you only looking for beautiful women or are you willing to date rather average looking women?
To be rejected by chicks? Fine. To pay to be rejected by chicks, NEVER!
Yeah, it's way worse
That's why I never go on dates...only if I'm going to her house or mine...only time Ive has sex is going from a bar to the house or from dating app to the house...only 1 time I went on date and got laid
Feb 14 national simp day
The simps are painful to watch - they make it harder for the rest of us guys
I've stated this several times. Allowing women to be the choosers is resulting in everyone ending up with no one.
Absolutely correct.
Well it's not letting women be the choosers. It's lifting women up above men while being hypergamous. None of the dating issues would exsist if women were ok dating a man with a high school education.
Women have always been the selectors. In every species the evolutionary pressures is put on the selectee which becomes bigger stronger and smarter for the selectors.
I know guy changing girls like socks from aps. And those girls are quite pretty. Not everyone is loser. The problem is - too many guys think that they are handsome while they are average. 6 feet won’t get a girl if face is average or less.
Women were 🍆ed by the patriarchy. I’m not a simp, this is a fact. There were TONS of women that didn’t want kids if they had freedom and/or were educated, that were forced to have kids. This is the outcome.
Women are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Be alone, marry beta bux oofy doofy, or get pumped and dumped by Chadrone.
Women that were genetically uninterested in reproducing in the environment available, forced to, now existing with the freedom to not reproduce. This is what happens.
Remember the old eharmony commercials they played constantly? I can still hear "This will be! An everlasting love!" in my head even 20 years later.
They got sued for using fake accounts to lure men back into renewing their membership.
I am sooo sorry for u bro
Stopped using dating apps in 2018. They were a great place for me to find women that loved free dinners and ghosting. Dating apps are definitely a total waste of time and money
Dating apps are great for Chad's or women who just want hook ups.
Tinder has gotten worse. Occasionally I might match with an equal woman but I usually mess it up, thinking she wants to go on a date.
tinder is a wasteland
i recently re-downloaded tinder after near a decade i think or close to that. I was curious how much its gone down hill and holy shit nothing but, fat,single mothers, literal whores (online and real life) and chix with dix or pending on the person wombo combo of each which was actually and disgustingly the most common, oh yea you bet your ass i uninstalled it. Im a curios person not a lunatic
You don't mess it up.
They make themselves unobtainable and nothing you do is ever right.
@ very true
Honestly you guys should try Fetlife.. I know several guys that have met women on there and these are not Chads lol
I hadnt used any of the apps since 2015, downloaded tinder for 6 months in 2019... I was in for a rude awakening, nothing but bots, gold diggers and single moms... Happy i met my wife organically at a concert in 2019, but dang!
I have no idea why any man would ever waste his time on the apps, theyre all a cess pit thatll just leave you depressed!
80% of my friend circle feel like this. it breaks my heart seeing them lonely and developing a dark view on the world. they speak about it and i dont know what to answer. its so tragic.
wait mccafe I thought you were single
@@raymond_sycamore im glad you are reading so much and mixed me up, it lowers my anxiety. in the past i mentioned that im married, infact im only addicted to your channel because i nagged you somewhere in a comment section with it D:
im chronically online and imported my wife from russia. i met her on a penpals site. i dont know if i can recommend it, cause i wrote with ton of people, seeked attention, had true interest in speaking with strangers (woman did not wanted to be bothered and even block like 20 countrys from the get go but if they like you the flirt is on) - now i would never find the power to do that and she did not had a profile picture and i view it as sheer luck that she wanted to practice her german with me. turned out to be good and she is my bf now.
with my friends, its they find one which they talk to and get slight interest back, but then they are on hold and be set in the unknown.
to counter this strategy and calm the mind, there is alternative needed, but who has access to it AND they dont want to, cause they are already invested, or the searching would hurt them.
it breaks my heart.
@@raymond_sycamore my comment did not got through, so im sending via discord.
Only getting worse
Mines mixed but I think more are married. I’m talking like 10 of us total 6 are married. Eh but then the “newly” developed add on friends to our core group are single I will admit. At my best friends wedding on the party bus to the wedding there were single dudes in there but I saw after most of the chicks had dudes there. The problem is even the let’s say bridesmaids who are single you know especially if the age group is in their 30s you know they’ve just been with too many guys by that point. I gotta be real I think anything beyond like 5 partners for women and anything after they’re too convinced they’re settling and respect isn’t there. My point is idk id like to think a party bus on its way to a wedding the men and women would normally be mingling flirting but it wasn’t like that at all. I was lowkey chuckling to myself at the time lol. But what’s better is as I mentioned all those women had dates at the wedding or reception except for one. Can’t say the same for the groomsman.
Nope, gave up on dating apps a while ago.
same brother
Guys I’ve seen it all. Woman only want Chad and Tyrone 💯💯
Last I used a dating app, found 2 Ex's that ended up as single moms living at home with service jobs.
Funny, but still not worth the $20 a month
Those are hook-up apps not dating apps. Life feels way better putting this phone down all day at work, and talking to real people.
Videos like this honest makes me feel better and don't listen to those negative comments! Keep up the amazing work 👏
My favorite conment by women:
"You have to be confident, women are attracted to confidence!"
You're not alone brother, been 5 yrs for me and I check a lot of their "boxes".
Could I go out looking, sure.. but is it reeeeally worth it in this new dating environment - Mm no..
Plan is to move abroad in a few yrs. In the meantime I'll keep collecting mailbox money, keeping to myself while finishing my last rental investment.. then ✌🏼to live a care free life. I'm 47and 6'4" w all my hair but that doesn't matter bc im not showing off w expensive items 💁🏼 why would you want those women anyway?
Well it is true, if a guy is mediocre looking and ok job but is confident and fun to be around then he will attract women.. they may not be supermodels but he shouldn’t be expecting that in the first place.
Is it worth putting yourself out there to meet women? Depends what you want - if you want casual dating and sex then yes it is worth it for most men.. that is, providing the guy is not socially awkward or full of negativity and knows how to read and talk to women.
“To live a care free life”
That’s not a good way to live though. Trying to live the easiest, most risk free life does not make one happy or fulfilled - it simply reduces the stress in their life.. trust me, I’ve tried living very low risk life and it simply doesn’t work long term - now I’m at a crossroads where I know I will have to start risking more ..
@brianmeen2158 hey Brian! Yeah I'm not saying confidence isn't important. My point was more about the lack of confidence we end up with after years of rejection and disappointment. Women simply cannot understand why the majority of men are discouraged, or the difference between the ones who just fake it.
I can go out and fake it what will THAT give me happiness? No. Women simply want to live a fairytale that doesn't exist so they try to mash it together with multiple men, hoping eventually they'll find 'the one' with it all .
They don't. And here we are. Why bother.
Move overseas and you can walk down the street and meet 50 women no problem. Here in the US 😂 nope.
@@brianmeen2158if the average man was confident he would go to jail
Dating apps aren't designed to give people success. If they did then that would be less people using their app.
just half the people
No thanks, I get enough bad attitudes in person and know I look average at best.
At this point dating apps don't work for at least 90% of men and from those top percenters the vast majority have to severely settle for women in the bottom 20%. I think dating apps are only worth it for the top 0.1% or even 0.01%...the top 0.01% of men can at least have almost as many matches as an exceptionally unattractive 70yo lady, which is still A LOT!!!
Also I really can’t stress enough not to get married
You took to long to get your shit together to have a girl take half of it
Have kids with her and be faithful but don’t get married
I can’t stress this enough
If she stays with you after the kids exit high school then yes get legally married and if you get divorced so be it
What's the difference if you have kids or even just cohabitate? Be it marriage or children/cohabitation, she's still going to get a crap tonne of money out of you. I'm not even trying to discourage a desire for marriage/family. I'm just wondering what the logic is behind being ok with everything except the formality.
😸 If you must go thru the Meat Grinder of the Marriage Divorce Wheel I would advise to Stay Broke and get in and out of it in your 20s with a high school college sweet heart and call it a day. Get Divorced while your still broke and have nothing.
Most people get married while they are younger broke or don’t have much man and woman. The perception of losing anything when you divorce is low. If you two built a life together where you each walk away with 50/50 and take more each than what you had when you joined forces it’s often a win for both sides. The majority of men that refuse to marry are those that are about something and have accumulated a significant or at least a decent or respectable amount of money while single. Getting married while you’re broke is easier to embark into than when you have money.
@appendix-q6k 😸 yup pretty much, if she married you when your only 19 and your a broke loser fu its probably because shes really into you, and why would you pass up on your Muse or Unicorn? do you know how rare they are? But most content creators are stupid giving horrible advice on Wealth Maxxing and Gym Maxxing and getting old and staying single. By the time you do all that your expected to start at ZERO whereas if you really wanted a family you could already be fishing with your teenage Son at the lake. Your also depriving your Children of having you around much longer in their lives. Its devastating for children when their Fathers passed away. But know you rather listen to these stupid content creators and get old and age out with nothing to show. Sure Broh. LOL. Hows that working out for you?
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True
'Just smile more bro'
Never used one, and never will...
I was supposed to meet Rhonda but then my planet exploded.
damn
I h8 it when that happens
I’m with you just got to laugh at this shit now because it’s just too sad and depressing.
EXACTLY!
I don’t think there is any real way to make sense out of the madness. I know actual bums (that don’t shower and smoke weed all day) who are in relationships with the same girl since high school, and decent looking guys who struggle to get anywhere. Wherever the dice falls we basically succumb to it.
I don’t really fight it, girls come and go but I stay on my mission and just focus on my art and my passions.
There is a part of me that knows it’s just random.
Hmm it’s almost like there is some uncontrollable, deterministic, biological element at play. Something innate maybe. Something that is at the… genesis of our problems.
Point is, how good looking were them bums? That's usually why.
@@Invisitatus Some average, some decent looking. I guess their looks and the way they carried themselves definitely was just irresistible to some chicks.
West is COOK, looks matter and it’s impossible. If we all caring about “don’t judge a book by itself cover”, cut the fluff and get to reality. We all can get our lives in order. I hope for you , Raymond. Great video
I hope too
One of your problems is that you think you look average. Sorry but I think that's unlikely. In my (admittedly hetero/male) guesstimation you're below average. Don't take this as a dig, I'm below average too. Once I found this out (using Photofeeler which I paid for) so many things started making much more sense. Aaron Clarey is wrong to think that if a guy's not fat he's already above average because half the men are fat. That's not how attractiveness works. It's not a GPA score but rather a series of road blocks. If you get blocked by one, you're done. We're as attractive as our least attractive quality, and in the current year women don't feel they need to compromise. They're not going to go with an ugly guy just because he's ripped. I know because I fell for the gymcel meme advice and now I still go to the gym 5 times a week purely out of spite.
Aaron is wrong on sooo many things. Pushes the working hard troupe like Dave Ramsey. Silly Gen x'ers, too much like their boomer counterparts.
😸 correct, no shame, just the facts maam, the boys of today call it Sub-5, or taking the Black Pill, back in the 70s and 80s the old school terms would be nerd / geek / dweeb / loser / misfit / black sheep / rif raf and in the 40s we were called the Unter Mensch , nowadays the Average Joe is being neglected as well
I like your thinking at the end there. It's like something I'd do.
I will not be going on a date tomorrow either friend, I suspect most of us won't. I'll be heading out to church and spending time with some of my extended family, a much better use of my time.
Nice that your family actually cares about you. Thats so rare these days. I get treated better at work that at my family
@@TheAmericanEagleRises-p2r I am blessed.
@TheAmericanEagleRises-p2r Im in the same boat. Most of my Family doesn't speak to each other or get along. The only people who care about Me are my Dad and Sister, even then I barely ever talk to them. I'm 23 never dated or had Relationship, I'm 6foot 3inch relatively attractive guy and the Loneliness can be hard sometimes 😕
@hydrohyperdrive8443 wow that's crazy right. Evil world out there
You said you ‘don’t have $500 lying around to buy new glasses with’ - that’s a problem right there. Dating has become monetized sadly (unless you’re a ‘chad’) .
Absolutely.
🙂 Americas Best is pretty decent and fair price
@@MrSamadolfowhat’s your price?
@@LuigiMario-o7o 🙂 its $70 for two pairs, basic frames and basic rx lenses
@@MrSamadolfo I’m talking about you
Why would you want to have a relationship with a person who PMS’s for 7-10 days per month? That’s like a dealing with a psycho 25-33% of the time! Who needs that?
Good luck finding a woman that doesn't get PMS. 😎
I do have some questions for our creator as to how badly he effed that half of our species up.
I like that you are bold and cuss. 👍 Subscribed.
Hell yes!
Who's still using dating apps with success?... Chad
I'm pretty sure I qualify as a Chad and it took me 8 years of swiping to find a girlfriend.
@Masterpeace777 bro, real chads have multiple gfs
@@Masterpeace777😂by whose standards do you qualify? 😂😂😂
@@Masterpeace777 Yeah the apps didn't work for me either. I only tried them out for a season but still that's too long. 😎
@@johnnyboy5869 Your mom's
The fact that you actually joined seeking is wild!! How bad does it have to get to do that?
Pretty damn bad. Worst $500 I ever spent, but I was making $12,000 a month at the time...
Ive never used a dating app. Ive generally met ppl at work, on the subway or in a parking lot. I think its a numbers game : you have to get out and be around as many ppl as possible. I havebt tried this, but i think it would be good to make it known to all you friends if youre available and looking - and to ask if their husband/wife have any single friends.
When the numbers game feels like it's one in a million, is it even worth playing?
Doesn’t work that well anymore cause no one cares except for what goes on in their life and if something or someone doesn’t benefit them then people don’t care
If Raymond changes everything on an ever-expanding laundry list of items, he'll find someone who loves him *for who he is* .
Irony can be pretty ironic sometimes.
Change everything, every day, all the time....
He needs to improve his personality, get nice clothes, get jacked, where contacts, make more money, learn to paint music, be politically active, get a nice house, get a nice car, groom his beard, skin care routine, get a hair transplant/hair extension, orthognathic extension, rhinoplasty, buccal fat removal, blepheroplasty, trans max, and MAYBE he’ll have a chance.
Just downloaded the Costco app, hope I find my true love.
Always hoped I would find someone guess not I either don't make enough or its because of how I look.
"Director of Relationship Science"
They graduated with a PhD in Gendered Studies, obviously.
Have you tried manifesting the woman you want? It works well for us Capricorns. Im confident i just fixed your problem.
In all seriousness i understand your frustration. It aint easy, brother. I find that focusing on building, maintaining, and strengthening relationships with the men in your life to help a great deal. It allows you to have good companionship and maintain a level of confidence and positivity. Doesnt solve the sex issue, but it can help out alot.
"Logan Ury"
All i can do is listen, Raymond.
It would be like you listening to me agonizing over wanting to sail the seas knowing I'm going to get caught in a storm and die. What do you tell a guy ? Nothing ! You say nothing because he's just going to get pissed off at you and tell you it's not going to happen to him. No worries though because you can't get a date like I can't afford a sailboat or a date :) Will just pitty each other.
Dating apps ceo cope is realy a tryhard.
"to shell out 500 bucks for flowers and shit."
I've never spent more then 90 bucks for two people at any restaurant, Nor over 60 bucks for any gift for an S.O. I don't care how the metrics look, that kind of spending is plain SIMPIN' , and doing it hard.
well must be nice to get a woman interested in you crummyVCR...
The last guy I knew that went on a few date a while back his currently in prison. But outside of that, I personally have no friends who went (or publicly shared) on a date for years.
Thanks for confirming. Prison pill is undefeated 🤣
Reconcile 'Hybristophilia' with 'The Fairer Sex'
Logan URY also wrote a book “how not to die alone”😂
LOL 😂 @ Dating Apps
Baldcel rebellion
23 years dry like the moon
Match group (MTCH) and Bumble (BMBL) will be putting their collective hand out Oliver Twist style soon if their SPs don’t lift lol.
🙂 It's an unsustainable business model once the Average Joe and Sub-5 Guys wake up and opt out
Dating apps peek because women use them more during the holiday season. There are far fewer women on apps, so women are the bottleneck.
Raymond, i'll tell you some aweful news. Nietzsche says everyone gets the story of Pandora's box confused. Hope isn't locked inside the box for the future, hope is locked in the box because hoping is fruitless.
Nietzsche is brutal man. I love that you brought this up, thank you.
😇🙏 Hope is one of the Fruits of the Holy Spirit, it does not come from you nor can you generate it yourself, not by your Free Will nor by your Good Works, it must be given to you as a Gift from Above - Galations 5 : 22 🍎🍊🍒🍇🍓🍌🍐
You CAN pray for it tho @@MrSamadolfo
Chad Mc'Chaddington.
PreWatch Comment: I think Dating today is completely transactional and everything that could pull a dollar out of someone it being used. If you are not some chad with a load of money, good looking face and buffed out arms and chest, you are unwanted. Women talk endlessly about wanting a feminine man or someone more in touch with their emotions. It's all BS. some woman seemingly want someone to be a door mat, if not a door mat, than someone to put them in their place, even if it borders on abuse. Now I could be wrong on this, but it seems like those are the vocal minority confusing many guys and leaving them wondering "I did what they asked, why don't woman want me?" I think these woman are who's destroying society, and I think they're the reason the population is crashing.
Post Watch: I agree with what you say, the dating apps are completely worthless. Most of what I hard about them are years old memes and jokes about them being for Hook ups and little else. Having to pay a fee to message someone is a complete waste of time and having to verify that you have friends has to be the most asinine thing I've ever heard. I think the Western World will be a very difficult place to live in in the next few years. Not trying to be a doomer or anything, but I see the crashing population and the way the economy and infrastructure is falling apart and it's really starting to worry me. When I was still struggling with Ads on YT, I'd get ads endlessly for bumble and Tinder while talking to my boyfriend. I don't know if Adsense was trying to get me to break up with him or not, but the endless stream of "You can find you're person, on Bumble" drove me up a wall. Like, I didn't find him on Bumble. I found him my own way, and you advertising to me to find someone other than him irritated me.
Something I've noticed from a channel I watch called "Think Before You Sleep" is a lot of corporate channels, like Jubilee, pushing propaganda (especially Leftist Propaganda) about population control and fat activism. This stuff is diluting the mind of people and making them think and act in ways that are destructive to themselves and society. Something he's also pointed out is quite a few creators regurgitating the words of a Tik Tok star called SheraSeven. She makes content telling women about ways to get into transactional relationships with men and get every dime they can and get out before they get caught. I don't recall if the engages in this gold digging herself but it dominates most of her content feed.
Speaking of TBYS, there's quite a bit of advice I've heard from him that has helped me significantly. Most of it is embedded in his videos, but stuff like fashion, color theory, dress, and hair/Beard styling is there. Also, I don't get how being bald is unattractive for some but so attractive for others. I ran into many women who say they love how Bruce Willis or Dwayne Johnson look. I guess if you're an actor, bald is hot, if not "Ew".
the bald comments are always about men that are millionaires...
@raymond_sycamore Then they have money not to care. I'd say not to care about them back. You acknowledging what they said and how it affected you gives them fuel to do it more. Give them the recognition, and they will do it more. It's a bully's game of satisfaction from other's misfortunes.
@@raymond_sycamore I may have misread this, but I'd say ignore them. Many people like how you look and like what you talk about. Its a real phenomenon that people are experiencing, feeling unloved and abandoned by the world. The millionaires, billionaires, and other exceptionally rich people are severely out of touch with the real world. All they see is gold and dollar signs. I listen to what you have to say not because you are rich or famous or this crazy guy on the internet. I listen and watch because I think you are down to earth and have a lot of good things to say. The rich people like Dwayne Johnson, and others, I don't care for. They are out of touch and so is the rest of Hollywood. Idk, maybe I just read too much into things.
🙂 correct, they are the Destroyers of Mankind, they are the useful idiots of the elite and the overlords, depopulation and extinction thru any means necesary is their Endgame and their Utopia, its Madness 😸
Raymond, I'm saying this with the kindest of intentions- complaining about not getting dates isn't going to get you dates. Constantly talking about it comes across as desperate and needy. I'm saying this as an old, single guy who isn't getting dates, but who got dates when I was younger. Being seen as desperate or needy is woman repellent.
Enjoy your life as a single man and if someone comes along- great- if they never come along, that's great too.
nothing gets me anything from women. Hasn't mattered what I do my entire life, that's my point.
@@raymond_sycamore Modern women are not worth your peace of mind nor your effort. Be true to yourself and what you want to be, don't ever change that for a woman. When you are laying on your deathbed you aren't going to be concerned with how many women jumped into the sack with you, but by how true to yourself you were. Take it from a guy who got laid a fair bit in his youth- when you are an old man alone with yourself, no time you spent with a woman will matter.
@@raymond_sycamore I had a nice reply posted to you, but youtube yeeted it...smh.
I'm pretty sure I'm just someone to have a conversation with at this point.
You actually get them to talk to you?
Just the same chick from high-school that keeps being hot and cold @raymond_sycamore
It’s very interesting you know. When you go outside, you do see relationship dynamics that do disapprove the manosphere rhetoric. But, I feel like a bit of luck is involved and an exception doesn’t disapprove the rule.
Bro 6/1000 men get married. Our culture is done.
Yes, you're right and good point. The exception absolutely does not prove the rule.
@@tadghostal8769 real shit bro, where I’m from the number is like Every 3 out of 1000 according to a government survey. But, gotta keep an open mind as to how that data is collected.
@@raymond_sycamore luck is an important thing in life and I just feel some get lucky and some don’t and obviously there’s gonna be abnormalities when trying to apply a system of thought to anything. Reality is weird
The article was probably written by A.I...
The dating apps are likely filled with bots...
Makes me reflect on the 'Dead Internet Theory' 🤔
at least I'm 💀💀💀 over it....
Dating apps dont work for normal looking men. You need to go out and meet people to have a chance today
lol yeah because that works so well
🙂 Dating Apps are meant for the Studs, the Chippendales, the Models, the Gigolos, the Beautiful, the Ballers, the Swaggers, the Criminals, the Psychos, the Narcisists, the Men with Carisma, the Rich and the Famous, The Superman, The Elite, it was never ever meant for the Average Joe or the Sub-5, it is what it is, the sooner we all can see it and accept it the better
I went to *work* on Sunday. Double pay yay
Awesome! I love double time
My favorite dating ad is from The Whitest Kids You Know called "Baked Beans." Watch at own risk.
OMFG I FORGOT ABOUT THAT!
@@raymond_sycamore "Don't worry, I won't bite - unless I feel TRAPPED!" LOL! Favorite line from that.
if you want baked beans youll need a can opener, whats a can opener ? 50 bucks
You said you haven’t been on a date in 8 years.
Well, at this point, do you even want to go out on a date?
Not really, I said it in the video, I want physical intimacy.
Raymond correction - They want an open wallet not an open heart. 😂
Honestly Raymond, I don't think I have anything left to say...the absurdity of all this nonsense has rendered me speechless.
That's alright, I still appreciate your contribution 👍
was it feminism or dating apps that ruined dating??
Feminism. I dated in the early 2000s and it was a nightmare then. The types I were meeting were either single mothers, 304s, or Chad/gold chasers. I even came across an obese chick at a party wanting a Chad.
It's like "was there black mold in the house before or after you shined a flashlight on it?"
😏 nah, this started way back after the Fall of Mankind, its in their fallen nature, There is None that Doeth Good No Not One 😸
@@raymond_sycamore do you see any end in sight?
@@iiandreio4228 not right now
Hear me out bro, steroids
Unhinged
Its the Cope or the Rope at this stage of behavioral sink.
No there will be no "rope" here on this channel. I do not condone that rhetoric.
Ring it up, Raymond W
@@raymond_sycamore but hes right... doesnt mean you will condone it.
@@dedpap 🤣
😏 heehee funny
Sometimes you have to have the “IT” factor for women for them to like you. What that “IT” factor is subjective to each woman. Often times when you see these inferior looking men with hot women it’s often times due to something that these women see in these men. Looks simply won’t cut it.
Yep, and IT makes zero sense and changes more than a few times every day...
@ also if a woman perceives that you’re better looking than her she might have it in her head that she doesn’t stand a chance the same way men think. After all we are humans and I think we share similar insecurities. Once somebody has it made up in their mind that something is a specific way good luck convincing them otherwise. Once our minds are made up it’s final.
The IT factor is usually always looks.
@@Invisitatus not always true. You heard the presenter say that he sees hot women with sub par men in relationships. So looks wise the man is inferior to her. I see plenty of women that are with men that are chubby and shorter than them so it can’t be the looks. The “it” factor is something unique to each person think of it like a custom baked cake to your liking.
@appendix-q6k nah it's not that common. These cases are rare and you can probably guess that the other reason is money.
😃 yay another Sub-5 Black Pill Rant, we like 😊
Just be a chad bro
Be attractive, not unattractive.
Last time I was on a dating app was 2019 and had no success. No dates since 2015 but even those were flakes. Just had pro's for the past 12 yrs or so
Yes, I think 2015 was the absolute last time I actually went on a date from an app.
Just try harder bro 😂
🙂 yup, also Looks Maxing, Wealth Maxing, Gym Maxing, Health Maxing, Status Maxing, Career Maxing, Geo Maxing, and even then your never ever going to be good enough for them, The Black Pill is a very hard pill to swallow but once you really see it, it will bring you Peace 😇🙏
Hey Raymond, can you try being more cynical? I think it might be impossible.
I actually thought I was being funny and semi-positive despite the hopelessness in this video....
@@raymond_sycamore Can't tell.
😸 sure, he could go Darker and further down the Rabbit Hole but then the channel would be taken down 🐰🐇
@@MrSamadolfo He should focus on getting a woman, if that is what he really wants.
But he's just in that desperate mode right now, he knows very well how annoying they are after a few months.
Amazing how some men lose sight of that in their desperation.
Last time I used a dating app I was overseas. Every date was like a job interview. F-that. Monk for three years now, much happier.
Hey Raymond
Hey Brandon, good to see you. Thanks
Open wallet
Baldcel ha ha!
Bro serious question have you worked on your social skills? And not being painfully cheap?
Social skills are irrelevant when women aren't physically attracted to you.
@DruuzilTechGames honestly, most people can fix that unless they're truly hideous. I went from undateable to full Chad in a couple years once I took it seriously, hopped on dating apps and had more women chasing me than I had time for. If you're average height, average facial attractiveness, decent job, well built physique and lean enough to see abs when flexing, you just have to be able to hold a decent conversation and inspire some curiosity in them.
🍫⭐🐟
You are angry and i understand it but you are trying a bit too hard. I do too sometimes man trust me. Also I say you’re trying too hard for little things regarding what you say but specifically what made me write this comment is when you said you hoped you went viral
And got wealthy for saying men don’t need companionship and just need sex. I don’t know it just shows you’re craving major attention almost on the surface now. Which to be fair I like a lot of RUclips videos but those who make their own talk shows do crave that more than those who don’t. I understand this all
Comes off abrasive and judgmental and who am I to say these things but i recognize some of them in myself. If you weren’t likable in certain ways you wouldn’t have 3300
People watching but I’m telling you I understand the anger but it does get tiresome. Edit my apologies it’s 3600 and no I’m not being a smart as 300
People is 300 people
Which is significant
I make no bones about it, I made this in an endeavor to make money.
@@raymond_sycamorelol good response
that's the fakest and gayest article you've read yet
true
I've had success on more than one. I have 2 awesome women in my life and met both of them on apps
ok......
@raymond_sycamore not trying to be a dick. You asked a question in the Thumbnail and I thought I'd give a truthful answer
“500 bucks for FLOWERS and sh*t.” We ladies are perfectly fine buying ourselves flowers and not having to deal with guys like this.
Then why is Valentine’s Day such a big deal to women
Are you single?
But most women I know really feel bad if they are single on Valentine’s Day. If they are in their 30s and beyond then tend to feel even worse so I doubt that these women will be perfectly fine with buying flowers for themselves
@@brianmeen2158it doesn’t have to be Valentine’s Day to buy flowers.
A bunch of women in another comments section were talking about crying when a date brought them flowers
No almost heart attacks today 😎
Chad, RayRay and Tryone. Ninjas slaying it