Thanks for having me J. Nicole The Grief Bully. As you know I love what you do and how you do it. Keep doing your thing. To all of you who are watching and struggling with grief please know you are not alone. Much love to you always.
Thank you tj for sharing your story I lost my mother last year 2019 to cancer when she took her last breath in front of me I lost it I cried so much till this day I'm traumatized but I'm making her happy I gave my life to our lord jesus I repented my sins praise our lord jesus our God and holy spirit amen God bless you and your family always tj Jackson
*12-24-20* *Thank you for sharing* .Have lost 8 during this pandemic. People need to know AHEAD of time, that we must take the good memories, and pass on all of the smiles from them. That's how I keep my peace. God never leaves our sides. Believe that! *Many blessings* to you and your family.
I love so much every time i see an interview of you TJ, you carry light on you, wisdom. we, the fans, are still griving Michael Jacksons passing. Much love from Spain
Hi TJ please write a book about your mother keep her legacy alive in Amozon the library book stores ECT it would be the one most precious gift your children would ever own their lives ..and we will know how she was I also hope Siggy will write about his mother Enid 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜😊🤗 love you more always Thank you for all you do for your fans family and friends 😉
Thank you for this, Nicole and TJ! It was a really great talk about grief! Nicole, you’re a wonderful host, you do a really good job as a host! And your voice is so soothing and you have such a calm, sweet presence that makes one feels like it would be really easy to talk to you and feel comfortable. ❤️ It’s been really healing to talk about grief so openly with people who have gone through the same! ❤️ My dad died of cancer nearly two decades ago and back then, about a year later, the family living next door lost their father to a brain tumor, also leaving a daughter about my age behind and me and her used to sit and talk about how it is not having a dad anymore and what it’s like to see and know others still can talk to their dads and hang out with them...it helped to have someone next door who knew EXACTLY what you’re going through and had just experienced the same you did. Not just the loss from death but also dealing with finding out your dad has cancer..needing to learn to live with it, the constant fear of losing them and the roller coaster of them getting better, relapsing, getting better, relapsing...and finally hearing there’s nothing they can do to heal and your dad WILL die. 😢 The rollercoaster between hope and grief and all the emotions involved...Talking about it all woth someone who understands because they’ve been there is so important. A friend of mine who has a degree in psychology (but works for the police), volunteers for an organization on her free time to help kids whose parents got divorced and kids who lost a parent so that the kids can talk about it and meet other kids who are going through the same as them, and I have always really looked up to her for giving so much of her time to help kids heal. It is such an important job and communities like these ones you and TJ have are so important and you’re doing a wonderful job at helping others! ❤️ So thank you SO MUCH once again, Nicole and TJ, for everything you do! 🙏🏻❤️ It is SO appreciated!!! 🙏🏻❤️ Lots of love and may God bless you!! 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you for sharing your heart with us. I can imagine how difficult the journey has been and yes you are right finding someone who gets it does bring a level of comfort. Please always feel free to reach out to me whenever. Sending you lots of love 💙
This show is amazing, I lost my mother and you never get over it you just carry on. My daughter did a pod cast with T.J he has the most beautiful soul, he makes you feel at peace when he talks. God bless you both.
This episode and whole conversation is so special and absolutely amazing. I really thank you J.Nicole for having this connection and vibe with TJ for him to feel comfortable enough to open up and discuss such difficult, tough topics and experiences when it’s not easy. And I thank you for sharing yours too. This conversation will be really beneficial to a lot of people and it has to me, and this episode means a lot. 🙏🏽💙👏🏽💙🙌🏽💙
S i e n n a thank you so very much for your kind words and support for both TJ and myself I greatly appreciate it. We are doing our best to help other people in our position or who knows someone that is. 💙🙏🏽 we are all stronger together!
J.Nicole The Grief Bully No problem at all. And yes, you guys most definitely are, and having such a great, beneficial and positive impact. Sending love your way always! 😊🙏🏽💙
I don't have enough words to explain what for cool interview it is .. Thank you, TJ, you are wonderful♥️ Thank you, Nicole, for making this interview real 🙏
Thank you thank you. I've been always been told "Grief has NO timetable." I've been going through this grief journey for a long time. Lost my Dad (health declining over time from multiple health issues), 2 of my Aunts (it was their time) and my sister (lung cancer - smoker) within 3 years. Please please don't beat yourself up for not visiting the final resting site of your loved one. It is all on an individual basis. Always know that your loved one's spirit is in your heart. And I do understand losing someone by the hands of someone else. That type of pain is indescribable. In fact, like TJ's Mom, my godmother drowned in her pool back in 1989. And she did not swim. Just a fishy situation. Over time you learn to work with your grief but sometimes you can have triggers that remind you of how your loved one died. The best advice I can give on that is to remove yourself from situations that may trigger a reaction. Thank you, J. Nicole, for such a wonderful talk with TJ. My prayers of serenity for both of you and for anyone who comes upon your podcast. xox
TJ, thank you so much for sharing. I know that was probably uncomfortable for you, but for me it was very helpful. And you are correct, some people do get tired of your grief and want you to get over it. I look at it that you never get over it, you just learn to live with it. I personally don't like the word "closure" because it sounds like you are closing the door on that person and the love you have for them. So thank you again and I wish you love and peace.
Tj is such a lovely guy and I think he is quiet very understanding maybe because he's had that loss I think then you can bond with him I no that feeling because when I loss my mother that you understand a lot more
What an amazing interview this is! TJ is such a beautiful man deserving of all his blessings. Can't wait to see him in concert. I had no idea of 3T until a few years back. Now, I'm a super fan. The Jacksons R the soundtrack of my life. So proud the next generation is out there.. Doing their thing. TJ Jackson's album #Damage is da bomb. Pls support the music, the work & the man. Beautiful. 💖💕💖
@@JNicoleTheGriefBully : #ThankYou 4 giving TJ & #DDJF a platform. TJ & his brothers Taj & Taryll R an amazing band of brothers.. literally. This is a testament of their Father's dedication & love to them and also to the beautiful way in which he continued their Mother's legacy. Truly, TJ walks the walk. #DDJF is the most progressive org. focused on all types of grief & loss. I came across DDJF randomly after losing so many Family & Friends .. It was a lifesaver. U R awesome 2. I am a new fan. #ThankU @J.Nicole : Very intimate, in depth interview. Good stuff. ✌🏾💙
I found this episode by accident...The Grief Bully is THE COOLEST NAME!! I am over 60...I learned a lot...and Im going to go look for episode #1. Thank you J Nicole❤
Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate it. Definitely welcome you to subscribe to the channel as I publish new episodes every week. Sending love your way. 💙
@@JNicoleTheGriefBully I am now subscribed...and I liked your site. You are a kind and considerate interviewer...especially since dealing with such a sensitive subject.
Thank you both this is a beautiful Interview, I am learning alot from both of you . TJ I Admire you so much your mom raised you to be a very special person and a stronger sense of right and wrong may you and your Brothers Taj , Tarell and your Dad Papa T be BLESSED WITH CONTINUED LOVE AND SUPPORT. NICHOLE THANK YOU FOR THIS WONDERFUL interview you are a fantastic Interviewer CONTINUED joy and happiness and success 😀
La pire chose pour les enfants .. perdre un de leurs parents.. ma phobie quand j étais petite était de perdre 1 de mes parents.... Je n' ose même pas imaginer la douleur de cette perte... Aussi faut il être bien entouré pour pouvoir s en sortir parce que beaucoup n ' ont pas ce privilège et sont vraiment perdu dans leurs vies, parce que cet amour qui est partie dont ils ne beneficient plus les laissera à jamais 1 vide dans leur vies même si avec le temps la douleur change d intensité. Courage à ceux là.🦋
Everybody's way of grieving with personal loss is sooo different.. i lost my mom when i was 6 and i felt loat too but abandoned. And it did affect me ,my mental health and my relationships for really really long period of time, like 15 years or smthin...
My color for grief is the color gray because to me its like between night and day im in the middle of still trying to deal with the lost of my mother who passed last year August 21. 2019. Im 47 years old and not having my mother around im still lost with out her.
Sylvia, thank you for sharing. Sending you lots of love. I can certainly agreed with the between night and day feeling. I’d love to stay in touch feel free to DM on IG @i_am_jnicole at anytime 💙
Alot of times people don't like to give the exact time , just like alot celebrities don't tell their real age.. For ex.His Uncle Randy was seven when I was 9.Latet I found out he was actually 2yrs older than me.
O Rei do pop , cuidava do corpo , era magro , por isso dançava muito bem , só que ele não teve cuidados e atenção dos familiares , o material tomou conta de todos , intrigas familiares por causa de dinheiro , para mim , a família Jackson tem um dom valioso culturalmente c a dança e o canto , nem todos artistas tem essa qualidade nata .Porém, precisam ser cuidados e amados , era p o nosso querido Rei do pop , estar vivo aqui .
Amazing interview J. Nicole 👌 Thank you TJ❤️
Thank you for your kind words and thank you for tuning in 💙
Thanks for having me J. Nicole The Grief Bully. As you know I love what you do and how you do it. Keep doing your thing. To all of you who are watching and struggling with grief please know you are not alone. Much love to you always.
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Thank you tj for sharing your story I lost my mother last year 2019 to cancer when she took her last breath in front of me I lost it I cried so much till this day I'm traumatized but I'm making her happy I gave my life to our lord jesus I repented my sins praise our lord jesus our God and holy spirit amen God bless you and your family always tj Jackson
*12-24-20*
*Thank you for sharing* .Have lost 8 during this pandemic. People need to know AHEAD of time, that we must take the good memories, and pass on all of the smiles from them. That's how I keep my peace. God never leaves our sides. Believe that! *Many blessings* to you and your family.
I love so much every time i see an interview of you TJ, you carry light on you, wisdom.
we, the fans, are still griving Michael Jacksons passing. Much love from Spain
Hi TJ please write a book about your mother keep her legacy alive in Amozon the library book stores ECT it would be the one most precious gift your children would ever own their lives ..and we will know how she was I also hope Siggy will write about his mother Enid 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜😊🤗 love you more always Thank you for all you do for your fans family and friends 😉
Both Your Mom and your Uncle Michael are smiling down from Heaven and they are very proud of you and they will always be with you .
Every time I heard.so many beautiful things about Michael Jackson. I stll loving him and his family
Thank you for this, Nicole and TJ! It was a really great talk about grief! Nicole, you’re a wonderful host, you do a really good job as a host! And your voice is so soothing and you have such a calm, sweet presence that makes one feels like it would be really easy to talk to you and feel comfortable. ❤️ It’s been really healing to talk about grief so openly with people who have gone through the same! ❤️ My dad died of cancer nearly two decades ago and back then, about a year later, the family living next door lost their father to a brain tumor, also leaving a daughter about my age behind and me and her used to sit and talk about how it is not having a dad anymore and what it’s like to see and know others still can talk to their dads and hang out with them...it helped to have someone next door who knew EXACTLY what you’re going through and had just experienced the same you did. Not just the loss from death but also dealing with finding out your dad has cancer..needing to learn to live with it, the constant fear of losing them and the roller coaster of them getting better, relapsing, getting better, relapsing...and finally hearing there’s nothing they can do to heal and your dad WILL die. 😢 The rollercoaster between hope and grief and all the emotions involved...Talking about it all woth someone who understands because they’ve been there is so important. A friend of mine who has a degree in psychology (but works for the police), volunteers for an organization on her free time to help kids whose parents got divorced and kids who lost a parent so that the kids can talk about it and meet other kids who are going through the same as them, and I have always really looked up to her for giving so much of her time to help kids heal. It is such an important job and communities like these ones you and TJ have are so important and you’re doing a wonderful job at helping others! ❤️ So thank you SO MUCH once again, Nicole and TJ, for everything you do! 🙏🏻❤️ It is SO appreciated!!! 🙏🏻❤️ Lots of love and may God bless you!! 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you for sharing your heart with us. I can imagine how difficult the journey has been and yes you are right finding someone who gets it does bring a level of comfort. Please always feel free to reach out to me whenever. Sending you lots of love 💙
This show is amazing, I lost my mother and you never get over it you just carry on. My daughter did a pod cast with T.J he has the most beautiful soul, he makes you feel at peace when he talks. God bless you both.
Sending love your way, thank you for your kind words.
Be sure to subscribe to the channel. A ton more needed conversations on the way💙
Losing yr mom at a young age is the worst. It can make or break you and You never fully get over it
Very true! 💙🙏🏽💙🙏🏽💙
I really like TJ very likeable seems like a sweet sincere guy 🥰
💙💙💙 very sincere guy!
This episode and whole conversation is so special and absolutely amazing. I really thank you J.Nicole for having this connection and vibe with TJ for him to feel comfortable enough to open up and discuss such difficult, tough topics and experiences when it’s not easy. And I thank you for sharing yours too. This conversation will be really beneficial to a lot of people and it has to me, and this episode means a lot. 🙏🏽💙👏🏽💙🙌🏽💙
S i e n n a thank you so very much for your kind words and support for both TJ and myself I greatly appreciate it. We are doing our best to help other people in our position or who knows someone that is. 💙🙏🏽 we are all stronger together!
J.Nicole The Grief Bully No problem at all. And yes, you guys most definitely are, and having such a great, beneficial and positive impact. Sending love your way always! 😊🙏🏽💙
I don't have enough words to explain what for cool interview it is .. Thank you, TJ, you are wonderful♥️ Thank you, Nicole, for making this interview real 🙏
Thank you for the love and support 💙
He is soooooooo kind and just such an awesome man! Every womans dream husband!
Thank you thank you. I've been always been told "Grief has NO timetable." I've been going through this grief journey for a long time. Lost my Dad (health declining over time from multiple health issues), 2 of my Aunts (it was their time) and my sister (lung cancer - smoker) within 3 years. Please please don't beat yourself up for not visiting the final resting site of your loved one. It is all on an individual basis. Always know that your loved one's spirit is in your heart. And I do understand losing someone by the hands of someone else. That type of pain is indescribable. In fact, like TJ's Mom, my godmother drowned in her pool back in 1989. And she did not swim. Just a fishy situation. Over time you learn to work with your grief but sometimes you can have triggers that remind you of how your loved one died. The best advice I can give on that is to remove yourself from situations that may trigger a reaction. Thank you, J. Nicole, for such a wonderful talk with TJ. My prayers of serenity for both of you and for anyone who comes upon your podcast. xox
CONGRATULATIONS NICOLE! YOUR SHOW IS TRULY AMAZING N HAS HELPED ME A LOT JUST BY WATCHING. (BECKY) I LOVE YOU FAMILY 🗣️🗣️🗣️⭐⭐⭐
Thank you Becky! I super appreciate you!!!! Love you too! 💙💙💙
TJ, thank you so much for sharing. I know that was probably uncomfortable for you, but for me it was very helpful. And you are correct, some people do get tired of your grief and want you to get over it. I look at it that you never get over it, you just learn to live with it. I personally don't like the word "closure" because it sounds like you are closing the door on that person and the love you have for them. So thank you again and I wish you love and peace.
Tj is such a lovely guy and I think he is quiet very understanding maybe because he's had that loss I think then you can bond with him I no that feeling because when I loss my mother that you understand a lot more
T.j.is lucky to have a large family. that's true t.j. sweet animals r a lot of help !!!!.😍😍😍😍😍.
What an amazing interview this is! TJ is such a beautiful man deserving of all his blessings.
Can't wait to see him in concert. I had no idea of 3T until a few years back. Now, I'm a super fan.
The Jacksons R the soundtrack of my life. So proud the next generation is out there.. Doing their thing.
TJ Jackson's album #Damage is da bomb. Pls support the music, the work & the man. Beautiful. 💖💕💖
Yes, TJ is AWESOME, I can't thank him enough for his vulnerability and willingness to share on such a personal topic.
@@JNicoleTheGriefBully : #ThankYou 4 giving TJ & #DDJF a platform. TJ & his brothers Taj & Taryll R an amazing band of brothers.. literally. This is a testament of their Father's dedication & love to them and also to the beautiful way in which he continued their Mother's legacy. Truly, TJ walks the walk. #DDJF is the most progressive org. focused on all types of grief & loss. I came across DDJF randomly after losing so many Family & Friends .. It was a lifesaver. U R awesome 2.
I am a new fan. #ThankU @J.Nicole : Very intimate, in depth interview. Good stuff. ✌🏾💙
This was so healing ‼️I also literally thought purple because of the same reason 💜💔💜
I found this episode by accident...The Grief Bully is THE COOLEST NAME!! I am over 60...I learned a lot...and Im going to go look for episode #1. Thank you J Nicole❤
Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate it. Definitely welcome you to subscribe to the channel as I publish new episodes every week. Sending love your way. 💙
@@JNicoleTheGriefBully I am now subscribed...and I liked your site. You are a kind and considerate
interviewer...especially since dealing with such a sensitive subject.
Thank you both this is a beautiful Interview, I am learning alot from both of you .
TJ I Admire you so much your mom raised you to be a very special person and a stronger sense of right and wrong may you and your Brothers Taj , Tarell and your Dad Papa T be BLESSED WITH CONTINUED LOVE AND SUPPORT.
NICHOLE THANK YOU FOR THIS WONDERFUL interview you are a fantastic Interviewer CONTINUED joy and happiness and success 😀
Thank you Alisa, I appreciate your kind words. Wishing you all the best this year. 💙😊
And love Tj and Nicole too
Please write a book about your mother it would be the most precious gift you can receive to your children :)
La pire chose pour les enfants .. perdre un de leurs parents.. ma phobie quand j étais petite était de perdre 1 de mes parents....
Je n' ose même pas imaginer la douleur de cette perte... Aussi faut il être bien entouré pour pouvoir s en sortir parce que beaucoup n ' ont pas ce privilège et sont vraiment perdu dans leurs vies, parce que cet amour qui est partie dont ils ne beneficient plus les laissera à jamais 1 vide dans leur vies même si avec le temps la douleur change d intensité.
Courage à ceux là.🦋
Everybody's way of grieving with personal loss is sooo different.. i lost my mom when i was 6 and i felt loat too but abandoned. And it did affect me ,my mental health and my relationships for really really long period of time, like 15 years or smthin...
My color for grief is the color gray because to me its like between night and day im in the middle of still trying to deal with the lost of my mother who passed last year August 21. 2019. Im 47 years old and not having my mother around im still lost with out her.
Sylvia, thank you for sharing. Sending you lots of love. I can certainly agreed with the between night and day feeling. I’d love to stay in touch feel free to DM on IG @i_am_jnicole at anytime 💙
@@JNicoleTheGriefBully Thank you really appreciate you and the work that you do and I sure would love to keep in touch God bless.
Great podcast 🌟 #LoveAndLight
Thank you for the support! 💙
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Live, J.Nicole!
Live a happy, full life! 😃😃😃😁😁👍👍👍👍
Dee Dee died way before 1994, these boys were under 13 years old when de de died !!!!.😭😭😭😭😭.
Alot of times people don't like to give the exact time , just like alot celebrities don't tell their real age.. For ex.His Uncle Randy was seven when I was 9.Latet I found out he was actually 2yrs older than me.
Tj was 16 when his mom died
What he says is the truth not the tv and news
I lost my grandfather in 2023 in August 30th
TJ💝💝💝💞💞😍😘
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O Rei do pop , cuidava do corpo , era magro , por isso dançava muito bem , só que ele não teve cuidados e atenção dos familiares , o material tomou conta de todos , intrigas familiares por causa de dinheiro , para mim , a família Jackson tem um dom valioso culturalmente c a dança e o canto , nem todos artistas tem essa qualidade nata .Porém, precisam ser cuidados e amados , era p o nosso querido Rei do pop , estar vivo aqui .
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