Coercive Control: The Dynamics Continued - Episode 3
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025
- Today's episode of Thursday Thoughtcasts features our own Dr Torna Pitman in the third instalment of a ten-part series on coercive control.
This week completes the description of the dynamics of coercive control and how they play out in relationships. In this episode we unpack sexual relationships and the subtle or more obvious dynamics within an unequal sexual relationship.
This series is for our clients, your clients, your friends or family and the general public. Knowledge saves lives and helps us recognise the loss of human rights inherent to unequal relationships.
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This is outstanding teaching about our human rights !!!! The entire earth needs to be educated , changing or adding laws to the constitution of that country , implementing social structures to help other abused people , as we all have the right to live in equality and not ABUSED!!!! Much respect and appreciation to you and all those people who put this material tougher!!!
"Relentless violation of human rights and dignity," but how to prove it in an intimate relationship is the hurdle. This video breaks down the nuances of this type of psychological terrorism.
This was my married. This series is amazingly informative and very useful for someone who has been through this kind of abuse.
I wish every therapist on earth could watch this and get an understanding for this kind of abuse. The scariest coercive control is the kind that is almost invisible to the outside world. Where the abuser is seen as the stable, rational one.
My ex used to fill out divorce documents and leave it on countertops so I would see it. When I asked why he would do that, he said it served as a reminder to us of what could happen if things didn't get better. So it was a manipulative tactic to keep me in line and silence me.
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The problem is: how to legally prove it in court.
I’m being pressured and bullied to approve about an important decision that should compromise my physical condition, while I have brain and serious nerve injuries due to a ruthless surgical assault.
Document document document document _ video tape the abuse _ any abuse is unacceptable_ document and video tape the abuse
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ive just found these vids wow this explains totally the dynamic my ex used against me .She used collusive infidelity{cerebral narcissit} in the end telling me to go and find a sex life elsewhere she was removing consent many double binds much entitlement .All of this is creepy its like your speaking to me as someone that was in the room .She used false allagations of common assualt to implicate me and took the children away the things i loved the most .She behaving like a battered wife used loop holes and victim play .How do you get to prove this in court social serves dont want to know i am a man and ended up not guilty of the assualt in court there was no evedence as it did not happen .she added in her statement that i sexualized my children and psycologically abused her ,it was the other way round although i was i realize pushed into reactive abuse but never physical she allways won the verbal battle her way or the high way .Our sex life had been pretty non existant for a long time i couldnt initiate she would seldom we had children i worked nights only when she wanted it it was robotic she used it to reward me when i was extra good .she got a restrition order on the not guilty because of the extronoeus allegations on me a i have not seen my children since over 2yrs ago
Your videos always make me feel much more aware when I woke up guilt tripped, beat for religion, stalked yet again by men who like rapists to have rights, women to live in submission, church and sale of my body as a she-slave to people I don't like because I have my coercive control reasons, my trips to the hospital when I call someone a pervert (checking me into psych) look like something I'd never like to relive. I have to listen to them constantly as I've been murderously oppressed to the point where i cannot drive, use a bike and have to "shower with god - so he can watch me take a shower" and crazy made about situations to the point of suicide and blackouts with pills much more accessible than would normally be. I appreciate this as sick as my psychobabble sounds - I've fallen (whether on accident or having my leg kicked out while walking intentionally) to the point of breaking bones and fractures of important bones like hips and that form of deadly violence is just a small reminder of coercive control. It's by far WORSE. It's enough to be worse than imprisoned in your home by a man with entitlement issues who treats you as badly as ariel castro treated his hostages - or Jim Jones shooting at his defectors. It's the worst thing you can experience. EVER.