i built 2 *opposite houses* on the SAME LOT in the sims

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  • @princessjellyfish98
    @princessjellyfish98 3 часа назад +522

    congrats again on your endo diagnosis simsie! so many people with periods struggle to receive proper healthcare due to lack of research and understanding. it's infuriating that you had to fight for so long to get answers but it's so good to hear that you finally know what's going on with your body!

    • @gaiamorgosi7181
      @gaiamorgosi7181 2 часа назад +7

      Yess, I’m not a endo patient, but I had to wait almost two years to receive a diagnosis for a “suspected” autoimmune disease that I’m still waiting for, unfortunately times are sooooo long and it’s not fair for people who suffer from this. Also, you can find amazing people that will tell you that your pain doesn’t exist and you’re being dramatic, so yeah, that’s fun.

    • @mesquitegirl2013
      @mesquitegirl2013 Час назад

      @@gaiamorgosi7181❤

    • @cat-pl7sj
      @cat-pl7sj 38 минут назад

      She has endo?? Omg I just turned 18 yesterday and I’m so looking forward to hopefully getting tested soon. This might sound super weird but I’d be so relieved to finally be diagnosed with it because I’m so sure of it and it would finally explain my symptoms!

    • @gaiamorgosi7181
      @gaiamorgosi7181 22 минуты назад

      @@cat-pl7sj That is not weird at all, anyone who has never been through anything similar cannot relate, but finding THE NAME of what is bothering you is another level of relief.

    • @Lefunbags
      @Lefunbags 18 минут назад

      Yes.
      Also Deligracy has the similar issue. You in the Sims community can totally support each other.

  • @InsanelyADD
    @InsanelyADD 3 часа назад +250

    That sucks about your doctors not taking you seriously. Back in 2017 I had pains in my stomach area and the doctor basically told me I was fat and to stop eating acidic foods and said it was heartburn. I was only 5 lbs overweight at the time and the pain turned out to be appendicitis. I had to have surgery that same day to get it removed. I'm glad that you kept fighting to get your diagnosis. You know your body better than anyone, you know what hurts you, doctors should have believed you.

    • @falka2398
      @falka2398 2 часа назад +8

      that is absolutely deplorable. i hope that doctor got their carma back

    • @ciara8860
      @ciara8860 Час назад +7

      That is disgustingly incompetent medical care. Like genuinely frustrating to just read.
      Like I’m really pissed off on your behalf that’s messed up

    • @Astralixe
      @Astralixe 17 минут назад +3

      i relate to that a lot, doctors barely ever seem to take me seriously. when i was 13 and got my first period, i was in so much pain that i couldn't physically walk, but no one took me seriously about the pain and said i was overreacting (i had a pe teacher who made me run extra laps because i complained about being in so much pain i could barely breath) until i was 15 and my obgyn on my first appointment heard about the pain i was in and INSTANTLY prescribed me meds for that and said that the other doctors should have listened cause not being able to walk was in fact, not normal

    • @ciara8860
      @ciara8860 13 минут назад

      @@Astralixe seriously though. I only found out like two weeks ago that most women don’t bleed so heavy they need a pad AND a tampon (and still bleed through)

  • @princessjellyfish98
    @princessjellyfish98 3 часа назад +130

    it's so validating to hear simsie complain about the swatches in the nursery kit 😂 I felt CRAZY trying to make a green nursery and half the items didn't have the pastel green swatch!

    • @mariannagregorio2905
      @mariannagregorio2905 2 часа назад +7

      If you watch Gonz's short on the kits he talks about that, and how it's infuriating that not all swatches are complete ksksk

  • @SonniDez
    @SonniDez 3 часа назад +128

    I appreciate you so much for being so real about sharing your health journey with us. I’m also so happy you got a much needed answer! Love your content!! Hope things continue to look up for you.

  • @hb-yq1kr
    @hb-yq1kr 3 часа назад +60

    hi kayla! i have endo as well, i have a flare up almost all the time, and I have gone to 9+ doctors. your videos always make me so happy and distract me from my flare ups. Thank you for being so honest Kayla! i appreciate you opening up!

  • @Bettie04
    @Bettie04 2 часа назад +22

    I'm 33 and I've spent 15 years in and out of hospitals being laughed at for "claiming" being in pain; the relief of finally being diagnosed and actually listened to is undescribable! So happy for you that you finally have answers ❤
    Oh and the build is pretty friggin' cool too!

  • @Frenchaboo
    @Frenchaboo 3 часа назад +22

    These houses are a great representation of what I find beautiful to look at (the dark house) and what I would be more likely to live in (the pastel house). Elegant, dark interiors are so gorgeous but you won't catch me wiping the dust off those black walls and carpets every darn day.

  • @minimoatiny
    @minimoatiny 2 часа назад +15

    thank you simsie for talking about your diagnosis, we need more people talking about their experiences to make more people aware.
    I didn't even know my half-sister had endo until a few years ago, then one of my teachers, then by others such as yourself. When I brought up to my nurse at the pill appointment I had a few weeks ago, given I'd heard that endo can be partially genetic, she dismissed me with 'oh, you'd know if you had endo'. Bearing in mind that I went on the pill specifically because I had bad periods myself, and that I have been told that I could get keyhole surgery to double-check years ago but the doctor 'didn't want me to go under the knife so young'... I constantly think about whether I am/was over-reacting, or if I genuinely have a basis to be worried.
    Maybe one day I might get keyhole surgery, just to check, but for now, after being on the pill for almost 5 years (out of the 7 I've had periods), I just have to wait to see whether or not things get 'worse'.

    • @sam-ky9sj
      @sam-ky9sj 2 часа назад +3

      i'm so sorry about your bad experiences i really hope in the future you find healthcare professionals that act more professionaly and take your concerns seriously!

    • @minimoatiny
      @minimoatiny 2 часа назад

      @@sam-ky9sj thank you so much - what keeps me going is knowing that not all healthcare workers are against me. Hopefully I'll find someone who can help me out :)

  • @DassaDesign
    @DassaDesign 3 часа назад +34

    As another invisable illness / chronic pain girly..
    All those feelings are sooooooo valid!

  • @captain_morrigan7192
    @captain_morrigan7192 2 часа назад +12

    With invisible conditions like endo, chronic pain, fatigue etc are so so hard to make people believe you, it's wild how hard to can be to get health carers to believe you, it really shouldn't be. I'm glad you got your diagnosis!

  • @syndark8219
    @syndark8219 3 часа назад +10

    Congrats on the diagnosis. Hopefully your have a great GYN Dr. Endo can have some harsh consequences. I was diagnosed at 15, and by the time I was 20, I had to have a full hysterectomy. ( with 10 pregnancies, and 1 child between) There are varying degrees of severity, so having a doctor that not only understands it, but understands you and your wants and needs is important.
    Gotta tell you that I love the darker side as well!! Much love!!

  • @StudyGlassHealer
    @StudyGlassHealer 3 часа назад +49

    My friend suffered for over 22 years with an extreme type of endo and a few other conditions. She was gaslit by so many doctors. IMO they should all lose their licenses. Her issue was so bad it resulted in a total hysterectomy at 31. The healthcare system needs to do better by women.

  • @prettyoddkit
    @prettyoddkit 3 часа назад +76

    gorg as usual

  • @SnakeEnthusiast
    @SnakeEnthusiast 3 часа назад +22

    Congrats on your diagnosis! I’ve been working on getting an endo diagnosis for a few years now

  • @sura_ann_19
    @sura_ann_19 2 часа назад +6

    i’m so glad you finally got that diagnosis! i got diagnosed with endometriosis and pcos earlier this year and it was such a relief!! it was so so hard to get to that point, i even got to the point of chronic pelvic pain and nobody would listen to me! i ended up getting diagnosed when i had an emergency appendectomy and there was endometriosis on the outside of my appendix. from one endo girly to another, i hope your diagnosis is helping you experience less pain 💕

  • @EasterEdwards
    @EasterEdwards 2 часа назад +21

    I can see how much work went into this!

  • @FirebladesSong
    @FirebladesSong 3 часа назад +11

    I probably have Endo myself, and getting it diagnosed is a NIGHTMARE. Especially when you have other health issues that doctors also don't want to listen to patients about.

  • @AZIZAxBLUE
    @AZIZAxBLUE 3 часа назад +9

    So happy you were finally listened to about your pain and that you got a diagnosis! Wish you the best on your health journey 🙏🏼

  • @clairej.9216
    @clairej.9216 2 часа назад +2

    I rarely leave comments but I just wanna to tell that I'm so glad you finally got diagnosed! For me it took 10 years, I totally understand the frustration and fear that it's "just in our heads". I wish you lots of courage for this new life as an endo warrior 💪🏼 ♥️ full support Simsie!

  • @Deviledegg69420
    @Deviledegg69420 2 часа назад +5

    It took me literally screaming like seriously screaming at my doctor to take him serious about my period pain, and then it still took two years to get diagnosed with endometriosis. I'm glad you could finally get some answers, and hopefully your dr will help you take some steps to feel better.

  • @NancyHill-v7n
    @NancyHill-v7n 3 часа назад +32

    I can't believe how awesome this is!

  • @sirgaykrovos
    @sirgaykrovos 3 часа назад +5

    I loooove this type of builds
    it's kinda cliche but it just does smt to my heart ❤️
    very satisfying

  • @Chaotic_Pixie
    @Chaotic_Pixie 55 минут назад +1

    Having answers feels good, doesn’t it? I would say, be prepared for an overwhelming flood of different feelings over the coming weeks and months. Everything from relief to anger to frustration to sadness and even grief. I’ve spent my whole life fighting for a diagnosis for this or that… all your feelings you’ve been experiencing are 1000% valid. The Questioning yourself… the questioning them… all normal. Just remember, everyone feels pain differently & if the pain is significant enough to impact your daily life, it’s significant enough for your doctors to give a dang about.
    Also wanna say, I FECKING LOVE WHEN YOU BREAK OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE! You are so much better at building than you give yourself credit for. When you relax and just enjoy the process, it’s an absolute pleasure to watch. Keep breaking out of the comfort zone, please! Maybe it’s time for some build series? Simsie tries different aesthetics in the Sims or Simsie tries different architectural styles in the Sims. Could do a little research about the history of each & then do a build (either a whole building or a room) focusing on that one specific aesthetic or style. I’d watch them all!
    Also, Batuu has some baller light fixtures (size them accordingly) and really great clutter items too. I have never once done the game play but that pack… it finds its way into nearly every build. 😅

  • @ValentinaRosas-i4q
    @ValentinaRosas-i4q 3 часа назад +33

    Such a talented creator, no joke!

  • @mozie4258
    @mozie4258 2 часа назад +2

    I've begun to suspect I might have endometriosis, I have all the symptoms, but Idk if it's worth it to go through everything to get diagnosed since I've found some ways to manage it (stinging nettle tea is a lifesaver for dealing with pain for me). Thanks for sharing! It's nice to know we're not alone in our struggles. Also I LOVE that purple nursery. 💜

  • @Eli_P18
    @Eli_P18 21 минуту назад +1

    I also have endometriosis and finally got diagnosed with it last year after 5 years of doctors saying it was my body adjusting to starting puberty at only 10 years old. I'm now 5 months post-op from laparoscopic surgery where my new finally good doctor found endometrial tissue completely covering my uterus, ovaries, fallopian tubes, and bladder. the problem is that because it went untreated for so long, my uterus is completely filled with it and is the route of my pain now. They can't surgically remove it from there so the only treatment is estrogen which I can't take, forced menopause, or a hysterectomy (both of which I couldn't get even if I wanted to until I'm 18). So basically I get it, and I'm so sorry that you have this pain and I'm so glad you got diagnosed! Ik you won't read this anyway, but your videos have helped me so much, so thank you!

  • @sam-ky9sj
    @sam-ky9sj 2 часа назад +1

    I cannot imagine how hard it must've been to not only deal with the pain of endometriosis but also the anxiety of not being taken seriously... I can't express how happy I am that you finally got your answers and hopefully that'll give you acess to better treatment ❤ Really great video as always. I also want to say how great it is for me that you take the effort of having a person do the close captions for your channel, it would be so easy to just use AutoCaptions but you always go the extra mile and that shows you do care about everyone that watches your videos, thank you from the bottom of my heart as a non-native English speaker. I hope you and your friend have so much fun at the concert!

  • @danischi4080
    @danischi4080 2 часа назад +1

    Kayla I am so glad you finally got a diagnosis and I am also really glad you talk about endometriosis publicly! It‘s so important to raise awareness because it is still so underdiagnosed. I honestly teared up a little at that section of the video.
    Having been trying to get diagnosed for something else myself (that’s underdiagnosed, too) I know the feeling of „Am I just making it up?“ so I‘m really glad that you have the question answered now ❤

  • @jeremiahssanity
    @jeremiahssanity 3 часа назад +6

    I LOOOVE making opposite vibes for builds/rooms

    • @a1dart
      @a1dart 3 часа назад

      proof

  • @Confused_Fear
    @Confused_Fear Час назад +1

    absolutely OBSESSED both houses are so cute! You really have a way of making every aesthetic just simply beautiful!

  • @dianabrennan8856
    @dianabrennan8856 3 часа назад +13

    Medical gaslighting is way too common especially for women cuz we’re “so emotional” glad you finally got an answer

    • @Lefunbags
      @Lefunbags 16 минут назад

      💯💯💯💯💯

  • @AgentBoobimus
    @AgentBoobimus 3 часа назад +5

    If it makes you feel better I was once having major pain like I couldn’t breathe properly. As the paramedics were doing some basic I was worried that I was faking! Anxiety is just the worst.

  • @Louise75656
    @Louise75656 3 часа назад +4

    I have a fun build idea , build with ♾️ budget , but build a 20k starter home! And build until you think you have reached starter home budget

  • @regularmetoday
    @regularmetoday 4 минуты назад

    Thank you for talking about your endo diagnosis. I also have endometriosis, diagnosed at 16, and it’s hard to feel seen when you have an invisible condition, love ya simsie for bringing it to light

  • @kittythefluffington7164
    @kittythefluffington7164 2 часа назад +2

    Congrats on finally getting an answer for your pain. As another chronic illness person, I understand completely how frustrating it is. I also grew up with a parent who is a dr, so medical gaslighting has always been a part of my life. I finally got diagnosed with my chronic illness this year, after complaining about pain as soon as I could talk. Turns out I'm not a wimpy princess, I'm a chronic pain prince 💪
    Also, it's okay to cry. Sometimes, chronic pain can be defeating. We're here for you, and anyone else here who's suffering from chronic pain or anything like that.
    I hope those who don't have answers yet, will find their answers soon. Sometimes you just have to waltz into the drs office and dislocate a few joints in front of them to get a hEDS diagnosis 💀

  • @lalalozzie9
    @lalalozzie9 Час назад

    I have endo too, when I finally got diagnosed 10 years ago I cried because I had always suspected it and I knew then that I wasn’t crazy. It definitely sucks to have, but I find the endo community as a whole online is a great source of support x love this build btw

  • @katbairwell
    @katbairwell 2 часа назад +2

    Medical misogyny (as with medical racism) is sadly still very prevalent, and it's more than time the issue was taken seriously. Simsie's experience of double-sided anxiety is so, so common with female-presenting people suffering with chronic symptoms, and is often at it's height when dealing with "women's problems". It's getting better, but the more it's talked about, the more pressure is put on the medical community to do better. Bless Kayla, and everyone that is willing to share their experiences so openly, and honestly, it makes a difference.

  • @CharleyTWrites
    @CharleyTWrites 2 часа назад

    That feeling of "making it up" is so real. You feel like you are, but then you have a bad flare up and reminds you that you're not overreacting. I feel like its hugely a universal experience for these kind of issues so congrats on your diagnosis and for not giving up in order to get it.

  • @goldaged
    @goldaged 3 часа назад +2

    the pink debug cars got me too a couple days ago 😭 i giggled a little bit when u placed them

  • @marveludus
    @marveludus Час назад

    I haven't played the Sims in a while because the bugs and long start-up times bothered me too much... But this layout especially is so inspiring to me, I might just give it a try again! I'm imagining something similar to this, but with the back-/sideyards touching in the middle. Could be a story about two single parents and their children that become friends, eventually joining their yards etc etc

  • @jaclynrisboskin4280
    @jaclynrisboskin4280 Час назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your diagnosis! I also have endo and those fears you mentioned are so very true, unfortunately. I always feared it was all in my head, especially when I had my first surgery to be diagnosed; it really does mess with you both physically and mentally, Even now, three years into my diagnosis, I question myself when the pain comes back BUT the key thing to remember is that you know your body and, as long as you have a good doctor, they will listen and work with you so you can get the help you need (took me a bit to find but it's worth searching for). Good luck to you and anyone else here with endo. Here's to us!

  • @erinhynes
    @erinhynes 3 часа назад +2

    Love this build! Its always cool to see juxtaposition in the sims❤❤

  • @aceguilford5917
    @aceguilford5917 3 часа назад +23

    Ahh I’ve never been this early!!

  • @darlenepurcell
    @darlenepurcell 2 часа назад

    Love this! Unique idea! I thought at first you were going to do mirror images in dark and light colors. This was so much better! Good job! I too am more of a builder. I've been playing since the game began over 20 years ago. So I have had a lot of experience in building everything from elevated terrain to deep dungeons. We didn't have much to work in early version of the game, so we improvised to make FAUX decor. I am so thrilled the game has evolved now to include functionality for just about anything we can imagine. I enjoy watching other creators. I would really like to see more bridges and rivers, sunken living rooms, platforms under the bathtubs, unique twists to the stairs perhaps using platforms as well, outdoor garden tubs or spas, gazebos attached to the porch of the house. Hidden rooms, with hidden doors, underground passages that lead to other parts of the property, perhaps to exit in a hurry via the car in the garage. I have so many of these items in my builds. I am very detail oriented and love romantic decor using dark academia vibes. Fireplaces in many rooms, bookcases. (My real home reflects this) I am an artist, author and jewelry designer in real life and incorporate many of these in my builds. In the past year there have been so many new packs and kits (Crystal creations was right up my alley, as is the new artist studio and goth storybook kit). Would love to see more dark builds. (You have been doing a great job with those) Something perhaps two story with tower rooms, hidden passages, (a place where an Author would enjoy writing thrillers)with a mysterious underground vibe, lots of old world elegance decked out with antiques and portraits, books and perhaps even a hint of spooky Ocotober... :)

  • @gingerjodie1991
    @gingerjodie1991 Час назад +1

    Congrats on the diagnosis! I have PCOS and trying to get listened to is impossible. I got lucky and had a locum GP refer me and within 6 months I had my diagnosis, although they are not curable you can at least manage the symptoms and know how to deal with it all ❤

  • @NicolesBookishNook
    @NicolesBookishNook Час назад +1

    So sorry to hear your medical struggles ❤ I JUST went through the same thing but I found out I have an uneven hip, a building disk, and a wonky spine. That took 2 years. Fun, fun times…

  • @Jar598
    @Jar598 3 часа назад +11

    Bestie can you please make a huge, like huge apartment complex in the get to work world please. I think a huge apartment complex will give Simers a reason to live there lol

  • @nevepercival2829
    @nevepercival2829 3 часа назад +1

    kayla is in her spooky Halloween era with the paranormal videos lately and we love to see it

  • @thebatchild
    @thebatchild 3 часа назад +1

    I built the spaceship from my one novel and used the Star Wars pack A LOT, lol. But not everyone uses The Sims to help visualize things for writing. XD

  • @Gnomey__tori
    @Gnomey__tori 2 часа назад +1

    It’s crazy that I’m watching this today- 2 year anniversary of my diagnostic surgery. I was MIS-diagnosed with endo and I have something called pelvic congestion syndrome. Very similar symptoms and horrible, painful periods. It’s so relieving to have answers and find doctors who LISTEN.

  • @ellaandrews3240
    @ellaandrews3240 3 часа назад +3

    i love these videos so much i try to watch them at 12 everyday❤❤

  • @wandaXmaximoff
    @wandaXmaximoff 10 минут назад

    Thank you for being so open about your endo journey. I’m sorry it took you so long to get answers, but now you have a diagnosis I hope you get the support and treatment you deserve. 💜💜💜

  • @laterkater4213
    @laterkater4213 2 часа назад

    Congrats on the diagnosis! I think endo is WAY more common than anyone realises. I've had incredibly painful periods my whole life and I was 38 before a doctor suggested I might have endo. Still no proper diagnosis, but I'm finally getting some relief from the pain at least (after suffering for 26 years lol).

  • @mariannagregorio2905
    @mariannagregorio2905 2 часа назад +2

    Dan. Start putting word counts, please.
    She said pretty so many times that a counter would make it so funny skksksks
    Also, Kayla, it's good you got a diagnosis. My aunt with endometriosis makes a pretty strong cinnamon tea in her first period day and drinks it so it'll only last one or two days. I hope that helps!!
    Also, also, hi Hope, thanks for the captions, use them in every video!!

  • @Dksimmer
    @Dksimmer 3 часа назад +4

    I am so lucky my doctor also have endo. when I went to the doctor (for something else) while i had my period se saw how pathetic i was and asked me about my periods, and i got my diagnisies whithin a month. I thought i was just whimpy.

  • @ChibiRandom13
    @ChibiRandom13 2 часа назад

    Wild that I just had an endometrial biopsy and am literally laying on my couch recovering while watching this video (I haven't been diagnosed with anything yet and honestly I don't think that's what my issues are) but congrats to Kayla! It's truly relieving to finally have a doctor believe what's going on with you and I can't even imagine how relieving it is to be told they know what's going on and how to help you moving forward

  • @valentine87002
    @valentine87002 54 минуты назад

    ohh congrats on your diagnosis!!! i don't have endo, but i have an (for now undiagnosed) sleep/fatigue issue that i've had a lot of bad experiences trying to figure out, and i'm so glad you got those answers :} the builds are lovely as well, but that's always true lol

  • @JaclynMorris22
    @JaclynMorris22 2 часа назад

    Congrats on getting your diagnosis. I wouldn't worry about the rug or desk too much. If the sim is crafty she probably made it herself and it's supposed to look like that. I'm picturing it like Hazarial Ateliers oversized objects craft room.

  • @erika8934
    @erika8934 2 часа назад

    So much love to all who deal with endo! 💛 The journey is different for all of us, but I see that all suffering with it have gone through such variety of negative experiences it can be hard to even understand it yourself. But we are all so much stronger for it. The diagnosis is the first step towards life with minimized pain and symptoms and so happy that you have an answer now.

  • @AnnaLutes
    @AnnaLutes 2 часа назад

    I was 25 when I finally got my endo diagnosis. No doctor took me seriously, and I had the same fears that I was just sensitive to pain and I couldn't take the pain of my periods. but that's not the case at all I'm strong as heck! I got through each day even tho it was hard. I am so happy that you finally have an answer for what you've gone through. Endo sucks. You have something to go off of and now you can look into what you can do for it. Take care!

  • @Kareen2006
    @Kareen2006 17 минут назад

    Simsie, I had the exact same medical experience. Finally getting a hysterectomy at 36 after a lifetime of the runaround. I'm glad to hear yours has been caught and assessed! It's a comforting feeling, for sure.

  • @ThatGirlShelbyy
    @ThatGirlShelbyy Час назад

    I suspected endo since I was a pre-teen, and only got the diagnosis a few years ago, and treatment recently. Along with being ignored for almost a decade about another suspected auto-immune disease, I was right about everything I suspected.
    I'm glad you finally got your diagnosis too! It's appalling how long it takes for women's health to he taken seriously

  • @myrandakaye
    @myrandakaye 3 часа назад +1

    i have endometriosis & also POTS & possibly ehler’s danlos (not confirmed) & it was SO HARD especially as a woman to get doctors to take me seriously & diagnose me!!! relatableeeee

  • @Spongeboy5432
    @Spongeboy5432 3 часа назад +3

    WE LOVE YOU QUEEN SIMSIE

  • @Kijikun
    @Kijikun Час назад

    I've learned with any pain type thing you have to go at the doctors like 'I just want to figure things out so I can get back to normal" and add in school or work as needed. It sucks, but sometimes that the only way I got anyone to listen before they finally x-rayed my back and found that one of the discs in the middle of my spine (you know that spot where the claps of your bra sits? Yeah right there) is slowly falling apart. Having documentation of all the others things that have been tried helps too.

  • @atakji_art
    @atakji_art 43 минуты назад

    Thank you for opening up about having endometriosis because I think it's not talked about enough. I luckily don't have it but a coworker that I love dearly has it and before she explained it to me I had no idea that it existed tbh. And just talking about it more makes people aware and hopefully helps others who experience horrible period pain figure things out! Even if its not endometriosis, it's better to get things checked out and maybe doctors find it faster when you already have an idea what it could be. At least that was the case with my coworker c:

  • @majakolpe4680
    @majakolpe4680 2 часа назад

    I would love to see you do a bathroom challenge lol. Like having rooms of different sizes and then decorating different bathrooms and expirementing with interesting decor!

  • @kat1114
    @kat1114 2 часа назад

    i completely understand your frustration with your diagnosis. I took 10 years for me to be diagnosed with Lupus. I thought i was losing my mind. I hope now they take you seriously and you will began to get help and support with you condition.

  • @happypety6473
    @happypety6473 21 минуту назад

    I looove unlimited packs builds. they help me discover which packs I like and would consider buying and it's generally more fun to watch imo

  • @SophiaYoung-j7n7n
    @SophiaYoung-j7n7n 3 часа назад +1

    Every time I watch your videos I am convinced of your art and professionalism. Continue to delight us with your creativity!🔨⚾️🚜

  • @ThumperDaeTime
    @ThumperDaeTime 41 минуту назад

    Congrats on the diagnosis! I know I'm a stranger on the internet, but I am truly happy that you have some solid information about what's going on in your body. I hope it can help you mitigate the pain you experience and give you confidence about standing up for your needs in the future. (I don't actually know if (or need to know) that's an issue you deal with; it's just me and all of my anxious friends seem to struggle with.) thank you for all of the joy, kindness, inspiration, and information you pour into this community. you clearly put a lot of constant work into making this channel a good place to be. I know that must be a lot of work and I can't imagine how hard that is to do when your insides are not cooperating. clearly you've mastered it, but I think it's important to get recognition for the effort you've put in.
    ok, I'm gonna go back to not talking to you directly now. I'm always nervous about overstepping that per-social boundary, but I just thought you deserved some kind words. take care

  • @TheLavanderDiary
    @TheLavanderDiary Час назад

    I 100% relate on the two way anxiety about health issues and having to fight for answers from medical professionals! Glad you got some answers ❤

  • @cryingwatercolours
    @cryingwatercolours 3 часа назад

    18:47 my goddd the greens! the best greens and purples aren’t properly matching, not enough natural wood tones like i adore this kit but it’s hard to use 😭

  • @nakseli
    @nakseli 2 часа назад

    I'm so happy you got your answer Kayla. I don't even have endo but I was so dismissed and gaslighted about my period pain when I was younger that I thought it was normal. I only realized I needed way stronger painkillers when I was 21, and only demanded pills to stop the period from coming altogether when I was 24. Healthcare sucks when you're biologically woman.

  • @LIFEWLIVIA
    @LIFEWLIVIA Час назад

    "its halloween, what cani say?" NEEDS to be a tiktok audio!! 🍂

  • @avalonrose1873
    @avalonrose1873 51 минуту назад

    Thank you for being so open about your experience with the healthcare system. I myself have not been believed by doctors throughout most of my life, and it turns out I have some pretty insane things wrong with me. It just feels so nice to be believed and validated that your pain is real.
    My entire life, I thought that everybody else felt the exact same way I did, and they could deal with it, so I must be doing something wrong if everyone else can handle the exact same thing better than I can. It turns out that people don’t feel the way that I do, and if someone just believe me, it would’ve saved me a lot of hurt.

  • @asheketchup1105
    @asheketchup1105 Минуту назад

    feels kinda weird to say "congrats on your potetionally crippling condition" but congrats on finally getting an answer! as someone who's chronically ill, I can relate to the medical gaslighting and the relief that you finally know what's wrong. I also understand the "AM I making this up??" which really says a lot about medical care, especially in America. I know Simsie may not see this, but to anyone who does: don't let the medical gaslighting dissuade you into giving up! You're not crazy or making it up, your problems are real and valid. Also, if you're able to, it could be a good idea to contact your old doctors who refused to help and send them your official diagnosis. The confirmation bias of never hearing anything, which to them means you're fine now, leads them to continue to do this to more people! Also, there's this girl on tiktok who has a medical binder with all her medical history/test results and the like so that you can better stand up for herself to doctors and reduce the time it takes for an answer. I'm looking into doing the same, and it's worth a look!!

  • @bellamarie9926
    @bellamarie9926 Час назад

    Hi Kayla thank you for opening up about your health journey! We should normalize talking about it! It helps so many people feel less alone. I don't have endometriosis but I have other health problems that have been a mystery and it sucks to not get a clear answer, especially by doctors who should be able to help. I also love your videos and your builds. When I'm feeling uninspired your videos remind me how much fun building is

  • @ravynshea3155
    @ravynshea3155 25 минут назад

    The Simsie Momo house! I love the Momo house. it's honestly gorgeous

  • @Kenosaurus
    @Kenosaurus 39 минут назад

    I feel ya on the doctor thing I had a failing kidney when I was 14 and every doctor kept saying it was probably just my period for months (even though I kept saying it definitely wasn't that) so it wasn't until I got taken into urgent care after getting really sick that they bothered to even check my kidneys. Luckily it was just one of them but now it's not the strongest because it went over a year without treatment.

  • @jelissarivas5105
    @jelissarivas5105 Час назад

    I was diagnosed with endometriosis when I was 15, I'm 27 and I still haven't had any treatment. Things get even more tedious because I produce breast milk (high prolactin) and I grow facial hair I have to remove every two days (high testosterone) and what they tell me is that those hormones are high because I'm fat... Okay, and the 25mm ovary vs the other one that's 31mm is because I'm fat, too? I'm glad they are taking you seriously.

  • @girlthatdraws
    @girlthatdraws 3 часа назад +2

    Gorgeous like always!!!

  • @deedeepohlman6833
    @deedeepohlman6833 Час назад

    Congrats on the diagnosis! I’m 30 and just got diagnosed a month ago. It’s so relieving to finally know the answer.

  • @UnassumingLlama
    @UnassumingLlama Час назад

    Congrats on your endo diagnosis Kayla! I’ve recently been diagnosed with PCOS and it took literal years to get it, and I only know about it because I had to look into the test results myself, my doctor never called me, never contacted or communicated with me about it. Just nothing. And she’s also a woman!! Unbelievable. Anyways, I hope you’re able to find a way to make it work for you. Here’s to better health 💕

  • @julv8650
    @julv8650 3 часа назад +6

    i’m super early 🤍🤍

  • @gracielake7586
    @gracielake7586 2 часа назад

    I’ve had the same experience with endometriosis I appreciate you talking about it

  • @mesquitegirl2013
    @mesquitegirl2013 Час назад

    I’m pretty sure I have RA but or some type of arthritis but I’ve never been officially diagnosed, but they did bloodwork for a bunch of stuff that has joint stiffness in the morning and it all came back clear . It can be so frustrating having to be bounced back-and-forth between doctors to get answers especially when you know deep down what’s wrong or you know something is wrong with you

  • @marveludus
    @marveludus Час назад

    So glad you got your diagnosis! I also always had horrible periods with everyone telling me it was "normal", but after nearly 10 years of pain I got my hormone levels checked and it turned out my testosterone levels were double the norm. Who could have known

  • @hsfbhfsbfsb
    @hsfbhfsbfsb 2 часа назад

    omg!!! have fun at the sweat tour!!

  • @Lillian-o3c
    @Lillian-o3c 3 часа назад +1

    Love the build

  • @Owlface12528
    @Owlface12528 2 часа назад

    I saw someone say how early simmers felt about seasons is how they feel about life and death and I fully agree.

  • @LonelyHeartsClubforever
    @LonelyHeartsClubforever 3 часа назад

    LIL SIMSIE I LOVE YOU

  • @baralinni79
    @baralinni79 2 часа назад

    Congrats on your diagnosis!! 💖💖 I haven't followed you for very long or watched any of your full streams so I hadn't heard about your problems, but I'm so happy for you and that you were taken seriously! 💖🥳 I'm currently 5 years into becoming more and more certain that I have endo, and I'm slowly collecting research and other ppl's experiences so I can slam a slab of evidence papers onto the doctor's desk if I have to go to the ER again and they say nothing's wrong with me 😂😈

  • @extraterrestrial.cherries
    @extraterrestrial.cherries Час назад

    i have endo too! it runs in y family and i also thought it was normal because my mom thought those pains were normal too lol- but i talked with my grandma about it and she said that it runs in the family fr me and i had to break the news to my mom that no that pain is not normal. i used to miss school a lot because of how bad it gets sometimes and the anxiety of what if it is normal and i'm just a baby is so so real- as someone who's disabled and has multiple chronic illnesses i feel that so much, especially before i understood what was wrong with me 😭 and then of course the anxiety would make those symptoms worse and it was just and endless cycle TT

  • @pestinora
    @pestinora 2 часа назад

    The idea reminds me of Lilith and Angela Pleasant from TS2 ♡

  • @iambadatnamingthings3547
    @iambadatnamingthings3547 2 часа назад

    I’m glad you’re sharing your diagnosis so openly and explain it too, women are unimportant when it comes to health care leading to way too many preventable deaths

  • @MelissaLawrence2002
    @MelissaLawrence2002 Час назад

    As an endo warrior myself who has had to battle doctors pretty much my whole life, I wish you the best of luck. Look for a specialist that does excision surgery. Don't see a normal gynecologist, they don't know squat. Take this from someone who suffered a lot because I trusted a gynecologist. Look for an endo specialist, and if they're several states away, trust me when I say they are worth the time, money, and travel. Don't make the same mistakes I did.

  • @xJacquelineBx
    @xJacquelineBx 3 часа назад +2

    right there with u re: endometriosis diagnosis

  • @taykoutmccleod
    @taykoutmccleod 2 часа назад

    I don't mean to sound like I'm making fun of it because I know it's not a joke. but also, there IS some comedic relief in these videos where Kayla's like "look at this thingie I built for my blorbo. also, here's my medical history in a lore drop that might make you re-evaluate how you see people in general. anyway, look! I gave them monkey bars!"
    hopefully this newest lore drop will have a "feasible treatment" dlc!

  • @arby64
    @arby64 2 часа назад

    HEY has anyone else seen the mention of skill building and "quilts" in the same sentence in the EA app? QUILTING SKILL??? trying not to get too excited about that JIC I'm wrong 😭