Pay Attention to Their Accusations Cheaters often say, “You have trust issues.” Manipulators tell you, “You’re overthinking.” People who provoke you claim, “You’re overreacting.” Liars label you as “crazy,” and those who hurt you insist, “You’re too sensitive.” These phrases are not just dismissive-they’re calculated attempts to shift attention away from their actions and place the blame on you. When someone accuses you of feelings like distrust, overthinking, or oversensitivity, they’re often projecting their own behaviour onto you. Cheaters deflect suspicion by making you doubt your valid concerns. Manipulators claim you’re overthinking to discourage you from questioning their motives. Those who provoke or deceive you frame your reactions as irrational to make you question your judgment. This tactic, often called gaslighting, is designed to make you second-guess your reality. Over time, it can erode your confidence and make you feel like you’re always in the wrong. Pay attention to how others respond to your feelings. A healthy relationship fosters open communication and mutual understanding. If someone dismisses your emotions or shifts blame onto you, it’s a red flag. Trust your instincts-they often reveal the truth that others are trying to hide. Recognising these behaviours is the first step toward protecting your emotional well-being.
Absolutely true, Elizabeth. Pay attention to what they do and the way they make you feel. The way they treat you reveals a lot about themselves. Their accusations are their own confessions. Facts 💯
One of the biggest red flags is when they constantly accuse just about everyone else of being toxic, narcissistic, or jealous of them. I still think it's very sad that a person projects like this, whether it's intentional or not. Not negating from the harm they're capable of causing.
It took me a long time to actually digest this information. You can accept it on an intellectual level but to finally accept it on a gut level needs a wee bit more time, but when one acknowledges and accepts that this is the gaslighting that is being presented one can accept that this is the reality . Good for you . Thank you for sharing this knowledge ❤😂
Yes " you have trust issue's" a guy told me recently. Nope. I was simply cautious as we all should be, men and women. If we don't comply a manipulator will attack us one way or another. Also, narcissists will skip politeness easily in introduction stage. They will judge us psychologically for being ourselves. The breaking down process starts quickly!
Just saying to a narcissist I don't trust you anymore gets this guilty response of shouting and swearing in order to intimidate you into taking back the truth,if they don't do it face to face they will do it in a text like Marie did, when they know your not afraid of them it's a cowardly way to send a text and not face you, keep your faith and we will be ok🌹❤️
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Pay Attention to Their Accusations
Cheaters often say, “You have trust issues.” Manipulators tell you, “You’re overthinking.” People who provoke you claim, “You’re overreacting.” Liars label you as “crazy,” and those who hurt you insist, “You’re too sensitive.” These phrases are not just dismissive-they’re calculated attempts to shift attention away from their actions and place the blame on you.
When someone accuses you of feelings like distrust, overthinking, or oversensitivity, they’re often projecting their own behaviour onto you. Cheaters deflect suspicion by making you doubt your valid concerns. Manipulators claim you’re overthinking to discourage you from questioning their motives. Those who provoke or deceive you frame your reactions as irrational to make you question your judgment.
This tactic, often called gaslighting, is designed to make you second-guess your reality. Over time, it can erode your confidence and make you feel like you’re always in the wrong.
Pay attention to how others respond to your feelings. A healthy relationship fosters open communication and mutual understanding. If someone dismisses your emotions or shifts blame onto you, it’s a red flag. Trust your instincts-they often reveal the truth that others are trying to hide. Recognising these behaviours is the first step toward protecting your emotional well-being.
Spot on, Elizabeth. Facts 💯
Absolutely true, Elizabeth. Pay attention to what they do and the way they make you feel. The way they treat you reveals a lot about themselves. Their accusations are their own confessions. Facts 💯
You're looking gorgeous, Elizabeth. Thanks for everything you do 🙏🏻💜
One of the biggest red flags is when they constantly accuse just about everyone else of being toxic, narcissistic, or jealous of them. I still think it's very sad that a person projects like this, whether it's intentional or not. Not negating from the harm they're capable of causing.
They accuse you of insinuating things you never were, meaning there are always hidden meanings behind their words and actions.
It took me a long time to actually digest this information. You can accept it on an intellectual level but to finally accept it on a gut level needs a wee bit more time, but when one acknowledges and accepts that this is the gaslighting that is being presented one can accept that this is the reality .
Good for you .
Thank you for sharing this knowledge ❤😂
I dumped and left the narc spouse refuse to speak to him he has been trying so hard to get me to talk to him no way 🔥🔥🔥
I watch all of these and every one is spot on.
Seeing it helps put it behind me, but at the time,
without understanding, it can just destroy you
My frienemy 😮
True they wouldn’t hurt you thank you Elizabeth ❤❤
🎉🎉🎉🎉 moving on
Awesome description 🎉🎉🎉
Yes " you have trust issue's" a guy told me recently. Nope. I was simply cautious as we all should be, men and women. If we don't comply a manipulator will attack us one way or another.
Also, narcissists will skip politeness easily in introduction stage.
They will judge us psychologically for being ourselves. The breaking down process starts quickly!
...and if they somehow did accept your hurt, it will be your fault.
Yes! Put perfectly! 👌🏼❤❤❤
🎯💯 My ex-husband. Left, went no-contact & haven’t looked back.
So TRUE!!!
Don’t forget about when they accuse YOU of cheating but it’s because they’re cheating (and know how easy it is to do)
Just saying to a narcissist I don't trust you anymore gets this guilty response of shouting and swearing in order to intimidate you into taking back the truth,if they don't do it face to face they will do it in a text like Marie did, when they know your not afraid of them it's a cowardly way to send a text and not face you, keep your faith and we will be ok🌹❤️
❤hello and have a wonderful weekend ❤
Thank you! You too!
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